"Your value is not determined by who is on your arm or who is in your bed, your value is determined by Who is in your heart". Now that's some deep real talk right there. God bless you daddy.

It seems like women spend so much time praying, abstaining, healing, preparing and waiting, while men are just having fun, with little discretion.

"If You Want to Be Respected for Your Mind, Don't Promote Your Behind." Love it!!!!!!

I prayed for a spiritual father. Think I found one 🙏

"Let Your Dress Code Be Consistent With Your Moral Code."

This makes me so sad. I wish I had had a father like this, instead of such an arrogant, mean, violent bully. I wish I had had a teacher and someone who built me up instead of tore me down. Bless You Pastor Blakes.

Men running game in the Church. I saw this happen first hand to a girlfriemd. When the father is absent, the spiritual father should be addressed. I have both in my life! Queen talking here

So thankful that I’ve found a man, spiritual man who can guide me along this single journey. GOD Bless you and your wife🙏🙏

in order for my teen to keep her phone for the day I required her to listen to this video. I am so grateful to men such as you who share od themselves for women and young girls who don't have proper knowledge. thank you.

Pastor Blake, how I wish you were there for me as my spiritual father in the early 60's ! You would have saved me from many toxic relationships!

Thank u, we need more men like this, Authentic 🦋🦋

THIS is helping me already and I am just beginning. My father was absent to me but present for my sister and she and I were in the same household. I just realized within the past few years that I had Daddy issues and I am now 43. I have MANY things in my life to repair because of this because I don't want MY issues to become my 6 year old sons issues. THANK YOU for doing this.

Thank you Pastor Blakes for helping women to see their self worth. May GOD continue to bless your ministry.

I really enjoy listening to you on KZfaq. Your videos are such a blessing. I am about to be 61. I wish I could have gotten this information when I was younger. I actually think the information that you give is timeless. It applies at any age. I am glad to be getting it now. You are truly a blessing.

Im laughing because i can remember the day and the dress my dad had me stand near the window to tell me that the sun was making my dress see through and I needed to put on a slip. LOL Thanks Dad.

This video speaks volumes. A job well done for your calling. God Bless you

I'm up at 2:23 a.m. listening to this knowledgeable video. Thank you tremendously Pastor, this has helped me so much. I needed to hear this and will adhere and comply.

I have been listening to your teaching Utsube videos. I am going thru a season of my life as I have never experienced before. No words could explain. I found you... and I am being helped by these teachings more than I could ever tell you. All glory to God... I am so blessed God led me to find what I would describe as a divine connection. I praise God...

Thank you for this teaching, this speaks volumes of wisdom to me. My father used to say, "a man will treat a woman like a lady when she acts like one." I would like to have this book and workbook to pass on to my granddaughters this wisdom. Thank you, I am in Phoenix Az.

Please explain husband privileges vs boyfriend privileges in a video one day please.

Jehovah bless you.Your reward awaits you in the Father's Kingdom. I can't thank you enough

I'm buying it for my daughter. Her dad, a really good guy, loved her with all his heart, died 3 days before she turned 2 years old. She is now 20. I wished I found this long ago.

Thank you so much pastor for your teachings. My eyes have opened and ears have heard things I didn't know. Have shared with many, love from the United Kingdom.

Yes sir thank you our spiritual father.. when we step out of ego the message is quite clear...thank you so very much.. You are a vessel that Jehovah God is using to answer some of my most serious question..thank you again Love you so very much!!!

You are like my natural father to me I’m always talking to God about mine and how I do miss him But long story short I don’t know how I came across you but you have been a blessing to me I listen to you in my sleep with my ear plugs until I get up. You have hit all topics especially the narcissist that my husband down to his core ive been married to him 41 years and can’t take much more I been praying and I know that divorce is near keep teaching you’re awesome

Please don't ever contemplate or debate whether you should bring a message, and please DO be radical lol ..some ppl only understand radical, it might be what saves their lives! Many of us, young, old and in-between need these messages, during various times of our lives! So many women are in pain, and either your messages will prevent the pain, or help them to recover from the pain; I'm currently in recovery! God knows who needs to hear, He/She who has an ear to LISTEN, let them hear what the Spirit of the Lord is saying...God isn't soft, sometimes He's quite radical, so we know He calls some of His sons/daughters to be just as radical! I also love how hilarious some of the messages come across to us LOL! I appreciate you and your Mrs Blakes transparency, you're helping us! Keep bringing what God tells you to bring to us, and the way He tells you to bring it!!!

I love this. And I love your delivery... Keep them coming. Thanks Pastor

Oh my goodness, thank you so so much. Better late than never. You are a blessing.

Thank you for showing up in my feed earlier this year. You have truly been a blessing and I'm in my early 50's. I can see clearer now that the lies are being torn down and the truth is prevailing. Keep doing what you're doing. You are truly a blessing for women, for men and the entire body of Christ!

Your talks are always right on point. I'm happy to have come across your videos. May God continue to bless us through your words of wisdom🙏❤️

I really enjoy listening to Daddy Blakes!

Good wholesome teaching much needed thank you!

This message is 🔥 🔥 🔥 !!! Very powerful message. Not only am I sharing I am buying the book !!! Every woman needs to hear this message. I am already looking forward to the other parts to this message. Blessings Pastor ! Thank you 🙏

I love you pastor Blake’s, such an inspirational father and teacher.

I'm grateful for this message Bishop Blakes . I'm a single woman who didn't have a Father figure growing up . I really desire to be a Queen in the Lord... your messages enlightens me . I just ordered your book and the study guide from Amazon I really desires this teaching. I listen to your teachings daily . I'm excited and can't wait to receive this spiritual education for my life. 🙏🙌 I will not take this for granted because I want to be heal, delivered and set free completely within. After this I'm gonna order Queenolgy as well . May God continue to use you and Mrs. Lisa Mightly Sir !!🙏 God Bless!!❤ Sincerely Ms. Juanita Marshall

Very True!!! Wow, I MUST TUNE IN ALL THE TIME. 😕WISHED I DIDNT HAVE TO. SO THANKFUL I HAVE FOUND YOUR TEACHINGS. THANK YOU SIR.

First time Colorado I really appreciate your time and information pastor thx

Thank you Pastor for this book & video. You definitely have been a father type by way of your videos to me. I can't wait to go back to NOLA & visit your ministry possibly with my ministry Virtuous Queens Ministry.

So powerful!! Thank you !!

Praise the Lord! I needed this!

May God continue to bless him and his loved ones...One

Thanks for this.

This is beautiful....

I thank you for being who you are sir! Wjat a blessing for your honesty. Sometimes I want you tod say it how you really want to say it! You have stopped yourself out of respect. I like that too.

PASTOR BLAKE I ENJOYED THE FATHER TALK! PLEASE HAVE A BLESSED DAY!

POWERFUL!!! THANKS BISHOP!

Great video Pastor RC Blakes.

Thank you I really appreciate it. I wish I came across this sooner.

Thanks for this message pastor this my first of heiring your message from France bless you oh

First time listener Sacramento, California Beautiful Messages

I just came across one of your messages online, and it was quite by accident... I don't even know now which one it was, because I lost signal immediately after, and had to SEARCH to find you again. The important thing is, I DID find you. I am so grateful to have happened onto you're messages, because I NEEDED TO HEAR what you have to say about

Great messages,thanks pastor

Omg the Intro is through and through funny! The hearts on the right side 😀

Everything I would want to say Love and Peach said it for me.Ditto, Ditto, Ditto!! Thank you!!

I Appreciate You So Much Like You Don’t Even Know....

You're so right pastor! My father past on in 10/ 11 2001. A few years before his passing I said to him, "daddy, I wish you'd been a better husband to moma and a better father to us". To which he said, "you do, why do you say that"?" BECAUSE, if you'd been a better husband, moma would've had to become so dominant, trying to raise 4 boys and trying to teach them to be men. And 2 girls, to be women who would choose good husbands having no example." Nor model to learn of. Having no example of the invisible husband to pour into our empty vessels. When her cup was empty too. My dad paused a moment, looked up and said, "I guess you're right". To which, I said, "I know I'm right". He then softly said,"yes, you're right". " Daddy, I said strongly, just think of it. What ever good you see in us would've been multiplied so many times over! What ever we've accomplished is nothing compared to what we would've achieved! My brother's would be better men, more equipped to make wise decisions and become better fathers themselves. And my sister and I wouldn't have chosen the broken males we chose to be mates and fathers of our children. Daddy, you were a rich man and you had no idea. You were extremely rich and didn't know"! When I was finished speaking, I remembered that he too, just like us, had been robbed of the nutrition of a good father and was just existing and functioning from malnutrition of the worst kind. And he grew up with his dad in the home with him! I left off from speaking and just felt a deep sadness. Neither he nor I had any more to say. I suspect he felt the same sadness. In the end, to find peace and charge no man, I had to trust what the LORD allowed. I find that when I considered that this was HIS WILL; peace remains with me. It's only when I judge the human vessel that my judgements of man go all the way back to Adam and Eve! Which carries a weight to hard to bare. But my heart calms down and mind settles. And I'm much lighter. When I decide that THE LORD MADE THIS VESSEL AND ALL VESSELS TO A DISTINCT AND EXACT MEASURED EQUATION ACCORDING TO HIS PERFECT, PRECISE PLAN. THEREFORE IN HIS WISDOM HE TOOK THE FOOLISHNESS OF MAN AND THE SIMPLEST WISDOM OF HIMSELF TO FIT INTO AND FULFILL ALL HIS PURPOSES FOR ALL DIVERSE TIMES. TO COMPLETE THE GREATEST MATHEMATICAL EQUATION EVER AND NO MAN CAN WRITE THE EQUATION NOR CAN HE KNOW THE ANSWER EXCEPT TO KNOW THAT THE ANSWER IS IN HIS ANNOINTED ONE! HIS CHRIST! Therfore I put my trust in HIM. AND I REST.

Happy Anniversary

I really want to meet you... I just feel like I got to know you personally, your person is just awesome, blunt and passionate, your family is lucky to have you as their leader

thanks

Amen 👏🙌💙

Had to re listen to re calibrate

I met my father at 9 in jail. by 10 he was gone.4 months.at 16 I met him again in Cps custody.he molested me.every since he has lied on me,called me ugly, smeared my name,separated me and my brothers and family cuz he said I’m on drugs and I’m crazy.never did drugs.omg this explains a lot cuz how my dad treated me I can’t possibly be his and need to contact Maury.im his own child he destroyed

all ages and all races...come to Pittsburgh. I am 62.

I have gone to your website to purchase the book but your all out 04/15/19

See you at the top, the bottom is to crowded 👍

Amen!!!!!!

Thank you for saying it-the church is the worst for putting pressure on singles

RC 27 mins in the praying etc just went through this. Say hello to the new and improved me!! My dad says its about what you have in the bank not what you show materiallistacly or what you wear (unless you can afford it) and you know yourself. My dad is full of guidance and has always been straight with me, but did i listen back then..no. Anyway this snow white has turned into princess fiona !

Savannah Georgia

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oh my lord, i was the little..........

Dear. Pastor. R C Blakes. recently. I. was. writing and. explaining. scriptures. in. birthday. cards. to. my. grandkids. as. well. as. sending. presents. then. recently. I. said. I. should. mention. for. the. oldest. boy. not. to. choose. a. girl. that. dresses. provocatively (out. of. the. devill s. closet ). so. thank. God. you. are. preaching. on. this. topic. and. they. have. a. bad. grandfather. that. lies. and. is. unsaved. as. their. babysitter. helper. when. he. gets. home. from. work. .Continue leading. our. future. generations. in. a. Holy. and. Healthy. Way. because. It. Is. Holiness. Or H E. L. L. !!!!

" God has blessed you with a certin kind of body you know enjoy your youth." Hmm.

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Gabriel United Kingdom

Dear pastor, this book is not available on Amazon, where can we find it? Shalom

Yes yes yes, i also got advised about putting a sexy pic as your thumbnail or prof pic is equivalant to sitting in a window in amsterdam 🤣🤣 depends what kind of people you want in your life x

Does your wife teach? And how to connect to her teaching on KZfaq. Thx

Point On!! There is no Girlfriend/Boyfriend in the BIBLE. SPEAK R. C. Blake🙏

Please tell me why it's not acceptable for a woman to wear revealing clothing yet you just said men get captivated by women that walk by who are scantily clad. That is the biggest double standard ever. I am not trying to be mean, I really want to understand this.

Peace Robert, I watched a bit of your youtube post, however, i must point out a few realitys, when a little girl as you say, go out and have sex with men, she not a little girl no more, and she dose have the sense of right and wrong. its the Most High who show compassion, as the Most High Knows, who truly innocent in this. fathers who are with their daughters, go blue in the face, warning their daughters about the world of men, when the daughters don't take their fathers advice, its the daughters who face the consequences of not listening. the natural responsibilities of mistakes as you say. i feel you cant excuse a girl because she a girl. or a young woman from the choices they made. you said you have lots of daughters, and they have made mistakes, even under your guidance. if the child don't listen, and get hurt, then learn the second time. the fire don't recede its flames, because a baby put its hand in the flame. the fire will burn the baby's hand. such is the real for all of us, i agree with you, concerning absent fathers. and the effect it has on their daughters. young women, weather father is there or not, will love the boy or man, she fallen for, weather she have a father or not, they will sneak off, and no man or pastor can not stop her natural sex drive. .

If these women are just searching for their "Father"....why would they have sex with them. I think that is twisted. This is why I also don't understand men who turn gay and then say they didn't have a "Father" and that's what they feel they missed....where does having SEX with these men come in. If it's a "Father" that they want, why not just keep the SEX out of it?

I agree with a lot of what you are saying but I disagree that the Bible teaches wearing jewelry and makeup is legalism.

Also school uniform dress code for girls is wearing skirts ... That also promotes sexuality in the minds of all male gender of that school 😵

What I would like to know Pastor ears why are you giving women a pass you the father was not there then who does the responsibility lie online to get the door together I’ll answer that for you the mother and she failed

If you want to be respected for your mind , stop promoting your behind

The pastor wife was ministering in tight jeans from the pulpit on FB. i stated wow those jeans tight. The husband, who is the pastor argued me down there was nothing wrong with it. I said she tempted every man in that church. smh

The way you dress can warrant unwanted attention of the worst kind listen to him before it's too late

This video speaks volumes. A job well done for your calling. God Bless you