"a woman is responsible for her own actions once she is aware" is so powerful 🌱 Thankyou!

This is truly what women are going through and they need to hear your message at a young age. Abstinence is the only way!

Stop condemning yourself! Thank you Lord, go and sin no more!! Forgive yourself... God is merciful.

All I can say is Wow, wow, wow. Your teachings hit home on so many levels. I have tears for the little girl (in me) who never received this from her father. And gratitude that you have made this your calling. You can't imagine how enlightening this last week has been for me. I am forever changed. 😭😭😭

I had a male figure in the home but he never taught me a single thing about men or respecting myself .MR.Blakes your knowledge has been a light in a dark tunnel thank you!

I've been watching your videos everyday. I grew up without my father, so I spend time trying to grow in this area and also applying this to my life. Thank you!

Mr. Blakes, this video bought me to tears. I was totally vulnerable to an older man in my teens, he told me exactly what I wanted and needed to hear and the things I did with this man, I haven’t forgiven myself until now. All I have been doing is repeat the same cycle over and over again. I am now on the path to forgiveness, from the Lord, and mostly, myself. Thank you so much and thank you for that sunrise sir.

I love your messages, Pastor RC. I'm a recovering sex addict so I need the truths you preach from God's perspective. Your messages have really helped my recovery. Bless you.

Why do father's only tell girls not to get pregnant? There's so much at stake for a young lady.

So true, Ive been sexually imposed upon in EVERY relationship! My personal feelings & morals meant nothing! Their sexual gratification at the end of the day was more important. This is why I choose to remain single.

I'm 59, when I was a little girl I was always told to keep my dress down. Thanks for teaching me HOW TO KEEP MY DRESS DOWN. 💃

This made me cry. I am a sixty year old white woman who has got it wrong all my life. God has blessed me with youthful appearance and attractiveness. Not a boast just a fact that attracting men is not a problem. I slept with both my husband and my long term partner before marriage and have always been unhappy about it. Realised I need to forgive myself. Thank you RC Godbless you and your ministry.

You know what, I once stopped being friends with a young lady who used to attempt to shame me sexually as well as put me into situations with people whom she'd allowed to sexually compromise herself and other friends of hers. This video confirmed that my qualms about stopping our friendship were unwarranted and that my prudence was correct. God's word is true and living. The prudent see danger.

Your profound message touch my soul I'm cleansing in tears.

I cried watching this entire video because this is exactly what I'm going through and I wanna defeat this empty feeling one day. But thank you for this message and I will apply it.

A man that sleeps with you, without being married to you, is attempting to devalue you, and conditioning you, to accept less than what Almighty Father has for you... what you deserve...and need...take your life back...take your power back...take what you deserve back...let go of these jokers that don't deem you worthy of more than what they are only willing to give you...and don't let any man tell you 'God knows my heart'...indeed He does...it's wicked above all things...that's why you need a renewing of your mind...an upright spirit within you...and you can only value yourself, and see yourself as more, when you stick to the truth of what Almighty Father says concerning you...if more women stopped to think about how much power they give these jokers, that their game is only alive due to women not knowing the truth, that game they run would end right quick...you are valuable...you are worthy to be respected...let no man ever define you...if you have Father's approval, you need no man's approval...that right man will find you...the right man will respect Scripture...#womenaremeantformore...#takeyourpowerback #endtheirgame #endthecycleofabuseonwomen

Omg hunters use bait... it clicked. The bait is love, affection, attention and commitment.

Pastor Blake you are absolutely right when you say women feel all they have to offer a man is her sex. Most women are desperately looking for love in all the wrong places. And the majority of men withered they are claiming to be a christian man or not all they want is sex from a women no committed relationship. I grew up with a father who was selfish, arrogance, disrespectful, rude, liar, etc. My dad should have never been married at all. What I learned from my Dad is NEVER find a man like my dad.

This is so true. I can see this in myself. Searching for a father in the men I date. Wow. Thank you for this message.

This has given me life. This is exactly how I felt when I was with my children's father. I would keep and cry afterwards. Feel so unclean and unworthy because I KNEW that what I was doing was wrong and definitely against everything my Father (had taught me). My dad was not in my life at all and I had a few experiences that broke me along the way but I am so glad God kept me. There were lessons learned and the spirit would literally grieve within me be.Thank you God! Sexual integrity is right and good!

Men today are saying they can't fully decide if they want to commit to you without knowing how compatible you are to them sexually. I know that is not true for all men, however, that's what single women are dealing with.

I just experienced a situation where I did not value myself, I walked away broken and disgusted. People looking at from a wordly view think I'm crazy and should just move on but I'm so broken and hurt. Starting over is so hard but I have to. I also emailed you and you never responded. Thanks for your knowledge.

Very Powerful ... 52 yr old lady and cried like a baby ...

Some one had commented on another’s post stating the whole family of men are like this, and yes it’s true they are cut from the same cloth. I know men go thru this too, but women are under attack. Lord Jesus break all witchcraft generations strong holds and Curses off our lives all nations and release out of Heaven sound mindsets pertaining these areas in Jesus Christ name Amen. Let’s pray for one another cause sometimes while we are looking at most women it’s like we’re looking in the mirror on the inside😢🙏🏾❤️

Being EMOTIONALLY SCAMMED! My Lord! This just spoke so LOUDLY to my spirit!! Scam - to defraud: or swindle; to trick!!

I thank you for this message. I had showed my supposed to be boyfriend/ baby daddy ,this he's so narrow minded. So we had to end this non functional soul tie. Now it's on me to save my girls from his male opposition of negative. Pls pray for us.

This is so true. I have accepted that I will be alone the rest of my life because men don’t want a relationship that doesn’t include sex. My fear was to die in that sin and find myself in hell. Eternity can be a women’s goal and hope. God will fill in the rest. His gifts are many. ❤️🌷

"You'll miss a date with destiny, staying married to your history."-RC Blakes

This is deep. Thanks for being so honest and not keeping back anything. This is deliverance.

You find yourself been caught up in that lust of LIFE 👏👏

I hated being sexually perverted. Having sex outside of marriage is perversion as well because sex out of marriage is not God's design!

thank you for this video. everything you have said makes sense. It was hard to watch but only because of that guilt and self belittlement (for lack of better words). I honestly need to hear this and so many girls need to hear this. thank you ever so much!

Psychologically manipulated !!!! Then manipulated for the rest of the marriage.

... Stop lying to yourself you not gonna change anybody, it is what it is! "Accept that you've been sexually scammed, forgive yourself. Wooow thank you Pastor

God bless you and shower you in his infinite mercy brother RC Blakes. I have never heard this type of conversation from fathers, brothers, elders,scholars in my community, unfortunately. We need to hear more of these truths.

Thank you so much. Your ministry has been helping me recognize and understand a number of things about myself as I introspect and work daily at being a better me. I also grew up fatherless and the victim of repeated abuse. Thanks for your advice in achieving healing.

I am very proud of my accomplishments but people ESPECIALLY men beneath me are very jealous of it...

Your videos are so informative and enlightening. I'm grateful. Can't thank you enough!

This was powerful

Thank you Pastor! I speak blessings and for God to continue to enlarge the platform for the ministry He has given you...Praise God!!..the Word is powerful and you present it in a way that is easily understood and raked in. I know I appreciate it, so thank you for being obedient.

Thank you for your ministry. You've been pouring truth & life into me for the past month or so. I truly believe God led me to your site. God bless you.

Thankful for this 🙏🏿. I have a dad and I am very much a daddy's girl. I wish your type of loving care and kindness for all of us women 🤎🙌🏾🙏🏿🫶🏿

I struggle so hard with my faith! But I've never had or heard a man say the things I've heard you saying! Coming from a father figure! I've always felt like I was looking for love in all the wrong places! Temporarily satisfied but permanently unsatisfied through sexual intercourse! Craving intimacy but definitely lacking. My desire is to be married but the quality is poor! I want more. I require more. I appreciate your messages!

Very very powerful!!!!! Continue to be blessed..

Thank you for your honesty. So much compassion in your voice. 🙏

Woww, this is deep! Thanks for sharing your personal experiences and your knowledge with us!🙏🏽

Thank you Pastor, I needed to hear this.

This some hard much needed truth.. the biggest hurt is the blow to the ego... this is a healing word... Thank you

I love the videos and believe that many churches need to have have your studies in the church for women and girls.Written by Jennifer Haynes

Thank you for saying “you may fall on the journey but get back up and get back on track to sexual integrity.” Self guilt is hard to move forward from.

greetings Pastor. I have been watching your video's for a few days. I am appreciative for your sincerity, honesty and concern as it relates to women and your suggestions and advice are full of wisdom. However, I am wondering if you ever address men, their manhood and their lack of respect for women. These video's have helped me in several areas, but what about your instruction to men in the areas of sexual integrity of a man? Respect for a woman from a man? Instructions on sating a woman for a man? God's view of a Godly husband. Women do have standards and obviously, these men are not meeting them. I would love to see those video's as well. Thanks so much and keep sharing wisdom for both genders!

Thank you for your ministry. You've been pouring truth & life into me for the past month or so. I truly believe God led me to your site. God bless you. I'm sharing your videos.

This message has touched me on so many levels Glory be to GOD! Thank you for this very insightful message and being transparent and sharing your testimony I love how you speak on a level of understanding in your messages. God bless you and your beautiful wife Lisa❤

Glory Be To God!! 🙌🏽 For the suffering that led me to You, for your covering along the way, for the anointed life message you have placed in Pastor RC, and for the future that you have placed before me. I’m truly on the journey with you now. #DestinyBound

I've sent this to my friends. Great talks. From Australia

This spoke to me in many ways. I love your videos I watch them multiple times a day. almost finished with your book.

Thank you so much for this. If I had any more tears I would shed them.

Wow. So much. So powerful. So true. I thank God. I thank you.

Forgiving yourself is key. Then allow God to help me change with his word.

You are just wonderful person and so generous in sharing of your wisdom and time! Thank you so very much ! Stay blessed!!!!❤️

Pastor you are truly amazing, sharing your wisdom is truly a blessing! Thank you for sharing your story as well!

God bless you Pastor Blakes, and thank you for being so transparent and honest with your testimony. This really helped me!! Bless you!!

Stop lying to ourselves and forgive ourselves and wait until marriage! Put God first!

Thank you for saying this. I completely relate this. I never had my physical father in my life. But I have a spiritual father and I now understand that abstaining is the only way to get my power back! I never had the chance to choose, i was only 6 and my family turned a blind eye. So as a adult its been up to me to find my way. But when I started to listen to you everthing is comming together. Reach one teach one Pastor!!

Thank you so much for this video! I loved my father and I know he loved me but there was no affection and I never felt a real connection with him. He passed away tragically at 55 when I was just 17 (I’m63 now) and we really were not talking much at the time and I carried a lot of guilt about this for years after, so I know that I have some unresolved issues that have definitely impacted my choices in relationships with men. Listening to your videos has enlightened me so so much and I’m so thankful for you and I just pray that I’m able to apply the principles you teach to help me do better going forward. May God Bless you and thank you for being a blessing to so many. Men and women need to hear what you teach.

Thank you so much for sharing so much truth and your testimony. I truly enjoyed this word, God bless!

Thank you Pastor, I’m listening and getting blessed at the same time. So true.

When people do things like those,it feels like your purpose for living is gone, your damaged,your no longer a whole person anymore.

As always... POWERFUL!

Thank you Pastor I enjoyed the teaching God bless

i'm thankful for your teaching.

Good Word...As long as you are stuck on what you did, you cannot move forward to what you are called to do. Amen.

Everything you say is always on point and the truth.

You never get a date with destiny if you're married to history 👍

Thank you for your message!🙏

Wow This was very powerful for me!!!!!!!!! I thank God for the message......

Thank you. This is encouragement for me to keep doing what I AM doing inspite of being made mockery of practicing abstinence. 🕊⚖ ... and dinner dining analogy was so on point. 🤣😊

A great teacher.

Thank you!

This April 27 2019 I been listening to your videos for 2 days now! Thank You 🙏🏻 Thank your wife too!

Thanks for this Pastor RC....you re saving lives....

Oh how I needed this

Liked and shared !!! GOD BLESS.. Pastor Blakes !! 💙💔

This has blessed my entire life! Thanks for all your wisdom! God thank you for transforming my ENTIRE life! I am open & ready for the life you have for me (is)!

Thank God I have been listening to these words of inspiration it has kept me that I didn’t go backward As lead to this ministry on time I thank God for the ministry

Pastor Blakes you are truly a man after God's own heart and your videos have saved my life! ❤

Great Job. Love this ONE..🙏🏽🧚‍♀️

One of my favourite teachings by him to date.

You have taught me so much! Thank you!

Brilliant advice amazing wisdom

Brother thanks for your word :-) God bless you :-)

Your speaking 2 my heart holy spirit....thank you Lord....thank u Father..and RC..👍🏼😇

Thank you. Felt like god lead me to this vedio glad he did learned alot. 🙏

I agree with so much you say, it is as if what you are saying is about my life.

you are a blessing.Thank God for you😍😄🤗

Pastor Blakes you are the real deal! Thank God you allow God to heal you.. do you can bring this volume of truth to us your spiritual daughters.. God bless you.

You have so many wonderful informative videos. I’m trying to catch up! I watch one on my lunch break everyday. It’s been very helpful for me in these last couple of days. Thank you, Sir!🏆🏅💯

This is so well done. I totally need to write w you. Amazing video

THANK U GOD BLESS YOU‼️💕💕💕💕💕

Awesome Word!!!!