Very Victorian. This advice might actually be helpful for some people with social anxiety as well. It gives structure and focus to what could otherwise become a stressful situation dealing with a group.

According to classic manner guidelines that I know of, you're supposed to sit straight and basically not use the back of your chair, yes. It also makes sense when you put your bag behind you on the seat of the chair, which you should do instead of putting it on the ground or table (unless there is a better place for it, of course). I also once saw a video explaining that you're supposed to stir your tea back and forth instead of in circles, to avoid the spoon clinking against the cup. Overall, I totally agree with you: It's always good to be considerate of others, but don't forget to have fun!

The sitting rules sound like how they thought us how to sit for an interview in that one class in highschool, there was even a bit about having your palms down on your legs if you get sweaty hands so you’re not seen wiping your hands when getting up to shake hands at the end

Fun video. Often at buffets the venue requires a new plate every time due to health and safety laws. ☕️

This guide is actually very helpful for socializing lol!!❤❤

I was also invited and it’ll also be my first time in Lolita! Also, the video was actually a little helpful since I’ve never attended a tea party!

Great video! I don't see many lolita videos about etiquette at tea parties or events.

I remember on my first tea party i asked for some srcambled eggs and coffee and i got sooo much hate for my choice 😂

this was a cute video! looking forward to the fashion week vlog :)

Such a great video!! Looking forward to the NYC video!

I just found your channel and as a fellow lolita I am immediately obsessed, this was so entertaining, it really made my night!! I subscribed so fast haha, I've really been needing more lolita creators on my youtube feed. Your Usakumya sewing video also made me want to finally try my hand at my own old school Usakumya! ❤️ I hope you keep making videos in the future too!

Your blouse is so pretty! I like the bib yoke thing that's going on.

Thank you for sharing the spirit of Gothic Lolita :)

thanks to you i know Baby is gonna be on new york fashion week!!! i'm gonna try and view the stream on the day of if i can, but i'll look forward to your video about it :D

That was such a nice video

Sitting so far away from the back of the chair seems so uncomfortable to me, but I guess it looks cute! Congrats again on the ticket and I look forward to the vlog!!

Congratulations!!!! I'll be eagerly awaiting that video ~

All these years I've been sitting wrong at tea parties! Luckily so has everyone else so no-one noticed :)

where is the first clip from? introducing the shinjuku store

Honestly I wanted to go the New York Fashion show. But couldn't due certain circumstances also question? Since New York is hosting BTSSB Fashion week. Do you need to wear BTSSB Lolita products only? Or could I wear other Lolita brands and accessories to go to the Lolita Fashion in New York? 🤔

this is very late, but what dress where you wearing in this please? It's lovely

😣 promo sm

Not sitting back in the chair is a weird one to me.