The Heartache of Decluttering: What to do when every decision feels HARD (Minimalist Living)

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The Heartache of Decluttering: What to do when every decision feels HARD (Minimalist Living)

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Why is this so hard? Am I doing something wrong? Is there something wrong with ME??? Decluttering and simplifying IS NOT easy, and sometimes it may feel like everyone else has figured it out except me. Today, let's visit about what to do when every decluttering decision feels hard!
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@jeanneclark6930 3 жыл бұрын

I’m in the first stages of decluttering and am always thrilled when I fill a trash bag and get rid of it - I think of it as “wow, my house is losing weight!”

@gwenvann7279 5 жыл бұрын

This video struck me. If I forget I have it - I don’t need to keep it. Great advice!

@MamaInTheMitten 5 жыл бұрын

This is kinda how I tackle kids toys

@romanovashpresa 4 жыл бұрын

@@MamaInTheMitten I gave away my daughter's toy 'cause I thought she didn't need it more, but she cried for, despite the toy had been hidden for several years (now, she is 14 yo, but she is still not able to forgive me(( )

@marilynrafla6628 5 жыл бұрын

You deserve it! You've been one of the most helpful youtubers regarding minimalism with kids. God bless you and your family.

@ResourcefulMama 5 жыл бұрын

I agree.

@TheMinimalMom 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Marilyn!! :)

@debbiecastroaz 5 жыл бұрын

Donate the sheets exactly how they are. Someone else will wash them anyway before they use them.

@TheMinimalMom 5 жыл бұрын

Right! Didn't even think about that!!

@heatherhuertahernandez461 5 жыл бұрын

Debbie Castro agree

@jennylhenry78 5 жыл бұрын

Exactly what I was going to say! And if they were to stick that one little corner in the sun for an hour even it'll be bleached right out. ☺️

@NorGallaFamily 5 жыл бұрын

Exactly! 😊

@cjscjs1064 5 жыл бұрын

Good point

@redrosa79 Жыл бұрын

As a Random act to realize my progress and feel and see the difference - I weigh the items before they leave the house - or if not able to weigh them by the box and or bags, I keep a mental count and sometimes guesstimate the weight based on the container size. This has been a Huge help to me. I literally have a TaNgiBLE figure to attach the items that are ‘weighing’ me down. Literally and figuratively. I feel and See the actual weight lifted!!

@Bea56601 Жыл бұрын

This is an awesome idea! I wish I’d done this in the past but I’m going to start now

@myaccount9498 4 ай бұрын

Great idea! 💜

@missk9544 5 жыл бұрын

Oh Dawn!!!! 100,000!!!!!🎉🎉🎉I teared up too-I don’t know why... I’m so happy for you🥰 You’ve truly become like a friend. I wish I lived in your area to have you over to help me like a sister go through some of my stuff😉I’ve said it before but thank you so much for all your practical encouragement and actionable steps to help me through this process. It’s taking time with a big family of young children but I can see the end result so I keep pressing on. You are such a blessing! Thanks and CONGRATULATIONS!!🎈🎉

@TheMinimalMom 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! I wish we lived closer, too! That would be so fun!! :)

@loracorwyn3713 3 жыл бұрын

Over 350k now. Amazing in one year!

@brendamaun5455 2 жыл бұрын

Miss K... I'm watching this 2 years later and she's now @ 500,000!! What a difference two years has made for this amazing woman.

@elizabethrivers923 5 жыл бұрын

Dawn! This video is literally an answer to the prayer I said last night. I have been working and working on minimizing because you have truly inspired me and my life is changing. Last night i hit a wall because the stuff is piling up and i just dont want to take the jump to donate it. I am holding onto the “value” and the possibility of selling it. However I hate selling it! Anyways last night i felt defeated and I started searching your videos for this video! I couldnt find it because you hadnt posted it yet! So I prayed that you would talk about this. I see it as a true miracle. I NEEDED this!! Thank you for listening to God and answering my prayers. You will never know how big of an impact you have had on my life. I feel like we are friends.

@JanuaryLisa 5 жыл бұрын

Elizabeth, let me encourage you to please take that stuff and donate it TODAY! It might be easy, and you will feel immediately better, lighter. Or it might be hard and you might feel regretful. But let me remind you that those feelings are from the enemy-if you’ve popped it into a box or bag, donate it! Bless someone else! Soon, the feeling of having a lighter, cleaner space will be enough encouragement to keep decluttering, I promise. 💚

@Melody-285 3 жыл бұрын

Elizabeth - I feel that unless you have a lot of valuable stuff & really could use the mone, don’t hassle with selling it - people will expect to get it for next to nothing anyway - I like to donate to the church down the street - they have 3 or 4 rummage sales a year & sell things cheap to the community & use whatever money they do get for good causes - blessings to you

@magpie3571 Жыл бұрын

Ditto!

@marielavalencia5838 Жыл бұрын

Amén!!

@lorettab687 5 жыл бұрын

Your subscribers aren't going anywhere, Dawn. We are not here by mistake. We're here because you are authentic and fun. Your enthusiasm for minimalism is contagious.

@TheMinimalMom 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you SO much Loretta!!! :)

@angelaroberts2882 5 жыл бұрын

This video is right on time Literally!!!! I’m in the middle of finishing up a huge decluttering project and I was just feeling over it all . I’ve purged my entire house in 3 weeks and the final stage is taking forever and it feels painful!!! Each decision feels harder and harder. This video is what i needed to see. Thanks for being a virtual friend and minimalist momma☺️

@sharonbritt8561 5 жыл бұрын

God bless you 😂. Keep on coming Mama 🌞

@TheMinimalMom 5 жыл бұрын

Ah, this is SO cool to hear Angela!! Way to go!!!!!

@angelaroberts2882 2 жыл бұрын

@@TheMinimalMom it’s two years later and I’m back again ! 🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️😂!

@donna1471 4 жыл бұрын

I just watched this, (new subscriber) and had happy tears with you. A year later and I see you have 224k followers. Wow. I love your channel so much, for so many reasons. You and Tom are so awesome and real.

@iamsusankate 5 жыл бұрын

Dawn, you and Tom and your children and Diana have ALL touched my heart and my home! I only wish I could bless all of you in return! ❤️ 100,000+ subscribers... Just think, that’s just the subscriber count! You can easily double or TRIPLE (or MORE) that number to get a lot closer to the number of individuals whose lives you have changed for the BETTER through your KZfaq videos! And that includes babies, toddlers, and older children who will be allowed to explore and express their OWN creativity by having less toys to distract them and even perhaps stifle their brilliant creativity! THANK YOU!!! WE LOVE YOU! ❤️❤️❤️ And we celebrate along with you for reaching this wonderful milestone!!! 💐🎉🥳🎊🤗😁💐

@kbkb3358 5 жыл бұрын

Dawn- I have often thought why info I like this channel so much and I think the reason your channel is so different from so many others is because, 1) I still feel like you are talking to us and with us and are not simply cranking out videos just to put them out. That you are really working through the process with us 2) and this is a big one for me: you really take the time to explain the thinking behind the process. Every family and situation is different so if you only show us what you do then we are at a bit of a loss because our situation is different. But with your channel I can think through the process and then apply it to my situation 3) You are a mother with a family! And you have indeed done an excellent job not making minimalism weird or unnatural. So many thanks!!! I have found your channel one of the, if not the most, helpful. Thank you from ~ Perth Australia 🇦🇺 Katie

@kimhouchins8653 2 жыл бұрын

I totally agree.

@patriciaalbertson5183 Жыл бұрын

Well said.

@kathryndipietro8974 3 жыл бұрын

Every time you say, "I look forward to visiting with you again soon", I feel like you're my fairy godmother 🤩🧚‍♀️💖 Thank you, fairy godmother Dawn! 🤗

@deepaed3252 3 жыл бұрын

I still need to re watch your motivational videos from time to time as I declutter because “YES” it is so hard sometimes to get rid of stuff though I know at the back of my mind it really is so much more better for our lives! So Thank you and keep these coming! May God bless you for blessing us!

@bernieallison981 3 жыл бұрын

What I love is that this is all coming right from the heart. You are so upbeat, encouraging, supportive, and just fun. And it’s great seeing your family that way too. Thank you so much for just being you…

@aMuse4ever 5 жыл бұрын

Apparently my mom and sister have been watching these and just now told me about them! All 3 of us have the Sentimental Packrat Syndrome.. We've lived in our wonderful house for 3 years now, and still have things sitting in boxes because of my mental clutter. I am SO excited and encouraged by your videos! I've already been gearing toward wanting to minimalize so your channel has come into my life at the perfect time! Plus, we thought we were moving but haven't yet, so, many of our things have been packed up sitting in the dining room. If we have gone almost a year without it, we obviously don't really need it. I can't wait to move forward with this. I play your videos in the background as I work! Thank you and God bless 💜

@kathybullmer8884 5 жыл бұрын

May God continue to Bless you and your family!!

@TheMinimalMom 5 жыл бұрын

THANK YOU so much Kathy!!!!

@tawnytuppence5573 5 жыл бұрын

Good to know other moms are hiding from their kids in late July.

@bootomatokidsbooks6535 5 жыл бұрын

Tawny Tuppence I am definitely ready for school to start! 🤪🤪

@harley8680 5 жыл бұрын

I would have needed some chocolate while hiding. lol

@AkS143joyful 5 жыл бұрын

@@harley8680 Girl I am the same way...would have hid with a chocolate bar

@harley8680 5 жыл бұрын

@@AkS143joyful :-) LOL

@bluebarn9690 5 жыл бұрын

As a single mom of four boys, I remember in the 1990s standing in a bedroom closet playing Tetris on an original gameboy for ten minutes to get a break!

@jillygirl2024 5 жыл бұрын

I am glad you are talking about the difficult parts of decluttering - it has taken me a while to get started and I was worn down by the guilt Now I am doing it my way, SLOW , slow like a turtle. But I have to say I 💓 the feeling of satisfaction I get when I drop off a bag, box of donations.

@suzie2080 5 жыл бұрын

OH MY! How can you not believe you have 100,000 subs!? You are such an inspiration and help. You don't judge others or preach. You teach. Thank you, as I head to my donate box with 3 items I have never used. The burden continues to get lighter.

@janellknudson4573 5 жыл бұрын

I’m addicted to your channel and your positive way of thinking for that matter 😊 our family of 4 is just moving out of my parents’ basement and with having to unpack plus minimize, it all feels very overwhelming. I am so glad you posted this!

@MeandMyAveyMcGee 5 жыл бұрын

You shouldn’t be surprised in the least bit! You are amazing people and are my favorite channel here on KZfaq! You and Tom are 2 of my best friends...you just don’t know it yet 😂 Ok...That sounded creepier than it was supposed to...🤦🏻‍♀️ Point is...you have been such a big help and inspiration to so many of us and you have built an amazing community here and you have a lot to be proud of. You make it look so effortless! Your authenticity on your videos really shines through and that is what I love so much about you guys. Thank you for sharing and coming back week after week!

@TheMinimalMom 5 жыл бұрын

Hahaha, Tom read this comment to me and it made us laugh out loud! THANK YOU!!! I wish we could be friends!!!

@MarriageMotherhood 5 жыл бұрын

This is life changing information🙏🏾 Thank you!

@unconventionalsuburbian9758 5 жыл бұрын

liked b/c "sitting in the car to get a break from the kids" !

@jocelynfullmer2472 2 жыл бұрын

Watching this while you have 560 K subscribers. You have changed my life & I appreciate all the work you do.

@susanbrumbaugh5509 5 жыл бұрын

Congratulations on 100K! You have inspired me more than you can know. I work at home and had my office in the dining room, open to the rest of the house. After my mom's death three months ago, we finally went through her room, got it painted and cleaned, and now I have a beautiful office (with a door!). That caused shifts in every other room on the ground floor, and everything is so fresh and new. A clean slate everywhere I look! Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

@helenebennie3961 5 жыл бұрын

Fantastic! It's funny how things seem to fall like dominoes into place.

@FaithandFlour 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for all of the encouragement and congratulations on 💯k Subscribers!!!🎉

@TheMinimalMom 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you SO much!!! :)

@karinalissette3561 5 жыл бұрын

Stop! Don’t make me cry! Love your channel!!! Thanks for all you share :)

@TheMinimalMom 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you Karina!!! :)

@hobbygardeninthewoods 5 жыл бұрын

Congratulations on the 100 000!! You deserve it. Your content is awesome!

@TheMinimalMom 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you SO much!!!! :)

@sgia2154 5 жыл бұрын

awww congrats Dawn on reaching 100K+ You deserve it!! You are so genuine and kind!! I seriously enjoy all your videos!!

@TheMinimalMom 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you SO much!!! :)

@pattyobryan3992 3 жыл бұрын

You and Tom and your kids are my “Chip and Joanna Gains “replacement! Was so sad when they went off HGTV , but hea I found your channel! Love your sister too! Love your faith and enthusiasm and have learned so much! I laugh at my binge watching your channel. Much better than what’s on TV. Blessings to your family!

@jessiej.muncaster3824 5 жыл бұрын

This is the first time I have commented. I only found you recently and really enjoy all your videos. You do help make decluttering easier! I also just noticed today that you had hit 100,000 subscribers. Congratulations!

@TheMinimalMom 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Jessie!!!! :)

@lenabigonia333 5 жыл бұрын

Your channel brightens my day everytime I watch your videos. I feel like simplifying my home puts me back in the driver's seat of my life (with Jesus up front as well :). ) My life felt heavy and out of control for so long, and watching your videos breathes strength back in to me to get back into reclaiming my life and home and to live more intentionally. Thank you so much for starting your channel and for the hours you put into it!! It is a huge blessing to me ❤️

@jeanneclark6930 3 жыл бұрын

I love “my life felt heavy” .. what a great insight. Every trash bag we fill and remove or every box we donate is some of the weight being lifted. I’m so with you!

@Jessica_Jones 3 жыл бұрын

Watching this now as a year-old subscriber and got misty-eyed there at the end myself! It's no wonder this channel has only continued to grow! Great content then, great content now! Love the Minimal Mom family 🥰

@melm1071 5 жыл бұрын

Hi Dawn! I am a relatively new subscriber having just found you a week ago, but I have been watching many of your videos and made my third donation trip to Goodwill today! I have decluttered and minimized my own things as well as my husband's and 2 kids' things, as well as unused household items, and it has already made such a huge difference for all of us. Your video showing the empty space under the bed was so motivating for me, and I just wanted to thank you for all your truly wonderful guidance and advice! You are so calming and enjoyable to watch. Love from New York!!

@jennifernovak681 5 жыл бұрын

Ugh, you made me cry, haha! Congratulations on the success of your channel. You guys are truly an inspiration to our family, and we have accomplished so much since stumbling upon The Minimal Mom! So very happy for you both, and we are very thankful for how you share your love of God throughout it all! Here's to the next 100,000 subscribers! :)

@denisekennemer1991 2 жыл бұрын

Congrats on hitting your First 100k subscribers. I’ve just discovered you and now you have over 500k subscribers!! A testament to the value you are adding. Bless you and your family!

@ericafelman4043 4 жыл бұрын

I just pulled out 11 fitted queen size sheets with spent elastic from my closet. I kept telling myself I would repair these sheets but i do not have a working sewing machine and I have been saying this for 10 years. Finally, I donated the sheets to a local animal shelter who uses the sheets to wrap around dog beds. I have not looked back and look forward to going through my comforters and donating some as well.

@doitsimply6628 5 жыл бұрын

Congratulations Dawn. So happy for you. Your videos are the best. No wonder it is growing so fast. May God continue to bless you and your family.

@TheMinimalMom 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you SO much!!! :)

@rowboat8343 5 жыл бұрын

Yes donate the sheets. Maybe a women's refuge or something like that will love them even with the spot. I mean, whoever gets them will have to wash them anyway.

@TheMinimalMom 5 жыл бұрын

Oh right! I have been wanting to get together some stuff for a women's shelter, thank you for the idea!!!!

@Ann.shecopeswithhope 5 жыл бұрын

Also, I think I’d be funny about buying sheets that might have been used. I would more likely get them when it’s obvious they’re new and deal with the dirty corner myself...

@carylhalfwassen8555 5 жыл бұрын

Also pet shelters would welcome these items.

@01Paulsgirl 5 жыл бұрын

Congrats on your news, Dawn. It's not hard to comprehend when you realize you're meeting real needs of real people and you do it with grace and charm and encouragement. We need more influences like you setting the example you and your family set. There is hope! Thanks for sharing your story and building ours. God bless you all as you continue to bless others.

@KatyInNH 5 жыл бұрын

Glass cutting boards destroy knife sharpness and dull knives - great decision!!!!!

@TheMinimalMom 5 жыл бұрын

Well that's good to know!!! :)

@aprilknutson2809 5 жыл бұрын

Sooo true!

@sonalsharma5293 5 жыл бұрын

Really? I thought they sharpen the knives.. I used to sharpen my scissors with a glass bottle..

@simplesgood7694 5 жыл бұрын

Katy in NH I just donated one of those for the same reason!

@keylalipo7778 5 жыл бұрын

Katy in NH I donated mine simply because it is so loud when chopping on it- had no idea it dulled 🔪

@dianedeckelnick5514 5 жыл бұрын

Yes Dawn. Donate the sheets just as they are. For the price someone will buy them I’m sure they will be willing to spray and wash. Don’t you wash everything, new or used before you use it?

@TheMinimalMom 5 жыл бұрын

Ah right! This is why we need help when we're going through this process ;)

@emmakeatingclark2825 5 жыл бұрын

Yeah that what I was going to say!

@bread_-_ 5 жыл бұрын

Love love your channel! Just listening while do some tidying/sorting in my sons bedroom (Galway, Ireland 🇮🇪) Always feel inspired to cut back on the stuff that takes over my our house😊

@lindamcclellan4721 4 жыл бұрын

I’m watching this at 72 yrs old. I have always worked toward these ideals, I am now praying my lovely granddaughter with 3 girls under 7 will be encouraged by you. Good job!

@1TsuNami 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for keeping me going on this mountain and helping to make it so much easier. You have been such a blessing! 💕

@lanettemeads6257 4 жыл бұрын

I absolutely love your channel ❤. It has inspired me at 53 years old to declutter and simplify. I have already done my kitchen cabinets and used your "plastic bin" drawer idea for the bottom cabinets. Keep up the great videos and God Bless your family.

@bigtoeproductions9195 5 жыл бұрын

You are such a natural at speaking to the camera ( people on the other side of the video). Not forced or fake. Thank you for sharing your family's journey through what we all call life and thank you for all your tips & how to's that you share!

@amanda.gets.it.together Жыл бұрын

I have been watching your videos for weeks/months now. I want to say “thank you” for everything, but mostly your honesty. You have put words to thoughts I’ve had about decluttering our house. Hearing about your experiences with “minimalism” and your tips inspired me to go farther and simplify our home too. Recently my husband has said our house has improved significantly, and he asked who you were. I asked “why, do you have a thank you to send?” He said, “yes, exactly” 😊 So from both of us and our four small kiddos, a thousand thank-you s for sharing your work! …and I love your twin sister sharing the support of simple living in the bible as well. It really brings it home for me. I can’t thank you enough.

@judysbakeryandtestkitchen1654 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your videos. I started decluttering with your videos the beginning of this month-August, 2020. I can’t believe how many towels we have! I’m getting rid of gifts that give me bad memories. It is so wonderful not to look at them in my home! I don’t want to see negative reminders. I can’t believe how many there are. Thank you so much !! Ps-I am listening to this during pandemic, so I wonder how you are all doing together.

@kathyschieb6686 5 жыл бұрын

I am surprised you don’t have even more subscribers. Your channel is my favorite. So down to earth and truly friendly. Everyone should have a friend and family like yours in their life. I love the Sunday videos so much. You are a blessing in my life for sure!

@daciawerchadlo-io9ge Жыл бұрын

I clean 10x faster while I listen to you and your encouragement.

@jennyt7612 5 жыл бұрын

Hi from Sydney, Australia! I really enjoy your channel & have found so many of your ideas helpful. Thanks - am glad for your success with 100,000 subscribers

@TheMinimalMom 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Jenny!!

@elliemay1229 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for all your work on these videos. You and your sister are inspiring. My mom was prone to hoarding and I have been cursed with her logic about possessions. She passed away 2 years ago and Dad passed away last year. Almost all of their stuff ended up moving over to my house. I am drowning in boxes and bags and possessions. My minimalist 15 year old is helping me work items out of the house while my 11 year old and husband are fighting the change.

@UpstateGrammy 5 жыл бұрын

Dawn, you have helped me so much with my decluttering journey. I hear your voice asking, "When did you last use this? When do you plan on using it?" Those two simple questions keep me going. Just when I think I am finished, I find more to donate. I am doing this in small bites and have been dropping a box or two off to the local charity shop each week. I also remember being a young mom with little money and being thrilled to find snow pants for my little guy for 50 cents. It helps to remember that our discards can make a difference in another person's like. Thank you for inspiring me!

@mama_j5041 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this! I've fealt so guilty for being attached to random things. Thanks for showing us that even the Minimal Mom experiences that guilt at times! You're videos are so inspirational, keep em coming!

@MsSFDk 5 жыл бұрын

I have a crazy decluttering issue that I had to overcome. I have been working on decluttering regularly for a while but when I would do a closet or anything I would make a trash, keep, donate to family, donate to friend, donate to hospital or office (magazines and puzzles) and donate to goodwill bags. I found that I did not have the time then to get the donations out to everyone timely so the piles would lay in corner stressing me so much. Finally had a talk with myself that my reason for decluttering was peace not anxiety. I have now started to give everything away to easiest location all at one time. My reasoning became my peace and once I had made decision to let something go it was no longer mine so it could go to one place and a higher power could find a way to get it to next owner. Decluttering for me had to stop being about taking on others individual needs (maybe selfish) rather the main reason which was a simple calm space and more peace of mind. I now do not even call friends and family and tell them to come get things in next 24 hours if they want them. However, if a friend or family member is at my house and comments they like something I have I quietly think do I need that item and if not give it to them on the spot. This takes away the quilt from my previous decision. Mind games against yourself can take all forms. P,S. Congratulations on 100,000 you deserve it so much.

@janalcazar1277 5 жыл бұрын

I have the exact same problem! I have a hallway full of bags with different destinations and it just sits there driving me nuts because I want to help people and not waste. Ugh.

@brettelizabethspore 3 жыл бұрын

In one year you went from 100,000 subscribers to over 200,000! How awesome is that! God has truly blessed your work!

@dwiki001 3 жыл бұрын

It requires quite the generosity and courage to declutter NEW STUFF! Thanks for this video.

@marvelenia6702 5 жыл бұрын

Glas cutting boards are terrible for your knifes anyways, they will get dull immediately so it is totally useless. We have 2 pair of sheets because I try to avoid using the dryer because it damages the fabric and it costs a lot in electricity so I dry the sheets outside on the washing line. Thank you for the ongoing motivation!

@user-yo4jv3ph1g Жыл бұрын

Awesome news!!! 100,000 viewers -your heart shines through!!😊

@houstonhomeschool156 5 жыл бұрын

Dawn, you are currently my best friend. Haha! I watch and rewatch you every day, allowing your journey to renew my mind. I’m decluttering every single day... It’s been amazing! Totally life transforming. I wish I could meet with you face to face for a coffee play date. My kids are 8.5, 7, 5 and 2.5. You are inspiring and fun! I’ve definitely added to your subscriber list because I’m promoting you like CRAZY!!! Please keep going! 👏🏼💛

@pennyrobinson6033 5 жыл бұрын

I have been working on periodic dejunking for the past 20 years. I started hearing little bits about minimal living here and there, but nothing very informative. Then about 3 months ago KZfaq recommended your house tour in my feed and I started watching it. My husband was sitting next to me (I normally don’t watch KZfaq on my phone when my husband is in the same room, haha) and after a minute he asked me to restart it so we could watch it together. It started a conversation with him and in my head that I couldn’t let go of. Within a week I started my biggest purge I have ever undertaken. I’m not done. I feel I have so much left to do still that sometimes it feels overwhelming. But my house is so much easier to keep clean. And with 10 kids all at home still that is a huge victory for me! I have binge watched your videos from the beginning while I have worked on my projects to help keep me motivated and to help answer my questions. It’s been amazing to me how often the video I was watching would help me through the hurdles I was facing that day. Thank you for doing this channel. I have tried watching other minimalist videos on KZfaq and I have to say they don’t help and inspire me like yours do. Maybe part of it is that I feel like I’m a messy and unorganized person, so I’m doing it for the same reasons you did. lol! Whatever the reason I’m so grateful I found your channel. Thank you again!

@jocarr95 5 жыл бұрын

Thank u..today i de- cluttered my kitchen and I'm so happy!! I have a lot more to do . my closet is next but your videos are so helpful and i can't thank you enough..God bless you...

@gladysanderson1351 5 жыл бұрын

Congratulations on hitting 100K! Your channel is down to earth, cheerful, encouraging, and it is so fun to see how you and Tom get along so well, with a little good natured bantering, and with such obvious love and respect for each other!

@LovingLioness 2 жыл бұрын

You are touched to get 100k subscribers! And as I watch, you almost double that at 195896. Every one of us loves you and the content you provide

@janethunt4037 Жыл бұрын

Wow! This makes me feel better! The unopened sheets and the cutting board. We've been married almost 25 years, and I'm letting go of a never used chip and dip set that I've never used.

@deborahryan2654 3 жыл бұрын

The cutting board is perfect for your new camper!

@melanieoconnell6390 3 жыл бұрын

I have been paring down so much - i find it a blessing to hear you say it’s good for your mind to have less inventory to manage in the home !!!!!! Thank you Dawn !! In clearing a surface today and putting away a few things in their right places i found my missing/stolen wallet in my bra drawer ! Why it was there I’ll never know but what a nice surprise while watching your encouraging video !!!!!! Praising God and plugging along 👍❤️

@sarahamin6396 4 жыл бұрын

Hi Dawn. Last night my son asked me why are you watching these videos so often now a days.... My answer was.... This is true motivation!!! Thanks a million dear... You walk us through the thought process behind the decluttering by vocalizing and it helps so much....

@ruthwilliams8851 5 жыл бұрын

I just recently moved into an RV and I wondered how do I exist without all my STUFF? Your tips, directions and perky attitude has made this transition much easier! I went from happily married 5 bedroom, 2 story to divorced and a 2 bedroom apartment and now to an RV. It was sooo hard to donate some of my prized possessions. But I bit the bullet and did it. Thank You!

@vernitabradley7765 4 жыл бұрын

Oh my goodness the advice you give has truly changed my way of thinking. I used to concentrate on organizing but never really concurred my “stuff”. Thanks so much for being so transparent......love your cheery disposition also🥰

@salauerman7082 4 жыл бұрын

I love that comment, “it’s so peaceful”... I just today called a hoarding clean out company for my folks house - it’s more than I can handle two days a week for the next three years, as I estimated from three months of work.

@aheartofworship27 3 жыл бұрын

Hello Dawn, I just recently got on the Minimal ban wagon, and it so happened that I found your videos just when we were preparing to move ( downsize). What I can share in this short time for those that are struggling is this is not a fad its a new mentality and way of living. We need to think minimal and make it an everyday thought process as we navigate through our home. Also break it down in sections. I loved starting with the closet, then the kitchen, ete. Its really liberating. What's more this isn't just the being minimal at home. its relearning how we shop... Controlling our shopping and being mindful. I'm simply fascinated by this movement. Alicia, Miami, Florida. BTW if we are not mindful we can jump off the ban wagon, 😆. I love your videos. Guys I look forward to comments on how other ppl are handling this phenomena.

@magnolia31611 5 жыл бұрын

My biggest hangup is sentimental items. I’m a sentimental person to begin with, but I feel like because I lost a parent when I was a child, I tend to want to hold on to the items that belonged to them even more because it makes me feel like I can connect with them more. Baby clothing is another hangup for me, I get so sentimental about them, but I obviously cannot keep every piece of baby clothing they ever wore. I’m working on detaching myself from these things, but it definitely isn’t easy. Also, you are so sweet, and it’s nice to see your genuine excitement over hitting 100k. Congratulations! That is a wonderful accomplishment!

@wuwusela0191 4 жыл бұрын

Sorted out some small toys from my daughter yesterday, this morning so picked them up from my house for free. Thank you for your videos. You really do make it easier for us!

@cristinabondar933 5 жыл бұрын

Seeing how successful you are you might consider writing a book. I hope you do. I would love to see all your tips in one place.

@CarrieF2 4 жыл бұрын

You have inspired our 7 year old to simplify everything, she won't take no for an answer 😆 thanks for all that you shared. You have helped so so much!

@lissagriffin5689 5 жыл бұрын

Go Dawn!🌟🎆 Congrats on the KZfaq milestone! I'm so glad I found your videos! ❤

@TheMinimalMom 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Lissa!!!

@anniecharlotte4469 5 жыл бұрын

I just had Five of my grandkids staying with me and things could get pretty crazy in my house to say the least. However, I was pleasantly surprised at how easy it was to clean up at nite because I have simplified so much! So worth it! Happy 100k Dawn!!

@debbie1483 5 жыл бұрын

The down side to watching KZfaq on Apple TV....you can't comment (so I got on the PC) and if it's there, I've never noticed how many are subscribed sooooo Congratulations on 100K subscribers! More to come for sure. I definitely have been telling others about your channel. It's too good not to share. ♥♥♥

@TheMinimalMom 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you SO much Debbie!!! We greatly appreciate that!!!! :)

@janiewilliams5803 5 жыл бұрын

Hello, Dawn. Over the last 40 years of marriage, my husband has been in full time or part time ministry as a church pastor. Moving several times has certainly helped us declutter. At the last move, we did remove MUCH stuff for donations. For the last several months, we have been living in a graciously loaned residence as we wait for where we may be moving next. Half of our possssions are literally still packed in boxes in closets and basements, mostly breakble well art, photos, special dishes, as I certainly did not want to unpack only to reback. We are living with only what we regularly use at this point in time. Yes, it does make cleaning easier. I will be interested to see what happens when we get settled and begin to unpack those boxes:) .....what goes and what stays! I enjoy your videos so much. They have given me great ideas and much food for thought. Congrats on this new milestone.

@lvlc5 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for keeping it real... it is difficult in so many levels, money wasted, gifts, memories, might use it, etc...but is time to get real and tame the kid in us... it is difficult but it does get better... u can do it people!!!!

@Vshokri 3 жыл бұрын

you are my new inspiration, I always watch your videos, then pray, then start moving and doing decluttering around home, some decisions are so hard to do, in this economy that everything is expensive to buy, we like to hold on to things we have, but then it getting chaotic. Many things were gifted ot me that are expensive but not my style, and do not bring joy to me. you make me set my mind on the positive and od as you command, I truly love all you post, and thank you for helping people and caring for others , you are the best, God Bless you sister. Thank you.

@sexyafter502 4 жыл бұрын

You are doing a public service for us savers! You are reading my mind and listing my hang ups, I swear. I think these are common thoughts for a lot of us. Keep up the good work. --Kay

@dianaworl3717 5 жыл бұрын

I’ve just recently discovered your amazingly helpful videos and I have also just randomly read Joshua Becker’s book that my husband got at the library. You both have inspired me to make countless trips to the donation center and I hope you keep sharing your wonderful tips/ideas! Loving this lighter feeling around us!! ❤️👍

@TheMinimalMom 5 жыл бұрын

Way to go Diana!!!!! And thank you SO much!!! :)

@nmiller6784 5 жыл бұрын

In the beginning stages of minimizing is close to labor pains! It's beyond overwhelming me. However I'm noticing a slow shift and I'm winning the battle against too much stuff! Just curious; How long did it take you to really notice a change in the battle against stuff? Sentimental items are the worst for me as I've lost close family members and the things they gave me or remind me of them are super emotional. I was reminded by a friend how grieving puts a whole different spin on minimalizing. Thanks for your videos! I've learned so much. 👌💛

@jernabean 5 жыл бұрын

I just ordered white sheets today! Lol. I like having two sets and one set wore out.

@rachellebennett4020 5 жыл бұрын

Congratulations! This decluttering is hard work and can be emotional too. Started this a year ago, hit a wall. Then in May we decided to get the house ready to list. We/I purged, decluttered so much! Boxed up and took a lot to storage. However, now the house is SO PEACEFUL like you said! Once we move we are downsizing and I can not imagine all the things in storage will have a home. So.... I am sure we will be decluttering again. :) Thank you for inspiring me.

@jejrstans 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your process with these things and for always keeping it real! ♥

@karmichk773 5 жыл бұрын

🎉🎉🎉CONGRATULATIONS, DAWN, on hitting 100,000❣❣👍👍👍 You have got one of the most amazing, fun, down-to-earth, inspirational channels on KZfaq!!! We are so lucky, grateful, and honored that you are sharing your wisdom and your time with us!! You and your family are such a wonderful blessing❣❣❣ I'm so glad to hear you wash your sheets and put them right back on the bed. I do the same thing and thought I was crazy lol! I do have 2 sets of sheets though because I have s summer set and a flannel set for winter. Even though I live in Florida it does get cold here. Of course anything below 70° is cold to me lol! Lots of love to you and your family! 😀❤❤❤

@lizzabbott 4 жыл бұрын

Love & thanks from Buffalo, NY , Dawn ! Imo, yours is by far the BEST decluttering channel out there ! And I’ve watched plenty of great 1s. I just moved ! And to a smaller place. I was at my previous, larger apt for 6 years... Even tho I’ve been pretty good about purging stuff all along ( & esp whenever I’ve moved, which has been six x’s since 1996, & plenty of x’s before that .... I’m 60 & now have 2 adult kids), I def had a good amount to purge while preparing to move ! Plenty for garbage, recycle & donation! And then after i moved ? Well i have 2 medium bags & 1 smallish box to take to donation today ! I still have too much stuff ! Books & CDs ( & even old cassettes !) - plus papers - are my major culprits. Oh & sentimental stuff ! I did an okay paper purge recently after watching your video . ( & I’d done a good amt B4 my move). I still have a crate of folders to do soon, that I have to get ruthless about ! My problem is that I like to archive, & I’m a bit of an “information junkie”. I have a studious side that collects kinda esoteric info ( history etc) . Ugh ! But I need to remind myself that my home is not a library ! Anyway ... I’m happy with my progress ! Annnnd isn't it weird how once we’ve adjusted to the “post purge” , we forget all we’ve done, & feel as if we’ve done almost nothing ? Strange ! I’m glad you brought that up in a different video ! Good reminder, to prevent from being discouraged ! For whatever reason, I don’t take “before” photos. But that’s good : less digital clutter ! Anyway , thank you so much for encouraging me along this journey ! Liz

@FrannyFine1993 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you Dawn. Decluttering is a never-ending project. You motivated me to tackle the last of the really old paperwork and stuff that hung me up too. Blessings to you and your family!

@Anncheryl61 4 жыл бұрын

A few years ago I went minimal in my home. I loved it for a couple of weeks and then I missed all the coziness of my primitive country home. Family and friends were commenting that the house lost its warmth and charm. And, that my rooms had an echo when people talked. Sooooooo, I not so slowly incorporated all the prom country dolls, quilts, decor etc back in. Now, I am craving the minimalist style again. But now, I am scared to walk that path again.

@kathyn5337 5 жыл бұрын

After sorting through, I've been washing baby clothes(which have been in storage) and items to give to my daughter for her first child. Going to donate things that aren't needed. Just got home from taking a load of stuff to the donation store :) Now I am going to work on my closet a little more. Thanks for your inspiration! Congrats on the 101K!