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Just broke up with a single mother, this man speaks facts!

I wasted 6 years on a girl with two kids. Horrible experience and her parents made my life a living hell. Kids are also teens now and I am nothing to them. No matter what I did and spent. Find a single girl with no kids. It's not worth it.

I must really be a rare bird, when I went to iraq at age 40 my wife of 18 years had an affair with my sons dr, she wanted a divorce , though the dr was going to marry her, I took the kids,age 8and 10, finished raising them, put them both thru college, kept the house and land, she paid me child support, no way in hell was I going to let another man take my children, the dr did his thing and then dumped her, of course she wanted back into my home and life , didnt happen

What's missing in this is how the more single mothers you have the more government programs you have

I took a single mother and her son on a date once. That was the closest I ever came to being a step dad. Im never doing that again.

I was a single mom and I agree with this man. Not all single moms are good women. God Bless Y'all 🙏

The sad part is I wish coach could give these types of talks to teenagers in school. This will really open their eyes and make them think twice before making dumb ass mistakes. I def could have used this kinda talks in my school. I didn't make too many bad mistakes but hearing this at a early age would have changed my perspective alot more when I was in school. Love what you do coach keep preaching to all our lost brothers out there

I was briefly chatting with a woman on Bumble. Her profile didn't mention kids. I find out after a handful of messages that she's actually a single mom. What cracked me up is that initially she was saying stuff like "lucky for you" and "if things continue well in your favor" like she was the selector. That was already turning me off. But then when I discovered she had that mindset as a single mom I couldn't help but laugh. Like taking on a woman with two kids under 10 makes her a prize. It's nuts how delusional single mom's are about their SMV. 💯

Kids should have their father in their lives

Split with a single mother in January. The most selfish woman I've ever dealt with

Coach, you have nearly 50K views. IT SHOULD BE 50 million! Thank you for being a voice of reason in a mad world.

I grew up with a single mother, and its a trash life that damage you bigtime

Wish this guy was a guest speaker at my high school growing up, at my high school the olny gest speakers we had were out of shape feminist telling us to be accepting of others and setting medeocraty as the tone to some how reach our goals.

In my house - the only authority figure is me. I am happy to listen but decisions run through me. 25 years later I still have a marriage. Good video Coach.

My father abused my mom on the daily, her being a single mother has nothing to do with it. My dad leaving was better for both of us.

My wife had no kids before we got married. Baby mama drama is almost impossible to navigate without two parents willing to work for the best of for their child/children and the people they are dating/married to willing to humble themselves for the sake of the child/children. I have been involved in these horrible situations and I have humbled myself to deal with a part-time father trying to flex on me because he got rims on his car but my Jeep was factory. However, his baby mama was asking me to get their kids something to eat because they were hungry. He wasn’t paying child support according to her and I was always coming out of the pocket and I said to myself “I can do bad all by myself.” And I stopped searching and healed up, Focused on self improvement, Got active in my Church, and then my Future wife appeared almost out of thin air.

This is totally true. I dated a single mom and her son was obese, and was literally couldn't make any choices without having a mental breakdown. Her daughter was literally a liberal freak who was into the whole liberal pronoun movement. It was sick shit and I had no ability to say anything. Seeing self destruction at its finest.

Truth in a world of lies

If a father has to fight to see his kids through the courts the question should be...WHY ARE YOU MAKING HIM HAVE TO FIGHT TO SEE HIS CHILDREN, LADIES?????

Everything he just said should be the mainstream thinking, instead of the false mainstream belief that is going on right now. I applaud anyone who stands against a corrupt system the way this man does. Respect.

Wow! One of the few, rare black men that sees and speaks the truth. I guess he’ll be labeled as a sellout because it doesn’t fit the current narrative of being a victim of everything but ones’ own actions.

You're a breath of fresh air in a smelly world my friend.

I am a woman, I agree with his message

Coach putting in work!

I was raised in a 2 parent home. But it was toxic. Because of our MOTHER!

It's pretty obvious that we need both an easily available male contraceptive pill and some serious education. The repercussions of single motherhood are generally catastrophic. Much love though and serious respect to the single mothers that have given it their all ❤️

EXACTLY! This is what I've been saying for years but no one wants to listen to it. STOP praising single motherhood and start holding them accountable.

I've tried for decades to get custody of my daughters. Their mother would leave them and go out clubbing 3 to five times a week. My oldest told me she left them one night and didn't get back home till afternoon the next morning. She was 8 at the time with a 6 year old and 3 year old. But I'm a male and can't take care of my daughter's because they're girls. The family court is not about family it should be called mothers court.

Go brother ✊🏽✊🏾✊🏿

Incredible. It is common sense, but lead the way with others man, it’s actually inspirational these days.

Thanks Coach spitting facts as usual

I knew a Single Mom that had four children three of them where taken away by child services and put for adoption and one was adopted by her mom two out of four of her children no longer hers are on suicide watch!!

I was raised by a single mother from 14 on when my mom left my dad. I can attest to what this man is saying. I dropped out of high school, used drugs, went to jail etc.. all by the age of 18. My mom was a horrible parent and all of this happened to me directly due to her lack of parenting.

Saving lives, Coach. Rock on

We need more men like this and speaking up like this. Keep up the preaching brother

Excellent message you have my respect

Coach Adams , you remind me of the Staff Sargent who led our Platoon when I was a young Marine stationed in Okinawa . His name escapes me because that was 40 years ago ! I'm 60 now and can attest through my life experiences that what you speak is the TRUTH . Any young man Black , White , Red , Yellow , Orange , Should LISTEN AND LEARN !

The first 30 seconds of this video is a truth bomb.

An intelligent and brave man to say all this - he knows it needs to be said.

This was better than I expected no cap

Great video coach! I came from a two parent home, but unfortunately I became part of the single parent statistic. I was a in a 7 year relationship that ended after finding he cheated for ~1 year of that (and is still with). Thankfully he still very much apart of our son's life! I refuse to keep my son away and hope their relationship continues to flourish. I have seen bitter co-parenting relationships and it's sad. I pray my son will make the right decisions and not put himself in this type of situation.

What a great speech with alarming data! Thanks!

You sir, are a TRUE American Hero. God bless you Greg.

The coach tells the truth!

This is good stuff that should be taught to young men.

Coach Greg Adams is the example by which we must learn. Following in the footsteps of Tom Leykis. Thank You Coach!! Hope to meet You down the road to personally say Thanks!! #CoachGang

So, I don't have biological children, but I helped raise a girl from roughly the age of 11 on. I remember one day I was driving her to school and she came to the kitchen door with a short skirt on and provocative looking shirt. I said, no way, go and change. She thought I was joking. I wasn't. I said, we are not leaving until you go and change. She did and I drove her to school. She was upset, but I wasn't going to let her go to school looking like that. Maybe she brought those clothes with her and changed immediately at school, I don't know. I just know that I wasn't taking her in an inappropriate outfit. I would also give boys the "evil eye" when we would go out in public. I watched her like a hawk. She got in some trouble, but I was always there to teach and comfort at the right moments. She didn't get pregnant, she graduated, and she is a productive adult. Fathers matter. Positive male role models matter. A father isn't a sperm donor either, a father is a male that choose to be a part of a kid's life and help mentor them, guide them, and educate them. You can choose to be a father or you can choose to be a sperm donor. I don't understand why as a society we bash men and fathers instead of building them up and talking about how important they are to society.

THANK . You COACH.

This is dope ✊🏽

Went through a divorce and thought I was going to lose my kid 80% of the time. Luckily I have 50% which is still heartbreaking. You need to check the laws of your state and make sure what custody laws are. If you marry evil that will not save you because of the possibility of the law being involved. I was very fortunate and I still think it is awful.

take a shot everytime coach says Chad and Tyrone

The other problem with single mothers is they think they are the prize. No boo.. You lost that when you had kids. In honest truth you never really had it. Men ARE the prize. You need to realize as a MN you are the prize. Men built LITERALLY everything on this planet and women were there to heal your wounds on you can go back then next day and o it again. Argue with the phone you're holding built by men and internet built by men sitting on the chair built by men, in the house built by men. You get the gist.

Thanks Coach. Seriously.

Great speech.

Thank the lord somebody is finally speaking reason on this subject.

This is great, thank you

When he said if you have a father in the house you not gonna let your daughters do this, I’m literally shaking my head no

In my community it's like condoms are foreign. They think its lame to wear protection. My niece just had a kid and not with the father now smh. I would've made sure to instill in her dont get pregnant by one of these smooth talking boys cause you'll be stuck by yourself and when you get yourself together and find someone mature you'll have baggage

Thanks CGA

This guy is awesome. The more I hear him talk the more I get behind what he says.

Excellent content...

Remember back in the 1980s? Many young girls wanted to be mothers. Well they got them. No man around. Hardly. Back in the 70s, if a high school girl got pregnant she was hauled off to a school called Siesis. You never saw her no more at high school. Now, I graduated in 79. In the 80s, my high school had a nursery. Girls pushing strollers to school.

Straight facts !!!

Coach Greg, you are on point! Once again, on point...

Yo I'm glad I'm not the only 1 realizing this

I respect any black person that speaks against BLM. The most divisive movement in the world.

Everything this man said was absolutely true. Especially about the henpecked relationships. 🤦🏽‍♀️

Thank you, brother!

God bless you man Good job

I love the way coach inspires others and I believe most of what he says is absolutely true. I would like to respectfully say that there is another side to this coin. These men that grow up with single mothers for lack of a better term become "sassy men". Sassy Men are men who grow up with feminine traits and lack guidance from a man. They can be handsome, muscular, successful but Its not about looks or status. These dudes are the guys who go out mess up the game and create more single mothers. We have to start checking men at the door and helping them become more masculine and in turn become better men. Not alpha, not aggressive but Masculine. Making wiser decisions, recognizing your strengths and talents and capitalizing on them. Stay sharp and stay safe.

Have state legislatures and Congress asked this man to testify when they are looking for input on how to fix things in our nation? If we really cared about our urban cities and children then we would do things to foster 2 parent homes with strong fathers and we would stop trying to destroy the family unit and making men out to be evil and/or worthless.

You are a truth speaking beast bro… appreciate you

Coach Greg Adams great message.

What do you think happens to a young man who has a single mother and then a stepmother?

Got to go wife just walked into the room, thanks coach!

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What u are saying is making so much sense u are doing a great job god bless u

Impressive coach u are wise...

I'm 58 years old single and have escaped all of this. as I've gone through my life when I was younger and dated girls I saw what was happening and got more cautious to commit because of all this recklessness with women. There are a lot of women out there that cannot conceive what is a good man. having kids out of wedlock. it's unbelievable what is happening in our society. I'm a believer in the Lord Jesus Christ and I read my Bible and everything he says is coming to pass. it's very sad to see those statistics because we are sexually driven society. God has the marriage plan in the Bible but people are not obeying God an our society is crumbling.

Respect to coach Adam🙏

Facts!!!

I feel really bad for the kids who grow up this way. You can’t even do anything about it because the mothers don’t even want to hear it and always think they’re right and like we all know they have the law, goverment, etc on their side so the chances of even getting through to them is really basically none. They don’t care if it damages their children, they’ll call it empowerment, and say that no one tells them what to do….things like that. That’s the worst part. They have such a huge ego that they can’t even fathom that maybe just maybe it’s actually true and these girls and boys need their fathers. Most of these single mothers were also the product of either shitty parents or absent parents. It genuinely makes me feel awful because these kids will grow up and not even understand that they grew up this way until maybe one of them has problems and actually decides to break the cycle by bettering themselves. And even then they might not be able to stop it anyways. Sad af these mothers out here care more about hoeing around instead of their childrens future. Both genders are to blame but really these women out here got way too addicted to social media and the validation/attention they crave so badly.

If there's to be a movement for a resurgence of masculinity...this man should be in the forefront. He embodies strength.

Love coach!!!

They push the fathers out of the home.

Saddly in NZ single motherhood in certain parts of our society strive for it because all the benefits available to them and they don't have to work , its pretty rife under the surface .. But scareyly solo fathers arnt able to get the same benefits,. And usually not with out a fight just to get the basics ..

100 percent truth

Love how he called out Cuties, this man is the real deal

Coach Greg one of the OG's in the game

This needs to be shown to all my friends who’s fathers walked out on them

Dear good single mothers watching this. I’m sincerely glad you chose life. Hopefully your child or children become something great! Touch lives & make you proud.

God bless Coach Adams!!!!

Excellent and informative…thank you for being real and unWOKE! Fathers aren’t given any credit anymore and young men don’t know how! Your lecture on SON-HUSBAND is spot on 👍 I hope that one day you and Shapiro can have a discussion online….that would be great! Or with Candace Owen .

Where is the full video?

What about single fathers? And sometimes guys want nothing to do with their gf when she becomes pregnant, what then?

Sad subject when it comes to parents divorcing! Facts 2021

Coach Adams 💪🏿💪🏿🔥🔥 he think exactly how I think and these people been calling me crazy my whole life 😅😅

CGA gang 🔥 🔥

One thing unmarried women don’t mean single.There’s couples who are together who are unmarried and also there’s live in couples.Also there’s coparenting(done by people from all demographics).Ex Trump hasn’t been married to the mother of his first 3 kids for 30 years but he’s always been a present father.