Tf? Those "Unattractive" black women are fine as hell. Fat doesn't mean ugly...
@vanityposh63487 жыл бұрын
Monique doesn't look horrible. Look at her facial features. She's actually pretty. If you don't like big women, that's your preference but you seem to have something against them.
@shemeciahaskell3227 жыл бұрын
Vanity Posh "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" I don't find Monique atrractive and it has nothing to do with her size because she has lost a lot of weight since her career began and I sti don't find her pretty. There are much prettier black actresses than Monique. I find Queen Latifah pretty and she is a big woman.
@whyyoureadinmyname51456 жыл бұрын
Shemecia Haskell I think Monique looks more pretty than queen latifah. Queen latifah is built like a dude. At least Monique is a little fat girl. Plus she's more chocolate and has a unique face.
@lemmesmash76506 жыл бұрын
Why you readin my name? LMFAO built like a dude
@nubianqueenyada5 жыл бұрын
I think what he is getting at is when white people promote their image in the media, they mostly present the best versions of themselves but when we get the chance; we uplift lighter women and downgrade darker women by casting fat women, which be honest is NOT cute and not the best to offer. I have been saying for years that we as blacks can be our worst enemies. My entire, life only black people made me feel ugly. Not all, but enough to leave a scare that I had to heal. The majority of the white people, however, are always complimenting me on how beautiful my skin is and its radiance. It's so sad because at this point it seems like we are the ones pushing this standard and destroying ourselves. Don't get me wrong, I was always able to find men of ALL races to date me and my husband is white but BM always had this underlying issue deep down it seemed. One dude actually told me that I would look better or in his words "bad" if I was a "redbone". Another dude, just couldn't understand why my legs were lighter than my face. Way to many issues with our people and it's exhausting if you are a dark skinned black woman.
@a.n.watson87975 жыл бұрын
Vanity Posh most ppl do. And what???
@jeanenehenry9187 жыл бұрын
I remember being a young girl and Prince came out all of his girlfriends were mixed. And, he was very popular in Detroit, the guys didn't look your way if you were dark skinned, and even light skinned was playing out to being biracial. Sad, nothing has changed.
@dantieblackbfly54436 жыл бұрын
Nell was NOT ugly, hon. It's not cool to reference the heavier/darker women as ugly/unattractive. In a sense, I get where you're coming from, but you could have used quotation marks perhaps🤷🏽♀️
@denise34227 жыл бұрын
If our dark skin was not beautiful why then does the oppressors sit out burn in the sun to look like us!! We need to remind everyone of this.
@alistair51017 жыл бұрын
i understand your point but white people tan to look naturally browner not dark skin people with black skin. white people naturally tan too
@sloppygirlz7 жыл бұрын
This era as a kid and teen made me feel beautiful as a dark brown woman, esp Whitney!! She looked like my skin, well I am darker. But man wow the brown women in this era were beautiful!!
@lwiggins2able7 жыл бұрын
Pam Grier is so beautiful.
@4276cedar7 жыл бұрын
So... I watched your video to get some insight on the history of colorism so that I can pass some valuable information on to my niece and my God children. I like how you pieced together examples of tv and movies during several decades👍🏽. My problem is when you being to use the words ugly or fat to describe the women who you do not think fit any standard of beauty👎🏽. Being a plus size woman, I found it extrreeeemely offensive that you are objectifying women for there size, the same way the entertainment industry has done to dark skin women.
@glorymosbyfloyd38787 жыл бұрын
Amber Little : Thank you!! You took the words right out of my mouth!!! When he posted that they look horrible, I was like, is he blind?
@ruthhouston98606 жыл бұрын
Right i was thinking the exact same thing. He's going to say "They look horrible,they're so ugly". Monique is beautiful!!! I don't know all the other actresses names but they were beautiful too.
@mariaha900007 жыл бұрын
Fat is NOT ugly and beauty comes in all shapes, forms, and figures. This was video was pretty insightful until you started talking mess about women being fat, unattractive, and unwanted.
@wynettraymond42366 жыл бұрын
Exactly I agree👌🏾
@nubianqueenyada5 жыл бұрын
I disagree.
@nodiodurant7 жыл бұрын
I'm With Everything You Talked About Up Until The Parkers. You Can't Just "Pretend" That Women Like Mo'Nique And Sherri Shepherd Don't Exist Because Of Their Size. Dude They Don't Look Horrible, Both Are Attractive Women💛. White People Will Straight Up Disown Their Family Members For Being Too Out Of Shape So I Don't Wanna Hear How They Were "Smart Enough" To Reject The Plus Size Propaganda. They Pretend It Doesn't Exist(The Same Way They Do With Racism In America And You See How Far That's Gotten Us). I Love You My Brother, Just Consider What I Am Saying And If You Are Willing To Respond I Will Listen With An Open Mind.
@whatsmaname92197 жыл бұрын
Kayla Smoot up and I'm not one tint of fat bug the ending of his video made me thumbs down. Like forreal
@sheena-marieroots47067 жыл бұрын
Jennifer yes I was enjoying the documentary until the ending...was planning on sharing and giving it a thumbs up! Then the ending came and then I was questioning the motive of the "creator" of this documentary. Such a disappointment🖓
@nubianqueenyada5 жыл бұрын
I was okay with it to be honest because watching it back then I had the exact same thoughts. Every episode Monique would literally throw herself on that dude who despised her. It made no sense to me why any women would accept such treatment from anyone. Plus he would ALWAYS want a light skin girl, never a slimmed down dark or brown-skinned girl to at least show us that there wasn't a colorist agenda. Plus her daughter was also fat and unattractive to me and completely unwanted. I hated that show with a passion because unlike Moesha it presented us in a less desirable light which I didn't appreciate. You might think Monique is pretty, but for me and most people being fat alone is unattractive and disqualifies you. You can have the prettiest face, but that means nothing if I hate 95% of the rest of you. I would NEVER date a fat guy and most men prefer their women in shape/ thick so why would we have a show with two main characters being loud, fat and unattractive. I also thought they looked horrible. I hated that show.
@TINKERB1215 жыл бұрын
You think it’s merely coincidence that on every single talk show the Black female representative is sassy, fat and unattractive?
@chicagoliightsx5 жыл бұрын
You realize you don't have to capitalize the first letter of every single word unless you're naming a movie title or a book title, right? Jesus fucking Christ. Go back to the fundamentals of writing. What's that...like the 2nd grade?
@anw29936 жыл бұрын
Good evening, I appreciate the historical context that was placed in this video and shows we still have a fight ahead of us to eliminate colorism in the black community, as well as, worldwide. However, although I enjoyed some of the content presented in this video, others are problematic. For instance you're deeming some black women "unnattractive" because of their body type, as well as, calling some darker skinned women "unattractive", because they're not your cup of tea. I don't get how you do a video on colorism, but in the same video call some darker black women ugly or fat. That is contradiction and hypocrisy. Not to mention the last part of your video was pure ignorance.
@MzRiaAllNatural7 жыл бұрын
It's funny when colorism is talked about it's only about woman. But this effects men as well
@dantieblackbfly54436 жыл бұрын
Bobbie Brown very true
@nubianqueenyada5 жыл бұрын
But its the exact opposite for them. Dark skin men are considered the standard and lightermen are considered weak. Dark skin men actually have representation in the media and they always have. Dark skin women, however, keeps changing with the season. We go out of style in black media but as you can see dark skin men and light skinned women stay at the top being they are the main ones pushing this standard and acting like colorism doesn't exist because they keep winning and we keep buying.
@iamspicexxx6 жыл бұрын
The Delta sorority was created for the STRONG BROWN & DARK SKIN Black women AFTER The Aka sorority was created which primarily consisted of LIGHT SKIN Black women.
@cagedbirdblues61067 жыл бұрын
This is terrible. I don't even know why people even still watch T.V. Its just so far from reality.
@GearsinMotionGraphics7 жыл бұрын
CagedBird Blues It's a program problem towards the illusion of inclusion
@gj99336 жыл бұрын
Where is cicely Tyson in this video?
@iamspicexxx6 жыл бұрын
"If you're WHITE you are ALRIGHT, if you're YELLOW you are MELLOW, If your BROWN you can stick AROUND, but if you're BLACK get BACK".
@Natalia-hf3et7 жыл бұрын
While it is disheartening to see the images change throughout, I am optimistic that a more positive change can occur. Being born in the 70's I only have to stir up a memory of these wonderful shows. While I did enjoy them, noticing the foolery of light/dark disagreements didn't sit well with me. What is most troublesome is finding the same foolishness creeping up where we now only have the 'Ratchet/ hood chick", the black woman who happens to be Hypersexualized, the 'aggressive female' or the woman who loves emasculating her man. Black women can be gentle, sweet and kind but we are rarely shown that way. Speaking out against the stereotypes that are being pushed in the media can get recognition fairly quickly, but that should be followed up with action. Money should NOT flow toward movies or TV shows that do not listen to our plight.
@tyeljackson21247 жыл бұрын
Nell Carter, Countess Vaughn, & Monique was & isn't ugly nor unattractive wmn. just because u r large doesn't mean u r less appealing. and Erika Alexander's character Max was so magnetic bcuz she was confident, intelligent, spontaneous, not afraid to show or tell how she wanted her sensuality/sexuality expressed. freaky & fun.. empowered & powerful yet somewhat in certain circumstances vulnerable but ALWAYS real. these traits made her even more attractive besides her natural beauty.. hardly ever any make-up & Queen Latifah was somewhat the same too.
@amberb.34907 жыл бұрын
your video gave me so much insight, thanks for doing the research on this topic.
@AeryusSalvation7 жыл бұрын
BLACK women even spoke more feminine then WOW!
@Natalia-hf3et7 жыл бұрын
+Aeryus2012 Salvation This is true and it was pleasant to hear.
@rayshaunjustice19885 жыл бұрын
Eartha kitt was already looking old way back them in 1974 lol
@Natalia-hf3et7 жыл бұрын
Great video and presentation! Could you follow-up with the current stereotypes that are plaguing the industry?
@PrynceCam7 жыл бұрын
I love your channel bro. Keep up the great work.
@king6laccdiamonds7485 жыл бұрын
so glad this issue is finally has a platform to be discussed. i've notice the subliminal messages in media teaching us to hate ourselves for along time.
@michelel.egerton63697 жыл бұрын
Well, in regard to Josephine Baker (before Television), she had to leave the US because she was regarded too dark to be onstage; she blew up when she was in Paris, France. So,...that was a misnomer about her being the Eurocentric standard here in America...maybe later, but being redundant, she had to leave America because she was regarded too dark to perform onstage in vaudeville (on black vaudeville stages).
@gracej64925 жыл бұрын
This is my favorite video please keep it. Thank you. Very interesting
@owfakofi39106 жыл бұрын
This was a very intresting piece. I learned a lot. But one thing towards the end of this movie you sound so ignorant. You did not even need to comment this piece was good all by itself. Anyways regarding Brazil a lot of women get plastic surgery done in that area. That's what they are known for. So if you need to go all the way down there that's pretty sad. Enjoy the plastic. With black women they look nice in all colors and sizes. That's what black women are known for is curves no fake stuff.
@mansamusa20127 жыл бұрын
Excellent video very well done. I always wondered how we go from black is beautiful with natural hairstyles to go backwards in the 80's glorifying light skin and Jerry Curls. But let's not forget, the light skin men were glorified in the 80's as well.
@BwireVincent7 жыл бұрын
The more things change, the more they stay the same. And to think that I've been blaming hollywood, all this time!
@inquizative447 жыл бұрын
I tell you, I'm 48, and when I was growing up black young women were active, jumping double dutch, hop scotch all day long, doing their line dancing, 'crooked letter I" dance. We had hip hip parties EVERY weekend dancing everywhere (I grew up in Philly). The boys played basketball (real basketball, not Xbox), street football, stick ball, half ball, wall ball, flee fly, tag, flipping up and down the street, skateboarding relay racing slap boxing, body boxing etc......Always something physically active. Now these kids just want to be sexy and play with their phones ALL DAY!! The girls took turns doing each others hair on the front step, with the big green jar of Afro Sheen back in the day, and kept their hair nice and their bodies were incredible. I really don't believe today's generation of girls don't know how to do their hair unless it's a weave, way over weight at 14, walking around with a $600 iPhone (with a cracked screen) and no job, tight cheap ass clothes. I saw this young boy bend over in front of the gumball machine at a pizza shop and his pants were literally down by his knees, looking stupid as shit, with holes in his draws. Maybe I'm a old and out of touch but you kids today......I don't get it?!!! Also, and my parents generation where more sophisticated than we were, they wore suits, spit shine wing tip shoes, pleted pants, women wore dresses and hair just so. Now what has happened to us?!
@RaydellBrown7 жыл бұрын
inquizative44" I'm 52 and I agree with you 100 percent.
@Maki-007 жыл бұрын
"I really don't believe today's generation of girls don't know how to do their hair unless it's a weave." You're 5 years older than me. Yes, this generation is a shame. When I was growing up, we had long hair, short hair, and in between and it was always real. Weave would have gotten you laughed out of school. Clothing stores that cater to teenage girls sell f*uck me pumps. Elementary school girls now wear high heels. Singers used to be classy instead of being thugs and whores. I could go on and on!
@vershaylamorieemartinez3277 жыл бұрын
inquizative44 I think every generation has something to say about the next. That's not every person in this generation. We do have the natural hair movement. More young women are wearing there natural hair and not perm relaxed. There are more acceptance in interarial dating which wasn't there before. Yeah there a down side but I like literature I can do hair I'm in cosmetology. Lots of people in my community are apart of it helping in food drives and doing small projects.
@inquizative447 жыл бұрын
I do see more black women venturing into natural styles. I look in admiration, but I know many black women are thinking he's looking in distaste, so I'm always sure to pay them a compliment to let them know it looks good and it feels good to see our uniquely beautiful women being who they are. It gives me hope that maybe there is a chance of community again. The health of a community is measured by the health of it's woman because you are the bearer of our children. So thank you for your response. Let's all keep talking so we can sort this thing out. I don't write these things merely to be critical, I do it to make us aware that we need to be closer. Also, the more you wear your natural hair, the better you'll be in achieving desirable styles and better hair care products and techniques for maintaining our unique hair.
@lastdays31487 жыл бұрын
I am 48 years old as well and I agree with you. Today I seen this young man wearing his slacks down and showing his underwear. I couldn't believe that this foolishness is still going on today. I was a Teenager girl growing up in the 80s and to be honest I have never liked that Era either. In face the 80s all the way until now,were dreadful years for me. I admired the 70s and I've always wanted to be a Teenager or in my Twenties during that time. Because of the self love black pride movement,the respect,the mannerism,the music,the Television shows,the styles of fashion,Soul Train and the Afros. Haha,I wear my Natural hair in a Afro and I wear it proudly. Also the women were slim,sexy,elegant and feminine to me. My mother and her friends,were in dresses the majority of the time. I disagree on the video portrayed Nell Carter from the show Gimme A Break,to me she was sexy and beautiful. Sadly in the 21st. Century we are in the End Days and we are never going to experience those days ever again.
@vanityposh63487 жыл бұрын
I guess I'm a little colorblind. I don't think Diana Ross is light at all. I also don't really consider myself light, but other black people do.
@danishamcclendon6 жыл бұрын
True. Dianna Ross is more so of a Carmel tone.
@Jahfariinternational7 жыл бұрын
You people who make videos on colorism need to speak on how it affects men as well.
@tiffanylittle82257 жыл бұрын
Selector Jah Right because it has impacted bm. I don't know why people believe it only affected bw, we all experienced it together.
@whyyoureadinmyname51456 жыл бұрын
Tiffany Little That's the black mens job. Only y'all knoww. We can only speak for ourselves not y'all. Cuz personally I never seen that I was always the one being called ugly black bitch
@nubianqueenyada5 жыл бұрын
From what I can see, colorism with black men is the opposite. It represents dark-skinned black men as strong and sexy. It also represents light skinned men as sexy and rarely do you all have to compete with each other the same way women do. I personally don't see the similarities because I think colorism mainly affect women. I have never seen a movie where a woman picked lighter men over a dark one or vice versa. Every movie I see where they are both dark and light men they are both attractive.
@sarahajike7 жыл бұрын
3615 Dawnn Lewis is so beautiful.
@katitiak16 жыл бұрын
I love this and thank you for posting. I do agree that Nell Carter was fat, but I have to disagree that Nell Carter was ugly.
@RevolutionaryFather7 жыл бұрын
new sub peace Fam....
@litaboyd52997 жыл бұрын
This was a very interesting, Video😎
@1THETUFFGUY5 жыл бұрын
Very well done!
@mansamusa20127 жыл бұрын
Diana Ross is not light skin!
@shemeciahaskell3227 жыл бұрын
John Doe To a non black Diana Ross is dark. She is actually dark caramel but just because a person isn't light doesn't mean they are dark either; there is a middle.
@shemeciahaskell3226 жыл бұрын
Music4TheSoul. You are missing our point. There is more than just light and dark when it comes to skin complexion. Caramel is neither light no dark; it's in the middle.
@shemeciahaskell3226 жыл бұрын
Music4TheSoul , Oh okay
@maevaabou85976 жыл бұрын
Do you Americans always debate on skin tone? It's very annoying
@donkeybutt53526 жыл бұрын
Every race likes people to be young and thin.
@rayshaunjustice19885 жыл бұрын
Cleopatra jones will always be one of my favorites
@bubblybubbles40235 жыл бұрын
I LOVE 80s sitcoms!!!!
@chocolaterini177 жыл бұрын
wow this is damaging
@nubeazul59637 жыл бұрын
This is a great video.
@sincere2da6 жыл бұрын
You know what's interesting?.. my wife HATED being light-skinned because they use to call her "White girl".. she liked dark-skinned men so she can have a darker baby. Our daughter makes her excited. And another thing.. because I was use to being with women who weren't black, (only one of them was white also the black women I liked were taken unfortunately) when I got with her.. one of my aquantainces said "You finally got a black woman, but she don't count, she's light-skinned." I pinched my nose having a slight headache.
@Mrs.7046 жыл бұрын
sincere2da that’s too bad for your wife, she should love her lightskin as it represents the diverse shades black ppl come in. My thing is I identify as a black woman and it feels as if folks make lightskin black women feel like they don’t have a right to black men bcus our skin is not black. Thats the most absurd thing.
@katitiak16 жыл бұрын
I had to make one ore comment, Lark Voorhies is Dark skinned. I read somewhere that Don Voorhies is her father and her mother is black. She is still Bi- racial
@BlackGeoYoutube5 жыл бұрын
This is very true; however, at least then you could tell they were black. They were browner then than they are today!
@melissarosario61767 жыл бұрын
they forgot thelma
@iamspicexxx6 жыл бұрын
If you're White you're Alright if you're YELLOW you are Mellow if you're brown u can stick around but if you're Black get back
@iamspicexxx6 жыл бұрын
Paper Bag Brown Test
@iamspicexxx6 жыл бұрын
SkinTone Hierarchy
@ronwilliams7176 жыл бұрын
Diana Ross and Diahann carroll are average looking black people. I understand when you say Jayne Kennedy Pam Greer Eartha Kitt i get that.