they've said it before and they'll say it again. attachment is the root of all suffering. let go. man :)

we are addicted to the illusion of permanence, but nothing is permanent and if we dwell of that we will always be sad instead of seeing the beauty of growth

Sometimes bad break-ups can cause split energy/soul fragmentation. What I learned is that sometimes the universe will take people away from us so we can find ourselves again.

Favorite person on KZfaq, you saved me from mental stupidity.

I'm still not over that intro

This has been so helpful (referring to your vision) I've been holding on to a break up for two years now... I'm the type of person that is very emotionally​ guarded, I never "let anybody in", and I've never been able to love or let myself be loved but then one day SHE came along.... All my life I've felt with depression and it's like she opened my eyes up to a beautiful world where I was a better me... A world where I was happy for once and then one day she just let me go and I've spent the past two years being haunted by her in my thoughts trying to figure out what went wrong. I cried tears of relief when I watched this and now I can breathe. This really hit home but now I can move on. Thank you so much

I've come to understand you're soulmate can be anybody, a soulmate isn't a reserved parking space, it's recognition of someone else's depth and understanding. You saw what they left with you drift off back to her, that's what truly painful when you lose that connection. Your souls mix and intertwine and you have to slowly build your whole self back up because of how much you've left with them

You know, I've been struggling for a long time emotionally and mentally losing who I thought was the love of my life. And honestly, hearing your words about your experience has healed me more. I feel more at peace with what has happened now. I like your vibes, man. I find your videos very spiritually cleansing.

I'm not gonna lie, coming into this video I really didn't think I would be able to take anything away. I thought it was gonna be some lame koi fresco type of preaching. But this video actually really reminded me of a lot of important things. Me and my girlfriend broke up recently because of a temporary distance change and i've been stuck in the middle of holding on and letting go. You spoke so much genuine truth in this video. I've been considering taking some acid and the only thing holding me back has been the way I may handle thinking about her. But I think if i can really get into this mindset before hand, it will really benefit me. Thank you for the video.

Found this channel in 2010, 10 years and still here, love it.

going through a painful breakup experience right now & i plan to take a shroom trip with intentions of acceptance and understanding. thank you

"Where you are, is where you're supposed to be" :-)

Changing my life and becoming more spiritual in the last few years has really driven home that if you cannot be happy with what you have you will never be happy no matter what you ever have.

I'm so happy you're doing daily videos now! Much love, brother. 🕉💜

I in that fetal position and sobbing part..I know the agony it is pure and deep miserable pain just ripping apart the heart. But I met my husband years later and the relationship is on another level. Your path is going to take you somewhere amazing bc you're a pure great soul no matter what it is. Think about the break up and how you started your channel I'm sure it had some impact on ur future choices.

Words can't express how much I love this channel ❤️ much love dude

Very wise lesson. Thank you helped me with a recent break up a bit :). Peace and love man!

Im dealing with a break up with a narcissist.. I also have shrooms I've been sitting with for a couple months. Looks like I'm ready for my own realization. Allow ALL my love be triggered toward myself again and let go of the pain. Thank you for the wisdom

I took LSD after a big break up, it actually was bad at first while tripping but it turned out great Bc it helped me overcome it.

Everytime i watch one of your videos i remember( or learn)something valuble ive forgotten and immediately feel better.

don't hold onto something that is already gone. I love it!

We're addicted to the illusion of permanence ! Wow such beautiful words💕

It's like 8am and I just came home from a birthday party. After watching your video I just bursted into tears because I realised how I'm still emotionally attached to a person i grew apart from 4 months ago. However, you also made me realised how much this relationship made my inner beauty glow and how I should look at it more often. Thank you Dakota, much love from a silent viewer ❤️✌🏽

its like when relationships end part of your soul is with her forever, as hers is with you. as the lesson has been learnt between the two of you, the impact you have on each other is now able to be shared beyond the physical relationship and into different realms.

I tripped about a year after a very traumatic breakup. I took it for the experience and the truth is I was still recovering from my ex and still thought I needed her to move forward. During my trip on a isalnd with friends I spoke with my self for over 3 hours reliazed so many amazing things. And believe it or not it completely erased my ex from my life I no longer think I need her or want her I’m so happy.

I realized trips are really your subconscious thoughts coming out and if you're willing to think or let go you'll come to a realization. You had a real emotional crisis and you got through it with a life lesson from our nature tool

Greatest intro i've ever seen

I've been seeing this guy for the past 9 months, and he's amazing. He's the best lover I've ever had. I love his personality, his mind, his soul. He's so much like me. And it's very hard of us to connect with anyone because we're so odd. And I feel us drifting apart and I know we're on different paths. But I've been so addicted to him. But I had a long dream last night and woke up realizing that it's going to end soon and I need to be okay with it. I have to keep moving forward. I know we're both amazing people, but I'm moving out of the country soon. So there really isn't a future with us. And I'm a firm believer that if we are meant to find each other again one day, then we will.

YES! This ideology has been in my mind the whole time and I’m happy someone has vocalized it

5:41 addicted to the illusion of permanence. And the longer we hang on to something that’s already gone, the longer we won’t be able to recognize the beauty in the NOW. Dope

Bad trips teach you and heal you the most if you ask me. I go in, find myself dead-man walking and come out reborn-with the shit gone. Well and whole again. Don't be afraid of an uncomfortable experience in the long haul of healing and recovery...

Damn. This deserves more publicity, and helped a lot

Thank you for this, it was exactly what I was looking for. Much love and God Bless 🤍

I'm actually going through a bad breakup myself and hearing this really brought me some comfort. thank you kota 💚

So glad i found you and koi on youtube, It's nice to see you both growing on your spiritual path.

Profound, I really needed to hear this bro. Thank you ✊🏾

I wish there were words to describe how much I value you and your videos, thank you!

I wish I had been that wise when I was younger but instead, I got stuck on the Hollywoodian idea that romantic love is forever for years and years and when the universe finally granted my wish and put me back together with "the love of my life", it didn't take long for me to realized that I had been in love with an idea of that person and not her true self which, in actual fact, I couldn't stand! It took me ages to learn what you have learned and my teachers were not mushrooms or psychedelics but the pain of separation. Pain was and still is my teacher. As an over 50 gay woman raised in a catholic country which looks like a witch's boot, I bought into the dream of "foreverness" and it was only in the past few years that I understood that "this too, shall pass!". I love you brother, your videos are truly enlightening, thank you for sharing your experiences. 🙏💖😊🤗😉

i always end up in the fetal position if i trip in my room

Your intros are pretty awesome. As with the low key music in the background. 😎

This was exactly what I was looking to hear in regard to shrooms and breakups. Thank you.

Did my first trip last weekend atlantis truffles 15g and WOW i just feel like everything is going to be ok. Ive been thru alot of trauma and always been sooooo shy growing up to the point it robs me of life experiences but on that trip all i felt was that nothing matters no ones opinion nothing and that were all connected even the dark stuff we all come from one source. I read in a blog to look in the mirror to face stuff but it scared me coz i became so ugly and the room went so dark and i just kept heaving i thought my soul was going to leave my body, reminded me of the purge on dmt ive seen in vids and i just wasnt ready to face it alone but deep down i know once i face it i will be ok like i think i need to bring up whatever was trying to get out its just scary alone. Im about to have my second trip today just waiting for my stomach to empty after breakfast. Im so excited for this its the best feeling ive ever known. And before the mirror i cried and cried from joy that ive never felt before not even giving birth 2 kids comes close and thats a big statement. I just felt so loved and happy and not anxious for the first time in years after serious domestic abuse. BEST thing ever❤🧡💛💜💙💚

The message in this video makes me very sad...

I love listening to your trip reports

i went thru exact same hard breakup and ended up doing psilohuasca ,bit too much than i expected it and i was torn apart ,humbled down and shown that the love i thought was coming from her ,was indeed from within me ,considering before i thought i ll never have feelings again or be able to offer love

This really helped me. Yesterday I took two tabs of lsd and went to the forest and it was really eye opening. I cried and just embraced the reality of my life but today I felt so depressed and confused. But I'm glad to know that it is all temporary and life is for u to grow

I binge watched your poem videos. they were beautiful and pure. you have a very soothing voice, and helped me through my own moment of darkness. keep on keeping on and enjoy your life, you're an amazing soul

I love you man. One of my spiritual mentors. A great communicator is one that takes the minimum amount of words to explain the infinite. Thanks.

tripping with a purpose. this dude is like a real shaman. finds wisdom and spritual connection through trips. glad you have the perspective in order bro.

Thank you! Today was filled with so much pain. This made a lot of it go away :)

Beautifully said my man

Holy shit Dakota I'm going through a really emotional break up right now and you have no idea how much this video means to me currently

I dont know how I got to this video but I'm so glad I did. The way you talked why people are in our life and how we are so addicted to the illusion of permanence. Thank you so much, great video !!

dakotawint just want to say this really.. really helped me.. You are so wise I could listen to you talk all day! Stay blessed 😁✌🏽

On point. No fluff. Wisdom.

What an angel.

I'm struggling with breakup at the moment. But this video really helped me realize the spiritual truth within it. Thank you for the insight man. Love you

I wish I could have see this video when my first love ripped my heart out of my soul. My dad had died at 3 1/2 years earlier and i must have gotten to "attached" to this person. I experienced 2 deaths. My dad's again and my relationship. Couldn't function. Went anorexic. Your video could have helped me with my struggle and journey thru it. Great video. God bless.

I took a 100 mic dose of LSD about two weeks ago and I know it isn't much but it was absolutely life changing . I haven't been having negative thoughts or felt truly sad since then . It was like everything I had been learning from listening to Alan watts , koi and other spiritual people all the sudden made so much since to me .It was a really intense high for me though and I was mentally exhausted for 2 after. Would definitely recommend just you need a sitter and you have to be in a good place mentally when you take it .

It’s so nice knowing I’m not the only one who’s experienced this and it crazy how the universe works cause everything he said hit right on the dot

This is just what I needed to hear, wise words man

Wow. I needed this video. I appreciate you.

Everyone you meet is a part of you in manifestation

Been going through a break up and you compeltly shifted my perspective and now feels like my life can change thank you!!!!!

Much better than I thought it would be based on the title

My dad is currently going through a tough breakup. I told him shrooms can possibly help him with that. Looked it up and found this video. Gotta show this to him now.

*I really appreciate the positive words about the attachement subject in terms of a relationship. One love Dakota. Keep spreading good energy 💚💛❤*

I cant tell you how much this hit me.. going through a bad one right now and everything you said was just perfect. I needed to hear this so bad. Dont think ill trip.. but this is enough.

I could listen to you speak for hours

I miss the poetry videos :')

you have come so far is such good ways, i'm so happy to see you doing well on your journey. U are so so wise and i touch with ur inner being, it's truly inspiring. U give me a sense of hope and happiness that I can't quite seem to grasp anywhere else.

Thank you for sharing your experience. Your words are truly meaningful.

Every video you make just blows my mind. You're an amazing teacher. Thank you 🙏🏻

Yooo this is so deep. I know why I subscribed to you.

Absolutely beautiful words

everything you said in this video was exactly what i needed to hear! thank you much love

love you Dakota, brother

love ya dakota ! you were an angel to me during the hardest part of my spiritual awakening... and you still give me so much hope!

I was on mushrooms in the moment of breaking up.....😊👍

This video helped me a lot. My boyfriend died November 13. I have been grieving a lot. You, Dakota, and Mrs. Yanghaiying Channels have helped me cope the most since this happened. You and her. Getting me through. Thank the Universe and i love you.

I needed this so much right now. Thank you from the bottom of my heart Dakota.

You can't stress anything that your not in control of, everything happens for a reason

I love all the videos you make and can't tell you how much they've helped me get through all the mishaps in life

I haven't had a lot of guidance growing up, and I still feel lost in many ways.But I feel like your energy and mind is definitely something I admire and look up to :) I know that you're just symbolism for a vessel that I am searching for.. But nevertheless, I am grateful :)

I find you so beautiful and intellectual and I truly appreciate the fact that you're here. 💓

this is such a beautiful video & I know everyone can somehow relate to this story. thank you for sharing this story Dakota, soo pure!

this is my favourite video of yours. really spoke and connected with me. powerful stuff

Thank you for running this channel!

This spoke to my last month on such a personal level. I said high to you at the mountain view warped tour Dakota and shared my short version of my story. I lost my heart recently and have found and lost myself through psychedelics. Your channel your insight and your views have really helped me in some of my weakest moments

I could honestly listen to you for hours. ❤

Hey thanks man, nice to watch

This is amazing and so understanding. I understand how you felt and I'm glad you found your path ❤

I love your videos so much, I had 1 tear coming down because what you say is the truth. You are an amazing person with a beautiful soul ❤️ I hope you read this.

love the new opening, keep spreading the love & knowledge my man! :)

we as people sometimes forget to stop thinking of rhetoric to someones hypothesis and just let it be in oneness, enjoying the moment and appreciating their point of view without needing to counter their beliefs

your intro is the beeeest!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Your amazing dakota my brother

I have finally ordered two shirts from your website. Thank you for changing my life for the better and helping me find myself

I just had a breakup last week, and have done mushrooms a few times. i was thinking of doing a trip to have a closure. and today this video shows up on my feed. What a timing! universe is alive ❤️ much love brother🕉️

2024. That message felt very personal