The First Year of Coping with Losing your Mother

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DEAD Talks Podcast

DEAD Talks Podcast

Күн бұрын

In 2018, Blake experienced the heartbreaking loss of his mother due to a short yet intense battle with lung cancer. This event motivated him to embark on a personal journey of reflection, leading to the creation of a profound nine-part podcast series titled "Good Grief." Within this series, Blake eloquently captures the intricate emotional landscape of dealing with loss. Remarkably, even four years after the release of the final episode, the podcast continues to garner hundreds of monthly listeners, serving as a testament to its enduring impact.
Blake Kasemeier skillfully weaves narratives touching upon various themes such as parenthood, the grieving process, the complexities of growing up, and the moments when these aspects intersect. In 2022, Blake expanded his creative reach by sharing his stories on TikTok. What followed was an unexpected and remarkable journey, as he garnered a devoted following from both parents and the children of parents worldwide, solidifying his presence in the hearts and minds of a diverse online audience.
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DEAD Talks with David Ferrugio engages death a little bit differently. Each new guest shares their experience with grieving or perspective on death in a way that shatters the “don’t talk about death” taboo. Grief doesn't end; it evolves. Having lost his father on September 11th when he was 12, he learned the importance of discussion and sharing other people's stories. DEAD Talks Podcast hopes to make it a little easier to talk about grief, loss, death, mourning, trauma, or whatever it may be. You may cry, but you also may laugh.
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@deadtalkspodcast
@deadtalkspodcast 10 ай бұрын
How does Death change your relationship with the world?
@deadtalkspodcast
@deadtalkspodcast 10 ай бұрын
for me it changes the way I see our time on earth, lifes fragility and the importance of the present moment.
@CoffeeBuzzzz
@CoffeeBuzzzz 10 ай бұрын
​@@deadtalkspodcastIt changed my view on what having a "bad day" really is.
@deadtalkspodcast
@deadtalkspodcast 10 ай бұрын
@@CoffeeBuzzzz heard that! thank you!
@drswetaruparel
@drswetaruparel 10 ай бұрын
​@@deadtalkspodcast After loosing my mother, world felt very unsafe place because she passed in natural disaster. After loosing my dad, world feels alien to me as if I don't belong here...
@deadtalkspodcast
@deadtalkspodcast 10 ай бұрын
@@drswetaruparel all natural feeings i'm sure. thank you for being willing to open up. i always feel even though grief is a unique experience for everyone there's still people that can relate in someways within those unique experiences so thanks for putting it out there for someone else to read
@CoffeeBuzzzz
@CoffeeBuzzzz 10 ай бұрын
It's been a grief roller coaster for me. From finding out my mom had stage 4 pancreatic cancer. To taking care of her knowing she was going to pass. Then living my life without her. It's brutal.
@carlyxoxo1027
@carlyxoxo1027 10 ай бұрын
I went through the same thing with my mom 4 years ago with her lung cancer diagnosis. The darkness, the drowning/suffocating feeling, that alone feeling you can only experience by a loss like this. It’s unlike anything I could have ever expected. I hope life has been kind to you since then and all your favorite parts of her have made there way to you. Muah xoxo
@christine713
@christine713 10 ай бұрын
It really is. I lost my mom to Pancreatic cancer too. I honestly don’t know how people do it without finding solace in at least a little spirituality. I went through an awakening for sure.
@deadtalkspodcast
@deadtalkspodcast 10 ай бұрын
thanks for sharing sending love ♥️♥️♥️ grief is so unique to us all
@deadtalkspodcast
@deadtalkspodcast 10 ай бұрын
@@christine713 ❤️❤️‍🩹
@livelove11
@livelove11 10 ай бұрын
I no exactly what you're going thru it's horrible. Went thru it last year.
@rohanbubbly
@rohanbubbly 3 ай бұрын
I lost my mom and 2 days ago😢 can give up anything in this world just for another hug..please hug ur moms and tell her how much you love her
@deadtalkspodcast
@deadtalkspodcast 3 ай бұрын
amen. thoughts and prayers to you and your family. ❤️
@yumii4938
@yumii4938 2 ай бұрын
I just wanted you to know that I lost my mom recently and this video is one of the best things I've listened to since. Thank you for sharing 💛
@davejones9330
@davejones9330 10 ай бұрын
Mother never leaves she forever lives on within us..
@deadtalkspodcast
@deadtalkspodcast 10 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️
@karenbrown6348
@karenbrown6348 Ай бұрын
Ohh I like that ❤
@amandasilcox3521
@amandasilcox3521 6 ай бұрын
Two weeks. I am 41 and cry everyday like a baby. I want my Mom and shes not here. 😢
@Taradise34
@Taradise34 3 ай бұрын
Same here.
@SumthinAboutAce
@SumthinAboutAce 3 ай бұрын
Same 😔
@ananasvostel
@ananasvostel 2 ай бұрын
10 days for me. 41 as well and I want is my mom back.
@carlascott3755
@carlascott3755 Ай бұрын
1 month .when the phone rings I still think shes calling me. I miss her so much.
@karenbrown6348
@karenbrown6348 Ай бұрын
It's been 4 days for me and I'm 47 and want my Mama back right now!😢
@jocelyni1977
@jocelyni1977 Ай бұрын
Im so sad , i miss my mom with such dispear in me. Thats why im watching this video, in hopes this helps. I have no family left and its just me. Now i understand why my mom would say she didn't want to leave me alone. To truly be alone and have such a void that she used to fill. Is gut wrenching. I miss her more than the body needs air. To go through life without her at 32 , is sad. I thought i would be able to share mile stones with her. Now im just trying to find myself.
@Saucyo
@Saucyo Ай бұрын
Ur not alone jocelyn
@jocelyni1977
@jocelyni1977 Ай бұрын
@Saucyo I appreciate it, that's very kind of you. Thank you
@Flatteryfox
@Flatteryfox 17 күн бұрын
The not being able to call your mom or have someone when you get hurt is SO REAL AND RELATABLE
@leilanikraushaar1111
@leilanikraushaar1111 6 ай бұрын
Having the ability to connect with my passed family, is a blessing and a curse. It still hurts, it’s been 8 months since I lost my mom. I also lost my brother and father including my mom occurred in 13 months. I miss my mom the most. I woke up missing her this morning and found this podcast. Love and blessings to all.
@deadtalkspodcast
@deadtalkspodcast 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching and sharing 🙏
@PS-qn4oz
@PS-qn4oz 3 күн бұрын
You lost both parents and your brother within 13 months? That is excruciating and I hope plenty of people in your life are taking care of you and loving on you, to help you through.
@truthonwheels8652
@truthonwheels8652 8 ай бұрын
Just lost my mother last month after a 4 year battle with brain tumours. The past few months of her life she changes so much both physically and mentally that she was almost unrecognisable. She was my best friend, my rock. The trauma of seeing her suffer how she did especially in the end made me go so numb and now the funeral happened yesterday, it’s broke. Away the numbness and I feel EVERYTHING. I don’t know who I am without her. I can’t contemplate a life without her. I’m 35 and life feels too long now.
@deadtalkspodcast
@deadtalkspodcast 8 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing with us
@hakichiki
@hakichiki 6 ай бұрын
Let me give you something that my mom gave me as advice just before she died a few years ago: "Let your grief ground you rather than bury you. Remember the best moments of our time together as much as you can and accept that the worst parts of our time together are in the past. I brought you into this world in pain so you can let me go from it in joy... So be well, be happy even without me." #ItGetsBetter. #AComfortingArmAcrossYourShouldersFromAfar.
@ChaosTheory0
@ChaosTheory0 5 ай бұрын
I'm 32 and just lost my Mother a few days ago. She really was my best friend and everything to me. I'm having the same issue; I just can't picture any sort of happy life without her.
@karenbrown6348
@karenbrown6348 Ай бұрын
​@@hakichikiThank you for sharing that. Your mother sounds amazing ❤
@rickgifford-lp3kn
@rickgifford-lp3kn 5 ай бұрын
my mother died last night in hospital , I m into pieces
@kingk.2547
@kingk.2547 5 ай бұрын
Pray ask god to cover you I just lost my father
@Taradise34
@Taradise34 3 ай бұрын
I'm sorry. I know how you feel
@karenbrown6348
@karenbrown6348 Ай бұрын
​@@kingk.2547Yes. Psalm 91:4
@michellelennon4
@michellelennon4 Ай бұрын
My mom was killed by an intoxicated driver 2 weeks ago while she was driving to work. May 12th was mother’s day and on May 13th she was gone..
@karenbrown6348
@karenbrown6348 Ай бұрын
That's awful! I'm so sorry you lost your mother so tragically. You're going to get very angry for a long time. God bless you ❤
@PS-qn4oz
@PS-qn4oz 3 күн бұрын
Horrific. I am so very sorry.
@philaman1972
@philaman1972 26 күн бұрын
First, I would like to offer my condolences to everyone who's lost a loved one. I lost my dad at age 79 back in 2013 and more recently my mom in 2022 at age 83. It's never easy, but I am comforted to know they led full lives. The wages of love is grief. Like a comet hurtling through space, grief will unequivocally smash into every single one of us. The price we pay for living; life is never a bargain -- nor that's how it was designed.
@andrewjoyce9038
@andrewjoyce9038 8 ай бұрын
Ive just lost my mother and father to cancer and my dad to a brain tumour. I miss them terribly
@karenbrown6348
@karenbrown6348 Ай бұрын
If they weren't missed so much we wouldn't miss them so terribly ❤
@robertwheatley2471
@robertwheatley2471 5 күн бұрын
Sorry for your loss. I lost my Mom 2 weeks ago and nothing else even comes close. Lost my Dad on Father Day last year 2023 which was also difficult and now this 1 year later. Her loss is overwhelming and very difficult to process and cope with. It hasn't fully sunk in yet. We got along great spoke often and this is by far the lowest point ever. Things will never be the same. The pain lessens over time but you never get over it 100%. RIP Mom :-(
@PS-qn4oz
@PS-qn4oz 3 күн бұрын
Deepest condolences. I've lost both parents, too. It was harder becoming an adult orphan (I was 31). No we never get over it.
@kylecrs
@kylecrs 17 күн бұрын
Someone told me that when you lose your mom you're also faced with your own mortality because she gave you life and cared for you. My mom passed 3 1/2 months ago. I feel like i did every time she would drop me off on my first day of school. Scared and alone. Im 47 and dont want to feel this way. I have good days and bad days. Today is a bad day. All the memories keep flooding in. All the things she ever did for me, all the things she didn't have to do but did anyway. This sucks. Thank you for this video though.
@Effoff027
@Effoff027 10 күн бұрын
I lost mine in May, and every single day since then I have felt like a lost child. I am grown woman, but losing her absolutely floored me. May both of our moms rest in peace, and I pray we meet them again someday. I’m sorry you are feeling this pain, I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy.
@kylecrs
@kylecrs 5 күн бұрын
@@Effoff027 I'm sorry you are feeling this pain too. May you find peace and the strength to carry on.
@miajohnson1771
@miajohnson1771 3 ай бұрын
My Mommy just passed on Sunday and to say I’m dying myself is a understatement 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@Lord_Hillcrest02
@Lord_Hillcrest02 2 ай бұрын
Mia trust me it does get easier. , you are going through non acceptance right now , please talk about it and don't bottle it up .
@bluebellbeatnik4945
@bluebellbeatnik4945 9 ай бұрын
lost my mum last week. i want to die. i wish i could say i felt her spirit around me but i don't. it's radio silence.
@deadtalkspodcast
@deadtalkspodcast 9 ай бұрын
I'm sorry to hear that, it's a hard feeling to grapple with.
@keniitloubatla
@keniitloubatla 6 ай бұрын
I actually understand what you mean, it’s been a month for me and I feel so lonely
@bluebellbeatnik4945
@bluebellbeatnik4945 6 ай бұрын
@@deadtalkspodcast thank you, yes it is.
@bluebellbeatnik4945
@bluebellbeatnik4945 6 ай бұрын
@@keniitloubatla sorry to hear that. it really sucks. it's such an odd and isolating feeling.
@Taradise34
@Taradise34 3 ай бұрын
For our mothers we must live
@ThinkTarun
@ThinkTarun 6 ай бұрын
I hope I see my mom again.
@deadtalkspodcast
@deadtalkspodcast 6 ай бұрын
❤️
@briannarichardson7413
@briannarichardson7413 Ай бұрын
me too
@karenbrown6348
@karenbrown6348 Ай бұрын
If you believe Jesus died for you then you'll see all your loved ones again. This life is just a minute. Soon we'll see them again ❤
@geraldbronco870
@geraldbronco870 7 ай бұрын
Hard to lose the only one who can understand you
@deadtalkspodcast
@deadtalkspodcast 7 ай бұрын
True that.
@karenbrown6348
@karenbrown6348 Ай бұрын
Exactly 😢
@GawdGenetics
@GawdGenetics 6 ай бұрын
im in month 5... and its my first christmas, this video popped up in my feed... thank you
@deadtalkspodcast
@deadtalkspodcast 6 ай бұрын
happy holidays and sending you love ❤️❤️❤️
@STONESGAM
@STONESGAM 3 ай бұрын
My 72 year old mom was diagnosed with a rare bone cancer out of nowhere in late summer/early fall 2023. She has always been healthy her whole life. They thought they could treat it but it's been very aggressive and she has not responded to treatment and they couldn't do surgery. I thought she would be around at least another year or two based on the early prognosis but she has deteriorated so far and fast this past month that she is now in the hospital and being moved to hospice care very soon. I don't want to lose her and this has been devastating for the whole family and seeing her in pain just breaks my heart. She likely only has maybe a few weeks or months to live at most but I wouldn't really call it living being laid up in the hospital. The world is not going to feel the same to me after she passes and its going to be a huge adjustment. I guess I'll have to take it day by day.
@nitsirk212
@nitsirk212 Ай бұрын
Lay with her, hug her and make her laugh. Watch TV, tell stories, reminisce and listen. Share all the special memories you have from your childhood. Be still with her. Sit with her in silence and pray with her when shes scared. Give her medication when she needs it, even if it makes her sleep. Trust that she hears you even if it doesn’t seem like she can. Love her, be patient with her and help her feel safe.. ❤️ My heart is with you, my friend.
@shadowfeather3094
@shadowfeather3094 Ай бұрын
Emotionally I've surprisingly handled it fairly well but it's not easy. There's moments throughout the day this dreaded emotion comes over me.... It's a mixture of disbelief, sadness, cognitive dissonance and it makes me want to cry. She and I were very close, and I take alot after her. I have this problem where the memory of her dying in my arms flashbacks, and it makes me want to cry.... Then watching her die in the hospital... My mama going through that. Idkw to do other than do what shed want; and thats be strong, go forward, and don't let her be the reason for my hurt... She wouldn't want that.... She'd want me to remember what I was taught, and use it to be stronger, and not let it hurt so much.... And that is what has been working. It's worked surprisingly well. If they could tell us not to let this hurt so much before they left, they would. It's only been about 3 months. Sometimes when that feeling comes along, I just wanna hear what other people say about their experience losing their closest to see how they deal with it. Thank you for making this video 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🍃🍃🍃🍃🍀🌿🌱🌴🌳🌲🌵💐
@jules9893
@jules9893 8 ай бұрын
Love this interview, thank you.
@deadtalkspodcast
@deadtalkspodcast 8 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@marysherlock9745
@marysherlock9745 4 ай бұрын
The same thing happened to my mom had a cough for 5 months thought it was pneumonia month 5 she goes in turns out to be breast cancer in her lungs she lasted 3 weeks after that . Idk what I believe but I wish I did . Idk how this happened to her she was just healthy
@MarcoCastilloVideos
@MarcoCastilloVideos 8 ай бұрын
Thanks a lot.
@deadtalkspodcast
@deadtalkspodcast 8 ай бұрын
thank you!
@kendallbr9166
@kendallbr9166 9 ай бұрын
Here almost seven years and every year get worse.
@bluebellbeatnik4945
@bluebellbeatnik4945 9 ай бұрын
oh no, really? just lost my mum last week and i basically want to die.
@andrewjoyce9038
@andrewjoyce9038 8 ай бұрын
Me too
@kendallbr9166
@kendallbr9166 8 ай бұрын
@@bluebellbeatnik4945 So sorry for your loss, is the worst pain every year gets worse when you have problems in life and no one to talk to or support you, hope you have good family support.❤️
@ShoshawnaKirkendoll
@ShoshawnaKirkendoll Ай бұрын
MY MOM LAST YEAR PASSED i GUESS I HAVE A LONG WAY TO GO
@graemegeorgeharrison2468
@graemegeorgeharrison2468 3 ай бұрын
I wasted my Mothers Love and now paying the ultimate price
@deadtalkspodcast
@deadtalkspodcast 3 ай бұрын
it’s all lessons. stay up 🙏
@karenbrown6348
@karenbrown6348 Ай бұрын
What's done is done. Draw closer to The Lord and you will get relief from your guilt. ❤ Psalm 91:4
@sagefool5786
@sagefool5786 7 ай бұрын
gross
@karenbrown6348
@karenbrown6348 Ай бұрын
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