Having a big wedding 👰 doesn’t mean the marriage will be successful

"Planned" eloped 13 years ago and still going strong!

I agree with Adrienne. I actually wanna elope, because I spending thousands of dollars on a one day doesn't make any sense to me.

Loni is over this conversation lmao 😂

Loni’s hair is perfect on her.

Jordin has been WIFEY MATERIAL. I'm not at all surprised she took the opportunity when the right partner came along. I wish for her blessings and success in this marriage!! ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

Eloping is just the bride and groom ALONE! no family present.

If your going to get married make sure that person is right for you they should have the same morals and values you do if not it won’t work

A small intimate wedding is *NOT* eloping. Heck can you even put much planning into eloping? If the couple thought about having an intimate wedding or party or just a getaway but their closest loved ones know....then its not eloping.

I don't care about the wedding, I just want to be married to the love of my life. That's enough .

I eloped and it was planned. Got married on the beach in Mexico and our best friends attended. No regrets.

Adrienne always so aware of the damn audience lmao

When you elope, the wedding truest becomes about you and your partner. No family trying to give opinions, the vows don’t have to be so “speech” like... it’s about you and your love. That’s all.

I eloped and I couldn't agree more with Genie!! Saved all the opinions and naysayers from ruining my decision 😚

I’m DYING at Adrienne’s lil “ok” at 0:25 😂😂😂

Me & my husband eloped(planned) & it was the Best decision i ever made.

My husband and I eloped in the not planned way. We spoke about it multiple times and just decided to do it - $100 bucks well spent. Didn't tell family or anything it was just us against the world. I definitely believe it's not ideal for everyone and sometimes I wonder what would have happened if we did it the traditional way but we're still together 4 years later Some people can get married after 6 months and stay together forever, some people can date for 10 years and break up. It is what is.

6 yrs into our relationship.....I eloped...it was the only day off my huni and I ever had at the same time....we drove to Vegas, went to the county clerks office it was empty...good sign....found an Elvis chapel...they had a licensed minister to do a 2 min I do's...you sign and then I got a small arrangement of flowers and you have an actual ceremony with Elvis as an officiate. a young Elvis walked me down the isle while singing and the photographer was taking awesome pics and it was perfect... we didn't tell anyone...we stood at an amazing hotel with a beautiful view, we got pictures, a dvd and a fabulous time in Vegas...best day of my life :)

If I ever got married I would elope because I just lost my father and I wouldn’t want a big wedding unless he was there

Jeannie's thoughts are always my favorite! Love is very very personal. 👌🏾

Im most likely going to elope. I can't please everybody

Elopeing doesn't mean a rush. It means going away to get married with just the couple. Mine was planned for six months.

Didn't Tamera have like 4 separate parties with 4 different outfits for her wedding? Lol that wedding lasted like a whole week. 😭

LONI THAT GLOW MAMA !!

Eloping saves so much money. Do what works for you but remember that eloping means more money for a honeymoon &/or your future.

I honestly feel like... at the end of the day... First of all let's congratulate Jordin on this AMAZING news !!! She genuinely looks happy and Its so crazy to see her married now ! But i feel like whether you wanna an extravaganza and go all out or even if you want to go to the court house and elope then that is up to you ! As long as you married I'm happy for you !

Thank you for the long clips!!! Yes!!! 🎉🎉🎉🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

Yaaasss for the full segment clips!! Praise the loooorrrdd. Bye A you looked sooooo good!

I wouldn't elope, my smallest lowkey idea would be the courthouse with just family and have brunch or a meal nearby to celebrate but it will definitely be an intimate event with no bridal party, my checklist is simply: food, entertainment, venue, color scheme and call it a day. The wedding isn't as important as the union itself.

Loving these longer videos!

What in the Blanche Golden Girls is that top Adrienne???????????

I can never decide who i like the best out of them..love them all!

No shade.. i just bought my grandma that H&M plaid shirt that Tamera's wearing

So happy for Jordin!

Having a big wedding doesn't mean it will be successful. We had a wedding (planned for 1 year) with a guest list of over 100 people and spend approx 12k of personal saved money to pay for the wedding. I am now divorced and are no longer friends with none of the people that attended the wedding. Through everything one friend and family member called a few times over the past 2 years. I'm not hurt by it nor will I mend it. I just know who they really are. The thought of having a big wedding irritates me especially if there will be a bunch of people there so called there for me that I don't like and I don't care about. I'm not having a big wedding.

2:19 LMAO Adrienne: "I don't know her..." 😂🙌🏾

Im loni when it comes to this topic👌💁 just sipping tea,nodding my head and smiling 😂 #teamsingle

Yes. You save money 💰 not everyone has a big packet like you guys

I feel like Jeannie's question to Loni about having a feeling before marriage was personal. She probably is looking back and remembering her feeling. Sigh, I feel so much for Jeannie

Me and my husband always had the dream to elope. When we goT engaged and told our parents ( they would be part of it as well) they got all sensitive because some family members wouldnt be part of the moment (we wanted only our parents and brothers sharing the moment). Well, we ended up planning a intimate small wedding (50 people) and decided to spend money in our honeymoon. Even though i regret not eloping anyways (planning a wedding is only fun if you dreamed with it your hole life. I personaltly hated, just wanted to be married and done with the hole thing) not spending so much money was the best decision EVER. I never got the point of big weddings anyways.

Yes!❤️❤️❤️ I will most definitely be eloping in the future .😌

I just know Jason Derulo is somewhere crying over this right now.

Excellent advice Adrienne.

I just wanna say I’m here for the all day girl chats. Yass please!

I'm here for these long videos

Jeannie: Was the guy dressed like Elvis? Adrienne: Was Elvis there? The shade!! 😂😂😂😂😂

I remember Jeannie saying whenever she has a breakup she always look fatter and more beautiful. I was like "what the hell!!!!??" But daaaaaaaaaaaaaaooouuuuuuummmmmmmmmmm I believe her she's looking dope asf😥😥😥😁😍😘 Yaasss hun bunch!!!!🙌🙌🙌👐👏👏👏👏👏👍👍

Beautiful and sound advice given ladies. Absolutely love you group of girls :)

I had a civil ceremony and a party of 200 people. I felt so awkward. Hate being the center of attention. But right now we are going to have a symbolic ceremony in Cancun with close friends and family. Im more excited for the smaller party than the big one we had. Sometimes big events (like huge weddings) arent for everyone.

Adrienne's point 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

Loni looks so fucking beautiful and her hair is just out of this world!!!!

you guys are my pre marital counseling cause a girl out here lonely and broke but looking for advice

Wait this is the first time Adrienne's stylist has slipped up

Finally. Longer videos

I eloped at age 15 with my 19 yr old school sweetheart. On June 20 😉on June 27 we will be celebrating our 38th anniversary. We had to wait for the longest 7days to officially marry by his grandfather at his other grandpa family home in the country. We waited on my mom to sign consent. We are happy serving each other in God grace. First love and only 💘 love. Young couple can survive marriage at young age or to one partner if truly committed . thanks for reading. God bless. Ma Martinez

You GO GIRL!

I hate the term eloping... We went to the courthouse and got married. Period. We planned to do it, it wasn't done on one random day. But it definitely happened on a Monday morning with 2 family members only. Then we went straight into the immigration process bc my husband isn't American and although we met, dated and lived together abroad, I wanted to go home to NY and take him with me. People have asked us if we'd do a "real" wedding... Like foh, you think our wedding wasn't real? Do you think our marriage isn't real? You don't know real love until you're in an international marriage, dealing with being separated and the very costly and invasive process of immigration. It's like Jeannie said, It's about what the couple needs/wants. Some couples who just got married on their own are way happier than couples who had huge weddings.

I'd rather have a small wedding and tell everybody later

Getting married period is just not the wave for me

Tameras makeup is so pretty today. Love pop of color

Loni looks amazing!!

Finally a long video!

My husband and I have been together for 8 years, married for 5 and we are renewing our vows on our 10th anniversary in 2019 because when we got married, our families couldn’t be there.

The fact that eloping by definition means in the spur of the moment, but where I️ live I️ can’t see that truly happening because u have to get a marriage licensee have specific I️.d. Last year me and my husband literally was going to just do it but found out we needed these things first.

Look at A! Soundin all grown spittin knowledge!

Loni looks so beautiful today... she will always be beautiful but today the way her hair, makeup, and outfit is, really accentuate her features.

I think it's a romantic idea especially when you've known your s/o for a long time. However, I couldn't do it. It would break my mother's heart for her not to be at my wedding. However, I wouldn't mind a very small, cheap and intimate gathering.

I love Adrienne's answer. We all need accountability on some level, no matter how old we are.

Most cases of eloping are more planned than not! This is nice for Jordin & Dana

I love the H&M SHIRT Tamera is wearing. I saw it in the store a couple of months ago.

Me and my husband planned elope we went to the justice of the peace with Just my mom so I love it if it’s planned because we loved each other and I’ve been engaged before and I was planning at wedding and then I realized how much it cost and I think you should be financially stable because I don’t want to be in debt because of a party and we loved it we plan on having a wedding celebration as an anniversary thing but it saved us money especially because we were also moving state lines and we were together almost 3 years before we got married and that last year we got serious about what we wanted for our future because honestly unless your super young when you first start dating someone if you are not talking marriage after three years then you might need to just move on not saying you have to be married by then because some people stay engaged long so they can finance the wedding of their dreams and that’s great but if you can’t see future don’t waste your time

Adrienne looks gorgeous!!!

I too plan it yes, but if not don't rush into it, because that will become a regret later

00:35 Adrienne you ok boo??

My husband and I bought our first house together so we didn't have a huge wedding. It was just us and his mother and my bestfriend. We didn't want to spend a bunch of money on one day. Our wedding was magical without all of that.

I think it depends on the people and if they want that for themselves. I don’t think I would ever do it (because I overthink a lot and I’m a bit of a perfectionist/traditionalist), but who’s to say it wouldn’t be good for someone else?

That's is so sweet!! Just found out on this video!

I really like the idea of a planned eloping.

She’s still married too they’re so cute! ❤️☺️

I never thought about it before, but this is kinda making me wanna get eloped

My husband and I eloped planned with some witnesses don’t regret it. It’s what we wanted. And everyone was so surprised and that made it fun we’re very private my social media didn’t even know I was in a relationship whole t we were living together for a brick 😂 posting the pictures was hilarious lol

I love intimate weddings. Because first, it saves money and second, it is more special because my loved ones are there on my special day.

Loni is HAAAPPPYYY!!! She is glowing, WHAT IS GOING ON!? It’s a different kind of glow too 🤔 like.. she got a fine man glow lol

Elopement is perfect for avoiding a dysfunctional ass family. I would definitely consider.

loni looks amaziiiiing

Loni looks Fab!

Love the look today Loni ❤️❤️❤️❤️😍 you look so beautiful today

I totally agree that it's extremely important to plan out an eloping day, make sure that it's the right, well known future spouse; appropriate/intimate/private/romantic location as well as proper/ethical/wise/respectful etc., Choosen, intimate guest, to be present as the newlyweds take that important step to a new beginning, because it's not like there going on a blind date, or clubbling., 😏

I would like to elope. I am a very private person and this would be perfect for me.

I knewwww sumnnn was up with Loni and this topic on elopement

wise words adrienne

She's pulling a Brandy Norwood on us.

Adriane yes it needs to be planned

In my opinion planned eloping is the best..so intimate.

Yes!! Adrienne nailed it. Always hated that song “it’s a beautiful night, we’re looking for something dumb to do, hey, baby, I think I wanna marry you”😳 “Dumb”? Fr? 👋🏻

i planned my eloping with my husband no fuss no big bills best day then announced it at my birthday party had a brilliant time xx

We did and it was planned 6mo(engagement) . it also happen to be during the Covid 19! Which means it still would have only been us. 5-20-20 💕Always Us. We saved money and everyone understood because of the Covid. It was great

Real Talk!!!

Loni looking amazing 😍😍😍😍

Yo Jordyn, take ONE STEP AT A TIME