The Art of Fearless Seduction | Brian Begin

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In this video, Brian Begin discusses how to fearlessly connect with women through the art of seduction. You will learn how to live courageously so that you can get the high impact results with women that you want.
In the presentation, you will also learn:
- Why tension is essential for seductive success
- How to hold a dominant masculine frame when dealing with difficult women
- The two things you need to have amazing sex
Visit Brian: www.thefearlessman.com
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00:00 start
01:00 - 09:05 - Brian share to the audience how he was before, his experiences, how he started his journey and eventually came up with the Fearless Man.
09:17 - 13:41 - Brian share what he learned from David Nagel called “The curse of the middle class”. He also talked about how men in lose their sense of purpose and passion because they don’t want to step into tension.
13:56 - 16:26 - Brian shared stories of successful people and how they became who they are now by stepping into tension.
16:27 - 18:04 - He discussed about the state pumping - when men are stepping into tension but they’re not growing. He also talked about developing a relationship to nervous system in relation to tension.
18:14 - 20:22 - Brian mentioned about Ted talk by Kelly McGonigal. The ted talk video is about a study of people in their different level of stress and as they become good with it, they start becoming more attractive to the world.
20:48 - 23:53 - Brian talks about the ability to feel emotions and relate called vulnerability.
23:57 - 25:51 - Brian talks about the law of polarity. He also mentioned about how he really wants his client to become successful and encouraged them to get the free information on his KZfaq channel for this reason.
25:58 - 28:35 - Brian give an illustration about tension and communication.
29:10 - 40:41 - Model work with students
40:48 - 44:39 - Model work with Brian to demonstrate the polarity difference.
44:57 - 46:21 - Brian discussed the importance of stepping into tension and being masculine enough to get a whole different energy that will causes different effect not just to women but to the people around you.
46:30 - 50:44 - Brian emphasize vulnerability and share his personal experience about this.
50:46 - 54:50 - Brian discussed the two things that are essential to have an amazing sex.
54:43 - End - QnA
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@21s 4 жыл бұрын

21 Studios needs your support to keep helping millions of men. Learn how at 21studios.com/donate Subscribe to 21 University today for early, ad-free, censorship-free access to all our videos! 21university.com/catalog FREE one month trial for all new members, and search for us on the app store! ======= 01:00 - 09:05 - Brian share to the audience how he was before, his experiences, how he started his journey and eventually came up with the Fearless Man. 09:17 - 13:41 - Brian share what he learned from David Nagel called “The curse of the middle class”. He also talked about how men in lose their sense of purpose and passion because they don’t want to step into tension. 13:56 - 16:26 - Brian shared stories of successful people and how they became who they are now by stepping into tension. 16:27 - 18:04 - He discussed about the state pumping - when men are stepping into tension but they’re not growing. He also talked about developing a relationship to nervous system in relation to tension. 18:14 - 20:22 - Brian mentioned about Ted talk by Kelly McGonigal. The ted talk video is about a study of people in their different level of stress and as they become good with it, they start becoming more attractive to the world. 20:48 - 23:53 - Brian talks about the ability to feel emotions and relate called vulnerability. 23:57 - 25:51 - Brian talks about the law of polarity. He also mentioned about how he really wants his client to become successful and encouraged them to get the free information on his KZfaq channel for this reason. 25:58 - 28:35 - Brian give an illustration about tension and communication. 29:10 - 40:41 - Model work with students 40:48 - 44:39 - Model work with Brian to demonstrate the polarity difference. 44:57 - 46:21 - Brian discussed the importance of stepping into tension and being masculine enough to get a whole different energy that will causes different effect not just to women but to the people around you. 46:30 - 50:44 - Brian emphasize vulnerability and share his personal experience about this. 50:46 - 54:50 - Brian discussed the two things that are essential to have an amazing sex. 54:43 - End - QnA

@3joewj 4 жыл бұрын

German women are turned on by intelligence and deep conversations...fo real.🤔

@sallieugalleh4915 4 жыл бұрын

Cool and and cosy

@TheAlonsomg 4 жыл бұрын

That is a fine piece of ass

@Op-xw6yi 4 жыл бұрын

Love ur program

@Op-xw6yi 4 жыл бұрын

The early years is better for experience

@sweetwater718 3 жыл бұрын

"If you learn to be uncomfortable you will have a easy life. If you are chasing an easy life, you will be very uncomfortable."

@kumkan3588 3 жыл бұрын

Gem

@hasofdhi 3 жыл бұрын

So true!

@dduchovny2270 3 жыл бұрын

!save

@perfectanxiety4758 3 жыл бұрын

Something I have lived by some my internship with NASA

@dimashevchenko1360 3 жыл бұрын

Wow what a coincidence. I was just scrolling through the comments and exactly when I read this quote I hear him say the same thing.

@juanpovalle5063 5 жыл бұрын

Just have the balls. And get denied countless of times until you don't care anymore and you become an Alpha. It works.

@simonyoel 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks a lot, Juan Ovalle. As men, we have to build ourselves to the point that if a woman rejects us; it will be her loss not to give us that opportunity. We need to be happy with ourselves and our lives that if she says no. it is not a f****g big deal.

@eamonnbarrett7995 4 жыл бұрын

@@simonyoel Exactly

@hortenseweinblatt1508 4 жыл бұрын

I wish I could find where I read this, but there is a 19th-century anecdotal character - a Prussian grenadier, something along those lines. He is talking with another soldier about how to get girls to [ahem]. Grenadier: "It's easy! I just go up to them and ask, 'Do you want to [ahem]?'" Other soldier - utterly shocked, finally manages to reply: "But ... don't they slap you??" Grenadier: "Oh, yes, lots of times, they slap! But sometimes they [ahem]!"

@asfandnasar 4 жыл бұрын

2nd that , this is comment has more value than whole video . LOL

@frankiellamas713 4 жыл бұрын

Real talk

@ryanscanlan9875 4 жыл бұрын

I think this is actually very profound and true. Pushing through tension is basically a recipe to cure generalised anxiety disorder.

@nikchelseafan8556 4 жыл бұрын

Social media has led to people teaching other men on how to say hi to a woman...

@RacingPoint-io8yk 4 жыл бұрын

today , the men need this. say hello to feminized world.

@seeyaingarage2864 3 жыл бұрын

victim mindset

@Emanuel-XIII 3 жыл бұрын

@@seeyaingarage2864 he did say other men rather than myself. Idk if it's social media but there is a problem with men, ... don't u think?

@chc2650 3 жыл бұрын

Wrong, men have been reading books on how to talk to women since before you were even born.

@vigilanttaskhandler4524 3 жыл бұрын

@@seeyaingarage2864 facts🥱 i’m able to flirt w women at grocery stores , the gym it’s all about taking care of yourself. NO FAP GENTLEMAN

@bl8596 4 жыл бұрын

Me: KZfaq Algorithm: You need to get laid. Here's an instructional.

@nycprodigy485 4 жыл бұрын

lol

@warpspeed8305 4 жыл бұрын

yep... but i don't want to cheat on my girlfriend... thank youtube :-)

@nathanthompson8082 4 жыл бұрын

True

@andersondemiranda 4 жыл бұрын

Should we thank KZfaq now?

@Cgm40 4 жыл бұрын

🤣

@mrBDeye 6 жыл бұрын

A 1 hour seminar on how to say "HI" to a woman. The next 1 hour will be on a hand shake. This is good stuff.

@cutthecheck 5 жыл бұрын

mrBDeye women want a man or woman with money point blank period #facts

@welcomedcompany1019 5 жыл бұрын

mrBDeye lmao 🤣

@csfcompetitiveshootingfitn6877 5 жыл бұрын

great observation

@giovanitorres9360 5 жыл бұрын

Pretty intense stuff 😅

@mrBDeye 5 жыл бұрын

Lesson for next month is how to say, "nice day isn't it?"

@devildickdeep 4 жыл бұрын

“I am not afraid of the tension. I’m a man. I can handle it.”

@Emanuel-XIII 3 жыл бұрын

Thanx

@cheechmarin8705 3 жыл бұрын

Phenomenal line. Wish he came up with it himself but there's a nofap video that came out maybe 5 months before this speech and says that line almost exactly

@haywoodjablomi2526 3 жыл бұрын

Alejandro Cedano textbook hater lol

@capboy4460 3 жыл бұрын

Haywood Jablomi jk

@playfield8169 3 жыл бұрын

Well good for you

@fukushimadaiichi9622 4 жыл бұрын

I tried this on my wife and she got angry at me and called me a "creep." I'm sitting here all alone playing Nintendo switch because she took off on a date with her boyfriend Jamal.

@AnimeWorld-zl5yz 4 жыл бұрын

Woooow dude Be a man and dump that shitt u have to Be joking

@positivevibesyo 4 жыл бұрын

Nintendo Switch you say?🧐

@TheBluesnbob 4 жыл бұрын

Jamal is only on Sundays, this is Shaneekwah's turn

@warpspeed8305 4 жыл бұрын

oh... idk maybe divorce her? why do you need wife who dates Jamal? maybe get some other women pregnant so your wife will get less resources :-) fuck it. fearless. lets get them all pregnant.

@NICKWAPPERER117 4 жыл бұрын

How can you turds not tell this was for a laugh? lmao

@TwitchCronos100 2 жыл бұрын

Just had to come back and write this, I watched this yesterday and starting today I did everything by feeling it through my core instead of my head, walking, talking, working out, etc. Biggest coincidence or not, and I shit you not, but coming back from the gym today I got my first compliment from a female I have no relation with for the first time since I started working out 10 years ago.

@Here_4_comments Жыл бұрын

Good for you brother that will be the first of many. Keep it up you will get better/stronger everyday.

@kristianvolaric762 3 жыл бұрын

Fascinating presentation. When he talked about the importance of exposing yourself to tension I remembered a saying of a German psychologist Hans Selie who said: Stress is death, stress is life. Without tension (stress) there is no growth.

@breadpitt5777 4 жыл бұрын

Many simps are mad here in comment section. Whatever this guy saying is true in every aspects of life.

@deficator750 4 жыл бұрын

Care to explain what he did then? Lol

@josephguelles4605 3 жыл бұрын

Authentic masculinity. Being genuine. It can take you a long way

@24karatbike26 3 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@playerhater948 3 жыл бұрын

Literally every aspect

@eddiemoon5317 4 жыл бұрын

None of these techniques will work if she , didn't "Choose" yu. If she ain't attracted to yu, yu saying Hi, 50 different ways is not doin shitt.

@primordialking5444 3 жыл бұрын

Eddie Moon which is why you engage in a conversation, and you have to be masculine and have seductive skills. Only being attractive isn’t gonna get you anywhere. That’s not how it works. She doesn’t choose you if you come across as insecure and you don’t have your shit together, then you just go on to the next person. Some people may date outside their preference because of how you come across. It’s easier if you meet their preference though

@maanokay2553 3 жыл бұрын

Primordial King being unattractive isn't gonna get you anywhere either. Both of these things are important.

@angelvelez4838 3 жыл бұрын

Ed you 100 % correct, if she ain’t feeling you , it ain’t going to going to happen

@eddiemoon5317 3 жыл бұрын

@@primordialking5444 "attractive :....smh, who said anything about being attractive. I've been in the game along time, so I know about this area. If you are not her "type" or "style" you could have all the seductive skills in the world and be on point with yur alpha male shitt,...... but she has to give you an opportunity to spitt your game when you pull up. You can't force nobody to like you. Do you really think that every good-looking Alpha with game and that has some paper also never gets rejected?..Of course they do... Because she shot him down for whatever the reason maybe. .....Check it out. How much shy guys you know who has no mouth piece, and is a little corny, still get play from women, fine as women at that? I know a few ... its because the woman likes what she likes. The truth is always simple. So , being on point is fine , having your shitt together is great, having your weapons ready for engagement at any minute helps, but it still boils down to that woman choosing you (sizing yu up, seeing if she is going to fuck yu in 7 seconds) . So no engaging of conversation is taking place unless she allows it to take place. If that sex appeal meter don't ring off, because you out of shape or don't no how to dress or smell etc. You will never know why. Because women have control of that part of the game . The only thing you can do is be on your best presentation behavior when you step to her and hope you are her style/type so you can get an opportunity lay your game down, oops I mean engage in conversation. I would respect the conversation and type your name in here, but I can't address another man as king who can't even post his picture. Peace & much Blessings to you.

@MatWro1010 3 жыл бұрын

@@eddiemoon5317 Yes, you are 100% right. The problem is that over 90% of men have a giant ego when it comes to interacting women and will never accept that. They will never accept the fact that they are "picking" women, and women are "choosing" men. All of these pick up artist are making money by spreding this bs that you can get ANY girl. Life would be beautiful if that was true. If something seems too good to be true, then it is.

@enredigjavlasmorgastarta3972 6 жыл бұрын

Finally someone who talks more about energies and polarities between men and women. Thank you sir.

@wanderlustendumado5396 4 жыл бұрын

I'm in the weird part of KZfaq.

@Lord_Thistlewick_Flanders 4 жыл бұрын

no you're not...

@poocumber7806 4 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@b52_vishwajeetpatil99 4 жыл бұрын

@@poocumber7806 where u from bro

@eeo_o103 4 жыл бұрын

Bro the cringe I swear

@Queliiboo 4 жыл бұрын

💀 stg how did I get here

@Sahrokh 4 жыл бұрын

If this presentation lasted 8 hours, I'd still have watched it to the end. It's that good.

@makim-k5850 Жыл бұрын

It's insane.

@Trilogy_offical3 3 жыл бұрын

I personally haven’t had my mind blown multiple times in an hour straight. This guy just change my reality for the better, THANK YOU

@youngmirre8874 4 жыл бұрын

Only someone that when down hill and came up again in life will understand this guy. This is really deep stuff his talking about .. pure gold

@irreversablecontentment4651 2 жыл бұрын

This video is total BS....How many American women look like this ?

@User_92020 2 жыл бұрын

@@irreversablecontentment4651 Where you from

@ManSeekingChrist 6 жыл бұрын

THis video was in my recommendations. Brian is onto something. The energetic work is crucial. Learning how to flow through your masculine. I used to feel that way, but every time I spoke I went backwards just like the two volunteers. It's because I didn't feel that expressing that energy was normal due to social conditioning. But by working on it something clicked eventually after a couple years.

@bladelazoe 2 жыл бұрын

The tip at the end is really a game-changer. Small gains over time really add up. As a simple example, when I was able to drive, I was scared to go into the drive thru and order food. There was tension in what was I going to say, would I stutter, etc. after enough exposure to that, it’s not a huge issue. That’s growth.

@mmr0221 9 ай бұрын

All we can do is be better than we were yesterday

@DrJanTaplin 3 жыл бұрын

I just watched the clip at 44:25 and it brought tears to my eyes. I have seen Tony Robbins do work like this with couples, and I feel that your work is superior to his in this realm. Keep doing what you’re doing. The world needs this!

@deetorks2876 6 жыл бұрын

How could anybody hate this video? Thank you Brian.

@kajuta240 3 жыл бұрын

She's paid to act. That's why this is a joke. Cold approach PUA is dead. Women have access to all the online shopping apps they need for unlimited access. Lift or get a Doll.

@mrg7304 Жыл бұрын

@@kajuta240 cold approach works sometimes still although it's not the magic wand. With dating apps it's a pain in the ass because you have to take modeling pictures and the whole deal if you wanna get a lot of matches

@kemsolid 6 жыл бұрын

Been waiting for the full length of this video to come out for a while. This guy Brian brings a whole new sense to feeling emotions and body language.

@TheFearlessMan 6 жыл бұрын

Glad it resonates!

@rsert2479 6 жыл бұрын

kpolydore re

@someoneiknow6632 3 жыл бұрын

Breaking news 100% of men who attended this seminar got charged with sexual harassment within a month after this.

@Glomly 3 жыл бұрын

If you're a no brainer then sure. But if you say something like "Relax. I have no intention to scare you . If I push your limits too hard just say "I dont like it" and i'll stop" You're not only make the girl more comfortable but basically now she can't accuse you in anything. Keep your word tho

@berto.t2222 3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤯🤯🤯🤯

@Quickscript 3 жыл бұрын

@@Glomly you will get arrested for rape if you say that 😆

@Glomly 3 жыл бұрын

@@Quickscript Why is that? By her jealous ex? But obviously it's not the first phrase you should say to a woman lololo

@xanthippus3190 3 жыл бұрын

@@Quickscript >Chad >getting arrested TOPKEK

@keegancan 4 жыл бұрын

He makes a great point. If you want a real interaction, work on belly breathing. And honestly, just honor your feelings, a potential girlfriend will respect those feelings, if she does not she is not ready to understand how you feel.

@devansharora2719 5 жыл бұрын

"50 Shades of Hi" to me this is.

@imnotarob0t1984 3 жыл бұрын

lmaooooo

@sarakafernando9692 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@zefalosss 3 жыл бұрын

pure gold this video is GOLD BETTER THAN ANY alpha male or puas books.. these are the explanations at the deepest level like spiritual level not like the surface of strategy... the emotions, the body language, the stare, your masculine body ( not like a bodybuilder but a decent fitness its a huge +) its the cake. the words are the cherry on the top.

@pf4773 2 жыл бұрын

A superb, hi-value presentation.What made the presentation, besides his calm, so relaxed, not rushed/no sales patter, is his excellent practice en vivo session with the female assistant and two audience members. So powerful. So much respect toward women as well. This guy, from how he presented himself, is great at seduction, but also would appear to be great at building a longterm relationship. This is gestalt psychology, also eastern spirituality shared. He seems to have high levels of integrity as a dating coach-I looked at his website. Wow, if his other presentations are like this I'd be very impressed.

@5000NATE 4 жыл бұрын

Self-love is more important than giving it away to some random woman Jesus Christ loves you

@descendantofegypt6519 4 жыл бұрын

Jesus is fake. Self love is important tho

@Angelshavemanyeyes 4 жыл бұрын

😂

@victoriadondo5450 3 жыл бұрын

!!!

@1stBelieveinu2 3 жыл бұрын

Descendant of Egypt u called Jesus fake but your KZfaq name is descendent of Egypt GTFOH

@hummuspapi9242 3 жыл бұрын

Jesus isn’t fake he’s a real man a prophet but no god lmao 😂

@kylegary6311 3 жыл бұрын

This is hands down the best video on KZfaq regarding women. He's not saying change who you are, but feel who you are. Deep! I believe most men do this with women they're not that attracted to, including me. Hence that's why we attract the women we don't want.

@christopherlabedzski7575 3 жыл бұрын

I'm 30 of age and this took me years to figure out something so simple to attract women, as I'm be learning to become better, I figured it out,, it's the opposite attract, (example) doing something kind and nice for them is actually drives girls away, (good guy vibe) but instead be a badass and show your the man and don't give a f,,,k about rejection and go with the flow,,, yeah yeah, you say I'm disrespecting women some say,,, but here the paradox that what actually women attracted by,, weird isn't it,, by being assertive and in control women pick up that manly vibe,, I should have known sooner is my regret but whatever, Incels through are afraid of risk,,, plus if you give off that manly vibe, looks will be an afterthought,,, that's why women say they prefer confidence over looks, you just got to know how that works to believe that, good luck men

@johnpick8336 4 жыл бұрын

Excellent ! The femine always tests the masculine to find and grasp the emotional masculinine energy !

@r.davidyoung7242 2 жыл бұрын

Great talk. Great points. Thank you 🙌 The end of your talk with Q&A and your finger point was insightful.

@pintarganteng422 4 жыл бұрын

This shows how fallen the society is

@OnThePath777 4 жыл бұрын

@@andrewedward8067 facts

@paulheinrichdietrich9518 4 жыл бұрын

@@andrewedward8067 You just made that up.

@andrewedward8067 4 жыл бұрын

Fernando Alamón > do your research buddy

@paulheinrichdietrich9518 4 жыл бұрын

@@andrewedward8067 I made my research already.

@andrewedward8067 4 жыл бұрын

Fernando Alamón > clearly not

@whenufirstrealized 4 жыл бұрын

I just tried this last night ... and now I'm afraid I'm going to need to get a job to pay for child support.

@WinstonKnows 4 жыл бұрын

Work Account Already have the pregnancy 🤰 test?

@PastorDaveTube 4 жыл бұрын

:) Hilarious!

@AnimeWorld-zl5yz 4 жыл бұрын

Do a test dude see if Its yours for real

@ronintraveller415 4 жыл бұрын

U fukkin idiot lol

@chadwalker8691 3 жыл бұрын

🤡🤡🤡

@que_the_durbanite1359 3 жыл бұрын

Just discovered this guy. He's now my new favourite. He really know what he's about. And that sold me.

@Gokuu4 3 жыл бұрын

Be careful this spiritual shit bro

@gunchief0811 2 жыл бұрын

I joined the Marines at age 17. I became a bad ass . Never looked back... Semper fidelis...

@mattpetello 5 жыл бұрын

You are a great speaker, Brian! Loved this seminar.

@MichaTheLight 5 жыл бұрын

That was real deep he really explains the principles so good that I really realised and understood also why some other men are successfull with woman which I perceived as less masculine.

@JGComments 3 жыл бұрын

Zig Ziglar said "You have to Be before you can Do, and Do before you can Have."

@justmy2cents_ 2 жыл бұрын

It all boil down to your confidence & your positive energy! Sometimes being nervous or unsure gives women a weird vibe of uncertainty your femininity,you have to seem sure & empowered almost like excited to make her interested! But the best trick that I've learned is getting her eye contact & being flirtatious,smiling with her getting her to blush is the ultimate! Women love attention & to be acknowledged especially when they are dressed to impress! If approaching a women initially bothers you or you get uncomfortable the flirting eye contact smiling technique really breaks the ice from afar & normally invites you in! If she's smiling or blushing while gazing in your direction that gives "yea I'm interested" make a move but if she just gives an half witted smile or doesn't blush or smile back then she may not be interested,you'll know when she holds a gaze or she nervously keeps looking at you smiling! The easiest way to know for sure is to give her the 'call me sign' from a distance and if she looks interested or does it back & or smiles blushes then your in like Flynn ( by the way who the hell is Flynn) but that to me is the easiest way to know for sure my fellow love-a-nots! But just be ready to close the deal when making your introduction by being calm not nerdy or too cocky there's a difference between confidence & cockiness believe me! Good luck & be BRAVE! YOU ARE MAN!!!!! ✌🏽

@LandscapeInMotion 5 жыл бұрын

Profound advice that actually works! For those of you who only focused on this girls body missed out on the core message - that is, being comfortable with tension in any situation. Gold!

@bladelazoe 2 жыл бұрын

Basically anything that makes you nervous, scared, uncomfortable, it’s all the same. Step into it and get used to what that feels like and you grow with repeated exposures. I learned this around 25/26. That’s how change happens.

@sonyabadass 5 жыл бұрын

"Embrace the TENSION, willing to be VULNERABLE, you can't do it from your head you've got to feel it"

@asuichan8436 3 жыл бұрын

The universe will send you to the tools to progress if you ask for it. Thanks for this video

@AnirudhMurali9999 3 жыл бұрын

seconded my friend.

@davidkoziar1811 2 жыл бұрын

Thirded. Even a year later!

@maurice5726 2 жыл бұрын

Very coincidence

@maumiceli 2 жыл бұрын

I've watched so many hours of content about this subjects from different teachers. This is amazingly good.

@uripatootie7064 5 жыл бұрын

This is actually some really good shit. Learning to enjoy tension and learning to love the thrill can be extremely useful, even for things you would never consider to have anything to do with masculinity. When I was a freshman in highschool I had to do a presentation with 3 other classmates(less tension than being by myself). I was scared shitless. I was fidgeting, I was rocking side to side, my voice would have weird inconsistencies, and what I said didn't make sense. 2 years later, having watched this video and read up on growing my masculinity and actually doing it in those 2 years, I give a legendary presentation all by myself in a class that I almost never talked in. Everybody loved it and died of laughter and felt various emotions as I took them through a weird but genuine presentation that nobody expected. And now, I love the thrill of presenting. I crave getting up in front of a group of people and not know what the hell I'm gonna say and making it up by looking right at everybody, reading the room, and building from there, all while maintaining calm and cool body language and facial expressions, and enjoying the tension that I'm creating. tldr; masculinity ftw

@ikaruga24 6 жыл бұрын

Excellent content and truly valuable. It does make you rethink your whole process up to that point and understand what went wrong all those years ago.

@bladelazoe 2 жыл бұрын

Yea, if I could some 15-25 why life sucked, I was desperately avoiding tension altogether. Lol and of course lesrning to embrace it 26-29 is a wild ride now. Even just small bits at a time are good too!

@AZTigerMMA 4 жыл бұрын

This man has a lot of deep knowledge ! I’d Ike to get his take on relationships the power struggle and how to handle it .

@tommyapples8490 4 жыл бұрын

Its so true, that your mindset regardless of what you say matters. If you intimated , its almost impossible to hide that...they can sense/ smell it!!!

@viktoreklof2931 6 жыл бұрын

Right place at the right time! Thank you for this info. I can relate so much! Now i am inspired! Thanks!

@brycemcfillan4832 4 жыл бұрын

clicked for the girl. Stayed to know how to get one.

@AS-ff9vp 3 жыл бұрын

Yikes

@morihno9223 3 жыл бұрын

Never in a million years she would be attracted to that first dude with his beatlesshirt..

@jag831 6 жыл бұрын

What he says in this video is 100% real, but its just not something you can learn by watching a video or attending a speak. One needs to actually learn it by experience. It is the only way. Maybe someone could write a whole 3,000 page book about trees, but you'll never know a tree until you sense and experience one (I used the words sense and experience on purpose, and I don't think I should explain that). Anyway, good random youtube link click

@jag831 5 жыл бұрын

@Diego87 Just be yourself, as long as you are a man and act like a man. It doesn't matter if you wear some worn out Timberland boots or designer sneakers. And it's not a matter of women being "timberland shoes men kind of woman" or "designer shoes men kind of woman". I think it's way deeper than that

@Pfirtzer 5 жыл бұрын

@@diggadirt393 lol

@charlesben9104 4 жыл бұрын

it doesnt work if youre not good looking, but they wont tell you that.

@jetseason4603 4 жыл бұрын

So true

@CT-pv9gu 4 жыл бұрын

It’s so true. Girls love a guy who has that ‘energy’. You have to find it and live it. Live in the moment and be spontaneous! It’s hard but it takes practice and a fake it til you make it attitude. I’m only just starting to realise this stuff

@BenjaminBrown563 4 жыл бұрын

Love your stuff my friend. We are all on the path for better understanding.

@nejcpanic6704 4 жыл бұрын

From time to time you find a good vid and from time to time a masterpiece. This is the latter. God bless.

@WhateverDudeMan 4 жыл бұрын

I learned something I should have known 10 years ago :( Im blessed to have clicked on this video.. really appreciate it.

@jazsthoughts9760 4 жыл бұрын

Was thinking the same

@DevilDog-nz6xn 6 жыл бұрын

I think its funny how guys talk shit about this video, as if they are too cool for this video...yet they still watch it.

@HPS2O31 5 жыл бұрын

Devil Dog2016 nah im too cool

@djcruel1 5 жыл бұрын

freak me too

@appolo08 5 жыл бұрын

Solid demo on how to create sexual tension by being in our body than our head when so many gurus seems to focus too much on verbal skills or gimmicks.

@BradPitbull 4 жыл бұрын

REAL NIGGAZ EAT ASS

@andrewedward8067 4 жыл бұрын

It was in my recommended.

@SnottyBoscarino 2 жыл бұрын

The first few minutes all I could pay attention to was how tiny his hands looked.....then I actually started to listen to what he was saying and got hooked. This is a great presentation! Thanks 🙏

@rayrwise5728 3 жыл бұрын

I love the tension, because it makes them break in a good way. She smiled and looked away and said “ok I feel him” girls like intense but not in a creepy way.

@Rony10t 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you Brian for your tremendous insight into human nature and our emotional relationships with ourselves which most of us tend to forget. I can't help but realize that your ideas are inspired or even drawn from Taoism. This resonates with me incredibly. I have only recently began reading the Tao Te Ching and at a very slow pace so as to truly understand and feel what the text is trying to describe. Since it is very ambiguous, I always love it when I find people incorporating Taoism in everyday life, it helps me understand a great deal more, and for that I thank you.

@empty.half.productions788 5 жыл бұрын

Such a really nice presentation i agree mostly that it helps 1-to be a man and be willing to lose her 2-to stand your ground when the girl start getting emotional 3-to smile abit and relax she's not gonna bite you :)

@Sunne11 4 жыл бұрын

Very good and informative video. I couldn't stop watching :-)

@Guedes1290 3 жыл бұрын

Great hour passed in KZfaq! Thanks, Brian.

@jerrymichaelcrowe1917 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you Brian for this very helpful information. I do not feel so ostracized any more. My failures make sense now. Really powerful information. I never knew any of this and have never heard any teaching like this before. Wish I had this knowledge 45 years ago. Oh well. Just seems so natural.

@sanjaypatel14 5 жыл бұрын

This is top quality content, we are blessed Brian gives it us for free 👏

@claudiamanta1943 5 ай бұрын

59:24 Seriously now. If you’re analytical, that means that you pay attention to details, so you won’t forget her birthday or your anniversary. In the bedroom… undress her slowly. Pay attention to each piece of clothing you take off her- the texture, the texture of her skin. All the small details that reveal her beauty. Draw a map of her on her skin with your kisses. Explore. Listen. Smell. Feel. Reconstruct her inside you until your brain can’t take it anymore. Inch by inch, kiss by kiss. This is how you open a map to reveal itself the hidden treasure. You’re welcome.

@WolfenGamer 4 жыл бұрын

The older, richer kids made me have social anxiety, so I never really get into tension even if I tried, every time I have tried I always get depressed or anxious.

@mermaidman1985 4 жыл бұрын

The problem with the PUA's videos is that they say vague statements like "be confident" and "be masculine" and they don't explain how to implement those feelings authentically so you carry on making the same mistakes and not understand what the hell is going on. Brian really nails it here and this shit should be shown to every young man in their teens.

@polvoradelrey2423 4 жыл бұрын

He had friends? Wow, his starting point is already better than mine.

@ryancwatson5349 4 жыл бұрын

Pólvora Del Rey change ur name bud that’s a start , trust me. Lanas cool but not changing ur name on ur acct as a man. No disrespect

@ngo73221nc 3 жыл бұрын

Great work man. I love it.

@kev1519 3 жыл бұрын

This was a great video amazing content very insightful! All the strategies here are where you need to start from first, before even thinking about how to speak with women and be in you masculine and confident self!💯🔥👌🏽

@Balloonbot 4 жыл бұрын

The part around 40:00 is good for emotional men to listen to. Some men think they're too emotional, but it works at the great advantage in relationships, when you're able to connect with your partner much easier than men who push their emotions away.

@mrg7304 Жыл бұрын

There has to be a balance. Crying over a woman or arguing with your girl is not the way to go.

@dbthewave6069 5 жыл бұрын

Aye, just be yourself and don’t hide your feelings. 🤷🏾‍♂️( that’s what I think he is saying.)

@alparboy01 4 жыл бұрын

one of the best and most in depth explanations I ever saw on this topic

@gregchristensen7718 Жыл бұрын

I was so focused on the video, when he asked who was in sales I raised my hand as if I were in the audience lol. It took me a second to remember I was sitting in my room

@growing367 4 жыл бұрын

36:53 Connect to the heart and stomach 44:41 it's the energy behind the words, it's how you say it 49:10 Great example on how to communicate 51:30 How to communicate for better sex Be the mountain, Be the riverbank

@chuckdambuza3938 5 жыл бұрын

This is connecting with the deepest parts of my soul

@ralphlazio505 4 жыл бұрын

Great presentation man.

@darthtater6543 Жыл бұрын

The biggest thing I learned in the mindset of stress/tension is to basically tell yourself “fuck it!” Remind yourself that it’s gonna happen regardless just deal with it. But you have to have knowledge and or skill in that stress in order to be relaxed. If you go into a stressful situation without having any knowledge in it you become frustrated, flustered, scared, Nervous, all negative physiological stressors and that can become fatal depending on the situation. So in my job muscle memory is important, it eases the anxiety. In relationship situations if you don’t have confidence(knowledge) in how to talk, how to present yourself then you get nervous and frustrated, women will sense that you’re vulnerable and be turned off.

@David-ib8ek 6 жыл бұрын

The approach while coming from your head part instead of your heart and stomach made a lot of sense! I guess that's what meditation is all about especially getting out of your mind. Looking back in hindsight I always come from an analytical space and i can understand why most of the women got a weird vibe from me now. Even though i had the fake smile and thought in my mind (See what i mean haha) I looked approachable, because it was not coming from a grounded space and i was acting more feminine is essence it turned them off. Although everything previous to the interaction i was in my masculine which is probably why they put themselves in my orbit to begin with. I also remember when i entered situations, not even intentionally to interact with women but there happened to be some there where i was speaking from my heart and feeling the tension but not letting it effect my true expression there was an almost instant attraction from them. Before seeing this video i couldn't put my finger on it and even label what i was doing right and wrong but yeah...watching this video has giving me new understanding. So Cool!

@nathanieldurgasingh6700 6 жыл бұрын

David Stone Definitely. Video is very insightful, noticed many flaws in my approach game

@TheFearlessMan 6 жыл бұрын

Love to hear all that self-awareness you got out of this.

@iSanjit1996 4 жыл бұрын

Every young people out there who ever reads it remember one thing is for sure in life, if he or/she ... doesn't accept you with your flaws then there is no love connection between two soul's but If someone loves you because of who you are then there is love, what color you are , how many money you have are u poor or a rich guy it doesn't matter this is it , we all are born alone But with ages we need someone who understands us better so we can share that bond but how many of us sacrifice there life to give someone a smile before they die, we all will be in... grave all sleeping forever alone.

@Litewiz 3 жыл бұрын

I hear remnants of Rsd tyler, similar tonality, yet slowed down and digestable, Owen is a genius, almost anyone that speaks on social dynamics just almost seems to tap into his personality, mannerisms, ways of throwing multiple concepts and tying it together. Great talk!

@kamaljeetsingh4820 4 жыл бұрын

my eyes were glued to those bumps throughout.

@arnolourens2030 4 жыл бұрын

Please note at 33:07 the gentleman is defending himself by saying that he had a genuine smile. Protecting your ego is a super beta move. He should have just chilled the f out and go with the flow and just don't care.

@mrt.nathan 3 жыл бұрын

I caught that too nice insight

@zakariaslayer715 3 жыл бұрын

yeaaah good point

@naaiiiz 3 жыл бұрын

What u mean protecting your ego

@azirolizznan90 3 жыл бұрын

@@naaiiiz when someone try to correct you but your ego defending your feeling thats the problem, thats the a beta move. just shrug it off he didn’t.

@dduchovny2270 3 жыл бұрын

!save

@Ravenex2 6 жыл бұрын

Wow......scientifically, socially, mentally, spiritually, and emotionally........this video is spot on and strikes all the right cords! Life lessons here are gold. Indeed the universe is perfectly balanced through the polarities within the transfer of energy.

@sebastiaosalgado1979 4 жыл бұрын

I agree!

@N.E.U.R.O 4 жыл бұрын

the way you incorporated physical awareness into it was super cool, reminds me a lot of some Buddhist practices

@Killa91115 2 жыл бұрын

I’m 31 and I’m still anti social. I’m scared to talk to people.

@JuanPena-ql1hi 6 жыл бұрын

Whoa ! So well explained gotta take this to the field thank you 21 convention .

@TheFearlessMan 6 жыл бұрын

Glad it connected!

@reggieh6038 6 жыл бұрын

awesome video ... instantly felt what he was saying and even trying it out for myself ... key thing is to relax into your body and it naturally shuts off your thinking mind.

@TheFearlessMan 6 жыл бұрын

Awesome. Really glad to hear you had that experience for yourself

@zakeeakhtar3611 6 жыл бұрын

Do bioenergetics

@ClutchBeatz 6 жыл бұрын

John Washington this nigga 🤣

@Belicose777 6 жыл бұрын

You just expressed one of those things I didn't think anyone else even thought of. I suddenly became an anxious person sometime during/after puberty. Im always in my mind. Things that should occur naturally aren't. Gotta break those bad habits.

@tommcfarland5368 2 жыл бұрын

@@Belicose777 how?

@bronjesamuel1054 3 жыл бұрын

Man I could’ve used this in my early 20s. Had to figure this out myself. Discussing with the homies. I don’t need this stuff anymore but it’s still good shit

@biswarupbhattacharyya4322 4 жыл бұрын

This video was great!!!

@orhanorhan9015 5 жыл бұрын

I like the way he talks, so calm.

@IHateScottSoMuch 4 жыл бұрын

Dude comes in with his energy at a -3 and tells the audience they are low energy.

@ErrorDebug 4 жыл бұрын

You have very bad understanding of low and high energy

@retaingang7858 4 жыл бұрын

Just retain your seed and you will have confidence and female attraction..trail and error will improve game.Semen Retention helps tremendously

@retaingang7858 4 жыл бұрын

@@unoreverseyourmom6119Damn bro, Not for you but for me and tons of others.

@retaingang7858 4 жыл бұрын

@@unoreverseyourmom6119 Stop thinking about women and focus all your energy on things that you like to do(positive things).Transmutation is key.That energy that you get from holding your seed makes you more masculine and gives you the drive to create and evolve; and this discipline gives you tunnel vision focus.Not Only are you energetically being felt everywhere you go but people can sense(especially women) when a man is putting his success first and stands on his principles/morals.They can see and feel all that.We all can actually subconsciously.But you have to go the distance.Minimal 30 days bro and get on your shit.By the time you get to 90 days you should have tremendous momentum,growth and vibrating at a higher state consistently.You have to met your true self which is unplugged from the matrix and connected to God,The healthy masculinity you built up for your mind body and soul will attract women.But you cant harness this energy and not do shit with it.

@retaingang7858 4 жыл бұрын

@@unoreverseyourmom6119 Work on yourself. Work on speaking to women.Learn seduction.Become a high value male.Mentally,physically,,spiritually and financially.The women will come.Dont be a simp dont make women the main focus of ypur life.They are here to help us thats it.Continue retaining your seed and use that energy to better yourself. Be celibate for a while and continue not fapping bro.Everything is gonna work out.Have faith bro.💖

@devildickdeep 4 жыл бұрын

Don’t half ass it! Go full masculinity and say “You know, there’s something about you... that I just had to come say hi.”

@liftingisfun2350 3 жыл бұрын

Of course your name is Jamal

@peacedeepsleeprelaxation2677 3 жыл бұрын

Idk about these other people in the comments. Looks like they’re just here to crack a joke, but this honestly changed things for me. I already have small successes with just a few tips. This is life changing for real.

@zacharylambert9692 6 жыл бұрын

Thanks for great content!

@d-alphamuszic2610 6 жыл бұрын

Awesome information.

@TheFearlessMan 6 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed

@star4794 4 жыл бұрын

BRIAN,keep talking.your words are real.I love to listen to you talk and listen to your stories.you need to go big with your channel and your sessions.love you.my son and I love you.Best wishes.