Lol same here

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Damn

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Why did you do it?

​@Issac Einstein you know why....

Heavy on the 🗣️”PLEASE”

Bc he like most of the men in our community, we thought we were doing the right thing based on what we saw from everyone else around us

Gonna make this story short most bw with kids had them with pookie's and Ray Ray's. 90 out of 100 of them will always sleep with their baby daddy or daddy's behind the new boyfriend or husband back. Not only her baby daddy you have to worry about what about all of her ex boyfriends and friends with benefits or the new men she gives her number to. Fellas do you think you will always be the only one. She is for the streets and no lie almost all of my friends still sleep with their baby momma's and these wolves in sheep's clothing bw got good men they cheating on. To the single and childless bm don't be fools you would waste your life being for her and them kids while she is being for everyone else with you dragging along

Lil nigga eatin up all the turkey , mac n cheese, and sweet potato pie

Black men are constantly complaining about black women’s standards being too high. Yet, standards for your type includes a woman being physically attractive, no kids, a virgin, a slut in the bedroom, perform all the duties of a traditional housewife, and pay half the bills. Or, be physically attracted, no kids, a virgin, a slut in the bedroom, stay at home and perform all the duties of a traditional housewife, and be happy with whatever mediocre life that you can financially provide for her. It’s hypocritical at best.

@@dirtysouthg4l kids eat 1st remember 😆🤣🤣🤣🤣

Yeah these brothas standards are at the lowest at this point. They love these lil chicken heads 😂

@@dirtysouthg4l 🤣🤣🤣lmao

Simp customer: give me a whopper BK: here’s one with just 2 bites. The same thing with just 2 bites Simp customer: ok I’ll take it.

real shit. and you'll find its ALL about them and THEY kids. not u. u just end up serving

Two bites and passed around outside for a week then put back into the wrapper

Women are not whoppers.

​@@LiterallyTho it's called an analogy madam.

My auntie husband told me “don’t ever get with a woman who have kids”

Those men can't leave. They'll get trashed in the divorce. It's cheaper to keep her.

Absolutely correct

That’s fucked up!😤 Rip to bro

Mannn that's sad...

Man RiP that sound like sum BR shit smh

Why you didn’t slide for your cousin?

@@roadrunnertrav7179 I never liked guns & I was a kid.

In Jesus name

I'm from Detroit most bw only date and have kids with killers drug dealers womanizers deadbeat dads jailbirds pookie's and Ray Ray's scammers felons women beaters drunks men getting high off their own supply men on the offenders list robbers goons thugs and most bw know what these men are about. But be so quick to friend zone a good man. This is why I tell single and childless BM to date outside of the race because the chances are greater. These evil bm have more kids than every legit bm in the whole state of Michigan so what that say about bw. I blame bw for everything they failed our race for pookie's and Ray Ray's

Amen preach I concur

I think more of the problem is having a child from a guy with NO resources, not willing to support/provide, and/o didn't want a child.

What was main reason for leaving after being with her so long?

You must have been fresh out, or missing all the teeth from your mouth for being so DOWN BAD. What was your reasoning for that, sir?

Nurturing watering pruning and picking leaves 😂🤦🏽‍♂️🎯💯

8 Years...Bro WTF? You defenitley liked her bro...Like I want some context, whar happened that made you look passed the 8 years, I mean was it her personality...Let's be real, I feel single mothers playing the Game for the Playoffs fam...I have met some really dope women who are signle mothers, kind AF, responsible and super freaks...It's almost as if they are compensating for their Baby Mama BS. Cause I won't lie when it comes to her kid and her Baby Daddy, are like the only things that trip up her consistency...

​@@AmuMabasa Still waiting for the dam answer

There's nothing noble and honorable about it for most men. That's just how women sell it to make you buy into the b.s. Give a few mothers some tequila shots, then ask them if they would be cool with being stepmothers. They wouldn't. They know how catty, petty and trifling other women can be. No way would most mothers sign up to be stepmothers.

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Men are the provider and protector. Single fathers and single mothers are nothing alike. A single father must provide and protect take care of his children. If he gets another woman he has to provide for her too. Women don’t provide and protect.

@@geebee8989 facts

@@geebee8989he doesn’t have to provide shit that’s the problem women be dating y’all for money and dating guys like me for fun lmaoo

@@RIC-wo5gh😂😂🤣🤣

Smart

Facts

Appreciate that comment 🙏

Alot of them widows is from pookie being the victim of a drive-by as well.

Exactly, honestly the only scenario ive seem it work was a coworker dating a single mother who had a civil relationship with her children's father. They had joint custody and he basically dated her when her kids were with their father. They had problems and adjustments obviously but they're still together and married for 2 years now

Agreed

How did she breakup with the bd? If u don't mind

Could a woman with no kids have provided the same?

Sounds like you’ve been married for a while brother, its a different breed out here these days and im glad you have a success story but alot of men dont want to take the risk anymore

Good to hear my brother happy for you and your family but didn't go to well for me.

Thank you bro

@money manifestor No that's crazy too

@@rooseveltdarbey9493 DNA

Everytime 😅

Because it’s common sense, she knows she’s a liar and a hypocrite. That’s how those women are, manipulative and indecisive.

@@lordniyo4979big facts

Sheesh 😂 you said you had two step daddies our mother's failed us I HATE to say it SMH

@@d.t.williams5034 yeah now that I'm also most 50 I realized that my mama always picked jailbirds & ain't shit niggas..

@@d.t.williams5034 Bruh really said 2 with no shame. This is a DIRECT effect of the matriarchy . WOW.

@@EsauistheCaucasian 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@@d.t.williams5034 I wonder how many "uncles" he done had too.....

Both of them Finish last 🤝🏾💯😂😂😂💀🤦🏾‍♂️ 1A. StepFathers and 1B. Nice Guys.

Shut your bitter self up.

Dawg ✌🏾🤣😂😂😂💀 “Oh Yea didn’t work with the 1st, two or 3 fathers, but I’ma go ahead & give this a try” I’m 😂😂💀⚰️ asf you snapped. Should be a Family Guy skit.

Gonna make this story short most bw with kids had them with pookie's and Ray Ray's. 90 out of 100 of them will always sleep with their baby daddy or daddy's behind the new boyfriend or husband back. Not only her baby daddy you have to worry about what about all of her ex boyfriends and friends with benefits or the new men she gives her number to. Fellas do you think you will always be the only one. She is for the streets and no lie almost all of my friends still sleep with their baby momma's and these wolves in sheep's clothing bw got good men they cheating on. To the single and childless bm don't be fools you would waste your life being for her and them kids while she is being for everyone else with you dragging along

@@thetruthtings1672 most definitely, maybe I gotta big ego but I’m almost 100% certain I could get with my BM, it doesn’t phase her one bit. I try to see the good in most people but I’m telling ya, I think she’s hollow. Lights are on, nobody’s home. She’s a shape shifter and like water will take the shape of whatever gets her what she needs.

@@teddyblanco1898 I could go on forever rippin and roastin. But it is fascinating to me. The psychology of people, and why they do that kinda shit. Glad you liked that tho! Laugh at my pain right ?! 😂 o

​@Frequent Flyer Thts crazy. Thts sounds exactly like my baby mama. I think she tried her best to put on her best roll in the beginning but it was only a matter of time her dingyness and unstable empty head ass will reveal to me. Thts why I had to leave. 😂

I stand by that statement 💯

But righteous guys stay blessed. Be blessed, brother🙏🏾😇

It means nothing but ignorance Fam 😂😂😂. Cause we both know how becoming married truly happens

Or just don’t do it all. Until the child grows up and turns 18, then she can try again.

@@lordniyo4979 amen

Most women over thirty with no kids are career women, which is also a problem for the modern black man.

It’s better than a baby mama, y’all Just need to stop wiring these hoes and trying to have a family. Let it happen naturally or not at all

Lazy thinking? As opposed to assuming single mothers don't have narcissistic traits or focus on their jobs over their family? I don't see the point in trying something you know won't work, men should not have to settle for coming after another man's kids or another man's business.

They are definitely a better choice when compared to single mothers their own age. Single mothers are the lowest on the totem pole when it comes to dating

I 100% agree

No self respect. Mf’s want to be captain save a hoe, for some extreme sense of purpose or something lol niggas want to be hero’s, instead of just being a father to their own kids with their own special woman SMH

Dummy 😂😂

You wife her?

Probably hard to find because those men date younger women, and by doing so decrease the likelihood they will encounter one of these bitter single mothers you don't want to deal with either

That's not true at all.

No fam not true. Didn’t have my first until 39. And she didn’t have kids either

@@nevertoolate7120 idk to many who waiting till 40 to have kids

​@@KapitalKel you don't know many smart people then...

@@terrycampbell5503 that’s possibly true

your a great man. i raised 1 kid that wasn't mind and dont think twice about it

PERIOD!!

Lol are you saying it’s righteous to take care of another man’s kids ? Or that it’s righteous to have your own, with your own woman who’s ready to start a family ?

@@lordniyo4979 whatever is good and proper for one man may not be the same for another. It takes a good and righteous man to raise children that are not biologically his. Even Jesus had an father who adopted him.

@@The1995Stoic you again🙄

I don't know man. I have a kid but I have too much to lose. A single parent would be able to relate well, but I've just seen way too many cases of blended families not working out. You're gonna be expected to provide for a kid not yours. Especially with the economy nowadays providing for another kid that's not even yours just isn't worth it. I wouldnt mind mentoring kids, but step fathering is a whole other ball game. On the flip side I don't expect a woman to parent my child or provide. It takes a very special single Mom to make it work with but that's rare these days. I bet they're out there, a woman who can hold down a good job and respects her body, self and others.

This comment was 5 months ago but what sort of pressure? Just keep your eyes peeled. Any red flags and toxicity will reveal itself after a year or 2. Before that you have no idea what you're getting yourself into.

@@snnn4818 nah, pressure from her pyshco ex and all the fun that comes with courts. I left, split a house in CO cash with my mom. I'm living good and it was a great decision. We are still together but I sold the house and left the state lol.

Nothing says i don't actually live a life of prosperity by patting yourself on the back for simp shit

⁠@@trombonefellowI’d be willing to bet everything I have that I’m living better than you🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️

@@kevincunningham3655 marrying a single mom is not wise for any man. Because you made a risky decision that turned out well for you does not mean it is a path others should follow. I can go from LA to Vegas by walking there but it’s still not the ideal way to travel. I’m glad everything worked out for you but advising others to walk a risky path is not wise in my opinion.

@@70two41five It 100% depends on the woman. I’ve married two single mothers. One was disastrous. One was the best decision I’ve ever made in my life. I think advising men to shun all single mothers is silly. Especially as we age. But I do advise men dealing with single mothers to not ignore the red flags because they show up early and often.