The mother has never stopped being abusive to her daughters. She is proud of herself for turning them against each other

The sisters need to go on a trip together and leave the mom home. That way, they can start working on rebuilding their relationship with the mom stepping in being messy. I wish nothing but the best for this family.

The audience kept clapping for the mother and it was truly annoying the mess out of me. Mom was clearly an instigator and abusive but they kept applauding her like she was in the right. 🙄🙄

That mother is the reason why they are not getting along. She feeds off the drama.

Poor Connie, you can tell she doesn't have many ppl outside her family. I think thats why she is afraid to speak her truth in front of them all at once. You can tell the other sisters have their own community.

“We broke the curse” I love that for y’all 🥺👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

Protecting momma is CAUSING THE ISSUE . Just because it’s your mom don’t mean you have to accept everything . Absolutely not . If her behaviors are ill and it’s hindering you emotionally and physically , tell her about herself and release that . Protecting horrible parents behavior do more damage to you . Carrying that sht then spills into life , your kids etc . “You only get one mom “ yes but you only get one of me . Just because my mom can have more kids don’t give her all rights to disrespect

Im sorry but they are arguing in slow-motion and i just cant 😂😂😂😂

As a mother, this is a situation I have sworn never to find myself in!

This episode was so triggering! And im so glad those sisters are able to heal and work on their relationship with each other. I knew right away it was the momma.

Low key, people only come on Karamo for his Hugs❤❤ I want one 😂

I hope these three sisters watch this over and over and over again to remind themselves to love each other and to seek each other's love over the mother.

"Mommie Dearest" Syndrome is prevalent within many ethnic groups and socio- economic backgrounds; she knows no boundaries.

This mother clearly caused the divide between her daughters. Tragic. I know several disgusting mothers like this. Demonic spirits allowed to have children just to torture them😢

Narcissist mother's do this to their family and you can't tell them anything. They tell lies on their kids to get what they want turn their children against one another. I got tired of it trying to raise my family different 😊

When I learned my mom’s story I was able to view her w compassion. The way they grew up is horrific especially from small rural towns. The molestations, rape, abuse verbal & physical, all while working for pennies, woman having no rights, it’s mind boggling

Ugh that’s how my mom is. She needed to have a thick skin and nobody’s pain or emotions are bigger or hurt more than hers. Luckily my sister and I recognize this selfishness and we support each other. That’s what’s these sisters need to do. It may take years to get there but at the end all you have is each other

What a heartless mother. She is blinded to her own shortcomings. Such a pity! Pray and hope they all heal and break the curse so that they all can find love and compassion for each other. Love Karamo's advice. He is full of wisdom and insight ❤

Wow, at first I was annoyed at karamo for being overly respectful to the mom and maybe wasn’t able to see through her bs, but it was actually super smart that he didn’t go hard in confronting her because he saw how much control she has over her daughters. In general, he seems more sensitive with elders I think out of respect but also because he knows that they think because they’re old, they have the mindset that nobody can talk to them “disrespectfully” and they don’t like to be called out. So he goes in very gently with calling them out and they take it better than being called out directly. All the daughters have a piece of them that is scared of her and scarred by her but they still want to respect and love her because they never received it themselves. It could have easily went wrong where they would be more defensive of the mom when she is the problem. Instead, karamo analyzed the situation, let the mom expose herself and then spoke to the girls without her constantly interjecting and being so condescending. I really do think they were open to listen and I really hope that they heal and find a way to deal with their trauma. He handled a very chaotic situation well.

You know my mom used to tell my sisters and I that she wish she’d had all boys. So much so that I prayed for a boy. Well I got that son and he died in childbirth. My rainbow baby is a girl and 16 now. When I found out I was having a girl I started therapy. I wanted to be whole for her. I am whole for her.

I think the little sister comes off as very narcissistic. When you play favorites, which are children, this is a prime example of what happens. I am the oldest daughter, who never had a close relationship with my mother, and I could fully relate when you play favorites you divide a family that can sometimes never be healed.

Youngest failed to mention that mother is part owner of the house that she is living in. She make it seem that mother living with her, but she actually living in a house that's hers.

Can they all just stop talking and listen to each other's pain....old school Mama with her own personal issues and her now grown-up daughters still in pain...Lord help them heal so they can have the beautiful relationship they badly so deserve 🙏💔🙁

The way I was on the mom’s side at the beginning. I was like aww she seems sweet and nice. Reminded me of my grandma! Boah was I wrongggg. Smh I pray they all find healing. Even the mom - it’s obvious she went though something in her own childhood that made her the way she is.

This was so painful to watch because this was me and my sisters, me and my middle sister grew close to each other, but my oldest sister always stayed away. I was always the one trying to keep us together but my oldest sister always stay away. two years ago me and my middle sister I’m the baby had a huge fight and two days later she was dead she was hit by a car from somebody texting and driving And I still can’t get over it. Now my oldest sister is on her dead bed We’re trying to fix are relationship. It shouldn’t have happened this way after losing my middle sister. I pray to God he gets them healing that they need. Because when there gone they are not coming back. My heart is still so broken. If anyone watching this and going through it please fix it and forgive whatever it is or was.

Women's first heart break is usually from their moms 😢

They may be dealing with a narcissistic, emotionally distant and emotionally immature parent. They all need a copy of the Mother Hunger book- they have mother hunger, and it’s hurting their relationships with each other, and probably other women too.

Karamo had his hands full with this episode. He truly was able to get the healing process started.

The mother’s form of “discipline” goes far beyond corporal punishment. When you’re locking kids in closets, tying them to doorknobs, and hitting them with sticks, you are an *ABUSER!* Not to mention dismissing your daughter when she told you she had been molested. And people wonder why more young women don’t come forward when they’ve been preyed upon. Even if she did grow up in an abusive home herself, no part of what she was doing to those girls was right, and she should’ve known that. Some people just don’t even deserve to have children. 😔

This story is so familiar in the Black community. This is deep rooted and it has to stop. Where is the father and husbands or spouses? They need and needed to be around to help and are highly accountable too. I see what's wrong here, competition and repeating of toxic cycles. This can not happen in a family, unless its friendly with maturity. An example, pie contest and outsiders judge. For this family they don't need any type of contest. I agree with the sisters, the mother likes drama. Sad and petty. She needs to grow up. She is a seasoned woman. Their mother needs to get a passion and or perhaps her own home. I applaud the ladies for breaking the toxic pattern of abuse. I respect that the mom took care of her kids and all the responsibilities all on her own. Unfortunately, there was abuse. They all need therapy/counseling to heal. They all need hugs. They all love their mom and eachother. Karamo is awesome. You are so calm, an intellectual, influential, kind and honest. Thank you for helping people especially in the African American community. Its very heartfelt. I hope this family heals. May God help and bless them and you all.

Thanks Karamo. I needed this show. I'm going through the same thing.

It's crazy how so often, a mother can be the worst thing for her daughter(s). When you are a nasty, evil woman, it stands to reason that the daughters you raise are going to find themselves in chaos. Look at their role model. Smh.

My family is divided also, related by blood but not a drop of family

I felt that collective heavy sigh from the audience when the mother said that she “didn’t see it”.

She couldn't even remember her own daughters name...the mom FEEDS OFF of this. So sad...

LaDonna doesn't have to argue with her older sisters about her house and car being better. Why doesn't she stop talking and let Tonya speak? Who cares if you have a house or car!!! They can be taken away in minutes. A tornado, hurricane, flood can come and take all material things away. Material things aren't more important than your family!!! Life is too short to hold grudges. Once we're gone, you can't say the things you should have when they were alive. Don't live your life with regrets. Be nice and loving to your family. They won't be around forever. Treat your family, friends, neighbors, co-workers, and aquaintances the way you would want to be treated like the Bible says. I pray for this family. They could have so much fun together as sisters. I wouldn't change having my loving siblings for anything.❤ I'm thankful to God that our parents were loving and taught us to love each other.❤

The oldest daughter said “ well that’s how I feel” mom said, “ well don’t feel tell the truth“ 😂😂😂

You must break those generational curses and dysfunctional behaviors...

Meanwhile mama in the back being held back by security because she’s mad at karamo for spitting facts!

I believe a lot of this pain is being founded upon generational perspective. I truly believe the mom did the best that she could, yet, that generation (especially from the black experience) was never allotted the opportunity or experience to be soft and vulnerable. Unfortunately, they truly believe the are expressing love by keeping bills paid and food on the table. I think the pain the mother is causing is unfortunately unintentional. The true sadness of the situation is that, for the mother, the concept of softness is partially and completely abstract and foreign to her. In our newer generations we, thankfully, have the opportunity to believe and understand that we are deserving of parental intimacy. The “curse” is that we are now able and desiring a softness that those older generations were never able to even dream of. I pray for deep healing. Acceptance of expectations. A strength to overcome the grief of the love they deserve, and the courage to understand and have patience for the mother. ❤️ As a community, may we continue to try to give the love we never received to the generations after us. We still may not get it perfect, but hopefully we can be a bit better.

This is one of the most excellent shows I have ever seen on this program, thank you

Mother was abused, she too needs healing of her past. 🙏🏾

That mother is jealous of her daughters, she still wants to think she’s young. When she takes off that wig at night, and looks in the mirror , reality hits. Lady you old , get in touch with ur grand kids and chill out!

The siblings need to build their relationship without their mom the mom isn’t going to change and clearly when you set boundaries with mom she finds the next sibling she can do whatever with which was Connie

For mom to say "Which drama was it?" let's us know she's the problem.

The mother is a narcissist. She’s weird. She’s likes that they fight for her love

Praying for this family! I definitely understand the drama! The mother will never change! So glad that Karmo help them to deal with it for the better and future❤ God bless him, this show really helped me and others who may have similar family dynamics🎉

This is off topic but that mommas curls is bouncin……I can’t help but think of Bounce it by juicy j 😂

I was so hurt for thesis sisters. I’m so sorry they had to go through there life in pain because of there mother. I wish all the best for y’all.❤

Mama is playing jack on both sides , I just have a feeling she talks different thing in each of their ears. She isn't the peace maker as a mother should be , she seems more than friend or sister to these beautiful sisters. They all should go to councelling.

This hit home.

Connie was saying more than they heard, " I don't want my momma to mad with me." The abuse that she experienced keeps her locked in a place of fear.

This is so toxic! The mother reminds me of my mother! She’s toxic she’s caused us not to communicate with each other anymore for years

Healing is so important to our spirit....because when we dont heal we hurt each other....and put our pain on others....it starts by saying the truth to yourself....and say yes I am that person and im going to change and heal to be a better person...we must show and give true love to one another....❤

They have me in tears 😢 I'm so glad y'all on the show bless this family lord ❤ 🙏

……they have ALL that smoke for their mother-what about their father, where are the fathers?

This I can not comprehend? I have 5 children, and my heart wants them to get along...To love each other, and support each other! ❤

cherish them moments wit your siblings cause i sadly cant get my sis back❤

That Mama exercising in that audience getting up and down 😂

The momma just shaking her head going “uh huh uh huh yeah yeah maybe so” girl if you don’t hush! 😂

I'm so glad the sisters received the new beginning they needed, and I hope they use the tools Karamo shared, however there's also pain with the mother and I wonder what happened to her to make her pit her daughters against each other. There are some deep issues there. God bless all of them.

30:59 has me in tears, these men are fed up with that woman😂

🥴 EVERY oldest Black daughter immediately knows this is all on the mom. She picked a favorite when they were kids, spoiled her, and instigated this drama for years

Now we can all agree that the mother is the issue, but the little sister 100% thinks shes better than them. Its time someone says it, at no point in time did she actually say anything about what they succeeded in. Its been she’s jealous, their jealous. Everyone’s jealous. You dont have a car or house. You live in an apartment. ETC its so much & it’s annoying.

The mum is definitely an triangulator. It's like she's the Queen Of Hearts, holding court. She enjoys that. I hope all of them get the help they need xx

Omg. You are on it. I saw the same thing when mama started talking that she was the one who kept stuff going. I'm so glad that they hugged and apologized to each other. I hope they take his advice and get their relationship on track.

Dude in the audience laughing 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Connie did all that and not one year fell from her eyes 😒

18:24 “That’s how how I feel” 🗣️”Well don’t Feel, Tell The Truth!!” Me: 😅What!? 😂😂😂😂😂

I have a cousin that has this same relationship with her sisters. Because their momma is toxic and made them fight. Just like this family. Shame

I like how all 4 of them talk slowly and low....you wont even know when they get dangerous 😂😂.

The daughter in the red clearly thinks she is better than all of em. Mom play a part but at some point they gotta stop blaming the mom they asses almost 50 or whatever they acting crazy themselves

That hard wig.. Connie... That wig

Mom: Am I the problem? Is it me? All three daughters: Yes! Mom: Ya'll need to tell the truth.

I love the way you listen and being that counselor we need in our lives. Nobody is perfect, but you give people a chance to let everything out of their systems. I love you Karamo and blessings to all what you do to help people. Hugs and love coming from me to you.!!!!!!! HAPPY HOLIDAYS BOO!!!!!!!

Moms looks like Esther from Sanford and Son😂

Coming up in that era, a lot of that was happening pretty much in the black community.. ppl my age would sat around each other and talked about how we got whippings with switches, extension cords, brooms, shoes and pretty much anything they got their hands on..even in the schools.😮

No Ladonna needed to tell what she felt like

Damn this triggered me! I have a mother that continously hurts & lets me down & has the audacity to get mad at me when i catch on to her bs. I understand that in her childhood she probably suffered but i see her treat her men very good & i just wish she'd treat me half as good as she treats them. My sisters & i struggle too, its a mess. Sometimes i wish i had a different family. I feel like i have never experienced love in my life.

So relatable to me and my sisters~ The oldest stay away The Second oldest will only do if money is involved and me the youngest Flipped over tables and called them all on they mess~ Meanwhile Mother @ 82 avoids and coodles 52 yr old son as if he was on of her boyfriends (He has 5 kids and 4 gbabies that don't know him) mother has always had a Man and a life (I heard this from age 10yrs old ) BUT I Have And Will continue to fight outside that BOX!!! #Finally Evolving @ 53

Reminds me of my great aunts. One sister was light skinned with a finer grade of hair and my other auntie is dark skinned. My great great grandmother born in 1902 would have my dark complexion auntie cleaning up and doing all the work getting in trouble all the time meanwhile my lighter skinned auntie went to college and had all the men and would get in trouble and somehow slither her way out of everything with my older darker skinned auntie getting in trouble for the lighter one’s actions! She was her “doll baby” and treated her so much better that that mindset and treatment went all the way down through the generations of the grandkids and cousins. God rest my dear gram but she was born post slavery and grew up with that slave mentality about certain things and skin color being one of them. That’s what this reminds me of! Sad! We have got to do better and take accountability and stop denying our wrongdoings and DO BETTER! In this case I feel the darker skinned sister is being treated more harsh because of this. The youngest was probably viewed as more “prettier” because of ignorant things like her color and hair texture and her pretty looks. Sad. We can’t make differences in how we raise our kids. This is the result.

Their mother is set in her ways. She came from a different time period where her generation swept issues under the rug. Her mother knows nothing else. I am happy he was respectful to their mother. This is na issue that divided thwm, but they can band together. Hopefully this show was the start of them.mending their relationship

Momma something else 😂😂

Lawwwwd the wig, even Rick James telling😂😂😂

Hurt people, hurt people.... This old doll has a lot of healing to do herself. Those sisters need to recognize, accept and disconnect from Mom in terms of being sisters. Not saying leave Mom alone, but not include her in their relationships.

This right here made me want to step up as a big sister. Do better to communicate with my sister. GOD BLESS THESE LADIES & ALL WHO HEARTS FEEL THE PAIN

the fake crying is annoying me. she’s a mom pleaser, i see why though. but she ain’t dropped ONE tear. she can just communicate without feeling like she has to cry.

Ngl…. Mama had me weak ash 😂😂

Karamo keep teaching us and helping us! Your assessments are on point. Let the breakthrough and healing begin for this family.

This struck a mad nerve!!! My mom did was like this with my 2 sisters. She played us against each other... She hated my dad cause he married her and they were about to get a divorce when he pasted. These "Mothers" need to realize the stuff they do tho their kids for the bad decisions they chose to make and take it out on their kids... Never take accountability and the cycle just continues...

Mom is too self absorbed and stuck on drama. Sister 1 comes off shallow, materialistic, and egotistical as well. All the comments about her house and car is proving what sister 2 said. Sister 2 seemed to me to be the most level headed and balanced and real. Sister 3 is highly immature. ALL of them have to stop the rumours, gossip, and talking behind each others back. I think the sisters could improve things if they didn’t involve the mom so much and stopped the gossiping, and immaturity, and all the issues stem from what mom modelled…and mom modelled it from what she knew. The generational trauma here is real. I hope they ALL learn skills to improve the situation and dynamic. Mom may be passed that point, and if so I hope the sisters can, and just accept that about mom and do the best they all can as a united front. Mom is so lost. She just doesn’t know any different, and I can only imagine what moms life was like that produced the way she is. I relate with them all but I truly resonate with the oldest sister. She so clearly bore the brunt of moms failures and faults and no one acknowledges it. Yet she has the most insight and understanding and at the same time empathy. Just the physical differences were so notable from start to finish. All distant and pointing fingers transformed to the 3 sisters huddled up together in the middle of the couch.

As soon as the mom said the daughter was “disrespecting” her…I knew the mom was the problem. She doesn’t respect them or listen to them at all. What’s to respect?!

This is the best Karamo show I have seen and hear

My mother passed away away in 1984 there was six of us three girls and three boys. I was the youngest and was the one who became her care giver when she became ill this lady is like my mom and after my mothers transition I’m still troubled by the way I was treated our situation was never resolved ❤❤

Great show, Karamo! You do a wonderful job of seeing through BS to the Truth and there's so much here that I could relate to.

Karamo! You keep my allergies active… teary eyes, runny nose, congested sinuses… Somebody, please pass the Zyrtec!!😢😂😅❤❤❤❤

This episode shows how important it is to HEAL so that trauma doesn't get passed down to your descendants?

Connie is a peace-maker and absorbs people's trouble.

The sisters are beautiful they need to get along & love each other

30:56 that mans face, I hollered!