The cousin might even come in (if they start dating seriously) and say that they did things on OF. Then the situation gets MESSY.

Imagine it gets serious and they go to meet his family and the cousin is there 💀

I don't think Fuhad and James realize how impactful their podcast is. I catch myself talking in a british accent more often now just cuz i know the lingo. I've got my whole job talking in one

The fact that she has history with his cousin is enough to end things. It will never end well

if she had included the fact that the cousin was in an OF video with her from the jump, there wouldn't be a dilemma. omitting important details always causes future problems 😭😭 but not telling them now, is honestly horrible advice 💀💀

Lmao James realizing his insecurity mid pod…it’s cool Jimmy, most of us have it too 😂.

You can't tell me I'm Insecure because I don't want my girl on the internet getting her back blown out ...WHATTT??!!

I kind of feel like if she’s already asking if she should tell him that, she’s already pretty invested even though they haven’t met. She doesn’t feel like “this is so low key I don’t owe him more.” Fuad is right that it depends on your intention with this whole relationship.

She put the video on OF. She’s okay with everyone on the plant knowing that this guys cousin blew her back out, so why’s she hiding it from this one dude?

5 yrs is a relationship.

Once the OF comes out his ego will kick in and it's over

Bra hell no dipping tf out 😂

Not telling this person is probably the worst advice I've heard them give lol...if it's just sleeping around who cares, you don’t owe them anything. But if it's something serious she is looking for with this person then just tell him especially if you think it may be a relationship ender. If it ends now no hard feelings everyone gets to move on. But to develop feelings, trust, bond, spend time, grow closer and then tell them is just so much worse for everyone involved especially if you knew this was a possible big issue

My thing is: what else would she be willing to hide if she just “imagined” I’d feel a way? I’d never be able to trust her again. Especially if she waited a while. She built the relationship on a lie she probably didn’t have to tell

The honest truth is that it’s over and she knows that’s why she’s asking. How are those family reunions supposed to go 👀💀

I feel like she should leave that man alone, damage has already been done. It’s life. Someone else is out there for both of you two.

Loved the morning laugh! Thanx! From the U.P of Michigan in the US.

THE COUSIN HAD TOLD HIM ABOUT YOU AT ONE OF THOSE MOMENTS WHEN HE THOUGHT HE WAS DONE WITH YOU. He’s chill with it cuz he already knew… so he’s low key scouted you.😂 run

No one thought of just taking that video off the OF. LOL> You guys crack me up.

I like how this time around they had a somewhat answer instead of resounding one if that makes sense. The situation is hella tricky and I don’t think it’s insecurity when you tryna deep how this could affect you long term. Bc while folks can do things for no reason, most ppl do everything with an intention and I will say, nobody wanna feel like they getting less than someone before them in a situation or relationship like this.

Yall make me laugh too hard 😂😂

He probably knows and his cousin most likely told him about it😂

it's so fascinating coming in early and just watching the likes increase rapidly, like wow I'm not the only one who loves these guys

Never clicked so fast in my life. I needed a double dose of these Gents. ❤

She shouldn't tell him. If he's okay with her having been with his cousin, then he's probably not in it for the long term anyway.

Heyyyyy FUHAD 😍

I love that James was man enough to admit that the situation was causing insecurities within himself that he knew he wasn’t able to handle that for himself and I respect the hell out of that.

0:50 Just leave him alone. What is there to think about ? 😂

The cousin knows that’s why he’s interested! He wants his turn😂

So are we just gonna act like her dating this guys cousin is a coincidence 😂😂... She wants ALL THE SMOKE!!

James needs a SNICKER! 😂

Take the cousin video down. Problem solved

He already knows about the cousins and maybe the OF too. 🤷🏾‍♂️

2:55 this is the logic that racks everyone's brain 🧠

As men I thought y'all would hv considered that the cousin she's smashing, set this whole thing up!!! Lol.... The other cousin might just be there for his share too

@1:54 ... 🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣😂😂 ... i LOVE YOU, James!

JAMES... LIGHT SKIN ACTIVATED!!! BRO YOU FUNNY AS HELL

People really be putting themselves in these types of situations …it’s MADNESS. WE ARE MADNESS

"I wanna know what my cousin got up to" is crazy hahahaha

Five years! it's not just sex

The fact she has an onlyfans says shes for the streets

He probably knows she has an OF 😂 he has seen it already

There’s always the possibility that the cousin already told him and thats why he reached out on FB in the first place. The fact that she’s on OF having 🐱🍆💦 and she’s concerned about telling him about the cousin is crazy lol.. how many other guys are on there?

The bruv saw the video and he's curious af! He doesn't give a fuck 😂 he has no shame

Lol..the cousins already know

The boyz not understanding the concept of don't fix what ain't broke 😂 I assure, it could easily just be the bare essentials and nothing more

Speaking as the bro. I couldn't do my cousin like that, like, oh nah - I ain't sharing hoes. Once it's been bitten into, I don't want a bite.

Cousin could've put em on the play 👀. You cared enough to ask about the mutual friend and were semi honest. You just may be easy sweetheart or he's on point on how to get you through the cousin

If she is not going to tell him the WHOLE truth then she should just dip. Bow out gracefully girl thats wild.

Chirp chirp

James is just me... FOR REAL LMAO

Preach James!!!!!! That statement “ at certain periods of your life you don’t owe anyone your truth”

She did it. Own it. Why is she concerned now???

love you guys 💕

I had to rewatch this because I thought they said she slept with her cousin 😅

5 years is crazy

His Cousin will Def tell him!!!!

this girl doing a mr beast challenge or sumn. how many family members can i secretly make content with

If she is looking for something serious then she needs to tell him, if it's a no go then don't waste either of your time. If its just about hitting then no need to tell him anything.

I stopped at cousin!

Yay

She OWNS him an explanation if she wants to date him

Listen to these man, they would be mad at there cousin for something he’s already done 😂😂😂😂😂

The cousin is going to tell him. She needs to fess up first.

Big man knows cousin slipped in and he was sent with references

Plot twist, he knows and has seen the video and looked her up.

She should have left as soon as she saw the mutual friend.

‘Tis a no

She trippin if she don't think he hit his cousin up after finding out. He did his research and already got her in the fun category. She should dip if she likes him and want more.

It’s a wild one

I would say tell him on the 2nd link up.

Imo. She was in a relationship with the cousin, on and off. I dont feel she will be wifey material, she does OF. So if I was her, dont tell him. But if I was him. Dip 💀😂

I was coming to the comments expecting to see ppl echoing the same thoughts I was having and was supremely disappointed 😒 She already did her part telling the guy that she’s hooked up with the cousin and how long it was going on for. It doesn’t make any difference that they ever recorded it and/or posted it on OF. As long as he knows about the OF and knows about the history with his cousin, the in between doesn’t matter whatsoever. Only reason she’d be obligated to tell him is if he wanted to look at her page to give him a heads up so he doesn’t accidentally see his cousin laying it down lol

ahhhh i’ve never been this earlyyy☺️☺️

Lol she got a of what the hell he doing beside hitting that anyways

This some ol’ HBCU confessions (@HBCUfessions) type stuff

Personally I would feel that is info I would like to have at the start, because I know I'm not going to get serious with someone who has videos of themselves getting piped by next man on the internet. Once you let that in, you know some crazy ass story is coming out a year down the line at a family event 'oh, wait...with my cousin? really babe?' - you're just asking for it at that stage. If she doesn't admit she piped his cousin from the get go, then it's already a doomed relationship regardless, because finding that out later on is going to lead to a lot of hurt feelings and fractured relationships. So much simpler to know at the start to make that informed decision 'Oh bet, this girl I've been chatting to has been with my cousin and has an OF, I will not take this further'.

The guy obviously knew the whole story from the jump and wanted a free sample. She should forget playing this game and dip!

Honestly, if they are close cousins, he already knows

Guys are looking fresh.

Better to tell it now then later.

From she said, she slept with his cousin, he should already be speaking to the Cousin. Cousin will give him the lowdown of what went on between them.

Frfr it depends on how serious she wants the relationship to be

I feel like I would just have to hear the dude's side of the story, like how he really took it and what he's actually looking for in the relationship. Hands down, just like Fuhad and James said, it's 5 years. FIVE. That's definitely a LONG time to be "just hooking up" with someone. I do think that her not telling him isn't too bad of an idea though because the biggest factor is if they actually intend to be something more than just a hookup or a fling. Another key factor is the fact that they haven't even met yet. I feel like it should hands down be told before going the exclusive relationship route or just like boyfriend/girlfriend. Whether they meet before then or not doesn't matter. If they intend to actually go that route, if she really sees herself being with him on a more emotional level like that, then say something. If they're just chatting and such, taking like a more friendship kind of route then it doesn't seem like a big deal. If she withholds it because she thinks he won't be interested anymore then that feels more problematic. If she withholds it because they're just friends or something more along those lines, then I'd say she doesn't really owe him the explanation. Like James said, I'm at the age, too, where I feel like I don't really owe people explanations because a lot of the time they don't matter and people don't care. Something else is whether she spoke to the cousin about it or whether the guy brought it up to the cousin. I just can't help thinking that there's so much more to those five years between her and the cousin, who she hasn't said that she's stopped talking to by the way. It's a tough one overall but intentions make a huge difference here. *edited for a typo

But if you don't tell him then also the cousin could see yall talking and then tell you himself so yea you are kinda just stuck. Tough situation fr

YOOOO WHENS THE NEXT TWEET OF THE WEEK OR MONTH!?!?!

Cousin...... haven't meet yet. I think he might already know

She needs to come clean straightaway. Not only does she do OF - which will put any men worth his salt off straight away, she’s done it with man’s cousin - which again, will put any man worth his salt off. She needs to charge it. Move on and hope a simp accepts her.

Nah! I’ve been messing with someone for almost 7 years now and it really is just sex! 🤷‍♀️

What if he already knew, his cousin already showed him his video and told him he should try her, or he decided on himself to get some of that sweet his cousin had? Some men are really twisted. I think she just should tell him she has/had an only fan account to see his reaction, if he still wants to be with her she should tell him about the video with his cousin. If he's still there then fine they can get together but she should understand that he's probably gonna be there just for fun and nothing serious but there is also a little probability he really loves her and really want to have a serious relationship with her. But it's better to come clean and see where that brings them.

Bro, I need to stop reading these “what if” and “Imagine…” comments before my cousin receives a WILD text demanding a fade over some shit he never did 😂🤣

Well, it will be for recreational use.😅😅

Tbf she probably had that initial attraction to him anyway bc he reminded her of his cousin. That's one quarter the same DNA, plus the general family behaviors and attitudes

Dip. Let it go. Make better choices...

Yo Love from Nigeria

Let him in on your OF secret so the boy can run.

All he got to do is ask his cousin then bang and run or bang and stay

Women really dead live in they own world…”It was just five years” shorty talking like that’s 5 months or 5 weeks. FOH😂😂😂

The reason I think he doesn’t care… is because he already knows. He’s trying to see what the hype is about.

😂😂😂 omg people are that crazy why asking you know they are nooo way he gonna accept that