The consequences of emotional neglect

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29 күн бұрын

The future of humanity is in the ability of developing attunement to then create teamwork and realize the importance of each other in the chain called life. Let's tune into our feelings and heal together creating more harmony and more understanding.

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@EVsAreWorse4earth 16 күн бұрын

Miss Karolina you are very nice to look at

@UzdrawianiePoprzezDźwięki 16 күн бұрын

@@EVsAreWorse4earth thank you

@dakinilover 15 күн бұрын

Thank you for sharing your experience. It gave me a lot of insight into my own life. Now, I understand why I feel so attracted to you. We share a similar pattern of emotional neglect in the family, although there are some major differences. You seem to be very tuned into your body and emotions, while I'm quite the opposite. Most of the time, feelings flow under the radar and I must use intellect to figure out what I'm feeling. This and other things lead me to believe, that I'm autistic. It seems that I'm unable to tell what other people are feeling, unless they tell me. I think that I'm slowly starting to notice, acknowledge and express my feelings and desires. I know it will sound crazy, but I have the feeling that you are someone I want to be close with.

@UzdrawianiePoprzezDźwięki 14 күн бұрын

@@dakinilover looks like you are on the great track to get in touch with that part of yourself. Just take it easy. It is no wonder that so many people struggle with getting in touch with their emotions these days because it looks like it is going to kill them but it's not like that. No one has really taught us how to regulate ourselves in a way that is useful and sustainable. According to society we also learn to repress and suppress a lot of things because you're required to be "tough". That's a very old game of: I always hold it together no matter what. And as you mentioned, "you have the feeling" means you're already doing it ✌️.

@dakinilover 14 күн бұрын

@@UzdrawianiePoprzezDźwięki I may have some problems with recognizing emotions, but when they do appear I'm aware of them. My problem was always, not repression or suppression, but expression. What surprised me is not that I found you attractive and interesting. The crazy part is that decided to express it. You know, I don't generally go around the internet and tell women I don't know, that I like them 😄

@UzdrawianiePoprzezDźwięki 14 күн бұрын

@@dakinilover congrats, looks like you felt safe enough to express. Keep up the good work.

@dakinilover 14 күн бұрын

@@UzdrawianiePoprzezDźwięki I've learned to be open on the level of mind, but I'm still closed at the level of heart. Pattern that keeps on repeating in my life is fear of rejection, because deep down inside I don't think I'm good enough to be considered as a potential partner. I'm curious. Do you think you would be attracted to a man solely on the basis of what kind of person he is and not the external things like job, wealth, social status or appearance?

@dakinilover 14 күн бұрын

@@UzdrawianiePoprzezDźwięki Also, Thank you for the words of encouragement and for listening.

@dakinilover 15 күн бұрын

Actually it is possible to reach high level of consciousness without developing emotionally first. I know it's possible, because that is my experience. I'm highly developed spiritually, but at the same time highly underdeveloped emotionally and socially. Awakening, Enlightenment or Liberation is possible, because it's about transcending the identification with body, mind and ego. Identification with the ego may disappear, but the body does not. Life goes on, and whatever psychological or emotional issues are unresolved will have to be addressed.

@UzdrawianiePoprzezDźwięki 14 күн бұрын

@@dakinilover it is possible. Valid point 🍀.

@dakinilover 14 күн бұрын

@@UzdrawianiePoprzezDźwięki I'm astonished... In the video you say with conviction that it's impossible and now you changed your mind and said it's possible. It's a rare thing these days to encounter another thinking human being 🙂

@UzdrawianiePoprzezDźwięki 14 күн бұрын

@@dakinilover i don't remember saying that it is impossible. Or maybe that wasn't what I exactly meant. And if I said that then I meant to extend it which I didn't do because I'm doing, I'm trying different things and then I learn along the way what to improve, what to articulate in a more effective way next time etc and at the same time to be in an indirect contact yet direct through a platform it's a different energy than me just talking in a video. It's good feedback tho. I can take a look at my communication skills again ✌️🍀. And of course I don't mind learning something new from someone's perspective. I thrive in change of self and exploration of the self🌞.

@dakinilover 14 күн бұрын

@@UzdrawianiePoprzezDźwięki I think your communication skills are just fine and your use of English language is proficient enough to make your message understandable. Only thing I don't understand are some spiritual concepts you use. To be perfectly honest I'm a bit of spiritual snob 😀 Whenever I see things like "law of attraction", "manifesting", "channeling" etc., I avoid it, thinking it's stuff for beginners. With you it's different. I actually don't mind that you are interested in this particular brand of spirituality and I don't find it annoying. I think its because of your authenticity and sincerity. I sense this passion for growth behind what you are saying and consider it rare and precious quality in a human being.