Thank you for sharing this: 1. I accept myself as loveable 2. I believe in myself as loveable 3. I see myself as loveable 4. I easily give love to others 5. I easily accept the love other’s have for me 6. I’m filled and nourished by the love other people have for me 7. I fill and nourish other people with my love This is so beautiful and important and something I need to get better at 💕💕

You also need to wait a very long time for the right person. If you keep settling out of loneliness, you're going to miss out on someone better. Raise your standards and walk away if someone disrespects you. I know people who didn't marry until they're in their 40's or 50's because they waited for the right one and they're the happiest people I know.

I didn’t meet the right man until I was 44 , I wasn’t looking and probably the happiest I’ve ever been. He was right in front off me all along, one of my good friends. Can’t believe it lol .

I suffer from severe anxiety, it keeps me locked in my home for days on end sometimes. When I need to do something or go somewhere, its a trip in the car, quick, hope nobody looks at me, home - safe! I listened to this video yesterday, listening to it again today. I took a deep breath walked out my door, and went on a big walk outside, it was difficult, I kept telling myself in my head, I love you unconditionally, you don't need to appear a certain way, I love you just as you are, it was the best feeling ever. I'm listening to this again and will go on a big walk again. It will get easier and I hope I can start to believe I am enough, I don't need to hide.

Though I was unwanted & recieved hatred from my family I was somehow filled with love myself. Sure I felt very lonely at times but even when I was as young as seven years old, I somehow became aware that there were other children like me, who did not have a Mummy or Daddy that loved them. I thought of those children & would lay in my bed at night sending those children love & hoping that things would go well for them & trying to tell them somehow that they were & are not completely alone. I still have that love inside me & still send people love & positivity. I am amazed that this wonderful love is there inside me & has been all that time.

Am single at 39 n I feel the same thing and even my family members filled all negative thoughts from my childhood about my looks, I needed this, thank you so much

I'm single because I choose to be. There is no law that says you have to be with someone to have value. I have learned that a lot of men have no idea what it takes to be men. Why is that? Because their fathers were not around to teach them. Therefore it is not that I am "less than". It is because their father took the easy way out and left their mother. Sad situation, but something you learn to deal with. Just know your Creator sees it all, and has your back. Rely on Him, and you won't be used, abused and discarded, ever.

I wish my teenage self found these videos! I have written my affirmations and I promise to move forward loving myself unconditionally. Thank you, Marisa!

Am single at 42 and my family says that I'm going to miss on the train referring that I don't have a partner. I tell them I'm fine I'm working on myself to love and treat me with love . But they do not get it. As long I feel confident, comfortable and love with myself nothing as matters. Thanks Marisa Peers I need it to hear this and reminded.

Wow.... few minutes into this video and I’m having heart palpitations and tingling sensations all over my body. It’s so hard to watch this video and accept this fact that every inch of my body relates to every single word in this video. At the end of this video, my intention is to change the way I used to think and feel about myself and love myself unconditionally that it radiates to the outside of me.

Oh wow! 33:22 This is so simple but a real revelation to me. "Everything they loved about you is still there". He left, but I still posses all those qualities he highlighted. You've given it a different perspective. Thank you for such a great video! I've been struggling a lot with this topic.

Love is something you have to give to the world, and it will come back to you, I believe. ❤️

According to my experience in the Eastern World the "conditional love" is even more obvious. Most parents scold and even beat their children if the children havent got high enough scores at school. Many so called life coaches in my country are talking about if you're not this, this and this you won't meet a decent man. I feel so lucky that I came across Marisa's work.

This video reminds me that I don’t praise myself enough when you were telling me I am amazing I’m a good friend all of those things it just made me start crying.

Idk. I love myself, I love others, I practice gratitude, and I went to an RTT hypnotherapist whom eradicated my fear of relationships + removed my traumas. But I'm still single. But I don't really care enough to be desperate about it, because I'm also happy by myself.

You know this is so amazing, and also fascinating. We always think the 1st person who comes along is the one, and for some they are lucky and it is, but there's nothing wrong with you if it isn't. I always thought my baggage would be too much for someone, but I'm in therapy and sifting through it. Sometimes you are your own knight in shining armour. I always wondered how I could be almost 30 and single, and what it meant about how the world saw me. Unworthy of a second look, messy and boring, but that's not true it's just the way i see myself. Damn I heard the message from my dad growing up and just assumed the whole world saw me that way, but that's not true either. Someone will turn up, and until then I'm going to keep doing me. I'm the love of my own life 🌸❤

Everyone should listen to this video in its entirety. There are so many lessons in it. Thank you so much Marisa for this!

I did this all and attracted a narcissist when he realised I was falling under his abuse mentally physically emotionally he found me weak and Amped up the abuse- so, if I live myself I should of left him. Yet, I seeked his approval and received hate and violence and was told I’m worthless. So, if you love yourself it means walk away from abuse.

I needed this video! I'm constantly in horrible relationships where men are abusive, lie, cheat etc...and I understand that sometimes I'm the issue too bcuz I'm very insecure and jealous based on past experiences! I recently chose to sit with my loneliness instead of always trying to look outward I'm over being mistreated and made to believe I'm never enough and I'm also over treating the good ones like crap bcuz I do have deep seeded issues. One thing I was taught very young was to hate myself and now being 30 I'm trying to start reversing that to maybe have 1 "normal" relationship before I die lmao ❤

When the student is ready, the teacher will come. Thank you so much😘 New subbie 💯

OMG! This woman is brilliant! Every time, I hear her, she mentions all of the hurtful instances that I've endured already. SHE KNOWS. It's AMAZING!

I cried...accepting myself..I am 40!!!God Bless you!!! So much good you do you can't imagine!!!!

It comes from childhood and how your parents relate to you.

As I listened to this video and right away started to practice saying nice words to myself - one of my ex boyfriends wrote me after just 5 mins :D what a miracle

Some of us have done the inner work and have evolved to a great person and now we are so wonderful it's hard to find someone on the same level. The best love is to love yourself and never seek or expect love from another. Unconditional love comes from you, for you and within yourself, only then with the same come to you

It's hard to realize that our brains are biological computers. When we are born we don't have memory. It is programmable. It's all about the programming or the lack of programming.

I agree, we need to be TRUTHFUL. And show REAL LOVE.

Almost always you got an insight into things rather too late than too early and we all know you can´t get just a second back of wasted time, love, whatever. Selflove, Self-respect, self-esteem should be taught to everyone from early childhood on to prevent struggle later with all that problems in life. How many life stories are destroyed by that bundle of inner conflicts that stop developing a fulfilling life.

So much healing has takin place during me watching this.i was able to let go of so much childhood trama I didn't know I had within. 🦋 Namaste

Being physically attractive as a woman can bring out deep seeded insecurities in other people both Men and Women. People are generally not happy with themselves they see beauty as an unfair advantage. Especially Men. Men are initially attracted to beauty but then they can have contempt that a beautiful woman may get continual attention. This continual attention from the general public can exhaust a man as he feels like he can't keep up. Or he becomes angry if he is a narcissist. Women can also act jealous and hateful toward physically beautiful women as well. The way the brain sometimes works is odd... it looks for flaws in perfection and conversely it looks for beauty in imperfection. I noticed insecure men m chase after physically beautiful often looking for validation. Then the get disillusioned when they realize they cant possess a person. I noticed much older men treat beautiful women with more respect then this generation from 30 to 50 year olds.

Marissa peers videos are soo good i pause for a moment just to let it all in.

I love everything she said .You're such an inspiration I wish more and more women and men put these in practice. I always lived my life for God and myself I don't care what others think .

Thank you Marisa. I also love the calm way you talk, your voice and your beautiful accent. English is not my mother tongue but I perfectly understand you. I already understand why I am still single at 47. 🤗🙈🙏

Your message is so profoundly encouraging for many. Thank you so much. May YOU be blessed.

You are a beautiful person blessed with wisdom. Thank you dear friend.

When u hv met enough ppl you cared about that betrayed u or used u, u might come up the need to learn to detach. If you manage well, you should be free to get into any relationships, otherwise, it s better to meet group interest and enjoy without being greedy, no matter how much you thought you deserved it. Being independent is more important than many think

I would love to train in all this!! Honestly humanity needs this. I have a, talent with people now I just need the tools. I am excited to learn all you have to share. Making this world a better place 🌏 much love and gratitude 💛

Thanks Marisa. I loved this💖. Self talk is so powerful. I often do as you suggest to my present self. I also say nice things to photos of myself as a kid, things I would have liked to have heard.

One has to start with being in love with life

Always show people your real self, that thing that you consider a flaw, might be their favorite thing about you.

I think you are wonderful. I already love myself and am knowledgeable about a lot of the stuff you're saying but equally I'm learning so much from you. I feel like you are the final piece of the puzzle for me.❤ Thank you.

I'm so thankful for you, for making so, people learn to love themselves! You're so awesome🌸 Love you, already Mrs. Marisa❤

My confidence is fine...I think I am worthy, and I have lived up to the preverbial perfection, so it isn't a matter of thinking I am not worthy. I KNOW I an worthy! My problem is I see so many people that have not had to live up to the standards that were set up for me, and I know I am worthy, but get nothing and have worked hard and loved hard, and get nothing in return in life. It has nothing to do with not feeling lovable...

I choose to be so single. I can't be in a relationship because I feel under scrutiny and feel suffocated. I view relationships as a lack of freedom. Plus, I cannot bring anything positive to a relationship now, the older I've become the less caring and more selfish I have become. There's no going back now..

So glad to have found this video. I know I am going to do better for myself moving forward. It's never too late. Thank you Marisa. 🙏

Thank You! For sharing this it is very important to know your worth, you are enough, and your purpose in life

Amazing video with so much truth in it. Thank you. Essentially, it sums up the 5 ys I spent studying psychology. Makes me wanna go on.

How fitting you made this around valentines day! I wish you had been around to be Marilyn's therapist, she might still be alive and a strong woman.

She's excellent , the best.. she really is smart practical and down-to-earth

Honestly u have help me so much I have learn self-love my values I have been saying each of your videos about enough and this one because I honestly want to change and lift my vibration up, so I attract, good things through my life, and grateful for what I do receive I can’t. Thank you enough.

Everything put together at one place. Nice job guys.

For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. Psalms 139

Actually, I don’t mind being single. And I see myself as loveable, today. But being single is not a punishment, it is freedom. Unless you meet someone better than freedom. It’s rare, but sometimes it happens. I’m so happy I haven’t married some idiot.

I love myself just fine... I like who I am when I am alone. I keep attracting partners who are emotionally unavailable. >.

how wonderfully you ae teaching the good and right behavior for each others.

This is sooooo good. Thank you!!

how nice you are....you are healing my heart after loosing my peer

This is life changing 🙏 thank you for sharing Marissa. I wish I could have one to one therapy session with you one day x

My appreciation💕 We have to see too how the religions implied this believe: we are all born in sin, something in us is not right from the beginning....

Thank You, Marisa! I Am Love. It is very sad when people aren't able to accept that they are lovable, and cannot trust because of all their trauma. We may play the Original Trauma over and over in our heads and hearts until everyone fits that roll of Offender, Perpetrator in our lives. When I fall into the old ways of, I am unlovable, I return to Spirit and my Original State of BEING. I AM LOVE.

Thank you so much Marisa , such good advice, will try to love myself 💕

This is totally epic ❤

Thank. You. So. Much. Just by hearing you this little bit, I can say you changed my life... Thank you

Amazing gift for everyone ❤ thank you Marisa!

I wish to commend you on this true message. Happiness is an inside job just as sure that Love is!

I hate dating apps and dating sites. My refusal to use them may be keeping me single but I know from experience that I can use a dating site or app and stay single anyway. I am not going to “get with the program” and internet date just because that’s what so many people do these days.

What a wonderful woman! Thank you for sharing your knowledge with the world :) :)

Marisa ....this came on while I was asleep ....I thought I herd I wrote a horrible text to you, if I did ...I want to say I have high test esteem for your teaching and how you have you blest the world ...I think highly of you. . If I wrote anything bad ...It is furthest from truth. I love you

lol i know why.in fact knowing that my childhood was abusive and my parents are toxic made me even more sad and depressed than when i assumed it was normal and all kids are raised like this. in fact i fell into depression during my bachelor when for the first time opened up about it to some "friends' and they all were saying how they miss their loving family and how their fathers are kind and supportive and their mom never has a borderline disorder..before i knew it was not normal i was stronger and not victimized

Of course to say that I’m a lovable it’s easy but then to believe it it’s harder with the negative programming sitting deep down in our subconscious mind! But with deep work everything is possible 🙏🏻🥰

Well it’s true. That’s why men leave their wives who have “let themselves go” if you’re expecting some man to love you unconditionally like your mother (usually) does you’re on the wrong path. No matter what anyone says

The world needs this. 39:35

Omg you are so amazing and informative. I absolutely adore your personality and energy.Life changing stuff thank you ☺️

Marisa i love you, you always make things great. I felt lonely since child hood too, but i am working on me, many aspects of my life and you are my guide. I am loveable😀 actually we are all loveable.

Wonderful therapist. ❤️

“A soulmate is someone who has locks that fit our keys, and keys to fit our locks. When we feel safe enough to open the locks, our truest selves step out and we can be completely and honestly who we are; we can be loved for who we are and not for who we’re pretending to be.“

I love you Marisa and your voice is so soothing to me.

Wow! I need to listen to this on repeat!

Thank you for all your video it help me a lot , im single mum and abusive relationship my past and i think when im being nice to the men they take me for granted ..

I listened to EVERY bit of WISDOM you shared!!!!!!! You have let me BELIEVE I had HOPE!!!!!!!! YOU ARE WONDERFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SOOOOOO GRATEFUL!!!!!! THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU MARISSA. LOVE RANDY AKA JAMES WALKER

Some of us want to be single and enjoy our lifestyle choices as a single person

I got emotional watching this

Love you 😊

thanks Marisa for sharing this. Your sharing always amazing.

It took me a while to learn to say no to other’s. and I did ran into some men like that online dating site too.

I love you my lovely mom marisa ❤

The reason I've been single for this long is because I stopped dating and searching for a partner. I've found great self love and self acceptance and do not seek validation from others. This hasn't found me a compatible partner though.

Just stumbled upon this video after watching mind valley.. well guess what m in my late 30s.... never had a BF.. n not married !!

I’m afraid I lost my last love. I couldn’t marry a liar. I forgot about birth age; it matters not to me but that’s rare. Most of society tries to require women look good or they are treated as invisible. I looked much younger than my age until this pandemic. It shows in my face:(

You know, a bunch of times in My past ways of thinking... I Thought You were annoying. You are a Good teacher and I THANK YOU for Being Here 🌎 Merci Beaucoup to You 💌💞✍

Alone at 66. I have loved and been loved. But don’t put up with being undermined. I would not t be controlled. I never was actually adored. So yes my standards were never met. I am happy. 🌈😊

I came from a family that pushed me to better and not for anyone else but for me. When I was young I thought its natural to and good to have family to put out things that need to be correct, and most times as humans we don't always teach in away that's I guess your way ,life in this mundane world and that mean and parents, teacher all have their way of teaching, Doesn't mean they don't love us because they scream some sense into us....we don't come in this world knowing anything!?! The different ways we're thought is pretty much the same across the board. ...jus like your try to teach us that how we grew up was BAD. We are strong humans and we get over it and move on even when abuse was experienced. You really make sound like we are all hopeless unless we where raised perfect. Not even you were raised perfectly, by your own admission!!, yet you got over it beautifully...we'll all of us adults and children will be perfect too....just like you with out being program that there's something wrong ins6of us !?!?...I think you a not helpful at all...its more like your teach us to depend on your way of teaching...well save sister, you not capitalizing on me+!! Unless you can help us poor broken peoples with a large weekly allowance of money and a good education, That 99.9% of our problem in this mundane world as everyone can now see!! Money, reading, writing, that's all we need,!! Yes!, it does buy happiness,! . You can't live a day without out it ,you can even buy a bottle of water with out a dollar...if you really want to useful, teach us something on how to make our government pay their people more then $7.20 per hour nationally, and all those money they steal from is and give to other countries so they can get a kick back!! All of the problems in this world revolves around inequality... if we all had the same money as the kings, nights , we won't have a problem. ..all problems evolve from lack of money!..all , maybe, you never were taught to see it this way !?!? No money, no education, no food. No clothes. No. Friends, no family,, no fixing anything without out money!!! For you. People out there find ways to get money , and your problems will go away ...! ....And I guarantee you'll be able to buy conference too!!!

What she saying is so true 😔I never learn to love myself and I get to few relationships rand none of them ever work 😢 I give up on being with someone I am just disappointed and not worthy to be loved😔😔

Yes Marisa I will look in the mirror and say I love me you are right and change the mind also will help

Have a care television & movies will broadcast beauty more charming than nature, and describe happiness that never exists. The entertainment tries to teach you to sigh after that which has no reality, to despise the little good that is granted you in this world and to expect more than is given.

I am loveable I am ready 💯 to love

Thank you I appreciate this 💓😊 I needed to hear this 😌

I love you, and never let go 😢

It’s right you must love yourself more than another person on this planet and people must change need to want a partner and a partner should be a bonus not a burden ever ok

I really needed to hear this! THANK YOU!!!