The Prodigal Transitioner | with Austin Unbridled

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Benjamin A Boyce

Benjamin A Boyce

Жыл бұрын

Austin is a Male-to-"Female"-to-Male detranstioner. In this calmvo, he speaks about his journey there and back again.
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@user-ll9wh4jt2k
@user-ll9wh4jt2k Жыл бұрын
I have found these detrans videos so helpful. I am female autistic and as a teen hated being hit upon , hated feminine stereotypes, so I dressed as a boy , I used a male name and refused to have romantic friendships or do anything my mother recommended a girl should do to make myself attractive to men. I grew out of it maybe aged 24. I think the trans cult is abusing autistic people . I don't think autistic confused sexual feelings are the same as gender dysphoria which I think is where they hate their bodies, like anorexia nervosa. So I agree there is no such thing as a trans kid. Autistic people are so isolated, rejected and lonely they get lured into cults.Trans ideology and gender affirming care is a cult.
@BenjaminABoyce
@BenjaminABoyce Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing!
@karentracey9948
@karentracey9948 Жыл бұрын
Stay strong! Talk to a medical person who will look after you.
@karentracey9948
@karentracey9948 Жыл бұрын
My son in law is autistic and all of us in the family have supported him and he has found help,I really feel for you but guess what I've got two beautiful grandkids and they have a lovely life,don't ever go down that road,life can be good and you can have a great life!
@mitkoogrozev
@mitkoogrozev Жыл бұрын
Hm this matches with what I heard from a person who did a 'comprehensive' study on anything relating with the trans subject, one of which was finding papers that discovered that up to 25% of people captured by the trans ideas are autistic. And some trans affirming groups even try to 'reveal' that severely autistic people who are non-verbal, are supposedly 'transgender' , using some half assed non-verbal tests , which they interpret as the person agreeing to 'transitional' procedures...even though said non-verbal people probably lack the capacity to understand the crazy abstract concepts of trans ideology. So they are indeed targeting vulnerable people, even those that probably are unable to really consent or understand what's being done to them.
@user-ll9wh4jt2k
@user-ll9wh4jt2k Жыл бұрын
@mitkoogrozev actually the figure for the Tavistock clinic who mutilated girls was 70% were autistic.
@johnbrown4568
@johnbrown4568 Жыл бұрын
Benjamin continues to produce outstanding podcasts. Thank you sir…
@877swissmiss
@877swissmiss Жыл бұрын
Yes that was really interesting! Austin confirmed a lot I suspected but never heard first hand. No trans‘d man who had trans‘d young and now is 40+ has ever told me that he still liked his trans‘d body. None. And I know a few here in Switzerland. They all say they imagined sth very different and that they now think it was never about changing the body to feel ok, that it was sth internal and healing would have required internal work, nothing external. ( They are all homosexual men though and trans‘d young. Don‘t know how AGP‘s exactly look at it years after trans‘ing)
@Gingerblaze
@Gingerblaze Жыл бұрын
@@877swissmiss there is a good doc where two trans mtf elderly men, who have detransed in elder age have a discussion about their different experiences. One decided to detrans and have a reconstruction done and dressed very stereotypically masculine. The other remained flamboyantly masculine but somewhat androgenous in his presentation. It was very interesting to hear their different experiences.
@877swissmiss
@877swissmiss Жыл бұрын
@@Gingerblaze Do you remember the name of this doc?
@GK-fd3dv
@GK-fd3dv Жыл бұрын
I first came across Austin on Shapeshifter‘s channel and have ever since been captivated by his wisdom, eloquence and his vast life experience. Every teenager/young adult considering transition should be required to listen to his story!! Can‘t for your KZfaq channel Austin😊👏🏼
@poonamsvideoblogs
@poonamsvideoblogs 10 ай бұрын
You must be a man.
@mushypeasplease8872
@mushypeasplease8872 Жыл бұрын
It's always a pleasure to watch an interviewer with such perceptive empathy bringing the best out of the interviewees. And letting them speak, giving them time and encouragement to tell their complicated and profound stories. This channel is an important trove of unparalleled psychosocial treasure.
@futurelegendfilms
@futurelegendfilms Жыл бұрын
Talk about telling it like it is! I found Austin’s story compelling. He’s been through so many dark places and surrounded by people who really weren’t looking after his best interests. Austin spoke with clarity and courage. You do great work Benjamin.
@khalid7377
@khalid7377 Жыл бұрын
Austin was an amazing guest and this is one of the best episodes you've put out.
@irenalovesart4064
@irenalovesart4064 Жыл бұрын
Hi I listened to this on Spotify but wanted to leave a comment so came here. This was absolutely astounding from start to finish. The history of this ideology, the life and pain of this person and their incredible resilience and composure. I was just absolutely riveted. Truly what a monumental oral history to be part of. I wish them all the very best.
@irenalovesart4064
@irenalovesart4064 9 ай бұрын
I'm still telling people the story of mitchfest. You could not make this stuff up!
@rickyatodaso7255
@rickyatodaso7255 Жыл бұрын
Austin's story of realizing many of these views are actually regressive parallels an experience I had about a decade ago. Back then, these ideas were becoming popular on Tumblr and were spilling into my local online anime community. I remember becoming increasingly annoyed at people throwing out the term "social construct". It seemed like a hand wavy way to dismiss anything and "win" the debate. They started saying gender and sex were a "social construct". I pointed out to them that they were making the same argument that the conservative Christians (which obviously they had great disdain for) had been making: that being homosexual was ultimately just a choice you could make. But it fell on deaf ears. Nobody really cared that they were undermining the last 50 years of acceptance because they had this cool new tool that they didn't understand but they could wield against anyone that disagreed with them. It's a scary time to be a parent a boy that likes the color pink, or a girl that likes race cars. There was a brief moment where we understood there was a middle ground. A place where kids that were outside the usual mold could still be accepted for who they were. And it was lost in the blink of an eye.
@MsMounen
@MsMounen Жыл бұрын
Well, Scotland has politically gone enthusiastically pro gender ideology, but the general population don't believe in it. I suspect it's the same across the west.
@suedavis1781
@suedavis1781 Жыл бұрын
Your comment is important. I was young during the 70s and between around 1974 and 1980, American culture: the music mostly, and a Carter presidency kind of opened the door to actual acceptance of being oneself in the body you were born with, of homosexuality and interracial dating/marriage. The pendulum swung hard right though when Reagan and muscular politics and hard core wall street financial speculation kicked in. After that, it seemed to me that whatever political and moral "capital" remained got smothered by what became the "me" culture, and it's been rough going ever since.
@ichraumauf5532
@ichraumauf5532 3 ай бұрын
Yeah, I always lived in this apparent delusion, that we kind of overcame sex stereotypes in the 80ies and that girls and boys can live the way they feels good about themselves, can love who they want and use their talents to go into a profession they really love. I also see, that people seemed to have completely forgotten history and don’t actually look at the physical results of their ideology: sterilised, mutilated kids. There is no way of thinking, that would make that okay under any circumstances. Even kids with cancer are treated better. Considering it is mostly kids with autism, kids who have been SAed and homosexual kids that are captured by this narrative, I feel like this is not accidental. What a nightmare, will we ever learn?
@Millennialwell
@Millennialwell Жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing about losing your mom. That must have been so tough at such a young age.
@radubradu
@radubradu Жыл бұрын
This episode was so long and I don't usually last more than 10 minutes, but this really caught my attention throughout. Austin has the quality of actualy being honest to himself and others. I see so many trans content creators being in complete denial about reality and lying to themselves. Of course I can be accepting and supportive of someone who has gone through so much. But don't expect me to support people who are in denial about what human sex is, who want to push this on children.
@demonic.lionfish
@demonic.lionfish Жыл бұрын
I'm not trans and have never been a part of the gender cult (gold star terf) but I heard so much of myself at so many parts of this interview. Austin is really walking the walk when it comes to being a true Christian. I feel like literally everyone can learn something valuable from hearing him talk.
@ramonarickettez
@ramonarickettez Жыл бұрын
Gold star TERF 😂 Good one, Sis.
@albin2232
@albin2232 11 ай бұрын
The most vile, abusive, and genuinely evil people I have ever met have all been churchgoing Christians.
@johnnypt14
@johnnypt14 Жыл бұрын
I can't be the only one seeing a Christian Bale resemblance, right?
@ciobalina7445
@ciobalina7445 Жыл бұрын
I see it too.
@scarba
@scarba Жыл бұрын
There should be a book with a collection of detransitioners life stories. I’m sure some common themes would emerge.
@jes6427
@jes6427 Жыл бұрын
Fir girls its autism, and PCOS that seem to be the SUPER recurrent theme
@mommak8342
@mommak8342 Жыл бұрын
@@jes6427and as Austin just said childhood sexual abuse.
@ilfautdanser9121
@ilfautdanser9121 Жыл бұрын
trauma will be the running theme
@donnaknudson7296
@donnaknudson7296 Жыл бұрын
​@@amaryllisequistraIt's not necessarily just Christianity that can be homophobic. I think any of the major religions are that way as well, often even more so. And for at least two decades the Western world has been accepting of feminine boys and masculine girls. People keep being told that that's not the case, almost like a broken record, but if you actually pay attention in your daily life, for the most part it's not that way anymore.
@Gingerblaze
@Gingerblaze Жыл бұрын
There are over 55,000 of them on detrans reddit.
@giantspida
@giantspida Жыл бұрын
This was an exceptionally good episode! I listen to these in the car and was actually looking forward to my long car rides today just so I could finish it. Austin seems very sweet and insightful, glad he was willing to share and hope he's doing well.
@galacticusX
@galacticusX Жыл бұрын
Thank you Ben for hosting this person.
@MsMounen
@MsMounen Жыл бұрын
That was great. I'm really glad I tuned into this one. When Austin talked about his beliefs about God I felt a strong warmth, like some sort of warm air hug. I've never felt that before when listening to people talking about God.
@normanshadow1
@normanshadow1 Жыл бұрын
I believe that's the Holy Spirit! I feel that at my (Christian) friends sometimes , a wave of warm love
@thewhisperedword2222
@thewhisperedword2222 Жыл бұрын
That’s the presence of your creator ❤️ He loves you and is constantly holding His arms out to us, calling for us to come to Him and get to know Him. The gospel says that Jesus was God incarnate on the Earth, and that humanity is in a state of spiritual debt because of our sin (rebellion against the will of God). Because of the way the spiritual laws work, the wages of sin is death. Not because God hates us or He’s evil and mean, but because He’s actually completely pure and holy, and in Him there is no evil or corruption or malice. In order for us to understand this it requires brutal honesty with ourselves. The bible says that once you’ve broken one part of the law, you’re guilty of breaking the whole of the law. It also teaches that every single human except Jesus has broken the law and is too spiritually poor to repay the debt themselves. In other words, we are slaves to our sin and can’t help but continue down that path without the intervention of God. What Jesus did was this: He knew that we couldn’t afford to pay the penalty of our sins and He loves us so much that He didn’t want us to suffer the spiritual consequences of our own actions (death) because He created us to be His kids and He doesn’t want us to be estranged from Him. So Jesus came (fully human and fully God - physically weak in all the same ways we are and yet spiritually perfect) and lived His whole life without ever breaking the laws and commandments of God. Even though His message was always one which offered forgiveness and love for all those that came to Him, His own people turned on Him and delivered Him up to the Romans to be brutally beaten, abused, and murdered by hanging on the cross. This was all God’s plan from the beginning, and it was prophesied thousands of years before it happened. Jesus hung on that cross and died in order to pay the penalty of sin for all of humanity, so that when we come to Him and recognize our need for Him (we recognize our own evil and corruption and recognize God’s goodness) He gladly takes our place in the courtroom of Heaven. In doing this, our debt is paid in full, and we are seen as pure and spotless in the eyes of God, and we are spiritually born again so that we can be unified with the presence of God forever, both here on the Earth and then forever after that. It’s true that God is a judge - and that is sobering. He has to be in order to consistently stand for what is good and true. But what people often don’t realize is that He is also the lawyer who pleads our case and then serves our sentence in our place. Jesus did not come to condemn the world, but to save and heal the world. I was raised as an atheist and I still remember the first time I met God and realized who He was. He saved my life. Because of that, I know that the Judge will always be in my favour, so I am able to come into the courtroom of Heaven with boldness and reassurance, because that judge is also my father and closest friend. He offers this to all of us and allows us to make the choice for ourselves. ❤️
@susieedminster3822
@susieedminster3822 Жыл бұрын
Austin, your story has transformed my thinking like no one else's! I respect you so much and hope that the Lord will send you more friends and people to journey life with. If I could I would give you the biggest hug!! God bless you... we are all on this wild journey called life.
@jak9483
@jak9483 4 ай бұрын
I feel so blessed to have watched this video today. When the Holy Spirit speaks it is clearly obvious. Austin has found his purpose, no more searching. I've had a similar life growing up in England but I am a straight Woman. I was saved at thirty and shortly after I moved to the States. I am sixty six years old now and Austin has given me the fuel of the Spirit. You are so blessed, thank you for sharing, we were born in these times for a reason. Thank you and God bless you.
@henningeide8355
@henningeide8355 Жыл бұрын
Great interview. I think Austin was thinking about the Thomas Sowell quote; "When people get used to preferential treatment, equal treatment seems like discrimination."
@AustinUnbridled
@AustinUnbridled Жыл бұрын
Yes! This is the quote I was thinking of! I listen to so many JP inspo it’s hard to keep track of what he says or what I read elsewhere! Thank u!
@henningeide8355
@henningeide8355 Жыл бұрын
@@AustinUnbridled Cheers! :)
@susieedminster3822
@susieedminster3822 Жыл бұрын
Amazing guest! At around 1:46:00 it changed gears. Powerful ideas. Who is allowed to question? Austin, you are so awsome. I wish you the best as you search for Jesus and find meaning and purpose just like all the rest of us. May God bless you!! If you were my neighbor, I would seek you out as a friend! Hugs to you!!
@barrykochverts4149
@barrykochverts4149 Жыл бұрын
A telling statement is, "I always thought something was wrong with me." Perhaps that's where it starts. An obsession with who you are based on normative observations. "I like dolls-- therefore, I must be a girl." Crucially, no adult is there to disassociate one concept from the other for you.
@freedomnun
@freedomnun Жыл бұрын
Austin YOU ARE INCREDIBLE!!!! Your spiritual perspective and willingness to learn and grow in relationship to spirit despite ( and because of ) all you have been through!!! Your forgiveness efforts are so divine and your willingness to see yourself as more then just your body....as having purpose and value in the story of your body but knowing that you are more then just this life and this body. Thank you so much!!! Honestly I learn more from these detrans brave angels ( thank you Boyce for giving them a platform!) then I have from most of my spiritual teachers combined. So much learning and connection from their authenticity and bravery.
@anlaugschreinerberge4588
@anlaugschreinerberge4588 Жыл бұрын
Amazing guest! 🙂 Very likeable, and intruging to listen to. I love listening to almost all your interwies. Its your calm way and gifts as a compassonate still sharp interviwer. I could listen for years! 🙂 And, its obviosly such important work! I want all of this stories out! I wish life to be so much fairer and nicer to all this youth, horrible sacrificed by the big agenda, and abused in so many ways. Lots of strong souls and stories. I just wanted to leave this short comment to say how much I appricate your channel and your wonderfull work! This guest really hit a note in me too - such a good person, and i wish all the best from now! Love from Norway. 🙂
@gp3613
@gp3613 Жыл бұрын
Oh I loved this conversation! Austin you are a beautiful man, inside and out. Thank you for sharing so generously and I hope your life continues to blossom into an ever deepening richness of love, light and laughter x
@florenceellis214
@florenceellis214 Жыл бұрын
I have enjoyed and learned from many many interviews of yours. This was one of the best❤
@stefaniemoses1768
@stefaniemoses1768 Жыл бұрын
I really like Austin. Thank you for sharing your life experiences with us ❤️
@ciobalina7445
@ciobalina7445 Жыл бұрын
This is what happens when you live in a bubble. The problem is she (or he? I'm not sure how to address) lived in a context full mostly of trans people and people who believed/affirmed/pushed this. When your whole life revolves only around this issue and all you hear about is the question if you did the surgery or not, that becomes your main focus in life. But there is so much more to live for. Unfortunately, I think a lot of people are delusional about this issue. I don't see how anatomatically a true orgasm can really happen after the surgery. With penises, orgasming happens when you can ejaculate. I don't see how you can orgasm without your genitals being completely ok in order for ejaculation to happen. It's clear that was a lie and I feel so bad for people who did this surgery because so many were young and uninformed when they did it.
@MsColl90
@MsColl90 Жыл бұрын
You seem to think only men orgasm. Women don’t ejaculate, but they do orgasm. Try stepping outside your own bubble.
@donnaknudson7296
@donnaknudson7296 Жыл бұрын
I know. I once heard a gay guy I know say that being gay was everything he was and everything he was about. I wanted to tell him that there was so much more to him than that, that being gay was something *about* him but that it wasn't *him*.
@non_ideological_transexual7414
@non_ideological_transexual7414 Жыл бұрын
Everyone i know transitioned to fit better , relieve gender dysphoria & blend into society ,the heterosexual normality......just live our live like anyone else then. Why Why would you hang out in the LGB/LGBTQ+IA... ?
@Asptuber
@Asptuber 11 ай бұрын
Just a quick note re. orgasms: males can orgasm without ejaculating. A prostatectomy will kill the ability to ejaculate, but not to orgasm. I don't remember the stats anymore (and things have probably changed since I looked this up in detail, 15-ish years ago), but prostate cancer surgery doesn't necessarily mean impotence (or incontinence). Though some nerve damage often does occur, so Viagra or similar is more or less routinely prescribed if the patient wants it.
@donnaknudson7296
@donnaknudson7296 11 ай бұрын
@@Asptuber Yes, but that's assuming you have a real penis to work with. Trans males don't.
@Knuck_Knucks
@Knuck_Knucks Жыл бұрын
Wow. Sorry for all the loss. 🐿
@daughter_of_earth
@daughter_of_earth Жыл бұрын
He wanted a "normal" life, but then, after listening to only half of the video, my head was spinning. It all seemed rather complicated.
@scapps8173
@scapps8173 Жыл бұрын
Well, you made it longer than me. 5 min is all I can deal with. If I can't figure out what you are I am giving up. I can't take this seriously.
@Florida_Woman
@Florida_Woman Жыл бұрын
I’ve watched all of your videos, but this might be my favorite. Super interesting. I kept thinking that I wished Austin was my neighbor so we could talk every day. Haha I loved this! ❤️
@alexgibson8999
@alexgibson8999 Жыл бұрын
Wow, just incredible life story including key moments in the social story of this movement. All good wishes to you Austin. And well done again Benjamin, kudos.
@karicoleman3548
@karicoleman3548 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. Yours is a very important story. I loved the definitions of grace and mercy.
@calmon-ground962
@calmon-ground962 Жыл бұрын
Austin is a delight. I wish him well and am thankful for what he has shared about his experience. Yet another layer of nuance, I said, sipping nuance from my Boyce of Reason mug..🙂
@Jazzinger
@Jazzinger Жыл бұрын
vividly informative from a very refreshing real life developing-human perspective. Many thanks 🥰
@carolynbrightfield8911
@carolynbrightfield8911 10 ай бұрын
As a teacher, I taught chidren who struggled with their physical health all their lives. Cerebral palsy, epilepsy, quadraplegia, endless. All intelligent. All thwarted. And at 53, I lost my physical health. Conveyor belt of operations, recovery, and pharmaceuticals to stay alive. My intelligence and full potential thwarted. This trans indulgence in chemicals and operations is beyond me. By all means, dress and lifestyle etc how you want. But destroy your natural healthy body that you were privileged to be born with for a mental issue ... poor health will come to you soon enough.
@azsunburns
@azsunburns 10 ай бұрын
The narcissistic privilege mindset of the gender movement is dumbfounding
@lilja4ever261
@lilja4ever261 Жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed this one! The detransition stories have another big element for me: I'm really interested in peoples life stories and their experiences. And Austin certainly has lived a different kind of life! I also enjoyed his way of thinking: very uncomplicated, based and deep. And by the way Benjamin, I'm loving your new background!
@ravencole8727
@ravencole8727 Жыл бұрын
Tho' much is taken, much abides; and tho' We are not now that strength which in old days Moved heaven and earth, that which we are, we are; One equal temper of heroic hearts, Made weak by time and fate, but strong in will To strive, to seek, to find, and not to yield. And, as I can't say anything as eloquent as Tennyson, I will only add that your heart has shown itself to be heroic indeed, and hope you remember this on the days it weighs a little heavy in your chest, Austin ❤🙏
@dawnoliver2015
@dawnoliver2015 11 ай бұрын
Such a dear lovely person. Its heartbreaking that kids have to go through this real pain.
@Hidinginyourcupboard
@Hidinginyourcupboard Жыл бұрын
Such an interesting story and life. Fascinating themes and history of changing culture. Thanks for sharing!
@drewid0847
@drewid0847 10 ай бұрын
Such a great interview! Austin's story is very compelling and I appreciate the perspective
@uteruspower1862
@uteruspower1862 Жыл бұрын
Excellent interview. I too was around the Olympia indie punk scene during the late 90's and early 2000's when the trans/queer thing was really taking off. It was all females who were transitioning, I don't remember a single man doing so. And then later when I had separated myself from that community the men I heard who had transitioned were all straight guys.
@normanshadow1
@normanshadow1 Жыл бұрын
Great guest and sounds like he has a great future. God bless
@maverickspirit208
@maverickspirit208 Жыл бұрын
This is a war between good and evil. Glad to have Austin on God's side.
@charlesdaubner1017
@charlesdaubner1017 Жыл бұрын
This is a very interesting interview, in many ways. (Reminded how curtly I set aside my Catholic upbringing, as if it had no impact on me) Thank you.
@grandmamma
@grandmamma Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. It's wonderful to see God working in your life. Best wishes!
@savvygood
@savvygood Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your story.
@adachapman8091
@adachapman8091 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Austin for being so thoughtful and vulnerable
@FirstNameLastName-fj5lw
@FirstNameLastName-fj5lw 11 ай бұрын
Thank you Benjamin 🙏and Austin.
@adambathon
@adambathon Жыл бұрын
Amazing story. Very strong individual!
@hoopoe9629
@hoopoe9629 Жыл бұрын
Wow. The part about wanting to join a cult reminds me of the first transman to have the surgery
@phyllislovelace8151
@phyllislovelace8151 11 ай бұрын
Amazing life story, thank you to both
@natalievu4399
@natalievu4399 Жыл бұрын
When she talked about the religious art teacher, saying the art was "Darksided" I had to LOL Does anyone remember the Wife Swap episode with that crazy Bible thumper?! If not, look it up! #Doooarkseyyydett😂
@putinstea
@putinstea Жыл бұрын
What a life. Powerful interview. God bless him (is it him now? I don't follow socials)
@daheikkinen
@daheikkinen Жыл бұрын
There is such a wide variety of life experiences out there. I can’t imagine having lived this person’s life, but it was interesting to hear about it. Which is more or less what I use KZfaq for, as an introvert.
@dreimalnein22
@dreimalnein22 Жыл бұрын
1:37:51 thank you for being open and explicit about it! Thank you thank you thank you.
@slippersmomma
@slippersmomma Жыл бұрын
Surgeons are cutters not talkers.
@kingclover1395
@kingclover1395 7 ай бұрын
One thing I sure agree with that they said is that the so-called "queer community" is very judgemental and very insincere and very dishonest. Even though I'm gay I never felt comfortable in that world and I always preferred to surround myself with people in mainstream society like my family and all my old friends and just normal everyday people, because they've always treated me better and I can have more trusting relationships with them. Plus I just have kind of mainstream tastes and opinions anyway. Actually I find that the whole Leftist, Woke counterculture to be very unpleasant and very artificial and hypocritical. And I'm always glad to hear somebody else say so.
@ansleysproull5637
@ansleysproull5637 Жыл бұрын
He and I are about the same age and lived in Savannah at the same time and probably ran in similar circles, went to the same club shows and whatnot. Good times. Great guest!
@achipinthesugar
@achipinthesugar Жыл бұрын
Looking so much like Christian Bale.
@bad-girlbex3791
@bad-girlbex3791 Жыл бұрын
Every time I see the term "Prodigal" anywhere, I immediately wonder if it's being used in the correct context. In this situation I think it probably does work, both from the perspective of its original meaning, and the culturally adopted misnomer that has now become an accepted bastardisation (transition?) in common parlance. Both a waste of time/energy/money, and a hopeful return to the individual's real self? Funny how words work out sometimes. I shall have to watch this all the way through to see which meaning seems the most apt. ETA Having just watched this entire episode, I'm just continually blown away with the things I am constantly learning from so many of your 'Calversations'. The low-key, conversational approach really gets your guests to open up more than they probably would in more hostile interrogative interviews. There was a lot to take in listening to Austin's story. So much emotional, psychological damage, sexual abuse, trauma, an now being made into a perpetual customer/patient of BigPharma, that he still maintains a sense of humour, a desire to be creative and a need to help others who are going through/have been through he same wringer, with similar underlying issues. Austin obviously has a lot of love in his heart. He really hopes her receives that love from someone. I'm not gonna lie, the unusual haircut and the piercings did have be prejudging him. But what came across was yet another story where there is either autism or SA in an individuals past. There are no rational, reasonable, emotionally stable and happy people, out there opting to mutilate their bodies. The declaration of one's belief in their being able to change what sex they outwardly present, is a lie. A cruel, sadistic ploy to create more 'Queer' individuals because to be queer is to be in a state of flux, which in turn prepares them for manipulation by whomever it is that gets to decide how best to destroy any happiness in the people involved. All to create further division. I was especially touched by the impromptu commune that sprang up out of a rejection of state mandated BS. It sounds like there were a lot of right-wind libertarians out there in this little organically amassed group of people. It sounds like Austin has found more compassion, acceptance and common ground with all the liberty loving folk who just want to be left alone - as opposed to how the "Queer" tribe was more of a mean-girls clique. I hope that Austin continues to work at helping put an end to this transitioning of ids. His story needs to get out and your channel, Benjamin, was the perfect area for this discussion. Thank you both of you for having this 'Calmversation' - I for one really appreciate it. Love to you both, Bex
@billmartins5545
@billmartins5545 Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for sharing. Very insightful. I love the haircut, the micro bangs ❤️.
@soniaess28
@soniaess28 Жыл бұрын
Worst mullet ever!
@beverlyfleming6352
@beverlyfleming6352 11 ай бұрын
Yes life is hard, don’t make it harder on yourself.
@nataanda2486
@nataanda2486 11 ай бұрын
Super interesting story
@Liisa3139
@Liisa3139 Жыл бұрын
Awww, what a cute boy he was. Had a flash of motherly feelings immediately. 32:23
@jacoballen2812
@jacoballen2812 11 ай бұрын
handsome, sad : (
@albertwong4516
@albertwong4516 Жыл бұрын
It's very sad because the majority of these people just need a genuine human, loving hug. They are so confused, ill and alone.
@MaraJadeTX
@MaraJadeTX Жыл бұрын
#MenToo. SA is SA no matter the sex of the survivor. We need to support each other and fully acknowledge the suffering of boys and men. Both the damage of "toxic masculinity" (though a hate that term) and "toxic feminism." Higher suicide. Failing in school. Shamed for their masculine tendencies. Told that they are intrinsically evil. Men may statistically commit the most violence, but we can't let generalities keep us from seeing the suffering individual person in front of us.
@UteHeggenTranswidowHeals
@UteHeggenTranswidowHeals 11 ай бұрын
This dude looks so much like my cross-sex ideating ex-husband, Neddy, that it's uncanny. I only lasted 7 minutes.
@dollylove3430
@dollylove3430 Жыл бұрын
💕
@sanaswe5659
@sanaswe5659 11 ай бұрын
Poor Benjamin. At one point, it looked like his head was going to explode.
@rickyretardo8488
@rickyretardo8488 11 ай бұрын
The level of mental illness can directly be attributed to how high a girl cuts her bangs.
@helenablavatsky9136
@helenablavatsky9136 Жыл бұрын
Let's all get a drink together.
@anonymousa-uy1hk
@anonymousa-uy1hk Жыл бұрын
I’m not really sure how the men he had sexual contact with didn’t know he was a man. Based off of the picture he showed, I don’t quite think that he passed. It was, however, an interesting interview and he was really candid about many of the things that the trans community frequently mislead us about. Especially the sex reassignment surgery. I’m glad he’s doing a lot better and I hope things continue to improve for him.
@GordieGii
@GordieGii 9 ай бұрын
"The idea of Trans is kind of slippery." Trans is at least four different things. The meme version is this: Transvestites like to play dress-up. Transsexuals want to fit in as the opposite gender. Transgender folk want attention. Trans activists want power. Some people consider non-binary trans (transgenders, trans activists) and some transsexuals don't.
@RHatcherMD
@RHatcherMD Ай бұрын
Five of my female cousins got sex changes after playing with one Lego. And my brother is now a woman, after he picked up a doll by mistake. My mom has had so much plastic surgery, she permanently looks like a slutty clown. We got a little carried away a family, a little while back. Still, we are all pretty much happy, and try not to bother each other too much. We all get together on special occasions. It is less awkward than you might think.
@optimismrules2512
@optimismrules2512 Жыл бұрын
This was a very interesting one to hear. I'm a little confused about the ministry part being the answer but it sounds like there is an audience. The entirety of Christians aren't found within the Catholic church though...so while I agree that it is extremely bad for churches to protect ANY pedos at all, it is also wrong to make a new religion and related to Jesus (maybe that isn't what he is doing). I wish him well.
@KathrynPea
@KathrynPea Жыл бұрын
This made me remember (just the thumbnail) the Canadian Indian guy that was going to use their MAiD program. From memory he had 90 days?? Does anyone know if he went through with it?
@Bonobo3D
@Bonobo3D Жыл бұрын
Duchess Lois is still alive and posts on Twitter.
@soniaess28
@soniaess28 Жыл бұрын
His application was rejected.
@KathrynPea
@KathrynPea 11 ай бұрын
@@Bonobo3D thank you.
@KathrynPea
@KathrynPea 11 ай бұрын
@@soniaess28 many thanks.
@ramonarickettez
@ramonarickettez Жыл бұрын
I’d love to hear Austin speak with Isaiah Saldivar.
@DorianPaige00
@DorianPaige00 Жыл бұрын
I went to that Dr. in Southfield, MI and had no complications. He definitely is an early riser. He let me pick what I wanted to listen to and I even asked for a mirror to watch the surgery.
@soniaess28
@soniaess28 Жыл бұрын
You've been duped.
@DorianPaige00
@DorianPaige00 Жыл бұрын
@@soniaess28 I got my orchiectomy and am the better for it 10 years later.
@davidsprouse151
@davidsprouse151 11 ай бұрын
Is magical thinking bad? Benjamin gives me Zach vibes from "a chorus line"
@ninakamenic3679
@ninakamenic3679 Жыл бұрын
Oh my god, he was such a handsome young man. What a shame, these doctors are monsters 😢
@annarboriter
@annarboriter Жыл бұрын
Be healed in Jesus! I cannot cease seeing this example detransition and others as exchanging one set of cultish behaviors and signalling for yet another (albeit with fewer hormones) cultish assembly. We are a social species with good and bad effects on ourselves
@Mudskippered
@Mudskippered Жыл бұрын
Tragic, yet hopeful. 🙏 7:50 - those 'adults' lied to you
@maverickspirit208
@maverickspirit208 Жыл бұрын
A lot of the sugar daddy talk could have been reduced greatly, and true biological language would have been preferred over the make-believe pronouns, but I understand that those Austin is trying to reach use the warped language. I enjoyed this interview. I am praying for the wonderful things that God has instore for Austin now that he is finally embarking on his true life path! The retreat for those who are confused and lost is needed so badly. I sure hope to hear a lot more from Austin in the future!
@AustinUnbridled
@AustinUnbridled 11 ай бұрын
Hey thanks for the feedback. I spoke about the daddies at length because every trans ID Male I know has them. It seems like part of whole process for us. I don’t think most young people understand the emotional toll that sex work has on us until it’s too late. Many of us have no positive roll models that are accepting of us, until the daddies start sniffing around for their own consumption. We get enraptured into it and affirmed by our tribe that it’s normal. So that’s why I try to talk about them, since the internet has basically made anyone who wants to, become a prostitute whether it’s in-person escorting or only fans, the digital and reality realms are so blurred these days for young people. Thank u and God bless you also❤
@infinitestare
@infinitestare Жыл бұрын
honestly still shocked to see ppl like that exist that pass so well
@pathacker4963
@pathacker4963 Жыл бұрын
Pass as what?
@infinitestare
@infinitestare Жыл бұрын
@@pathacker4963 as the opposite sex
@hoopoe9629
@hoopoe9629 Жыл бұрын
Omg
@miroirs-jumeaux
@miroirs-jumeaux Жыл бұрын
😮
@poonamsvideoblogs
@poonamsvideoblogs Жыл бұрын
This MAN repulses me. Talk about arrested development and entitlement. FTS.
@AustinUnbridled
@AustinUnbridled 11 ай бұрын
Ok thank you. I look forward to you being invited onto Benjamin’s platform to share your own life story and air out your own dirty laundry. may God bless you 🤍
@basass101
@basass101 Жыл бұрын
depakote zombified me and led to my early emancipation.
@carolwolf9614
@carolwolf9614 Жыл бұрын
God, this is harrowing :(
@sincerityissacred5101
@sincerityissacred5101 Жыл бұрын
"internalized trans misogyny" Whoah, that's a lot to unpack.
@Leepal1969
@Leepal1969 Жыл бұрын
It's a new one.
@sincerityissacred5101
@sincerityissacred5101 Жыл бұрын
New to me anyway!
@soniaess28
@soniaess28 Жыл бұрын
​@@sincerityissacred5101it doesn't exist. "Trans misogyny" should describe sexism and women hatred directed towards women who impersonate men.
@sincerityissacred5101
@sincerityissacred5101 Жыл бұрын
@@soniaess28 apparently it's being used to mean "hatred toward the woman that could be if you weren't actually a man" ?
@carolynbrightfield8911
@carolynbrightfield8911 10 ай бұрын
Trans mysogny ? The hatred that "men who think they can become actual women" have towards women, who were born women. Just my opinion, but theirs is potentially the biggest male hatred group towards women. They have such little respect for the history of the suppression of women (only freed by the Pill) the health issues associated with our sex (menstrual problems, fertility, childbirth risks, menopause etc) that think they can become actual women. No respect for actual women. (And ditto in reverse for the trans misandrygists.)
@sharonc9259
@sharonc9259 Жыл бұрын
What about the three pennies?
@lucienjohnbajada4110
@lucienjohnbajada4110 Жыл бұрын
Why would you just have your testicles removed, if your penis is still there how does that help gender dysphoria? I assume it’s to stop testosterone production ?
@avenaneumann5481
@avenaneumann5481 Жыл бұрын
For almost a year I have been watching Benjamin s show. I wonder if he ever gets tired of the topic. It is mostly "I, I, I, I talk". I also wonder if trans and detrans people have other hobbies, work, if they take care of someone in their families (not having kids themselves to take care of) or is it mainly self-reflections and thinking about oneself´s feelings. This comment is not meant to offend anyone, I am just curious about this - to me unknown - world.
@AustinUnbridled
@AustinUnbridled Жыл бұрын
Hi there! Yes I do have a productive life in society. I spend a lot of my time reading, journalling and reading/studying the Bible. For most of my life I just lived it, I didn’t put it on the internet for mass consumption. however, Please remember u are listening to a podcast in which Benjamin has given me an opportunity to share my life experience so that is going to be “I/me focused” I’m really glad BB gives detrans people this opportunity because as I said in the podcast my own “community” has attempted to stifle and silence all dissenting opinion. I have 15 year olds on the internet from the safety of their parents houses telling me I have no right to speak for trans people and that I need to stay quiet because I’m in the minority. And here I am, thinking that “I thought y’all were trying to lift marginalized voices” I guess only when they are shilling for big gov/big pharma 😢
@soniaess28
@soniaess28 Жыл бұрын
So, so many narcissists
@avenaneumann5481
@avenaneumann5481 Жыл бұрын
@@AustinUnbridled Reading and journalling and studying the Bible / these are no contributions to the world/society. I meant mainly work, contribution.
@carolynbrightfield8911
@carolynbrightfield8911 10 ай бұрын
​@avenaneumann5481 like looking after another human being (child, disabled, patient, even retail clients, service industry) or animal (outside home) or even plants (plant nursery, farm, crop). I became associated with a number of trans people until covid & this exponential growth in trans. Often still lived with parents & parents still looked after them, usually unemployed /studying or worked from home, all had childhood trauma. None seemed to accept that Australian society had moved on from the 1970s when homosexuality was illegal & gay marriage legalised 2017 following majority vote! It seems it's more they don't accept their homosexuality rather than others/society not accepting it. They also don't seem to realise that most people find they are only truly accepted by a very small circle of people (friends & relatives). I have friends who have 4 or 5 close friends at best, many rejected by their own son or daughter. Life is tough.
@AustinUnbridled
@AustinUnbridled 9 ай бұрын
@@avenaneumann5481 I support myself by buying and selling vintage clothing, doing gigs, warehouse, festival, trade show work. I don’t know if that’s good enough for you to be considered “productive to society” but it pays my bills and puts food on my table.
@katiemiaana
@katiemiaana Жыл бұрын
The High Street Musical soundtrack in the surgery room? Jesus not you both but the US is weird as fuck sometimes.
@soniaess28
@soniaess28 Жыл бұрын
At no point should any man be permitted into women's spaces. Do men ever consider the harm they do to women?
@vidamariaixchel4962
@vidamariaixchel4962 Жыл бұрын
No
@carolynbrightfield8911
@carolynbrightfield8911 10 ай бұрын
And to be honest men deserve their own tribal spaces. Not all men used men's clubs etc for plotting against women. Male spaces were used for bonding, support, etc - think indigenous tribes drumming, sweat lodges etc. Each sex needs its own space.
@soniaess28
@soniaess28 Ай бұрын
​@@carolynbrightfield8911the only men's spaces that women object to are those where men wield power. Stop pretending otherwise.
@pathacker4963
@pathacker4963 Жыл бұрын
Does the nose ring help?
@miroirs-jumeaux
@miroirs-jumeaux Жыл бұрын
Did you know Benjamin's got an audio version of the podcast on Spotify?
@margaretqueenofscots9450
@margaretqueenofscots9450 Жыл бұрын
Lol, this farm girl can’t unsee those in the nose of a bull 😅WHY would you possibly do that??🤮
@tarantulasarecool
@tarantulasarecool Жыл бұрын
@@margaretqueenofscots9450totally absolutely agree!!! It’s not classy at all! Lol
@tarantulasarecool
@tarantulasarecool Жыл бұрын
Lol!
@AncientRylanor69
@AncientRylanor69 Жыл бұрын
uhi
@AncientRylanor69
@AncientRylanor69 Жыл бұрын
Aud
@soniaess28
@soniaess28 Жыл бұрын
BS that he ever passed.
@radubradu
@radubradu Жыл бұрын
Is Benjamin gay?
@miroirs-jumeaux
@miroirs-jumeaux Жыл бұрын
So far he's said no. Keep an eye out for any update on it if you like, though. How do you feel about cat videos?
@baconsarny-geddon8298
@baconsarny-geddon8298 Жыл бұрын
I think he has a wife and kids (don't quote me on that). But I've got that vibe from him, at times, too.
@Gingerblaze
@Gingerblaze Жыл бұрын
@@baconsarny-geddon8298 what vibe makes someone appear homosexual? It seems being perceived as hetero masculine has a much narrower list of acceptable traits (vibes) than being perceived as hetro feminine.
@dawnharkness5389
@dawnharkness5389 Жыл бұрын
Empathy is one thing, delusion is another. I wouldn't trust this person's opinion on ANYTHING because it is so clear that he is still captured by Christian and trans idolatry. Right now, in my opinion, he is more a part of the problem than the solution.
@soniaess28
@soniaess28 Жыл бұрын
Agree
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