@JB's SoulFull Eats Thank you I'm so sick of these guys using terminology they clearly Don't know the history of

@JB's SoulFull Eats Some gay guys told me, trade is a gay man trying to look straight. I'm so confused. 🤷🏿‍♀️

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@JB's SoulFull Eats awe another hater, what a shame

@@jbssoulfulleats2083 the meaning of the term has since evolved

I haven't dated in almost 5 years. I'm good 😂

Same here. I found out my husband was on the DL in 2013 after I found him dead in our home. He was murdered by one of the men he was hooking up with from Craigslist.

There are some excellent people. Whatever your preferences are, be honest about what you want.

Emotional damage 🤯

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Thanks youuuuu sheesh

Omg, he didn't give any insight on how to spot one. Smh....... 11min and someodd seconds of my life just went down the drain

Bottom line they just want to make sure you never find out

I would appreciate having insight on This as well.

Exactly! 100% of everything you said is true. The fact of the matter is closeted people like a life of trickery no matter how they try to mask it. It's one thing to keep things private and another thing to lie.

Because women on women is not spreading hiv to everyone

@@nothingbutnet6225 Women spread HIV Thru vaginal sex as well! Probably equally as much; from the beginning. When HIV first started the government made sure that it was never told to the public, fear of heterosexual ppl would panic. So they've pushed the platforms of only men can spread the disease for almost 10 years.

Jonathan Reyes THAT PART!!!!!! If you GAY BE GAY!!! Do not mislead a woman.

@@cclintrich that is true with man and woman but woman on woman is very hard to pass it. The chances are very slim

c rich Um Sir it’s not personal and what I’m saying is there are many ways to spread HIV but the easiest way to get it sexually is anal,, biologically proven,, I’m not a gay basher!!

Yes he did they swing both ways but overcompensate with hypermasculinity

I’m right here

Period

On point!

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lol wtf

I’m a trade not DL

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Omg 😱

That's usually how it be the masculine acting ones be bottoms 🤣

so me and my partner has been together for a year and a half. were both verse (im usually verse when single, anyway). i have been the bottom for most parts in our relationship. I finally topped him once. And I asked (just in case he wanted to be a top only) what do you think about our sex? is there any thing we need to change (trying to be smooth with it) and just said "IM VERSATILE" Question: how would you partake in that? should I just go back to being a BOTTOM majority?

Never addressed it at all- just a venting story time. 😒

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Impatient boo If you want to learn don’t rush the teacher understand the essence of the story

To them all men are gay lol but also they only want “ strait men” aka other gay men lol . They try to make it seem as if there is not strait men , and they hate me who are actually strait and always say that those men secretly want a gay man i feel bad for strait men this is so weird

@Be REAL that wasn’t the question though. It’s a dangerous risk yes, but is bisexual a thing ?

“My kind” lmao

That’s when I realized he was reflecting because that’s exactly how DL men are w them lmfaoo literally . Gay men hate women so much why can’t they just focus on the gay life and other gay people ? They obsess over strait people and call DL men strait men when they are also gay just to feel they are “competing” w women . Never go to a gay men for advice if you’re a women hell if you’re a man either . Their minds circulate around women and how they can take the place of women , it’s literally what it’s all abt w them

Why do you need to have your friends boyfriend notice you??? Are you her (real) friend or are you hoping to push up on her man? I'm asking for anybody who might read your comment. You come across as needing ATTENTION 🤪🤛🏽 The punch is because you're not real on your friendship game. Don't wreck Yourself.

@@skeric87uhh noo... 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️ what i mean.. there are other ppl who will come over and he will talk to them, even hang out with her male friends, etc.. even one of her step brother who recently came back, he started coming over and they bonded quickly .. but with me.. the most I would get is a hello and thats that. I would find myself trying to initiate a conversation but I stop doing that. Maybe I interpret the word wrong by saying take notice.. what I mean is like he undermined/ignored me. I'm basically trying to figure out why certain men like him act a certain way. Specially when they have an idea that u might be bi/gay

@@skeric87 and you right you a lil Attention Seeker cause I didn't say anything that was out the way to make anyone think so.. cause it seem like thats the only thing u notice about my comment smfh 😒 🤦

@@len1045678 He doesn't like you, He doesn't have to give you a reason, He doesn't have to validate you. Who do you think you are🙄. Guess what...there might be a lot of folks that don't like you, What are you going to keep bitching and whining about it. Seems like you're going to continue being an attention hound. I'm sure some folks you know have told you how much oxygen you suck out of the room. You're a guy bitching about being (by your own admission) "I'm needy" Good Lord always doing the most huh. If you think that shit is cute... Guess again. Idgaf What you might come back with because surely you think we have some type of connective dialogue going... I'm going to ignore your 2-year-old self. Disgustingly ignorant on purpose. 🙄🤜🏽🥴🤛🏽 10 X rapidly.

@@len1045678 Because I call on the fact that you were a whiny little boy... Doesn't take a Rhodes Scholar to see that...and that's why you probably ONLY have a handful of friends. Grow the fuck up, I'LL BET A COW'S MOTHER...A LOT OF PEOPLE ARE WAITING ON YOU TO DO THAT.

If you like/want to sexually engage with a man and/or 'd - and have a penis, you're gay. Period. You might be bisexual and gay but that's still gay. Stop it with the denial and take responsibility for your sexuality. I hate how Americans think they can change the meaning of words and facts based on their emotional response to an uncomfortable fact, shame, or denial. I think it ties into the whole racism thing, too. People just don't want to admit what they're doing, have been doing, or want to do.

If you like d u gay

@Paul Lunsford gay dudes do give the best head

@@jonathanreyes6326 BS

@Paul Lunsford You gay and bisexual. Really obvious from the outside looking in but maybe less obvious to you because of your own internal conflict. Deal with it dude because most heterosexual women don't want to emotionally invest in a man who is secretly thirsting for d, in any capacity. It's basically a ticking betrayal time bomb. Your loyalty is already divided, you just waiting for the opportunity. That's the nature of intent.

Lol why?

@@cjones9773 Because he was stalling like fuck.

Special in love thank you

Jealous of our vaginas.. It's a trend now...

Thank you for calling me out, forgive me

he clearly told you what it is and explained it very well.....

@@its.onlymalik nobody asked you