I hate it when parents don't believe their kids in situations like this... Some even kick their kids out when it comes to things like this!

lets all give a round of applause to the best friend's mom

Perents need to watch this. TAKE A HINT

When a kid tells you they don’t want to go somewhere because they don’t like someone making them do something that they don’t want PAY ATTENTION!!!!!

It's definitely not okay that his mom didn't take it seriously. I look forward to a world where adults take time to fully understand kids who call out for help. Because it's so difficult to most of them, it should never be taken too lightly.

2D: Yes 3D: *What*

I love that they show male victims, and in Kim's story, she says "if your boyfriend or girlfriend", showing that women do this too

I love how they include every gender cuz anybody can get sexually abuse ☹️

My mom is extremely religious but she’ll never not care

WHEN YOUR CHILD DOES NOT WANT TO BE AROUND SOMEONE OR SAY THEY ARE UNCOMFORTABLE AROUND SOMEONE…LISTEN!

Fight child abuse everyone

L Charlie's Mom W Carlos' Mom I hate how some adults cannot understand a cry for help from a child, as a simple as a "it's boring I don't like it" sounds..it's like a siren to them. Kids don't fully understand what to do in a situation like that which is why adults must be alert when their kid feels uneasy about someone or something.

His mom said “You might hurt his feelings” Boys mom is the enabler. Abusers #1 gateway is a neglectful parent. The mom is more worried about someones else’s feeling than her own sons💔

I don't have an abusive mother. But she is just so ignorant that i had to try and calm my younger brother down myself about we had issues with things that we had no help with shit. Having often mental breakdowns sucks. Always feeling alone. Trying to calm my brother down was not plesant. I do NOT understand people who want abuse. 😔😔😔😭

If A child has a sudden disdain toward someone and tells you this person makes them do things they don't want to, that's a massive red flag you should never ignore.

I feel so bad for this kid, it's a sad thing that things like this happen.

When I saw 2:06 His reflection in he window was speaking up bit in the real life he kept his mouth closed. That was what he wanted to do and what he was doing

It's good that you're out of that situation now I hope you're life IS THE same non

Okay but can we just give a round of applause to Best Friend’s mom? 👏👏👏

Told my mum my sister touched me inappropriately first time it happened. "I'll SPEAK to her" it didn't even do anything to help and then I told my dad. "She's not molesting you, get over it" I tried to tell and I couldn't. My parents are no longer my parents in my eyes. And my sister is not my family.

I wonder why I never seen stories about women abusing young boys? I went through a situation like that.

My grandfather on my dad's side did very hamulating things to me when I was a kid and teenager growing up and then he molested me and I had to go in serious detail with lawyers in order to make him face justice but I could face him in court because I was so frightened and terrified but thankfully I didn't because he confessed. I've suffered nightmares ever since on and off and I have PTSD.

Is the Mom a bad person? No. Like Darrius said, she WAS glad she found out about and understood the abuse her son was going through. But is she wrong for not asking more questions about why her son didn’t want to go? Yes. If she dug deeper, and tried to find more information on why her son was being avoidant, she could’ve potentially stopped the abuse sooner. Always be curious folks.

This is pretty much what happened to me. I told my mom I didn't want to be around my friend's dad. She asked why and I told her a half truth. I said he just makes me a tiny bit uncomfortable when he hugs me so much. She stressed to me how important it was to tell her if anything else was going on, but I said that was all. I told her enough that he wouldn't get in trouble but maybe I wouldn't have to see him so much. I'd rather do everything I could to avoid him than actually tell the truth. I'm glad videos like this are made to help teach kids how to deal with this kind of thing.

I really didn't expect to cry tonight, no child should ever have to go through that.

My mom always took this kind of thing seriously, that's why I appreciate her.

Shame how his own mom failed at protecting him. When a child says that someone makes them uncomfortable, no matter what it is, they shouldn't just brush it off.

My parents abused My dads asian Moms british They separated My mom sexually abused me And my dad put me in a hospital at 16 for no reason saying i was "sick". Well boo hoo Pray 1 day I will B a strong Woman and mother unlike ma mum.

I can never fathom why its so difficult for parents to pick up on cues.

Hearing when the predator groom the child makes my skin crawl

For situations like these it's important to find these clues and help your child give more detail, even if it seems like everything’s safe and perfect and sounds like it’s out of laziness. It’s only causing more damage to your child to leave it to him or her to add their story detail where once the nasty memories are out the kid then breaks down which in this case he’s afraid to do and doesn’t want to talk about it. So there’s not only sexual abuse caused by the coach here (which I’m not sure how he’s permitted and trusted to work around minors since this has obviously happened before) but also neglect from his mother for not using enough brain cells to communicate with her son more to ensure he’s not being harmed everyone should know that it’s wrong to be so dismissive towards a child in this way this is a lot of stress added to the trauma of a situation that no child should ever have to face. So for god sake help them!

Parents should always listen to their children

I’ve luckily never been abused, but I want to say this: If you, a friend, a relative, and more are getting abused in any way, please tell somebody you trust. Abuse in any way is NOT ok.

Mothers and fathers are just regular humans we don't have mind reading abilities so it is some times hard to know what your child means if they don't talk about it. You see your child's behavior has changed but if they don't want to or can't talk about what is going on you can't use a crowbar to open some one up all you can do is to be patient and try to figure out what is up with your child. If you are being abused tell your mom or your dad or a friend even straight up what is going on feel no shame because it is NEVER your fault as a child or as a teenager.

It's sad when your parents don't believe you when you say those things to them, when I told my mother I was abused, she didn't believe me and she actually blamed me. If anyone goes through the same situation, I'm here to help go through the same situation, I'm here to help you.

I know what this was like. I remember my grandma telling me that when I mentioned what happened I referred to it as "him tickling me weird", instead of saying what it really was(but to be honest I didn't know what sexual touches and sex actually was, I just knew that I was uncomfortable). That is until my 6th grade class showed a video about a young boy dealing with an older men trying to touch him inappropriately, how we shouldn't let it happen, and how we should speak up about it. That was when I knew that I needed to speak up about what was happening.

aw poor charlie but this is so sad that he tried to tell his mom and she didnt listen to him.

No child should have to go through that! No one should go through that! Telling is the second hardest part of it all, and I apologize to anyone who has gone through something like that.

What’s really sad is that this happens for real and the abuser gets away with it 😔

It breaks my heart knowing this kind of stuff happens to kids. My son is the most precious thing in my life and if he ever comes to me and says something like this happened to him I'm ripping several heads off

Kids aren’t responsible for telling the whole story, the parents are responsible for seeing what’s wrong Them not wanting to go anymore is reason enough.

God doesn’t like it when abuse like this happens, especially when it’s being caused by people who are supposed to teach about him.

Man these psa are kind of addictive to watch I almost watched every video because these are realistic and inform about real life thing that happen to people

Me:Just browsing my recommend This channel:*Hippity Hoppity Your recommend is now my property*

This Is is really Child Abuse But don't worry Charlie someone will cheer you up like your friends, an adult in youth club or anything else. 😁😁😁

Kids always will feel helpless if you don't listen closely

This is a heads up for all kids...when a mentor says you're his favourite have your guard up

it's sad that sexual abuse is something that happens everyday in the world.

Dear, Parents Take a hint and listen to your kids ~ a child

bro when he talked to his friends mom... that broke me am in shambles it was so releaving

Thank you so much for these videos that give children a voice and the words they need so much!

This is so sweet and sad and important! Poor Charlie! Thank God for his BFF's mom! His own mom needs to listen better, sheesh!

Carlos: My youth teacher has me do things that make me uncomfortable. His mom: Oh no! Anyways

If i was Charlie's mother, i would say to him "What does Pete make you do exactly? You can tell me Charlie, im your mother. If something bothering you, it's my job to understand what's happening to my son and then make it right" in a way to make sure Charlie has courage to explain in a more understood way

These types of parents scare me,you should always trust your kids.Especially if they say they are being abused.and bro this mom should care abt her kid the friends mom tho is amazing

this reminds me of what happen to me when I was around 8 or 9 years old I was touched by our neighbor and I didn’t say anything because I thought it was okay even though I was uncomfortable but it just sink in to me when I am teenager and I felt like my feelings were invalid because it happened a long time ago and wasn’t even that deep so I never spoke about it to my parents only to close friends I’m glad this channel is spreading awareness about this kind of things so more people would realize that there is something wrong and would call for a help

My mom did the same thing.. didn't care when I told her something happened to me. More like, not even acknowledging it.

Telling someone something important especially your parents is VERY hard when I’ve had to do this I actually had my best friend tell her mom so that her mom would tell my mom, I didn’t have the guts to tell them what I was going through, but luckily my friend was there that night and she actually saved my life and she wasn’t even there physically. With the abuse I suffered from my father (mental and emotional and rare cases of physical) I never told my mom because when I would she would confront him and then he’d come and hurt ME for telling her it was actually the night my friend saved my life that I was finally getting the help I needed I was sent to the hospital and then sent to another place a mental facility for kids and it was honestly horrible BUT there was one good person there that I finally told about my abuse and I was too afraid to tell my dad what he was doing to me mentally so the lady asked if it would be ok if while on the phone with them, she’d explain it. It’s been about 3 years now and my dad and I had a therapy session together and we finally made him understand the importance of his actions and he’s really changed, I’m finally happy. When trying to tell someone like an adult or a parent and they just “reject” this like the kid in this video you won’t want to tell them. If someone tells you they don’t want to go somewhere anymore or they don’t like someone anymore DONT assume ASK them why, that’s all they need to tell you is for you to LISTEN.

I am so glad there are videos like this to help children and their families on sexual abuse and how it is never okay. When I become a parent, I always want my child to tell me anything and to let them know it's okay to tell me even if it hurts. And for parents to really pay attention to their children's behavior and words.

When i was little in Y2, i have been bullied my entire life...and i got beaten up a lot in class and when it was time to play outside and i got jumped on pushed all the time and punched all over my body, and i was so alone in school..that i wish that I wasn't, i only had one friend called Casey and she got bullied with me and I didn't want her to get bullied with me but it kept happening until Casey left me...and then i was completely all alone till Y6 and i met a girl called Megan, we are still best friends till this day and yes i still get bullied, but it's very hard to tell why your being bullied cause you don't know why my name is Kelisha and I'm 11 now and i have to do online school cause my school is shut down, but hope you enjoyed my bullying story...

"Because Pete was a good influence" ;-; BRUH

Oh my gosh, can you guys stop talking about how she didn't take the hint? He said he just thought it was boring, and didn't wanna go, but she saw nothing truly wrong with that. Had he told her that "Hey, Pete did some gross things with me, I don't wanna go!", she would've beaten Pete up and apologized for ever letting him go there. Might even call the cops, too. He didn't specify because he didn't wanna remember the pain. Most victims feel like this, too. Helpless and scared. So no, she couldn't take a hint. He specified to Carlos's mom, who then told his mom.

3 yrs later and I’m still crying at this

i really love these they've helped me through a whole lot :( at least someone cared to make these although Im not a kid it helped me...

I understand the parent probably couldn’t imagine someone so nice to her kid, do that... but she also should’ve sat down and talked with the kid. Sometimes they say random things, but they also might be hinting that they wanna talk

"911 is just a phone number" "And jail is just a place"

So sad it can happen in real life I’m glad they makes these videos to teach kids

It's sad when you're too young, doesn't understand what's happening (think it's normal), want to find help but can't find the right words for it to say to others... When you grew up and just realised it, the damage was already done. But that doesn't mean you can't heal, doesn't mean you are broken. Whatever happened to you was not your fault, don't blame yourself. Love yourself. Never forget to love yourself first before anyone else. Surround yourself with positive people that support you. Share your emotions with people you trust to help you and protect you. Your emotions matter. You matter. Don't forget that.

I especially love how it’s a male target just to show that not just girls get sexually abused

I totally understand and also relate 😢😓 .

I remember, these videos started playing on my tv, im so glad.

Same happened with me, I was little and told my mom I didn’t want to go there and she never knew why she always told me “do you not love them?” And I would answer “I just don’t feel like it right now” I waited 13 years to tell her and when I did she finally understood. Don’t trust anyone with your kids always be there and make sure they know what’s wrong from right

A little before 2:17, you can see charlies reflection on the window, which is different to his actual expression, indicating his feelings are way more different than the actual expression and explanation of his reason

🎵hey don’t touch me there this is my no-no square🎵

I remember when I was living with my uncle with my other aunt as my guardian. I couldnt say anything much because of my autism, let alone because I was a kid, and everyone always told me to spit it out, which caused me to freeze up even more. I was abused by another kid and thought I was going to die and never go to heaven to see my mom, so not knowing what to do I just waited for myself to pass. They thought I was on drugs, even though I said repeatedly I would never be on them and hated them. Shows how much they listened. Even though they came to comfort me, it was only under threat of any punishment was I made to be put back in line. They didnt bother to investigate, and even when I tried to explain, i was just made to ignore my own feelings and assume i was wrong. Even when i had a mental breakdown after returning to the place where i was molested, they still ignored how I reacted and I never liked bowling since. Even after seeing how I didnt like bowling, they still didnt know. How is someone who was made to deny his feelings, not even knowing his feelings, mocked for even showing feelings, supposed to even BEGIN to express or explain things, especially when most of the autistic ways he expresses himself is inappropriate? But yeah, even though I have aspergers and have never, ever lived a normal life, never was made to go out, was made to fear the world, you wanted me, in all of my issues, to have a normal life? Go fuck yourself.

Some kids hint what they want through their actions, or hides in words stating what is going on. Some even fake it and pretend everything's OK. That they are OK. When they need help. Sometimes we ask help so much, but continuesly keep getting ignored, that we give up on asking for help.

My mom honestly, ALWAYS knows if something is wrong with me. I guess it's because I make a face that tells something is wrong. But when I'm upset about something personal I keep telling her that i didn't want to talk about it. But when she gets a feeling something is wrong, she keeps asking me about it until I speak. My mom is a great mom, and I don't know what I'd do without her.

I went tho sexual abuse by many people b4 and let it happen. But its thr geatest relief you will ever feel once u make it stop, it was all uncomfortable and sad at first but then you realize who da fuck you are and be that independent person and get threw it, and now rather then getting scared and sad, i get PISSED when someone does that now, so that it stops right then and there. Just teach yourself to be mad faster abt it from the start cuz when u get mad enough (and u will when it comes to that) itll defiantly stop it and give u courage to. Now, i dont let no body do that shit to me and idc if i loose the closest ppl to me, you and me are more important than that so dont be afraid to do smth or tell cuz ur awesome so no matter who it is dont be afraid of no bitch

i feel so bad no one should have to go through this. please speak up about this kind thing it will not just help you but others so they do not have to go through it.

I had a similar experience with my youth pastor father Roy it was pretty normal at first but then we got physical emotionally I wasn’t up for it and I got the guts to tell my mother videos like these help other victims

I wanted to see Pete get arrested at the end after Charlie told Carlos' mother about what he did.

Thath guy is disgusting I feel so sick now from him

Always speak up for yourself and tell the truth ❤❤.

I really like that these videos appear in my recommendations

Let's give an applause to this kid's (the protagonist of course) mom. Worst.Parent.Ever.

So glad my parents listen to me bc theirs didn’t ❤

it’s so important to listen to children when they say things like this. there’s no reason for them to lie 99.9% of the time.

One thing that love about this channel,is that they know the abuses does not have a gender……

i lied. it wasnt someone older than me, it was a trusted friend. i didnt wanna break his trust

Did you guys really look at the deatail? Oml, the poor boys looked tramatized. I can't rn, I'm literally tearing up.

ur vids are so educational yet so entertaining

it’s very difficult though, in a situation where the child might be too young to even know words that could describe what they’re going through, the parent should 100% understand it by “I don’t like them” “ I don’t wanna be around them anymore”

what the mom did was abuse which was child neglect and it's different cause she didn't understand what he meant but the fact that some parents know what's happening and they don't do anything about it which is really sad

Oh my God this made me cry. Something like this happened to me- (it was physical and mental abuse, thankfully not sexual)

2:08 look at the window his mouth is open but his mouth is closed when you look at him

My little Cuze olso got abused Every time she goes to her friends house her friend always goes to the bathroom for 10 min and her friend brother always told her to come into his room she started noticing something is wrong because her friends brother touch her at the knees After 5 week her friends brother try to make SEX with her, she try to say it to her friend but she was scared she's scared because she thinks that she would lose her friendship she try to say it to everyone but she scared she told me and i have a plan i was going to her friends house that day with my little Cuz i saw her friends brother He told us to go in his room he told me to sit right next to him then when the movie starts he touched my elbows and my knee i quickly slapped him and told his mom my little Cuz told everything to his mom her friends cuz was shocked how her brother had behave his mom talked to me does she had her period yet then i said yes she has my cuz took a pregnancy test and she was pregnant , my cuz friends brother got a job to support his child SHAME ON YOU ROLEN

i like how they show that men can get sexually assulted too

Some Moms in this situation :no u liar Me :get in the bin 🔫🗿

That is what I do I try to avoid wen I know I should tell an adult bit how I have been lesion to your storus and it makes me feel comfortable thx so much

my kids will never ever be alone with anyone