exactlyyy, so many girls are insecure but that's no reason to be horrible to people??

@@Alice-hm4hd exactly, there are plenty of nice people who are very insecure

I like to call it, weaponized insecurities. Just because you're dealing with shit in your own life doesn't give you the right to harass or abuse other folks, nor does it excuse it.

@@IgnisPhantasma Yeah I agree. If you think of it on a more extreme scale, you can’t just murder someone and say “Idid it because I have depression” it’s an excuse but it isn’t an acceptable one.

Some people are rude just to be rude, too. People don't have to have a reason to be mean to you.

Whenever weird “popular” people come up to me i just engage in conversation with them (but not like youd talk to a friend or anything, like a relative that saw you when you were this big lmao) and they get weirded out and leave. Basically all i have to do to scare them off is be myself :,)

Instead of being passive aggressive, just be aggressively passive. Don’t mess with me- I WILL forgive you and compliment you

Only in America

Works only if they have a conscience. Bullies usually don't really care about morals, so acting nice with them will not make them ashamed.

“Kill them with kindness”

Yup! I’m in the friend group and we don’t even hide it that we hate each other.

omg yeah theres like a huge group of those girls in my grade and literally they all hate each other. Theres always some drama going on between them, its like one big group but theres like 2 or 3 smaller groups in the big group.

And that group exists in the basis of pretty previllage

Yes!! YK being a part of a big grp of frnds is not real like it's just not possible for each one of them to like everyone from that grp and that dislike, leads to back bitching which is not good, so from the start it's good to have one real person, one true frnd by your side instead of a bunch of fakes!! Being part of a big grp of frnds doesn't mean they're always happy wd eachother and have fun, NO they don't!! It's just show offf!!

I’m a part of this group and yes it’s true there’s so much drama ad everyone hates each other and it just overall sucks. I wish I could get out of this friend group, but I don’t have any other friends so I’m kinda stuck and it’s better to have bad friends than no friends, at least for me.

Or actual revenge 😊

@@anastasiaokwuchi4035 If you take revenge then you're essentially not better then the person who wronged you in the first place🤷

@@crazyavocado7119 the point is not to be better, it's to be even 🙂.

@@anastasiaokwuchi4035nah, just let karma do its thing and then you don’t even have to feel bad.

@@Easton721 I wouldn't feel bad.

Same lol

🚽

Literally tho

Lol yep

That statement was so brutally accurate, im in one of those big groups, and inside it someone hates eachother, and its split into smaller groups within the big group cause of how much they argue

yup, the best advice 😩

exactly what I'm doing right now

That's the main #1 advice to follow by. Academically and socially.

TRUE

Yup

I'm sorry 20?? I can't even keep up with my 4 friends💀

I don't understand this one can you explain to me please?

Yeah what does peaking mean?

@@miss4862 being the best version of yourself or having the time of yourlife I still don't get how that's a good thing

Dumb players stay winning

People who are dumb: playing dumb? Wha does that mean?

name. surname. She’s saying that playing dumb is dumb , but that’s actually what the people playing dumb want, they want to look dumb so it’s a win for them

real talk man idk if youre in hs or not but this shit goes the best with this comment and i want people to see this advice: dont wait until the end of hs to get your gpa up. i fucked around for the first two years and had a 2.3 gpa i ended up needing an average of 3.7 over the next two years just to get a 3.0 for merit scholarships and if i didnt grind my ass off those last two years i probably wouldnt have gone college.

@@rosed1481 I just do it sometimes because it makes me feel like I’m funny lmao

Download onto your computer. Delete All photos on phone

@@bigman25plus25 That’s… why didn’t I think of that? I’m dumb, thank you

You’re doing it right.

Google photos saved me 😂 I could upload a few thousand pics to it and delete it from my photos app

She means like important memories, nostalgic moments, not like EVERYTHING

I have always been in that group and we don’t hate each other . I’m probably the least popular in the group and so people Always tell me what they think of other people . Besides these 2 girls that HATE each other it’s pretty good (we’re a group of 12)

ive been in one it's all fake , they hate each other but hang out together

If it's that big group that bonds over talking shit about other people, they're not real friends.

it‘s because they get really mad at each other for things that aren‘t that worth getting mad over because they‘re teenagers and instead of working it out, they just go hang out with someone else in the friend group. i was part of a bigger friend group in my final three years of school and the main reason we all hung out was to party. i was the most introverted person in the group and i didn‘t want beef and i never got into any but there were two instances of two people dating the ex of someone else shortly after breaking up and then there was just so much nonsense beef. i didn‘t really like half of the people but i was greatful to have people to hang out with but i also had my own, actually close friends who had nothing to do with that group and i felt way more comfortable there because we were all queer and the big friend group was theee other queer people and then 9 straight people

too true

I have been a class clown for a huge portion of my life. I realize that there is a difference between people loving you for your humor and people loving you as a friend. 😂

Yeah I was best friends with all the girls in the popular group throughout elementary school but I still had a friend group of three that I would hang out with when they were busy. Once we got to middle school, they dropped me and acted like it was nothing. I see most of them on a daily basis and they just act like they don’t see me.

Yep true

Speaking from experience too, they really hate each other and when i left the group they bullied me. Guess what? The group fell apart lmao

@@meaghanobrien7045 dang everything can change once you enter another grade

Yup i was like pretty young and I was friends with the "popular kids" and they obviously hated me they weren't good at hiding it. When we were all together they would literally go to another room and wouldn't let me go in the room i was like 8 like wtf now I'm not friends with them anymore

I was in what people call the “popular kids” circle with all the athletes and attractive girls. I didn’t play sports and I was decent looking, but I had no idea ended up there. In my experience most of the drama was between the girls. Us guys just stood by and watched hell break loose. Another thing I noticed is most girl are actually terrible at insulting each other lmao.

Same here! My class gets a long pretty well but there’s still those girls that aren’t really more popular than others in our class but are more active on social media. I heard one of them talk bad stuff about her new boyfriend to the group which in my opinion is messed up. But it’s her relationship, not mine

I’m in that “popular kid” friend group- we don’t *all* hate eachother, but there’s kids that we hate like- want to f*cking leave us alone- Theres so much drama in the group and it sounds fun and cool but I wish that I could go back in time and stay with my small friend group instead- I just have to stay in the big one because I’ll be completely forgotten about if it leave my friend group.

I can agree

In my class there’s a small group of ‘popular kids’ but as someone who’s friends with most of them , it’s definitely true. Most of them dislike at least one person in the group.

*infinite dabs

Bro I saw that off a high school quote video

Another high school tip Breathe air

@@unknownking2708 npc

oop- jumpscare

I'm sorry u struggled but what u said is a 💯% a fact. I was also bullied and what u said that's really true.

Yeah, i have a heavy irish accent and ginger hair, AND am a big fan of camogie, so obviously at my school im always made fun of for it, like, people. Like they are literally irish aswell???

I was at one point bullied for being tall. I was a “gentle giant” but one day, I wasn’t in the best mood and I set them straight and I let them have it. Not only weren’t expecting it, they left me alone for good. If it’s attention they want, give it to them. They say that violence doesn’t solve anything but I found that as long as you’re not the one who looks for trouble and you defend yourself from people like that, more people would respect you even some of the teachers. Just fight back (just don’t resort to using weapons) if that’s the only way they’ll leave you alone. The worst they can do to you is suspend you for a few days (depending upon how strict your school is) especially if you’re not the type of person who gets in trouble often.Then again, things were different in the late 90s to mid 2000s when I was in elementary school and High School.

A friend told me about her middle school bully, she knew the bully is an orphan so she just went on with the bully

my whole life i have been a bully and i have been bullied , and coming from experience most bully dont feel insecure about themselves , but they want people to look at them higher then they look at the other , yea bullies play kings which is fucked up and i am not proud of it

True, and when your quiet you find out that most of the popular people are fake, like I’ll be in one class were two people are acting like best friends and in another they will be like I hate her she is so annoying blah blah blah, it’s really entertaining actually because for some reason the talk so loud so you know all there business without even wanting to

since I'm a quiet person, I'll definitely keep this in mind when I start highchool next year

Yep. Same. Shutting up every once in a while can teach you a lot.

I'm a quiet kid and I thought knowing about all the stuff going on around you was normal, but I guess it isn't lol.

this literally described me people think I don't speak alot and think I'm not capable of doing much so now I'm workin on my grades and basketball also very close to getting my dream body and no one in school knows lol people do be underestimating "quite" kids

They got played

It’s not even about being smart. It’s about trying. The ppl who try really hard in school are going to go far in life. It’s a good habit to develop during HS.

The lazy ppl won’t go far in life. Lazy ppl suck. I hate lazy ppl.

But that was a good comeback.

@@donaldfromtiktok6424 not necessarily

She should be complimented that people think she's dumb enough to pay money for a boob job just to get a B cup? That's not a compliment at all.

I’m a sophomore and I don’t even use social media anymore.As far as taking pics it’s good, I take them for my memory not to impress others.

my ex friend makes fun of photos of me and my frens and if we have a small memory or pic of sum funny she did she’ll call me and my friend a pervert -

i'm 16 and almost has not even a single pic with anyone be it friends or anyone :(

When I was 12 I used to hate my body but now (18) when I look at my old photo I go like “damnnnn I look gooood👀”

I just hate my looks..😭 I wish I had better looks😭

No that's not how it works lmao yeah a lot of people have glow ups after high school but that doesn't mean that the attractive ones get uglier it's mostly genes babe

I always say this lol and it’s so true too 😂

Because they know they are ugly so that's why they change.

Idk plenty of us just are ugly forever tbh

@@icemeister2 your fault for not wanting to change

Ye your right. It says you have anger issues.

And it says you want a detention.

@@Dunno683 5 months and your the first person to reply to this Mad respect

And a suplex.

@@ViralMemesOnline facts

That’s was 10 years ago and probably some more. Right now it’s horrible to be in a big group (from my experience)

Tbh if you were from a big popular high school group and you cool guys are all hanging out making “memories” still, 1. You were never the popular group, 2. You and your group didn’t go very far in life, 3. Your “love each other” comment is very optimistic and you have not spoken to said friend group in YEARS and truly have no idea what any of them are up to but implying your still as close as the good ol days.

@@user-rb4lw4ef5hwell we were not popular,lol when I go my school these years as well every teacher recognise us and whenever we meet anyone from our school they gets happy and and introduce us to the ones they are with , and I am very much in contact with my all friends till now , we just celebrated our friend's birthday 3 days ago and where we are not successful, darling I and my 3 friends are chemistry professors, 3 of them are working as entrepreneur or the partners, 2 are government employees and the others are also doing well,so don't comment as if you know us, I just commented as to tell everyone that there are exceptions and if you chose better you will get relationships of life...and making memories doesn't mean you are wasting time you can enjoy and work hard simultaneously, we helped each other in each other's weak points and we got passed it that's friendship, just enjoying and just studying together are not good companies I guess , even to this day if someone needs help they know we are there to help ... materialistic or emotional I think I have said enough, maybe I was lucky or not many are lucky in this case...

@@blackcat33509 The person commented popular friend group (since that was what the video was talking about) and I’d still say the person was right. Those big POPULAR friend groups don’t really amount to anything and one’s always talking about another

@@blackcat33509 yeah hes talking about the popular friend group lmao. congrats on your disney fairy tale life but hes talking about something else entirely and you made it sound like you were on the same page, so dont slam others for your miscommunication

in in that big friend group and we're rlly not fake to the people who are actually in the friend group 😭 but I do know a friend group like that in a grade above me and I'm pretty sure they all pretty much hate each other and the funny thing is they told us that they think everyone in our friend group hates each other like no they just don't like the rest of my friends except me and another friend 😃

Yeah , I got to know about it being a part myself ,it sucks sometimes.

If you don't know who the "big friend group" is dose that mean your in it?

@@ItzDorky no

I wouldn't really consider myself to be in that "big popular group" but I'm in a friend group that's somewhat big, I don't really know a few of them since they came from my other friend, but the friends I'm close with are really genuine and kind, it's only been 2 months of school so things will change, but yeah everyone seems chill

This is so relatable.

Omg same now it's so fragmented that we hate even the sub groups rn. It's just too toxic rn I want to get out of this asap

godthiswastoomuchofmyfriendgroupsexperience

I’m glad to hear this ngl. I hate attention.

True high school is definitely not like a movie but I want to add one thing, that problems and drama that go down in school might seem so big at the time, but once you leave high school most of that stuff doesn’t matter, people go there different paths and get jobs there not going to be wrapped up in whatever drama or stuff happened in the past. So don’t stress over stuff to much

I just realized Is your pfp FROM LOKI?

@@Tyr626 yes

@@BatmanSwiss 🤩🤩🤩

Lol I'm not reading that

Thats great :)

i’m sorry this may just be me but what is peaking in hs i’m so confused

@@thegorgeousgamer9830 it means being your best version in hs like basically think of it like a downwards facing parabola graph. You are at the top at a point, and then it's downhill from there.

@@ManazYT ohhh okk thanks so much

💗👍😇

What do u mean by SOO SOO different? Like..in a good way or bad??

This is so true. I finished high school two years ago and I'm now in university. And i can attest to this. Everything that happened in high school doesnt matter now . The world is indeed much bigger than high school. The only thing that matters now is what you had intended to do after high school. ❤

Thank you man I’ll listen to this tip, upcoming freshmen in less than 3 weeks

That's what i was thinking through the whole video😍🔥

Boys noticed something else

@@7860092 🤢🤢🤮🤮 why did I see this comment poor girl can't even dress how she wants to I feel bad for her

Omg sameee

@@islamicknowledge9359 shat up.. she chose to wear this and guys see what girls make us see :)

I was in that group. Its really not

THIS

That's a primary school group, not a highschool one

@@Nanners_Art there's literally a group like that in my high school

YESSS WE LOVE LIL NAS X

@@tomato_salad6731 that’s Jack Harlow 💀

@@dani9004 i know that line from industry baby and my first thought was lil nas X

what is peaking

what is peaking

I have to take geometry next year in sophomore year

Is geometry math?

@@carmenuchennaokoye8593 yuh

@@carmenuchennaokoye8593 oh I I completely forgot that in the USA the school system is completely different from my country 😅 And yes geometry is math but you have at least 2 types of geometry: Descriptive Geometry and Analytic Geometry. In school when you study math, you have analitic Geometry (for example: ellipse, hyperbole, apex... Basically stuff with circles, another polygons and graphics). In Descriptive Geometry is more for the people that want to pursue Engineering and Architecture. You learn about planes, three dimensionality, projections, dihedrals... It's one of those subjects when you need to pay attention to everything and do a lot of exercises. It's more practical but you also have a lot of theory. Sorry if my English is incorrect, it's not my mother language. And I hope you understood something 😂

why not geometry? Im doing it right now and it seems good.

That's actually kinda funny lol

I feel her, as soon as she went to bed that night those moments and memories spiked her in the guts and she died tragically of cringe from what she did. 😭😭😭I relate 1000%

@@Tyr626 are u that girl?

@@Name-tn1zg no, I was just a bit like her (not to that extent, just similar. I wasn’t even aware of it too. I was pretty young) but I regret every bit of it

LMAOAOAOAOAOAOAOOAOA love u for this

Mine is a circle of elementary friends:>> (around 15 people) we are all still close!! Some are from 9 years ago, 7 years ago, and 5 years ago but OMG they left the school, our sections are all different, the programs and curriculums are different and we still all connect. 💐💜 that's why im always thankful for them, and YOU TOO!!! Be thankful to them.

Ur lucky i been alone all high school as i hve social anxiety

@@yishai720 this is true if their childhood but the ones that are loud and annoying deff have beef with each other

Same! Idk why people look at friends groups and assume we hate each other without even knowing what's going on inside it

bullshit

thats amazing

Our school was considered the ghetto school. When me and my boys got there we decided to expand our group. By our junior year our group of 5 turned into like 30. Our whole thing was just being cool with everyone and we succeeded. We turned that ghetto school into a united community for the most part.

Glad you came outta that environment. All the best in the future.👍

I went to a new school in September, I got into the big group, the toxicity level was abusive they literally all hate each other and bullied each other, I ended up just hating the fact I left genuine friends for this new school with these idiots. I ended up leaving the friend group and now I’m kinda lost.. basically I wouldn’t say I don’t have friends, I’m just looking for a way to have a peaceful non toxic day and if that means I am forced to not have friends then sure

@@Inevitably_Gaming don't worry you will find really best people now.👍

@@Inevitably_Gaming Yess, you have to be like that, just stay away from toxicity. Feeling lost is understandable, I've been through that phase myself after leaving that grp, even tho they were toxic and I have many other friends they were my main friends I isolated myself for some time but trust me there are lots of good, genuine and non-toxic people out there, maybe they're not famous but personality matters more than popularity or anything. You won't have to stay alone, look out for the right people !

Yeah I’m a sophomore

Another one: nice girls are nice to you to boost their ego, they couldn’t give a shit about you or how your day has been lmao, also NEVER DATE OTHER YEARS! Maybe a year difference is ok but never go more than that, its not cool and theyre probably using you

@SnowManSand They can be, but they aren’t. Obviously it’s not everyone, you can tell who it is though.

I'm in that friend group and tbh we are mean to alot of people and get in "aurguements" but in reality we are just trying to annoy each other and we rlly all love each other and we can be fake to the people who try or think they are in our friend group. and yeah there is the two people who don't necessarily get along the greatest but their fine 😭😭

​@@THEREALPOOKIE18 Yeah you're not cool girl, just a snake 😂

@@PureCurebyFaith I promise I'm not that mean I just get mad easily 💀🖐

Yes, not all people and schools are the same. It depends

This is the most extroverted comment I've ever read 👁️👄👁️I'm impressed-

@@melikeshorts9971 Only one life you know?

wow i really admire you, you’re living life to the fullest and not letting any moment go to waste. that’s just amazing

@@bearybeom Thank you! It can be over taxing as I tend to bite off more than I can chew at times and motivation can sometimes struggle, but I'm at my best when I'm engaging in many things

@@jayymorris5285 Such a wise person, you inspire people!!

Why are you a old as dad watching little girls like this 😰😑😄

@@Jason.cbr1000rr stuff randomly pops up. Not that old my guy, come on now.

This is so true. From graduating high school to your 10 year reunion will show you who stayed in your life and who isn't in your life. Those 10 years prove to show you who your real friends are

This message makes me happy thanks :)

@@sergeantsolomon6936 ok my apologies...

What’s peaking mean?-

@@jelly_raccoon_6773 looks good, being pretty, having an amazing personality, and having life going your way

@@rehya8810 what? Doesn't peaking just mean that you don't cheat on test?

@@michaelkg.7943 What? No. 🤦‍♀️ It means a glow up

@@rehya8810 peak means peak, like top. Like mountain. Peak is when you were at your best.

Lmbo you and me both. People are always legitimately forgetting I exist.

good for u!

@@aidyningram4530 nope

Omgggg. She talked behind your back?! THATS SO RUDEEEEE OMGGG 🙄 there's worse things going on in the world get over it

@@lila3498 sorry you were met with an ignorant response, im glad to see you're healing, I've gone through this along with my toxic ex lol, you seem cool so don't let anyone rain on you!!

When you pass by them say hi with a confident voice and a smile and leave . That will make them know that what they did doesn’t hurt you.

Same I just wanna be myself and have fun