3 STEPS TO HOW THE MAN DECEIVES THE WOMAN - Chapter 11 of THE FATHER DAUGHTER TALK by RC BLAKES

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@intelligentsia8200 6 жыл бұрын

"As a rule, wise women slow down when a man is saying everything right."

@vanaphill2454 5 жыл бұрын

And ask him a ton of questions and express doubt like I do . Players hate questions.

@Luvand4GiveOthers 5 жыл бұрын

Interesting.

@zurigee6 4 жыл бұрын

Ain't that the truth!!!

@Righhhhhtttt 4 жыл бұрын

This is me.. and every single guy that is running game, recognizes this, and the energy shifts.

@Righhhhhtttt 4 жыл бұрын

It sucks, is tiring, but you walk away with your dignity and more knowledge

@jenniferhaynes8625 6 жыл бұрын

Stop talking and use your discernment.Just because he's older doesn't mean that he's mature.Good lesson.Never allow a man to talk less than you.

@cdickersonwhitfield 6 жыл бұрын

Jennifer Haynes So true! I dropped my defenses too soon with a man I dated because he was 10 years older, and I thought he would be more mature and done with games.

@tcjohnson5764 6 жыл бұрын

MsFitness Smh I did that same thing

@cdickersonwhitfield 6 жыл бұрын

Chalk it up to the game. Learn, and move on wiser

@TapIntoAlignment 6 жыл бұрын

Jewels of information for sure.

@dawnknight4379 5 жыл бұрын

MsFitness me too it happens even to big hearted smart ladies...I fit what he wanted and then, well I stood up to him ...I became the enemy

@pantherpanther3666 6 жыл бұрын

"he intentionally works to become your emotional addiction. Addictions are caused by overindulgence...." Holy God. More eye opening wisdom.

@adelineproverbs3139 5 жыл бұрын

That's good stuff.

@lynnvs6372 5 жыл бұрын

Theyll call/text you a million times then you become accustomed to it. Then they begin to pull away and play the games. Silent treatment and easily to anger. Then they begin to triangulate. Theyll call you crazy and paranoid if you ask him about it. But read between the lines. There will be insults.. *your butt is getting bigger* or *I should have dated around*( when you've been married to them for decades. This is all to keep you feeling off balance. When you wake up to it and begin to see it for what it is and not what you want it to be.. you will then begin to see the flaws that they want to ignore and they so often have blamed you for

@missmaddie241 7 жыл бұрын

I wish I had seen this video 10 years ago

@latishamitchell52 6 жыл бұрын

Acti-labs by Maddie Girl yes. 18 years ago for me.

@MysticgrannyMc_96 6 жыл бұрын

Right, I needed this 40 years ago.

@lemonspring6425 5 жыл бұрын

33 years old and happily single now. Made mistakes on these lines all through. Fighting to not go down the regretful way of thinking.

@athenasol1723 5 жыл бұрын

Truth

@charmainwilliams-farrar2559 5 жыл бұрын

Maddie me too girl

@youknowrex 6 жыл бұрын

PHD women deceived by GED men... powerful

@sophisticatedmm3632 6 жыл бұрын

hilarious but so true

@dollieharrell-stewart691 5 жыл бұрын

This blew my mind when he said that.

@denisedenisehuxtable4183 4 жыл бұрын

youknowrex I had to lol at that one

@Dd-po2ij 4 жыл бұрын

Truth. Bless you

@lenahuerta100 4 жыл бұрын

What is GED?

@beauty4ashes49 6 жыл бұрын

Yes,my younger brother told me to be quiet too. He said you are giving away all your secret code. A man need to put forth the time and effort to learn things about you and this will keep you from being emotionally manipulated too.

@tinahernandez7337 5 жыл бұрын

Words of wisdom THKS 👍

@schoolshow94 4 жыл бұрын

I told my daughter that to to keep quiet.

@crystalgrose 6 жыл бұрын

I am guilty of talking too much in relationships. I always talk about what an ex boyfriend did to hurt me, and the current guy will always end up doing that exact same thing. Never tell a man what can hurt you, because most of the time, they will do just that. I know better now.

@BecomingVirtuous 5 жыл бұрын

😢

@Melaninmagicx 3 жыл бұрын

@@BecomingVirtuous 💯

@brees5697 3 жыл бұрын

Facts. Pursue, Engage and Exploit.

@supersizeT1 5 ай бұрын

Same thing happened to me

@suzannejambo1254 5 жыл бұрын

"He over-dozes you with time and flattery, ensures you're addicted to him emotionally, once the sex happens, no more romance or flattery...he changes...I've got a lot going on.."

@angelaharry3814 3 жыл бұрын

So true

@brees5697 3 жыл бұрын

Facts

@vanaphill2454 7 жыл бұрын

Until you are married to him, you don't really have a man. And even then, you still might not have this man to yourself. The marriage maybe be a ruse to project his respectability in public while he continues to cheat on you in private.

@perfectlyyoubeauty 6 жыл бұрын

Vana Phill yes ma’am! This is so true. Came across a snake myself. High ranking military, fought overseas, is clean tidy and organized, impeccably dresses, nice car and clean home. For five months he lied and told me he was single and had never been married. Something just felt “off” my women’s intuition. Come to find out he was married and his wife lived out of state due to military. Met 10 days after they had married. He just wants the status and look of having the perfect life and family but in reality is a total snake and overtaken by Satan and lust. A horrible horrible person. I cannot even call him a man

@Richjunior1 6 жыл бұрын

No hymen no diamond!

@TheMonica82 5 жыл бұрын

@MP And, the Same Applies to You~ Stay Pure for her...

@barbaraseibes4295 2 жыл бұрын

@@perfectlyyoubeauty ĺ

@trailofatrilliontears1045 6 жыл бұрын

I've promised myself 1 year to be single and I'm 11 months in, honestly I'm still not ready. I think it's going to be 2 years. I have a lot of work to do before I find my king. I'm in Pennsylvania and I have adopted you as my spiritual father. I think I'm going to dedicate this second year to God, it feels good to be in his presence again. Thank you isn't even strong enough. I am truly greatful!

@lawill3559 6 жыл бұрын

trail of a trillion tears ....amazing. I didn't put a time frame on it, but it's going on three years for me. I have learned soooo much of myself and life and living. This is one journey that is truly interesting for me. Happy trails to you!!!

@maesams6212 5 жыл бұрын

Iv been single for over 10 yrs, and have no regrets. God is heading this ship!

@vanaphill2454 7 жыл бұрын

Because women believe they they are nothing without a man. And yes we talk too much. Most men are good actors! I tend to be quiet around men. Men always mention how quiet I am.

@sophisticatedmm3632 6 жыл бұрын

Vana Phill same here I'm a natural introvert, I sit back & observe

@fatimasow6887 5 жыл бұрын

Am an abivert. Dont like revealing things about me but I so love asking questions, and I ask lots of them.

@lynetteclay8881 5 жыл бұрын

I would even say that many women have been taught you are nothing without a man.

@makeitcount2985 5 жыл бұрын

I'm very quiet around men

@sweetrose813 5 жыл бұрын

@@lynetteclay8881 I have in my life a man that cares about me very much he gave his life for me. His name is Jesus Christ

@Neneham1966 6 жыл бұрын

My ex narc never overdosed me on words or flattery. He withheld which is a form of abuse.

@vanaphill2454 7 жыл бұрын

When you do talk to a man you date, ASK him questions. Like "where is this going?" If he gets irritated by any questions then, then you have your answer. The good guys are so few and far between, though.

@Richjunior1 6 жыл бұрын

The good guys are in the friendzone!

@johannaalexander2009 4 жыл бұрын

Most definately...For us to be coached in this way, really shows there are alot of Demons out there...In all races you have dogs...but there is more choice on offer in other races, it feels "we" get a rrrrrreally bad deal. If they're not two timing they have an inability to work together & way to stubborn in not looking at the bigger picture & not really understanding we are Queens of All Women! All they need to do is enjoy the experience of having a relationship which can be whatever you BOTH REALLY want it to be. "MEN" see a commitment as a negative...Jail almost! so Queens LOSE! in soooooooo many ways. I don't want to be an investigator... I want to be a Woman. "Other" men will see intellect & beauty & appreciate WHAT they have discovered. I feel "men" need to be denied intimacy for a significant amount of time until they show you truly who they are. Make them chase you...6 months plus...

@johannaalexander2009 4 жыл бұрын

Vana Phill Re: few & far between. Yeah totally agree. So many women settle for having someone there, because they’re lonely so anything is better than nothing kind of mindset. Re: Good Guys. Analysing good guys ie stable jobs, forward planning, steadily moving forward, intelligent, communicative, fun loving, non sexual focussed/predatory, looking in England that “man” courts any race but a black woman. What needs to happen is, friends, need to recommend single eligible decent Friends, abut like how Jews operate. Throw a dinner Party indirectly bringing people together. Unfortunately I’ve never had anyone offer that to me & never heard anyone say so & so introduced us, & I’m so happy & the Wedding is in 2 years! I truly believe those practices can happen if “people” really care & stop being so selfish & self absorbed. In England there’s a saying... “I’m alright Jack!.” With this pandemic now & socialisation will never be the same as we once knew it to be & the Lord being sick & tired of “people’s poor treatments towards each other he’s pulled everything down...Locked It Down. Are Playas playing? Is the grass greener on the other side? They’ve snubbed wonderful choices God has given them, so now it’s done! This Pandemic Is God! He really ain’t ramping!!!! 2 Chronicles 7:13 - 18

@LianeSpicer 3 жыл бұрын

@@khrismoney8888 Damn. You got your answer. Believe it.

@julieanne413 3 жыл бұрын

@@khrismoney8888 🤣😂🤣

@lauraw3338 7 жыл бұрын

God comes before anyone in my life. I'm a divorced single mom who will not date a man unless he's the man God intended for me.

@Dd-po2ij 4 жыл бұрын

Me to. Bless you Its been 3yrs.

@wangminzhangwie1177 4 жыл бұрын

Amen to this

@jaceem4175 3 жыл бұрын

Good for you! Wait on god no matter what.

@edith324 3 жыл бұрын

Way to go girl women of my heart, me never lower my place standards, that's his opinion women talk for that's what u date for? go for a drink or meal and go home, to be soul mates u have to know his soul first even if u dont get togethet.

@vanaphill2454 7 жыл бұрын

Dating is about getting to know each other. You date to get the data! Great insight.

@queenrocksradio2677 6 жыл бұрын

Alot of men gonna b mad at u but woman r grateful for the info! Thanx a million 😘

@NewEyes25 6 жыл бұрын

Sounds like a narcissist to me. "Putting on a costume", wolf in sheep's clothing...

@winterwhite3725 6 жыл бұрын

Exactly what I was thinking. Shameful. Smh.

@checkmate9711 5 жыл бұрын

Narcs are in every race and color. .. Colonialism mindset has made it possible. .. sad for all our communities :(

@MrDDUDLEY10 3 жыл бұрын

Exactly my thought!!

@anointed1302 6 жыл бұрын

We must become wise, women!!!

@teresadavis528 6 жыл бұрын

This is so true. Went out with a guy on only 3 dates. I didn't have to say much, he told me all his business and more without me asking a lot of questions. Found out he was very insecure, lacked confidence, complianed about how much it cost to date a woman and the cost of child support.

@vanaphill2454 7 жыл бұрын

Men need to talk more. And women need to shut up more. Ask him what his plan is. What is he about?

@milz5032 5 жыл бұрын

Doesn't mean he will tell you his true plans

@sweetrose813 5 жыл бұрын

Usually when I find out what that so-called man is about he's pretty vile and disgusting

@sarinakarim2513 4 жыл бұрын

@@sweetrose813 How do you mean can you give an example.

@Dd-po2ij 4 жыл бұрын

Truth bless you.

@user-zx5xw4yw2e 3 жыл бұрын

@@milz5032 Yep. They lie.

@deborahevans2985 8 жыл бұрын

YOUNG MAN, YOU AND YOUR ADVICE ARE PRICELESSSSSS!!!!!!! THANK YOU! Even an "OLD GIRL" like me can use this!

@queenrocksradio2677 6 жыл бұрын

Deborah Evans Amen!!

@daypo2588 6 жыл бұрын

Deborah Evans We touched and we do agree. I've learned how to guard MY 💓

@RCBlakesJr. 6 жыл бұрын

Deborah Evans I LOVE BEING REFERRED TO AS “YOUNG MAN”. 😂 Thank you

@roshellrocmiller2435 4 жыл бұрын

Yes exactly

@Dd-po2ij 4 жыл бұрын

Truth bless you.

@angelablackthorne3026 6 жыл бұрын

Oh, you are so right! We share everything about ourselves not realizing he might just be taking notes so he can figure out how to play you.!!! Ask questions, let him talk! The Game is 24/7!!! It's all about discernment!

@brigettegayle3623 4 жыл бұрын

Wise words indeed. This video should be shown on a daily basis to really help us out of the snare of men. The scriptures are there to back up your point. As a devoted Christian I stayed celibate then married for 17 years and most of every thing that you mentioned I have experienced. Now I’m divorced for 2 years and my parents were both Christians but never take the time to educate us in this simple manner. Hope you young girls take heed and spare your self of hurt and bitterness. May God bless your ministry

@wisesavedone2721 4 жыл бұрын

💯💯💯

@BrittaniMeShay 3 жыл бұрын

“The one that is doing all the talking, is the one that’s being interviewed”... so simple but wow!

@keepingmyfaith82 7 жыл бұрын

Amen.. I realized that this gotta be exactly my problem I talk entirely too much into letting a person know how I feel and think and how much of a good heart I have from this moment on I will definitely shut up 🤐

@maatx9718 6 жыл бұрын

Keeping My Faith same here...which shows imbalance this is what having real female friends is for...women in general need to rebuild sisterhood so we can protect one another just like men do

@jamymahnwankwo1652 6 жыл бұрын

Keeping My Faith 😝😝me too😷

@williamst8 6 жыл бұрын

Keeping My Faith I have the same problem. Dont want a guy to take my kindness ans being genuine for granted

@marianawhitaker7001 6 жыл бұрын

Keeping My Faith Predators love a women who talk alot. What you say is what they will use against you.

@SR77736 3 жыл бұрын

They'll use all that against you.

@adayaluvene9789 8 жыл бұрын

You have bless my daughter and I tremendously. We ate learning together. God is really removing the scales of of our eyes through your teaching. The curse of ignorance will not be passed to my granddaughter in Jesus name. Please continue to let the Lord use you mightly!!!!!

@RCBlakesJr. 8 жыл бұрын

WOW! It's such a blessing to hear positive feedback. Thank you. It's a blessing to me.

@hereisayana8207 7 жыл бұрын

Yes that sounds just like it... the curse of ignorance...

@jenniferhaynes8625 6 жыл бұрын

Adaya Luvene He can save many young women and young girls from heartache.

@rosemarytalbert1198 6 жыл бұрын

Adaya Luvene

@jenniferhaynes8625 6 жыл бұрын

There's no 90 day rule here,it's being a lady and not selling yourself short.

@daypo2588 6 жыл бұрын

Jennifer Haynes sister I'm seasoned sister and I allowed myself to be the victim until. the realization HIT satan is not in a red suit with a pitchfork. He wears a hoody sometimes & might dress casual. be blessed

@maesams6212 5 жыл бұрын

I agree. Ladies, the bible does not speak of a 90 day rule. Man speaks of such nonsense!

@lezel4swarts 4 жыл бұрын

90 day rule doesn't even work

@Dd-po2ij 4 жыл бұрын

Truth bless you.

@SR77736 3 жыл бұрын

rams or does for some people.

@MarsharenaLee01 7 жыл бұрын

"I'm ghetto", but I loooove your talks! I have been listening to this and about to cry! Thank-you Pastor Blakes, just because you have a father, does not mean that there was a good relationship. Mine was very mean and abusive but at this late stage I don't believe that I stumbled upon you by accident. Thank you so very much!

@kibabaker9727 6 жыл бұрын

Marsharena Lee t r u e my dad is cool but no communication.

@glenndeardivapinder2411 6 жыл бұрын

Wow

@mariaocho486 6 жыл бұрын

I could of used this info back in 2000..

@moniquesantos437 6 жыл бұрын

I hear you sista! It looks like youre on the right track. It takes strength to take things for what they are and move foward from there. You have what it takes in you to over come not having a good father for you, and much more... Rely on your heavenly father who would never forsake you or lead you astray. Trust Him. ❤

@cherylwilliams4805 8 жыл бұрын

Thank you for writing this book. Have had two fathers, two Godfathers, two brothers and a host of older male cousins and none of them ever talked to me about this. Had to learn the long hard way, one took my innocence. So thank you for caring about the virtue of women.

@izzymeadows1748 7 жыл бұрын

I wish you were my dad! You are amazing and have taught me so much. An angel walks amongst us. God bless.

@RCBlakesJr. 7 жыл бұрын

zoe benson I am so very honored. Thank you.

@Dd-po2ij 4 жыл бұрын

Agreement Bless you.

@MonroeCarla 6 жыл бұрын

Never had a father in my life. He abandoned me before I was born. Thank you for transparency. Every girl really wants to know these things from a father's perspective.

@mermaidprettymuch 6 жыл бұрын

You wrote a book Father Daughter Talk, omg BLESS YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I wish there was a way to make it mandatory for every little black girl to read this book, forget Steve Harvey. I want every black woman period to read it but definitely age 25 and under. Omg this is amazing. BLESS YOU! I am crying tears of joy, gratefulness, and just a little sadness that I didn't have this in my teens BUT hopeful that a girl just like me can avoid my mistakes by reading your book. I had my father, but there was no instruction from him. He's just a human, he loves me, but was/is unequipped to communicate important things. He therefore left me lost in this world, devoured by wolves. Bless you!!

@RCBlakesJr. 6 жыл бұрын

justinewest87 I am grateful that my message impacted you positively. Thank you for all of your kind words. This means a great deal.

@angelinh.5774 6 жыл бұрын

justinewest87 every girl needs this. Every race, everywhere. God Bless!

@stephaniegreer8294 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you!!!

@stephaniegreer8294 4 жыл бұрын

I've heard all this crab ....thank you!!!

@ginab.4605 7 жыл бұрын

Nothing but the truth. That's why I'm in this mess called a relationship right now. It's time to "abort" this dead relationship. He doesn't deserve me. Everything that you said that the man would do, he did to me. Step by step...

@deloristowner3440 6 жыл бұрын

New subscriber. I am 62, have been celibate over 20 years. Ladies this is a grown man speaking the absolute truth to us, whether you agree or not, whether it hurts or not, it is still the truth! Bishop where is your location?

@nekawatts8567 6 жыл бұрын

I had to learn all this on my own..just recently actually. I'm 43 and on hiatus from dating currently while I am figuring out what I was doing wrong.. running into the same type of men. I laughed when you said women talk to too much because that was definitely me. I'm nervous to put myself back out there because I still feel like I don't trust myself yet. I'm getting there..slowly but surely ☺️

@perfectlyyoubeauty 6 жыл бұрын

Neka Carten Im 40 and on a hiatus as well after a divorce and then a toxic relationship afterwards. I too keep attracting the same type of man... emotionally unavailable, married or unwilling to commit. So I’m taking the time to work on myself, my self confidence and my Godly purpose. That is what is most important and also imparting wisdom to my two girls so they don’t have to go through the same misery that I did.

@Jackson-pf5jb 5 жыл бұрын

"He said that the man works to become the womans emotional addiction" wow that is powerful

@leahmartin3643 7 жыл бұрын

I adopted you as my spiritual father! much love from New Orleans💕💕💕💕💕

@portia547 5 жыл бұрын

I had been praying for clarity. God answered with this video. I was celibate for almost 3 years. Let this game be run on me thinking he was my soulmate (twin flame) silly me. Now I have a painful & nasty soul tie that I've been praying for the Holy Spirit to break. Thanks to this video, I now know better... Thank you so much

@angelaharry3814 3 жыл бұрын

God is good all the time

@lorettar7865 6 жыл бұрын

STOP TALKING,START Discerning. 💘 IT PASTOR.

@imunique10 8 жыл бұрын

@Robert Blakes You should be on TV, Radio,everywhere your voice can be heard!! I need now and needed this years ago! Going to share with everybody I can. Thank God for you and your willingness to share your wisdom. Please dont stop.

@jenniferhaynes8625 6 жыл бұрын

DeeBrealsweet I agree

@rgrateful 5 жыл бұрын

Yessssssss

@shannonwhite6591 4 жыл бұрын

Yesssss amen

@Dd-po2ij 4 жыл бұрын

Real talk and real truth Blessings to you.

@conservative9198 2 жыл бұрын

I totally agree!!

@sapphireblue2987 7 жыл бұрын

a player smelling like bengay LOL😁👏👏

@mailimoorosi2259 6 жыл бұрын

I wish I had a father like you. I would have avoided so much heartbreak & pain that left me emotionally crippled.

@truthiswealth1074 6 жыл бұрын

Lol..." I want you to express yourself , I want you to express yourself " . 😂 I have heard that before . I'm much more wise now of course . Lol...that was spot on . Crafty people want to listen and then capitalize on your needs wants and desires. So true 😣 good thing is , once you know the tricks these people use it's game over .

@fredadukes7173 6 жыл бұрын

I really enjoyed and learned a lot from this message. I know a Narcissist, I caught him in his lies on July, 19 2017 and I gave him his marching orders,and told him that living in darkness will not get his name written in the book of life, and that he need to come to the light, and repent from his wickedness. He is a snake in the grass and one of satan's minions. Have you seen the light CR in Georgia.

@mb5857 5 жыл бұрын

Freda Dukes.... He Doesn't care. Trust me.

@shondathomas7825 7 жыл бұрын

what a true blessing this has been to my life. I've recently started listening to you and I've learned more in these past few weeks than I have my entire life of dating. Thank you for your teaching and wise counsel. May God continue to bless you and your ministry.

@jackiechan4883 7 жыл бұрын

You are God sent your wife is a very lucky woman.

@rosemarytalbert1198 6 жыл бұрын

Jackie Chan

@Dd-po2ij 4 жыл бұрын

Agreement. Bless you

@jaceem4175 3 жыл бұрын

A bless lady!

@RomanNavy87 6 жыл бұрын

Just learned this lesson in a very hard way! Wish I would've known. At least I've wiser now.

@Charoletta77 8 жыл бұрын

This is so good you are describing my life it's been a year and a half seen I broke up and I'm still not ready I need to view my mistakes learn and wait on God and have my ears and eye wide open.

@madebyariesromanari6166 8 жыл бұрын

I'm on 15 mins watching this and you have been ever so right! Its funny because I do have a bad habit of talking wayyyy too much, resulting in me selling myself short. So the wonderful man I'm with currently when we first started talking hushed me. not in a bad way. I will never forget it. I was going on about my life when he said "do not tell me everything about yourself in one day." and I realized that at that moment I had to slow down be quiet. I never understood what he meant about it until he explained EXACTLY what you have said in your video. I am now just putting two and two together. Thank you so much for reminding me to watch when speaking, not saying much and just observe things. I am still watching the rest of the video right now. that man that has said what you reiterated for me, I have been with now for almost two years. I love your videos and I really just wanted to thank you. I just wish I was told this even sooner. keep doing the good work you are doing sir.

@RCBlakesJr. 8 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this with me. It sounds like you have a good guy. Stay connected and let me know how things go for you. Thanks again.

@Dd-po2ij 4 жыл бұрын

Truth. I will not do it again. Bless you.

@genxx2724 2 жыл бұрын

Blabbermouth :). Sounds like a data dump. Men on dates unload while I just sit and listen. Usually I see red flags. Then they want me to do the same. I don’t want to - that’s not how you get to know someone. It takes time and observation. But they make me feel awkward and stiff.

@Mommymilf96 4 жыл бұрын

He becomes your emotional addiction #1 he overdoses you with time #2 he overdoses you with flattery and says everything you wanna hear #3 overdoses with romance, flowers, candy #4 sexual ties

@reddqueen9722 8 жыл бұрын

loved this teaching gave me wisdom on men and their motives. Amen for this one

@2710athena 7 жыл бұрын

THIS IS WISDOM. Thank you GOD for bishop RC Blakes!!!

@culluts2755 6 жыл бұрын

Lol...Did he say "How you gonna be a player smelling like Ben Gay?" Lol......

@marymesk577 3 жыл бұрын

i was dying on that one

@OpulentAristocrat 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂💀

@hereisayana8207 7 жыл бұрын

R.C. Blake, you seem to be very humble with so many people following you !! However you have no idea that what you are doing is very special ! We live in a world where guys do not give out the game, simply because they don't want women to be unable to manipulate and use ! However we really appreciate your giving out this knowledge because a lot of us have not had it and have been hurt over and over by people that have shown no remorse at all..... I could go on and on about this, but I just brought a GPS today so that I won't use my phone anymore as one, but can instead listen to my phone to hear your videos while I drive.

@aluha 6 жыл бұрын

I wish I had found this channel sooner, then maybe I'd know better. Thank you. You're a great person.

@Itsasecret04 8 жыл бұрын

Cornrows at 50 lol

@jenniferwilson1661 7 жыл бұрын

jane doe funny when he say cornrolls at 50... LOL...

@queenrocksradio2677 6 жыл бұрын

jane doe I almost died with dat one haven't laughed like dat in a while ,too much stress ,but God knows I needed this 😂

@kendraphic87 6 жыл бұрын

Omg lol. He is too real! I love it so much.

@sonyawest2550 5 жыл бұрын

Ewww!!!! And the old turds with an earring or earrings!!!!🤪🙄🤨such a turn off!!!!!!

@joymosley8997 4 жыл бұрын

Yes lawd!!!!! And earrings! I hate that. Not attractive at all!!!

@oraclepinkmediumandpsychic2557 7 жыл бұрын

Thank you pastor Blakes you are changing my world . I had a dead beat dad . I'm learning to let my daddy issues go and forgive him so I may move on and have positive relationships with men . First and foremost I need to love myself first and strengthen my relationship first with god .

@paulajames3937 6 жыл бұрын

Liv Black 💯🙏

@shesonyoutube 7 жыл бұрын

please consider doing a tour, the UK awaits you🙌

@RCBlakesJr. 7 жыл бұрын

Ms Gwd I just left London. I love the 🇬🇧

@sorayanasser558 3 жыл бұрын

If a man's actions match his words for the most part he is being real.

@brees5697 3 жыл бұрын

True, for how long though? To what end? Motivation etc.

@sorayanasser558 3 жыл бұрын

@@brees5697 men are very changeable.

@GoogleUser-wy2vv 6 жыл бұрын

People r deceived by thieves all the time

@aishawilliams5933 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you from Trinidad. I gre up with my father but he never had this talk with me. Ive made so many mistakes that its hard to recover from but Im sure my children will benefit from this.

@SuperCookie011 3 жыл бұрын

@AishaWilliams You can, too. It is not too late.

@fefeking3743 7 жыл бұрын

I am in an absolute wowwwww with the things that you've taught me by watching your videos. What I live the most is that everything you teach, you back it up in Scripture! I'm a 46 year old saved woman who's asking GOD to release my husband to me, however, im patient and careful after each video I watch because I'm even more wiser while I wait on GOD. I have an Earthly Father but didn't teach me nor my siblings on any of these things...I have 3 daughter's and 3 sons, however, I will bw purchasing 3 books for my daughters, who's ages are 28 26 and 25, so that they will have the insight, become more knowledgeable about men!

@RCBlakesJr. 7 жыл бұрын

FeFe King Wow. Thank you so much! I'm honored.

@niknatpattywack4293 6 жыл бұрын

Information for my son (16) and daughter (14) to read from your books. I definitely didn't get this information from father/ step father/ brothers...Thanks for this Godly information.

@xaviersanders1553 7 жыл бұрын

overdose you on time..u can jus call it lovebombing

@marciamorrow2367 8 жыл бұрын

All I can say is OMG. Everything you said was so true. It's not true when they say, "what you don't know won't hurt you". It will kill your Spirit and it's so hard getting to that place of healing of the heart and soul. Thank you for loving the Women of God enough to teach us and expose the game.

@Mscoffiedash 6 жыл бұрын

I cried all night feels like I was dieing in my spirit 2/22/18 god I’m worn out! Still throwing up An my hands broke out feet broke out dry spots due to stress! I let him back in just to get broken back down but quicker! I gotta get the book! My dad was killed at 7 yrs of age An my mom had multiple strokes an 3 aneurysm by age 25! I’m tired of it! I only watched your videos first time tonight An I just blocked everybody! I’m goin in isolation an that’s that! I’m still havin diarrhea An right now my stomach is killing me! I don’t want to date no more! I don’t want a touch or nothing! I don’t want to die from a broken heart! I asked God to give me help I haven’t slept since yesterday morning because I needed something which is this! Thank you so much! I love you for this. I can’t waste no more of my life with this shit! I’m following your lead! No more outside influences! I release it I release this!

@perfectlyyoubeauty 6 жыл бұрын

Tai Baby praying for you. I’ve been in the exact same place and it is possible to break free and find yourself in a better place. If needed go no contact, block whoever needs to be blocked and immerse yourself in the Word. Pray, fast and ask for forgiveness for past mistakes. One day at a time continue to stay in the Word, surround yourself with positive people only who have your best interests at heart, find opportunities to serve or volunteer. Pastor Blake’s videos have helped me tremendously to examine why I’ve been involved in the types of situations I’ve been involved in because I’m past the stage of being physically ill and distraught tracked with guilt. Now I want to make sure I don’t repeat the same mistakes ever again. Much love to you. God bless

@melissaann3522 7 жыл бұрын

You are my new absolute favorite pastor! I've watched so many of your videos and they all resonate with me and I thank you SO MUCH! I wish I could come to your services. I'm in New Orleans. Until then I will continue to watch every video. I'm suscribed to your channel and am excited every time I get a notification. God bless you and your ministry!

@RCBlakesJr. 7 жыл бұрын

WOW!!! What an honor it is for me. Thank you.😊

@hereisayana8207 7 жыл бұрын

I will also be getting every notification too !!!

@patriciawoodrome8479 7 жыл бұрын

Robert Bla

@tstyles9690 6 жыл бұрын

Thank You So Much!!!!

@neemyers6869 7 жыл бұрын

Yes I will SHUT UP!!!!! 😇

@syrianmuako9522 6 жыл бұрын

Nee myers

@peninamwaka5637 4 жыл бұрын

Me too!

@wangminzhangwie1177 4 жыл бұрын

Me too

@melzymaile2928 6 жыл бұрын

Been looking for this guidance, for a long time, thank you 😊

@lenahuerta100 4 жыл бұрын

Me too, my entire life 🙏🙏🙏

@joannejoanne7816 6 жыл бұрын

you gotta be careful with some men who are eager to marry. they can be hell on earth. will use you up..ur body, ur resources and all then spit u out to the wayside. been there twice with my ex husbands

@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect 6 жыл бұрын

love lace I've been binge-watching his videos so not sure if he said it here, but slow up whenever a guy starts speeding up the dating process.

@joannejoanne7816 6 жыл бұрын

Ms. Perfectly Imperfect ok and yes that has been the case. thx!

@GIMJ84 6 жыл бұрын

Exactly! I am very avoidant of any man that runs me down and tries to rush me, i do not like it. Anybody who knows what they have to offer as a person (not just material) and is comfortable with themselves will not rush the object of their desire into a hasty decision. Its like somebody running around you kicking up dust so you cant see. Them men I run from

@joannejoanne7816 6 жыл бұрын

D D i agree. wish i would have known better without having to experience it, but lesson learned!

@Neneham1966 6 жыл бұрын

Narcissist.

@charesehoward7576 6 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much. Your lessons I never received from any father figure. I lost my self in one man after another. 3 marriages to men that didn't respect me or my ambitions.

@munchkineatsalotvent9899 6 жыл бұрын

wow you are going to burn in hell God absolutely hates divorce and remarriage

@brees5697 3 жыл бұрын

@@munchkineatsalotvent9899 Forgive much?

@queenqueen4394 6 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 HE JUST WANTS TO GRAB HER LIPS AND SQUEEZE 'EM!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@kendraphic87 6 жыл бұрын

Tammey Ezell lol

@mb5857 5 жыл бұрын

QUEEN QUEEN he should do it next time...SAVE HER!!😷

@BecomingVirtuous 5 жыл бұрын

I almost fell out laughing

@lynettejefferies7248 8 жыл бұрын

Pastor RC Blakes is always on point..love it!

@isrealnation7524 5 жыл бұрын

This confirmed that I'm not crazy the way men try and make me feel

@remixnremake5715 6 жыл бұрын

Yessss...a man at 53 that still says "I'm trying to get on my feet!"....??? please explain that?!

@l.christinejones8164 6 жыл бұрын

"cornrows at 50!?.. my God"😂😂😂😂

@JMeyer1112 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@hereisayana8207 7 жыл бұрын

This is so good to listen to and also very overwhelming !!! This is because I can't believe the things that I did not know which seem very basic, and were used against me !!! WOW ....

@Maylc2001 8 жыл бұрын

Thank you, thank you, thank you! This is so helpful as some of us don't have brothers, fathers, or men in our lives that tell us about these. May the Lord continue to bless you and your ministry.

@hereisayana8207 7 жыл бұрын

Yes, and you know what is interesting to me, is that the guys who do have sisters and daughters that they care about, MAKE SURE that THEY are taught the game, and are strengthened in their emotions so that they do not experience these things !!!! But will turn around and do the same thing to other girls and women who have not had fathers and brothers in their lives to teach them and will feel no remorse at all..... smh

@firstladyqueen5985 6 жыл бұрын

Nicole Horton wow sick

@survivalisattractive6003 7 жыл бұрын

😂"Get down...and stay down...take several seats!" #SPEAK! !! Yes literally lol

@seductruss 6 жыл бұрын

Corn rolls at 50😂😂😂

@lashundalaws2752 8 жыл бұрын

EVERYTIME I play your videos the devil *aka* my bf* flee

@ayeshhas5641 7 жыл бұрын

Lashunda Laws if you're calling your friend a devil, I question your friendship towards her

@firstladyqueen5985 6 жыл бұрын

Ayesh Has i think she met boyfriend cause bf means boyfriend n it means bestfriend.

@maatx9718 6 жыл бұрын

First Lady Queen Right I played something similar about a yr ago and my ex stormed out the room...now Im listening to this as I get ready to start my day and all kinds of memories I calculated wrong are playing back correctly...only when we have the real knowledge and understanding of the teaching can we move forward with proper protection measures in place

@firstladyqueen5985 6 жыл бұрын

Ayesh Has I am pretty sure her words meant that her boyfriend was a deceiving emotional/mental/spiritual terrorist. And when she would play the video around him he would literally say yo bye gotta go (and he probably added, "why you gotta be listening to all that mess for it's gon make you stay single with all that paranoid bs!" I am taking it that it was making him uncomfortable cause he was those (terrible) things.

@firstladyqueen5985 6 жыл бұрын

CreationAffects Creation exactly!

@ELLM1980 7 жыл бұрын

i just recently discovered your videos. ☺ What a Blessing! Keep speaking TRUTH in JESUS name! 👐👏👏👏 Alot of us women need to hear it! 💯

@merianne 3 жыл бұрын

I swear I will not start dating until I get through most of these videos twice. Thank you for your guidance.

@rosalindcooper1672 8 жыл бұрын

I just ordered the Father Daughter Combo. I plan to use it with my chuch's youth program we are putting to together to start Jan. 2016. Thank You Pastor! God bless you!!

@RCBlakesJr. 8 жыл бұрын

I AM SO HONORED!!! Thank you. My office is 594-569-8205 if you have any questions. My email is pastorrcblakes@gmail.com

@jessicagray3632 6 жыл бұрын

I didn't stumble upon your videos by accident. I'm crying and laughing at the same time. I have learned so much.😊 about myself from your videos. lost my wonderful dad and mom 6 months apart when I turned 22. My parents are thanking you from the grave.

@mersase1 6 жыл бұрын

I only wished I knew this in the 70's because I had suffered 30's yrs of pain ended in divorce because of mental & emotional abuse by wrong counceling & teachings that destroyed my hurting soul and been brutality destroyed living in fear & pain constantly by immaturity male & unable to be healed ... To scared to cry because leadership didn't want to pray for me on my hurting state of mind & heart later to find out my X was truly a liar & his belly his belly was his God of pleasure. Left that church never to trust church folks anymore ... 😪😞 Prov 25:19

@faithevolution552 6 жыл бұрын

I have come to think of you as my answer to prayers. You are the father God has brought to replace the father that I never had...I just wish that you were here because right now I need a shoulder to cry on. At least I have your book to guide my future and my daughters future. Thank you for sharing this with us.

@JOYELLE93 6 жыл бұрын

This is really on point. Most men do ask you all about you but never really talk about themselves.

@izzymeadows1748 7 жыл бұрын

I wish you'd been my dad...bullets of truth right there. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for keeping it real and shedding light. Love from the UK.

@RCBlakesJr. 7 жыл бұрын

zoe benson Thank you. I'm honored, I just left London last week.

@melodyevanshailey9428 6 жыл бұрын

Yes Sir ". We have to listen to learn.And learn to listen."👑

@tytrenamcdonald5849 3 жыл бұрын

Wow! You are the only real pastor who proves to be a true spiritual father.

@teresabakke7400 7 жыл бұрын

This is the best video. I am sharing this with everyone I know (please write a book for single women). Your Wisdom is off the charts!!! Humor is a gift from the Lord.

@gwadkarukera 6 жыл бұрын

I just want to cry😱😭

@NellyMacharia 8 жыл бұрын

Ooh now understand how that fool got to me oow Lord! I couldn't shut up I was running my mouth like some dem! fool all the time MHH.....and eventually gave him the ammunition to play with my heart at least I am learning something.

@teresabakke7400 7 жыл бұрын

Nelly Macharia same here Nelly!

@queenrocksradio2677 6 жыл бұрын

Nelly Macharia Gurl don't feel too bad it happens to da smartest of women lesson learned hun 😘

@sistalucomedy4160 6 жыл бұрын

Whoa my God!! This was me too. Cant believe I made it 40 yrs and became a new fool smh. It didnt last long but I was so intent on telling him (and God) what I wanted and thats exactly what I got too. Thankful to my heavenly Father for deliverance. That soul tie was hard to break but its broken

@lynnmorris8659 6 жыл бұрын

Yep. My daddy and my brother have told me the exact same things that you spoke about in this video. Thank you so much for sharing!

@Learninghowtorebuild 7 жыл бұрын

maybe I should get this for myself and pass it on to my daughters.

@hereisayana8207 7 жыл бұрын

Maybe ????

@joelder1318 7 жыл бұрын

Thank you, thank you and thank you again. A painful lesson I had to learn, but I thank God. I am free at last. Smarter, stronger and closer to God than I have ever been.

@jenniferwilson1661 7 жыл бұрын

POWERFUL video!!!

@lashawnward1306 7 жыл бұрын

I Need this Book to give to myself when i was 21.. Thank you Lord For Blessing us with the Pastor powerful Words..😊🎂

@godsdaughter2185 8 жыл бұрын

You are speaking to many and especially me! Flesh produces death ...powerful healing words of wisdom !

@daniellem.4815 6 жыл бұрын

My spiritual father....is no longer here and I am 44 years old, but, I have adopted you as my spiritual father as well. Thank you so much for daring to tackle the issues that others will not touch! Bless you!