stalkers doesn't respect privacy,they're delusional, controlling and has narcissistic behavior.
@nellaflemming6862 Жыл бұрын
Insane.
@nellaflemming6862 Жыл бұрын
👏👏🙏
@taraarrington2285 Жыл бұрын
Yeah it boggles my mind how anyone thinks they have the right to do this to another person 🤔
@nellaflemming6862 Жыл бұрын
Amen. 💯
@Yukine_2607 Жыл бұрын
Not every stalker has narcissistic behaviour.
@izawaniek2568 Жыл бұрын
Stalking is a terrifying experience and it produces so many overpowering emotions. It is exactly the way you have described, you feel intimidated, powerless, you self-isolate as you can not feel safe anywhere you go. This is an extremely cruel and painful way the abusers feel entitled to ruin their victims lives. The worst case of all is when the stalkers feel as if being on a moral crucade to convert the infidel. It is often done with the help of many other people who are acting as the stalker’s agents and those May even include your family members and awuaintances. It is shaking the victims sense not only of physical but also psychological safety. This kind of contact is evil and damaging in so many different ways. I believe the best way out is to try and ignore the stalking in any way possible and seek help and support. It has been happening to me for a long time now and I think the only way out is by talking about it outloud. Thank you for the help and support I get from your channel Darren.
@forensicbadassprofiling Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry to hear about ur horrible experiences w stalking. I can understand w compassion and agree w you in regards to how scary it is but how important it is to seem unbothered. When you have a great team of resources, we let these people know about the stalking amd fears accompanied by such. We survivors who endure this, live taking videos and pictures, documentation w dates and times, changing phone numbers ect... But there are viable ways to get the criminal activity to stop a whole lot faster by implementing specific docs so the courts then bypass family court and escalate immediately to criminal Court. Ive learned the hardest ways in how to protect myself and get justice. But man oh man did it take a toll on my adrenal system. Ive been recovering ever since. May safety and protection cover you w all the help and support you need.
@targetedtyranny4661 Жыл бұрын
Good post,I myself is going through this, lots of people and family have helped, its like another planet where everyone has changed who they are as people, somehow they have been converted into people that want to destroy you, or your career.
@desensitizedanalyser5624 Жыл бұрын
And you don't think the STALKER is going through he'll. Why don't you take your own advice that you give to your stalkers and go to fucking therapy too!!!
@macnchessplz Жыл бұрын
Great post.Firm believer in talking about it out loud.
@emil5884 Жыл бұрын
Good comment. However, it can be difficult to find support sometimes. A victim of stalking (and harassment alike) can be construed as unstable, delusional, schizophrenic and so on... very unfortunate considering stalking is not even that uncommon (albeit not outright common either). Turn to your most trusted friends, I would say. Even better perhaps, a psychotherapist. Stalking is absolutely reprehensible, stay strong in your own sense of reality.
@TheWilliamHoganExperience Жыл бұрын
Years ago, I was attacked and badly beaten by a man who was stalking a woman I was dating. I had no idea she was being stalked. He broke into her house in the middle of the night because he saw my car in her driveway. This guy was enraged. I was sleeping, and awoke to find this creep looming over me. He threatened to kill me. Then he attacked. I never had a chance to defend myself. The police did nothing because I didn't know who the guy was, and the girl refused to identify him, because she was so scared of him. Obviously, I stopped dating her at that point. Stalking is no joke. It indicates severe emotional derangement. It can and does lead to violence and murder. Strong laws and enforcement are needed to limit the damage these people do. It's not just men either. I've been stalked by women I've dated. No bunnies boiled (yet) but it sure is creepy....
@taraarrington2285 Жыл бұрын
Yes stalkers are psychotic or at the very least cluster B it's very scary when you have a bunch of them following you around who knows what they're thinking or what they really want
@nmaope Жыл бұрын
So sorry for what happened to you.
@RonkeStation7 ай бұрын
You are a coward and a cruel person for breaking up with her because of his actions.
@conniepritchardreinhardt99784 ай бұрын
I have gangstalkers. The recruit people to help stalk me.
@Josh-py9rq3 ай бұрын
@@RonkeStationwhat did you just post you little insect the guy was attacked by the stalker could have died she never mentioned to him she HAD A STALKER at all putting him at risk! Then when he is beaten badly she refuses to identify the stalker for the police there is NO excuse for that type or behavior even if she has a stalker I am glad he left her!
@forrestfey Жыл бұрын
Important to never interact with a stalker. Interaction will be an intermittent reward, and make it worse.
@TheHollandHS Жыл бұрын
You are ostracizing people. Many "Stalkers" are lonely bullied by the majority don't have multiple friends like you do. Many ostracized people for being ugly, losers, creeps who want to befriend people in general but they don't know where to start first. Never heard building up a network first? So they start talking to one to one online with people. Many people falsely accuse intelligent lonely people as stalkers because they have a very rich social life with multiple contacts everyday, and are often too dumb to even remember everything what they said to other. While many "nerds" who are in fact intelligent usually get called stalker by multiple people they interact one to one. If everyone would say : never talk to a stalker it would make it only worse for stalkers trying to talk to others. It's like a self fulfilling prophecy in many cases. Sending them to a psychiatrist means they stalk the psychiatrist because everyone abandoned him leaving only the doctor to talk How about society being inclusive?
@deborahscarlet4771 Жыл бұрын
F... Off!!!!! The "stalker" is suffering a lot as well, and you can't imagine if the person or "object of desire" ignores you, can be really depressing and sometimes we need closure or something, even when we know it's not gonna be the last time on writing that person, or looking through their info, sorry I got mad at first and said that, but gosh, it's painful........
@NoMoreMrNiceGuy2003 Жыл бұрын
You just phrased it perfectly because I used to fall for the bait for that one too many times without realizing the obvious thing that you say: that's just giving them an INTERMITTENT REWARD to do more mistreatment
@erinscruggs583810 ай бұрын
Also if you cut off Twitter, they come to Facebook. When you cut them off there, they sneak into your home. They follow you around to the store and laundry.
@user-mk2dr7ne5b7 ай бұрын
Right!
@beasaroseco58404 ай бұрын
I see stalking as spiritual warfare. Praying for safety and peace of mind for myself and intervention against the harrasser. In the natural I stay aware of my surroundings. Its an awful experience, but my faith has increased significantly especially when the harrassers stopped.
@John-rt7ouАй бұрын
@@beasaroseco5840 I knew two people in the army in Western Europe. Not only were they stalkers, but they also had connections with terrorists. They told me about the two events that would happen and they did happen and I was caught up in the first one. 18 people slaughtered and about 65 or 70 injured. The second event killed 86 people and injured 200. I survived the first one and returned it to that duty station on August the 7th very late at night and was there on the 8th in 1980. The terrorists lived on this duty station. On the night of August 7th and the morning of August 8th 1985 an underground organization visited that same duty station and left a car with a bomb in it. It was lethal and very powerful. Sometimes these stalkers as they are called or terrorists or organized criminals as they might be get some of their own business thrown right back in their faces.
@yulialexandra444Ай бұрын
Yes, the stalkers have monitoring spirits.
@Leannot3525 күн бұрын
In the spiritual sense yes these people are definitely being moved from hell, by evil, that's why they got to use those evil bodies to spy on people to destroy our lives I've been putting up with this kind of crap for about 8 or more years,
@hopeh10958 күн бұрын
@@yulialexandra444Yes they do have monitoring spirits, the devil wants to know everything it’s sad how insane ppl go not knowing that the evil spirit using them. A normal person worries about their daily life not ppl.
@TammyMenasco-if8cdСағат бұрын
I can relate to every word you speak and more
@vacationeyes6430 Жыл бұрын
Your competitor might stalk you too. Someone who desperately wants to "outshine" you. Mine has been stalking me for over a decade now.
@Powerlifting9873 ай бұрын
Yeah same bullshit
@taishankmАй бұрын
So sad to hear! Sorry! It can be hard to overcome, I know.
@TammyMenasco-if8cdСағат бұрын
Mine as well!
@pollypineapple28 Жыл бұрын
I am going thru a stalking / harassment case right now with my own mother. It’s draining me emotionally and mentally!
@conniepritchardreinhardt99784 ай бұрын
Stay strong.
@Maxst33le3 ай бұрын
Same but stuck rn, finding a way out is hard
@gigi9301Ай бұрын
My own mother also did this She called me at work relentlessly (I'm a nurse so it was quite disruptive) , went through my trash bin outside, planted vegetables in my backyard, packed all her belongings and tried to have them delivered to my house I refused the shipment, when she was watching my son she went through my closet and tried on my clothes (my son told me). She even peed in my backyard my husband saw her doing it. just no boundaries I have never known anybody else with a mother like this it's like she wouldn't let me be
@RachelleFerrier-qv6ieАй бұрын
@@gigi9301 Sounds like my mother
@GuitarMattАй бұрын
Siblings who decided to turn against me in my 40s a few years ago are people I went no contact with. YET they keep cyberstalking me too
@lightwing3696 Жыл бұрын
I feel like my stalker was a blend of almost all of the types. He started stalking me when I was 18, unbeknownst to me. Then he insinuated himself into my friend group when I was 20. I dated him briefly. When I broke off with him he insisted we "stay friends". I was very, very sheltered and naive and had no idea whatsoever what a dangerous person he was. I didn't know how to handle his obsessive behavior so I tried to "manage" it by "staying friends". He befriended my older brother and they would do things like going fishing together, and when I asked my older brother and his wife to please cut off all contact with him they both refused (in my opinion, they are both narcissists). I had a horse training business, and it was at a large public stable which meant I could not keep him from coming onto the premises. He went around and spread lies about me to everyone who would listen. He poisoned my horse. He drove nails into the hooves of my other horses. Later he stabbed one of my fillies, trying to slice her jugular vein and missed it by a sixteenth of an inch. The veterinarian who stitched the wound had to put in 4 layers of stitches and told me the vertebra in her neck had been nicked. He was a Vietnam veteran and put on the receipt for the surgery that it was a combat knife wound, and he knew one when he saw it. My stalker would show me his gun collection and knife collection, and retrospectively I knew which knife he had used. I called the police, and a detective came out and talked to me. At the time I had no idea who would or could do such a horrific thing. He pinpointed this "friend" and told me that he had done it. The problem was that the stalker had moved into the apartment next to mine. I moved. At my new house, I often had a feeling someone had been in my house when I was gone. I had been gone one Saturday all day and came home to my front door wide open and my dogs loose in the street. When I walked into my house, he was sitting at my computer reading my emails. I called the police and they arrested him; he was out within two days. He repeated this twice more, but I felt he had been in my house without being caught several other times. He poisoned my dogs twice by throwing the poison over the wall into the yard. I barely saved them by rushing them to the vet and having activated charcoal on hand. I could go on - there is almost no aspect of my life he did not try to infiltrate and damage. He succeeded to one degree or another in almost all of them. He left unwanted gifts hundreds of times over the years, at my door, at my mother's house, on my car, at my place of business. He intruded into my office building when I worked for a real estate company. He followed me on dates. Finally I met my future husband, and he followed me on those first dates and slashed my tires when I returned home. Then the second weekend, he called me non-stop all weekend. I didn't answer, so he left a voice mail saying he had taken poison and that I needed to come over and "save" him. In my mind, his suicidal behavior was really homicidal. I called the police and they had paramedics take him to the hospital. The police told me he had to have his stomach pumped at the hospital and then he was kept there on a mental illness hold for 72 hours. I finally got a restraining order, but a veteran police officer told me it was just a piece of paper and might make the stalking worse. He told me that they could not protect me 24 hours/seven days a week and that his assessment was that I would be murdered if I didn't leave. I left everything behind and flew to Canada where I rented a small house. By the time I flew to Canada, I was such a wreck that I couldn't eat and could only sleep for four hours at a time. That lasted for two years after I arrived in Canada. I dated my future husband and eventually married him. Every time I went back to California, the stalker stalked me at my mother's house. My brother never did cut off contact with him. Eventually, at the 18 year mark of stalking, my brother told me "something sad" had happened. My stalker had died of pancreatic cancer. There's a song I like, called "Goodbye Earl" by The Chicks. In that song there's a line that applies to the stalker "He was a missing person that nobody missed at all". That's the real truth about him. I'm glad he is no longer alive to hurt any other person or animal. Stalking is a crime that happens every. single. day. It is not a one-time crime. It is a crime that never stops. As for advice - read the book "The Gift of Fear" by Gavin de Becker. If you are being stalked, the book will help you get over any denial you have and help you to assess how dangerous your stalker is and it might help you to save your own life. Sorry this is so long.
@lightwing3696 Жыл бұрын
@Susan Argall - thank you so much, I really appreciate your comment.
@connys.a2412 Жыл бұрын
Light Wing , I wonder why your brother was keeping this contact to his death .Wasn' t he ( made ) aware how much damage the stalker did to you and your animals ???
@lightwing3696 Жыл бұрын
@@connys.a2412 - I will tell you, but it's very ugly. My oldest brother, I'm really convinced, is a narcissist who married a narcissist. There are many reasons I think that. When my brother's wife, I'll call her "M" had her first child, a girl, I was visiting when the baby was about 10 months old and was "cruising" around the room - getting ready to walk. She was holding onto the bookshelf on the perimeter of the room and scooting around holding on to things as she went. She stopped at the bookshelf and because she was teething, she stopped to teeth on a book. Her mother went over to her, grabbed the book and violently slapped her on the mouth. A ten-month-old (not that at any age that is acceptable). Also, at another time later when the baby was about three, the baby was sitting on a couch while her mother sat in front of her on the floor watching T.V. The baby wanted to brush her mommy's hair, so she let her. The baby accidentally caught some of her hair and pulled but only while trying to brush her hair. M turned around, grabbed the brush in a fury, yanked it out of her hands and yelled at her to "stop that!". Another time, her youngest, a boy, was sitting on my lap while we watched a movie. He kept on exclaiming at things in the movie loudly. We were in my brother and his wife's living room, not a theater. M told him furiously to stop. (He was almost four). He couldn't help himself and exclaimed loudly at something that happened again. I watched M go over to the kitchen sink and put dish soap on her finger. Then to my utter shock, she came over to her son and put the soap in his eye. Which resulted in him screaming and crying. I only realized this just after she did it. I had two options, one, to call child services. At the time the child services department in our county was making headline news for their abject failures and for the rampant numbers of completely unacceptable foster families they had placed children with. The other option was to have a talk with my older brother. I had never observed him being abusive toward his children but clearly he was allowing his wife to be sickeningly abusive. Neither had physical abuse ever been a feature of the family my brother and I were raised in. So, I had a talk with him, which of course backfired - one of the reasons I know now that he is a narcissist. From that day forward he has been on the warpath against me and has never forgotten it, nor has his wife. That is the reason I believe he actually enjoyed his "good friendship" with my stalker.
@life-rethought Жыл бұрын
My gut is telling me this is possible. Thank you for your words. OMG no one should ever endure what you did. There is a reason I took a gun with me when I ran. And he took note that I did. I pray you have some joy in your life with your husband.
@Indusxstan Жыл бұрын
Your comment really helped me. A very deceptive woman with schizotypal disorder is stalking me.
@jeffreywickens33795 ай бұрын
My neighbor has been stalking me and my wife for about 2 years. Watched us through the bushes, came to our work and followed us around. Drove behind us on the road. Walked by our property several times a day and night, stopped and stared in, shined a flashlight onto us, our property and our windows. We got a restraining order against him, and things are somewhat better. Now, he waits for us when we come home, because he lives next door, and he lights a smoky fire as soon as we come home, then immediately puts it out. Then, as we're walking through our yard, he follows us on his side of the property, banging things around and making noise. Then, he gets on his motorcycle and repeatedly drives by. His life revolves around us.
@dbgoestotheinternet76094 ай бұрын
That sounds awful. If you could sell up,and move away I would if I were you. That sort of mental aggression can give you a nervous breakdown if it goes on five years or more. It’s not illegal for him to set his fire and put it out or walk on his side of the hedge but it is red flag behaviour. Nutty fkkkers like him can act extremely unreasonably and violently when you don’t expect it. He’s gearing up to violence imo. 🙏 he’s not going to change but if you can put distance between you, he’s unlikely to follow you to another neighbourhood.
@alimccreery7553 ай бұрын
Your neighbor sounds like a sicko, I had a roommate like that and a boyfriend. Icky poo 💩
@user-ec3rm9wr1n3 ай бұрын
Nothing like being followed by sick people the delusions and sickness of men
@RachelleFerrier-qv6ieАй бұрын
Thanks for sharing; this is the type of weird people I meet! I had a neighbour this batty at my last house - I thought I was the only one. She blocked me in my drive way. Shone lights on me as I arrived home. Screamed she knew that I was a prostitute ( Im not). Put up signs against the fence line that I am not to use lasers. Poisoned native plants/grasses in my garden. Threw buckets of leaves and sticks over the fence daily. Really bloody nutty - I was really glad to leave as though the house was really a great house; the experience of her was just awful and always just in the background.
@Vilissa0Ай бұрын
Let me guess, just as you're about to leave, he just happens to be going out or, taking the trash out in a deliberate attempt to encounter you. I'm absolutely sick of them. They develop a strange fixation and they start to become addicted to the cat-and-mouse game. You were fortunate enough to be granted the restraining order, sadly, I'm not that fortunate because he isn't acting alone so it's very difficult to prove.
@lesleywall4186 Жыл бұрын
The burden of being severely stalked is a huge weight to carry alone. You need someone to support you and help you with this burden. Someone who will believe what you say, will comfort you or sprone you on in the difficult moments when you feel like giving up. You need help with the practicalities of bringing a court case (selecting the worst messages, printing them, going to police stations multiple times to report the acts of the stalker, lawyers' offices, court hearings, preparing yourself for depositions). If you have children to care for, are working a full-time job and you have to add all of this to your weekly routine things can become overwhelming. In these cases a shoulder to lean on/someone who gives practical help can be the one thing that gets you to the finishing line without crumbling to the floor.
@taraarrington2285 Жыл бұрын
Yes the weird thing is I'm pretty sure that my mom or my family are the ones who started having me stock probably about 2 to 3 years ago by these flying monkeys and the thing is like if you look into the psychology of people who stalk they're very scary and unstable people so by inviting a bunch of those people into your life you never know what they want or what their motives are
@oopsiejustaburner Жыл бұрын
Covert malignants are notorious for becoming obsessive and vengeful stalkers when you escape their sphere of influence because they're mortified at the thought of you exposing their behaviors. It becomes difficult to combat when they and their flying monkeys run around smearing you to anyone who'll entertain the idea that you're the perpetrator while covertly antagonizing you to get a reaction. Then you end up with not one deranged stalker, but multiple stalkers. Some of which have been duped into thinking they're somehow protecting or defending a victim/victims who's actually the predator behind the scenes. I've dealt with a covert malignant stalker and their flying monkeys for years now. My husband and I play an online game and we almost *constantly* have monkeys spawn in on us in servers. Luckily for me the narc may be intelligent enough to attempt covering their tracks because they know what they're doing is wrong, but also foolish enough to keep stalking/harassing by proxy because they can't control themselves. Document everything. FBI will tell you, it doesn't even matter if it's burner accounts so long as they can cross reference IP addresses to show a consistent pattern and tie it back to the owner/owners of the accounts. Unlawful communications doesn't even have to be direct communication either. Meaning no words have to even be exchanged for it to be considered stalking/harassment. Let the stalker(s) dig their own grave, they eventually will.
@nellaflemming6862 Жыл бұрын
They certainly don't like you fighting back, they turn into the victim but after nearly FIVE YEARS of it by the same males and females, I am not taking it lying down anymore. They are shameless and low and they don't stop. Just got two of my female ones online right now. Not afraid of committing a criminal offense either. They think they are untouchable. Definitely mental illness.
@desensitizedanalyser5624 Жыл бұрын
At this point. You can't stop us stalkers. The only way you'll stop us is if you kill us.
@Gonocontacttoignorethem3203 ай бұрын
Ebay corporate toy companies are the worst. The police found evidence online of organised harrasment. But it's all about gathering hard evidence.
@dm51294 күн бұрын
They are dangerous fakes, intensively jealous and they seek to destroy, it is their only reason for living
@janetmiller2980 Жыл бұрын
I hadn’t even realized I was dealing with a stalker until someone I know who worked probation & was familiar with the different types os stalkers heard what was going on & told me “You’ve got a resentful stalker on your hands. Make sure you keep quiet as this individual seeks to know you’re upset, but next time a false accusation comes up, tell whoever brings it to you you’re being stalked & it needs to stop.” I don’t wish to reveal too much other than this individual had an axe to grind, and had poor relationships with others in the organization. Ultimately they experienced karma by way of employment termination. All I can say is it takes time to get over feeling everything from unsafe to resentful about what’s taking place. It may take years for these feelings to subside, and they may never go away altogether, but they won’t be nearly as intense as when the stalker was attempting to bring you down.
@corporaterobotslave400 Жыл бұрын
I know one of these creeps. He stalked a friend of mine, used me to get to her. Then he denied it, even when he was caught in the act. These ppl are psychopaths, narcissists, and generally unpleasant to spend any time with. Hell, this guy even found me by stalking ppl on the internet. Carefully SCREEN everyone in your life with multiple tests; if they refuse to take tests then cancel them from your life.
@HeavenlyLights10 ай бұрын
Tests? What kind of tests? Can you give an example please?
@charlottehawthorne26644 ай бұрын
It is so incredibly violating, you feel helpless, victimized over and over. My mother in law is my stalker, being an older female too, most people minimize her behavior. Sweep it under the rug and play it off as not harmful or dangerous. Yet if you had the same behaviour being perpetrated by a young male everyone would call it dangerous. Breaking into my car and leaving unwanted gifts after ending the relationship. Turning up at my work and sitting there for an hour staring at me grinning with the most demonic smile I've ever seen, just intimidating me. Turning up to playgroups for my children, attempting to snatch one of my babies out of my arms that she wasn't allowed to be around or have any contact with. Coming to my house threatening my life infront of my children. Using her other children her abusive son (BIL) to abuse and threaten me in my own house again infront of the children. Turning up at my work spreading lies and slandering me to my employees. Telling our small town community I'm crazy so when I did finally start telling people about the stalking and abuse there were plenty who wrote me off and played it down. She abused me while I was pregnant tried to force me to have an abortion claiming she had the right to dictate what happens to MY body. Made me develop severe pre-eclampsia form the stress and put my twins in NICU for 15 weeks. I'm in a wheelchair from the complications both my sons have significant developmental delays and medical issues form the pre-eclampsia. And almost 5 years later she continues to terrorize me. I barely leave the house anymore, a few months ago she aggressively followed me in the car almost causing me to run off the road fleeing from her. But she's a 67 year old granny so people think it's perfectly okay. The trauma I live with is all consuming.
@user-hm9jq1db2hАй бұрын
File a protective order against her and move to another state if possible
@RachelleFerrier-qv6ieАй бұрын
I am so sorry to hear this. Her age will be her undoing I think. Be strong. Remember you are normal and she has severe issues. Sometimes this stuff drives us to only believing that karma will smack these people sideways at some point and it must be awful being such awful people. I have no wise words really because I am still dealing with stalking myself. At this point I just think if you are stalked it is some sort of attestment to your being a nice person because it seems only nice people are stalked. I had a woman recently tell me that her ex husband was regularly coming to places she was slashing her tyres and more revolting things and I looked at her and she was just a really nice kind friendly warm strong beautiful woman. I talked to her about my own stalking and how it had driven me to a belief in God and a whiplash of smiling just so that my stalkers know that they will never have me nor will they ever smash my happiness no matter how much they try. All persons who are stalked are nice people - I am sure of it. Sending you strength.
@carlturner-bennett70162 ай бұрын
I'm going through stalking now. It started as soon as I tried to end the friendship. He has no desire to be in a relationship with me he just wants to control me. I don't think he's coped with rejection that easily. He manipulates every one around him. Including his partner and police and even my old acquaintances. He's trying to replace my life. It's like he wants to be me. He started drinking where I drank, then started to work at the same place as me. Even his banter reassembled mine. His mannerisms. He follows me when I go for a walk. It's caused me stress, anxiety, flashbacks, nightmares. Time off work. Confidence issues. Trust issues. People question my sexuality. He has a partner as well. I made a mistake by humiliating him and publicly calling him a stalker. Now makes my life hell by turning everyone against me. Slandering me to other people. The list goes on. I'm isolated right now. I'm struggling to deal with what's going on. I already suffered with my mental health then this on top of it doesn't help one bit.
@RachelleFerrier-qv6ieАй бұрын
Man how bloody awful! Thank you for sharing. I am feeling better for all these personal stories. Because when I tell people the hell I have gone through with stalking they look dumbfounded like I am making it up but reading what all of you are saying I realise actually a lot of what I have been going through is run of the mill sicko stalking.
@tonimaric486723 күн бұрын
Try and take extra care of yourself take a multivitamin to keep strength up and document everything he does even if you take out your phone and film him in front of others and if they ask why tell them he is stalking you. Most people will tell them off if they continue to hang around you uninvited. Stay safe 🙏
@leeboriack8054 Жыл бұрын
You can’t reason with a stalker. Notify the authorities and your social network. Document, get an attorney ASAP!
@Harpazo2421 сағат бұрын
The “authorities” will likely join the stalker in the terrorism
@TammyMenasco-if8cdСағат бұрын
The thing is they are that good and the aithorities can't find them anymore than I can prove it!
@camellia8625 Жыл бұрын
Five types of stalker 1. rejected stalker - ex partner or estranged family member 2. Incompetent stalker, sense of entitlement to time etc of the desired person. 3. Intimacy stalker - deluded idea someone who doesn’t want to be with them is the love of their life 4. Predator stalker - power and control, use mutual friends to find out about the target 5. Resentful stalker - vendetta, settling a grievance. Can become violent.
@deathofathousandcuts4255 Жыл бұрын
#3 She has crossed Boundaries that I have never experienced anything else like this has intrigued all my devices, knew someone was engaging in my personal social media, such as used my facebook account for hiding from other's spouses, and Dating account this has deserved me with affects of Damn is she watching me now or recording me, will prosecute for there actions so maybe she will learn that her behivors have done? Thx Darren much help I will apply this to my toolbox!!! 💯🙏❤️
@donmulder8061 Жыл бұрын
I attract stalkers for some reason ...... I am an introvert who tries to do the right thing and practices "live and let live." Surprisingly this enrages stalkers. Now I assume people are stalkers until proven otherwise. Very isolating. The new neighbors next door are stalking me because they are trying to take possession of our land through adverse possession. After ignoring her while trimming trees she says over to me, "we keep a close eye on, we're very interested in everything you are doing...." Amazing how these people target those who do no harm to them whatsoever. My stalkers seem to cut across multiple types and are hard to classify......
@eyeamphree33376 ай бұрын
I know 1 person suffering from all 5 🙃 poor baby self inflicting their own misery
@Leannot3525 күн бұрын
Yes these types are absolutely evil, nothing but being moved by evil, it's such evil control
@camellia8625 Жыл бұрын
It isn’t fair but the only way I could manage to get rid of an ex boyfriend stalker in the early 90s - who refused to accept the relationship was over and had been stalking me for roughly a year and was threatening suicide, making my friends and family feel sorry for him etc - was to change address, job and change universities unexpectedly all at once and only stay in contact with a couple of trusted friends. Had to do something similar again 20 years later - ex husband harassed me for 10 going on 11 years post separation- to escape had to give up custody of my kids to him before suddenly and unexpectedly changing my name and address . By not having residence of my kids any more he had no legal right to know my name or whereabouts and couldn’t harass me anymore. I ended up living near the kids school and kids and met them for contact in public places in the community. Had to keep my location and name and all secret. My children have honoured that fortunately. I do not have any faith in the legal system - as some stalker ex partners (usually fathers) can use the legal system to force contact and to make your life as difficult as possible. I believe it is very important not to reward the person by picking up the phone or giving them any sort of attention or response if you can help it. Even read messages or simply picking up the phone to tell them to go away can be rewarding for these individuals because you are giving them your attention and if you are giving them any sort of attention in their warped minds they think they may be in with a chance. Change your number and email address and keep it private. Block the person every which way. If possible remove yourself off social media. It is also extremely important to be careful of mutual friends. You may sadly have to forgo some mutual friends to protect yourself from reputational smearing and/or the stalker using the connection for information gathering purposes.
@justChrisjones Жыл бұрын
In the old days we married the aggressive stalker. I think they are attracted to a quiet and reserved person, who is normally very polite and demure. Also naive and with deep empathy. It is really sad. I am so sorry for this happening.
@camellia8625 Жыл бұрын
Awww thanks. It pays to be alert to the signs to avoid getting involved with such individuals in the first place.
@baileydavenport744 Жыл бұрын
I didn't really know much about stalkers when I was a child but when I got older I realized I had a pretty serious stalker for almost a decade when I was growing up. Whenever I got home from school for years as soon as I walked into the house the phone would ring and if I answered there would only be breathing and if i didn't answer they would leave a voicemail that was just heavy breathing. They would also come up to my bedroom window at night and watch me sleep and sometimes they would knock or bang on the glass to try to wake me up in the middle of the night. I could see there was someone out there in the dark but I couldn't make out their features. Sometimes I would even talk to them, like saying "hello? is someone there? please go away." and they would just stand there and breath loudly. gross. Very frightening! For years I just thought I was dreaming because whenever I told my parents "theres a man outside my window who watches me sleep at night" they would just tell me I was having nightmares. But then when it continued up into my teens I began to realize there was an actual person out there and I was like "wtf? is this a pedophile? a murderer? who the is this guy?" I never did find out who it was. Eventually I moved out the state. I don't know if i would say it "haunts" me to this day exactly- I wasn't really that scared for most of it because I didn't really understand the danger - but its definitely something I think about every now and then when I see strangers in the dark.
@RachelleFerrier-qv6ieАй бұрын
OMG what a sick thing to grow up with - humans really are a strange bunch with perverts like this in the public.
@TC-gx3qn Жыл бұрын
Thank you for covering this important subject, Darren. Very interesting and informative video! 👍🏽
@sallyanne6480 Жыл бұрын
these stalkers are mentally and morbidly obsessed with everything i do in my life and somehow they can think for me apparantly. they keep saying that what i was taught i think is the truth and i never said that!! i belive in it from what i seen. i never once said what i believed was the truth. i hate when people try to assume what i think.
@vootamu1 Жыл бұрын
eBay was involved in stalking a couple that wrote bad reviews about them so sometimes corporations are involved in stalking. In the cancel culture that we live in, those who want to cancel you will gather in groups and engage in revenge stalking. They seek to "frighten and punish the victim."
@RinAsami1 Жыл бұрын
This exactly! I've seen it in friend groups (or I should say ex-friend groups) also. One or a couple of people with gather a bunch of other friends and strangers online to make lies about you and post them. It's disgusting and cancel culture combined with social media make it was too easy for toxic and mentally ill people to destroy someone they don't like for revenge.
@semolinasemolina8327 Жыл бұрын
Mummy Facebook groups are like that, they strive to take people down.
@taraarrington2285 Жыл бұрын
Yes that was a case of gang stalking and it is when corporate interests basically higher corrupt people and authority to carry out there whatever they want done
@nickidaisydandelion4044 Жыл бұрын
Yes it's Terror.
@NoMoreMrNiceGuy2003 Жыл бұрын
Ironically there's a group called "ANTIFA" but they're the ultimate FACISTS
@spindrifter7519 Жыл бұрын
I left my wife & divorced because she was driving ,me crazy & I found out she was screwing some low life. 2 years after I left I noticed that she was doing regular drive byes past my house. Initially I was disturbed about it but then then I decided to ignore it. Another 18 months on and she is still doing it but less frequently. It no longer bothers me. I have a new life and she aint going to get any chance to intrude into it.
@andreablossom392910 ай бұрын
My father left his gf overnight. She came home to find all of his things gone without a word said to her. He even bragged to me about how he left in a flash and found it amusing. However, she never cried or chased after him. She just let things be. As far as I knew didn't call asking questions/needing closure and when seeing him in public would even maintain polite conversation and composure. The funny thing is that after my dad moved out and ghosted her, he would drive by her house with me in the car. He'd have this expression on his face as if he was just casually driving, but I was always perturbed by it because he got off the main road to drive through her neighborhood when there were multiple ways, we could have gotten to destination without doing that. These people are insane, unhinged and obsessed.
@spindrifter751910 ай бұрын
@@andreablossom3929 Yeah it sure is weird
@smiler1327 Жыл бұрын
I have only recently been through this with my ex partner and I've never experienced anything like it. He was initially breaking into my garden, moving things around to play gaslightibg games. When he realised I had sussed it was happening, he continued but started leaving messages to let me know he'd been there. I put up security cameras but it only made it more entertaining for him. He found blind spots and tried to smash them down. He had specify created hiding spaces out the back of my garden, and had been climbing through all the neighbours gardens to get into mine. I called the police but they underestimated what was going on and charged out the back without listening to me first. This just made it worse, as he did get caught. The next day, grass was posted through my door. Previously, he had been using social media to post messages to me. And he admitted at the start of this relationship (it was a hoover) he would sometimes drive into my road in the years we were apart, but "wasn't stalking me". We were apart for 6 years, meaning he could have been doing this all that time. I didn't think he had been back, but my cat has now disappeared..... The pice can't arrest him because I couldn't get his face on camera because it was dark. But he was coming every night for weeks on end between midnight and 3 am. It isn't some to be underestimated. I felt continuously on edge and I still don't know if it's really the end but at some point, I will have to move. He was very angry. I had dumped him. He felt humiliated. But he had been having an affair...... The worst thing is wondering when it might start up again. But for now, I can at least sleep, but for weeks I couldn't. I just still can't believe this has all happened.
@smiler1327 Жыл бұрын
*did not get caught
@emotown1 Жыл бұрын
It’s not easy catching someone like that, and you can drive yourself nuts trying. The gaslighting aspect is very hard to deal with - it’s usually enough to cause upset but not enough to warrant calling the police.
@franceslock1662 Жыл бұрын
Keep a diary of everything he does. Keep calling the police. You may need to plan, prepare, then suddenly move.
@smiler1327 Жыл бұрын
@@franceslock1662 I have done exactly that! Everything done in the relationship and in the aftermath of me discarding him is written down and reported. I read its helpful for everybody to write down their full experience, just in case they ever try a hoover as it helps you to remember the reality of it, rather than your euphoric recall of the love bombing stages. Quite blind blowing when you do read it all back to yourself. But thank you for the advice. Looking through all the experiences everybody else has had, it's obviously something that happens more often than people realise, and can become especially dangerous and life threatening or at least life changing for people. It's just a shame the law isn't adept at dealing with it, not really, not in reality. And when you explain all the gaslighting elements of it all, you sound like you're the crazy one! But I have markers on my address so if I call them again about this, they will hopefully be better prepared. I urge anybody who is having similar experiences to do the same.
@smiler1327 Жыл бұрын
@@emotown1 it really isn't easy catching them in the act. But when it's repeatedly done every night, and it's escalating day by day, and you have a child in the house too, you can't take any risks. The gaslighting aspect is just the start of it, and I suspect he is responsible for at least 4 cats ending up dead or missing (2 of mine, 2 of a friend of his).... And that's how psychopathic killers start! But when somebody is a vessel of nothingness, you can't take risks. I was shocked by your tale too, as by everybody else's. Quite frightening how these situations escalate so quickly.
@cutie19865 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this video.. I felt so bad these days because of my ex’s stalking.. and i can’t understand why he is doing this.. I understand more about him.. Stalker is a creepy exsistance ever and they don’t do anything in their life
@darlene-MamaD Жыл бұрын
Thankfully, the only social media I use is KZfaq. Years ago, I was stalked in person by individual that I didn't know too well...their antics progressed into; breaking into a vehicle I had, stealing my belongings, stealing mail by changing my mailing address to their P.O. Box, broke into my apartment and tried to commit suicide in front of me, etc. I felt forced to move farther away for my sanity. Deeply disturbing stuff to try to understand/cope with in ones life.
@macnchessplz Жыл бұрын
I too have experienced mail fraud in my situation.
@ThomasNims-h9u19 күн бұрын
The level of the stalker and the reasons for his stalking gives me a calmness that helps me to cope.
@grand.geometrician4 ай бұрын
I really liked how you advised victims to seek help. A stroke of genius!
@user-ec3rm9wr1n3 ай бұрын
The problem with these people is that no one has caused them physical harm everything delusions they fake up things to normalize offending strangers..... Ex ...its War ..am in pain you need to pay for it....I failed it's your fault ..the rubbish goes on
@lindavalentin5582 Жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for the information I have been stalked for years but I’m no longer afraid
@bondeappetite703 Жыл бұрын
Still happening to me 3 years after I left. Police don’t take seriously at all. Everywhere I go he pops up online. Fake accounts etc. it’s never ending.
@janetmiller2980 Жыл бұрын
I’m going to agree with others that reading Gavin de Becker’s The Gift of Fear is very sound advice. That was a very insightful read.
@tylercooley40079 ай бұрын
I deal with it everyday and it’s the worst possible way to live why can’t people just leave me the hell alone and move on
@triplejmom7826 Жыл бұрын
I wish someone had believed me all those years ago when my ex was stalking me. Fortunately, when I moved a series of terrible events occurred that resulted in injury & my car being put in the shop so I was out of work for about three weeks & had no car. The phone calls increased but he was otherwise gone & years later the calls stopped to. Thank God!
@viviennejohnston10465 ай бұрын
I have actually been stalked by another female. Cannot stand me but asks others repeatedly where I am and what I am up to. 😮
@TheRealLarissa Жыл бұрын
I have been stalked for over 10 years. No one ever helps, not even the police.
@sleepcalm45824 ай бұрын
I know how it’s feels but don’t you give up. Live for your self take security measures and I pray that God keep you safe!
@TheRealLarissa4 ай бұрын
@@sleepcalm4582 thank you. You too.
@TheRealLarissa4 ай бұрын
But I don't believe God works that way.
@TheRealLarissa4 ай бұрын
And I also believe broadcasting your prayers is an ego trip.
@BubbaHotepMothership Жыл бұрын
@2:00 is on point. Stalkers, like NPD types, use their victimhood/ hate *to self regulate.* Bad poetry notwithstanding, if they can’t point the crooked finger, that finger tends to curl back around. Gaslighting is their passive aggressive default mode.
@Eighties-Jadie Жыл бұрын
Thanks Darren and I'm going to watch this now with a cuppa ☕ best wishes ☀️
@Eighties-Jadie Жыл бұрын
@no chains no more Cheers ☕😊
@semolinasemolina8327 Жыл бұрын
I think I was accidentally a rejected /incompetent stalker. I didn't even realise that I was seen that way, I was just going about my life, following the breadcrumb trail, and when I found out that that's what he was calling me - I was offended and angry, when i found put thrpugh others that was what they were saying about me, imagining the common resentful/dangerous/ predatory subtypes. However years later - I ended up in a shelter for domestic abuse and had therapy and training on how to spot and prevent domestic abuse - where as I'd firmly categorized my former ex as narcissus and exploitative- actually my behaviour reflectively was stalkerish. Terrible.
@franceslock1662 Жыл бұрын
If you’re able to, install security cameras around your property like Ring, and Blackvue front and rear car cameras with apps that are easy to use. Don’t be predictable and take care when entering and leaving your property. All your windows should have key locks and external doors triple point locks and dead bolts. You can also have an alarm and can arm sections of the house when sleeping. It’s not over the top to have locks on internal doors too. I know some women get security grills on their windows. You can also get your window glass treated with a film that won’t break.
@mayangoddess99493 ай бұрын
This is correct. Even corporate figures are now STALKING (EX- employees) and EX-sellers. Some of them are concerned about whether or not WE have enough MONEY to retire ABROAD...or whether or not WE will remain MARRIED forevermore. Yes, their behavior is beyond CREEPY and it is beyond SCARY!!!
@nailfile99 Жыл бұрын
I have a guy who is low key stalking me. I have had to block him on all social media because he keeps finding new ways to talk to me. He comes to events he knows all be at and then introduces himself to my friends almost to show he is not afraid of the fact I have confronted him about following me. I don’t really know what to do about him/ can’t really be bothered getting involved anymore!
@lightwing3696 Жыл бұрын
Document it as much as possible. Do not give him any oxygen as far as it's possible. That means do not initiate contact to tell him to stop, don't initiate contact in any way. If he leaves gifts don't acknowledge them in any way, don't return them, give him no response whatsoever. So don't initiate any contact and don't respond in anyway whatsoever. Don't confront him at all, ever. I recommend the book, "The Gift of Fear" by Gavin de Becker. In it he explains the rationale for you and what you need to do, as well as the danger level. If you can, report it to the police so they have a record too, although I know a lot of the time they just don't care and won't/can't do anything anyway.
@Leannot3525 күн бұрын
It's a living hell, it's been happening on all my personal information, cell phones, jobs, trying to move away, and on, this has been going on around 8 years now!! I've been through multiple cell phones phone plans, mail taken or held, cars tampered, repeated phone calls from numerous number, threats, subtle death threats, years on and off of this, sleepless nights, or just sleep while getting enough energy from repeated hell and discouragement to move on! Put of where I feel trapped! No personal privacy no one wants to come to visit! It's control over my life lies spread to ruin my life ECT...the worst thing is WHY!!
@targetedtyranny4661 Жыл бұрын
Why are their lots of people today that believe its normal, or justified to stalk and harass someone? These groups really feel like its the thing to do,what is going on to change reality for these people? Is the group so good at normalizing the behavior?
@LeAnne-uw3wp9 ай бұрын
Only psychopaths stalk people. They need serious help. Thank you you've just described my stalker 💯
@Portia620 Жыл бұрын
Can we talk about abuse by proxy????
@jamiestumps6146 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this information Sir!
@alimccreery755 Жыл бұрын
I’m a victim of gang stalking by the narc in my life. I know now what’s been going on.
@myjourneytotruth Жыл бұрын
Please contact authority, if that hasn't worked well for you, pack up & go far far away & don't tell even your most trusted beloved people. Sometimes your closest connections could be allies to help them stalk you & perhaps they might not even know the depth of the situation. Like the doc said social media is a tool they use so stay away from it. As for your phone, tablet, laptop, smart watch etc turn off GPS & LOCATION service on it. Your wellbeing & life is very important so becareful.
@alimccreery755 Жыл бұрын
@@myjourneytotruth thank you for your support. I have everything arranged.
@GeorgWilde7 ай бұрын
What did you achieve by writing it here? lol
@alimccreery7553 ай бұрын
@@GeorgWildewhy do you want to know?
@brianclark5133Күн бұрын
T.I. for years now ❤stay strong
@Damnchaosemerald_e.e4 ай бұрын
my stalking was delutional and formed out of obsession. im still obsessed but i realize its an obsession that needs to be put down like a dying dog. the problem is it lives inside me, its SEEMS impossible not to feel incomplete. emphasis on seems because i know its not. but im greatful i stalked a very understanding person who i agree gave me way to many chances. i think its due to an deep understanding of mental illness but despite mental illness i am aware it doesnt make you any less a predator or threat despite the amount of personal growth spiritual or physical you do. you just have to accept youve ended up down the right path, intention or not youve been led astray and you didnt take enough of all the clues. i dont know when there's room for improvement, i think i need to die to see the karma be resolved because the pain is anguish. but that's only if you can recognize it in yourself. its hard cus i dont believe in an afterlife necessarily but yet ive extremely spiritual since looking at my own monster. however if god will let you live you should take it and suffer and stay in your lane and understand youve just narrowed the width of your lane and possibly numbered your days with all the manifested stress and anxiety for allowing the monster to creep in and express itself through your actions. once that happens you need to identify as the monster and now dealing with it is not a simple path but its either that or psychopathy. i genuinely believe that. i say this cus, other criminal stalkers searching for some reason to resist their chaos may come to this video which is beyond brave. just know it doesnt end here. im actually here to lern about my counterpart, im specifically searching for the mindset of the female stalkers, i want to know now how a female stalkes cus i lived the life of how a male does it, at least what drove me wasnt malicious in intent but its terrifying how it evolves seemingly against the person you stand for. I wasnt a broken human until i had a break up, i have abandonment issues and ive never been taught how to cope, now i just live knowing theres a monster inside me that if i truly care i will kill myself if it feels like coming out. i hope thats not the case for me tho. to me feels like the peak of my BPD dissorder
@Chicosbaby4 ай бұрын
I have been stocked and my house has been broken into for the past 16 years. I have moved 5 times and moved to another state. and this person still continues to break into my home.This one knows how to break and enter people's homes, jams the signal to the camera, picks the locks and breaks into your home. The way that I have secured my home is by putting bar locks on my doors, I have a buddy bar supporting my back door. I am going to install a night lock on my front door that is supported by the floor. In the windows, I have two wooden dowls in each window so you can't open them. I have two trail cameras, mounted on the wall of my garage,recording to an 128 g sd card, glued into the camera. When I remove the cameras, I put in a metal bar on both sides of the tack of my garage so you can't open my garage door. That is my security system.
@RachelleFerrier-qv6ieАй бұрын
You rock! Thanks for sharing. Sometimes I feel like I am going crazy with considering such security levels that I sleep with extreme amount of barricading but you make me realise I am not the only one thanks.
@MD-vb1hq Жыл бұрын
My mother is a rejected stalker. After I cut contact with everyone I knew and moved across the country, she hunted me down. I was able to get a restraining order, but she still sends people to my house. I got security cameras and a gun.
@Portia620 Жыл бұрын
Why are you staying away from your mom? Wow.
@raccuia1 Жыл бұрын
@@Portia620 meaning?
@Indusxstan Жыл бұрын
Why are you running away from your mother? What has she done to deserve such hate?
@adimeter Жыл бұрын
I see there are pole on this thread who do not think you should stay away from your mom. They just don't understand. Ignore them strenuously. Protect yourself.
@adimeter Жыл бұрын
{CORRECTION] "See there are people on"
@life-rethought Жыл бұрын
I find it very disturbing how many times I have been stalked through my life. AND ITS CORE.... THE SHATTERED CHILD/AND ADULT FROM A SADISTIC NARCISSISTIC FATHER. for I walked down the street looking at my feet in shame. I can remember questioning myself and life as a 5 year old walking alone home from school. "I can't be that bad???" for as the first born I was the scapegoat for the family... "if you didn't do that, say that... your father wouldn't have done that". I was stalked by 2 men in a van calling me to get their van as that 5-6 year old. later I was stalked the same way as a broken high schooler, again walking home alone... then 2 men in a van... I pretended the home I was in front of was my own and decisively went in the back door and waited for them to leave. I was stalked all the way from a grocery store to the front door of my first apartment at 23 years old. now I am married at 68 and I found I married a raging narcissist . I ran after less than a year married. I am very concerned for my safety. he loves his guns and is completely delusional. I have stumbled my way back into public art jobs... (yes he gave me a gift in terrorizing me out onto my own 2 feet again.) and I have had to make a courageous choice to pursue my public art projects that are lining up in front of me. I can't live in hiding, it will be no life. I have chosen to set my fear aside. do what I love and brings joy to others. and if he does do something physical to me. I'M PISSED ENOUGH TO LIVE MY LIFE WITH GUSTO UNTIL THEN. MAKING THE BEST OF MY LIFE GOING FORWARD.
@timmywitty143210 ай бұрын
Wishing you the best!
@PromiseFulfillled11 ай бұрын
One tip is to eliminate all social media. If you chose to keep social media, lock it down so that you only have trusted friends, cannot be tagged, all setting are private (not public). NEVER post where you are in real time or do check-ins. Only post after you have left and preferably places that you will probably not go back to, so in the rare event your stalker goes get access to that post they will be stalking in an area you will not be frequenting.
@ianmcintosh91844 ай бұрын
Was stalked for years by a woman who I rejected on multiple occasions. Appeared everywhere....surely I went, work locally and in other towns, outside my flat, in the stairwell of my building, supermarkets etc etc sometimes more than once a day....I eventually started taking notes of times, dates and cars she was driving and went to the police. They told me she was just going about her daily business and was perfectly acceptable behavior unless she tried to communicate with me. The following and "random" appearances immediately stopped. I was assured by a friend who is a retired police officer that if it had been me stalking her it would be an entirely different view taken by the authorities. Stalking is a very discriminatory crime.
@chickenbiscuit4525 Жыл бұрын
Stalkers as they may might usually migrate between different interests or intents, shifting targets. They are mood compromised. Generally narcissistic. Can't confuse them with those who are genuinely concerned about matters that generally concern conscientious people. We call that 'looking out for eachother'. Good video and content. When you detect being stalked the letterbox fills with a tapestry of clues. We might feel keen to go about out own investigation for curiosity. Strangely it seems some like to deliberated themselves with behavior that is bound to attract attention, from others. Mater of factly, we all comprise some sensation seeking behaviors. Some are hypervigilant about how others might perceive them. 😉
@marbellareyna7290 Жыл бұрын
"Different interest or intents" this is true. I think generally speaking it's about power and control. "Wants to date" stalking to get attention. "Mad at being rejected" stalking to hurt them. I can definitely see that. It's just their preferred method of achieving whatever goal they have.
@V_V88387 ай бұрын
I've been stalked for 7 years. Primarily online but they do their absolute best to get under my skin. Going as far as using or grooming or hiring others. I'm still not sure if it's my family or a pen pal or just a collective of very unwell people. Watching this video does very little to help me narrow in on the "type" of stalker.
@Poppy-yx8jsАй бұрын
I think it’s so interesting that platform’s who have actually engaged in cyberstalking and harassment don’t ever address the kind of harassment that they engage in when they are trying to cancel someone on social media considering it’s often really illegal and vicious. And is done in conjunction with others who harass said person by breaking into their home and hacking their devices. Stalking is a federal offense and is a crime in all 50 states of the US.
@tonimaric486723 күн бұрын
I got myself a very cute little shih tzu maltese dog who lets me know when anyone is creeping around. He also snuggles up to me and is a great comfort to me when I worry a little too much. Feeding and taking care of him gets me out of my head and focused on him and he is a funny sweetie. ❤
@january2754 Жыл бұрын
Thank you this was very informative. I always wondered to myself how these kinds of people don't think they are creepy You answered my questions.
@Jbutterfly9Ай бұрын
I am being stalked by my middle brother-in-law and ex-neighbor. What's worse is that they get help to continue stalking. My brother-in-law's help from relatives who helped him has stopped. And they also see how jealous and envious he is. It's a different story with my ex-neighbor. She talks her way out of it. And keeps going. People around her provide her with information. I do have help now.
@BeanieT-j4sАй бұрын
I'm at a loss of what to do, myself. I've had coworkers and strangers find out personal details about me that I've never told them. It's kind of creepy. An Uber driver once picked me up with a British accent after I watched a video saying I'd meet my soulmate with a British accent just the previous night. There's been so many weird moments like this that others have witnessed as well with me, such as talking to my boyfriend about "if we saw a certain underaged drinker (who had harassed us before) at the casino, we would report her as underaged." Then I was reported a couple hours after for being underaged in the casino when I was well above the age. So many instances like this and I don't know who to talk to about it so I talk to my loved ones instead because how are authorities going to help with something like this exactly? It's strange.
@jelenatanic8741 Жыл бұрын
Samo mi je stigla poruka od nekog nepoznatog ko se hvalio, a posle ništa od toga. I često razmišljam što baš meni. Dobro što je pokrenut ovaj kanal.
@RegisteredNurseL.A.5 ай бұрын
I had a stalker and thought he was gone. I wiped all my social media, moved, and changed my phone number. This was over 10 years ago. Now, in March of 2024, I felt safe enough to create a LinkedIn account. Guess who tried to reconnect TWICE? Him. Gene Towner is his name. He tried following me here, too, and I had to block him. He makes multiple accounts. I’m so tired of this. I own three guns now because I couldn’t get restraining orders against him because he lives in a different state. I tried twice and presented all the phone calls, emails, voicemails and letters he sent to my HOME. Nope, no restraining order even though he threatened me in many of his messages. He would go from threatening to nice and then back to threatening me in his VMs because I never responded.
@empressb4443 ай бұрын
See if you can contact the court where he lives and send them all that documentation for a protection order and no contact order against him through court there
@RegisteredNurseL.A.3 ай бұрын
I’ve since canceled LinkedIn. I have contacted the courts where he lives. He played the victim saying he was on disability and couldn’t possible fly to my state and wah, wah, wah and they believed him. But, he can spend a whole day riding a Harley (his disability is back pain supposedly). My friend said he wished he had a stalker and that stalkers were “pretty people problems.” Kinda pissed me off to hear that. I told him “It’s not a pretty people problem; it’s a running into a psycho problem.” He hasn’t texted back. I think my friend is too immature to realize how much f**kery a stalker can cause in a person’s life.
@RegisteredNurseL.A.2 ай бұрын
@FlyingMonkies325 Yeah I haven’t spoken to my friend who wishes he had a stalker. He just doesn’t get it and it’s exhausting to have to explain all the fear a stalker can instill in you.
@Gibbon4207 ай бұрын
Presently a victim of a resentful stalker. Its been months, and they wont let it go. Ive removed every avenue of contact can think of, but they keep finding new ways to reach out, trying to do things to upset me. I just want them to leave me alone.
@eyeamphree33376 ай бұрын
They want you they can't let go. Nothing but a love obsession would go this far. Don't let em catch you off guard in a crime of passion that you're clueless about because they're surviving off pure delusion & one sided attachment 🤢
@ninjagirlnomeansno9403 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely stupendous, Thank you Darren for your help and getting the Information out there, Peace, love to you and everyone, Thank you universe 😀😍♾️🧿🥰👽👽🌌🛸✨️✨️😁😃💞
@realnaveen Жыл бұрын
Thanks for explaining the good and bad intentions in detail! There is no reciprocity in bad intentions towards others. That explains everything.
@Ihateismaeelbutt2 ай бұрын
My stalker tried to reverse victim blame and call ME the crazy one. Its scary tbh. Ive never even once been diagnosed as clinically insane. Clinically insane is when you LIVE in a fantasy world and YOU are disconnected from reality and you cant get out of that mindset. SO NO. Im not insane. HE IS.
@Scene68 Жыл бұрын
I, personally, have dealt with stalking for quite some time now, and not coming from a stranger but from a relative. Mainly via the internet than in person. Darren Magee's examination on the types of mental disorders which stalkers deal with; for my relative, I believe is suffering from a personality disorder (due to childhood trauma and parental abandonment). Does not excuse the actions to which I have suffered, all of which have been criminal. But the only thing I supposed one can do is just pray for their soul and some direction because they will never change unless the stalker themselves comes to the conclusion their brain is very unhealthy and they need to seek treatment ASAP to get better.
@lisahawkins274411 күн бұрын
Yes, I've been and still am being stalked by Resentful Stalker and he has gotten others to join in on this. He feels entitled due to his own behavior and yes, is the "victim". This has been going on for a long while.
@mojojoji54936 күн бұрын
I hate stalkers their gaze is relentless and sometimes it’s a daily occurrence that can last hours
@cherylann1632 Жыл бұрын
I have been stalked by a woman for the last 50 YEARS - yes - 50 years! She stalks me and finds the people who are close to me or my business associates, and then uses her social power to legitimize the lies she spreads about me. She is a lesbian so its creepy. She hates men and has been involved in anti-rape, and more recently in child abuse. Her public face is one of caring and promoting women's rights and human rights, but in fact she is an abusive narcissist.
@Indusxstan Жыл бұрын
Why didn't you make a diary and expose the psycho? Why suffer in vain?
@Johnny_Fox_Show5 ай бұрын
Can a stalker be more than one type of stalker at the same time a resentful one that is also predatory and/or rejected at the same time?
@DarrenFMagee5 ай бұрын
I’d say they could yes
@anyname77711 ай бұрын
I tried to go to go the FBI because of the size, depth and extent. They wanted me to bring the evidence. There isn't a single person that will help me without a significant amount of money to be paid. The stalking prevents me from earning a living wage.
@kerrib1000 Жыл бұрын
My stalker is a 65-year old plutonic male coworker who over the last 18 months started stalking and following me from a distance. He started inquiring about my whereabouts from other coworkers. He’s always staring at me and watching my every move. We were totally plutonic as he talked about how he would never cheat on his wife. Then when I realized that he had a thing for me, I began avoiding him and I don’t engage him at all. I guess this angers him and he’s constantly subtly hanging around me and causing me great anxiety. I don’t know what to do. He is fully aware that I have no interest in him. It’s been almost 2 years. I don’t want to report him. He’s got over 30 years on the job. I’m so tired.
@mariapilarme Жыл бұрын
Get a labor lawyer to write a letter to Human Resources, not you. HR don’t advocate for you, your lawyer does.
@LBDaGreat1-si3jt4 ай бұрын
I HAVE A MOTORCYCLIST WHO STALKS ME EVERYTIME I WALK OUTSIDE MY HOME. IDK OF HE IS A HOMOSEXUAL, MENTAL OR A COP. The police say " because the person doesn't say anything to me or haven't hurt me theres nothing they can do." Thats not right. Seeing a stalker everyday is alarming and annoying and not knowing what the stalker is thinking could bring fear to someone. Women/ men who are stalked on social media they wont get hurt or sometimes not communicated it doesn't mean a police officer should not do anything. My stalker is getting away with committing a crime.
@LBDaGreat1-si3jt4 ай бұрын
HACKERS AND STALKERS ARE PSYCHOPATHS. THEY HAVE A DEMON IN THERE HEAD THAT IS TELLING THEM TO GO AFTER A CHILD OF GOD. The lord is far from the wicked.
@bubblznsparklz12 күн бұрын
I've been stalked much of my life and has increased the past 5 or 6 years not for a direct sexual reason. Mostly verbal harassment persistent unwanted communication. One thread I realized is their desire for me to talk.
@janetteadams40233 ай бұрын
The stalkers I've encountered are when I was a caregiver for my mother and father. They were a married couple who were tenents that lived next door and we were owners. They figured out I would be inheriting the property so they stalked and harassed me trying to make me angry for normal noise they made in the middle of the night banging on my walls to kill insects. Nails in my tires, keyed up my car, watered her plants until there was water damage everywhere. Then when I confronted her about her bahavior she called the cops on me to claim harassment and that she was going to sue me! I showed the officer the videos of all her causes she felt there was no consequences for and it all backfired on her! I didnt tip my hand until she tried to spin it the 1st chance she got that I was the problem to try to take my property! Susan was so enraged that she got even worse to where she paid more attention to me then her own husband. Turning on her lights when I got home to let me know shes watching my every move. I had to sell the house with my sick and dying parents to a new house in a better neighborhood with better neighbors.
@caffeinatedhuman4035 Жыл бұрын
I am a person with an ex partner who I failed to get closure with... I sincerely never knew what went on in her mind to distroy all interactions. Try as I might I could never get her out of my head. I would caution people with using the word stalker... Primarily because it is a word that is use a weapon for covert narcissist to get immature revenge. Sometimes parties break up. Sometimes there is regret. Sometimes there is the need for hurt parties to get revenge by ghosting. There is a multipul pay off for the hurt individual (A) They know their ghosting causes you pain (B) The can brag to their friends...You will never guess who tried to contact me again. (C) Then if you attempt contact a number of times they can drop the stalker bomb...into the conversation. If you never want to see a person again for the remained of your life... Be very direct in your language... Tell the person they are effectively dead to you. That you NEVER want to see them again. For the remained of their natural lives you never want to see them again. Hope is a terrible thing... I always assumed I could take on a reduced role...at a subconscious level. Unfortunately in my younger years I was terrible an expressing myself. I was never dangerous I often wonder how many ex partners use this tactic to validate their own egos as a form of revenge?
@Indusxstan Жыл бұрын
You still can't express yourself Your grammar is bad Syntax is awful You are mentally still sick
@leeboriack8054 Жыл бұрын
A former partner stalked me for over 4 years. Followed me on dates, tapped my phone, interrupted mail, he was relentless! I isolated, horrified to speak up out of shame and fear of not being believed.
@Leannot3525 күн бұрын
It started in an unhealthy abusive relationship that got me trapped in a place where I'm living, and this is nowultiple people, tamperedcars mail taken misery😢
@dm51294 күн бұрын
If you deal with hate stalkers be aware you are dealing with dangerous fakes. They are jealous of who you are and they are not
@BubbaHotepMothership Жыл бұрын
My naïveté & laziness fully cooperated with 60yr old passive aggressive stalking/ doxxing. So innocuous and pervasive I refused to deal with it.
@Zalika-dj8ue Жыл бұрын
Lol victim blaming 101
@BubbaHotepMothership Жыл бұрын
Wifey in “House of Gucci” might also ID as victim. Movie based on real events.
@DigitalGarden-go5kw2 ай бұрын
Thank you for the information!🙏🏻
@womanclothedinthesunq7574 Жыл бұрын
Thank you 💞 shared love from Albuquerque
@SimoneJassmann-jr5bl11 ай бұрын
Very important video even strangers who act like they know you and say where you have eaten what you watch etc. Orwellian type stalking goes on
@mojojoji54936 күн бұрын
Any type of stalking is horrible and I’m going through an incompetent stalker right now… lol
@mayangoddess99492 ай бұрын
I was made to understand that STALKERS are mostly upset due to "UNREQUITED LOVE." (i.e. telling the whole world) that someone's husband aka your lover is madly in love with you). And that you're even planning to get married to the HUSBAND/LOVER and having children with HIM. While in fact, your "LOVER" is actually busy getting ready to RETIRE abroad with HIS WIFE of a few decades. So...What exactly is it? MENTAL ILLNESS or did you take a PROPAGANDA course ? Obviously..."We The People". . .must seriously decide which version of these STORIES...WE choose to believe. "Never interact with a STALKER." I totally agree. Hence, we must NEVER minimize what they're capable of doing. Because they obviously WANT something. It could be the MAN, the MONEY, the FARM, the BUSINESS.... everything! Because..believe it or not, there are those who only want to be taken out to DINNER at MCDONALD'S.
@natashab3113 Жыл бұрын
My stalker of over 2 years was told by police to stay away from my area, he has stayed away, but will he ACTUALLY stay away?
@Corrosion37 Жыл бұрын
Can you determine what catagory the ''stalker'' falls under by the methods used to stalk?
@thaisi765 ай бұрын
What if the stalker didnt realise what they where doing, people with mental health disorders such as bpd depression, gad, ocd etc. A non violent stalker who was just very unwell and not of sound mind who knew they needed help and even told doctors etc that they need to be in a hospital to be treated but just got brushed off and just put on more medication. A stalker can be going through hell as well. Its terrible for both sides. But a rational person of sound mind is a whole different ball game.
@babylilbunny2 ай бұрын
My boyfriend’s ex girlfriend has been staking me for over 4 years. Her harassment patterns are consistent with those of someone suffering with narcissist personality disorder with baiting, hovering, flying monkeys, etc. The harassment started with her accusing me of stealing her “boyfriend” (even after they broke up) to now where she is messaging my family on social media on different platforms, she moved in to another city with my abusive ex boyfriend to gain information (my socials have been successfully hacked, my ex had my passwords), to getting random strangers I don’t know to threaten me for her. I’ve had to get the police involved. She seems to fall under the vindictive/rejected stalker mentality.
@nickingrando690210 ай бұрын
🙏🙏🙏 prayers for the people who suffer from these disorders
@angelcox61364 ай бұрын
I witnessed a crime in the year 2000 and I was punished for it. The people who were supposed to help resolve this crime wrote a negative report about me saying that I was a problem. So the person stalking me took money to do it and now every bit of my life is compromised. He has money and power it works for the government. I just realized day before yesterday that that's why I've been feeling so heart sick. I've been being stalked for almost 4 years now. Don't feel like I can go to the police. I have proof and I even have his phone number. It just makes me truly heart sick and I feel unsafe 😢
@lisawheeler41434 ай бұрын
I’m beginning stocked now. I’m scared. I find myself looking around now when I do anything. Filing out the restraining order is bringing back all the bad history. I fall into Stockholm syndrome. 😣💔 thank you for the information.
@Notme811_you Жыл бұрын
So my stalker was seeking a romantic relationship with me. It all started in 9th grade for me. But his fascination for me probably started in kindergarten. I was just minding my business going from class to class. He was in two of my classes but he didn’t seem to notice me. I noticed him because I thought he seemed familiar and kind of cute but I put out of mind. Then one day he saw me without my glasses. He said to his friend. “It’s her!” Then he proceeded to tell me that we had met in kindergarten. I agreed that I thought so too. After that he made some crude attempts to get my attention. Mostly he would show up in the same places as me. Places he wasn’t supposed to be at like near the girls gym. I thought if I ignored him he would give up and stop bothering me but unbeknownst to me, he was following me way more than I had realized. Those time that he “showed up” trying to say hello were nothing he was following me all the time everyday from class to class. He knew my route to classes that we didn’t even share. He followed me to the bus area. One time he sat next to me on the bus. I thought it was odd because why did he sit next to me of all people. I was certain there were other spots open. He said hi to me. I don’t remember if I said hi back but then he just stared at me the whole 15min to my stop. I felt so uncomfortable. I thought about asking why he was staring at me. Then we came to my stop and I grit my teeth because I had to tell him to move. He moved on his own and I was relieved. I thought he was going to sit back down but instead he walked behind me all the way to the driveway of my house and then turned around and left. The only reason I knew is because my brother saw him and asked me who he was. I think he developed an obsession with dating the cute girl from kindergarten. I wasn’t necessarily me in the present moment. It was the girl he met back then. He was obsessed with my face. My physical attributes but he cared nothing about my feelings. He was only obsessed with my looks. If he found a doppelgänger that looked just like me he would probably be obsessed with her too.
@timmywitty143210 ай бұрын
It’s called a narcissistic snap shot, introjection. Sam vaknin lectures on the topic.
@paxtonlux6698 Жыл бұрын
I have a question. I have been stalked recently by friends and family of a girl who gave me her number out of the blue without me asking. She sent one text and i later replied with one text. I got no response so moved on and didn't text or call. Her friends and family have started stalking me for the last three weeks everytime they see me in a very small town. My question; could this be for drama or something, as i found out from one of her friends that she had a boyfriend she is with, or a cover story for why she gave the number?
@kristinmeyer489 Жыл бұрын
If you begin to realize that all aspects of your life have been infiltrated by these people, and bad things start happening to you thru others, you've been targeted. It's a sadistic pastime for a lot of underground freaks. They will enjoy humiliating, belittling, sabotaging, vandalizing, and smearing you, to recruit more haters to "help" them pile on you. This is only IF you've been targeted. My advice is to get away as soon as possible so they can more easily let you go and find an easier human toy to mess with. Once they've convinced themselves that you "deserve" their illegal maltreatment, they'll actually hold it against you for trying to regain your privacy or escape.
@paxtonlux6698 Жыл бұрын
@@kristinmeyer489 Thankyou. Apreciate this. I agree as i have seen someone stalked before their cluster b pathologies are looking for a way to blame you as to escape and need for empathy. I have never stalked anyone and the idea seems like a waste of my life.
@taraarrington2285 Жыл бұрын
So do you think this means that most private investigators have like borderline personality disorder or narcissistic personality disorder? Because they obviously enjoy that kind of career or they wouldn't stalk people for a living.
@buildtherobots8 ай бұрын
I was stalked by a fellow student when I was in college who was the ex partner of the person I was dating. They had broken up 2 months or so before we started dating. I think she would qualify as the predatory kind of stalker in that she just seemed to enjoy collecting information on me and lording it over me, relishing in the power to unravel my already frayed mental health. She gave me a nickname that implied that I was crazy. She stopped stalking me as soon as my relationship with her ex ended. She went on to become a marriage and family therapist.
@John-rt7ou3 ай бұрын
That is one hell of an experience. I was in a hotel lobby in Stuart Florida in the early 1970s. This hotel had a nightclub downstairs. A recently divorced woman was in that nightclub with her boyfriend. Also her ex-husband had stalked her there from far away. The woman got up and walked across the lobby and into the ladies restroom. Her dear ex followed her through the door and shot her dead. He walked across the lobby and into the nightclub. Somebody got shot in there presumably the boyfriend. After that he shot himself through the side of the head. I watched them carry him out of there on a stretcher. That boyfriend girlfriend ex-wife ex-husband kind of stuff has led to a great many problems and crimes and murders.
@RachelleFerrier-qv6ieАй бұрын
WOW
@John-rt7ouАй бұрын
@@RachelleFerrier-qv6ie I was involved in another situation in which 104 people were murdered and about 270 were injured. Many of the injured were horribly disfigured and dismembered and profoundly disabled for life.
@angelabrainky7786 Жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@larasudomlak712810 ай бұрын
Blessings Darren. Just touching base to prove I have sought this info again. 🙏
@thewierdragonbaby4843 Жыл бұрын
I've been accused of being a stalker before, but I didn't have any malicious intent, I just wanted to be friends. I feel bad for the guy but don't know how to resolve the situation, and now he doesn't like me. Here's my perspective on what happened: Throughout my first 3 years at secondary school, there was this one guy who was always bullying me, which I found really hard to deal with, but that's not relevant just yet. Fast forward a bit and this guy's best friend (the one who I was accused of stalking) made a song and published it on his YT channel, but at the time I didn't know about his channel so I didn't know about the song. Then one day in form time, the friend was given permission to play the song to the whole form, and he did. In my opinion, this song was just so much better than anything I could ever hope to produce. I also got a glimpse of his YT name after the song and saw his channel was doing much better than mine (pretty small in the grand scheme of things, but compared to my channel it had quite a large number of subscribers). I honestly was jealous of him, of the fact that me and my bully's best friend are about the same age, but he seemed to be doing so much better than me (his YT channel was doing well compared to me and he's better than me at music). I was also around the same time trying to find a solution to the guy bullying me. I thought if I told a teacher about him, he would get in trouble, realise it was because of me and would just bully me even more. I was hoping to instead become friends with him, but I thought there was no hope in ever directly talking to him as the situation had gotten too out of hand. I eventually thought of the idea that I could try to become friends with his best friend, and then maybe through him I could become friends with the actual guy himself. The friend genuinely seemed (and still does seem) like a good person, and he had never done anything to annoy me in the past. But I'm a huge introvert and don't have the courage to go up and speak to people in person, but I find it slightly easier to interact with them online. I thought maybe if I was active on his YT and subscribed to him, then I might have a chance. So, I decided to search up his song after school that day, like the video, subscribe to his channel with bell notifications on and also comment something (he didn't know who I was so I felt it much easier to comment than to talk to him in person). I started off by commenting some not too weird thing that I can't remember exactly. But then, my ASD kicked in and I felt an uncontrollable urge to point out a bunch of spelling mistakes throughout the song, with a few over the top compliments thrown in to undo the bad things I pointed out, so he knew I wasn't saying the song was bad. This was a huge mistake. I didn't realise this at the time but apparently, over the top compliments don't seem genuine, so looking back on it, he probably thought I was being sarcastic, but I'm not the smartest and I genuinely thought I was being nice by commenting on his video to hopefully make it more popular. I even listened to the song on repeat for days and eventually, I for the most part carried the video all the way to 1000 views, making it one of his most popular videos. But that's not all I did to try to become a positive part of his community, I also joined his Discord server. Big mistake. He DMed me asking who I was. To this day I have no idea why I did this, and I know I shouldn't have done, but I first made him guess who I was for a bit, which I just thought was a bit of fun, but I guess he didn't see it like that. Then I told him. Instantly blocked on Discord and hidden from his YT channel. This was my first sign that I should've taken that he doesn't want me on his channel, but I didn't see it, I just thought he had just had a bad day or something like that and moved on. He later made more music, which I also listened to on repeat, and since he didn't have one on his channel, I decided to create a private playlist containing all of his songs on my channel. Then, he unlisted one of his songs. This was when my selfishness shone through, but I didn't realise how selfish I was being until much later. I still had the link to this unlisted song, and I didn't think it was a bad song, so going against what he would've wanted, I decided to make my playlist public so that other people could still access it if they looked for it. At the time, no one knew about this playlist except me, and no one really ever did find out about it apart from him, but I'll get to that later. Then he actually privated this song, and now it's lost forever. This was when I suspected (correctly) that he seemed to be in a cycle of releasing a song and thinking it's good, then later on he would stop liking it and eventually get rid of it. So, being the ignorant selfish guy I was, I saved all of his existing songs into web archive, removing his privacy and meaning that he could no longer ever fully delete any of his songs, simply because I thought they were good songs and still wanted to listen to them. Later, when he deleted some more songs exactly as predicted, I put a description of what to do to get to them into my public playlist description, meaning anyone could access them if they wanted and so they're not really private. Then, he found my playlist and commented on one of my videos, saying if I didn't private or delete my playlist of his deleted videos, he would take legal action using YT's copyright system. This was the point when I finally realised way too late that he doesn't want me anywhere near his channel, and I would never be able to become friends with him or the guy bullying me, so I did what I should've done months prior and stopped. I unsubscribed from his channel so as to not see when he uploads and deleted the playlist. Knowing how selfish I was I feel really bad for him now, I can't even imagine what he must have been going through, but I think if I ever speak to him again it will just make the situation worse. The guy who was bullying me also found out about this and started bullying me even more. TL;DR stalked a guy whose best friend was bullying me as an attempt to become friends with both of them, ended up getting bullied even worse
@raversfantasy887310 ай бұрын
You are not stupid. All good with you anyways mate. I am similar, stalked ex-gf's by "harassing" them via email. Tbh. just wanting to be friends like you. I think we met unempathic people while surely overstepping boundaries. Doesnt make us evil and we have a microcosm like everyone else, difference is we don't think we know it all.
@alimccreery7553 ай бұрын
I was also being stalked in regards to my dog. I was being falsely accused of abusing her and the information given out was false gossip information. People who falsely report or accuse are nothing but a POS 😾