To skip the tech issues at the beginning, click on 15:00 in the description box!! Apologies for this oversight on my part.
@JahtutsonАй бұрын
Just glad it's working now !
@deborahedwards5004Ай бұрын
Unreasonable people have a tendency to create problems and do not want to let these problems go! They use a lot of “ what if” to hold onto their situation! A form of manipulation and entitlement to have their way!
@TheRetroWoman80Ай бұрын
Oh, Tamara this was a goodie. Much appreciated. Many people in my family come across as if they are better than everyone else without literally saying so. Or, as you also stated, better than those who do not approach life x,y and z as they do. Very unreasonable indeed. For some time now, I have limited and/or canceled my contact with those types.
@TherapistTamaraHillАй бұрын
Thank you! And yes, I don't blame you for limiting or ending contact. These individuals can drain you.
@mazermajesticАй бұрын
Unreasonable expectations often exist in an atmosphere of bias
@heavenstobetsy3843Ай бұрын
Excellent and informative live. So validating to chat with others. Thank you Tamara! 🌻
@TherapistTamaraHillАй бұрын
Thank you!! I'm sorry for the tech issues tonight too. But so glad we caught it in time to still have a clear live chat. 😄
@TheLaurenKnightАй бұрын
Hahaha I work at a 4-star hotel, I'm going to work tonight this is perfect
@TherapistTamaraHillАй бұрын
That's a tough job indeed!! My late grandmother worked in hotels all her life and worked in two very popular ones: The Marriott and The Hilton hotels. She went through so much! People just aren't kind, humble, and grateful to those who run hotels for them to be "at home" in until they leave.
@TheLaurenKnightАй бұрын
@@TherapistTamaraHill that's HILARIOUS!....i guess I mean a crazy coincidence...I work at a historical hotel in downtown Denver....owned by Marriott. Thank you for this. It's going to help me handle those types of people better...so it doesn't end up in a frustrating circular conversation.
@TherapistTamaraHillАй бұрын
It is! I literally laughed out loud when I saw your comment. lol. Hang in there. And you're welcome!! Hope this chat is helpful!
@rubberbiscuit99Ай бұрын
Holding good thoughts for you. Like education, policing, and medicine, that has to be a tough environment to work in. I hope there are lots of decent people sprinkled in there to bring you some relief. ☮️
@qcspeakstruthАй бұрын
Great topic I was so happy I was able to hear this live
@bernadetten.8751Ай бұрын
🎉You are a lifesaver and great at explaining things. I feel like i am finally understood and making sense of things.
@TherapistTamaraHillАй бұрын
💖thank you. So glad this has been helpful to you. That’s a goal every single video!
@mendedandwholeАй бұрын
You are my favorite KZfaqr on these themes! You are a gift! 🎁 😊
@TherapistTamaraHillАй бұрын
🥰thank you. So glad this was helpful!!
@choozychelleigh8965Ай бұрын
I been time traveling through your videos today 😮🕰️🎟️🎉
@TherapistTamaraHillАй бұрын
Thanks so much!! I love it when you guys binge watch.
@lisafowler7563Ай бұрын
This is Exactly what My husband's SISTER IS.. She's EXTREMELY UNREASONABLE
@TherapistTamaraHillАй бұрын
That's so difficult! I'm sorry.
@zareenwilhelm5811Ай бұрын
“Kat don’t say that!” 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🥰
@user-cv7nj7xt7hАй бұрын
Oceans of blessings y'all ❤❤❤
@choozychelleigh8965Ай бұрын
The more we get into emotions you probably will get all kinds of folks we all encourage each other for growth I say what I say to help and document my progress thankyou you rocking ❤Tamara ❤
@TherapistTamaraHillАй бұрын
❤🤗
@dennisrobinson8008Ай бұрын
Interesting
@SidneyMarinho-r2q29 күн бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤thank you deeply for your help about those topics. . ❤❤❤
@TherapistTamaraHill29 күн бұрын
So nice of you! You're welcome.
@silentwalk1768Ай бұрын
Thanks Tamara always top-notch information and thank you very much for taking the time out of your busy day for your subscribers much love❤❤😂
@TherapistTamaraHillАй бұрын
You are so welcome! And thank you!! You guys are wonderful.😊
@deborahedwards5004Ай бұрын
I have a family member just like you described! Great content!
@SmartbeautifulawesomeАй бұрын
Polygamy is illegal and needs to be inforced Polygamy can have many disadvantages, including: Gender inequality Polygamy can reinforce gender stereotypes and give husbands the power to end marriages if they feel their wives aren't meeting their needs. Women in polygynous communities may also experience discrimination, unequal treatment, and domestic violence. Psychological distress Women in polygamous marriages may experience higher levels of emotional distress, low self-esteem, loneliness, and fear than women in monogamous marriages. Husbands' discriminatory behavior can also lead to mental health issues like jealousy, unhealthy competition, and poor marital satisfaction. Social problems Polygamous cultures may have higher rates of crime, including rape, kidnapping, murder, assault, robbery, and fraud. In inner cities, polygamy could also lead to more people joining street gangs and drug gangs. Other problems Women in polygynous communities may also marry younger, have more children, and have higher rates of HIV infection, female genital mutilation, and sex trafficking. Their children may also be less likely to receive an education
@truth4utodaАй бұрын
😢???? This has no relevance here
@SmartbeautifulawesomeАй бұрын
It does for my family and situation…just think it might help connect with some other people
@truth4utodaАй бұрын
I see what you mean 💯@@Smartbeautifulawesome
@Gotteskind17Ай бұрын
Thank you!!
@TherapistTamaraHillАй бұрын
You're welcome!!
@zareenwilhelm5811Ай бұрын
44:00 I walked away, but I’ll stay tuned: Can never have too many tools
@user-cc4qd8nz2bАй бұрын
I really do enjoy your show. If I wanted to contact you to ask some questions privately how would I do that?
@zurizoraya8672Ай бұрын
This exactly describes my covert narc dad. Especially when you talk about the tone of the things they say and also the actions that they take that are contradictory to the positive things they say. He would always say he thought I was intelligent, especially when he was in front of other people (playing the role of a doting,, encouraging father for praise) but then as soon as he got an attitude he would do the infantalizing thing. He would treat me like I was slow, pathetic and unreasonably incapable. I can't make mistakes. He once tried to make himself seem more important by telling a neighbor I made microchips as if I designed them when in reality I worked at microchip warehouse in a fab. He was trying to give the impression of "look how important I am because my daughter does important things and therefore is important" O_O. . I promptly corrected him. I hate him.
@rubberbiscuit9910 күн бұрын
It's bad enough when parents have favorite children, but when they also deny their favoritism (gaslight), it's a mindeff for everyone. The favorited ones get the idea that they actually are better than the unfavorited ones, and worse, they may come to believe they are better than everyone else. The unfavorited ones come to believe that they are unworthy. Thumbs down.
@zareenwilhelm5811Ай бұрын
I’m comfortable with high conflict but my body feels like I got hit by a truck the day after.
@UniversalBabyKen144Ай бұрын
40 star 💫 VID💫💥✅🔥💯💯
@TherapistTamaraHillАй бұрын
Thank you 😊
@truth4utodaАй бұрын
The technical issues end at 15:00 😊 You're welcome
@TherapistTamaraHillАй бұрын
Thank you for that!! You can also listen through it if you want more context but I suggest skipping!
@mercedesb2299Ай бұрын
I don't think they had crack cocaine in Sigmund Freud's day. I think it was probably just cocaine🤣...which is still plenty bad.
@TherapistTamaraHillАй бұрын
You may have a point there 🤔 😉
@jennifersim3262Ай бұрын
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@pepperjones7559Ай бұрын
Is the entitled parent/person the same as a “tiger parent”?
@JahtutsonАй бұрын
Would it be crazy to send this video to my mom? She's was a social worker, but is also the unreasonable person in my life.