Leave the Someday Isle and Start Before You’re Ready | Leslie M. Bosserman | TEDxEustis

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4 ай бұрын

Many people have great ideas, but stay stuck in their coulds, shoulds, and somedays. With a mixture of wit and whimsy, Leslie M. Bosserman, M.Ed., CPCC shares how to leave the Someday Isle and activate three tools to start before you’re ready. Fueled by local coffee and big dreams, this dynamic mom of three is on a mission to help you get unstuck! After working in higher education, she launched Lead With Intention® and has researched, coached, and trained teams around the world on the science of Emotional Endurance to enhance their fulfillment. Leslie has served on the leadership team for TEDxSacramento and volunteered in Jordan teaching leadership in local schools. After becoming a parent, she created The Makers Place™, Sacramento’s first coworking space with onsite childcare offering flexible solutions for local families. Leslie graduated from UCLA with her Bachelor’s in Mass Communications and a Master's of Education and is a Certified Professional Co-Active Coach. She is a novice pickleball player and an expert bargain shopper! Leslie lives in Northern California with her family, and travels internationally for coaching, organizational trainings, and retreat facilitation. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@anthonybutlerstream3456
@anthonybutlerstream3456 3 ай бұрын
From a dreamer to a doer was incredibly motivational. I agree that our biggest obstacles are often our own fears and hesitations.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 3 ай бұрын
I love “dreamer to a doer” 🎉 So glad this resonates with you!
@peterdgrubb
@peterdgrubb 3 ай бұрын
definitely, and once we overcome them we're pretty unstoppable 💪🏼💪🏼
@IsabelPereira-qj3vm
@IsabelPereira-qj3vm 3 ай бұрын
Great topic to bring to the group, thank you.
@AshleyBianco-mp2dt
@AshleyBianco-mp2dt 3 ай бұрын
I'm not stuck, I am just resting, lol
@SandraWaller-rc9gc
@SandraWaller-rc9gc 3 ай бұрын
I've been trying to message you, are you getting them?
@annemery885
@annemery885 2 ай бұрын
I feel like my mental endurance is holding me back. At my last sport, I quit - no excuse, and I frankly didn't want an excuse. I just flat out quit. I kept having negative thoughts until it became to much that I stopped. Since then I have been really disappointed in myself. It was a really depressing moment to be completely honest.
@mystic.10
@mystic.10 2 ай бұрын
Find a way to turn the negative thoughts into helping thoughts. For me, it's digging to the root of the negative voices and realizing that I was trying to protect myself with them.
@justanormalboyreallynormal
@justanormalboyreallynormal 2 ай бұрын
Sometimes you don't know that you can do something until you do it. But once you've done it before, it suddenly seems very much within reach.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 2 ай бұрын
It takes a lot of courage to share what you have here and just naming the issue can be the start of your breakthrough. Next time you want to quit, visualize what your life will look and feel like in ONE year if you don’t quit. Then decide today is not the day for quitting…
@moyaresgard
@moyaresgard 2 ай бұрын
Then you know the answer - don't quit, keep going. You will get there.
@Twitchisme
@Twitchisme 2 ай бұрын
Listen to this ted, thats a step forward....
@jackiehathway
@jackiehathway 2 ай бұрын
I feel like I've been on the someday isle my whole life... seriously my ability to slip in and out of complete disassociation is unrivalled.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 2 ай бұрын
This is more common than we think and it’s nice to vacation there…sometimes… 🏝️
@CraigChambliss
@CraigChambliss 2 ай бұрын
me too, always not here.
@JamesGeiger-jo8cw
@JamesGeiger-jo8cw 2 ай бұрын
Good share, thanks for sending to me Jackie!!!
@WilliamTerry-jn9du
@WilliamTerry-jn9du 2 ай бұрын
Love this, and yes I agree I do the same thing
@StephenWestbrook-fx9tx
@StephenWestbrook-fx9tx 2 ай бұрын
She delivers a powerful talk - good share girl.
@lizettesimon478
@lizettesimon478 2 ай бұрын
Could definitely relate to the "having more ideas than time" part. And when you finally get time to act on one of those ideas it's like all the excitement you had for it has already worn away
@DonnaeCook
@DonnaeCook 2 ай бұрын
Me too, never enough hours in the day
@CatherinerDoe
@CatherinerDoe 2 ай бұрын
Good motivation, isn't it?
@MariaeLevine
@MariaeLevine 2 ай бұрын
Great talk, needed this, thanks for sharing it.
@bestnewtunes8363
@bestnewtunes8363 Ай бұрын
Oh wow yeah I definitely know that feeling
@sukyevers
@sukyevers Ай бұрын
Hahaha yes! This was me all throughout my life but now that I'm retired strangely I just want to enjoy doing very little
@aerosiskell
@aerosiskell 3 ай бұрын
It's incredible what can be achieved when you decide to take action, no matter the circumstances.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 3 ай бұрын
Indeed! And it’s that moment of decision that is the launchpad forward!
@PatriciaBroom
@PatriciaBroom 3 ай бұрын
Good way to start the day hearing this.
@NovaGurrola
@NovaGurrola 3 ай бұрын
Loads of solutions, yeah I get it.
@IsabelPereira-qj3vm
@IsabelPereira-qj3vm 3 ай бұрын
Well shared, I like this a lot.
@JaniceBurgess-gf9my
@JaniceBurgess-gf9my 3 ай бұрын
Emotional Endurance is the key takeaway for me.
@AmySweezey
@AmySweezey 4 ай бұрын
A TEDx Talk will NEVER be in our "Someday I'll..." WAY TO GO, Leslie!
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, Amy!!
@jaymoneyDollaHolla
@jaymoneyDollaHolla 3 ай бұрын
Building with what you have, enhancing emotional endurance, and leading with intention. These tools are game-changers.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 3 ай бұрын
Thank you and I’m glad my talk resonated with you!!
@guidolazzaro1396
@guidolazzaro1396 3 ай бұрын
is that from the talk or just your message? lol
@laurenhhunter
@laurenhhunter 4 ай бұрын
Love the juxtaposition of the shoulds vs. could and starting with the information and skills you have right now.
@DandyLionProperties
@DandyLionProperties 4 ай бұрын
What a great way to start my day today. Thank you for your beautiful story and key insights! You should write a book!
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much and the book is in the works!! 📚
@g8m8
@g8m8 Ай бұрын
I couldn't help but nod along when she described the lands of Could and Should. Story of my life!
@therealjuanschmidt
@therealjuanschmidt 7 күн бұрын
The 'to be' list exercise is something I’m definitely going to try. Reflecting on who I want to be sounds like a great way to align my actions with my values.
@LaurenWeiner-us8sx
@LaurenWeiner-us8sx 4 ай бұрын
This talk is absolutely spot-on-- and I love the metaphors!
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 4 ай бұрын
Thank you, Lauren!
@ambercook9072
@ambercook9072 4 ай бұрын
Love this so much. Also being a mother of 3 I always feel like I get stuck in should or could land. Thanks Leslie for this beautifully delivered speech!
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 4 ай бұрын
Thank you, Amber!
@somebodyluvsu87
@somebodyluvsu87 4 ай бұрын
What great points! As a procrastinator, this helps me find ways to get started before i'm ready. So proud of you and thank you for spreading such valuable information
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!! I’m so glad my message resonated with you ❤
@forestchancey
@forestchancey 3 ай бұрын
She's so right! We all have those dreams on hold. But maybe starting small, with what we have now, is the key.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 3 ай бұрын
I believe that’s what we’re all capable of, even if we feel stuck. Doing what we can with what we have moves us forward!
@anthonybutlerstream3456
@anthonybutlerstream3456 3 ай бұрын
I think so too!
@oakleysienna
@oakleysienna 3 ай бұрын
She makes a lot of good points but I don't know what the "small" version of my dream looks like
@peterdgrubb
@peterdgrubb 3 ай бұрын
yup, baby steps..
@peterdgrubb
@peterdgrubb 3 ай бұрын
@@oakleysienna maybe you just need to figure out how the big version starts out?
@katiemccleary5849
@katiemccleary5849 4 ай бұрын
Emotional endurance is a phrase I’ve never heard before and it makes SO MUCH SENSE!!! So many people give up and it’s strategy and fortitude that makes it happen!
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 4 ай бұрын
Thank you, Katie!
@anthonybutlerstream3456
@anthonybutlerstream3456 3 ай бұрын
Yeah that's going straight into everyday use
@DivaComet
@DivaComet 14 күн бұрын
It's refreshing to hear a talk that acknowledges the pressure of daily obligations and offers realistic ways to navigate them, thank you.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 13 күн бұрын
You're most welcome!
@billsmith100
@billsmith100 4 ай бұрын
Amazing talk - we all do it sometime - great points on how to move forward, to Be, and to Do. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and wisdom.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! I’m glad you connected with these points, too!
@meganfreed1989
@meganfreed1989 Күн бұрын
I appreciate the focus on taking the first step, no matter how small. It's a reminder that progress is made one step at a time.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 17 сағат бұрын
And we have to continue walking 🚶‍♀️
@yoursecretstar
@yoursecretstar 22 күн бұрын
I'm also a working parent, and I really connected with her story. It's not easy juggling it all, but it's so worth it to show our kids what's possible.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 20 күн бұрын
Absolutely! We are the role models ❤
@1RedLava1
@1RedLava1 Ай бұрын
Totally relate to that tension between dreaming about the future versus the present obligations. balance is key!
@carl.casanova
@carl.casanova 20 күн бұрын
her message reminds me of that quote, "A year from now, you'll wish you had started today." Time to get moving on my goals.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 19 күн бұрын
Start today what you won’t regret not doing tomorrow! 🎉
@flodavis
@flodavis 11 күн бұрын
The story about creating the Maker's Place was inspiring. It shows that big dreams can start from simple, honest needs and of course just having the courage to voice them!
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 10 күн бұрын
Thank you and YES!! I'm glad this resonates with you, too!
@logan-steele
@logan-steele 2 ай бұрын
Love this! It's never too late to start something that matters. Small steps today, big changes tomorrow!
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 2 ай бұрын
Yes! One step at a time!
@PineappleStrum
@PineappleStrum Ай бұрын
Her journey of going from an ambitious 20-something to building multiple businesses and raising 3 kids is just... amazing and it's really assuring to hear her advice knowing that she was able to do all of it that way
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman Ай бұрын
Lots of faith, focus, and fortitude ❤
@dereksunder
@dereksunder 23 күн бұрын
her story is proof that we don't need to have it all figured out to make a difference. We just need to start with what we see in front of us.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 22 күн бұрын
Yes indeed! One step at a time!
@sarahyjames
@sarahyjames 2 ай бұрын
I think this is also such a great example of what can happen when you just voice your needs, no matter how outlandish they sound because once someone else hears them it's like OH ACTUALLY that's achieveable!
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 2 ай бұрын
Yes🎉🎉🎉
@gavin-morris
@gavin-morris 27 күн бұрын
her energy is contagious, even through a screen. I feel like I could listen to her talk all day and never get bored.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 25 күн бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@gavin-morris
@gavin-morris 24 күн бұрын
@@LeslieMBosserman very welcome!~!
@jessicamahmed
@jessicamahmed 2 ай бұрын
Leslie crushed it! Her points about getting off the "wishing well" and starting to do was so inspiring.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 2 ай бұрын
Thank you!! 🎉
@tinatuvalle
@tinatuvalle 2 ай бұрын
The idea of leading with intention and creating a 'to be' list instead of a 'to do' list is just wonderful. I agree it's more important to focus on who we are becoming rather than what we are doing.
@yunzhang5041
@yunzhang5041 2 ай бұрын
I think so too! Otherwise we're just the same people doing things but never evolving
@May-Purple
@May-Purple 7 күн бұрын
The point about leading with intention is spot on. I think we get so stuck on "what" we're doing that we limit our ability to bring our values, personalities and just... _who_ we are into the equation.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 6 күн бұрын
Thank you! I agree!
@jason-childers
@jason-childers 2 ай бұрын
the story about creating The Maker's Place out of a personal need is so relatable and I think it shows how we can turn our struggles into successes. Sometimes the best solutions come from our own challenges.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 2 ай бұрын
Thanks so much and creating a business from a real community need had been one of the greatest gifts and learning opportunities!!
@baileyteranirt9528
@baileyteranirt9528 Ай бұрын
I felt super inspired by how she took action to create that coworking space solution she needed, instead of just talking about it. Stepping out on faith like that is goals!
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman Ай бұрын
Absolutely!! When you choose faith over fear, amazing things can happen ❤
@elaineward1925
@elaineward1925 2 ай бұрын
Yup, you just gotta go for it! Trust in yourself and know that making a start and taking baby steps is better than putting it off forever
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 2 ай бұрын
So true!
@thesebrokendreams
@thesebrokendreams Ай бұрын
that part about not being afraid of not knowing the outcome and just starting is some really great encouragement. I wonder why we're all so afraid of just taking that first step
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman Ай бұрын
Sometimes the first step is the scariest step…
@snakejohnson2740
@snakejohnson2740 29 күн бұрын
"You can have it all, just not all at once" - I needed to hear that today. I put so much pressure on myself to achieve everything RIGHT NOW.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 25 күн бұрын
Just focus on what's in front of you...then do the next thing!
@tonyiquintero
@tonyiquintero 3 ай бұрын
Leading with intention is a mindset shift we all need 🙌🏼🙌🏼
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 3 ай бұрын
Yes indeed! So glad this resonated with you, too!
@magnuskarlsonn
@magnuskarlsonn 17 күн бұрын
I think life is constantly throwing challenges at us and seeing it as an opportunity to build upon our strengths is a really good reframe, thank you.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 16 күн бұрын
You’re welcome!
@dudley4318
@dudley4318 4 күн бұрын
Such a good message! I think we can also surprise ourselves by how capable we actually are when we just start doing something. Sometimes less is more in terms of preparation.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 2 күн бұрын
So true and well put!
@helenimnotready
@helenimnotready 8 күн бұрын
The idea of building with what you have really resonated with me. It's so easy to get caught up in what we lack instead of using our current resources.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 7 күн бұрын
I'm so glad this connects with you, too! Now keep building!
@rawirinikau
@rawirinikau Ай бұрын
"You can have it all, just not all at once" - I needed to hear that. It's a great reminder to be patient with myself.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman Ай бұрын
It’s one of my favorite reminders and I’m glad it resonated with you, too!
@bestnewtunes8363
@bestnewtunes8363 Ай бұрын
That is actually really great advice
@kathrynlthomas
@kathrynlthomas 2 ай бұрын
I'm getting creative with what I have and starting to chase those dreams. Onward and upward!
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 2 ай бұрын
Love this!! ❤
@paulpasquale1473
@paulpasquale1473 Ай бұрын
Imma have to watch this one again, she dropped so many gems about intentional living that I need to fully take in.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman Ай бұрын
Thank you!! And yes, please re-watch and share 🎉
@brandawoodword
@brandawoodword 10 күн бұрын
I love the way this highlighted the importance of being present and making the most of now instead of waiting for the perfect moment... because honestly, there IS no "perfect moment" it's just the moments we create.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 9 күн бұрын
Such a profound "take away" @brandawoodword as we only can control how we respond and act in each moment, not the circumstances around it
@brandawoodword
@brandawoodword Күн бұрын
@@LeslieMBosserman very true
@wuyattakeita3883
@wuyattakeita3883 Ай бұрын
her personal stories added so much depth to the talk. They were really relatable and inspiring.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman Ай бұрын
I'm so glad they connected with you!
@Techodeflash
@Techodeflash 2 ай бұрын
Wow, the 'Someday Isle'! That's definitely where I live.. Always dreaming of better, but not acting now. This talk is a wake-up call. Time to ditch the island and start doing what I can today
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 2 ай бұрын
I’m so glad you found my talk to be inspirational and I’m excited to hear what you do next!
@TheRealPlonk
@TheRealPlonk 3 ай бұрын
Anyone who procrastinates NEEDS this! Sharing with my friends for sure
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 3 ай бұрын
Thanks so much!! I’m glad it resonated with you 🎉
@owow6523
@owow6523 3 ай бұрын
"Build with what you have" - such a simple yet profound advice. Powerful even.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 3 ай бұрын
Thank you! I'm glad this resonated with you!
@tshaurich
@tshaurich 3 ай бұрын
Absolutely, this made so much sense to me!
@ruperttheprince
@ruperttheprince 2 ай бұрын
Love what she said about how when you know your work has meaning it motivates you. I worked in retail for nearly 15 years and while it wasn't the worst I definitely didn't love every moment of it. Now that I'm in a job where I feel like I'm actually _doing_ something the shift in my mental health is outrageous.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 2 ай бұрын
Yes yes yes!! So glad you’ve found a strong fit that is more motivating!
@EliMYoung
@EliMYoung 3 ай бұрын
The balance between dreaming and doing is delicate.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 3 ай бұрын
And it starts with one small step forward...
@janegeegeehogge
@janegeegeehogge 2 ай бұрын
Makers place sounds fantastic. Not just because of the childcare aspect but just to have a shared working space, seems like it would make for some great connections amongst the community.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 2 ай бұрын
Yes it is indeed! We love the community we’ve created at @MakersPlaceSac
@minimakerspreschool
@minimakerspreschool 4 ай бұрын
What an amazing perspective and helpful and practical tools from someone who has done the work! 🎉 Thank you!!
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 4 ай бұрын
You’re welcome!! Thanks for sharing!
@tshaurich
@tshaurich 3 ай бұрын
"You can have it all, just not all at once." Daaaamn okay this really struck me as something profound and yes, it is 100% correct because some of the things even cancel each other out!
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 3 ай бұрын
Yes!!! I'm glad this resonated with you, too!
@bigdollarsigns
@bigdollarsigns 2 ай бұрын
This talk is like a treasure trove of knowledge. So much to learn and implement!
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for listening!! Please reshare to spread the knowledge! ❤
@orangeblob
@orangeblob Ай бұрын
Shout out to my folks for making my mental endurance strong enough to run back-to-back metaphorical marathons 🤘🏼
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman Ай бұрын
Yes 🎉🎉🎉
@bestnewtunes8363
@bestnewtunes8363 Ай бұрын
LMAO
@julestrescott
@julestrescott 6 күн бұрын
Her journey from dreaming to actualizing her vision was motivating but I wonder how realistic it is for those of us without a strong support system.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 2 күн бұрын
That is such a great point and the core of my message was to hopefully anyone to start where they are with what they have, rather than remaining stuck as a victim to what they don't. Equity and access to support systems vary so much, but we all have agency to do what we can!
@buddabuxby
@buddabuxby 3 ай бұрын
Thanks for the reminder that we can start before being ready! This talk is definitely going down as one of my all-time favorites.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 3 ай бұрын
You’re most welcome and hearing this made my day! Please share it with those that need to hear the message ❤
@tshaurich
@tshaurich 3 ай бұрын
It's pretty awesome, so full of memorable take aways!
@yuvallove
@yuvallove Ай бұрын
kudos to her for embodying her message of intentional living so fully. You can tell she walks her talk, not just talks it. Inspiring!
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman Ай бұрын
That is the goal!! ❤
@yuvallove
@yuvallove Ай бұрын
@@LeslieMBosserman THANKS!
@nancymorsay9624
@nancymorsay9624 3 күн бұрын
It's interesting how different people have different ways of approaching things and maybe just changing up that approach can make all the difference in terms of success!
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 2 күн бұрын
Small changes can lead to huge results! Especially when we customize them based on who we're serving!
@nathanclendle
@nathanclendle 20 күн бұрын
I've never heard of emotional endurance before but it's a cool concept, and makes a lot of sense.
@yunzhang5041
@yunzhang5041 2 ай бұрын
Leslie just flipped a switch in my brain! No more excuses about not having enough.
@kathrynlthomas
@kathrynlthomas 2 ай бұрын
Same, we can make do with what we have!
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 2 ай бұрын
Fantastic to hear! Keep taking the next step…and then the next…
@kaylacalkins489
@kaylacalkins489 22 күн бұрын
it's reassuring to know that even the most put-together people have moments of wanting to trade in their responsibilities. We all need a break sometimes.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 20 күн бұрын
Yes!! And making time for those breaks is essential!!
@the-organic-way
@the-organic-way Ай бұрын
I like what she said around the 7:16 mark, never heard the time before but what she said about it definitely rings true
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman Ай бұрын
Emotional Endurance is such a key quality to learning how to lead with intention!
@savannahskylar
@savannahskylar 23 күн бұрын
I know I'm gonna face challenges and setbacks on the road to my dreams, but the idea of building emotional endurance gives me hope that I can work up to doing those hard things.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 22 күн бұрын
This is wonderful to hear and EXACTLY why I’m writing a book about this!!
@edingutenberg9797
@edingutenberg9797 Күн бұрын
Clever and direct talk... Well done Leslie
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 17 сағат бұрын
Thank you so much 🎉
@anthonyserrano5891
@anthonyserrano5891 Ай бұрын
Awesome! Watched your youtube video, and left feeling equipped, empowered and motivated to step out and achieve more goals in my life. Thank you.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman Ай бұрын
That’s wonderful to hear!! 🎉 Pass it along!
@turboslayer5995
@turboslayer5995 3 ай бұрын
"The only limit is the one you set for yourself." 🔥🔥🔥🔥
@tshaurich
@tshaurich 3 ай бұрын
Yeah this quote slaps
@hinicetrygoodbye
@hinicetrygoodbye 3 ай бұрын
Stop wishing and start acting! This is exactly the kind of encouragement I've been needing. Thanks!
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 3 ай бұрын
Wonderful to hear and you're welcome!
@tinatuvalle
@tinatuvalle 2 ай бұрын
Yes it's very motivating!
@reycastellanos3955
@reycastellanos3955 4 ай бұрын
Great tips on starting before you are ready!
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 4 ай бұрын
Thanks Rey!
@JohnFTodd
@JohnFTodd 3 ай бұрын
Thanks for the push, Leslie.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 3 ай бұрын
You're welcome!
@ManicBrainpoint
@ManicBrainpoint 10 күн бұрын
The part about emotional endurance really hit home for me. I agree it's crucial to develop resilience in the face of life's challenges, because they just keep on coming lol
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 9 күн бұрын
I love sharing more on Emotional Endurance and am currently writing a book on how to develop and enhance it even more!
@ManicBrainpoint
@ManicBrainpoint 8 күн бұрын
@@LeslieMBosserman wow cool, do you have a website?
@Epic-Blue
@Epic-Blue 27 күн бұрын
I'm inspired to look for small ways to build with what I have. Baby steps still move us forward.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 25 күн бұрын
Yes1 Each step moves us forward!
@Epic-Blue
@Epic-Blue 22 күн бұрын
@@LeslieMBosserman true...
@lynnecousins
@lynnecousins 2 ай бұрын
This is a masterclass in overcoming self-doubt 🙌🏼🙌🏼
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 2 ай бұрын
Love hearing this!!
@bigdollarsigns
@bigdollarsigns 2 ай бұрын
absolutely, lots of great stuff here
@NOKS--yk4zx
@NOKS--yk4zx Ай бұрын
Loved the story about the two kingdoms! Such a creative way to illustrate the point.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman Ай бұрын
Thank you! I wrote it years ago and thought it was a perfect intro for these three points! 🎉
@kirby_colon
@kirby_colon 2 ай бұрын
I gotta learn more about this! Building emotional endurance sounds like a superpower I need.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 2 ай бұрын
I’m working on writing my first book about this exact topic! Stay tuned and follow me for more updates!
@phyllishack
@phyllishack Ай бұрын
Her story about launching that coworking space while pregnant is so inspiring! if she can do that, I got no excuses lmao
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman Ай бұрын
Thank you!!🎉
@theuncommonnormal
@theuncommonnormal 4 ай бұрын
Whoa!! LOVE the idea of a “to be” list!!!!
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 4 ай бұрын
Thank you!! I still use this 🎉
@KozomoBlur
@KozomoBlur Ай бұрын
I could really relate to her struggle with having too many ideas and not enough time to pursue them all. Definitely need to work on pacing my passion better.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman Ай бұрын
Yes!! Me too! ❤
@chloesanduski
@chloesanduski 2 ай бұрын
Taking action now rather than waiting for "someday" really puts into perspective.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 2 ай бұрын
Yes indeed! I’m so glad this topic resonates with you as well!
@kirby_colon
@kirby_colon 2 ай бұрын
Yeah also it makes me think by doing that you're making everyday "someday"
@DottiGroover-Skipper
@DottiGroover-Skipper 4 ай бұрын
CONGRATULATIONS my friend!!!
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, Dotti!
@cappikarlson
@cappikarlson 17 күн бұрын
I really enjoyed the metaphor of the two kingdoms and the Someday Isle... it's such a great way to illustrate how we often can get stuck between two extremes
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 16 күн бұрын
Thank you! It’s one of my favorite things I’ve ever written!
@cappikarlson
@cappikarlson 15 күн бұрын
@@LeslieMBosserman and now mine too
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 15 күн бұрын
@@cappikarlsonawesome to hear! I’m currently writing a book to incorporate more stories like this with concepts about how to enhance your Emotional Endurance 🎉
@marekzagdanski
@marekzagdanski 2 ай бұрын
Haha! "Pace my passion" - that Leslie is a genius! I never thought about it that way, but it totally explains why I burn out so easily.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 2 ай бұрын
Why thank you!! 😂 And finding your life rhythm in each season is essential! I like to think of it as “what soundtrack is my life pacing at now?” 🎶
@bcacres9837
@bcacres9837 3 ай бұрын
"Plant your tree now" - such a motivational metaphor.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 3 ай бұрын
Absolutely!! 🌱☀️🌳
@mariec.vannest5701
@mariec.vannest5701 3 ай бұрын
Emotional endurance resonated with me. It's all about inner strength.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 3 ай бұрын
I'm so glad! More to come on this topic soon!
@oakleysienna
@oakleysienna 3 ай бұрын
Same, such an interesting concept
@robyncrosby666
@robyncrosby666 2 ай бұрын
Aww that co-working space is such an amazing idea and the slogan is *everything*
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 2 ай бұрын
Thank you!! We love the community we’ve built at @MakersPlaceSac
@iamtherealyesman
@iamtherealyesman 3 ай бұрын
Let go of the idea of needing to have it all at once. I will embrace the journey from here on out!
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 3 ай бұрын
Wonderful to hear! 🙌
@marisolroman0-0
@marisolroman0-0 2 ай бұрын
Yes! It's hard to let go of but I'm also going to give it a go
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 2 ай бұрын
Yes indeed! One season at a time!
@BasketofDreams
@BasketofDreams 23 күн бұрын
Ooft I'm saving this one. I know I'm gonna come back to it when I need a reminder to stop saying "someday" and start saying "today."
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 22 күн бұрын
Our “somedays” are such powerful, limiting excuses…
@LizzieLou86
@LizzieLou86 4 ай бұрын
Leslie!!! This was excellent. Congratulations. ❤️🎉
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!! I appreciate you watching and sharing!
@hudson-crawford
@hudson-crawford Ай бұрын
This talk really made me think about my own dreams and what I need to do to achieve them.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman Ай бұрын
Yes!! Go for it…one step at a time!
@AngelaKayeLove
@AngelaKayeLove 4 ай бұрын
Love this!
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!
@geoffdeeprose9469
@geoffdeeprose9469 Ай бұрын
Someone told me that when you're about to start a project or a hobby, the more you tell people about it, the less likely you are to actually do it. See your brain doesn't know the difference between actually doing the thing and just thinking about doing it or imagining that you've done it. So the more people you tell and the more positive reinforcement you get back from them it's like your brain thinks you've already done it so eventually you just run out of enthusiasm to do it. I don't know if this is true for other people but it's definitely real for me so now I just have to do things without telling anyone until I've actually done it!
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman Ай бұрын
What an interesting idea and it just goes to show that taking that first step into action makes all the difference!
@geoffdeeprose9469
@geoffdeeprose9469 Ай бұрын
@@LeslieMBosserman thanks, lovely talk Leslie
@Energy_Calendar
@Energy_Calendar 4 ай бұрын
Bravo!
@WhitePaperAdvertising
@WhitePaperAdvertising 3 ай бұрын
Wow, needed to see this today....
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 3 ай бұрын
So glad to hear this!
@gretaallison
@gretaallison 2 ай бұрын
Oh man this absolutely speaks to me... I get so caught up in ideas and inspiration for all these creative projects and hobbies that I think I can turn into businesses and then.... ??? It's like it all just disappears because I don't act on it straight away but I never feel like I'm organised enough to act on it... like I have to wait for the right time and space or something but obviously that's never going to happen...
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 2 ай бұрын
Yes!! And you’re not alone! What’s your next FIRST step forward?
@X-e-n-t-r-i-x
@X-e-n-t-r-i-x 3 ай бұрын
Lovely and inspiring talk. I enjoyed listening to Leslie speak.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 3 ай бұрын
Thanks so much!! 🎉
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@harperleigh1709
@harperleigh1709 Ай бұрын
I could totally relate to having too many ideas and not enough time. learning to pace my passion is def something I struggle with
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman Ай бұрын
Same here! Glad it was relatable!
@harperleigh1709
@harperleigh1709 29 күн бұрын
@@LeslieMBosserman very, good ted thanks
@briannavantifcampen
@briannavantifcampen Ай бұрын
When she talked about developing emotional endurance to deal with stresses? felt that for sure. I def struggle pushing through challenges sometimes
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman Ай бұрын
Learning how to develop our inner capacity to keep going (not just the external ability to push through) is essential!
@nubblesleopard9735
@nubblesleopard9735 17 күн бұрын
I get what she means by this, it's like when you learn to juggle, you don't just start with five balls. You start with two and gradually keep adding them as you get comfortable and confident.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 16 күн бұрын
Such a good metaphor! …and I’m still working on the juggling! 😂
@marekduvanche
@marekduvanche 3 ай бұрын
The analogy of planting a tree from her talk really hit home.
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 3 ай бұрын
I’m so glad to hear this and it’s one of my favorites
@matrickplayscello
@matrickplayscello 4 ай бұрын
This was am inspiring talk!
@LeslieMBosserman
@LeslieMBosserman 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching! I’m glad it resonated with you!
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