Great way of putting it.

It's a very lucrative business model

The most mentally ill body dysmorphic people in the population are being praised and celebrated for it. Imagine being punished for telling an anorexic that they're too skinny.

That’s pretty standard.

😢sad sad 😢💔👣💔

But he has to have his lived experience *validated*! Waaugh!

that was so insane

@Lisa's Gaming Hub Arcade Yes, a biological male claiming 1) he is a woman and 2) he gave birth to his children, instead of supplying the sperm is really, really funny. The depths of this delusion are hilarious! I bet he thinks he passes too. I wonder how many people point and laugh?

Agreed. It's going to backfire on him on the long term. Lies undermine trust and respect.

They do that, consistently.

She's a trans activist.

Madness. Smh.

It’s not a delusion, those men are fake, they’re pretending, to get attention, to get validation, they feed off the people in their life. To relieve their chronic boredom. They have no inner self, no feelings, no conscience, they don’t care about anyone else even their kids. They’re expert actors, especially in court.

The worst thing you can do for a narcissist is to validate them. You hand them a mirror, show them the problem, and hold them accountable. Narcissists can be helped! I don’t know much about gender dysphoria but I assume they can also be helped if they are given the truth. This is a failure of the legal and mental health care systems, a tragedy for every person involved.

I’m definitely anti gender ideology but it does make me laugh that gender critical feminists will say that NO matter when you CANNOT change sex, and bio sex is all that matters, but when a woman’s AGP husband comes out as “trans” then suddenly it’s “she’s not attracted to women” or “she’s not gonna be a lesbian” 😂 But they tell us that no matter how many surgeries someone gets they will ALWAYS be a man, and that “gender” doesn’t matter. Gender is ALL that matters. That is why blow up sex dolls and dildos sell. A blow up doll isn’t a biological woman, but it’s enough to cause arousal! If I see a man walking down the street and find him attractive, then later find out he is trans, my intentions might change, but my attraction is still there, because it was there to begin with. And aren’t gender criticals always saying that people should be able to be gender non conforming, without transition? So since this woman’s husband will ALWAYS be a man, if he just dressed up in womens clothing and didn’t medically transition then a gender crit should have no issues right? He’s still the same sex no matter what he does!! 😂

Yes and siblings who ve been silenced and are emotionally traumatised by their selfish narcissistic siblings.

@@HeathenGranny ?

@Tech girl get help! You're all over the comments with this and it's utter nonsense. It's called "deadname" for a reason! You don't get to dictate or police other people's feelings just because you don't like it. Grow up

@@Simpy553of course they are widows. The person they married no longer exists. This person now pretends they are a woman and won’t let you use their old name because it’s called a ‘deadname’.

@@Simpy553 I am widowed, and I've been divorced too. They are extremely similar. Your being offended is displaced. Her man is dead too, and a nightmare has taken his place. Don't be so quick to judge. Believe me, my heart is broken 24/7 over losing my husband so permanently to death, but the hardship of raising my children and single parenthood, because I lost their dad and my husband to divorce was extremely painful too. Its like you are saying that you lost your legs, and her losing her arms isn't as bad. They both really, really s#ck!

​@@HeathenGranny ...

She was kind of selfish too. Why continue trying to conceive after finding out their partner was trans? Also did she not pick up on the narcissistic traits before she married her partner? Did she purposefully ignore certain red flags to fulfill her fantasy of the « perfect nuclear family »

I know one who did exactly that too. Totally devastated his family of 3 little kids & buggered off on his wife. He paid not one cent towards their upbringing yet demanded 1/2 of their accumulated wealth to pay for his Transition. I hope a rainbow coloured Karma bus hits his entitled arse head on. This guy I know is the complete narcissist & he's definately auto erotically aroused by pretending he's a woman. He's an utterly vile individual. The ex-wife now knows she's dodged a bullet. But the wrecking ball he took to his family was breathtaking. His parents & siblings are still reeling from it too.

Sadly, most of them do. I believe the men who transition later in life, after having a wife and children arent transsexual in a sense of someone who struggles with gender dysphoria, but they have a fetish and become more and more perverted as they feed into it. A man with gender dysphoria could never function as a man by taking on the husband and father role, the mental condition is very debilitating... These men are autogynophiles and sexually motivated in what they do.

Very powerful.

That's got to be rough on a woman. got to be right up there as finding out your husband is a serial killer. I'm not saying trans and murderers are morally the same just the magnitude of the shock is probably similar.

@@HeathenGranny Sounds like they lost their loved ones to me.

​@@HeathenGranny God forbid you get to know the term 'grass widower'. How dare they, eh?

@@HeathenGranny have a nice day, dear! I hope something nice happens to you today :)

What is AGP?

​@@luzclara3855 autogynaphilia

It's all about s3x one way or another with men... Everything men do is to bring a better class of sex partners into their lives. This need to wear ones sexuality as your identity is a male concept meant to bring more casual sex partners into one's life- which was amplified during the gay pride movement and done to let the bi curious straight men - know who the gay men are, that they are available for casual sex- and the #1 reason AIDS spread so quickly among men. This new ideology is driven by fetish behavior... Don't worry, when he's pecker and testes are cut off he will become normal again, it should take about 4 years once he's castrated...

@@heatherduncan4945 autogynephilia

Trans is pure narcissism. If you fail to reflect their false persona back to them, they abuse you.

I'm sorry this struggle happened to you and your family. Thanks for sharing it. I know people verbally attack people who "don't support Trans" but they're failing to see that 1) it hurts families and 2) there are plenty of times transitioning doesn't work. It's understandable people question whether it can work at all . . ever . . . for anyone. God bless you all. Life has lots of hardships.

More and more people have recently started coming out to alert the public about the serious abuse of autistic teenagers by trans activists and the medical industry. Autistic kids seem to now firm the majority of adolescent transitioners. It's at once chilling and heart-breaking.

One that’s run by men. So all of them.

Apparently those which center their identities around their sex drive.

The current one. It's all about mens rights.

A weak one scared of looking regressive and willing to throw the voiceless under the proverbial bus

A society in which many people don't find fathers to be as important as mothers, sadly. That's one answer.

I was surprised too. Very surprised. I mumbled to myself: unbelievable!

I have a relative who did this in 1998 in Texas. Destroyed his family. Even now in his late 70’s he is so lauded for his “truth”. He was even on a cover of a magazine in Minneapolis as “woman of the year. He claims he is a lesbian as well. Has ONE grandchild he has never even met.

It was common for the therapists to talk like that back then, because they thought they were "pioneers." Remember the Oprah show with her featuring the couples who stayed after the husband said he's female? The media culture was promoting that we should stay.

@@MR-cb7pe Good, he never needs to meet the child, ever.

Well, in that case, the doors are no longer closed

​@@annarboriter sure they are. Example: I talk with a lot of alcoholics. They frequently believe that their alcohol abuse hurts only themselves, as long as they are drinking at home. In other words, they are drinking behind closed doors, in the same house as their close family members. Do you not think what they are doing is affecting their families and society?

There are atheists that bring up this statement when it comes to religious upbringing.

Yes, and now she is regulating my medicine at the point of a gun!

It's mostly the religious conservatives that use the "I don't care what you do behind closed doors ..." disclaimer. ​@@ouwebrood497

What? What the *uck circle you move with. ?

My dad came out as trans when I was in kindergarten. My mom cut our entire family out of our lives over it. I grew up not even knowing my own relatives. I could write a whole book. One of his 3 brothers doesn't talk to him anymore either. Now my mom is dead and I'm homeless. It's a long depressing story.

@@Network126 sounds like she still did the right thing.

@@spitfirefrench Not really. Being so isolated damaged me. I probably wouldn't even be homeless now if I had actually developed relationships with my relatives. I have an older cousin who would've been a great father figure and connected me to good jobs when I was younger. Instead my mom kept me in the house, then she lost the house, and I entered adulthood a broken mess. Now I'm homeless and alone, and don't even have relationships with relatives who could've helped me get out of homelessness and set my life straight. I've reached out to them anyway, but they don't seem to want anything to do with me. I'm not even on drugs and I work.

@@Network126 true about cutting off the extended family, can’t say many women wouldn’t act the same way though. And I can totally understand cutting him out -

​@@Network126 the odds are higher that your cousin wouldn't have wanted the burden of being your replacement father, and who knows how much "help" you would have been given on the homeless issue, they're certainly not reaching out to you now. Stop waiting for a knight in shining armor to come along and rescue you from this situation, time for you to put in the work.

Quite a turn of phrase!

Trans is all about inversion of meaning.

Not the first men to fall into that oxymoron by any means. Interesting what Graham Linehan says about the seamless transition of power from one sacred caste of men in frocks to another sacred caste...of men in frocks."

I have my new band name

If you don't mind, what did you hope for when he started transitioning? What made you stay with him for those additional 4 years?

@@vaska1999 I stayed because I don't tend to give up on people easily...you have to really be an asshole for me to give up on you...he turned into a person I no longer wish to know and I was being mentally abused so I thought I couldn't make it on my own and he basically drained all of our money on surgeries so he could play pretend...I'm still pissed off about it

I can only imagine how you feel. You have my sympathy.

How traumatic Xx

Absolutely awful. I can’t even imagine what you and your kids have been through 😢.

Yes, now they are trying to push Autogynephilia kink addiction farce on the entire Western World.

Yep they want all the money and attention to go to them

With the doctors and courts enabling the abuser the whole way through. I am sorry for your pain and salute your perseverance.

The seeds were sown in the 1960s with the advent of the trio of women's lib, sexual lib and pharma-contraception.

LGB drop the T

@s e don't you mean drop the LBG and keep the T since that's what he identifying with. Your argument is to say the others don't agree with him right???

@Jamarr 27 I'm saying that LGB needs to create as much distance from the TQIA etc... hence, the drop the T, in the public sphere bc a) general public associates homosexuality with transgenderism and they are two different things b) LGBs have fought too hard and long for equal rights only to have the movement undermined by transindividuals. The trans movement is parasitic and LGBs need to stand up and speak out against this nonsense. That will quicken the turn around.

@@exquisitebiscuit agreed

When a society rejects God, something fills that void. This is apparently our new religion. So much better than the old days, eh?

Also the social workers.....the whole university supposed education system needs a long hard look.....

@@gretchenk.2516 agreed! He definitely caused a fault.

A simple thumbs up is not enough for this comment. The ripple effect of these decisions is enormous.

Incredibly important perspective to hear from. It doesn't just impact partners and children but even grandchildren. Its impact literally spans over generations.

When my partner came out as trans and I started looking for support, I realized how isolated trans partners really are. Even in our own safe spaces, there is a big taboo against mentioning autogynephilia-even though it’s literally happening to ALL of us.

​@@StormBringer5 RIGHT, I PRAY FOR YOUR HEALING AND HAPPINESS 😊

You are right. Emma Bryn, in the UK, started Children of Trans website. Ben, I find, does not respond to us, trans widows, children of, siblings of. I personally know siblings of, who suffered from the over-focus on this "special child" who was groomed by the (no sexual boundaries) shrinks.

@Kathrine lci ... I just had a horrible thought! We know that Comifornia is a "sanctuary state". I suppose one could travel from out of state to Comifornia and, by default... "steal" custody of the primary custody parent living there, in order to undergo the evils of gender affirmation? I guarantee, Gavin Grewsom would have ZERO issue, stepping inbetween a family and get a judge to swap the legal primary custody to which ever parent wanted to subject the children to trans cult ideology. No question in my mind, Newsom WOULD absolutely support the state doing that!

​@@NinjaKittyBonks I believe that’s what that Jame’s mom did, took her son to get sterilized where the dad couldn’t save him

@@kathrineici9811 …Yes, she absolutely did. What is even worse, is that she is not evenbiologically related to the child. . However, what I was thinking is even MORE sinister that that. Suppose James was living in Comifornia and had primary custody. Let’s say the X visits and then appeals to the court to “gender affirm” the child. Willing to bet that Gavin Grewsom would be all about working with the leftist court to overturn James custody and award the child state obligated to provide sanctuary and award her primary custody, so she could trans their child. . I would NEVER put such an evil act past the stare of Comifornia and Gavin Grewsom.

The courts don't always allow you to move away with your children.

@@barboglesby2162 They don’t but I’m a woman so I’d have a much easier time than a man trying to rescue kids if I had them

A very spiritual battle; in dealing with a narc + trans. WE NEED JESUS CHRIST FOR OUR SPIRITUAL WALK. EVIL SPIRIT'S ARE REAL ; THE POSSESSION OF THESE PEOPLE, LORD I PRAY AGAINST EVERY SPIRITUAL EVIL IN THE VICTIMS LIVE'S. AMEN 🙏🏽

@@jernisharichard5032 Yes, AMEN to that.. If evil is real, and it's obvious that it's in full swing right now, then I don't understand why people have such a hard time believing in it's opposite, an eternal & loving creator, Almighty God, the only path to a peace which passes all understanding, infinite & unfathomable love and the only hope for humanity.

👏👏👏

sad that you think someone taking control of something in their life as though they died. hey, at least the good news is that your new sister is free of you!

Did you get a sister? Honest question.

@@jasonclarke7557I initially thought something similar but it’s also true that trans people say that not being affirmed is denying their existence. Seems like the rhetoric is at least consistent and your snark is misplaced.

@@soulfuzz368 so, in your estimation, the way he's acting is consistent with reality, since treating her like she's dead is fine, cause he's denying her existence? cept when you treat someone you used to care for like they don't exist, they aren't technically dead, you're just being an ass. mourning them just does a disservice to who that person is, and makes them realize that your concern for them is 100% about them being who you want them to be. which is not love. sorry, no, my snark remains firmly in place. this guy sucks.

@@jasonclarke7557 No one can change sex, Jason.

I'm available, and have Ute Heggen youtube channel, Boyce knows!

@katrina2931 some children-of are publishing at "Children of Transitioners."

The husband ruined their lives. The therapist got caught in the middle.

@@lilnymphtress No, it is right to label the therapists culpable. The people that go to them are vulnerable people expecting guidance. They have a duty not to ruin their patient's lives. The husband is the one caught in the middle here, caught in the middle of systematic gender ideology. He still is culpable for the damage of his family, but, all of this could have been avoided.

she probably has to because of a court order.

I noticed she didn't do that with anyone except her husband - obviously gagged by the authorities.

I agree 100%!!! She is very honest. She should complete the picture of honesty by refusing to call her ex-husband a female, which he is not.

She did occasionally refer to him as a he. The children are adults now, so she shouldn't need to worry about any legal ramifications of referring to her ex-husband as a he. It could be that after some years of having to maintain the court-mandated pretense that he actually became a she, she still switches between the two pronouns without even noticing it.

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I'll upload the full interview on anchor.fm/calmversations - the first half was about politics and would have likely turned away non-conservatives from listening to her personal experience.

@@BenjaminABoyce Oh great, I'll be happy to listen.

@@BenjaminABoyce I wasn’t able to find the full interview on your show on Apple Podcasts. Just the 36 minute version as posted here

I’ll look into that, sjm

I remember seeing a totally bald middle aged man in a dress and a feather boa panhandling on a street in Vancouver; he had a sign saying “I’m a mother.” 😖

@@KathyPrendergast-cu5ci 😵 it’s a joke & they know it . They’re laughing their dicks off every time they violate women & our rights.

That Thing SHe once called husband is a horrid abomination and cruel

WTF?! Your name says NinjaKitty again ... 🤔

And my name says Zentz w/o the 29 again ... 🤔

@@Zentz29 ... Wait... I remember you calling me Jazzer The Cat a while ago, but figured you just read my name in the URL atop the screen. Are you saying that the "NinjaKitty" below the video, said "JazzerTheCatSucks" instead? EDIT: OH.... Benjamin Boyce premier 12:00PM PST today... 1 hour from now EDIT 2... LOL.. I am such a dumb kitty. I wrote this from notifications, but thought it was a comment on one of MY videos... 🤣

@@NinjaKittyBonks Lolz 😆 Yeah all names on YT reverted back to whatever the original name on the account was, but only in comments under vids and community posts. Still "NinjaKitty" and "Zentz" in live streams, but yeah, in the comments your name said "Jazzerthecatsucks" and mine said "Zentz29" ... YT also recently quit Shadow banning it looks like. I was banned from posting comments for 24hrs cuz I was a big meany pants in a comment and it told me how many hrs before I can comment again when I tried to post one.

@@NinjaKittyBonks Every comment I tried to post said "You can comment again in 'x' amount of hours" while I was banned. I also got a message while I was just sitting here watching a vid saying I was banned for 24hrs, so they even let me know before I tried posting a comment that I was cut off for a day

Super creepy His children will never respect him it whatever

There seems to be a deep sickness in our culture, with men claiming to be “mothers” of children they fathered and demanding to be acknowledged as such, and women pretending to be men, to the point of cutting off their breasts, having babies and calling themselves their “fathers.” And the media, government, the medical profession, and academia all telling us that this is normal and fine and if we look askance at it we’re haters and bigots.

It's good to hear from a therapist who is rational and has a conscience. Thank you. Most therapists are leftists, and I think it goes with the territory. Not all, thank God. I have a therapist who is very honest, truthful, has a conscience, and absolutely rejects this push to allow sexual fetishes to be public and shoved down children's throat.

It's hard to find a good therapist to support us. I am glad you are here listening to her story.

I agree with you. I think too many therapists are themselves deviants (I say that for lack of a better word), so they assume everyone else is as well. It's hard to find a well-balanced therapist, and it took me a very long time. I was going through a very painful bereavement and had to "shop" for a sensible, rational therapist, something difficult to find. I finally found an awesome therapist.

I am so sorry.

Truly disheartening for you and your children. Horror these people create

I am so sorry you have had to live through this trauma. I feel your pain. I was married for 18, together 20 years to an AGP living a double life. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.

​​​@@karolinecox4345yes, it is horror. It has a very long healing curve.

Blaire only gets away with it because he didn't overly mutilate himself and as a young man he's genetically 'blessed' enough to pass for the time being...

@@martinheath5947 Blaire does not "pass" and even for those trans identified ppl who do, all that says is that they are successful at deception. Not a great goal unless your a professional actor.

I'm guessing Blaire is acceptable because he knows he is male and does not destroy people for recognizing sex. How he presents himself is one thing, being the typical censoring, tantrum throwing activist who demands we live their lies is another.

Even Blair, as you notice is an over sexulized caricature of a woman. Blair does a good job of exposing Autogynephilia, but doesn't really admit to how much she suffers from it herself. Blair will admit she is really a he though.

@@barboglesby2162 if Blaire himself will admits he’s male, why are you referring to him as a she? Don’t we all agree that blaire is a dude, with a carved out hole where his dick used to be?