Superstitious Mother Kills Two Daughters Then Claims 'Complex' PTSD | Veronica Youngblood Analysis

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Dr. Todd Grande

Dr. Todd Grande

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@Skarbr0
@Skarbr0 Ай бұрын
“Veronica was, self-centered, grandiose, arrogant, condescending, impulsive, irresponsible, cold, callous, vindictive, petty, manipulative, deceptive, cynical, sensation seeking, materialistic, hedonistic, insensitive, opportunistic, shallow, greedy, and sadistic” I believe we just witnessed Dr. Grande “going off” 😂👍🏻
@SaidarRising
@SaidarRising Ай бұрын
He paints a very specific picture 😆
@jean-marcknight8816
@jean-marcknight8816 Ай бұрын
… in addition, she falsely believed she was special and had a massive sens of entitlement 😂
@wildfireintexas
@wildfireintexas Ай бұрын
He seemed very angry.
@sartainja
@sartainja Ай бұрын
Do not hold back……
@jons4745
@jons4745 Ай бұрын
I'm beginning to think that this is the cold fact of the reality of the "American Dream" the I'm nothing more than an oyster mass delusional thinking in my part of the US anyway.
@iyalove9383
@iyalove9383 Ай бұрын
It's hard watching/listening to cases involving the murder of children. 😢
@timeghostband9594
@timeghostband9594 Ай бұрын
It is upsetting, for sure
@lenkacfk7155
@lenkacfk7155 Ай бұрын
And in this case, I really see no way in which it could have been prevented - no early warning signs disregarded, no safety mechanism neglected - it happened more or less out of the blue. Truly horrible. I hope she has nightmares of her daughters every single night!
@yesyes3553
@yesyes3553 Ай бұрын
True! I feel it’s not good for us… what if it was your family member, would you like $$$k people watching for entertainment and money being made off of it?
@bradlloyd6261
@bradlloyd6261 Ай бұрын
😢....and/or against the elderly
@nychris2258
@nychris2258 Ай бұрын
Bro married an Argentinian sex worker
@jijadelmais
@jijadelmais Ай бұрын
She hated him because he was a good and decent person with professional achievements, something she would never be/have.
@yucatansuckaman5726
@yucatansuckaman5726 Ай бұрын
I know the husband was trying to do his best for his kids but dude he needed to leave ASAP after she cheated
@esteemedmortal5917
@esteemedmortal5917 Ай бұрын
Yup, when people show you who they are, believe them.
@jpizel1070
@jpizel1070 Ай бұрын
Especially after she cheated a second time.
@jbjacobs9514
@jbjacobs9514 Ай бұрын
She was violent and tried to get him court martialed and jailed with false allegations. He would have lost his kids.
@Neilsowards
@Neilsowards Ай бұрын
@@jbjacobs9514 and his career as well
@TheMattTrakker
@TheMattTrakker Ай бұрын
it's unfortunate that making false allegations isn't treated like a real crime, otherwise she would be locked up and the kids would be safe.
@isostasique
@isostasique Ай бұрын
"I don't want to die, please help me" Can you imagine that feeling, the anguish?? poor baby :'(
@bradlloyd6261
@bradlloyd6261 Ай бұрын
Sickening. Mental illness doesn't send you an invite in the mail just wish I didn't have to involve someone dying
@bradlloyd6261
@bradlloyd6261 Ай бұрын
​@@LevMyshkin1970 Really?! Here?!
@yucatansuckaman5726
@yucatansuckaman5726 Ай бұрын
​@@bradlloyd6261yes
@kathywright7395
@kathywright7395 Ай бұрын
That poor child.
@maevey3
@maevey3 Ай бұрын
Yup, more than once, too. 🙄​@@bradlloyd6261
@carfo
@carfo Ай бұрын
What an absolute psychopath.
@LevMyshkin1970
@LevMyshkin1970 Ай бұрын
No more abortions
@shahidmiah6941
@shahidmiah6941 Ай бұрын
She has ptsd not aspd, so no
@berkslaw
@berkslaw Ай бұрын
What's the deal with psychopathy anyway?
@crowmedicine3890
@crowmedicine3890 Ай бұрын
​@@shahidmiah6941 Since when does PTSD cause you to murder your children?
@carpathianken
@carpathianken Ай бұрын
@@berkslaw Psychopathy in women is different than men. Men will generally target their victims directly with overt aggression. Psychopathic women are more likely to attack you indirectly. Notice how Veronica bought the Glock pistol & rather than just use it against Ron directly, that she made very clear that she hated, she instead used relational aggression by harming their daughters to get at him. Psychopathic women have little to no empathy or remorse, that's why she could commit those horrific acts & still claim that she is a good mother. Female psychopaths are also masters at playing the victim card. Veronica accused her husband of abuse & financially neglecting her & their daughters but it was always proven with evidence that he was never guilty of either to those things.
@ericwalstrand3512
@ericwalstrand3512 Ай бұрын
If you catch your wife cheating or she says she wants a divorce, say "goodbye". Don't try to repair it or reconcile. It's over, kaput, finis...
@qhluvr77
@qhluvr77 Ай бұрын
I think he kept going back for the kids sake, not for her.
@hydrostatic8048
@hydrostatic8048 Ай бұрын
Don't marry single moms.
@qhluvr77
@qhluvr77 Ай бұрын
@@hydrostatic8048 That’s unfair, some of us became single mothers not by choice, are not looking for any guy to support us, and don’t use our kids as weapons. I married for a second time and my husband is and has been a wonderful bonus Dad to my children, who are all adults now. His choice entirely. Don’t tar us all with the same brush please. It’s clear , in this case that the father cared deeply for his non-biological daughter, but didn’t have legal rights to her. Maybe don’t marry psychopaths?
@hydrostatic8048
@hydrostatic8048 Ай бұрын
​@@qhluvr77"single moms not by choice"? Give me a break. That's the problem is a lot of you don't want to take accountability. That's why you bring up outliers whe the subject is broached. But hey, I'm happy that worked out for you.
@ericwalstrand3512
@ericwalstrand3512 Ай бұрын
@@hydrostatic8048 especially if they're whores.
@loudtim265
@loudtim265 Ай бұрын
Boy. He really put up with a LOT of bull. Way too much. Veronica was unquestionably deeply damaged but there’s no excuse for killing children, especially your own. What a mess!
@derkeheath5172
@derkeheath5172 Ай бұрын
On the other hand, she's gorgeous, so...
@LevMyshkin1970
@LevMyshkin1970 Ай бұрын
No more abortions
@loudtim265
@loudtim265 Ай бұрын
@@LevMyshkin1970 mind your business.
@s0me0ne1se
@s0me0ne1se Ай бұрын
@@derkeheath5172…so next sure victim of somebody like her is 100% you or your family, so…
@dinkyboss
@dinkyboss Ай бұрын
Honestly I lowkey also hold him accountable for not protecting his children. She’s CLEARLY unstable and it seems he was more interested in having a “hot” wife than care about how she would be as a parent. I saw this a lot when I worked at a high end daycare. These men will procreate with women for their looks and they don’t care at ALL about how they parent their children. It’s all about their ego and having arm candy 🤦🏽‍♀️
@Aldeyau
@Aldeyau Ай бұрын
Hi! Someone with actual C-PTSD here. My diagnosis came from the fact that unlike with PTSD, my trauma is repeated and drawn out, mine being for over a decade. While it is classified as the more "intense" form of PTSD, it will never justify someone commiting murder, and for someone to try and say so is not only idiotic but harmful.
@lauren9667
@lauren9667 Ай бұрын
Thank you! I also have been formally diagnosed with C-PTSD. I appreciate you expressing that the condition is real and we’re not being dramatic. We don’t have PTSD, but that takes nothing away from the trauma endured by people who do. It’s just more complicated - I liken it to a tangled ball of string. You can only pull on an end (and deal with the emotions) for a short time before you run into a knot. Then you have to deal with that (or add it to an ever growing list). And you are 100% right - nothing justifies murdering your children. I wish you well on your journey of recovery.
@SnuffalupagusRising
@SnuffalupagusRising Ай бұрын
I just commented the same as I know it's a new definition, but it has valid diagnostics that help therapists know how to treat you. It's not about a misery Olympics but having multiple sources of trauma across an extended timeframe, sometimes with multiple people, is going to have a different treatment plan than one incident in a lifetime. Both can result in PTSD (also acute and chronic), but they're different diagnostics. And neither should be used to justify murder. This mom just sucks.
@SnuffalupagusRising
@SnuffalupagusRising Ай бұрын
​@@lauren9667 Agree. Just like doctors use different distinctions to treat you, therapists do as well. It's a bit silly as someone with say pneumonia wouldn't call someone with double pneumonia dramatic. 😂 It's literally just treatment criteria to know how to help you. Good luck on your journey. ♥️
@diannew6066
@diannew6066 Ай бұрын
I like Dr. Grande but he's a teacher (or was) and does not practice so therefore may not be up on the latest psychological manifestations.
@Veracityseeker7
@Veracityseeker7 Ай бұрын
Amen
@donskuse2194
@donskuse2194 Ай бұрын
She discovered that she couldn’t also gaslight a jury and a judge.
@madamlt5758
@madamlt5758 Ай бұрын
The only evil “spirit” in their home was Veronica. Rip to those little girls 😔
@13donstalos
@13donstalos Ай бұрын
That oldest daughter was a fighter. God bless both of them.
@Adoozyofaday
@Adoozyofaday Ай бұрын
Ronald was a saint for putting up with her. She sounds awful. He must have really loved her. Poor little children and father 😢 Edit: ugh! I looked the case up. Her oldest daughter called the police after she was shot. Horrifically she knew it was her own mother that was killing her. It didn’t sound super quick “They weren’t the most important thing to me, they were my life. They were all I cared about. She took that from me and I’ll never get them back.” Ronald Youngblood. He stated that he didn’t put it past her to harm him, but never thought she would harm the children.😢
@davidglad
@davidglad Ай бұрын
Can't forget even in this story the court would believe the wife's story, but at least this one when the man had overwhelming evidence to the contrary they took the husband's side.
@LevMyshkin1970
@LevMyshkin1970 Ай бұрын
No more abortions
@simpleflight34
@simpleflight34 Ай бұрын
Wow. Heartbroken
@traybern
@traybern Ай бұрын
He was a SAP!!!!
@dicedrice7216
@dicedrice7216 Ай бұрын
Maybe he loved her very much, or maybe he just tolerated her crappy behavior for the benefit of receiving professional-grade bedroom-skills.
@edvh88
@edvh88 29 күн бұрын
Just imagining all that Sharon had been thru, before her mom met her step dad… and then to finally find stability, a father figure and a little sister, just wow. This poor girl.
@sarahalbers5555
@sarahalbers5555 Ай бұрын
This happened right across the street from me. It was a horrible day, and i will never forget it. Poor girls. They deserved so much better. The cops snagged her in record time.
@mimax4498
@mimax4498 Ай бұрын
How awful
@chino7287
@chino7287 Ай бұрын
Did you witness abnormal behavior from the mother?
@Meela234
@Meela234 Ай бұрын
Some people are just pure evil and they derive pleasure from hurting others. There is no mental illness or complex explanation for what they do. It's just who they are. She is one of those people.
@mrm5515
@mrm5515 Ай бұрын
Married a sex worker...who would have thought that was a bad idea...?
@nephila6628
@nephila6628 Ай бұрын
not michael dippolito 😅
@christinetaylor6110
@christinetaylor6110 Ай бұрын
I just watched the new episode of “Evil Lives Here” in which the husband tells his story. Heartbreaking.
@megalopolis2015
@megalopolis2015 Ай бұрын
I can't imagine a worse torture than what Veronica did to those kids to harm her husband.
@futuremelina
@futuremelina Ай бұрын
Ya I realize that after every episode it's covered on this channel like he's watching the show too haha
@Charlotte66666
@Charlotte66666 Ай бұрын
Another case of one parent taking the lives of their children to hurt the other.
@LevMyshkin1970
@LevMyshkin1970 Ай бұрын
No More abortions
@pajeetsingh
@pajeetsingh Ай бұрын
Why is it mostly women though?
@jameshudkins2210
@jameshudkins2210 Ай бұрын
It is an old phenomenon. Several thousand years ago Euripides wrote Medea.
@wmdkitty
@wmdkitty Ай бұрын
@@pajeetsingh It's mostly MEN, dude.
@sternshadowdude2
@sternshadowdude2 Ай бұрын
@@wmdkitty Nope, Dr. Grande has even commented on this before. Women are more likely to kill their children with intent to hurt their partner. Men are more likely to kill their partner.
@TheeDavidDee
@TheeDavidDee Ай бұрын
Those poor children. Just heartbreaking beyond words
@demio22
@demio22 24 күн бұрын
That's so sad and utterly unnecessary. That is so Chris Watts kind of behaviour beyond understandable in any way.
@lilbitsleepy2574
@lilbitsleepy2574 Ай бұрын
Nasty, spiteful, and selfish woman. She wanted to hurt her husband and she succeeded. It boggles my mind that she used her babies who loved and trusted her in order to do so. Makes me doubt as to whether she actually had any capacity for genuine love. I can’t help but think that the answer to that is no.
@poindextertunes
@poindextertunes Ай бұрын
probably not. most likely she was lying the entire time
@deasvail99
@deasvail99 Ай бұрын
She is one of the cruelest people I've heard about on this show. Her existence depended on destroying her husband (and children),
@edelweiss2.076
@edelweiss2.076 24 күн бұрын
She had zero ability to love. Zero.
@dollcrazy300
@dollcrazy300 Ай бұрын
So sad to have a parent like her.
@LevMyshkin1970
@LevMyshkin1970 Ай бұрын
No more abortions
@EvolvementEras
@EvolvementEras Ай бұрын
So I have been diagnosed with CPTSD from a psychiatrist after my disclosure of severe childhood trauma to my therapist. I was told that complex PTSD is different than PTSD as PTSD is typically a singular event or singular episode such as a plane crash or serving in the military, whereas complex PTSD often comes from childhood abuse, resulting in trauma that has Shaped the child in a way that they don’t know their authentic self because they always had to be on guard for incoming abuse. There may not be a diagnosis in the DSM 5 for CPTSD currently but I’m positive it will only be a matter of time until it is included as its own diagnosis.
@pocho689
@pocho689 Ай бұрын
Thank you for that.
@mickmcsherry5916
@mickmcsherry5916 Ай бұрын
The diagnosis IS in the ICD, though.
@lostandfound5145
@lostandfound5145 Ай бұрын
Totally agree. We are still learning so much about trauma and the nervous system. Just because it isn’t in the DSM yet doesn’t mean it isn’t legitimate. It’s completely logical to consider that a single traumatic event (a plane crash, for example) is going to affect someone with PTSD differently than someone that, say, has been in 10 plane crashes. Same for an adult that undergoes trauma as an adult vs a child that undergoes trauma as a child. Low level chronic trauma interspersed with high level traumatic events throughout childhood is definitely going to manifest differently in the nervous system than a single serious traumatic event in childhood. There’s so much more to learn so we can help people heal. Sometimes Dr Grande shows that intellectual elitist attitude that he harbors just a little too much of, even though I like the guy a lot, it’s definitely a flaw he has.
@cebruthius
@cebruthius Ай бұрын
​@@lostandfound5145 He definitely has his blind spots. There's this funny thing going on where he consistently uses the word "titled" instead of the correct "entitled" (as in "an essay entitled") and pronouncing "laundromat" as "laundry-mat"
@lostandfound5145
@lostandfound5145 Ай бұрын
@@cebruthius he did spend a lot of time in NJ, apparently 😂 maybe he needs extra grace 😂
@darlenepreston3739
@darlenepreston3739 Ай бұрын
Relationships based on lust never end well.
@Veracityseeker7
@Veracityseeker7 Ай бұрын
Thank you. But you're not supposed to say that, right? Dudes fall for this stuff constantly and nobody wants to call them out for it.
@celeca7
@celeca7 Ай бұрын
There's nothing wrong with being physically attracted to your partner
@winehousted90
@winehousted90 Ай бұрын
@@celeca7but there is something wrong with lust being all that you have to fuel your relationship .. a relationship actually takes more than that ..
@celeca7
@celeca7 Ай бұрын
@@winehousted90 I agree. But there was obviously more than that in this instance. If he was only with her for her looks, he wouldn't have put up with that much crap and tried to keep it together. He genuinely loved her
@texasrefugee7888
@texasrefugee7888 Ай бұрын
It's not a good idea.Guys to marry a sex worker or stripper and think that you're gonna change them
@user-hj8vc2ix7p
@user-hj8vc2ix7p Ай бұрын
Mm no, this isn't the place to bash sex workers. They aren't horrible people just because they work a job that's taboo.
@estherhelbig
@estherhelbig Ай бұрын
​@@user-hj8vc2ix7pI agree 100 percent.
@emmagatewood3898
@emmagatewood3898 Ай бұрын
​@@user-hj8vc2ix7p He never said sex workers are horrible people. He said it's not a good idea to marry one. You don't have to think someone is horrible in order to not want to marry them. 🤷
@FaunaFloraFae
@FaunaFloraFae Ай бұрын
A different channel reported the husband started off as her client and then eventually they started dating.
@adotintheshark4848
@adotintheshark4848 Ай бұрын
being a sex worker to make ends meet changes a person. It drives them over the edge and they perfect the art of being manipulative.
@georgeoh-well8116
@georgeoh-well8116 Ай бұрын
I counted 22 undesirable personality characteristics. Pretty much a full house in toxic personality poker. I don't think Ronald knew what he was dealing with.
@johngrimkowski598
@johngrimkowski598 Ай бұрын
she is a evil actress
@mangore623
@mangore623 Ай бұрын
Thinking with the little head always leads to ruin.
@maryfrancesbeckerhaggerty5353
@maryfrancesbeckerhaggerty5353 Ай бұрын
😂😂​@@mangore623
@tanyaedwards4574
@tanyaedwards4574 Ай бұрын
I feel Dr. Grande showered and scrubbed himself at least 3x after posting this video. His disgust for the female shines through- the first case I've ever watched him reacting this way. The absolute evilness of this floors me. Thank you, Dr. Grande.
@kmg474
@kmg474 Ай бұрын
It's probably not exactly good for Dr. G to thrawl through these disturbing cases on a daily basis.
@emmagatewood3898
@emmagatewood3898 Ай бұрын
She's right up there with Chris Watts, Chris Coleman and all the other family annihilators. It's hard to comprehend that level of evil exists and walks among us.
@ceasormayhem101
@ceasormayhem101 Ай бұрын
Never date a sex worker. I've never met one who was stable.
@skycloud4802
@skycloud4802 Ай бұрын
They should list that under it's own mental health category.
@adotintheshark4848
@adotintheshark4848 Ай бұрын
I never met one who didn't charge.
@hands-ongaming7180
@hands-ongaming7180 29 күн бұрын
@@adotintheshark4848in the end he payed for it
@TlD-dg6ug
@TlD-dg6ug 20 күн бұрын
@@adotintheshark4848 you always pay one way or another. For any female.
@adotintheshark4848
@adotintheshark4848 19 күн бұрын
@@TlD-dg6ug even if you marry them (or especially)
@mrazik131
@mrazik131 Ай бұрын
she 100% believed she will get away with it....pure evil woman!
@frakismaximus3052
@frakismaximus3052 Ай бұрын
Sadly, she stood more of a chance of getting away with it than she should have..
@lauren9667
@lauren9667 Ай бұрын
I’m sorry, I usually nod my head in agreement with you, Dr. Grande, but I can’t let this slide. I have been diagnosed complex PTSD by a licensed mental health provider with extensive training in treating trauma. I’m not trying to make it more dramatic. I’d do anything not to have it. For the other viewers, no one with CPTSD would ever call PTSD “simple”. It is not simple. It’s a horrible thing to go through and I wouldn’t trade CPTSD for PTSD. CPTSD has all the symptoms of PTSD along with emotional disregulation, problems maintaining relationships and a messed up sense of self. Maybe calling it complex PTSD is a mistake because it minimizes the trauma of both types of sufferers. Veronica Youngblood may well have CPTSD, I’m not a psychologist, so take this for what it’s worth: She never learned how to create healthy relationships. Being abandoned would definitely cause a messed up sense of self. She was a sex worker, so that reinforced the pattern of bad relationships and a negative sense of self. The affairs and the “on again off again” divorce are excellent examples of emotional disregulation. What never comes up in CPTSD discussions is violence. She may have CPTSD, but she’s also a cold blooded killer. The diagnosis does not give her a pass for all the horrible things she did to her husband and ultimately her children. There’s a reason the insanity plea rarely works and that’s because there are so few people with mental health disorders that are not conscious of right and wrong. May she rot in prison for what she did to those beautiful girls.
@claesyoungberg1695
@claesyoungberg1695 Ай бұрын
Thank you for your excellent explanation of C-PTSD and how it makes sense that Veronica would have acquired it. Agree, of course that suffering from PTSD in any form does not excuse cold-blooded premeditated murder.
@mickmcsherry5916
@mickmcsherry5916 Ай бұрын
Grande (or someone, but who else?) removed a post in which I told him he was wrong, and gave the ICD Code and description. He’s a jerk for sure if he removed that post. Here’s the important part of what I posted from the ICD: “6B41 Complex post traumatic stress disorder Description Complex post traumatic stress disorder (Complex PTSD) is a disorder that may develop following exposure to an event or series of events of an extremely threatening or horrific nature, most commonly prolonged or repetitive events from which escape is difficult or impossible (e.g. torture, slavery, genocide campaigns, prolonged domestic violence, repeated childhood sexual or physical abuse). All diagnostic requirements for PTSD are met. In addition, Complex PTSD is characterised by severe and persistent 1) problems in affect regulation; 2) beliefs about oneself as diminished, defeated or worthless, accompanied by feelings of shame, guilt or failure related to the traumatic event; and 3) difficulties in sustaining relationships and in feeling close to others. These symptoms cause significant impairment in personal, family, social, educational, occupational or other important areas of functioning.” I left out the lengthy diagnostic criteria, but since you now have the ICD number, you can Google the whole thing. Take care, everyone.
@sarahjaye4117
@sarahjaye4117 Ай бұрын
Yeah, not his best commentary 😞
@user-wu3mw2iu7x
@user-wu3mw2iu7x Ай бұрын
Veronica has the look of crazy in her eyes
@narcdetester2102
@narcdetester2102 Ай бұрын
Dr Grande: a calm, logical voice in a world full of hysterical utterances
@theresamorello9892
@theresamorello9892 Ай бұрын
Who has a relationship with someone like that?? So sad about the children.
@diannew6066
@diannew6066 Ай бұрын
A few men and thousands of women.
@Veracityseeker7
@Veracityseeker7 Ай бұрын
The art of Jezebel seduction. Dudes fall for it constantly
@KaraLey98
@KaraLey98 21 күн бұрын
@@diannew6066HA!! Good one!!
@DavidDeeble
@DavidDeeble Ай бұрын
Would love to know the mitigating circumstances that resulted in a mere 36 years for the premeditated murder of a child.
@FatGuyinaLittleWoods
@FatGuyinaLittleWoods Ай бұрын
Yeah, that’s ridiculous
@janeoleary8454
@janeoleary8454 Ай бұрын
She got that times 2. 78 yrs total
@DavidDeeble
@DavidDeeble Ай бұрын
@@janeoleary8454 Correct - 36 years per life stolen.
@mbb--
@mbb-- Ай бұрын
I do not have words to express how sick I am of women being given lenient sentences for murdering their own children. "Compassion" and "empathy" and excuses for these selfish, violent women is not compassion at all. This "compassion" is actually brutality and callousness and indifference to the child victims--utter contempt for their lives and contempt for justice.
@emd344
@emd344 Ай бұрын
I have CPTSD, and I can't even fathom the thought of yelling at my child, let alone killing her. This is heartbreaking 💔
@festina_lente7655
@festina_lente7655 Ай бұрын
Okey dokey
@decaftumbler
@decaftumbler Ай бұрын
​@festina_lente7655 Boomer you get your feelings hurt because your orange victim isn't in office. Take a seat.
@Vale10952
@Vale10952 Ай бұрын
You must've not watched the video. He said CPTSD isn't real. Only PTSD is real. Seems like C was put in front of PTSD by unhinged attention seeking liberals.
@cebruthius
@cebruthius Ай бұрын
It's unfortunate that Dr. Grande isn't informed on CPTSD. This woman using it as a cynical excuse for her crimes is terrible.
@mickmcsherry5916
@mickmcsherry5916 Ай бұрын
Grande (or someone, but who else?) removed a post in which I told him he was wrong, and gave the ICD Code and description. He’s a jerk for sure if he removed that post. Here’s the important part of what I posted from the ICD: “6B41 Complex post traumatic stress disorder Description Complex post traumatic stress disorder (Complex PTSD) is a disorder that may develop following exposure to an event or series of events of an extremely threatening or horrific nature, most commonly prolonged or repetitive events from which escape is difficult or impossible (e.g. torture, slavery, genocide campaigns, prolonged domestic violence, repeated childhood sexual or physical abuse). All diagnostic requirements for PTSD are met. In addition, Complex PTSD is characterised by severe and persistent 1) problems in affect regulation; 2) beliefs about oneself as diminished, defeated or worthless, accompanied by feelings of shame, guilt or failure related to the traumatic event; and 3) difficulties in sustaining relationships and in feeling close to others. These symptoms cause significant impairment in personal, family, social, educational, occupational or other important areas of functioning.” I left out the lengthy diagnostic criteria, but since you now have the ICD number, you can Google the whole thing. Peace, peace, peace.
@ursinha115
@ursinha115 Ай бұрын
That was sooo heartbreaking, I'm a mother and grandmother, cases involving children are specially hard for me. Evil to the core. Always grateful for your analysis, Dr. Grande!
@joeramirez7879
@joeramirez7879 Ай бұрын
You don't get involved with a woman lot of baggage plus being a street walker, that's just crazy.
@jbjacobs9514
@jbjacobs9514 Ай бұрын
I don't think he knew about her sex work or her childhood. She was very different during early years of his relationship.
@diannew6066
@diannew6066 Ай бұрын
Don't get involved with men with baggage either.
@Veracityseeker7
@Veracityseeker7 Ай бұрын
EXACTLY, but most ♂️ love the easy wild 😻
@Veracityseeker7
@Veracityseeker7 Ай бұрын
​@@diannew6066Amen
@user-hj8vc2ix7p
@user-hj8vc2ix7p Ай бұрын
And what about someone's job makes them a terrible person? She was evil, it had nothing to do with her being a sex worker.
@wallhagens2001
@wallhagens2001 Ай бұрын
Thanks Dr. Grande! Could you please do the Bibi Lee case? She was a UC Berkeley student murdered in 1984. She deserves to be remembered. ❤
@fuferito
@fuferito Ай бұрын
Speaking of superstition, this one recalls Medea from Greek mythology who kills her children to spite her husband.
@Kenzi24
@Kenzi24 Ай бұрын
I have "complex ptsd" and it is very similar symptoms to borderline personality disorder, but you can pinpoint the cause to usually an abusive household. I just have to say that just because someone says they have cptsd doesn't mean they are trying to sound like their ptsd is more traumatic or special. It actually is a lot different than regular ptsd as it shapes your entire personality, view of others, and view of yourself. Just had to chime in. This mom is obviously in the wrong and evil
@lostandfound5145
@lostandfound5145 Ай бұрын
When I first started my mental health journey after accepting that I was in a DV situation and coming to terms with my DV upbringing I remember Dr Google making me worry that I had BPD, too! I finally got into proper therapy and learned that I had cPTSD and started healing. I’ve never seen anyone say it’s similar to BPD before, but I just wanted to comment that I also had this thought about myself and what I was experiencing.
@Kenzi24
@Kenzi24 Ай бұрын
@lostandfound5145 I was confused about which one I had as well and my therapist told me it doesn't really matter which one you say because they're the same symptoms and to focus on getting better rather than "which one is it" because I obsessed over it for like 6 months
@mickmcsherry5916
@mickmcsherry5916 Ай бұрын
Grande (or someone, but who else?) removed a post in which I told him he was wrong, and gave the ICD Code and description. Not admitting a mistake is a show of weak character in my book. Here’s the important part of what I posted from the ICD: “6B41 Complex post traumatic stress disorder Description Complex post traumatic stress disorder (Complex PTSD) is a disorder that may develop following exposure to an event or series of events of an extremely threatening or horrific nature, most commonly prolonged or repetitive events from which escape is difficult or impossible (e.g. torture, slavery, genocide campaigns, prolonged domestic violence, repeated childhood sexual or physical abuse). All diagnostic requirements for PTSD are met. In addition, Complex PTSD is characterised by severe and persistent 1) problems in affect regulation; 2) beliefs about oneself as diminished, defeated or worthless, accompanied by feelings of shame, guilt or failure related to the traumatic event; and 3) difficulties in sustaining relationships and in feeling close to others. These symptoms cause significant impairment in personal, family, social, educational, occupational or other important areas of functioning.” I left out the lengthy diagnostic criteria, but since you now have the ICD number, you can Google the whole thing. Peace.
@mickmcsherry5916
@mickmcsherry5916 Ай бұрын
@@Kenzi24he was wrong. CPTSD is very different, and the treatment ought to be different, once the so-called experts and authorities figure out what that treatment is. Right now it’s all b.s., much like most mental health care.” BTW, Grande (or someone, but who else?) removed a post in which I told him he was wrong, and gave the ICD Code and description. He’s a jerk for sure if he removed that post. Here’s the important part of what I posted from the ICD: “6B41 Complex post traumatic stress disorder Description Complex post traumatic stress disorder (Complex PTSD) is a disorder that may develop following exposure to an event or series of events of an extremely threatening or horrific nature, most commonly prolonged or repetitive events from which escape is difficult or impossible (e.g. torture, slavery, genocide campaigns, prolonged domestic violence, repeated childhood sexual or physical abuse). All diagnostic requirements for PTSD are met. In addition, Complex PTSD is characterised by severe and persistent 1) problems in affect regulation; 2) beliefs about oneself as diminished, defeated or worthless, accompanied by feelings of shame, guilt or failure related to the traumatic event; and 3) difficulties in sustaining relationships and in feeling close to others. These symptoms cause significant impairment in personal, family, social, educational, occupational or other important areas of functioning.” I left out the lengthy diagnostic criteria, but since you now have the ICD number, you can Google the whole thing. Take care of yourself.
@colleeporter2657
@colleeporter2657 Ай бұрын
She was definitely Crazy
@kina18
@kina18 Ай бұрын
No, she was evil. She knew what she was doing. Even before she murdered her kids she made their lives hell with all her drama, cheating and moving their dad in and out of the house. Poor kids 😢
@attaxiaffxi7033
@attaxiaffxi7033 Ай бұрын
Why must people adamantly object to the presence of mental disorders in these cases? A case that notes mental disorder is not done so to excuse the perpetrator, nor to vilify those with similar disorders but to understand all contributing factors to their motivations (however twisted) and thereby prevent future occurrences.
@cme7527
@cme7527 Ай бұрын
​@@attaxiaffxi7033 indeed. I don't know why so many people fail to understand that .
@sternshadowdude2
@sternshadowdude2 Ай бұрын
@@attaxiaffxi7033 I don't care if she's mental or not. She shouldn't be free ever again.
@joshgiesbrecht
@joshgiesbrecht Ай бұрын
"The World Health Organization (WHO)'s International Statistical Classification of Diseases has included CPTSD since its eleventh revision that was published in 2018 and came into effect in 2022 (ICD-11). The previous edition (ICD-10) proposed a diagnosis of Enduring Personality Change after Catastrophic Event (EPCACE), which was an ancestor of CPTSD. Besides, Healthdirect Australia (HDA) and the British National Health Service (NHS), have also acknowledged CPTSD as a mental disorder. However, the American Psychiatric Association (APA) has not included CPTSD in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders. It has nonetheless proposed: Disorders of Extreme Stress - not otherwise specified (DESNOS) since the DSM-IV, which is a mental disorder close to CPTSD". It's disappointing and disingenuous to claim CPTSD is only used to "make PTSD sound more dramatic". It's unequivocally false. I've been diagnosed with this exact disorder, not because I wanted to be more dramatic, but because a licensed psychiatrist diagnosed me with it. But as per usual, if it doesn't exist in America, it doesn't exist at all, apparently. Don't devalue people's illnesses and diagnosis. Because of claims such as the one you made here, people genuinely suffering and diagnosed with this disorder are going to be ignored and laughed at because people are going to think they're just "trying to be dramatic", when in reality they were legitimately diagnosed by someone with FAR more qualifications than yourself and your "PhD in counselling". As someone in a mental health related field, you should be dismantling the stigma around mental illnesses, not perpetuating it. It's honestly disgusting and yet another reason I'm close to leaving this channel for good. Be better going forward. Note: Her using CPTSD as an excuse for murdering her own children in cold blood is beyond disgusting and fucked up. I'm definitely not giving her any leeway here for that.
@mickmcsherry5916
@mickmcsherry5916 Ай бұрын
Well said and well done! Grande removed a similar post of mine, so watch out. Thank you, and take care.
@KaraLey98
@KaraLey98 21 күн бұрын
Thank you for posting this and letting us know more about CPTSD-I didn’t know about it at all until a few months ago. I didn’t hear Dr Grande say that about the drama but if he did so, he should remake the video and leave that out!! Sounds very unprofessional.
@SrSRuiz
@SrSRuiz Ай бұрын
Thanks Dr Grande for another extremely interesting case and analisis. Just to point out that, since 2018, there is an official diagnosis called "complex PTSD", in the ICD -11 (the 11th revision of the International Classification of Diseases (ICD-11), by the World Health Organization (WHO) (but not in the DSM -from USA-)
@ErebosGR
@ErebosGR Ай бұрын
Yeah, I was surprised Dr. Grande didn't know this.
@canileaveitblank1476
@canileaveitblank1476 Ай бұрын
Always trust W.H.O. 😶
@attaxiaffxi7033
@attaxiaffxi7033 Ай бұрын
uh oh you’ve summoned the conspiracists with one of their trigger words
@lostandfound5145
@lostandfound5145 Ай бұрын
@@attaxiaffxi7033please, lord, nobody mention the “v word” 😂
@carlbrooks2612
@carlbrooks2612 Ай бұрын
He probably knows, but he’s playing to his boomer audience that thinks 90% of mental illnesses were invented by TikTok
@Brooklyn_Powers
@Brooklyn_Powers Ай бұрын
Those poor babies. R.I.P. Sharon & Brooklyn
@heikkijhautanen4576
@heikkijhautanen4576 Ай бұрын
Awfull disturbed woman!!!! :(
@Angie_bae
@Angie_bae Ай бұрын
I have complex PTSD. I was also a sex worker on the side of my day jobs and yet I cannot relate to this woman. I think she’s lying about why she killed her kids. I could never do this to my kids or anyone else
@jewelscash8752
@jewelscash8752 Ай бұрын
My family member also deeply troubled was a sex worker but I cannot conceive that she would harm my grandson. But probably bc he is heir to a fortune. Also in FL.
@festina_lente7655
@festina_lente7655 Ай бұрын
Sure you do big girl😂😂😂
@decaftumbler
@decaftumbler Ай бұрын
​@festina_lente7655 you're the Boomer
@EvolvementEras
@EvolvementEras Ай бұрын
I as well have complex PTSD and this case makes me infuriated as the last thing I would ever do is hurt one of my children! She is using this condition as an excuse and it is absolutely disgusting and deplorable! I also hope that you have healing and peace in your life!!
@hydrostatic8048
@hydrostatic8048 Ай бұрын
Gross
@willelliott5052
@willelliott5052 Ай бұрын
"Consecutively" is a word that I love to hear in these stories. I feel so sorry for the children and for Ronald, a good man horribly ensnared by such evil. This comment was edited in order to comply with fascist YT policy.
@annal7364
@annal7364 Ай бұрын
I am a new mommy and don’t know how anyone could do this. It is infuriating and heartbreaking! Thank you for your analysis and bringing awareness to these issues involving innocent lives, Dr. G. 💔
@berkslaw
@berkslaw Ай бұрын
The nation's emphasis on COMPASSION leads to this: SOME people JUST DON'T CARE, and you CANNOT force them to care!
@101zoeg
@101zoeg Ай бұрын
What?
@berkslaw
@berkslaw Ай бұрын
@@101zoeg Ready? There is an emphasis IN SOCIETY for people to be compassionate. EVERYONE in the world is NOT compassionate: they don't have the CAPACITY to be compassionate. SOME of us have problems with that. Compassion is not a given. For some reason, we just don't get the FACT that some people could care less about OTHER people's lives. Oh . . . and Cain killed Able while God watched on.
@berkslaw
@berkslaw Ай бұрын
@@101zoeg We have to accept the FACT that some people lack the compassion you have, and will kill their own children. We cannot MAKE people have compassion.
@idilali7398
@idilali7398 Ай бұрын
Every photo of Veronica ,her eyes look manic.
@edelweiss2.076
@edelweiss2.076 24 күн бұрын
She's crazy as a box of frogs.
@tangomcphearson74
@tangomcphearson74 Ай бұрын
I agree with you Dr. Grande - I feel so sad and sorry for the girls, and for Ronald, her husband. When we choose someone as a spouse - it is one of, if not the very most important choices we make in our life. Sadly, it seems in our current culture - people don't seem to take it seriously and many times live to be sorry for that. I pray wherever Ronald is - he finds peace, healing, and true love.
@eddypaul8959
@eddypaul8959 Ай бұрын
Its like Christmas every time I notice a new Dr Grande video.❤
@AnABSOLUTEBarbarian
@AnABSOLUTEBarbarian Ай бұрын
11:28 “The World Health Organization (WHO)'s International Statistical Classification of Diseases has included CPTSD since its eleventh revision that was published in 2018 and came into effect in 2022 (ICD-11). The previous edition (ICD-10) proposed a diagnosis of Enduring Personality Change after Catastrophic Event (EPCACE), which was an ancestor of CPTSD.[3][2][11] Besides, Healthdirect Australia (HDA) and the British National Health Service (NHS), have also acknowledged CPTSD as mental disorder.[12][13] However, the American Psychiatric Association (APA) has not included CPTSD in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders. It has nonetheless proposed: Disorders of Extreme Stress - not otherwise specified (DESNOS) since the DSM-IV, which is a mental disorder close to CPTSD.[14][2]”
@mickmcsherry5916
@mickmcsherry5916 Ай бұрын
Well done! Great comment. Important as well. Grande is off about a lot. Grande (or someone, but who else?) removed a post in which I told him he was wrong, and gave the ICD Code and description. He’s lacking in character if he can’t admit when he’s wrong. Here’s the important part of what I posted from the ICD: “6B41 Complex post traumatic stress disorder Description Complex post traumatic stress disorder (Complex PTSD) is a disorder that may develop following exposure to an event or series of events of an extremely threatening or horrific nature, most commonly prolonged or repetitive events from which escape is difficult or impossible (e.g. torture, slavery, genocide campaigns, prolonged domestic violence, repeated childhood sexual or physical abuse). All diagnostic requirements for PTSD are met. In addition, Complex PTSD is characterised by severe and persistent 1) problems in affect regulation; 2) beliefs about oneself as diminished, defeated or worthless, accompanied by feelings of shame, guilt or failure related to the traumatic event; and 3) difficulties in sustaining relationships and in feeling close to others. These symptoms cause significant impairment in personal, family, social, educational, occupational or other important areas of functioning.” Anyway, it’s good to know people are actually paying attention and sharing good info. Bless.
@sent1169
@sent1169 Ай бұрын
After watching this on an episode of “evil lives here” I was hoping that doctor G would cover it. Thank you!
@blackopal3138
@blackopal3138 Ай бұрын
"Why would you put my laptop in the bathtub, ffs" "Cz it wouldn't fit in the toilet, mofo!"
@Big_Tex
@Big_Tex Ай бұрын
Whoa this woman’s a nightmare
@jordonm5675
@jordonm5675 Ай бұрын
yup, i agree hank.
@maryfrancesbeckerhaggerty5353
@maryfrancesbeckerhaggerty5353 Ай бұрын
Dr. Grande showing anger. A first. He is not a humanoid lizard after all.
@skycloud4802
@skycloud4802 Ай бұрын
That's not flatness; it's professionalism. Dr Grande's poised calm demeanor is a breath of fresh air on a platform of KZfaq drama.
@astraetluna
@astraetluna 29 күн бұрын
He’s probably high functioning Aspergers
@GrumpyMeow-Meow
@GrumpyMeow-Meow 17 күн бұрын
I think your comment shows more about you than anything else.
@nixm9093
@nixm9093 Ай бұрын
The husband told his story on a recent episode of Evil Lives Here. It was devastating 😢
@zenawarrior7442
@zenawarrior7442 Ай бұрын
Such a sad case again. Tired of the bad childhood excuse & misusing a diagnosis 😠Great points again. Thanks Dr G😊❤❤
@carriefawcett9990
@carriefawcett9990 Ай бұрын
What an absolute piece of work Veronica is 🤬my god! Por Ron, i hope he has found some semblance of peace in his life. RIP Sharon and Brooklyn. Just so terrible.
@timeghostband9594
@timeghostband9594 Ай бұрын
Her last name is really youngblood ... poetic irony or a curse?
@wanyatelborn
@wanyatelborn Ай бұрын
No just his name 🙄😏😒
@esteemedmortal5917
@esteemedmortal5917 Ай бұрын
Nominative determinism
@chaundralachaundra
@chaundralachaundra Ай бұрын
The World Health Organization (WHO)'s International Statistical Classification of Diseases has included CPTSD since its eleventh revision that was published in 2018 and came into effect in 2022
@mickmcsherry5916
@mickmcsherry5916 Ай бұрын
Right. Thank you! Grande (or someone, but who else?) removed a post in which I told him he was wrong, and gave the ICD Code and description. He’s a jerk for sure if he removed that post. Here’s the important part of what I posted from the ICD: “6B41 Complex post traumatic stress disorder Description Complex post traumatic stress disorder (Complex PTSD) is a disorder that may develop following exposure to an event or series of events of an extremely threatening or horrific nature, most commonly prolonged or repetitive events from which escape is difficult or impossible (e.g. torture, slavery, genocide campaigns, prolonged domestic violence, repeated childhood sexual or physical abuse). All diagnostic requirements for PTSD are met. In addition, Complex PTSD is characterised by severe and persistent 1) problems in affect regulation; 2) beliefs about oneself as diminished, defeated or worthless, accompanied by feelings of shame, guilt or failure related to the traumatic event; and 3) difficulties in sustaining relationships and in feeling close to others. These symptoms cause significant impairment in personal, family, social, educational, occupational or other important areas of functioning.” I left out the lengthy diagnostic criteria, but since you now have the ICD number, you can Google the whole thing. Peace!
@budm9982
@budm9982 29 күн бұрын
I look forward to these analysis and appreciate your originality in them. I've just viewed the case of Cody's death by his father and now these sisters who were killed by their mother. These crimes against children sicken me no matter how tastefully they are addressed in the media. I sure hope that Hell is even worse than we all imagine for these sick parents.
@Flamsterette
@Flamsterette Ай бұрын
Thanks for the upload, Dr. Grande! Your true fans love your humor and sarcasm. May 2 is National Play Your Ukulele! Day, National Truffles Day (gotta have some Lindt Neapolitan truffles and Lindt Strawberries and Cream truffles later!), National Fire Day, World Tuna Day, Elena's Day, National Life Insurance Day, Take A Baby To Lunch Day, Robert's Rules of Order Day, Saint Zoë's Day, and Scurvy Awareness Day.
@deasvail99
@deasvail99 Ай бұрын
What a cruel witch. I am so sorry for Ronald.😢
@jadestorey5142
@jadestorey5142 Ай бұрын
I could never hate anyone more than I love my children. My heart hurts for those beautiful, innocent little girls. Not all of us are bad, but I sure wish the ones that are were never blessed with children to begin with. Children are to be treasured. There’s always another way, a better way.
@shatteredshards8549
@shatteredshards8549 Ай бұрын
I appreciate that the judge decided her sentences would be served consecutively instead of concurrently, ensuring she never gets out on parole. However, I don’t think she will make it that long; inmates don’t tolerate crimes against children.
@MrHemi4spd
@MrHemi4spd Ай бұрын
Not like that in women's prisons.
@ddawson8069
@ddawson8069 Ай бұрын
Ronnie is probably continuing to manipulate guards and associates in prison. Same MO just a different setting. In many regards Ronnie reminds me of the mother of my first child. Injured deeply while young and never recovering.
@kimsunoobaragui
@kimsunoobaragui Ай бұрын
There is a very recent case which occured on the day of the eclipse, I hope you can analize this case.
@eua3386
@eua3386 25 күн бұрын
I admire the way you did your analysis... actually my first time to come across you, Dr...thanks..
@margaretlumley1648
@margaretlumley1648 Ай бұрын
Anyone finding themselves anywhere near a person like Veronica should run for the hills. I loved your list of adjectives, Dr Grande. I couldn't agree more with your assessment of this person
@martinwhite418
@martinwhite418 Ай бұрын
People, don't sell sex, this is a terrible idea and will ruin that part of your life.
@Veracityseeker7
@Veracityseeker7 Ай бұрын
Thank you.
@skycloud4802
@skycloud4802 Ай бұрын
When a intimate part of human life becomes a commodity, it destroys the soul. It ruins it for everyone involved.
@earlofcumbrae-Ground_Zero
@earlofcumbrae-Ground_Zero Ай бұрын
Dr Grande da 👑. ❤️
@MrBilly235
@MrBilly235 4 күн бұрын
In these cases, I'm always reminded of hearing women declare how peaceful the world would be if women were in charge....
@roadrunner9622
@roadrunner9622 28 күн бұрын
Life is hard enough, but so many people going through a years-long custody dispute with an irrational crazy person.
@Cec9e13
@Cec9e13 Ай бұрын
Only way you COULD use PTSD as a defense would be if it were a situation that triggered a belief that your life was in danger. Not to stereotype, but think of a Vietnam vet who hears a car backfire and shoots someone walking nearby, temporarily feeling like he's back in a war zone. Outside of that type of situation, PTSD has nothing to do with defending murder.
@lostandfound5145
@lostandfound5145 Ай бұрын
When you’re having a PTSD “flashback” you react physically to a trigger with an adrenaline dump but you’re not psychotic. You don’t actually believe you’re in a specific traumatic situation from the past. It’s probably similar to people that have panic attacks. You’re aware of reality and your surroundings but your body acts like it’s running from a rabid bear 😂 it’s very strange. Without compounding comorbidities it is unfathomable that a person would commit murder on an innocent person due to PTSD.
@mickmcsherry5916
@mickmcsherry5916 Ай бұрын
CPTSD is “more” than PTSD. However, it doesn’t cause, not is it an excuse for murder. Grande (or someone, but who else?) removed a post in which I told him he was wrong, and gave the ICD Code and description. He’s a jerk for sure if he removed that post. Here’s the important part of what I posted from the ICD: “6B41 Complex post traumatic stress disorder Description Complex post traumatic stress disorder (Complex PTSD) is a disorder that may develop following exposure to an event or series of events of an extremely threatening or horrific nature, most commonly prolonged or repetitive events from which escape is difficult or impossible (e.g. torture, slavery, genocide campaigns, prolonged domestic violence, repeated childhood sexual or physical abuse). All diagnostic requirements for PTSD are met. In addition, Complex PTSD is characterised by severe and persistent 1) problems in affect regulation; 2) beliefs about oneself as diminished, defeated or worthless, accompanied by feelings of shame, guilt or failure related to the traumatic event; and 3) difficulties in sustaining relationships and in feeling close to others. These symptoms cause significant impairment in personal, family, social, educational, occupational or other important areas of functioning.” I left out the lengthy diagnostic criteria, but since you now have the ICD number, you can Google the whole thing.
@skycloud4802
@skycloud4802 Ай бұрын
PTSD feels like a hyper-vigilance. It does skirt a bit into a sort of proto paranoia/psychosis. Stupidily small things become triggering. Rustling in bushes, movement of shadows, certain smells, and particular sounds. Things that aren't there become monsters.
@Cec9e13
@Cec9e13 Ай бұрын
Wow. That's terrifying - a volatile and unstable sadist.
@cathycabricesm
@cathycabricesm Ай бұрын
As usual, Dr. Grande’s analysis is on point. 🎯 👌
@mickmcsherry5916
@mickmcsherry5916 Ай бұрын
Actually, no, Grande gets a lot wrong. CPTSD IS REAL, it’s not someone trying to make their PTSD seem more than what it is as Grande states. Grande (or someone, but who else?) removed a post in which I told him he was wrong, and gave the ICD Code and description. He’s a jerk for sure if he removed that post. Here’s the important part of what I posted from the ICD: “6B41 Complex post traumatic stress disorder Description Complex post traumatic stress disorder (Complex PTSD) is a disorder that may develop following exposure to an event or series of events of an extremely threatening or horrific nature, most commonly prolonged or repetitive events from which escape is difficult or impossible (e.g. torture, slavery, genocide campaigns, prolonged domestic violence, repeated childhood sexual or physical abuse). All diagnostic requirements for PTSD are met. In addition, Complex PTSD is characterised by severe and persistent 1) problems in affect regulation; 2) beliefs about oneself as diminished, defeated or worthless, accompanied by feelings of shame, guilt or failure related to the traumatic event; and 3) difficulties in sustaining relationships and in feeling close to others. These symptoms cause significant impairment in personal, family, social, educational, occupational or other important areas of functioning.” I left out the lengthy diagnostic criteria, but since you now have the ICD number, you can Google the whole thing.
@m.f.richardson1602
@m.f.richardson1602 29 күн бұрын
Always interesting Thank you❤
@beautifuldisaster139
@beautifuldisaster139 5 күн бұрын
REMEMBER GUYS U CANT TURN A WH0re into a HOUSEWIFE
@allieniner675
@allieniner675 Ай бұрын
Firstly, love your content! Secondly, I’m not sure about where you’re located, but where I am (Australia) on a lot of our mental health documentation, we do have CPTSD as a valid diagnosis. Usually related to ongoing and traumatic experiences in childhood. It may be completely different where you’re located.
@lostandfound5145
@lostandfound5145 Ай бұрын
In the US we have CPTSD as a valid diagnosis as well. I think Dr Grande got a bad taste in his mouth due to all the internet cPTSD quacks that make money “coaching” without any state sanctioned education in mental health. I think it just muddied the waters for him.
@cebruthius
@cebruthius Ай бұрын
Nah, he should be aware of Bessel van der Kolk
@mickmcsherry5916
@mickmcsherry5916 Ай бұрын
Grande (or someone, but who else?) removed a post in which I told him he was wrong, and gave the ICD Code and description. He’s a jerk for sure if he removed that post. Here’s the important part of what I posted from the ICD: “6B41 Complex post traumatic stress disorder Description Complex post traumatic stress disorder (Complex PTSD) is a disorder that may develop following exposure to an event or series of events of an extremely threatening or horrific nature, most commonly prolonged or repetitive events from which escape is difficult or impossible (e.g. torture, slavery, genocide campaigns, prolonged domestic violence, repeated childhood sexual or physical abuse). All diagnostic requirements for PTSD are met. In addition, Complex PTSD is characterised by severe and persistent 1) problems in affect regulation; 2) beliefs about oneself as diminished, defeated or worthless, accompanied by feelings of shame, guilt or failure related to the traumatic event; and 3) difficulties in sustaining relationships and in feeling close to others. These symptoms cause significant impairment in personal, family, social, educational, occupational or other important areas of functioning.” I left out the lengthy diagnostic criteria, but since you now have the ICD number, you can Google the whole thing. Take care of yourself. Peace.
@jwarchild7072
@jwarchild7072 Ай бұрын
Incredible analysis! 👍🏻
@chloenicole4865
@chloenicole4865 Ай бұрын
i appreciate the tone Dr. Grande has with each of the cases he covers. i had two friends pass away at the hands of their father in 2020, one of the girls had just graduated 8 days before with me. unfortunately i don’t think anyone has picked up the case to review or talk about at all and its been 4 years now. i know Dr. Grande would give my friends the respect and attention they deserve.
@danielgrove7782
@danielgrove7782 Ай бұрын
What i think of when people say " every mother blah blah blah"...no not every mother cares for their kids correctly my mother came at me with a boat paddle...that was to much for me i knew that was dangerous and far from normal
@sj3969
@sj3969 Ай бұрын
Exactly, I remember having this discussion with a super conservative guy (I’m a woman). He was convinced all women should be mothers and if they didn’t they’re broken feminist stereotypes. His own mother was terrible, it was crazy to me how he overlooked that
@willnill7946
@willnill7946 Ай бұрын
@@sj3969all women are terrible mothers by default. They must be properly supervised by a man
@mickmcsherry5916
@mickmcsherry5916 Ай бұрын
Right, and furthermore, Grande got it wrong regarding CPTSD. Grande (or someone, but who else?) removed a post in which I told him he was wrong, and gave the ICD Code and description. He’s a jerk for sure if he removed that post. Here’s the important part of what I posted from the ICD: “6B41 Complex post traumatic stress disorder Description Complex post traumatic stress disorder (Complex PTSD) is a disorder that may develop following exposure to an event or series of events of an extremely threatening or horrific nature, most commonly prolonged or repetitive events from which escape is difficult or impossible (e.g. torture, slavery, genocide campaigns, prolonged domestic violence, repeated childhood sexual or physical abuse). All diagnostic requirements for PTSD are met. In addition, Complex PTSD is characterised by severe and persistent 1) problems in affect regulation; 2) beliefs about oneself as diminished, defeated or worthless, accompanied by feelings of shame, guilt or failure related to the traumatic event; and 3) difficulties in sustaining relationships and in feeling close to others. These symptoms cause significant impairment in personal, family, social, educational, occupational or other important areas of functioning.” I left out the lengthy diagnostic criteria, but since you now have the ICD number, you can Google the whole thing. Take care.
@zyplocs
@zyplocs Ай бұрын
Wow, 21 adjectives for her personality. That might be a record
@brendasears9650
@brendasears9650 Ай бұрын
Well presented and clearly explained. Some of these monsterous accounts are so hard to hear.
@DuncanMortimer-pf9dm
@DuncanMortimer-pf9dm Ай бұрын
Dr Grande, what a good person you are.
@holidayarmadillo8653
@holidayarmadillo8653 Ай бұрын
Such a profoundly tragic story for the husband and the children. It's so sad that evil like this can be very difficult to recognize until its too late. Ronald only was able to see how truly awful this person was after they had already committed each other to marriage and children and living situation. The intertwining of lives before knowing whether or not you fit together is what is so dangerous and so unpredictable but I suppose people cannot also date each other for 10 years waiting to see if anything insane happens. Life is hard. If you find good people keep them close!!!
@torgeirmolaug196
@torgeirmolaug196 Ай бұрын
12:25 "Veronica was self-sentered, grandiose, arrogant, condecending, impulsive, irresponsible, cold, callous, vindictive, petty, manipulative, cynical, sensationseeking, materialistic, hedonistic, insensitive, opportunistic, shallow, greedy and sadistic."
@dollcrazy300
@dollcrazy300 Ай бұрын
Seems she had some issues.
@LevMyshkin1970
@LevMyshkin1970 Ай бұрын
No more abortions
@CountrysideCutie
@CountrysideCutie Ай бұрын
I was wondering how much more traits he'd keep listing of this horrible mother. RIP to the children.
@kristinab.7499
@kristinab.7499 Ай бұрын
She certainly sounds like a malignant narcissist or psychopath. Bad news...
@clicheguevara5282
@clicheguevara5282 Ай бұрын
I have C-PTSD. It’s an intense disorder and sometimes it makes me very overstimulated and overwhelmed - but it’s never made me feel violent. C-PTSD is NOT the type of disorder that you can use for an insanity plea. 😂
@festina_lente7655
@festina_lente7655 Ай бұрын
Okey dokey
@traybern
@traybern Ай бұрын
Translation: It’s ANOTHER BULLSH1T psycho-babble euphemism!
@mickmcsherry5916
@mickmcsherry5916 Ай бұрын
@@festina_lente7655what’s with you and your “okey dokey” comments? Please explain.
@lostandfound5145
@lostandfound5145 Ай бұрын
@@mickmcsherry5916just another hateful person who wants to shame people for being vulnerable and ok with themselves because they’re unable to achieve that sort of strength themselves. I’m not diagnosing anyone, just speculating on what could be happening in a situation like this 😂
@cebruthius
@cebruthius Ай бұрын
@@lostandfound5145 It's called invalidation and a sign of psychopathology in a person who employs this tactic consistently.
@SnuffalupagusRising
@SnuffalupagusRising Ай бұрын
Interesting on the CPTSD diagnosis. Ive wondered about that from a technical sense as it's an emergent term, but PTSD is already such a spectrum and we have chronic and acute distinctions. But, as the complex label was explained to me at least, I can see where it's useful to denote PTSD that comes from a variety of sources, usually over a longer timeframe. This can help guide therapists when doing EMDR and considering other treatments. A common example would be ongoing child abuse vs one traumatic incident. It's not meant to be misused as the trauma Olympics but can be helpful in unpacking the trauma and knowing what points you'll need ti review in therapy (i.e. one incident vs many, one incident with one offender vs many with different people). Anyways, yeh, it definitely doesn't make you a murderous bitch though. She sucks.
@mickmcsherry5916
@mickmcsherry5916 Ай бұрын
Grande (or someone, but who else?) removed a post in which I told him he was wrong, and gave the ICD Code and description. As I see it, he’s lacking in character if he can’t admit a mistake. Here’s the important part of what I posted from the ICD: “6B41 Complex post traumatic stress disorder Description Complex post traumatic stress disorder (Complex PTSD) is a disorder that may develop following exposure to an event or series of events of an extremely threatening or horrific nature, most commonly prolonged or repetitive events from which escape is difficult or impossible (e.g. torture, slavery, genocide campaigns, prolonged domestic violence, repeated childhood sexual or physical abuse). All diagnostic requirements for PTSD are met. In addition, Complex PTSD is characterised by severe and persistent 1) problems in affect regulation; 2) beliefs about oneself as diminished, defeated or worthless, accompanied by feelings of shame, guilt or failure related to the traumatic event; and 3) difficulties in sustaining relationships and in feeling close to others. These symptoms cause significant impairment in personal, family, social, educational, occupational or other important areas of functioning.” I left out the lengthy diagnostic criteria, but since you now have the ICD number, you can Google the whole thing. Take care of yourself. Peace.
@anthonylabeau6159
@anthonylabeau6159 Ай бұрын
Thank you, for the video.
@LevMyshkin1970
@LevMyshkin1970 Ай бұрын
No more abortions
@JP-wx6uh
@JP-wx6uh Ай бұрын
You can take the girl out of the bar, but you can't take the bar out of the girl.
@anthonylabeau6159
@anthonylabeau6159 Ай бұрын
Hi everyone, from Fairbanks Alaska.
@janco333
@janco333 Ай бұрын
Hi from Cape Town South Africa
@genec5646
@genec5646 Ай бұрын
F*ck me. This is crazy. I know military people have some crazy family situations. This woman was nuts!!!!
@LevMyshkin1970
@LevMyshkin1970 Ай бұрын
No moore abortions
@richardsmith7404
@richardsmith7404 Ай бұрын
The use of words like "dated" and "romntically " I find a cleaned up version of the truth .
@jpettit27
@jpettit27 Ай бұрын
This is such a chilling case. I’m not surprised the marriage did not have a happy ending. Prostitutes do not make for suitable wives. Especially not military wives.
@notozknows
@notozknows Ай бұрын
I'm just glad not to hear, "The police botched this investigation." Well, I guess she solved the case for the cops.
@sarahalbers5555
@sarahalbers5555 Ай бұрын
I live right across the street from this monster. The cops scooped her up pretty quickly. I still think of those little girls, unfortunately it is impossible to forget that awful day in August 2018
@riblets1968
@riblets1968 Ай бұрын
Crazy women are fun. Until they're not.
@jharris3267
@jharris3267 Ай бұрын
A lot of us are carrying baggage from childhood. However once you grow up. We all make choices. We are either going to live up to our potential or live down to their expectations.
@mickmcsherry5916
@mickmcsherry5916 Ай бұрын
CPTSD isn’t “baggage.” Far from it. There are some things you cannot “grow out of,” CPTSD being one. CPTSD is a legit diagnosis and a very real disorder. It doesn’t lead to murder, nor is it an excuse for killing anyone, though. Grande seems to have deleted an earlier post of mine regarding CPTSD - it takes character to admit when you’re wrong, but Grande fails in this case. Here’s the important part of what I posted from the ICD: “6B41 Complex post traumatic stress disorder Description Complex post traumatic stress disorder (Complex PTSD) is a disorder that may develop following exposure to an event or series of events of an extremely threatening or horrific nature, most commonly prolonged or repetitive events from which escape is difficult or impossible (e.g. torture, slavery, genocide campaigns, prolonged domestic violence, repeated childhood sexual or physical abuse). All diagnostic requirements for PTSD are met. In addition, Complex PTSD is characterised by severe and persistent 1) problems in affect regulation; 2) beliefs about oneself as diminished, defeated or worthless, accompanied by feelings of shame, guilt or failure related to the traumatic event; and 3) difficulties in sustaining relationships and in feeling close to others. These symptoms cause significant impairment in personal, family, social, educational, occupational or other important areas of functioning.” I left out the lengthy diagnostic criteria, but since you now have the ICD number, you can Google the whole thing. I hope this is helpful.
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