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That's why the ex says I know too much! I can't dumb down my intelligent for any man. If he's not on a level to keep up, well not my fault! Thank you!

So true, they fall off the face of the earth 🌍

Yup

So true!

What about your physical needs though?

@@MsJay-cr1id Deaden your body members and focus on other things

@@ingridfrancetravels - Come on sis. You can focus on other things but sex is important. That's why so many of us are overweight now.

@@MsJay-cr1id 😂🤣💀

PERIODTT

Come on hair & red lip! 🔥😍

@@cherh thank you Queen 🥰👑💕

You ain’t never lied!

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@@jackiesinaa welcome 🤗

I felt that 😢

Exactly!! I had a guy off the bat buy my car tires, pay some of my bills, pay for trips. ALL without my request. Within months he started throwing it all in my face and began verbally, emotionally, and psychologically abusing me. They have masks… but eventually it starts slipping off.

Yes!!! The man who told me that is now my ex husband!

The longer u keep um close I’ve noticed the more u learn about them their true colors starts to show you can keep up an act for sooo long 😊before the real you comes out

Agreed, most of these men pretend for them 90 days.

@@victoriousqueen8503 the best time to have sex is marriage, but I would at least make him wait a year. A year is long enough for you to get to know someone. But I still would wait until marriage.

Truth!

Most men aint waiting 90 days

Sis join the grad classes. More older men there.😘. Go to engineering, sciences workshops. Have hope , you have to be strategic on campus.

Continue to keep your standards

Keep your standards Queen, if i knew half of what I know now, I would have kept my legs closed

Well said

good parents!!!

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Tell them sis

You mean: "byke"! That's how TG says it! 😂😂😂😂 promise he's my big brother in my head!

Sis ♥️ you know now Blessings 🙏 to you I said the same Don't we Thank GOD 🙏 for Tony, Blessings to you 🙏

AMEN Me to...

Tell me about it lol😩🥴

Wish lheard 20 years ago...happy life now

Seriously. Now I can teach my daughter.

my dad whom I consider a great guy, many would, he was a fireman for 30 years, a good catholic man, he sat there and WATCHED it happening with me...tried to tell me it was worth it for the kids. but mostly because my mom died at age 9, and my new step mom did not want us (back) in the house.

@@mmommo-hx4dx sad

Not TEEN WOLF LEGS LOL LOL LOL LOL 😂😂😂😆😂😂😆😂😂😆😂😂

Amen 💯

I think God for my dad everyday! He also taught my brothers to pour into me. Grown boys will try there best to break you down. Every time I’ve been in a situation…my dad would look at me and say remember who you are! That’s your values, morals and what your expectations are. Stand tall ladies..we will get through this!

Same thing expect I’m in my 50’s too.

65. A s i x t y f i v e yr. Old. LISTEN! 65.

Happened to me sis!!!

I gotta look into this guy not speaking stuff more I mean I'd see if it w a s not at all and hardly but definitely if when u speak he goes silent that would be ignoring to me I've met women who just want a man to handle business with them and be secured and a guy who communicates is more friend material and the she's too attention needy or a co dependant I guess answer us always to each his own

Yep been there n walked away from that

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EXACTLY

“Cookies are for closers” As in, you close the deal, sign the contract, put your money down, then you get the goods!

What if you never get married?

Facts

Exact

@@marciloni12 that’s a fact!!!

I can’t go to bed until I watch all four. I’m not tired. You are😉!

For sure

And Another one, and another one, and a nother....😁I couldn’t go to bed... 👀👂🏽🧠

@@joi5787 I fell asleep watching it😭😂

AMEN!! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID!! THAT'S IT!

Blessings to you 🙏 sis GOD Bless You The LORD is doing a New thing In You!

@@lashondarochell7584 I receive it sis. May God, our father continue to show you his faithfulness over your life.

@@preciousruby7265 Thank You! 🙏

Praise God for your healing

I’m so sorry😭. So glad you are doing better. You are loved!

God bless you sister ..I'm sorry you had to go through that. Mental breakdown is one of the severest thing anyone can endure. Its truly horrifying ...I can relate ...glad you've come out of it.

I feel you

Me too a few times im still hurting n confused

Too many!

SO MANY 🙄🙄

Way too many

Men don't care period, we like sex, peace and our own life

Nemo to Megalodon 😂 😆

@Boss Lady stay strong sis, healing is possible. Continue to take one day at a time.

@@janieh3950 Thank you 💗

I know one 51 a deacon

@@Glamrocs now that’s a shame!

Because they are still boys 👦, who never became men. You have to look at their home life.

🤣🤣🤣🤣don't play wit it!

AMEN! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT!

What about those grown boys who be getting engaged to these women who they disrespect, walk all over and giving their bodies to them after the first week? How can we compete with that. These men giving rings to the wrong ones.

ANEN! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT!

AMEN! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT!

Same here 🤦🏾‍♀️

Hahahaha not the baby powder 😂😅 😂 I want to be your friend

Same

Congratulations you played yourself and so did I but we rise girlfriend. PS let me get some of that baby powder when you done 🤣

Pick up your CROWN place it back on your head.. It's never too late.. Level up from this point on. PERIODTT

I know hey

4th

AMEN! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT!

🤗 hi Amber!

Blessings 💚

Hey Amber

Gurl😂🤣☺️

Yes and it works. You don't even stress about them. A whole different mindset.

Definitely. These males are so quick to flatter you and compliment your intelligence...until you use that logic and intelligence on them lol.

@@Jess0410 yes! Don’t even be stressed off them! Lol

I just received my book today I want to shout out Amazon for bringing a woman influence to me in peace and not pieces I am excited so far the book is excellent I hope and pray that God will continue to work through you Tony continue to teach us women !Tony I just want to let you know you’re amazing thank you for all your wisdom and advice I appreciate you and last but not least ! I want to thank your beautiful wife ! thank you Sheri Gaskins for sharing your husband with the world , Miss Gaskins You are truly a phenomenal woman thank you as well you’re also amazing and once again I appreciate you may God continue to bless your family may God continue to use you both to save women like myself keep up the good work ! God bless .This book is very accurate thank you once again Tony you & your beautiful wife the message is so good it’s timely and it’s relevant it’s spot on 💯 ❤️❤️❤️❤️ !! 🇧🇿

This right here!!!!

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My grown boy made it to eight months with his representative. I left him two months later.

ANEN! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT!

You don’t know me but your comment saved me finally from heartache that none of my family/therapist/friends/psychiatrist could help me see/understand. Leaving that relationship when they’ve broken you down so much/far and all you feel is guilt/useless/turmoil but yet knowing when they lift you up, it’s GOLDEN. I kept wanting to go back (emotionally) for so long because he toyed with my emotions/heart SO much and long that I truly and desperately didn’t know who I was walking away from that situation when I definitely knew who I was when I walked into it. His resentment for me started when I started sticking up for myself. That’s when I also started to notice his interest shift. Suddenly he wasn’t as willing to speak to me, hang out or do pretty much anything. I felt devastated so I ultimately tried to then give everything + more. I got nothing in return but I thought if I just keep giving and giving - I’ll EARN his validation / reassurance / affection. Instead, I get used for my body when I would’ve NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER allowed this before him. That’s exactly why I WAS single / distant. Because men KNEW they could not easily access me / my body. But that grown boy? He met me during a very vulnerable and emotional time (best friend betrayed me and I was getting over a heart break from six months prior) and when I tell you that I REGRET ever allowing him to see me vulnerable and making him my “safe space”…girl. Gave him my body too soon, it was so awful that I called him back to apologize the next day (it was my fault because I wasn’t actually INTERESTED in him, he made me feel FORCED to) and after that - everything Tony described is what I went through. I spent that ENTIRE relationship trying to prove myself. Trying to be worthy to him. To feel and be validated (like I did for him) and in the end I got used, silent treatment when I called out his absurd behavior and ultimately blocked. I kept holding on desperately because I felt like he took EVERYTHING from me while he gave me NOTHING (substantial) in return. I helped that grown boy through his mommy issues, sat up and let myself be emotionally abused, had sex because I was terrified when I would reject him (he’d get really angry and start acting like I was obligated to get him off), and gas lighted, manipulated and overall he cheated on me, TOLD on himself and my stupid low self esteem ass not only forgave him but he gaslight me so terribly into making me believe it was MY fault and I got silent treatment again and eventually I went crawling back apologizing for HIM cheating on me. I have never felt so humiliated, ashamed, resentful, regretful or psychotic before this relationship. I have had to see SIX therapists while In That relationship and out. Combined. That man has seen NONE. The abuse he does to women as Tony described will emotionally destroy someone like myself who was vulnerable and needy. Ladies, or anyone read this, PLEASE KNOW when to walk away and PLEASE KNOW you DO NOT have to ever ever EVER feel like you owe a man ANYTHING that he has not EARNED nor RESPECTS. I WISH my dad could’ve told me this. I felt like had my dad had these conversations with me, my self worth wouldn’t have plummeted to earths core to end up in an emotionally abusive and toxic relationship for three years. And the only thing my dad says is “she’ll see for herself”. Had he TOLD ME “baby girl if you keep this up, that man will take more than what you will ever have to offer and you’ll still never be good enough for him” I would’ve LEFT. I would’ve picked up my self respect!! But this comment - THANK YOU. You have finally free me and I cannot thank you enough. I can FINALLY move on and bring closure to that horrendous relationship and stop telling myself I have to feel guilty for ending what was NEVER going to be good for me. I needed this so much. Thank you.

Speak

Amen

Love this 💜

Amen.