How to CONQUER your 20s | habits, lifestyle, mindset, relationships and money advice in your 20s

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@daniellelouise44 Жыл бұрын

Tam, I adore you and each and every one of your videos ✨I love how your videos are so informative and filled with practical tips (but never overwhelming!) Watching your videos makes me feel so empowered and I am just going to make myself a cup of tea and watch with a pen and paper 💖 Thank you for being YOU - so full of passion and light xoxox

@tamkaur Жыл бұрын

This means EVERYTHING to me 🥹🫶🏽

@hophopnasildaburdayimsipdi1606 Жыл бұрын

@@tamkaur omg r u 20 years old, ? i am 19 and i want to change my life, also learn english language and i see this video,i am study universty 2 cours and i am afride finish uni becaus i dont know what i am doing😬 thàkkk youuuuuuuu, you are amazing, very determinde, an you give very good energy, i wish i am being like you when i am 20 But i cant speak like this, i mean i cant speak very good fastly i ñeed think when i am speak 😬 you are amazinggggg🦭🤩🤩🤩

@aeriswilliams7928 10 ай бұрын

❤factz

@khushishukla6929 Жыл бұрын

Tip : ALWAYS have your notebook and pen with you're while watching Tam's videos, so much information to store all that in mind. If needed keep going to back those notes you made, which might act like a Reminder for your next big step.

@tamkaur Жыл бұрын

Love 💕

@khushishukla6929 Жыл бұрын

@@tamkaur 🥺💘

@lfe2830 Жыл бұрын

Absolutely

@medusa29897 Жыл бұрын

I LITERALLY FELT THE SAME. I was listening to this today while doing my makeup. Then I was like, no wait, I will listen to it later when i will have my journal with me. I am with my journal now.

@khushishukla6929 Жыл бұрын

@@medusa29897 yess girl, exactly how it should be done. Script down your next big move

@thesakshicore Жыл бұрын

A sort of summary : Ch 1: habits - to stay healthy- gym - to make money - - to keep me happy: KZfaq and Instagram, go out in nature - taking the first step - - take yourself seriously- realise my worth,time, resources - diet - podcast - the dairy of a CEO , how to maximize everything with food - beauty rituals - sunscreen, hair rosemary oil, skincare , gua sha, dress up, - get more sleep : 6-8 hrs everynight - self development: invest in learning new things everyday, read self help books, financial literacy Ch:2 Mindset - SWOT Analysis on myself - intentional happiness : buy myself matcha and journal - Solo Date - lucky girl syndrome - invest in therapy : deal with your trauma and heal - get uncomfortable Ch :3 People - get rid of people who’re not worth it - stop putting people on pedestal - assume that everyone likes you - be delusional - stay away from drama - fall in love with heartbreaks - stop comparing and set boundaries Ch 4: wealth - live below you means : put experience over trends - live with parents as long as possible - create passive income sources - set up a business - make 3 bank a/c : travel, investment, - make friends successful and hustling - invest in knowledge - purpose & career - goal, it should be crystal clear Ch 5 homework - do SWOT Do budgeting - set up saving a/c - download habit app - get a gym - take a journal and write down exactly what’s going on in my life - next write down my goals for next one year and five year

@jihaanallies7897 Жыл бұрын

Omw thank you sm❤

@kiarebekka Жыл бұрын

Tysm 🫶

@nileenakd9253 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for doing this.. Thats soo nice of uu❤

@pruthviii4256 Жыл бұрын

Thank you❤

@valeria5662 11 ай бұрын

Thaaaaank u 😘

@Katerinadamm Жыл бұрын

Yes! So sick of the “just relax and take it easy in your 20s narrative, it’s not that serious” that is a one way ticket to being 50 years old and disappointed in your life. Challenge yourself and build the life you want. Love everything you said.

@bvsitx 8 ай бұрын

Of topic, but you're so pretty

@saimasingh9441 Ай бұрын

I agree with you.. Ps:- u're so majestic and beautiful ✨❤️

@kj8767 Жыл бұрын

I turn 20 in a month, and have spent my late teens stressing about my 20s. I can't wait to start implementing these tips into my life.

@Mgla_amiris Жыл бұрын

TOTALLY SAME

@SurrenderanceMitchell 9 ай бұрын

I turn 20 in 3 months. You don't need to stress about it, it's in God's hands

@linzhao2235 9 ай бұрын

@christianteenwifewithmary1532 That is so young. I’m 22 going on 23 so I’m more than 3 years older than you. Really wish I could slow down time. I’m trying to get a job atm it’s so hard. Wish me luck. I’m still living at home cost of living is literally barely affordable. Im not able to move out at all

@Dana-cv4kr 7 ай бұрын

Updates?

@linzhao2235 7 ай бұрын

@@Dana-cv4kr Nothing has changed. Submitted a dozen of applications, I even handed in resumes in person. They ended up just throwing my resume in the bin. They even discriminated my race. Said I'm asian we wanted to hire people of our country. I couldn't hold back got emotional and said 'F*** YOU' and left. I was angry and upset! I'm almost about to give up. Should I take life seriously? We're all going to die one day. The year is 2123 (we're all gone). Nothing matters at all! Should I just live in the moment? I'm still alive... 22.7 years of age. Don't know how much time I've got.

@theunfathomedofficial 6 ай бұрын

I’m 27. Numbers can get overwhelming. I remind myself I’m not behind. Infact, I have a whole life ahead of me. When I am working on achieving a goal, I like to count - 27, 28, 29, 30. This helps me look ahead with excitement, instead of looking back and feeling remorseful. Gosh, 20s can be tough but you grow so much! I hope everyone reading this always finds the strength to look ahead and grow 🎉

@lisaslobbe2352 Жыл бұрын

For anyone going through an existential crisis: if you're unsure of what to do with your life or which university/career to choose, don't worry - it's completely normal! You're not a failure, you're not behind, and you're not stupid. You don't need to have all the answers right now. This is your time to focus on yourself, prioritize your mental health, explore new hobbies, and find joy in even the smallest things. I promise that everything will become clear and fall into place eventually, and you'll experience tremendous growth in the process. Take good care of yourself and treat yourself with kindness

@zy_bou Жыл бұрын

Thank you ! Take care of you too :)

@linhchilenguyen4921 3 ай бұрын

thanks a lot, your comment really help me a lot. I'm a final year university student and still do not know what to do with my life. I don/t know what career will be the best fit for me but I'm glad I watched this video. I will try my best this 2024 to improve and hopefully at the end of the year, I will be proud of myself.

@saimasingh9441 Ай бұрын

Thanks a lot for that... Also.... Wish u good luck aswell 🤞♥️

@jessssalemme Жыл бұрын

As I’m approaching 30, I’m still learning how to be a better person and achieve my goals. Life threw me a curveball at the beginning of the year and led to me starting a KZfaq channel! Hope to be as influential as you are one day! ❤

@sohinidhar5612 Жыл бұрын

I am 31 and I still learn something new from every video of yours. You motivate me & am so grateful that I found your channel. Love you ❤

@babiixlena Жыл бұрын

Turning 36 soon and still love all of her videos including this one! 🥰

@sohinidhar5612 Жыл бұрын

@@babiixlenahehe yes 🙌

@erikabankuti3012 Жыл бұрын

I am 33 and even I was impressed 😅🙂

@hiya511 11 ай бұрын

I'm not 30 until October next year and I just feel like my life has just started 😍

@marijapavic3534 11 ай бұрын

Me also. 😂

@martasgreatlibrary Жыл бұрын

I'm 22, slowly cutting out people from life and getting ready to finish uni next year and run out of the country to dream the dream life i've always wanted. love ur vids always so inspiring and motivating

@SimiiiD_ Жыл бұрын

Same here. We are in this together ✨

@hehehaha698 Жыл бұрын

Same here ❤

@fernandaraamirez Жыл бұрын

you’re a queeeen 💋💋💋 you’re killing it

@willsieee Жыл бұрын

I love the gym example, I was watching Iman Gadzhi who said if you invest a little more in a coffee ($10 instead of a $4 Starbucks) and go to an expensive hotel lobby, you'll surrounded by the people you're looking to become. Even if you make no connection/networks, you will see your motivation and it will push you further.

@larizatarango Жыл бұрын

video chapters ✨ 1:23 habits 9:48 mindset 16:25 people 22:58 wealth 32:02 homework

@user-78694 Жыл бұрын

thank you !

@marsgiovdesign3021 Жыл бұрын

thank you~🥰

@kamilaafeltowicz5812 Жыл бұрын

I am 30 and videos like this are still valuable for me! I advice everyone to trust their intuition and gut feeling about what they want to do in life and don’t listen to people who are saying that it’s so hard to achieve that because only following your path will make you happy. I always dreamed about being an actress but I wasn’t believing that I can actually do it and earn money from this and was trying to commit to more stable jobs but never felt it’s right for me. Now I am playing in commercials, tv series and films, making good money from it and I feel so lucky that I didn’t give up on my dreams ❤ I invest a lot in changing my mindset to achieve everything I want and I recommend it to everyone

@mariangelica. 9 ай бұрын

As someone who is not a native English speaker I will always be very grateful that you incorporate subtitles in your videos, thank you very much for your videos they always help me to motivate myself and want to grow as a person🥺💕

@mindyli5974 Жыл бұрын

"everyone has their problems their obstacles, their adversities but everyone can also find a way to push past them or use them in their advantage. your pain can be your power you can go out and get whatever you want but the first step to doing that is believing it" this part!!!!!

@timpooters4941 Жыл бұрын

I feel like your content has helped me so much in growing my confidence and just overall feeling more optimistic about life and I can’t thank you enough for that Tam, keep up the great work🫶🏻

@sabrina_jane Жыл бұрын

You're an absolute gem! I am truly blessed to have watched this video. Like the last part alone about purpose and career has pretty much removed all my doubt about what path I should take. It all makes so much sense and I can't believe it took this long for me to realize. Thank you so much! 💗💗💗

@wpblue 11 ай бұрын

This is speaking to me so much! Thank you for speaking up and telling people how much they’re worth and how anything is possible. Much love sis.

@NYKIRA Жыл бұрын

Arrival fallacy is such a key thing to talk about, so glad that you mentioned it Tam! Such a great video, love your energy 💖

@aliciascott7244 Жыл бұрын

Oh my gosh, I am so grateful for your videos. You pack in so much knowledge and it's so motivating to watch them. I'd been watching the videos of so many creatives that just didn't share any actual information in a 20 minute video, yet every second of your videos is such a good education.

@poppycalliope Жыл бұрын

the way you think and create all these incredible videos at only 22?! I admire you a lot, keep killing it girl! We're learning SO much from you ❤❤

@TeexMack Жыл бұрын

Even though I’m not in my twenties anymore, your tips are really helpful. I struggled a lot with mental health and making bad decisions in my twenties but I’m dedicated to a change in my life. Thanks so much for your videos, they help more than you know ❤

@roser3256 Жыл бұрын

THIS !! seiously this is the best video i've seen on youtube. i've watched it in one breath. i'm so grateful to run into this video today. i wrote every single tip down on my notes and can't wait to implement them into my life. Tam, thank you so much for doing what you do and motivating people to be better everyday 💋 sending you much love and appreciation xx love you

@juelladsouza2075 11 ай бұрын

This is so so motivating❤ I'm halfway there, and I feel so good. Getting uncomfortable is literally so difficult for me, but this motivated me to a different level. Thanks a ton!!!

@sakuranovaryan9261 Жыл бұрын

Tam is so genuine and uplifting. Like She talks fast and tells me to do things but it doesn't feel uncomfortable. Her energy makes me comfortable. And they tips she gives are very well thought out. As someone who's also been into the self help genre since a young age. This is years worth of knowledge simplified in a way that can help a person.

@Julia-dj7kp Жыл бұрын

I think this has been one of my favourite videos from you 🥰 so informative!! I'd love to hear more about financial literacy in the future🙏

@rakhikaurr Жыл бұрын

I am 17 and I have watched all of your videos and they have helped me so much with becoming the best version of myself, thank you so much.

@user-ld1xf1wr3m Жыл бұрын

I have been watching many youtube channel talking about self motivation and development but yours was literally motivate me, you make everything sound better and easier. Sending love

@Therunclubpresident Жыл бұрын

I'm 28 and I feel like I needed to hear this today!

@rayjustslay Жыл бұрын

I LOVE YOU SO MUCH TAM!!! Like omg you're literally out here creating my dream life and im so delusional like i believe that I'll be the IT girl and im working on being that version of myself but also loving myself right this very moment of my life. Only you can do this and thank you so much for these advices

@tarinaaleamoni 7 ай бұрын

Your videos are helping so much. I just had a huge depressive epiphany yesterday, but I’m grateful for the fact that it’s the only thing really pushing me to change and actually go after my dream life. I love how real you are and don’t try to sugarcoat things. It does take hard work and an abundance mindset, but it is possible for those who believe it can become their reality.

@zaddysm Жыл бұрын

Just watching your how to detach video, changed my mindset and my life in unimaginable ways, and this is a masterpiece, everytime I hear you and how emotional you are while telling us your journey, it inspires me and motivates me a lot, thank you so much, you're proof all of this is possible ❤

@shwetasalve6776 11 ай бұрын

I watched this video in the morning 🌞 and Tam I love you soo much ❣️ you made my day you made me think about myself and how I should appreciate everything about myself 💗 I always wanted a elder sister to explain me everything about life and my choices and I guess I got one now ! Thank you so much for this lovely information and boosting up my confidence and changing the way I think!

@abethajeevarathinam1640 Жыл бұрын

I'm in my late teen right now and this video is a perfect 👏mindset 👏shift👏 for me Tam..love you girl❤

@evgeniyakrivenko9925 Жыл бұрын

Tam, I want to thank you for everything you said, its such an inspiration! Thanks for empowering me and other people in this amazing way, youre great

@heatheralro4226 Жыл бұрын

I am so grateful that you are inspiring other people to became the person they want to be. Congratulations from spain, I appreciate so much all of your effort 🎉🎉

@rox155 Жыл бұрын

Tam you actually change my life and I really like the persone who I become because of you girl ❤

@DianaGintauto 11 ай бұрын

Tam, you`re so wise for your young years. This video is super motivating. Thank you🥰

@pennyw962 Жыл бұрын

girllllll the timing 😭 i have been feeling overwhelmed these few days bc idk what im gonna do with my life and then u posted this vid which is what i need🥹

@just_jasminebabe 11 ай бұрын

Oh my god! I can’t believe the amount of self-awareness you have at such a young age. Truly inspired by you 💗

@priyankajorge2878 8 ай бұрын

Girl this was one of the most helpful videos I’ve come across. For so long I’ve been stuck and unsure about what to do with my life and what my passions were but you’ve quite literally given me a new sense of purpose. Everything seems less like a fantasy and now I believe I can turn those things into my reality. Thank you and I’ll see you at the top x

@nileenakd9253 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for putting all this effort for all the youngsters who's going through existential crisis rn!! Myself confused after college about all these things next course, jobs , health full of anxiety and depression,.. This have been a great guide and motivation for mee.. U gonna go more heights because u r soo skillful in changing peoples life especially young girls🎉tysm

@imansurayaaa 11 ай бұрын

this is the tough love i needed especially coming out of my internship period and going into my last year of uni and preparing for life after which has been giving me sm anxiety. So happy I found ur channel

@ameenaahmedofficial_ Жыл бұрын

IM IN LOVE WITH THIS VIDEO. EXACTLY WHAT I WAS LOOKING FOR. THANK YOU SO MUCH AND LOVE YOU AND PLEASE KEEP MAKING MORE VIDEOS LIKE THESE. ❤️

@vecnussyst4899 11 ай бұрын

Hi I am hitting 20 this yr and I was feeling overwhelmed by the number of things I should do in my 20s to improve my life, I am glad I found your video and I am so in love with your videos and your positive vibe ❤

@swapnamondal9466 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much , I am learning a lot from you . I have stated to make to do list and I am seeing improvement in me . I did not have any confident in me , I prioritized others before me . After seeing your videos I am gaining confidence into me , I have started to prioritize myself . Now I take care of myself . Thank you so much for your motivation. I am grateful to you.

@CupiDash Жыл бұрын

Sis, you are WONDERFUL! I feel so energised after watching your videos, I feel, like I can conquer the world and make it a fairytale! Thank you for your videos!!!!❤❤❤

@shivanjaliarora1590 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Tam❤. I'll turn 20 next month. Your videos are so informative and I feel so great after watching and implementing the stuff you say. Thanks a lot. You're the big sister that every girl needs ❤.

@zettager Жыл бұрын

I feel blessed that I have the opportunity to watch you,thank you 🌺

@AnjaliSingh-zh8bc Жыл бұрын

hey Tam! This is my first time watching any of your video and let me tell you it is so inspiring! I'll be turning twenty in five days and was feeling overwhelming but your video really helped me. I am going through a serious period of self doubt, procrastination and what not but now I feel like I can get through this and get my dream life. Thanks.

@azizabonunorova2696 11 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for this life saving video, Tam. I really needed this. The breakdown of aspects you talked about are phenomenally helpful. I summarized your video in 3 A4 sheets back and front 😅. Very grateful for the clarity I got from SWOT analysis. Definitely subscribing ❤

@muskanraghuwanshi1869 Жыл бұрын

You know what! While watching your this video it just gave the vibe of a one to one therapy that I actually needed since a long time. I lack words or due to paucity of exact word that I can employ to share my gratitude! You have no Idea,what you have done me girl. Love💙 ( meant , positively)

@riak3529 Жыл бұрын

Okay, I see plenty of motivational talk videos every day but THIS. In one line, this is everything my Indian mother would tell me every day (and more) but in the tone and language of a fellow young adult going through a similar phase of life. And this is just the combination I didn't know I needed. Damn, girl you're changing lives out here, kudos to you!

@isonmohed5179 Жыл бұрын

I’m 19 turning 20 on June 29th, I always wanted to grow older but now that I’m getting older and wiser, I’m actually not ready mentally 😅

@kj8767 Жыл бұрын

same, I'm turning 20 on June 9th. I waited so long to get here and now I wanna go back.😭

@ariafelisha Жыл бұрын

SO MANY GEMS. I love the convicting way you communicate. Made heaps of notes and rewinded the video often. Thank you.

@aksharaasaxena3586 Жыл бұрын

i just want to say - thank you for existing and im extremely glad that I came across your videos.. thank you Tam

@user-jm2pf8oh8t Жыл бұрын

I am 20 right now. You know what I think the same about people and habit as u do , and as you said that heart breaks are beautiful . I would say yes they are cos at that point of time when you used to be broken you only think about yourself and eventually you see your worth 😊. Love from India ❤

@devipriyamoorthi Жыл бұрын

Oh my gosh! I was totally drained thinking about my life, and wondering in youtube watching some videos that doesnt make sense and pass the time......but then this video poped in! trust me tam you are amazing! and now i feel 1000x better and rejenuvated after finishing this video.......its all in one magic solution for me.........keep rocking and wishing all postives in your life.....Love you gurl!

@khushboo.udeshi Жыл бұрын

This is literally the best video on KZfaq. Absolutely loved every bit of it. Thank you for making this one. 😊

@stephanysandoval5040 11 ай бұрын

Tam you’re honestly such an inspiration! I just got out of a long long relationship after infidelity. It’s heartbreaking & im healing. Trying to learn how to love myself, learn to be alone & to grow alone. We had made plans to open a business together & now I have to do that alone. I’m so excited for it & im also scared. This video was SO inspiring. Gonna look for more ways to have a passive income as well as read about investing. I’ve always been interested but it just sounds so confusing. I have an 8-5 job so it’s a lot to balance. But I know I’ll get there & I know I’ll be self employed really soon!! 🙌🏻 manifesting that my best life is coming. I’m also so lucky to be alone at this prime time in my life! I’ll be 25 soon so my goal is to get everything I want by 30!

@ShrushKay-jl6mq Жыл бұрын

You literally have saved my life!! You deserve the world gurl!!!! I love you so much ❤️

@she.is.the.flow143 Жыл бұрын

girl you a blessing on my page. I recently walked away from a serious relationship that didn't align with me and ruined my peace and just didn't feel right. Now it isn't the first time I've had any sort of heartbreak so I'm ok but still tryna figure shit out although I am a human and feel a bit sad for a while. But for a split second in my life, I genuinely had a vulnerable moment and second-guessed myself, but THIS just assured me... I'm so flyyy and all is actually good 😂🥰 I resonate with your vibe girl, keep doing you.

@eunicenjomo274 11 ай бұрын

I’m 25 and already experiencing a mid life crisis 😅 but your video has been highly helpful. I’m hopeful to live the better for the remaining 20s and rest of my happy single life!

@rozalindafeorre6482 10 ай бұрын

Same! Sometimes it feels like it’s too late, but I don’t want to waste the five years left

@cute_as_mochii9389 Жыл бұрын

Legit, I was thinking about this literally thanks ❤ I'll meet you with a new version next year 2024

@marsgiovdesign3021 Жыл бұрын

your energy is so powerful!! thank you so much for sharing your experience and tips!! they are helpful.

@vishisht4224 Жыл бұрын

girl you're changing lives here! love ya❤

@wickeddreamer713 7 ай бұрын

This is video is so eye-opening. I'm turning 21 in 2 months and I feel stuck. It feels like i haven't achieved anything and that it's too late to do something about it now. But after watching this, I think i'm going to just go for it. That part where you say that if we fail now, it won't matter just resonates so well. I'm lucky enough that i still live with my parents, so no better time than now to work towards my goals.

@cori9344 Жыл бұрын

i turned 20 a few months ago and every single week i found myself on the loop of saying i will do something and then do nothing about it! this is such gold information, i'm a little bit afraid of growing up but you display it in such a wonderful way that it makes me excited to live my life 💖 you're the bigger sister we all need!

@akarshisingh5647 Жыл бұрын

She is sooooo good. She is the older sister we all needed, the mentor we need to follow....Thank you so much mam for this video...Really appreciate the efforts you put in this video to make us feel successful

@aylendiaries Жыл бұрын

you’re like the big sister i’ve never had but i always needed, looking forward to all your videos!

@stefanicardoso9889 Жыл бұрын

i’m just 16 but i still want to level up, feel empowered and live my dream life and thanks to your videos FULL of practical tips, i push myself into doing better everyday, thank you so much Tam 💗

@saimasingh9441 Ай бұрын

Exactly... Me being a 14year old but I'm here as I just can't handle the anxiety and unsurity anymore.... It helped... xoxo ❤️✨

@toziamutambo1883 Жыл бұрын

26 and so happy to be learning more. Stay open everyone. Let's get it.

@user_2730 10 ай бұрын

i'm in my teenage as she said she started doing all of these things when she was 16 i'm 17 and i promise myself that as i will turn 23 i will be living my dream life similarly to tam love you sm for motivating us and telling us tips you followed yourself god bless you

@emkaataa 11 ай бұрын

I am so in love with ur videos and I have seen changes in my daily life Also a tip from me always take notes on these types of videos it s truly life-changing than you Tam for sharing even if I am just 15 it helps me to level up💗

@user-wl7hw2ot7p 11 ай бұрын

I am so grateful I met you! Your videos are helping me to become the person I wanna be ❤

@tamkaur 11 ай бұрын

Love that!

@aniqah75 Жыл бұрын

I literally just bought a book about how to live in your 20s! I've actually been stressing about this for so long, I'm currently 22 and just want to live so freely/daringly. I'm so so relived seeing you upload this. Always have the best advice!!! love you sm Tam xx

@palesamphatsoe959 5 ай бұрын

Did it help ? The years coming to an end and I'm literally freaking out, like I'm sp stressed about my future and I find myself comparing myself to my peers and wondering if I'm on the right track, i feel like I can't breatheeee

@aniqah75 5 ай бұрын

@@palesamphatsoe959 ngl I stopped reading it like after a month 😭 I literally felt every word you said though omds. Tbh, I have thought A LOT and I think the best thing I can say, is literally do whatever you want (if it's possible) but mostly socialise/have fun!!! When it comes to careers, personally, I graduated in makeup for tv/film literally like 2 years ago and now I'm doing a TEFL course... so yeah, VERY different. I think we just need to try almost everything if we can and discover who we are throughout our 20s. They say your life truly starts at 30 anyway Everyone goes at their own pace, it would be boring if we all lived the same life and did everything in the time frame society expects of us!!! Idk if this will help but we're all on this floating rock in the middle of the universe with no idea why (exluding beliefs) and it'll explode one day so nothing really matters. Try your best not to compare bc they probably also are feeling lost even if they seem like they have it together!! I guarantee no matter how we decide to live, we'll have at least one regret no matter what, so just do whatever I guess Idk 😭 Probs the worst advice, I word vomited but I hope it helped in some way! We got this

@literarylivi 9 ай бұрын

You’re mindset is gold! ⚜️ listening to you puts my goals into focus every time🌷💕.

@affys_world Жыл бұрын

I have a lot of respect in my heart for you Tam❤️ my life has changed and become so much better🥺 after finding your KZfaq channel❤️❤️❤️ Thank you so much from bottom of my heart❣️♥️

@timzou4763 Жыл бұрын

Loved this ! I’m in my 30’s but this video is really helpful as I spent my 20’s living life and partying ahaha no regrets though. Thank you I love your content ♥️

@tamkaur Жыл бұрын

💕💕💕

@khushishukla6929 Жыл бұрын

Can tell how excited you were about this video. The energy, sass, spitting facts, calling people out :'). This becomes my fav video of yours.

@tamkaur Жыл бұрын

Yayyyy thank u!!!

@khushishukla6929 Жыл бұрын

@@tamkaur Love you Tam! 💞

@jhoaaa Жыл бұрын

the way you talk is so engaging I have been binge watching your videos and getting SO motivated! Thank you so much for sharing

@rituprajapati12 Жыл бұрын

O MY GOD the best video i came across , i just loved the energy you are spreading , like the vibe thankyou so much . 💕💕💕💕

@Romanticize_luv Жыл бұрын

0:10 me living with my strict parents😭 UGH YOU ARE SO REAL ABOUT THIS TAM, LOVE YOU

@saimasingh9441 Ай бұрын

That was my exact same reaction

@duaaaminkamran Жыл бұрын

I’m 22 and I am In a deep dark ditch. Binge watching your videos and trying to figure things out 😊

@AnamNazir-tz7rz 2 ай бұрын

You go girl 🎉

@princey2637 Жыл бұрын

thankyou for existing queenie👑💕

@lilita205 Жыл бұрын

OMG this is what I requested 😭 THANK YOU SO MUCH ❤

@malycar1707 Жыл бұрын

I am not putting her on a pedestal or anything but she really is the best, I love how I can totally tune into her vibe as she speaks with high but affectionate energy of hers ❤️

@tamkaur Жыл бұрын

You’re so sweet 💕

@soffaerie Жыл бұрын

I'm walking away from someone who wants to live their best life, which is not the same as mine. We both agreed on making the best out of our 20s and making each other proud :)

@azulvazquez7274 Жыл бұрын

My day gets better when I see you posted a new video!! ❣

@dieveri Жыл бұрын

Aight I found your account a few weeks ago but didn't get to watch one of your videos yet. This is my first one and I just LOVE everything about it!! Definitely a new fav KZfaqr! Absolutely amazing, thank you!

@kashishpal8512 Жыл бұрын

I have turned 18.......and struggling on how I can improve and level up myself. I thank you from bottom of my heart to guide me. Your videos are truly inspiring .Lots of love ❤❤

@strudel3200 Жыл бұрын

I thought I was nervous about turning 17-18, but omg now I'm 19. And I'm gonna turn 20 next year, I have absolutely NO good habits and barely any idea on how to "adult". 😭

@melliemu123 Жыл бұрын

take it easy friend!! Rome was not built in a day, good things take time, start with just one habit you can implement. The rest will follow ❤

@luznoceda3093 Жыл бұрын

Just when I'm having crisis,your video comes and saves me💖😭,ilysm ,thank you

@nurullinakamila Жыл бұрын

These are my 17! And I so grateful to you for these thoughts. Thank you❤

@avasheppard8478 Жыл бұрын

VIDEO IDEA: Would you ever do a video on - what to do when you're the only person going on a self-development journey in your social circle? As I've started this journey I've found it to be a bit isolating at times because no one in my family is healing their attachment style, and a lot of my friends aren't either - I'm finding I have less in common with the people I love now. I used to be a fearful avoidant but am leaning secure now, and I communicate differently, I am not as sensitive to everyone else's needs (I was overly sensitive before) and so it's changing my relationships a bit. I would love to know what your take is on this - how to cope with change in these ways. Do I need to go out and make a whole new group of friends? How to be there for yourself when your relationships will change? How to keep motivation going, not to revert back to old habits because they're comfortable? I also find it hard because I'm trying to have all of these new habits but then I'm hanging around the same people, people I used to have the same attachment as, or same beliefs as but have since changed - and it can be hard not to revert back to people pleasing or worrying because I'm around people who do that still. So how does one be strong in themselves when everything in life is changing? Did you notice this with your friendships as well? Thanks 💗

Жыл бұрын

Omg that is EXACTLY how I feel !! And then you also have the guilt that comes with all of this, in fact I think it would be really interesting to have a video about it, I hope she will see this comment ♡

@nafisoshidane Жыл бұрын

I am feeling the same thing. I am sitting here watching this video and take notes while my friend and siblings are on their rooms watching tiktok and not want to improve themselves. It feels so isolation and lonely 😢

@joytopia8119 Жыл бұрын

Yess samee. I would love a video on this

@Dolldamagx 11 ай бұрын

I'm going through the same thing too 😭

@rubaaafatimaaa8245 11 ай бұрын

When we have Tamanna why do we even need expensive therapy?❤️😭 She heals us for free😭❤️✨

@Sophie-et7qj Жыл бұрын

Tonight I was asking the universe to show me a KZfaq video that I needed to watch, and your video popped up on my feed, I wasn’t sure if I would find it helpful or not, but I’m only halfway through and I’m finding it inspiring, so thank you. I’m 24 and I feel so lost in life and have no close friends, I know what I want my dream life to be like, but I’m scared as I don’t know if it’s the right decision or not. I have so many conflicting thoughts constantly and it’s so draining. But your video is making me feel a bit better, also I appreciate that you wrote subtitles for your entire video as I always watch everything with the subtitles on, but they’re not always correct, so I appreciate you made your own captions🙌