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@PhoenixMasta11 ай бұрын
The cousin might even come in (if they start dating seriously) and say that they did things on OF. Then the situation gets MESSY.
@lataysialacey585911 ай бұрын
Facts!
@Gioheidi11 ай бұрын
I have a feeling she wants to know what other goodies she can find within’ the family. Honestly , if you bang someone just for the sake of it for 5 YEARS it means the TING is good.. i feel like she is like “i wonder What the cousin has to offer” (maybe He’s even more good looking than the dude she already slept with )
@KyreeTube11 ай бұрын
Imagine it gets serious and they go to meet his family and the cousin is there 💀
@Darksijious11 ай бұрын
Brah!!! The tension would be brazyyy!😂
@victorowen259211 ай бұрын
@@Darksijiousthat would be the first time I run out the house with no context 😂😂😂
@MrBarneyDinosaur11 ай бұрын
They should record that too because that fight would do numbers on Pay Per View.
@kierrawilliams564811 ай бұрын
Lowkey sounds like a rom com lol
@AymnQo11 ай бұрын
"Been there did that"
@sonnyst-fleur945911 ай бұрын
I don't think Fuhad and James realize how impactful their podcast is. I catch myself talking in a british accent more often now just cuz i know the lingo. I've got my whole job talking in one
@CorporateGal11 ай бұрын
Same! FAAAAMM, I’m vexed wit my ting! Gang gang gang …say less 😂
@cherie710011 ай бұрын
That's not even a 'British accent' I would go for street lingo over accent.
@yvonnetaylor583411 ай бұрын
You been saying "sweeeear?" and "say less!"? 😅
@tisha4lives11 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@s0ne0110 ай бұрын
@@cherie7100but using British slang automatically makes you sound a little British. Same with american slang.
@themandlaziman11 ай бұрын
The fact that she has history with his cousin is enough to end things. It will never end well
@dragobantai11 ай бұрын
I mean not necessarily 😂. It'd be different if she'd banged my brother or a close cousin but a random cousin I don't even talk might as well count as a stranger she banged
@NotSoberShober11 ай бұрын
Not necessarily, I hooked up with a dude once and I ghosted him because he would not take no as an answer two years later he was dating my cousin we acted like we had never met and just carried on they eventually broke up and to this day she doesn't know 😂
@Focus29311 ай бұрын
@@NotSoberShoberyou sure about that? Cause if you can keep a secret like that what makes you think she didn't find out and choose to keep it a secret too? 🤔
@Gefahrbabushkin10 ай бұрын
FACTS I know based on myself it would be so hard to be okay with knowing that ever happened. It's not worth it it can't end well it'll always be in your head
@msunje986210 ай бұрын
@@Focus293maybe they both …met some people like that
@precious760411 ай бұрын
if she had included the fact that the cousin was in an OF video with her from the jump, there wouldn't be a dilemma. omitting important details always causes future problems 😭😭 but not telling them now, is honestly horrible advice 💀💀
@lataysialacey585911 ай бұрын
Literally! Bc now you’re going to come back with information that’s new to me but old to you and you knew you thought it was significant. I can’t stand liars. 🙄
@lataysialacey585910 ай бұрын
@accessdenied4711 onlyfans video
@robertricks857410 ай бұрын
@accessdenied4711 go to sleep child
@holoxc10 ай бұрын
@accessdenied4711onlyfans video
@happycuddles862510 ай бұрын
@accessdenied4711 it means a video on "only fans" which is a subscription service where people post normal to sexual content and people subscribe to watch that. So she has a video doing the deed with his cousin that people pay to watch
@Arrancar6grimmjow611 ай бұрын
Lmao James realizing his insecurity mid pod…it’s cool Jimmy, most of us have it too 😂.
@JaylinGant11 ай бұрын
You can't tell me I'm Insecure because I don't want my girl on the internet getting her back blown out ...WHATTT??!!
@MissAynneK9 ай бұрын
It's definitely not an insecurity. It's probably better defined as a preference. I too would not be happy seeing my man blow out some gyal's back on the internet. Some people are okay with it though 🤷🏾♀️
@KA-xs7vl11 ай бұрын
I kind of feel like if she’s already asking if she should tell him that, she’s already pretty invested even though they haven’t met. She doesn’t feel like “this is so low key I don’t owe him more.” Fuad is right that it depends on your intention with this whole relationship.
@TheTsugnawmi201011 ай бұрын
She put the video on OF. She’s okay with everyone on the plant knowing that this guys cousin blew her back out, so why’s she hiding it from this one dude?
@msunje986210 ай бұрын
Bc she actually likes/In love with him. She probably knows this is short term relationship thus wanting to enjoy the moment
@VenturesOfStubbs11 ай бұрын
5 yrs is a relationship.
@tonybarlow429111 ай бұрын
Once the OF comes out his ego will kick in and it's over
@user-tx2so7tm9v11 ай бұрын
Bra hell no dipping tf out 😂
@walternolasco905211 ай бұрын
Not telling this person is probably the worst advice I've heard them give lol...if it's just sleeping around who cares, you don’t owe them anything. But if it's something serious she is looking for with this person then just tell him especially if you think it may be a relationship ender. If it ends now no hard feelings everyone gets to move on. But to develop feelings, trust, bond, spend time, grow closer and then tell them is just so much worse for everyone involved especially if you knew this was a possible big issue
@DRYang-vs9oi11 ай бұрын
This is what they said though They said if it just got sex keep it to self If going for serious better to tell them noe
@lataysialacey585911 ай бұрын
Thank you! The fact that she’s asking proves she knows it could be something that ends the relationship and the only reason she’s torn is bc she’s weighing the outcome benefitting her over him. Everyone deserves to have full knowledgeable of what they’re getting into. He was already cool abt the first half of the truth, she’s not even giving him the opportunity to show her how he feels abt it. He may surprise her. Or he may just say he can’t handle it. But that’s his choice. Withholding information takes that choice away and it’s unfair to him.
@frederickokocha390411 ай бұрын
@@lataysialacey5859 thank you for giving honestly good advice
@docpox390011 ай бұрын
My thing is: what else would she be willing to hide if she just “imagined” I’d feel a way? I’d never be able to trust her again. Especially if she waited a while. She built the relationship on a lie she probably didn’t have to tell
@vegetasamatv11 ай бұрын
The honest truth is that it’s over and she knows that’s why she’s asking. How are those family reunions supposed to go 👀💀
@sabrinabynum957311 ай бұрын
I feel like she should leave that man alone, damage has already been done. It’s life. Someone else is out there for both of you two.
@jamiejoshoemaker584511 ай бұрын
Loved the morning laugh! Thanx! From the U.P of Michigan in the US.
@MaeveMcCollum11 ай бұрын
THE COUSIN HAD TOLD HIM ABOUT YOU AT ONE OF THOSE MOMENTS WHEN HE THOUGHT HE WAS DONE WITH YOU. He’s chill with it cuz he already knew… so he’s low key scouted you.😂 run
@LPnerd11 ай бұрын
No one thought of just taking that video off the OF. LOL> You guys crack me up.
@KevinTHO11 ай бұрын
I like how this time around they had a somewhat answer instead of resounding one if that makes sense. The situation is hella tricky and I don’t think it’s insecurity when you tryna deep how this could affect you long term. Bc while folks can do things for no reason, most ppl do everything with an intention and I will say, nobody wanna feel like they getting less than someone before them in a situation or relationship like this.
@wwinkie11 ай бұрын
Yall make me laugh too hard 😂😂
@moons436311 ай бұрын
He probably knows and his cousin most likely told him about it😂
@denyshadials570211 ай бұрын
Exactly, 5 years? Girl please 🤦🏾♀️ cousin told him what to say and what to do. Probably showed him 👀
@moons436311 ай бұрын
@@denyshadials5702 yep he properly told him you can give her a try
@victorowen259211 ай бұрын
Y’all smart 😂😂😂😂
@moons436311 ай бұрын
@@victorowen2592 lol though it was common sense😂
@grownishbambino795611 ай бұрын
it's so fascinating coming in early and just watching the likes increase rapidly, like wow I'm not the only one who loves these guys
@coranewton309511 ай бұрын
Never clicked so fast in my life. I needed a double dose of these Gents. ❤
@lou5021zz11 ай бұрын
@adrianc.8879fuck beat me to it. pause
@digthewarmth11 ай бұрын
She shouldn't tell him. If he's okay with her having been with his cousin, then he's probably not in it for the long term anyway.
@karinashilongo11 ай бұрын
Agreed 😂
@yvonnetaylor583411 ай бұрын
Exactly what I said
@msprincess1on111 ай бұрын
Heyyyyy FUHAD 😍
@Risamerijaan5 ай бұрын
I love that James was man enough to admit that the situation was causing insecurities within himself that he knew he wasn’t able to handle that for himself and I respect the hell out of that.
@roinretrospect838811 ай бұрын
0:50 Just leave him alone. What is there to think about ? 😂
@kevinjackson726411 ай бұрын
The cousin knows that’s why he’s interested! He wants his turn😂
@farqy66811 ай бұрын
So are we just gonna act like her dating this guys cousin is a coincidence 😂😂... She wants ALL THE SMOKE!!
@SunShinesBlessing11 ай бұрын
James needs a SNICKER! 😂
@DJB199111 ай бұрын
Take the cousin video down. Problem solved
@dele1811 ай бұрын
Probably her best seller 😂but you right
@nocturnal954411 ай бұрын
He already knows about the cousins and maybe the OF too. 🤷🏾♂️
@oumryeternity787111 ай бұрын
My opinion too, he's even probably the cousin cat fishing her to see if she's still into him or she's seeing someone else. Internet is such a crazy space 😅
@parkhaus__11 ай бұрын
2:55 this is the logic that racks everyone's brain 🧠
@kimmyg212511 ай бұрын
As men I thought y'all would hv considered that the cousin she's smashing, set this whole thing up!!! Lol.... The other cousin might just be there for his share too
@oumryeternity787111 ай бұрын
We need an update 😂
@ginahouston935211 ай бұрын
@1:54 ... 🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣😂😂 ... i LOVE YOU, James!
@ginahouston935211 ай бұрын
and, raaaaahhhh.... deep topic.... to tell or NOT to tell, and WHEN? ... 🤔
@JOHNJOHNSON-qk2zh11 ай бұрын
JAMES... LIGHT SKIN ACTIVATED!!! BRO YOU FUNNY AS HELL
@bulletguitar1411 ай бұрын
People really be putting themselves in these types of situations …it’s MADNESS. WE ARE MADNESS
@bri9318 ай бұрын
"I wanna know what my cousin got up to" is crazy hahahaha
@fugiko202011 ай бұрын
Five years! it's not just sex
@bgcno211 ай бұрын
The fact she has an onlyfans says shes for the streets
@jameswatson58077 ай бұрын
Nah it is hard times I would have no issue if my woman did an only fans, before we met. As long as she did not fuck some guy and put it on there. Most of the only fan stuff is tame like no titty at all.
@junomcguff11 ай бұрын
He probably knows she has an OF 😂 he has seen it already
@sofya655311 ай бұрын
Maybe the cousins face isnt in the video, but it's his favorite video and he doesnt know why
@colbybarney687011 ай бұрын
There’s always the possibility that the cousin already told him and thats why he reached out on FB in the first place. The fact that she’s on OF having 🐱🍆💦 and she’s concerned about telling him about the cousin is crazy lol.. how many other guys are on there?
@suekay67711 ай бұрын
The bruv saw the video and he's curious af! He doesn't give a fuck 😂 he has no shame
@no1way8_.11 ай бұрын
Lol..the cousins already know
@Iwasonceanonionwithnolayers11 ай бұрын
The boyz not understanding the concept of don't fix what ain't broke 😂 I assure, it could easily just be the bare essentials and nothing more
@SuperImmortal11 ай бұрын
Speaking as the bro. I couldn't do my cousin like that, like, oh nah - I ain't sharing hoes. Once it's been bitten into, I don't want a bite.
@tevontatum873211 ай бұрын
Cousin could've put em on the play 👀. You cared enough to ask about the mutual friend and were semi honest. You just may be easy sweetheart or he's on point on how to get you through the cousin
@rubystruth11 ай бұрын
If she is not going to tell him the WHOLE truth then she should just dip. Bow out gracefully girl thats wild.
@mcminecraftman11 ай бұрын
Chirp chirp
@Insane_infant.2G11 ай бұрын
James is just me... FOR REAL LMAO
@avalonsalina2111 ай бұрын
Preach James!!!!!! That statement “ at certain periods of your life you don’t owe anyone your truth”
@brownie785811 ай бұрын
Yeah why would you tell the person your talking to that you made a sex tape with their family members lol
@Smooshes78611 ай бұрын
She did it. Own it. Why is she concerned now???
@hollyfoukx881311 ай бұрын
love you guys 💕
@mrqzbelle11 ай бұрын
I had to rewatch this because I thought they said she slept with her cousin 😅
@DaddyD3r3k11 ай бұрын
5 years is crazy
@AmanzeNzeh11 ай бұрын
His Cousin will Def tell him!!!!
@grumblethegreat210211 ай бұрын
this girl doing a mr beast challenge or sumn. how many family members can i secretly make content with
@reneafon444911 ай бұрын
If she is looking for something serious then she needs to tell him, if it's a no go then don't waste either of your time. If its just about hitting then no need to tell him anything.
@reginafromrio11 ай бұрын
I stopped at cousin!
@nazifamiah522611 ай бұрын
Yay
@sha607711 ай бұрын
She OWNS him an explanation if she wants to date him
@englishjona645811 ай бұрын
Listen to these man, they would be mad at there cousin for something he’s already done 😂😂😂😂😂
@debeightonethree634611 ай бұрын
The cousin is going to tell him. She needs to fess up first.
@KingBeau00711 ай бұрын
Big man knows cousin slipped in and he was sent with references
@anonymousdonor11 ай бұрын
Plot twist, he knows and has seen the video and looked her up.
@char911411 ай бұрын
Or another plot twist, cuz doesn't even know he has a starring role on her OF... and his cuz on route for a potential double dip 🥴🥴
@JosieReacts11 ай бұрын
She should have left as soon as she saw the mutual friend.
@codedee11 ай бұрын
‘Tis a no
@coachbrit510711 ай бұрын
She trippin if she don't think he hit his cousin up after finding out. He did his research and already got her in the fun category. She should dip if she likes him and want more.
@samuelokpala_11 ай бұрын
It’s a wild one
@shaylynn72211 ай бұрын
I would say tell him on the 2nd link up.
@jayjaytv_422611 ай бұрын
Imo. She was in a relationship with the cousin, on and off. I dont feel she will be wifey material, she does OF. So if I was her, dont tell him. But if I was him. Dip 💀😂
@mackenziec73037 ай бұрын
I was coming to the comments expecting to see ppl echoing the same thoughts I was having and was supremely disappointed 😒 She already did her part telling the guy that she’s hooked up with the cousin and how long it was going on for. It doesn’t make any difference that they ever recorded it and/or posted it on OF. As long as he knows about the OF and knows about the history with his cousin, the in between doesn’t matter whatsoever. Only reason she’d be obligated to tell him is if he wanted to look at her page to give him a heads up so he doesn’t accidentally see his cousin laying it down lol
@aniyastrickland186211 ай бұрын
ahhhh i’ve never been this earlyyy☺️☺️
@swiggyv956911 ай бұрын
Lol she got a of what the hell he doing beside hitting that anyways
@ceasetheday8711 ай бұрын
This some ol’ HBCU confessions (@HBCUfessions) type stuff
@blazingicerage11 ай бұрын
Personally I would feel that is info I would like to have at the start, because I know I'm not going to get serious with someone who has videos of themselves getting piped by next man on the internet. Once you let that in, you know some crazy ass story is coming out a year down the line at a family event 'oh, wait...with my cousin? really babe?' - you're just asking for it at that stage. If she doesn't admit she piped his cousin from the get go, then it's already a doomed relationship regardless, because finding that out later on is going to lead to a lot of hurt feelings and fractured relationships. So much simpler to know at the start to make that informed decision 'Oh bet, this girl I've been chatting to has been with my cousin and has an OF, I will not take this further'.
@nettmitch345211 ай бұрын
The guy obviously knew the whole story from the jump and wanted a free sample. She should forget playing this game and dip!
@tineocindy11 ай бұрын
Honestly, if they are close cousins, he already knows
@lucillejuliusdevos883911 ай бұрын
Guys are looking fresh.
@goldentop173711 ай бұрын
Better to tell it now then later.
@Kanine8611 ай бұрын
From she said, she slept with his cousin, he should already be speaking to the Cousin. Cousin will give him the lowdown of what went on between them.
@DatFeature11 ай бұрын
Frfr it depends on how serious she wants the relationship to be
@AmbieAssassin11 ай бұрын
I feel like I would just have to hear the dude's side of the story, like how he really took it and what he's actually looking for in the relationship. Hands down, just like Fuhad and James said, it's 5 years. FIVE. That's definitely a LONG time to be "just hooking up" with someone. I do think that her not telling him isn't too bad of an idea though because the biggest factor is if they actually intend to be something more than just a hookup or a fling. Another key factor is the fact that they haven't even met yet. I feel like it should hands down be told before going the exclusive relationship route or just like boyfriend/girlfriend. Whether they meet before then or not doesn't matter. If they intend to actually go that route, if she really sees herself being with him on a more emotional level like that, then say something. If they're just chatting and such, taking like a more friendship kind of route then it doesn't seem like a big deal. If she withholds it because she thinks he won't be interested anymore then that feels more problematic. If she withholds it because they're just friends or something more along those lines, then I'd say she doesn't really owe him the explanation. Like James said, I'm at the age, too, where I feel like I don't really owe people explanations because a lot of the time they don't matter and people don't care. Something else is whether she spoke to the cousin about it or whether the guy brought it up to the cousin. I just can't help thinking that there's so much more to those five years between her and the cousin, who she hasn't said that she's stopped talking to by the way. It's a tough one overall but intentions make a huge difference here. *edited for a typo
@GOATexp11 ай бұрын
But if you don't tell him then also the cousin could see yall talking and then tell you himself so yea you are kinda just stuck. Tough situation fr
@tolliekop745411 ай бұрын
YOOOO WHENS THE NEXT TWEET OF THE WEEK OR MONTH!?!?!
@natalielindo45311 ай бұрын
Cousin...... haven't meet yet. I think he might already know
@ChrisBabs3211 ай бұрын
She needs to come clean straightaway. Not only does she do OF - which will put any men worth his salt off straight away, she’s done it with man’s cousin - which again, will put any man worth his salt off. She needs to charge it. Move on and hope a simp accepts her.
@victorowen259211 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@ZombieAri_11 ай бұрын
Nah! I’ve been messing with someone for almost 7 years now and it really is just sex! 🤷♀️
@oumryeternity787111 ай бұрын
What if he already knew, his cousin already showed him his video and told him he should try her, or he decided on himself to get some of that sweet his cousin had? Some men are really twisted. I think she just should tell him she has/had an only fan account to see his reaction, if he still wants to be with her she should tell him about the video with his cousin. If he's still there then fine they can get together but she should understand that he's probably gonna be there just for fun and nothing serious but there is also a little probability he really loves her and really want to have a serious relationship with her. But it's better to come clean and see where that brings them.
@dylanshandley124611 ай бұрын
Bro, I need to stop reading these “what if” and “Imagine…” comments before my cousin receives a WILD text demanding a fade over some shit he never did 😂🤣
@amicableonej695411 ай бұрын
Well, it will be for recreational use.😅😅
@sofya655311 ай бұрын
Tbf she probably had that initial attraction to him anyway bc he reminded her of his cousin. That's one quarter the same DNA, plus the general family behaviors and attitudes
@sinalyrae832011 ай бұрын
Dip. Let it go. Make better choices...
@mocha-oo9kw11 ай бұрын
Yo Love from Nigeria
@mslindal706211 ай бұрын
Let him in on your OF secret so the boy can run.
@ravnwolf10 ай бұрын
All he got to do is ask his cousin then bang and run or bang and stay
@stikflair11 ай бұрын
Women really dead live in they own world…”It was just five years” shorty talking like that’s 5 months or 5 weeks. FOH😂😂😂
@_jennem_11 ай бұрын
The reason I think he doesn’t care… is because he already knows. He’s trying to see what the hype is about.
@sarahrean717411 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 omg people are that crazy why asking you know they are nooo way he gonna accept that