Рет қаралды 318,213
Intro music: Church of 8 Wheels by Otis McDonald
Time Stamps:
0:00 Intro
1:28 What is “the ideal partner” according to the research?
16:13 Do people actually end up with their ideal partner?
27:16 My clinical perspective
31:40 Real-life applications
References:
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Liu, & Ilmarinen, V.-J. (2020). Core self-evaluation moderates distinctive similarity preference in ideal partner’s personality. Journal of Research in Personality, 84, 103899-. doi.org/10.101...
Eastwick, P., Luchies, L. B., Finkel, E. J., & Hunt, L. L. (2014). The Predictive Validity of Ideal Partner Preferences: A Review and Meta-Analysis. Psychological Bulletin, 140(3), 623-665. doi.org/10.103...
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