The First Girl (with Shannon Beveridge)

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8 ай бұрын

A lesbian rite of passage - getting your heart broken by the first girl you love. Shannon Beveridge joins Mal to share her story of a "co-dependent friendship" turned to secret relationship, the emotional rollercoaster of being in love with someone who will never come out, and the impact of being outed to your family. Don't worry though - it all turns out okay.
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@shelbylau7595 5 ай бұрын

The constant "I love Kevin" is so funny lmao

@junetakesover 3 сағат бұрын

for me its the "I don't know what's going on" 🤣

@aindiramanayake1207 7 ай бұрын

I love Kevin needs to be a movie titles for a lesbian romcom

@kakatrueman1035 5 ай бұрын

Hahaha it cracks me up because my husband’s name is Kevin 🤦🏻‍♀️ 😂

@viktoriiashkurenko2849 6 ай бұрын

This is amazing, a podcast about lesbians hosted by a lesbian, aaaaaa, i needed that

@someoneelse7629 8 ай бұрын

Shannon, the Internet needs more of you, please come back and bring your visdom to us.

@movsess 7 ай бұрын

i haven't heard Shannon talk in years, was she always this funny and charismatic? 😅 i was cracking up the whole ep

@jesselox3470 6 ай бұрын

I didn’t remember her being this funny either! Not that she wasn’t i think she was just shyer

@user-ze6nr4yc8z 6 ай бұрын

That's what I thought! I remember watching her in her Cammi-era and erlier and I thought she is so beautiful and was very refreshing with all that gay stuff. But also i thought she was kinda plain or even boring by herself, without cheerfull Camdon by her side. This video instead shows how funny and smart she is. Maybe she just matured or became more confident. Probably both. What a nice podcast!

@ronnieoren 3 ай бұрын

she's funny as fuck when she's comfortable! and also in this interview she's super hyped by the host, I mean the way she's laughing just gets the ball rolling just like in old shows the crowd laughing just made everything funnier!

@tiger2046 28 күн бұрын

Omg I have been thinking this since she started doing podcasts. Go watch her podcast episode with gabby windey it’s hysterical they are both so funny on it and bounce off eachother it’s great

@sidewalksurf800 7 ай бұрын

The “this is why people like making out” definitely hits 💯

@yudie2 8 ай бұрын

That first "relationship" with a woman is super intense. It really is just the two of you against the world. It's super heavy. It's definitely a right of passage though. If you can get through that, you can get through anything lol.

@chelsea3177 6 ай бұрын

Truly! I somehow ended up marrying mine, but we didn't fully come out until 2 years into our relationship lol

@yudie2 5 ай бұрын

@@chelsea3177 Congratulations!! You got lucky lol! I wish y’all many blessings!

@whodis2792 7 ай бұрын

South of Nowhere was my gay awakening tooo!!! I'm a happy 32 yr old lesbian now because of it.

@Katie_kay29 7 ай бұрын

It was the show of our generation. We all have that South Of Nowhere story 😊

@ronnieoren 3 ай бұрын

YO SAME

@ericacarrera1542 2 ай бұрын

Yesss 🙌🏻🤙🏻

@tomatosoup4641 Ай бұрын

SAME.

@Maxwell20946 8 ай бұрын

I would love to see Zolita in this podcast, too❤

@karlie_babe 6 ай бұрын

Shout-out to anyone else that came out after watching South of Nowhere 💗✨

@shelleyramos7808 2 ай бұрын

Scrolled down looking straight for this comment lol

@eufalkao 7 ай бұрын

I honestly don't know how I ended up here, but as soon as I saw Shannon, I had to click on the video and I'm just so happy and can literally relate to everything. Also, this host's laugh is precious. Hahaha. Haven't finished the video yet, but I just know I'll have to come around again. Much love from Brazil!

@justinesprice9782 7 ай бұрын

This podcast is so important, i feel so seen 😭

@CrimsonCutie08 16 күн бұрын

Thank you, Shannon for sharing your stories. I only discovered you a week ago, I wish I knew you 10 years ago. I feel like I have many similarities to you. Thank you, I am so very glad I found you :)

@taracruzan5908 7 ай бұрын

As a lesbian in her mid(ish) 40’s, from Texas , I really enjoyed this episode. Not my exact story but I related to it a lot. My age, being from rural Texas and being in the military under Don’t ask Don’t tell, I could tell you some stories lol. Glad to see this channel and the stories you are telling.

@gills77 6 ай бұрын

Damn! What was it like under DADT?? IDK if you feel comfortable sharing, but I can't imagine. It's a whole other layer. ❤️

@shannonclaro934 8 ай бұрын

I love the laughed of the Interviewer😂 it made me laughed also😂

@tiger2046 28 күн бұрын

I felt like it was so fake like the guest would say anything slightly funny and she was like HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! I was uncomfy I even felt like Shannon kinda gave her sideye

@cmerry3996 7 ай бұрын

Enjoyed this podcast- great that it was a deep dive into a particular experience instead of the same old interviews!

@SaloYD 7 ай бұрын

UGH this is a podcast I didn’t know I needed. I feel so SEEN ❤

@vaniaroquegarcia7369 2 ай бұрын

This ep. is so perfect! I've sent it to my best friend, she lives in a country that have always forbidden same sex relationships and LGBTQI+ community, and for that fact and lack of her fam acceptance she's having a very hard time on coming out. So thank you so much for this kind of podcast 🙏🏽❤️

@Tara........ 8 ай бұрын

It's great to see Shannon back on youtube!!!

@tenzero5274 7 ай бұрын

No fr the first girl is so diff from the first love cause it’s just the secrecy, the trauma, and the new emotions it’s so intense, scary and exciting… def an experience..

@litndexter8127 4 ай бұрын

Shannon your intellect is ICONIC. You framed and put every thought with so much clarity. Each word hit home!

@ginbrasilchick6247 7 ай бұрын

Wow, thank you so much for this podcast Shannon, I have been watching you forever and I love this podcast the most. This was sooo real, raw, and I could identify so much. ❤ 😊

@iamzulfiyamusic 7 ай бұрын

This is absolutely relatable on every level. Thank you so much for sharing and for being you.

@itsokmaybe 7 ай бұрын

Loved it, it was my first time watching the podcast. I’m 27, came out like a year ago and I’m glad I found you girls, its kinda scary to try and figure it all out at first

@MustacheKat16 6 ай бұрын

I don’t usually podcasts but i love this episode. The intense friendships is soooo real and difficult Its like still being stuck on your first love and its so much more intense I had also threatened to be outted by my girlfriends best friend and hearing it from someone else. Just this podcast was so helpful go hear

@loimieforsman2305 8 ай бұрын

I could relate so much with this episode. ❤ so inspiring and feeling not alone.

@PatEleonore 7 ай бұрын

South of Nowhere was intense! Wayyy before its time! I binged it again in adulthood. Salute to those lesbos 🫡

@BluesyHearts 8 ай бұрын

This is so amazing am so glad I get to hear lesbian stories I can relate too❤

@Mtnsunshine 7 ай бұрын

Just found this podcast/YT channel, and I’m so glad I did. Very professional.👍 I’m sure it will help a lot of people! I grew up in the same time of NO representation. Thank goodness that has changed. But more healthy representation has to continue to happen. Your channel is a good example of what we, and the world, needs. Thank you for being here. 🙏 🏳️‍🌈

@DC-1313 8 ай бұрын

Totally relate in so many aspects, thank you for sharing this amazing conversation! ❤

@bhanchique8294 6 ай бұрын

Shannon is funny! and they both connected so well it made the podcast easy to listen. you can listen to this repeatedly still equally funny and interesting

@pipersullivan7144 8 ай бұрын

This has been my exact experience like to a T of my first and confronting being gay in a small religious community. I thought I was the only one so THANK YOU. This makes processing it so much better and provides more understanding. Gives me courage and hope🙏🏼 thank you thank you thank you

@danijelasaric5738 8 ай бұрын

Been looking forward to this excited for any Shan B content 😁

@LewTurysta 7 ай бұрын

Omg I relate so so much to this, thank you for this episode, IT IS SO GOOD TO KNOW THAT WAS NOT AN ALONE EXPERIENCE. Thank you so much, I can't even.. omg

@areliandino3700 7 ай бұрын

My first love was like this almost to a T except our relationship & friendship didn’t survive. I used to carry the weight of her secret and now I don’t. Respect & gratitude for the honesty Shannon

@Maria-kv5uy 8 ай бұрын

This was so good.. so relatable. Thanks for sharing!

@lonegabalebatse9356 7 ай бұрын

the host has the cutest laughter 😄

@Aveeguides 7 ай бұрын

I came out in 2009, during my freshman year of high school. Through middle school I knew I was gay though. So when we would change for gym, I would go to the back row of lockers. I don’t remember having a conscious decision to do it, I just remember feeling like it would be wrong to see my friends undress. My friends were always like, “You don’t need to be embarrassed! No one is judging each other. We all have stretch marks, etc.” But my gay ass was like… Only one of my friends ever came up to me after I came out and was like, “Was that why you wouldn’t change with us in middle school?” Now as an adult, it’s whatever. But I think it’s normal for teens to have a heightened conscious about sex and sexuality.

@daciab 3 ай бұрын

Shannon’s rizz is through the roof, makes me want to try the gum in the mouth move 😂😂😂😂

@joannecotterell3965 6 ай бұрын

How have I only just found this podcast. Killing me with laughter here :)

@stephanyfelix319 8 ай бұрын

Amo el podcast, el contenido que necesitaba

@alecn2328 7 ай бұрын

Can't wait to listen more story of people journey. The similar and different of how each of you go to find yourself and accept is crazy. South of Nowhere was a great show it help.

@rachelkapicak6215 3 ай бұрын

I found Shannon’s KZfaq videos seven or eight years ago when I was just beginning to come out to myself and they were such a life saver. She was the first girl that I could see myself and my experience in. She was the first gay girl I followed that gave me hope :). So cool to see her journey.

@miley_miles1165 7 ай бұрын

Listening to this podcast definitely bring back some memories on my college days. All I can say I am so happy right now to finally found the love of my life...currently planning how we are going to spend the rest of our life together 🙂

@moons4363 7 ай бұрын

So happy for you sis❤

@ROCKONplaceboforever 5 ай бұрын

Found this podcast through Shannon and I'm obsessed ❤ 🌈

@beatrizfabiano4165 7 ай бұрын

I want this podcast to be huge. Absolutely loved it ❤

@ilianaconilatina 7 ай бұрын

I really like to listen both of you, It felt like a sweet safe space. Thank you

@rNeyshabur 8 ай бұрын

This was so good!!!

@ayotiffany1016 7 ай бұрын

I'm really in love with this podcast

@anaa9245 7 ай бұрын

Wow Shannon and you are the coolest! Great podcast episode ❤

@RoguePanda93 7 ай бұрын

I was 7 when the music video to All The Things She Said by t.a.t.u was released. That is all the representation I needed to understand who I was and who I liked. There was representation, just not a lot like today.

@jenemm2741 7 ай бұрын

I was 14 and that video was such a huge thing for me ❤

@farizathabet818 4 ай бұрын

We need a movie/serie of shannons life 😍

@th-bx6bq 8 ай бұрын

The way i knew immediately it was Erose who gave the "7 weeks to get over a breakup" advice, and they then confirmed it on ig lmaoooo. Great episode and i love the host, shannon as always is a great guest. That girl's lived many lives

@aulestiastudio 7 ай бұрын

Great video! Very informative! The two of you are very intelligent and funny.

@3Oh3metrostation 8 ай бұрын

Shannon is the best human being ever. Looooove her

@dawnriddler 5 ай бұрын

The whole not seeing it for yourself because you couldn't identify with what was around is so relatable!

@olix1466 2 ай бұрын

Agh thank you yt algorithm 😭 this podcast has been SAVING MEEEE-- started with Ali & cried so much omfggg.. & this ep had me laughing & smiling so much,, going thru so much queer trauma but Im strong & Ik i got this. Thank you for helping me get thru the day.

@anaraposo6642 7 ай бұрын

It breaks my heart listening to your story... I'm so sorry for you and your girlfriend. Also, I find myself thanking the Universe or whatever for being a late blooming lesbian. I would definitively not have the strength to go through all that in my teenage years!!! Just came out to myself (and whoever wants to know :-p) about a year and a half ago, at the beautiful age of 38 🤟

@keatonmask1918 7 ай бұрын

omg South of Nowhere! i just scoured the earth to find that show on DVD because it’s not streaming anywhere anymore haha

@savagemittens9749 3 күн бұрын

The absolute ANXIETY I felt when she was talking about the parents coming in and saying we need to talk to her. Just. Oh god.

@mallorypacific7936 7 ай бұрын

This podcast is so validating. My stories about coming out/first girl/etc always felt so isolating. I love that you’ve cultivated such a community.🫶🏼

@ambertheanxious 5 ай бұрын

Oh my god so relatable about changing in other rooms and not looking when other girls would be changing lol I was terrified

@antoniacristiano1801 8 ай бұрын

This was really great 😊

@user-my2ew8ep8u 8 ай бұрын

Great podcast, you are doing a good job

@maureenkinyanjui3979 8 ай бұрын

iam going through this phase at the moment, and its so hard since i don't know any queer people in our small community, thanks for this.

@mrc2205 6 ай бұрын

Ok this podcast is becoming a favourite for sure, always lots of laughs. Shannon has always been funny when I’ve seen her on other pods.

@sukhpreetgrewal5090 2 ай бұрын

I can relate to all the part about family, friends and coming out. I am 28yrs now.. who had crushes on female teachers and friends in her childhood but never acted on those but now totally confused as I am thinking if I am Bi but too scared to come out which is mentally stressful now. Can related to both of your experience. Much needed talk. Thank you.

@britpoppansy 3 ай бұрын

Dude, the part about the baby monitor -- M O R T I F Y I N G.

@jamilaanderson7505 8 ай бұрын

Great vid!! 😊😊😊 I found this channel tonight!! I'm a new subscriber!!

@coachholly21 7 ай бұрын

"Tumblr - the lesbian Mecca." Can confirm 😂 I met my wife on Tumblr nearly 10yrs ago

@jessicatjoa3573 7 ай бұрын

these experiences are mostly universal for lesbians out there and while watching - i was thinking about this one particular girl who i was obsessed with

@SVega-v3w 5 күн бұрын

Thank you for this!

@olikah4667 18 күн бұрын

I thank the algorithm for bringing Shannon to me. I connect so much to what she’s saying. I haven’t been outed. However, I’m a queer woman in a backward African country. I can’t wait to leave and find me my wife and live happily ever after 🫶🏿❤ Happy Pride month, Queers 🏳️‍🌈🌈

@Rexxie00 8 ай бұрын

Love this🥰🥰

@kokoschultz 8 ай бұрын

How did we all have a lesbian P.E. Coach lol

@MadeItOutPodcast 8 ай бұрын

UNIVERSAL EXPERIENCE

@brittanyjacobsen6508 7 ай бұрын

My son went to Catholic private school and had a lesbian PE teacher haha

@BluePatriotWinner 4 ай бұрын

Catholic all girl high school. Two lesbian PE teachers in the early to mid '70's😂

@pottertardis9706 6 ай бұрын

Shannon is amazing I love her

@scarlet_._rose 5 ай бұрын

Soooooooo relatable 🙌🏻🙌🏻

@toxikgreen 7 ай бұрын

I see chemistry here

@maricv9710 7 ай бұрын

I neeeed "I love Kevin" merch

@mag8812 7 ай бұрын

Wow, this is so relatable! Despite I'm a full-out lesbian for 10 years since I was 17, I recently experienced this "intense friendship vibe" from one of my work colleagues (in her 40s), without knowing, for almost a year! I considered her behavior towards me open & fully aware! But wait, after I confessed some feelings to her, this woman denied any "romantic feelings"! .. only a year full of drama, jealousy, possessiveness, obsession, total adoration, and an intense friendship vibe. :D And now she hopes we will continue "our friendship" like nothing happened. xD

@truGEMini01 Күн бұрын

Is it weird that I wanna know more? Lol sounds like she’s definitely into women but hasn’t accepted it.

@eshevlyakova 8 ай бұрын

A very interesting podcast, thanks for the lesbian content))

@lizhernandez4997 Ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your story ❤

@Swimdeep 7 ай бұрын

Listening to both of your early lesbian experiences echoes coming out 50 years ago. So weird how despite all the progress and changes, the social stigma remains remarkably the same.

@jamierogers592 7 ай бұрын

Best podcast ever. ❤❤😂😂

@DanielleCoscarelli 4 ай бұрын

This is dead on. Thanks for the humor

@UrsaKyma 7 ай бұрын

She is super cute 🥰 My first girl was my best friend for 2 years first and then we admit to each other that we are in love and having amazing relationship for 8'years... but that was over because she wanted a family with a man and a child... soooo... bisexual women., which are my gulity pleasure 🤣 but... the love between us was real... still is... but nowdays on a friendship zone.

@jn3378 6 ай бұрын

your laugh is everything, I could listen to it all day hahaha

@cldell1987 8 ай бұрын

This was amazing!

@colourfully21 8 ай бұрын

Omg, listening to your experience I came to the realisation that my best friend in highschool may have been in love with me, and I did not realise! I thought we were just really, REALLY close. Looking back, there were A LOT of signs. The friendship ended shortly after I slept with my then bf and I never figured out what happened. She got really mad at me afterwards. I always thought it was, because (for what ever reason) she wasn't the first one I told. I feel really stupid.

@claddagh143 Ай бұрын

I am pretty sure I was in love with my bestie from high school but I am asexual, so I was SOOO confused during that time. I kept asking people if you could be "half in love with someone" because I was always told that IN LOVE was something that was love plus sexual attraction. But our relationship (at least on my end) felt super intense. I remember thinking it was possible I COULD fall in love with her for real if we were given more freedom to spend time together. I am from a Southern Baptist upbringing, and didn’t want that to happen, so I purposely chose a different college than her. It took me a long time for those feelings to fade into fondness and not what I had been feeling before. And it was years after that I learned what asexuality was. So now I consider myself a Sapphic Ace. Lol. I sometimes still wonder what would have happened if I had known better what was happening at the time and that was why my reactions to her were what they were.

@claddagh143 Ай бұрын

What kind of signs do you notice when looking back? Besides the ending of the friendship when it did

@Colyde25 7 ай бұрын

I always knew Shannon was from Dallas, but I didn't know she went to Hebron! Small world. I will say Hebron is a big school to be fair. I remember no one's name, except for the kids I played Frisbee with.

@Katherine-ds2ft 8 ай бұрын

Shannon's step mom sounds like a vibe 😂

@micheleyap2582 7 ай бұрын

Such an interesting podcast

@salomepaquier6844 3 ай бұрын

Damn me too it was South of Nowhere which made me question my sexuality !!! So relatable ❤

@TraBellah 6 ай бұрын

I will always love Shannon 😂 I grew up loving her anyway hahaha

@isabelluh6450 5 ай бұрын

ok shannon saying she's super sensitive to smell and doesn't like perfume...meeeeee ! i feel seen

@kelechiihiasota1350 5 күн бұрын

I can so relate to your story shannon; it is frustrating... i mean she can't keep eating her cake and having it back. I'm glad you got the courage to move on though. At the end, be true to who you say you are.

@indegrrees 8 ай бұрын

I would like to learn about the algorithm behind the 7-week post-breakup recovery timeline

@ostrichdoc 7 ай бұрын

I empathize with any coming out story but it wasn’t kind in Texas in any era. Came out to my parents in Texas at the age of 48… still brutal..

@TaylorStephens-te5qw 4 ай бұрын

Texas is not the best place to be as a lesbian. But ya find folks to get with and it does get better. I adore you both. Funny...I'm from California, then Indiana, then Kansas, then Tennessee And then Texas. You both are in California...so it may be time to get back home. Loved the chat. My first girlfriend is asleep on my couch right NOW! Funny how that happened.

@brandybird3954 12 күн бұрын

That’s not even true. Texas large cities are very liberal. Dallas is the most conservative out of all of them. I grew up in Houston and there were so many of us and it was for the most part a good experience. Also grew up around all religions, races and queer people. Houston also had the first openly lesbian mayor in the US. So no it’s not Texas, it’s parts of Texas. I wished this fake narrative would stop. I’ve had one of my worst homophobic experience in NY and I’m From Texas.

@TaylorStephens-te5qw 12 күн бұрын

@@brandybird3954 Glad your big city living has been less tramatic than my rural existance. I have a group of Trump supporters down the street and they love to throw their BS my way as they drive by. I think the Rainbow flag makes them seriously nuts. Ahhh Texas. And if I get called a "fa99ot" ,as these yut yuts think it's the female version, I will lose my preverbial shit.