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TEDxUIUC - Sherry Turkle - Alone Together

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Sherry Turkle talks about why we expect more from technology and less from each other.
Sherry Turkle is a professor, author, consultant, researcher, and licensed clinical psychologist who has spent the last 30 years researching the psychology of people's relationships with technology. She is the Abby Rockefeller Mauzé Professor of the Social Studies of Science and Technology in the Program in Science, Technology, and Society at MIT. Her many books include a trilogy on digital technology and human relationships: "The Second Self: Computers and the Human Spirit," "Life on the Screen: Identity in the Age of the Internet," and most recently, "Alone Together: Why We Expect More From Technology and Less From Each Other." Her investigations show that technology doesn't just catalyze changes in what we do -- it affects how we think.
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This talk was recorded at TEDxUIUC 2011 (02/19/11), which was organized at the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign by a group of students led by Cristian Mitreanu.
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@apolakaygaming6215
@apolakaygaming6215 6 жыл бұрын
Im here because of my assignment
@kidcutiex649
@kidcutiex649 6 жыл бұрын
Greek Freak same.. lol two months later
@apolakaygaming6215
@apolakaygaming6215 6 жыл бұрын
Minnygaming X haha i already do that haha summary of my own words
@Achira
@Achira 5 жыл бұрын
@@apolakaygaming6215 what kind of lesson requires an assignment on this? also in a university?
@apolakaygaming6215
@apolakaygaming6215 5 жыл бұрын
Achira yes
@savannahprisock1854
@savannahprisock1854 5 жыл бұрын
Same here man !!!
@eydreiandioquino4069
@eydreiandioquino4069 3 жыл бұрын
The things we have to do for our grades. Keep fighting for your dreams!
@tuludrhocelled.8565
@tuludrhocelled.8565 5 жыл бұрын
i'm here bc of my assignment lol
@sandraclotario3067
@sandraclotario3067 5 жыл бұрын
OMG SAME
@osmansalehadama.5612
@osmansalehadama.5612 5 жыл бұрын
same
@naligawesa3245
@naligawesa3245 4 жыл бұрын
sameee
@faithweber8239
@faithweber8239 4 жыл бұрын
same
@crim_boss1585
@crim_boss1585 4 жыл бұрын
same
@Tipster49
@Tipster49 6 жыл бұрын
amazingly insightful and profound, especially considering this talk was given almost 7 years ago
@AlfAGaming
@AlfAGaming 5 жыл бұрын
Doin school work on this rn lol, need to make a summary for a grade
@vcalle02
@vcalle02 12 жыл бұрын
I am an Internet Communications student in Australia and have written a paper “Mirrors and light: Performances of identity....” for Western Australia's Curtin University's CommUnity: Online conference Networks & Communities 2012 . This talk influenced my subject choice and writings. We should all be one with ourselves before we can be as one with others. Thank you Sherry Turkle! Great food for thought!
@WalterPaulKomarnicki
@WalterPaulKomarnicki 10 жыл бұрын
what an irony - we've never been so connected, yet never so alienated from each other - and ourselves!
@justpinahy
@justpinahy 11 жыл бұрын
How i wish I seen this talk that time when i was doing my undergraduate research. She said it all when nobody wanted to admit it. I love this research, it says a lot even if its just a 16 min video.
@jamesschutz1896
@jamesschutz1896 7 жыл бұрын
Has anyone on KZfaq ever heard, if you do not have anything to positive to contribute to a conversation then don't contribute at all? No wonder why our society is becoming stagnant in thought and creativity. People find it better to crucify opposing thoughts instead of actually listening and growing as a person.
@OrlandoFerrand
@OrlandoFerrand 12 жыл бұрын
Sherry Turkle is not only a visionary but an amazing teacher. I feel as if I were in the presence of an enlightened prophet. What a message!
@mmb2211
@mmb2211 10 жыл бұрын
Remember when we exchanged letters by mail? Remember the excitement when we went to the mail box and realized there was a letter from a friend, relative or lover? We looked forward to receiving letters the same way we look forward to see that little red icon.
@PikachuNimbus
@PikachuNimbus 6 жыл бұрын
Mail is exciting because it's once in a while. If you got like 40 envelopes a day you would lock your mailbox shut.
@mariyamamman3258
@mariyamamman3258 4 жыл бұрын
The book killed me. Now I'm looking for summaries to complete my AP psychology paper. my life
@Sunless1
@Sunless1 2 жыл бұрын
How was it lol
@mariyamamman3258
@mariyamamman3258 2 жыл бұрын
@@Sunless1 aced it 😁
@cmorales2968
@cmorales2968 11 жыл бұрын
Good talk indeed. I think sometimes we have to think about technology from another perspective. However, I think we should think in the ways that we can use technology but at the same time avoid the temptation of being isolated.
@andrianejar2762
@andrianejar2762 3 жыл бұрын
I got here because its our assignment to watch this TEded! But I find this aspiring!
@michaeltercias
@michaeltercias 4 жыл бұрын
I'm here because of my assignment in Purposive Communication. LOL. Wag na gumawa ng assignment.
@johnclementmalones6363
@johnclementmalones6363 3 жыл бұрын
Ako din haha
@minraea
@minraea 3 жыл бұрын
I'm here because of my assignment in Purposive Communication :((((((((((((
@samanthak2205
@samanthak2205 12 жыл бұрын
wow. i basically agree with everything she said. but the pity is that the younger generations aren't seeing this video - "this video is most popular with" male and females 45-54 and males 55-64. :/
@xxblodlustxx
@xxblodlustxx 11 жыл бұрын
It's a persuasive speech. The point is to identify and discuss a problem, and also present some sort of solution or point of view in hopes of convincing the audience.
@MrBel23
@MrBel23 11 жыл бұрын
Yes, reclaiming communication and appreciation... and best use of each others differences being different for different individuals all being decently respectful (requires lifting perceptions idea's talking to inspire),- with the computer as a tool to do or help do, seek /find - but with the computer as a simple tool and each individual person as the intelligence, is correct. The mighty internet can now permit this to happen to our great advantage globally only today it the other way round
@michaelnormanolson
@michaelnormanolson 11 жыл бұрын
I find it incredibly humorous to stumble upon a video wherein our increasingly dehumanized connections are discussed only to find spam comments about hooking up with women evaluated solely by their surface qualities. Well done!
@amdsz1
@amdsz1 12 жыл бұрын
this woman is so intelligent, each passing sentence excites me in ways i cannot even comprehend.
@thay3778
@thay3778 3 жыл бұрын
Around 9, regarding the use of text messages rather than calling, I think the problem is more about the general lack of time than just antisocial behavior. All in all, it's always about how you use the technology, which is difficult sometimes. I do generally agree with her on downsides of tech for socialization, though.
@Rhettimus
@Rhettimus 11 жыл бұрын
She's right on point, but also it doesn't mean you should be afraid of it. It's like anything you can learn to control it, then you can embrace it.
@SmackDownBrown49
@SmackDownBrown49 11 жыл бұрын
Any extrapolation heralded from encounters based primarily on one's own needs suits the primary aspect of ego, emotion and necessity alone. There can be no reality-based relationship where perspective rules the roost. If forced to incorporate one's own meaning into what others type then the ultimate basis is self-cohesive and self-reliant, i.e., I say to you "I hope I don't die tomorrow" you are left completely to that of your own device and therefore forced to exact your own meaning to it.
@xejo19
@xejo19 3 жыл бұрын
I'm here bc of my assignment jusq s.o sa STEM2 12 ng AUABC!
@atthehops
@atthehops 12 жыл бұрын
Yes, I agree. The fact is we have, as a society, externalized our internal experiences. It is not the day that is nice, it is my experience of the day. And we do this with people. You do not make me angry, I am feeling angry. If we continue to confuse this we will not form meaningful relationships. See Brene Browns TED Talk about Vulnerability and Shame.
@paulNC
@paulNC 12 жыл бұрын
She is leaving out how easy it is for all of us to be in touch with people! I hate negative people!
@indviduation
@indviduation 4 жыл бұрын
I am here because of my assignment, as well.
@monkehhxi4669
@monkehhxi4669 11 жыл бұрын
"left hand on the book, right hand on the... blackberry" hmm, something tells me this doesn't happen very often
@DenianArcoleo
@DenianArcoleo 9 жыл бұрын
I agree with the overall thrust, but I think she misses the point regarding texting vs calling. Speaking on the phone is and has been a phobia for many for a long long time, for the simple reason that all you hear is a disembodied voice without any of the visual cues that make conversation face to face a basic human experience. Speaking to a disembodied voice has always been unnatural (since the invention of the phone) and therefore the option to communicate via text is preferable to many.
@h.vendelssohn7114
@h.vendelssohn7114 5 жыл бұрын
I agree that the invention of the phone was removing an important aspect of human interaction, the face-to-face and all that is involved with that. At least with the phone call, there's the human voice and tone and all that is involved with that auditory aspect of communication. With texting (or facebook messaging, or any other plain text communication) both the face-to-face and the voice are removed from the interaction. So while the phone is a disembodied voice as you said without the visual cues, etc., texting is both the disembodied voice and visual cues PLUS the absence of the vocal/voice cues. Anyway, I think this is a very important matter for anyone to be thinking about because it is impacting all our lives in very real ways.
@Zorg3201
@Zorg3201 4 жыл бұрын
I'm here because I have an assignment deadline soon
@marissatamayo3699
@marissatamayo3699 13 жыл бұрын
She is so right. I also have seeing that some people depend so much on internet and all this high technological toys, and yet they feel lonely and not in state to make real friends. Some young people do not like to go to places where they cannot be online or connected somehow with virtual friends. I think this is a good advice for parents and everybody.
@kevlar0001
@kevlar0001 11 жыл бұрын
So true...social media is the world's biggest reality show. I disagree about sharing bad news though...I think people, just like the media, want to share all the dirty laundry. I do agree that it has become a major distraction to creativity, I had to stop myself from playing a word on words with friends during the video.
@alostic
@alostic 3 жыл бұрын
if you are here for college set it to 1.5 speed and its bearable to listen to
@PakoR3
@PakoR3 10 жыл бұрын
Well it's 2014 and i'm 25, i have never had a smartphone, and i don't think i need one
@justinbehm4819
@justinbehm4819 7 жыл бұрын
congrats nerd
@raedasme9395
@raedasme9395 6 жыл бұрын
You probably have one now huh? Lol
@buddyjenkins6913
@buddyjenkins6913 6 жыл бұрын
Well now its 2018, do you have a smartphone yet?
@pansiluezu3794
@pansiluezu3794 4 жыл бұрын
Still doesn't have a device?
@juliacritchfield9995
@juliacritchfield9995 4 жыл бұрын
its 2020, do you have a smartphone yet
@countingconflict
@countingconflict 12 жыл бұрын
Viewing it as a lack of identity, instead of the development of a new cultural identity (virtually acculturated). You can see people pick and choose between multiple identities (especially in immigrant communities) whenever that identity would best fit the situation. When people would rather text than talk, they see an advantage to using their new virtual cultural identity rather than their personable one.
@NicolaPeffers
@NicolaPeffers 11 жыл бұрын
Other psychologists have noted that our new 'addiction' to computers is related to being MORE connected. texting, FB, twitter, the most popular games are MMORPG's, they're all about increasing social ties rather than isolation. Sure we're more physically isolated, but the invention of the telephone a hundred years ago brought up the same fears in that generation. I find Turkle's opinion to be antiquated, a relic of a previous generation who simply grew up with different technology.
@janmegannon
@janmegannon 11 жыл бұрын
Albeit that technology has made the globe 'smaller', never before has the distance between two people sitting right next to each other been greater! I have seen couples in a restaurant, he busy on his mobile device connecting with someone a world away, she equally active on her device; both sharing the feelings created by physical proximity in the real world, with an entity somewhere in the virtual world.
@paulonius42
@paulonius42 12 жыл бұрын
No, it is not that kind of generalization. She is listing the various activities that we, as a whole, do. It's a common, non-controversial way of describing the individual and/or group behaviors within a larger group, so relax and focus on learning from her instead of nitpicking terms that aren't doing what you claim.
@rikza
@rikza 11 жыл бұрын
Increasingly in my work I see confusion over relating to people in real life . The mediated message allows us to hide behind technology so we may be starting to lose empathy as time goes by. I think shurckle makes some compelling points. The illusion of the 'social'
@kostaskaratzas849
@kostaskaratzas849 3 жыл бұрын
Damn,seeing people from uni doing their assignment and here I am, watching this for an exercise in 10th grade
@SmackDownBrown49
@SmackDownBrown49 11 жыл бұрын
My statement is based empirically not experientially. You speak of meetings online which were followed up by RL meetings. I was referring solely to online relationships. I've had online relationships which led to RL meetings. I'm alluding to all the nuances of person to person interaction that must be procured in order to glean the actuality of real love which includes more than self-perceived online encounters that require us to guess what the other person is like 24/7/365 in the flesh ;-)
@Sumerian_Tamil
@Sumerian_Tamil 13 жыл бұрын
'78 was our final BE, for few of us in Civil Engineering, one professor 'USA returned' used to show programmable calculator and would say computers are much bigger; till recently, computers are very very tough workaholic computing machines, keep working on all our iterative and complex engineering problems; of recent times, the social network has become one such complex problem(if these machines could also find out inside brain of users other end) , would be great.
@malorydes
@malorydes 11 жыл бұрын
No one wants to admit that proper human interaction is apart of being a mature and empathetic being.
@princepatino4911
@princepatino4911 2 жыл бұрын
NANDITO PO AKO DAHIL SA PURPOSIVE COMMUNICATION, KUNG NANDITO KA RIN EDIWOW HAHHAAHAH...
@twicenikkiv.7486
@twicenikkiv.7486 3 жыл бұрын
And today, this was 10 years ago, saying we could change of how the technology molding us by resuming connections and have “Conversational Thursday’s” instead of “Casual Friday”, like we should slowly start now......
@russellvincentatinado4777
@russellvincentatinado4777 4 жыл бұрын
I'm here para sa assignment namin sa MIL, lezgooo dameans HAHAHAHAH hi sir wil kung nababasa mo to hehe
@stephaniekateledesma7730
@stephaniekateledesma7730 4 жыл бұрын
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHHAHAHAHAHAAHHAHAHAHA TA KA RV
@jhorictolentino7887
@jhorictolentino7887 4 жыл бұрын
kasabot mo
@kirstienewman6151
@kirstienewman6151 12 жыл бұрын
"Reclaiming conversation is the next frontier." Unfortunately, addiction to technology is destroying peoples ability to carry on a conversation. It saddens me as I experience people more devoted to the latest text message or email that arrives to their "smart" phone, than to talking to the person who is present with them in the flesh.
@atthehops
@atthehops 12 жыл бұрын
I want to laugh at comments like this, when people judge a lifes work on a 20 min talk. Can she support this? YES, of course she can. Do you know who Dr. Sherry Turkle is? Turkle is a professor in the Program in Science, Technology and Society at MIT and the founder and director of the MIT Initiative on Technology and Self. "What technology makes easy is not always what nurtures the human spirit." Sherry Turkle You want research? Read a book, she has written several.
@gobberpooper
@gobberpooper 12 жыл бұрын
No shit we don't put up bad news or serious problems online, because there's no need to broadcast it to everybody. But that doesn't mean we keep it inside. The technology isn't the problem, it's that people don't understand moderation. I use my computer for homework and research and occasionally for video games. Otherwise I'm talking with friends.
@PatrickBueno
@PatrickBueno 3 жыл бұрын
I'm here because of my assignment sa MIL 😌
@leeangelabalitaan2331
@leeangelabalitaan2331 3 жыл бұрын
Gago di ko gets pat
@PatrickBueno
@PatrickBueno 3 жыл бұрын
@@leeangelabalitaan2331 same fucceat
@cjlucio
@cjlucio 13 жыл бұрын
Sherry in on target with her crusade for having back real CONVERSATION among us alone-togethers -- and I write this text to validate this .. .:)
@Vanta017
@Vanta017 4 жыл бұрын
Its 2020 na and I’m here because of a homework. Whooo let’s go FEU! MedTech!! Comment down if kayo rin. -BSMT 125-126
@arianemaepurca5396
@arianemaepurca5396 3 жыл бұрын
Purposive communication am I right?
@jkadoodle
@jkadoodle 11 жыл бұрын
I don't like being connected all of the time. Sometimes I just want to be alone.
@chrisdeakin66
@chrisdeakin66 11 жыл бұрын
I love her book. so on the money. her picture of the tethered generation is brilliant. well worth reading :)
@SmackDownBrown49
@SmackDownBrown49 11 жыл бұрын
Erroneous at best online where the exchange suits the rift of that which otherwise gets left to chance. Beyond perspective, which must be the primary asset online where all tangibility is left wayside, is the reality of fleshly exchange that lends humanness and humaneness to any real relationship. There is much to be said for inflection, caress, verbiage, vociferousness, pitch, warmth, etc of actual human interaction unavailable online where the source of gratification is one's own perspective.
@YaYaOoHaibara
@YaYaOoHaibara 12 жыл бұрын
I read her book " behind the screen" and it's brilliant she's great, I agree
@bacdayanrenzo7437
@bacdayanrenzo7437 3 жыл бұрын
I'm here because of my online class 😁
@SmackDownBrown49
@SmackDownBrown49 11 жыл бұрын
There is no draw, nor can there be but self-perpetuated virtual attraction, where the negation of human interaction is not the mainstay. In other words, if a relationship is procured/maintained solely online the only reality present, and here's the paradox, is one's own perception of how they view the other individual in the relationship. You've supported my contention by alluding to the different sorts you've run into online. I could be a murderer claiming to be King and you'd not know it.
@SmackDownBrown49
@SmackDownBrown49 11 жыл бұрын
The problem is that we're more privy and prone to those characteristics we admire and embrace when, at the end of the day, we're able simply to turn off the pc so as to quell the angst when those we presumably love online piss in our Cheerios. The reality is the illusion, less having to roll over come sunup, to bear witness to the source of our current contention. True love is resilience amid the "fuck offs" exchanged when we're pissed as opposed to simply ceasing to type.
@SuperNerd707
@SuperNerd707 12 жыл бұрын
I like her analogy of technology being a phantom limb. But I think it is difficult to completely take her side and say that ALL people are like this.That's a bit of a stretch. It's more complicated than that.This is actually not a new debate at all, it's a centuries old debate--it is the branding of social media as "progress" that she should have us thinking about... that communication is faster, easier, better, more innovative, more creative--that's the seduction. We should be weary of that
@ThomasBaxter
@ThomasBaxter 11 жыл бұрын
I re-watched this and attempted to itemize my issues with this talk, but a two part post seemed quite egregious. Suffice it to say that this talk builds strawmen quite readily, and bases itself upon the 'fact' that interactions online are inherently less than those had IRL. Do people have profound relationships with gas station attendants? Most interactions IRL are fleeting, online you can seek interactions which are more deep and meaningful than passive encounters with people IRL. IMHO.
@julianchosun
@julianchosun 13 жыл бұрын
Seems particularly pertinent for people in South Korea - the most wired country on earth - and where cellphones are the curse (or blessing) of the classroom.
@kaylaB0bayla
@kaylaB0bayla 12 жыл бұрын
You mean woman, not 'women' and all she is trying to explain is that we need to put technology in its place... she is a professor at MIT and holds the highest respect to technology. I have yet to hear her say we don't have meaningful conversations. If we are not careful, our generation and future generations are not going to know, respect, or understand solitude. Think about that.
@xlsyor
@xlsyor 12 жыл бұрын
@SuperNerd707 I agree, by the way with your characterization of tech as the "next, next big thing" The thing that makes me wary is that I find some of the most astounding communication-creative communication, at that-has nothing at all to do with, say, the net, or other modern forms of technology. But still dependent, in some ways, on it. Hm. Food for thought. Thanks again.
@knowledgetower
@knowledgetower 11 жыл бұрын
Your comment appears to derive from the very disconnection she is talking about. The full import of this talk is better appreciated by those who can "stand and stare" as W. H. Davies implored way back, circa 1911, in his poem "Leisure". Sherry is making the same observation 101 years later, albeit with reference to a different social phenomenon - excessive social connection paradoxically leading to inadequate socialization.
@sunamijim
@sunamijim 12 жыл бұрын
I "ignored" a call while I watched this on my iPhone.
@malorydes
@malorydes 11 жыл бұрын
i believe the disconnection we create by communicating by social network and text has dehumanized our society overtime and causes a lack of empathy that ebbs with every passing generation.
@ianmoises9309
@ianmoises9309 3 жыл бұрын
Im here because of my assignment, and we have to summarize what this woman said. Can someone summarize what she said? Hmmmm
@nguyenanh5348
@nguyenanh5348 3 жыл бұрын
I am here for summary of the introduction part of the book. Can you help me to do that?^^
@jeeniuqsaw6027
@jeeniuqsaw6027 6 жыл бұрын
i need help for my reports,,can someone helps me?
@Vallinen92
@Vallinen92 13 жыл бұрын
I red her name as Cherry Turtle. Am I tierd?
@Laboncula
@Laboncula 13 жыл бұрын
@MaxwellSDSU How is this any different than how we would behave in a public environment? I believe that we are just more closely examining ourselves and behaviors through the context of technology. Because we have observed, via facebook, that people are editing their profile in order to appear a certain way doesn't mean that facebook has caused this phenomenon. Aren't we always carefully selecting how we want ourselves to appear to others? Haven't we been doing this for eons?
@gnarkill173
@gnarkill173 12 жыл бұрын
Where is the data to support what she's saying? She argues that virtual communication is inferior to real life conversations, okay...but can she support that. I get the sense that Sherry Turkle is a relic of a past age. New experiences are being introduced daily, and just because they abolish previous experiences doesn't make them bad. With her logic, we should get rid of washing machines because they don't allow us to experience the joy of washing our clothes by hand.
@painganmejianicolev.4548
@painganmejianicolev.4548 3 жыл бұрын
I’m here because of my assignment 🙂
@fcinternetmarketing
@fcinternetmarketing 11 жыл бұрын
Great video.
@riovillafuerteracho2062
@riovillafuerteracho2062 2 жыл бұрын
Yes
@rcsanchez93
@rcsanchez93 12 жыл бұрын
Great insight. You really paid attention there.
@divyeahsh
@divyeahsh 12 жыл бұрын
Brilliant!!!! Could I please get a transcript of this? Need to extract phrases and sentences and put them around me to get the message to my mind and soul!!
@lonesaiyan27
@lonesaiyan27 11 жыл бұрын
why?
@CarolyneMas
@CarolyneMas 8 жыл бұрын
Speak for yourself. You can put my phone in a glass of water for all I care.
@psychomusicanana
@psychomusicanana 13 жыл бұрын
I raised my kids to be in contact with people. Technology helps them do this. It helps me in the same way. Sherry is speaking of the walking wounded. Addiction? Cold turkey is obsolete. Ask Andrew Tatarsky. But I live in NYC where people like connection. What scares me is the Ignorant masses, who will do as she predicts, and will never think to consult her about their problem, or even know it was one...
@chimchim7222
@chimchim7222 3 жыл бұрын
IM HERE BECAUSE OF MY QUIZE :'>
@korchnoithevictor
@korchnoithevictor 12 жыл бұрын
If you want people to feel comfortable sharing more things about themselves online, then you've gotta make them feel like they have control over the information they put out there, and not that everything they do/type is being stored in corporate data systems for future unknown uses, to be bought or sold or stolen or analyzed by whomever. What reason would you have to communicate personal things, when half the time they are ignored, and the other half they bite you in the ass? Dumb hope i guess
@iamvan7243
@iamvan7243 2 жыл бұрын
Here for my essay
@cpm98f
@cpm98f 13 жыл бұрын
so good and so important. modern technology as a phantom limb, wow. Matt. 5.29 in it's truest sense.
@CC3GROUNDZERO
@CC3GROUNDZERO 10 жыл бұрын
I think it's just the normal thing: The new spirit and mores of the times are more readily visible in young people because they were not brought up and socialized in the old spirit. In fact however, it affects all individuals in the entire society, just to varying extents. If you have firmly established social connections, then you're safe. But many don't, and they're ever more unlikely to join and/or create a social circle.
@billjoe39
@billjoe39 11 жыл бұрын
15:09 "We are sharing what makes us look good" "We are sharing what is easy to share" One word : FACEBOOK
@SmackDownBrown49
@SmackDownBrown49 11 жыл бұрын
"Meaningful" is the extraction as perceived by those seeking meaning, but can be misleading when all the pieces of a true and meaningful relationship are not present and accounted for; hence the true fold of face-to-face encounters that leave nothing to chance. If you piss me off here I can boot'r down to relinquish the irritation, whereas if you're in the living room with me the problem becomes more than aesthetic with your voice chiming in at every turn. There's real and there's derivative.
@Mcdblue88
@Mcdblue88 12 жыл бұрын
@ndespota This is very true. I ought to read her book. Thanks for sharing.
@Felicitysfarm
@Felicitysfarm 18 күн бұрын
My mother always had her nose in the book. And a martini glass What’s the difference?
@Greenlaugher
@Greenlaugher 12 жыл бұрын
I was lead here from NDirect 2012
@divinnetinambacan4288
@divinnetinambacan4288 3 жыл бұрын
Who's here after watching "The Best Give I Ever Survived"?
@MrBel23
@MrBel23 11 жыл бұрын
Think further it is not technology that is the problem - it is the economic system structure which is triggering all the negative aspects of technology!!!!!
@theportalofthings
@theportalofthings 4 жыл бұрын
thanks karen, I can finish my public speaking response now
@AM-yp3bq
@AM-yp3bq 3 жыл бұрын
Lol underrated comment
@rhamby3470
@rhamby3470 3 жыл бұрын
she's not a karen so its fine
@SmackDownBrown49
@SmackDownBrown49 11 жыл бұрын
If computers themselves could type we could conceivably engage in meaningful love relationships with anything at the other end of words we see through the extraction of what our imaginative, needy minds lead us to glean from it. This is not reality, but rather fantasy. Suppose I create a pc that can in fact type for itself. I could therefore lull anyone into a self-perceived relationship commensurate to what they believe they're engaged in. This is merely a relationship with one's own desires.
@informatist
@informatist 11 жыл бұрын
The biggest threat to your marriage is not gay rights... It's your "smart phone".
@nesquick9210
@nesquick9210 13 жыл бұрын
Damn this is so deep but she should have included a study non users mild users too.
@countingconflict
@countingconflict 12 жыл бұрын
Basically a female version of Robert Putnam. No idea of subculture, and only focuses on the technology itself. Older generations are going to deride the technology, because they don't understand its place in our culture yet. "It's going to kill community, civics, and culture!" A lot of examples of each of those can be seen developing in our virtual community, but instead of looking at these; people like Putnam and Turkle look at slightly related things and make poor assumptions.
@jazzisbetterthanall
@jazzisbetterthanall 12 жыл бұрын
This is true, for now, only because the technology is so primitive. Once that smartphone in you're pocket is the size of a blood cell [only 10-15 years due to moore's law] we'll be more connected than ever thought possible. We'll be able to experience other people's thought processes--we're just struggling to adapt to such drastic change, we evolved to deal with linear change, not exponential which itself is getting faster.
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