Tamara is so classy and well spoken❤️❤️❤️

I will never bring a child into this world. I simply don't want that obligation/responsibility. Call me selfish, but I love my "me time" all the time. I like having that choice of whether I will or won't deal with someone else, and not having that guilt weigh on my shoulder if I chose not to.

They looking like power rangers

That what I like about Tamar she's a mother and a working mom but I never hear her complain

"How am I gonna talk about him to his friends?!" LMAO I Love Adrienne! She's speaking the truth though lol.

I love Tamar's answer about life not stopping after having kids. Also love Tamera's real answer about reminding herself to care/remember herself as a woman. I'm a natural giver too (which is why being married and then having kids is important to me). But I was a pushover for years, giving to everybody, not taking time for myself, and I felt the effects of it. These days, I do take time to groom, treat, and look after myself. Its very important for me as a woman. And I expect to keep this up for the rest of my life. .

I had my first child at the age of 25. That was considered old. In hindsight that was still young. I love my children but starting at 30 would have probably been better. I was a better mother than a wife to be totslly honest. Building a bond with your spouse is equally important as being a good parent. Great topic.

My mom loves her me time. Having five children, Two older brothers, Me, who is 18, A moody thirteen year old girl and a four year old, i don't know why she doesn't just run away 😭 And I totally understand, we are a hassle.

TAMERA NEEDS HER OWN DAMN SHOW!!! I love her

I struggled with mommy guilt and finding who I was and getting the person I was back that I was before having a baby. I was so consumed with just being mommy that 2 years down the line I had nothing of myself...that's now improving!

Tamar's wigs have improved..SIGNIFICANTLY.

Yeah, I don't think I'll ever have kids. It's too much responsibility for me because I have so much issues, just with myself. (which I'm trying to work on) And even with how the world is now, I would NOT want my kid to grow up in a world like this. :/

I would love to be a mom! I'm in no rush but I do want to be able to be active with my children. But I am focused on living my life and getting my goals accomplished. I never want to deprive my kid/children of time because of indecisive decisions.

Your life doesn't stop being a mom . Only if you allow n choose it too! Being a mom is a new life !(:

Adrianne and Tamera look so good!!

lol the camera men spotted them flies and tried to switch to the other camera REAL quick! 😂

i couldn't see the fly, lol. so i re-watched and if your interested check out 2:52 - 2:58

I honestly believe Tamar was not lying, she just wanted a reason to disagree with Jeannie. It happens to every woman when they get married and have children. Tamera was so transparent, vulnerable, and most importantly HONEST!

Loni's hair looks great here, this color really compliments her skin tone, she looks beautiful.

Being a mom period is the hardest job in the world, but if you are a nurturing woman then it is your destiny and a HUGE part of your identity.

*Yall ever notice that Tamera is always humble bragging lmfao*

Them flies just going wild on that cake

Tamera could have her own show...

Tamera! I needed that. I gave myself into being a mom I forgot about me time. I went out with my friends without my daughter and I didn't realize how much I needed it!

Tamara out here preachin

I am glad to see this clip, Tamera talks contantly about her husband and children and yet still she said this in 2015. Tamera needs to look back at this clip and take note. She needs to remember that she is still a woman outside of being a mom and a wife

I really miss when these talks actually helped us as women. I hope they bring more of this to the shows today.

Adrienne cracked me up in the beginning when she was chewing, squinting and nodding along while Tamar spoke, meanwhile everyone else was all dainty and listening intently without eating 😅

What Tamera said really resonated with me. I’m happy this video popped up for me to watch. I’ve struggled with the same things Tamera. 💕

Omg, glad they hit this topic!!! Yay, naw but forreal it's very relatable because as women we are always wife, mother, and then just a plain woman please that Dnt never hardly happen to feel like a great, awesome, classy, beautiful lady. It's so important to a woman to have that separation sometimes it means so much!! To be those things are wonderful but when that's all you do is nurture and tend to your family and forget that you are still a gorgeous, talented, amazing woman sometimes you beat yourself up and have a hard time copping and understanding yourself as an individual. It can take a toll on any persons life if they don't make time for self period, it make you feel selfish tho if you get the chance to focus on just you but you only get one you as we know of anyways lol, so go for it and enjoy life!! Don't get it twisted tho love , share, and do what's necessary for your family but don't forget yourself can't stress it enough!!!

Me time is necessary, because you end up not giving your best therefore giving your worst out of tiredness and frustration.

They all look like power rangers with them one colored outfits. The Real Rangers. Lol 😂

We all want Tamar to have an other baby !

4:15 ANYONE ELSE SEE THE FLY ON THE CAKE!!!!!!!!!!

check out 2:50 anyone else notice the huge fly crawling on the cake lol

TAMARS HAIR IS ON POINT HUNNY☝️ (nd i love her lips this episode, juicy juicy juicy)

I am like this. I feel I give all my time to my boyfriend and baby, that sometimes I lose caring for myself. Even when I do go shopping, I shop for the house or my boys. But recently my boyfriend and I went on a trip to Vegas and it felt good to get away, that now I want to do that twice a year :)

Did y'all peep the fly on the pie or whatever it is? lol

It makes me sad to hear ppl in the comments say they dont want children... 😔 Knowing the love I have for other ppls kids I can only imagine how in love I'd be with my own.

I love Tamar

Tamar: "So that means I need to have another one?" GURRRL ! Have another child already ! We know you want one you are not fooling anybody !!

So we're just going to ignore that roach crawling all over that cake? Lol! Adrienne? Nooooooooo, you ate all of yours too! I guess this is Valentine's Day karma for sending them cockroaches to the exes. KIDDING! I LOVE THIS SHOW.

Love to hear these conversations and most importantly that the balance is different for each of us, but we have to acknowledge the feelings and reflect on what balance we want.

Loni is too crazy. "I googled myself and I came out as an exotic dancer." LMBOO!

I like how Adrienne is never afraid to eat when they have food on the show. It always seems like she's the only one eating.

Adrienne ate all of her cake. She's always eating. Lol. I love that she not ashamed about it either.

a mothers job is never done

Adrienne always got those song quotes on deck tho 😂😂

you go Tamera ! specking the truth 💯

Tamar looks beautiful in yellow. Tamera hairstyle flatters her face. Jeannie looks superb in that green dress. Adrienne is cute as usual.

I just love Tamera...

Who's going to Google her after watching this ? 🙋

I love kids, but its not for me to be a parent at this point in time. Honestly, it takes courage to deprive yourself of motherhood, it just means you're mature enough to know you can't be the best mother you can be yet and you have to be the best version of yourself before you become one. Find yourself, live your life for you long enough before you give your life for another. I'm sick and tired of mothers who bring children into the world and neglect them. Fucking stop it.

5:15 there is a fly on the cake

Also, Tamar seems like a wonderful mother.

I need to start watching this show Soon to be a mom but not the reason I want to watch it lol

bitch it's a fly on the cake lmfao at 3:34

I hope Tamar will have a baby just like her!!!

Jeannie's makeup 😍 yass!

i love the dynamic with the colors .

i like listening to tamera and jeanie mai actually

That thing in the middle of the table has all types of flies on it. Just nasty. Bloop.

Im currently pregnant with my 2nd child and I feel so bad because my son will be 3 yrs old when my baby is born. I'm always home with him and I feel like he's gonna hate sharing the attention but ik he will get used to it. He loves other kids when we see them but if I hold another baby he wants me to hold him. I'm so scared but I love both babies equally they r my world.

Mommies need their me time.

I love that they are all open about themselves, 1:50, but Tamera loves to talk about herself, and it's like a "broken record", she was all about "i do this, and i, i do that. I, I'm, i am, me, my."

My ONLY mission in life is to make my mom completely happy! Even if I suffer...If she is happy, I'm happy! I'm 15 and I obey my mom to the max, she is the one that is in total control. Everyday, I come home from school and the 1 st thing I do, is give her my phone...don't want any distractions, then I do my homework, then all the chores for that day, which must be done to my moms satisfaction. Then I do whatever she tells me to do with no back talk or arguing. On the weekends, I do want she wants me to do, Before I have my "Free time"

Loni is not funny, it irritates me. She feels like because she's a comedian she needs to lie on every segment for laughs as opposed to being honest. I feel like I don't even know anything about her, because unlike the other hosts she inauthentic ... Just for a few pity laughs 😒

In that other clip about the mommy guilt, didnt Loni say Jeannie just wants to be part of the conversation? It went from Jeannie asking Tamera and Tamar about their lives to Loni talkimg about hers ? Hypocritical much ?

that fly at 4:16 tho!!! an adrienne done eat all her cake ahahah

2:51 y'all look at the cake😱 OMG and Adrianne ate it😢

Loni the realest lol she said you want a baby Vincent wants another baby. Just have another baby! 😂😂😂

I like that.. been thinking about becoming a mom.. considering it ...

I love how Adrienne is casually eating the cake

love loni's hair

I get guilt, but mostly I just miss my son!

Tamera Mowry-Housley=The voice of reason

Tamera is so relatable

I Didn't see anything about Aidens Mom!

Say it Tamera, yassss!

watching this while im relaxing in my bath ,and all kids are asleep! #MeTime

i love how adrienne uses every opportunity to eat lmao... she stays hungry

Tamera, you sound so much stronger now, go head gurl!

have another one Tamar! lol

tamera should be the anchor

they looking like power rangers with all the different color

Loni's hair is very cute!

bring back the tia and tamera show or the tamera show

every mother go thru identity crisis....

They need a show for men that celebrates good men since women are doing it

❤️ this show!

that mommy guilt is sooooo real! i hate it!

Roach at 2:50. And it looked like Tamera noticed it too. Dang. The Real is keeping it real with no insect repellant in the studio.

I just miss Tamor in this show

Can we revisit this conversation, but for the dads? Dad guilt? Do dads sometimes lose themselves? Etc

I know I'm not the only one who saw the bug crawling on whatever they were eating 😳😂😂😂

i’m confused on what the topic is. is it about struggling with your identity after becoming a mom or being friends with only your partners friends?

HAHAHA TAMAR AT 3:40

At the end of the night somebody my get they life Lmao Tamar u a fool girl

I'M not a mom but I love this advice! (Please don't click on my face. I'm a germaphobe.)

Oh how I miss this from The Real.