Let's speak about child support. Will any man pay child support without the courts involved. I think NOT. Most Hmong men in a divorce don't know that they have kids anymore. They see themselves as free and single until they are about to die then they will try to turn the blame and guilt onto the kids and ex-wife.

Wow npam loj tiag os yom!! Peb cov txiv dev hmoob no txhob hlub hlub thiab es peb txhob hos ruam ruam ua lawv qhev kom lawv lub niag ntsej muag dev tau plu os nawb! Peb tsis hlub peb ces thaum kawg peb hus tsis tau peb txoj kev ua qhev lub cev lub plu puas tag ces ho mob mob siab ua ib tug kab mob rau peb lub siab os mog!! Nov qhia tias peb tsis hlub peb xwb os!!

Very good

Sister, you're so busy supporting your husband to finished his education and helping reach his goals. Now he's lost interest in you and no longer needs you or love you. Now he wants to eat out and his eyes are wondering everywhere. You have served your purposes. Foolish, you lost your self worth, your time, your efforts, your youth on him. Alot of women lose themselves to support their husband and in the end the husband abandoned them for other younger, prettier woman.

Tus me viv ncaus aw koj ua yog hauj lem thisb koj ua tsu zoo kawg nkaus yeej uog li kpj cov neej tsa hsis yog luag tsis hlub yus lawm txhob thov kom nws hlub yus thov qhuas koj thov tswv ntuj tsom kwm saib xyuas nej tsev neeg kom tsuas muaj zoo mus xwb

Wow, npam Sai tiag2, cas yuav txaws siab ualuaj! Tsam no nws tsis tau kev/chaw tuag es yuav tuaj thov kev/chaw tuag. Cia nws tuag nraws nws txoj kev siab phem siab nyoo limhiam thiaj tsis nyav av!

No matter how much you love your family, you should also love yourself. You can still love beautiful at any age by taking csre of yourself.

Kev npam muaj tiag.

My husband also looked down on me when I didn’t have a degree. While taking care of my babies and working, I pursued my bachelor’s degree in finance. I didn’t get my degree for him, but for my own personal gain. I have never stopped dressing nice and taking care of my appearance. My point is, never let go of yourself. Put yourself first because at the end of the day, you can only rely on yourself. He’s an adult, he can take care of himself.

Ua li ghev pw li dev noj li nod , nyob li nom cais pw li dev noj li ghev !

Hmoob txoj niag kev ruam just because he pays for child support and not be in their lives does not give him the right to be in their lives when he's ill. Hmong ways of thinking are most annoying and stupid.

Thaub hmoob koj tso koj poj niam kawm ntawv siab ces muaj2 plus ces saib koj zoo li dev lawm xwb mas.

Txoj kev npam yeej muaj tiag , u tsis txhob xa tias u ntse ntse lawm ces kev npam tsis muaj no thiab xav tias u tsis need u pab niag me nyuam li no thaum kawg thiaj zoo li kom ntag.😢😢😢😢😢

The fall of a man. A person who doesn’t appreciate the one who supports him/her to become successful in life will hit button hard at the end…a good lesson learned that karma is always hits you hard when the time comes…love comes from the heart is happiness that will last…😩!

Nwm qhuav ntxim xwb os cov niag txiv dev liam li no. Ntuj yeej muaj qhov muag thiab os.

cov pluag sib hlub dua cov muaj, cov ruam sib pab dua cov ntse, dev tsis sawm rog, npua tsis sawm zoo,

Cas zaj no yuav raug kuv ua luaj.peb poj niam ces poob peev. Yog nws ntxeev siab rau koj ces yuav npam nws vim muaj koj support nws thiaj muaj hnub no.

Txiv neej tsis sawn zoo na, tu niam tsev zoo Nws tsis Pom muaj nuj nqi li os. Cia nws mus qhev rau lwm tu thiaj zoo ma.

Sister u look older because you love your husband more than yourself. You worked two hard for supporting him and taking care of your children and his friends,, you forgot about yourself

My heart is aching but just wait for God to do it for you instead of cursing or pay for yourself. God has eyes to see, ears to hears so when you face troubled in life, pray to God in your needs. He already knows what He's going to do.

Cov neeg kawm ntawv siab siab yeej siab phem li no nawb lawv aw...

Nyob tsis tau uake thiab tsis sis hlub lawm los txhob chim chim rau nws, tej zaum yeej tsis yog ntawv niam txiv los ua lub neej kom kawg. Nyias mus nyias zoo dua. Mob los ua ib zaug mob zoo dua li nws yuav neb ob leeg es haj yam ua rau yus mob siab thiab txog thaum kawg los tseem yuav tau tu nws Thiab

Great job. Your kids muaj siab muaj ntsws. He lived 20+ years of a luxury life, now he wants people to take his poop.

Kj niam awsss, kv es wb lub neej twb zoo lawm ntau, Los luag twb g txaus siab Los mas, luag xam maj lawb tubki rau u tag nrho,

Yog vim li cas me nyuam yog neb ob leeg yug koj ho txw kom me nyuam txhob hlub lawv txiv txawm tias lawv g hlub lawv txiv los koj yuav tsum kom nws ib tug tub ho pab txhob txwv tuag nthi vim yeej yog lawv txiv yug yog g muaj tus txiv muab cov me nyuam tso rau koj ces koj g muaj tau cov me nyuam ntawv thiab os. Ib txhia poj niam los txiv neej lub siab phem2 hais tias yog nws tib leeg yug cov me nyuam xwb tu siab kawg. Yog koj txwv kom com me nyuam hlub koj ib leeg xwb ntse txawm g npam koj rau tiam no los lwm tiam yuav npam nawb nco ntsoov tias me nyuam yog ob leeg yug os.😢😢😢😢

No yog kev npam xwb nawb

Just an excuse to cheat

Yes, karma he got exactly what he deserved. There is a God.

Sister don’t regret and feel bad about your ex dumping you. He already rejected you from the beginning so you know he will leave you for an educated woman. You’re stronger even you don’t have high education.

Wow! Karma is real. They deserved everything that happened to them. Glad you’d finally love yourself and not take your cheating trash back to bury.

Yog nej txiv mob li no es vim muaj kev npam no ces, uaneeg yug los ibleeg muaj ibdaim ntawv npam ces nyias muaj nyias ntu npam

Your husband is not no patience and hasn’t allowed you to grow to your full potential. I have the higher degree and I was the bread winner for many years. My husband has a lower degree but is a professional in his mechanic sales field. We support each other to move up in life. Today, we own our franchise mechanics shop - based in HIS field and he surpasses me by many folds profit. You wait, support, create dreams of your future together even if it takes 3 decades for it to happen. We’re too busy focused on our future that we don’t have time for side people or care what people think.

Good story. I bet this guy's head is huge.

Mi tub mi nyuam Yog yawm Saub muab, Yog tsis hlub ces tsis muaj ntxiv lawm hos ...nws siab phem 2 tsis hlub los tsis npam lawm ...

Yus txoj kev txawj ntse pab tsis tau kiag li os, yus tsis hlub yus pab niam tub ruam ned

Ua nkaus kuv tus ntag

Siab siab phem rau koj Cas npam loj kawg thiab yom!.

Wow!! Ua cas yuav ntshaw ib tug poj niam tij lim li koj ua luaj os sister aw.

Karma

Sister it is your fault. You should have been smarter. Selfcare first before anything else. Life lesson 101.

You did this to yourself girlfriend. Sorry he betrayed you! This is where you are wrong - yourself worth is base on your husband and not yourself!

Karma's a b**

Good story. Thank you for sharing

Sis, you were too busy supporting your ex-husband and forgot about yourself. Txiv dev ces kawg ua txiv dev.

Poj niam Hmong ruam txoj kev khwv uas tsi muaj hnub kawg! SMHO You need to love yourself.

Most Hmong OGs are so ignorant when it comes to child support. When I went after my ex for child support (which he isn’t even paying), some OGs were all like oh why you make the kids’ dad pay support, it’ll make him broke and even crazy, he might kill you. But no one talks about a single parent raising those kids and paying for everything on their own or when I remarried and my husband helped me with everything no questions asked. Such backwards thinking, I’m tired of some of the OGs I don’t even listen to them anymore. I just say yeah yeah yeah then go home and do me.

Sister, why did you take upon another task of supporting him within the community. The husband is a selfish person, took everything for granted. Shame on him, mister remember who worked 2 jobs to support you. To the ex husband, I hope KARMA gets you.

I love it when they be trying to GAS LIGHT you to make you feel bad for them. AHEM*** you fkn left us and cheated bruhh. OWN UP TO YOU SHIZZ. narcissist much!

Child support? They are his kids! Wtf! Why do old people think like that?

Sisters, never sacrifice to work two jobs to support your husband for education. He is a father by choice. He must do his part to support his family financially. Let him work and study simultaneously. You support him the wrong way so he didn’t become smarter with his education but became an @sshole.

It's not a crime for him to fall out of love with you, but he should at least visit his kids. I'm glad he paid child support. Also, you conditioned him to live like a king. You did that to yourself. Lastly, I think you should allow him to at least hear it from your kids.

Husband or wife who despise their spouse's support and sacrifices are the most evil ones.

tiam22 no mas pj niamphem tiag2 linawb tabntuj yv 6 txim6 ov tss tsimnyog 3 cv maum dv yv uaphem baumno kv xavtias feemntau yg hais ls ntxontau xwb cv dab ng siabphem li tuspj nyav no mj ntau kawgli ov