Amen

Women aren't trapped in abusive relationships anymore. That can only be good. HOWEVER you are correct in that the family is suffering as a result. But what can we do. Men have to change their behaviour.

Women are trapped in an abusive relationship with their real partner, the State.

@@medwayhospitalprotestAs women we have to make changes as well. It’s not all on men. We can be toxic AF just like men.

Being a really good wife and especially mother, is, in my view, the most admirable 'vocation' . I'm always far more in awe of a really well organised mum than I am of anyone else.

I disagree, on a single point 'we are here, to serve others' and not, self. In any healthy, relationship it begins with some kind, of healthy relationship with self and I'd wager, it's the same with unhealthy relationships. If you can have the energy, to focus on others (how much of that, is really required?) then why, overlook the self. There's healthy/unhealthy ways, to do either. Also, no time was ever really 'ideal'- not even the 80's lol there's just pockets, of the ideal as 'happy accidents', or incidents. If you had that- I'm happy for you

Great points! Thank you. I think self expression was just allowed and not yet labeled in the 80’s- I’m pining…😂

It's just leftist neuroticism. They are without good male rolemodels/fathers.

studies show actually yes - look into rick allen ross’s cult deprogramming research ❤️

@@YuliShowMeLove thanks for the referral

It's like how someone who has been in an abusive relationship is more likely to be in another abusive relationship-- unless they do some serious healing.

The irony is both are essentially heterosexuals; they both have opposite sex partners. Nothing 'queer' about either of them

That's what always has me perplexed. I'm seeing that more and more. "Hi I'm Jane- I'm nonbinary", etc. When did that become a part of our most basic introductions?

The way🙄 my eyes rolled when I read this.

She actually thinks she escaped the woke mindset.

@@goodlookinouthomie1757 You can have an unconventional relationship and still be against wokeness…my eyes rolling at these autistic comments lmao

@@goodlookinouthomie1757yeah, that really caught me off guard that she thinks she’s escaped wokeness and the brainwashing. In reality, this lady is still totally lost in the sauce and brainwashed. She speaks the language this entire interview, still showing she believes in a bunch of the BS.

@@twinkletoes6290 The vocal fry is a dead giveaway.

Men too

@@michelebence4308 Good point. 'Stay at home dad' shouldn't be a slur.

Agreed! And, women ARE able to put 'extensive time management', 'financial management' and 'conflict resolution' experience on their resume, and MEAN IT. They don't need society's blessing or approval or permission. Just DO it, because it's TRUE right now, not at some time in the future.

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@@ZandarKoad Yes. If you know you have skills write them down. The proof will be in your actions.

I know. I had a friend like that once. I think it got her "cool points," so she did it.

I know! She explains how she is only Lez and she’s married to a man. Then she explains totally normal stuff as autistic.

Probably because she unconsciously wants to be a lesbian, and she believes(unconsciously) that if she calls herself a lesbian, she will become a lesbian. Same with the autism label. And you know what? It actually works for people like this. I’m not conflating sexuality with mental illness here, but the entire psychiatric system is dependent upon the human ability to become what we believe we are. If I have a psychotic episode that may have been a once in a lifetime occurrence, my odds of experiencing subsequent episodes increase dramatically once I am diagnosed with schizophrenia or bipolar disorder. Why does she unconsciously want to be a lesbian? Well, look who she’s married to. Why doesn’t she leave her husband and go be with a woman? Codependency, of course, but also, she probably isn’t actually attracted to women. She just wishes she was.

That was odd to me as well. She says that she is not fluid in her sexuality at all. That she's only attracted to women. But then says she loves her husband and has dated men in the past; rationalizing romantic relationships and sexual relationships as different/separate things when they are not.

@@frogluck yeah, it's strange. The push to make "romantic orientation" a thing separate from sexual orientation is so strange to me.

You nailed it with just a few words.

So agree with you 🙏😌☺️😊 “Nice” being the key word. Like “comfort” in the plain food. Contemplating the sunrise or sunset or the stars or the birds or the waves….. Are those “dull”?? Finding good friends and being comfortable with them - is that “dull” if they are normal happy people, yourself included? I find, the disturbing theme in the youngsters that they seek euphoria….

The guest reminds me of a middle-high school classmate girl who was a math “genius”. That girl was manly despite her long blond braid: her voice was low, she walked like a guy, had a venomous sense of humor and more of blond facial hair than any other girls. She was awkward. And we all wrote this off to her math brains - how could one continue being “normal” and do math that well. Decades later, I realize now that the girl had to be on the Asperger spectrum. Yet with all her “manliness” ( “are you trans?”) she never tried to hang out with boys, she stuck with girls and she tried to be liked in the girls arena while refusing to try-on make-up or cut her hair to soften-up the look or start wearing heels… she was extremely practical and logical. And… she despised boys unless they could do math better than her. Jules is so much more well rounded and feminine "despite" math and lower voice 🙏🌿🌺 it is so sick that doubts about the foundations of one's being can be so shaken by proparanda it is scary

41:30 100% agree with women being at extreme disadvantage when contributing to the social reproduction. Their salaries do not continue if they had to interrupt work, nor their 401(k) continued to grow. And yes, they are fully dependent on the “breadwinner”.

The leftists need to go live under Communists party rule. All these convos after ONLY reading books are worth very little. One needs to look at the USSR and China and Cuba and all the African countries that were sponsored by the soviets.

It doesn't work that way. People are either in the middle of the bell curve, or they are not. They do not one day decide being "normal is boring" and start doing "abnormal" things. People just do things, and they do not know why, then the world shuns those "abnormal" things and that person feels outcast, and begins to resent the "normal" for rejecting them, because of an inability to be "dull" like you. We will never be the same, normie, never. It's NOT a decision. It just is that way.

100%

For the most part, yes.

In my opinion. I’m 68. I hope I live long enough to see my opinion vindicated.

If the term gender hadn't been co-opted into sexual politics these kids would have found something else to get anxious about. Thankfully in my day it was barbiturates and 'platform shoes'!

If only it were a fad that was less damaging to the body.

No. Collective insanity.

Not really, but I can see how it’s hard to follow nuanced conversation when you are used to people fitting in neat little boxes. Everyone is living and learning and changing, ideally.

Heroic comment.

Can you get creative with spelling and post again?

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Yep, it's gotten very dire on YT in terms of comment removal policies. This isn't just a simple "bad word list" filter anymore, that's for sure. To put it succinctly, f' you YT!.

@SpocksBro I know. It seems to limit topics without bad words. I now copy any long posts for future rework is deleted.

She doesn’t really think things through

Marxist economic theory has nothing to do with gender ideology and the fact that you think so shows you have no knowledge of what Marxism actually is. You just listen to buzzwords thrown around with no real meaning.

@@laurenthomas7224 I like buzzwords. They work great

@@laurenthomas7224 lol guy actually sent back the “erm acktually”. No guy, it is all part of the same subversive nose people ideology

My thoughts exactly. She has yet to shed, fully, the indoctrination and the activism distractions. She has improved somewhat from her younger destructive ideas, but she's continuing to hold onto the need to subvert the normative.

Aye same

Great advice.

The obsession with identity is so self centered and privileged

@nataleo9093 Yes. It seems to me these people are making a mountain out of a mole hill. Maybe if they had real problems instead of made-up problems, then their response or result would be organic instead of self-inflicted. Idk. Are these people narcissists? It's like they look in the mirror 24/7 and get stuck in a feedback loop.

Agree

​@@nataleo9093 yup, it's a symptom of boredom and a lack of adversity. You have to keep young people active and engaged, and you have to do things that build character. Being too comfortable all the time is not healthy because then you just make up fake stressors such as identity confusion.

He doesn't cheat he has sex with himself as a woman (dressed as one)

She's about my age, but speaks like someone in their early 20's (emotionally stunted.) I also have autism, so I doubt it's that. I bet she has a traumatic background that Benjamin surprisingly didn't pry into.

Bullshit, she new exactly that she got a trans woman and was not "tricked" in any way.

Patriarchy out here playing 4 dimensional underwater chess.

Is she a lesbian? All the talk about the pedo Kinsey scale and being bi romantic and the fact that she's with a man doesn't sound very lesbian

You obviously have not listened properly or followed Ray's description of how they met and his feelings for her.

@@miriamlana833 this is why nobody likes you dudes. You don’t even try to hide your misogyny anymore.

I was thinking the same thing… I think young people have really lost track of what average development is… uncomfortable, difficult and confusing…

I don't know her background, but usually children who have been sexually abused talk about sex and do sexually inappropriate things for their age.

That's because the parents aren't parenting their kids. They are letting the cell phones, laptops, internet, porn and social media parent their kids. This is why these kids are so self important. Blame the parents

What? Straight girls are not sexually attracted to other girls. Wym "that's all girls"?

That’s not all girls at all lol

@@Ruby_Spacek I exaggerate. But yes, it's a huge portion of girls. Probably upwards of 80%. Guys are scary to girls at first, so they tend to find other girls pretty and alluring at first.

Lol what? Most teen girls are straight

@@spencerm5913 I have spoken to Jules and there is a lot more to her background and life than what was stated in interview. She has struggled profoundly and found diagnosis useful in understanding and improving her life to get to the point she’s at now. I agree that a lot of kids and people are over diagnosed and medicalized but there are people who truly need support to function.

"A thing you like, not a thing you are" seems to apply to the entire alphabet soup. It's not something to build an identity around, IMO.

I'd say it's something you do as opposed to something you are.

You can dress up like the opposite sex because you "like." When you are sexually aroused by that same thing it's definitely something else. Psychology.

@@Haleh1thank you! What you do with who you are - how your touch others and contribute never ever comes up with this generation - OMG the self absorption!

I really don’t think young Americans know anything about the history of communism.

They ALWAYS think it just hasn't been done right yet.

@@imawordgirl Well… these days opportunities to move and LIVE there are available. Yet they continue living in and badger the West

that cancer is always infiltrating healthy cells.

This woman is unlike any male I know. She is certainly an oppressed woman. She has been abused and manipulated since youth. There is a whole backstory she’s glossed over.

No male will say they have a 'male typical' brain.

I wish there was a way to reach out to her other than twitter- I’m autistic too but was luckily born in 1979 so I’m 80s woke which meant we could bend gender without medicating. Very lucky. I definitely would have chopped off my boobs I think!

Yeah after that she lost me. She’s got a whole lot of work ahead of her.

@@LaDominicana2011 You may have missed out bc she gave insight to an interesting aspect on the predicament of women in a capitalistic society scilicet trading off financial independence against a family with children. Which is not an issue limited to females but the pressure is prominently on them.

​@@GO-yl2mvthat predicament largely goes away if you prioritize better criteria when selecting your partner.

I see what she means. Academic Agent is a right-wing, NRX-adjacent youtuber who does a fair amount of Marxist analysis. It can be useful.

@@LaDominicana2011 you hear one word that triggers you then just tune out? I guess you do you buddy, different ideas can be scary 😢

Very good question.

Yeah, and the tone of her voice is so typical for a US liberal that I as a Swede can't stand it.

normal people flaws. like not everyone is like great at podcast like you know what i mean?

​@@gulanhem9495I just started listening and can barely stand it Voice physiognomy matters

I can't stand people who, like hate the world like and , like nitpick others like that. you probably talk a lot, like, behind backs.

Wow, this is,like, not that bad, like, compared to some other, like, videos I’ve consumed,like,like.

Forcing kids to sit in the "discomfort of the knowledge of their own privilege," it was like some weird struggle session.

In all due respect, sounded like a grooming camp. I do mean that respectfully as it can be, but as it was described, those kids were stunted in their personal growth instead of naturally growing into who they could have been.

You're not wrong. ​@@kinglyone7172

@@kinglyone7172 No need to be respectful. It's something that should not have happened. What kind of idiots signed their kids up for this?

aka a cult. Not letting them leave to go to the bathroom or take a breather is something that cults of all kinds do in the early stages.

I'm still reeling

It's a pretty common thing for female detransitioners. Testosterone screws up the vocal chords in women

Isn't that just standard fare for a lot of middle class types or is everyone autistic now?

Our obsessions are always oddly specific 😂. Even the stereotypical autistic horse girl. She'll fixate on one breed, one event, whatever.

Knew what ? That’s she’s a gardener? If you have a garden soil regenerative practices are a must.

@@JennyJeanRazzlecalm down Sparky.

@@JennyJeanRazzle I was moved to believe that she was autistic by the way she described her love of composting and soil regeneration as her “passion”. I’m autistic. I am an avid gardener. I compost and I let my garden die back and do its thing. My soil is fkn BEAUTIFUL. But I wouldn’t describe composting and soil regeneration as my “passion”. But that’s because my passions (rn) are early American medical practices and also magnetoreception. IYKYK

She's talking like a teenager from 2006. Her intelligence is also under question

And like?

I'm a late diagnosed woman too and I agree. But I'm really not able to have this opinion openly among autistic groups. It's lonely.

I couldn't stand her for more than a few minutes.

It's a communism thing. You can just make up random rules for the redistribution of wealth based on whatever is in vogue at the time.

Not at all, there are plenty of more interesting things to study about being a woman in the world then being a “gender” which is a newer trendier ideology which combined with liberal pop feminism has scrambled people’s minds.

yes

What's the solution then? To stop the feeling of threat from men.

@@kr3642 I don’t know. Lesbianism seems to be working okay except for the whole domestic violence part, maybe that isn’t so great. Personally I don’t think these kind of deep biological problems have “solutions” necessarily, we just have ways to suppress them and their symptoms to some extent. There will always be tension between freedom and safety that has to be balanced and the march of history and politics will swing this pendulum back and forth.

Yes!

Jules.👋🏻

Some people "umm" and "errr", some people find another stalling word such as "like"

@@salsamancer I don’t no why but when people say like like like I switch off no hate just my brain 🤣

Mainly just people under thirty who speak that way. It gets on my last nerve!

She sounds more borderline than autistic.

That tweet doesn't exist

I think this may refer to Peterson saying that women are less definitive in their sexual preferences when young.

The demonization of Peterson is so wild to me. My nephew thinks he is a natzi. He was frantic when his mom was watching some of Peterson’s old lectures on KZfaq. I assured my sister that he wasn’t a faschist.

@@Beelzebubbles759 Some people seem to think that if someone gets really distressed if you don't do what they demand (like use their preferred, wait, mandatory pronouns) you are unempathetic and unkind, there has to be something wrong with you if you keep going. One photo with someone wearing a Pepe shirt and their imagination can run free, he's one of THEM, a nazi, a fascist, an oppressor, pure evil. That's my guess, anyway.

Yes, but it sadly also makes many women vulnerable to bad people (who prey) and bad ideas.

@@carolmcln5028 Role of dads used to be the gatekeeper for suitors. Women tend not to be able to spot manipulators until they're older (late 20's/30's).

Not all women, some women can't nurture worth a dang. either cold, or just dumb.

This :)

The ism people confuse me too. It's strange how most people are like that. I've never understood why they can't just exist. Maybe it's because we're a tribal species and that part of the outlier brain is broken? It's also strange how autistic people are split on this. I've met some ism autistics and others like me.

Glad you found your way

Well, if women (or whoever) were paid to raise children and didn’t have to worry about the man screwing her over then maybe men also wouldn’t have to worry about getting screwed over by the woman. There are plenty of men who feel like they get the shaft in a divorce nowadays. Also, society could view raising the next generation as a job that is important to everyone and worth as much as blowing people up in other countries. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Who would pay these women who are raising children?

“Some legal claim” has left many women trapped in awful situations netting them zero$$$ and much harm

@@ArtU4All It has also left many men in awful situations. There is no practical solution that doesn't leave some people in awful situations, because some people are awful, and often both of them are.

I agree wholeheartedly.