When he's at work you can hear him really laughing joking. When he gets home he's on mute playing a game on phone!

Found out my husband off 23 years was on the dl! He had most of these signs! I had no idea until he got put in jail for picking up transgender prostitutes! It suddenly all made sense! He literally treated me second rate for years… it was then that I figured it out!

I accepted it. My ex husband is DL…..he was so mean and angry to me all the time.

Bitch is they favorite word when mad😂

Yes men that are always in the gym too😂

Watch his behavior with his best man friend, does it make you feel uncomfortable ? Do they disappear together, nobody knows where they are ? Someone comes over to take a picture and immediately they put their arm around each other shoulders. Yep he never wants to spend time with you and the kids he's argumentive about it but stays under his male friends. Likes that booty action too much 👀👀 🍻 together often . Smoking weed. They'll use that as an excuse to say they didn't know what they were doing because they were so messed up. I'd rather stay single than deal with that again !!!

Yep, I was a scapegoat to cover for a husband with a gay asshole. Living with him was worse than growing up with a mean jealous sister.

This guys just described Kevin Samuels perfectly

Sign #1 you came to this video to see . That’s all the proof you need ladies

Hemmorhoids and streaks is another sign.

I dated a DL man. His sex was horrible. I felt like he was using the bathroom on me. No bond at all. Very manipulative.

You literally just described 3 men I delt with in the past PERFECTLY

I was dating this guy and he did not know I was gifted and using my gifts… I began to hear watch him closely.. so I watched…. I began to see him coming home from work walking with two gay guys… hmmm…. Then one day I saw him walk back to the house after I went out to church … so I turn around they both entering my house I said what’s up he said we headed to ball field we getting something to drink … I left came back about two hours the bed was ringing wet with sweat…. I got my ass out of that relationship been 13 years ago and I will never again be in such a dam hideous mess….. nooo way…. I will just stay single

Some truck drivers are DL too!

My ex had most of these signs. He would never admit it

Its all fun and games til niccas catch something and bring it back to his girlfriend or wife.

Ewww makes my stomach sick

1:32 Actually his sexual appetite increased to immoral sexual acts that I don’t get down with.. I don’t respect sodomy, oral just to keep him “excited, interested & I can keep going on about deeper conflicts with him not having any respect for his mother which is why he is narcissistic that includes abuse in ALL forms. When getting oral is an important part of your relationship you don’t care who is giving it nor do you care who you sodomize b/c a HOLE is a hole IS a Hole!!!

A dude that has done 15 years in prison is probably on the dl coming out??

I suspected my narcissistic ex husband was on the dl. I divorced him 15 years ago. He treated me like crap.

I just want to stay single. Such a sick world full of sick humans.

I thank you for this . I lost my dad back in 01_15 and ever since then it's been hard to find anyone that can give words of a father a friend a person that understands . I just heard so many signs that I was not accepting. I appreciate you for sharing 🙂 Have a blessed day 🤠💝🤗

my husband matches everything you said (except not the bright colors),, everything you said is spot on... im so grateful he is GONE

I remember in college there was a girl that was pregnant with twins. Her boyfriend was always with her or his bestie. Well, one day when he was in the shower she saw the Bestie text and went to respond but realized he was engaging in an affectionate manner. Whelp come to find out he was DL 🫤. I personally think it’s horrible. You’re not brace enough to live the life you desire, so you use, manipulate, deceive and destroy someone else? It’s wrong on so many levels. What’s crazy, these men will always scream they can’t be who they are. My question is, who’s stopping you? Religion is a patriarchal construct created and upheld by men lol. You are literally trying to uphold an image that your male counterparts created and then, blame women? That’s odd. It’s rather gaslighting and I can’t believe how many women fall for it 😐. Live your life! If you’re not brave enough to live your life, then leave women alone. It’s simple🤷🏾‍♀️. But nope they want to impress their bros 😂

The biggest clue: if your man tries to change how YOU dress…start buying your clothes, shoes etc without your input. If he cares too much attention on YOUR appearance more than you, then he’s on the DL. 😂

I caught my ex “smiley” checking out a teenage male onetime while dropping me off at home. I had check him and ask why he was looking at a young kid.

I really appreciate YOU for the insight. God bless you brother.🙏☺️

Grateful for this video and for spreading truth

I saw these signs in former male friends.

Thank you so much my love I love your genuineness and how u looking out for us 😊😢🫠🫶💔

Your so right! Thank you for posting to give others without knowledge of these signs!

I found out my ex-husband was on the DL the hard way. One day I passed by him and touched his ass, his legs flew up in the air😂😂

Another sign is if a man asks to do 50/50 in your relationship. He is in his feminine, ladies.

Yes you ain't lying not one bit. I hear nothing but the truth!!! And for the people hating saying it's not is the one's you gotta watch out for. It's more black men on the DL more than it has ever been before and its sad!!!!

Thank you for that info

This explains it all.

You saving lives bro

I dated a dl man. Listen this is right! I dated someone on the DL. It was so hurtful.

Thank you!

Thanks for the video sir 🤔 yeah these types men away from your house and children thanks again it was very helpful I saw these situations year's ago be careful stay safe

Thank you ❤❤❤❤❤

I mean downlow men know each other the best, it takes one to know one..

Keep it coming King 🔥💪🏾

Right on ❤ I was in a relationship like this which did not last long at all but this does show that they are not willing to be in a true relationship so why not just be honest to begin with?

Thanks for saying this. I caught my husband in 4k years ago. Glad it's common knowledge now

Sir out here doing the lords work

My baby father gay idc he went on a date with a gay dude I left him instantly ain’t nothing you could tell me then this video come up that’s confirmation 😂😂😂

My one of my ex-husbands was on the DL....and a few guys I dated was on the DL....I divorced my ex-husbands and dumped thise guys as soon as I seen the feminine side of them, and these signs are so true, most of them loves to argue. Well they dead now, and they did it to themselves, by not living right, and healthy. They died young, I'm 54, and still here, but not dating no more.

I wish I didnt want a man and its so gross how gays will find a woman for cover. Ive had so many married men proposition me and its disgusting, i cant find anyone normal even if I was going to act on those urges

The DL's wana have there cake and eat it.

Wow….who knew that all 3 of my girls dads were on the DL…thanks for the confirmations❤❤❤

Another way to see if he DL, bring fine man around that you don’t really like. If the man you suspect is DL, he is going to try to impress the other guy, embarrass you in some form, or be very insecure/jealous and sabotage that relationship. Like someone else said they be in the bathroom ALOT. And the loud colors is on point. They also need their clothes to fit a certain way. He isn’t lying. And they most definitely be around gay friends.

Nailed it!🔨 💯✔️

It's very tricky. So Let's get to it allready!

Just check your man boody… when he turn over see if that hole big … protect your self

Lord Jesus help us to pray together in relationships

This sounds a lot like my ex.. wow

He was always on the look out for some action. He drove aroound a bottle of LouAna 100% Pure Liquid Coconut Oil in his glove box. Great for Saute'ing & Baking!

My Ex was on DL and I did not know it for 25 years. I look back and he would go out of town 2 times a year to NY and Amsterdam he said alone but..... A gay friend of mine asked him out; he refused cause the guy knew me. Also my Ex was super pick about home decor and refused to have relations with me last 15 years of marriage. I did see a pic of him in Army hugging a guy. His family told me he was strange and his family was super religious. Also he has no friends before or after our marriage. He is a loner .He never wanted to do things with other couples too. And did ask for backdoor sex but I refused. I think he was in love with me but he did use me when look back over the years

Some of these things i do and i LOVEEEEE women and am nowhere near the dl. I groom myself pretty well as far as my beard and what not and clothes

Definitely possible signs but trust your gut. If you are suspect it’s probably for a reason

A man shaving his face clean off is another sign

I dont know about the loud colors.

Narcissists are

Guys in Paris like bright colors and guys in other countries. So that’s not always the case

Watch that movie cover ladies.

Good ness. 😂

If religion and our society didn’t condemn people for being who they are I feel most the dl stuff wouldn’t be an issue. You got men out here feeling they have to be some time a way and not able to be themselves. I’m a gay man and the amount of married men that hit on me is high. Live and let live. Stop trying to change people. If we did that most people would be comfortable in their skin and loving who they feel drawn to love without judgement. Men out here getting in a relationship with a woman when they like men. They mad and start treating the women bad because they can’t be with who they wanna be with and then the woman having to get stuff taken out on them and not treated like they deserve. We make this world more difficult then it needs to be.

Would you please do more on this subject? You could literally save lives. I wanted to die so bad. I think he wanted me to die, too.

How about if he wear your pantie to work, or coming home with no underwear. THANK YOU SIR.

I was with a "lesbian" that was abusive to me for 9years coz she on the DL straight 😅

Some guy said to him you have to choose between him or me! I asked him about a guy, is he sweet he said I don't know.

What if he's more interested in the backdoor than the front? and becomes abusive when declined.. ex is a narcissist so I just put his abuse down to his disorder..but yeh thinking about the DL business

I got a question what about a guy calls him ugly e everytime he sees him and talk dhit about him and have another guy to join him and calls him ugly what does that mean?

I am from South Africa. We wear BRIGHT colours. We associate BRIGHT colours with certain TRIBES!!! Its the FIRST time i hear that BRIGHT colours are associated with certain sexual behaviour!! Is this ASSERTION based on SCIENTIFIC research? Or, is it based on your PREJUDICE?

What about if they have a strong body smell from down there?

WoW 😢😮

No lies told.

I can't figure out why I attract this type

I live in town and can’t get a date for nothing and he went out of town to visit his male friend. No details on why he spend 4 days and never heard from him until he came back in town. First thing is sex on his mind. I am done mentally. I haven’t met any of his family or friends. Always a quick in and out for food and back home. Boring but he goes to gun shows, vacations, etc. I always here other people’s perspective about how I should be towards him coming from his talk with Mike or whoever. I am like tf cares what Mike says and why you telling him ish and I don’t know him like that.

How you tell is he's A Man Most Men are Gay

I would be more likely to agree if you were on the DL. To actually hear it from the horses mouth. 🤔

🤣 I believe it

He can change if he A. Receives salvation and B. Gets delivered from homosexual spirit.

Wow 😲

U don't deal with down low men be a real man 💯

the sound is too low, i cant hear good

Bro how do you know so much about it???

Why do guys do this?

Always inviting random men over to play pool🤔 And your married 🤔

I’m just asking?? How do u know sir…..are U??

If he doesn't have friends and doesn't want to have friends and just goes to work and comes home and that's it every day and that is all he does for the whole marriage can he be on the dl

Watch out for them g@ng & incarcerated fellas ladies‼️

The word is pronounced “ Scapegoat” not “ Escapegoat”.

My ex definitely had to be

Lol.... I don't know how this video came to my screen.... But let me save y'all some time .... Any man that has ever been in a locker room has pulled theirs out at least once just to see who's the biggest. Duh

Another sign is when your Boo thing wears your panties and bra but he still tells you it is not him.

Does that include other men come in his dm?😂He’s not my man but he tells me he has men coming in his dm,I always thought real recognizes real and gay men know other gay men.And all he talks about is anal sex.

Guy is and has been saying that he is absolutely straight and he seems straight and hates gays actually but has and spent time with his friends , he is in love with me , but he does wears red and stuff not much but sometimes. Is he on DL top or what?

Greg, are you on the DL? Or, were you on the DL?