The Joe Budden Podcast Episode 570

The Joe Budden Podcast Episode 570 | Parental Guidance

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Жыл бұрын

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On this week’s episode, Joe condemns Kanye’s comments towards different communities (14:40). The guys focus on fatherhood and discuss 50 Cent’s child support struggles (41:21) and Fabolous’ relationship with his daughter (1:06:58). Joe asks if the guys can be intimate with a woman who is ticklish (1:26:03). Parks shines light on President Biden’s marijuana reform policy (1:42:09). Part Of The Show makes a return (2:06:11) + MORE!
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@lifeisgreat4220 Жыл бұрын

Ish has brought so much maturity to the podcast and I love it 🙌🏾

@desmondc7390 Жыл бұрын

If Joe can just stop cutting him off every other word well be cooking

@Kuma_Cordova Жыл бұрын

Facts...he is the most well rounded person on the Podcast.

@pfunk1992 Жыл бұрын

Yep!

@ogmamcgee Жыл бұрын

Have these uncomfortable conversations with those around you. Super happy you guys covered some tough talking points. I’m a 26 year old dad from Atlanta that has custody of my 5 year old son. I pulled him out of a very bad situation. He was left in cars. Transported without a car seat multiple times. Guns drawn in his vicinity. One instance when a gun was discharged in his direction in a car because of his mothers negligence. A father being awarded custody in the south is like winning the lottery. It’s extremely rare. Me and my sons mom are okay now. She sees him once or twice a month and pays child support. She’s flaked a few times. But she’s there. Growth is in those who seek it. Avid listener since the early SoundCloud Pete and Marisa days. First comment ever. Love.

@valentine5717 Жыл бұрын

That is real

@flyguyfee Жыл бұрын

Same type shit here bro… doing whats looked at as impossible… saving my son and inspiring others along the way

@kingprince8011 Жыл бұрын

I'm glad for you my G, I just turned 42 from New Orleans and raise my two daughters since I was 22, take care of that baby you got it and life will reward you

@ogmamcgee Жыл бұрын

@@kingprince8011 I applaud you for sacrificing your life for your babies. Individuals like yourself deserve all the praise in the world.

@kingprince8011 Жыл бұрын

@@ogmamcgee you too my guy, we're some of the greats

@AVH1991 Жыл бұрын

Having Ish sit in the middle has been a game changer for this podcast. Him being more involved in discussion moves the pod smoother.

@shelovethevibes1812 Жыл бұрын

But they don't let that other nigha talk tho lol

@davidrobinson3647 Жыл бұрын

@@shelovethevibes1812 😆 @parks

@coolvibesonly2914 Жыл бұрын

It was important because for a short ice was terrible and ish really showed he is the B mic

@marcustjackson11 Жыл бұрын

I completely agree with you

@ClementTKD Жыл бұрын

@@coolvibesonly2914 facts

@dionnesimpson6183 Жыл бұрын

I was glad when my parents divorced but felt devastated when my Dad got remarried. My mother didn't allow us to go to the wedding. When I saw him the next week I cried and asked him if he was still our Dad. He responded that if he thought it would upset me he would have never remarried. He said it seemed like no one cared that he was no longer with us. His words were comforting and he's been extra present to this day.

@fearless798 Жыл бұрын

You have a great father

@dionnesimpson6183 Жыл бұрын

@@fearless798 yes he's is!

@Oh_thats_danni Жыл бұрын

I had a something similar. My little brother And I was in the wedding and at the reception during the father daughter dance I told my dad I felt he abandoned us . And he said something similar that we was his first love and he didn’t do this to hurt me .

@dionnesimpson6183 Жыл бұрын

@@Oh_thats_danni 💜

@mustafa.r9582 Жыл бұрын

Peace and blessings to you and your dad.

@TNH-ob5uo Жыл бұрын

If you're a father and you disown your child because of the mother that is INSANE. We've gotten so desensitized to this and now we think it's normal. It's not. Heal yourself and connect with your child. Our community is so lost smh

@tiffanyblack6911 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this comment. I been saying it all week, and on every platform I have been on... They have all disagreed with me and say and I quote: "There is nothing the father can do if the kid is all Team Mom"... That's so crazy to me. There is always something the father can do. It is his choice to act OR Not...

@TNH-ob5uo Жыл бұрын

@@tiffanyblack6911right! If you care you'll continue to put forth the effort. The end.

@Tyweezy84 Жыл бұрын

Respectfully, u must be a woman. I wanna start by saying it’s NEVER ok to disown your child, ever. But as a father myself, i totally get why SOME men have strained relationships with their kids bc the women can be bitter & spiteful, especially if you’re not together anymore, the child can grow to be pro mom based on her filling the kid head with negative thoughts of u, further straining the relationship, luckily i don’t have that in my situation, but i know plenty of GOOD men who do.

@TNH-ob5uo Жыл бұрын

@@Tyweezy84 I have brothers and I have witnessed a bitter, spiteful, vindictive woman firsthand. I can empathize with the mind games and the manipulation that some good men have to deal with after a breakup. However, disowning your child should never be an option.

@Tyweezy84 Жыл бұрын

@@TNH-ob5uo i never said disowning your child is ok. Matter fact my statement clearly states it’s not ok to do that. Regardless how the mom acts.

@BlaccKyle52 Жыл бұрын

Every time y’all drop, I know I can knock out 2-3 hours of my work day without even realizing.

@truthseeker6071 Жыл бұрын

FACTS

@cjmils89 Жыл бұрын

Same!

@kiarrahh.871 Жыл бұрын

Lol same

@YoursTrulyRob Жыл бұрын

Good for you my company have no cell phones policy during work hours 😢 it’s going to be a long night

@DancinCheatKode15 Жыл бұрын

BIG FACTS

@jacobjohn9539 Жыл бұрын

Ish shooting from Steph Curry range on this episode, when talking about the father issues…… Salute brother 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

@miyungYUMM Жыл бұрын

I appreciate Ish’s vulnerability this pod! Y’all really came to pod this episode 👏🏾

@obedofficial. Жыл бұрын

This episode was special + shout out to Ish for opening up about his personal experiences.

@rayray1052 Жыл бұрын

That father convo was some real spit. I'm 36 and found out 3 years ago that I had living granddad in New Jersey. My dad never spoke about him so I assumed he was dead. Him & my father didn't have the best relationship and it made me understand why my dad was an inconsistent parent in my younger years.

@hitemhardboy Жыл бұрын

Maybe my understanding of the situation is wrong. What I get from the story is the mom cheating on her husband. And her and the husband decided to keep the child without telling the real daddy. Now that the mom has past on the husband is trying to decide if he should tell the real daddy about his son

@ellisj4844 Жыл бұрын

Even e e I e

@ellisj4844 Жыл бұрын

@@hitemhardboy e

@ellisj4844 Жыл бұрын

EI I e

@G5.Giotto Жыл бұрын

@36k go ask one of the blacks outside that same question

@keeganthorpe Жыл бұрын

That father conversation should have its own podcast. With guests panelists and an audience. I didn’t meet my father until I was 15. Then I moved to DC from NC to live with him when I was 21. We had the conversation concerning his absence and it helped our relationship. 20 years later, I’m closer to him than my mom who raised me.

@simoneg4397 Жыл бұрын

I agree. I really enjoyed that conversation.

@denzelwilliams6019 Жыл бұрын

Ish has a story for every situation "So it's this girl I went to school she has no arm", "it's dude I knew from when we was growing up, he created a multi million dollar business". I love Ish man lol

@donp380 Жыл бұрын

Old Wise Ish Tales lol

@thelastkingofjune Жыл бұрын

Dude has lived a live

@IceHarvest929 Жыл бұрын

Ish been outside before he was born

@yaggaman1914 Жыл бұрын

from experience when you dealt with alot of women or actually listen to some of them share stories or their stories you learn.

@ruvikelly5563 Жыл бұрын

@@donp380 we need a segment called old wise Ish tales 🤣🤣🤣 my guy has a story for EVERYTHING

@sonyahathaway9753 Жыл бұрын

Finally! A real personal talk about absent fathers. The hip hop talk is good but hip hop artist are suffering from absent fathers while creating fatherless children.

@Aceboogie2911 Жыл бұрын

From a woman’s perspective, body hair can still grow back even with laser treatment and shaving too often can cause skin irritation. But as far as first time linking up…it’s important to put your best foot forward.

@pimpinb11 Жыл бұрын

I’m with Ish and Parks. If I raise a child for 10+ years, have a strong bond to this child, etc, there’s no way I’m letting him/her go without a fight. You can’t just come in after the years of work I’ve put in and just be like “well that’s my blood, so I’m taking them”. Now if you want to be involved in their life, and integrate yourself and your family, that’s fine. However, completely taking what is now emotionally and financially my child, yeahhh you’re not doing that. Joe and Ice sound selfish fr because they’re basically saying uprooting the kid completely is more important than making sure they have a stable life.

@Narutotar Жыл бұрын

Anyone know the name of the speech at the beginning of the pod? around @3:38

@nicciwith2cees Жыл бұрын

As a child who was abandoned, I agree wholeheartedly with Ish. My parents dropped me with my grandmother when they couldn’t care for me and then my mother uprooted me after I began to settle into a loving environment. At 15 I was removed from her care and I learned to only survive and not live. I often wonder what my life would have been if she would have left me in a loving environment instead of trying to save her own rep just to come get me.

@FlashMoney8 Жыл бұрын

God Bless 🙏🏿 you will have the loving environment you deserve one day if not already

@tiffanyblack6911 Жыл бұрын

🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

@coreyedmonds815 Жыл бұрын

Ish has more home runs than Aaron Judge at this point. Great perspective on the parenting/fatherhood topic. Thank you!!

@coreyadderley3463 Жыл бұрын

What was that speech in the beginning of the pod about the Anger in Men?

@kennethgoodrum1652 Жыл бұрын

Please let us know if you find it

@AGTVCHICAGO Жыл бұрын

Been looking for it since last wed

@danielrobertmusic Жыл бұрын

the sensible conversations these pods have now is great. not missing the old cast at all.

@belovedhabeeb549 Жыл бұрын

Ish took over this joint 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

@bryanbump8859 Жыл бұрын

What’s good JBP family! Rolling up to hear these kings talk they talk 💪🏿

@fashionrepublicfree6848 Жыл бұрын

Who is the lady in the quote on men fighting from depression to anger.? I would like to hear the whole video/audio of her message. Fire episode by the way fellas..Really good work.

@veezymcfly Жыл бұрын

Joe really been giving a masterclass on podding for the past few years, not just with himself but with pushing and molding the Cohost as well. Most people don’t even see that

@lakitawashington3161 Жыл бұрын

Well said!

@dkmrap1 Жыл бұрын

Million dollars worth of game should take notes. Gillie and wallo fell off after the cohosts left

@registermysongs Жыл бұрын

These other podcast boring AF

@EverythingColossal Жыл бұрын

I don’t think that at all Joe be mad rude cutting them off to “pod correctly” but there’s better ways. Watch film on some Kobe shit

@veezymcfly Жыл бұрын

@@EverythingColossal you right. That shit is annoying and disrespectful. if you think about it tho , Joe being the content creator he is, knows that people hate when he does that. It’s triggering. So it’s going to get people engaging with it. There’s a lesson in that too

@willsmith4575 Жыл бұрын

The way so many of us are able to cut off people and things we love is rlly sad. Many times the issues at hand aren’t worth enough to erase these relationships. That’s where our pride and ego kick in and finish the job.

@the2ndcoming135 Жыл бұрын

Nah mean? How they gone try to come at me with the I’mma Asian of color angle tho? Like, n*gga you ain’t Kumar chill bro🤣

@tamiza22 Жыл бұрын

Episode had me in tears. I love this show man

@diBernardodeiMachiavelli Жыл бұрын

Lol man up.

@lwamalo505 Жыл бұрын

@@diBernardodeiMachiavelli you should get over Rin

@AVH1991 Жыл бұрын

@@lwamalo505 LOOOOOOL!!! Best reply ever

@bRenegadez Жыл бұрын

@@lwamalo505 😂😂😂

@Hugo-tf6no Жыл бұрын

@@lwamalo505 lmfaoooo

@215jizzomati215 Жыл бұрын

Where can I find that speech in the beginning

@JoseSanyet Жыл бұрын

It should be illegal to strike your child because a child's brain cannot tell the difference between assault and punishment. It will release the same fight or flight chemicals and it WILL cause trauma

@Hovitv Жыл бұрын

Joe wit his law and order intro is priceless 😂 all is missing is the lil music at the end 😂😂😂

@the2ndcoming135 Жыл бұрын

Bong-bong

@Strawhatboy_e Жыл бұрын

I need the full speech from that lady … “anger in men”😮‍💨😩💯💯🥰

@kennethgoodrum1652 Жыл бұрын

Me too

@ladyschatze9159 Жыл бұрын

This episode hit home runs. Luv the pod. I luv when y'all talk about real issues and conversation.

@zabadyah Жыл бұрын

Will Joe budden speak on the famous Jewish rabbi who spoke horrible about not trusting black people.

@dg26 Жыл бұрын

Kanye is trying to burn his yeezy brand so Adidas can’t do shit with it.

@famsoprano3612 Жыл бұрын

Good point

@Tbland0930 Жыл бұрын

VERY few physicians make $120k per year and those that do probably live in Bumfuck West Virginia and are only a year out of their residency. The vast majority make over $200k. With that said, 50 Cent is a multimillionaire. $6700 is literally change to him. He probably spends more on bottle service per month. I pay over $1000 a month child support for one child on a salary of $150k per year. 50 Cent pays roughly 6 times what I pay in child support meanwhile he earns several magnitudes more than I do. Child support IS a two-way street involving both parents, but its more nuanced than that. You have to factor in who is the primary parent, the quality of life afforded to the child, and how much money the primary parent makes (or doesn't make) relative to the secondary parent. Based on the general ratios and calculations most states use as guidelines, I would think 50 Cent should be paying anywhere from $10k-$15k. But this kid is also 25 years old, so I'm curious how (or if) he is still receiving said support. Joe caping for rapper-dead-beat-dads is not surprising given that he himself has been a dead beat, and is currently the quintessential every other weekend dad who swears he is father of the year for doing the bare minimum. Joe and his mental gymnastics are funny. Either you are there for your kid(s) and they feel that, or you're not and they don't. Either way, it falls on the PARENT in question.

@mickey10jb80 Жыл бұрын

It's crazy how nobody brought that point up. How 6700 is low in comparison to the millions 50 makes. He sees his dad living this crazy lifestyle meanwhile he's nowhere near that. Possibly enough just to pay the bills if he lives in certain areas. Now I can see if in addition, 50 did more for him. Bought clothes and things like that.

@NBCox1983 Жыл бұрын

That depression speech at the beginning of the pod spoke to me 🙏🏽

@chameliol.salamander3186 Жыл бұрын

I'm trying to find it cause it sounds like Dr. Jessica houston

@jjudgedread Жыл бұрын

@chamelio Did you find it? I'm trying to do the same

@kennethgoodrum1652 Жыл бұрын

Did anyone find who this was at the beginning of the Pod?

@the2ndcoming135 Жыл бұрын

Somebody gotta cook baby boi😎

@moon-ry8bb Жыл бұрын

Fucking low quality to not credit when joe was hyped and touched. Loser vibes.

@Nigel100 Жыл бұрын

This was an amazing pod just off of the vulnerability you guys had with family related issues. Especially Ish. Appreciate y’all

@bballtyga Жыл бұрын

When y’all dropping these episodes, it’s like perfect timing! I love it

@555star8 Жыл бұрын

Lol it do be perfect timing. I just finished the last episode yesterday.. now first time I get on YT this the first thing that pop up

@abtshoni Жыл бұрын

This is one of the greatest pods I have watched, period. I can relate to ISH even though I am younger (27 years old)...for the longest time, my dad wasn't present in my life although he literally lived about an hour from my mother's house. Growing up, I would only see him when I was ill as he was the guy with the medical aid - I would see him once or twice a year. I grew up with a lot of resentment towards him as I saw from the five of my siblings, I was the "castaway" and it didn't help that I had my mother in my ear expressing how much of a "dog" he was...turning point was when I had to attend child support court proceedings as I was coming of age and that's where I found out he was actually sending money to my mother that I wasn't aware of and this led me to question what other positive things that were hidden from me to make him out as a bad guy. I reached out since that day and we've been good ever since...and oh, he is a cop too😂😂

@dionnesimpson6183 Жыл бұрын

Drake said it best: *I was ready, fcuk that, I've been ready Since my dad used to tell me he was comin' to the house to get me He ain't show up Valuable lesson, man I had to grow up That's why I never ask for help I'll do it for you niggas and do it for myself*

@KimberlynCrawford Жыл бұрын

I love this episode - it was so real. Ish you the man. Glad you are on this podcast.

@tglad20 Жыл бұрын

My man Ish is the Black Theo Von…He got a story for everything lmao

@yunglito6262 Жыл бұрын

This is their 200th “last” time talking about Kanye😂😂

@MCCABEWORLD Жыл бұрын

I see a wrong Thumbnail with different clothes lol

@Dannity1O1 Жыл бұрын

Y’all never hold 50 accountable for anything!!! The money isn’t enough because 50 replaced money with time!!! What is money if you don’t show up to a graduation, or any basketball games, or to prom, or literally anything in that boy life pass a certain age. He doesn’t want his money, he want his TIME!! He wants his bond. It don’t matter what the mother did. How do you disown your child? Smh!

@tiffanyblack6911 Жыл бұрын

I agree 💯

@adamsnharrell Жыл бұрын

We need a clip of that speech on KZfaq fellas. That opening speech from that lady. Please clip it up and use it on IG.

@MissThiccums Жыл бұрын

That's exactly what I'm looking for! lol

@Tyweezy84 Жыл бұрын

Who is she?? I need that clip

@SChedda Жыл бұрын

Being a dad of 2, this was a great episode. Thank yall

@whitesborowillis Жыл бұрын

Great pod as usual. Right from the start with the lady talking about us Melanated men and when the convo around the 50 cent/ father talk. All resonate with me as I grew up with a single mom and Ish was on one. Money is always there but that time that your kids need from us as dads is truly priceless.

@derrickhucks2924 Жыл бұрын

Need more episodes like this.

@ryansimmons4342 Жыл бұрын

Shout out to Antwon for his vulnerability and strength to speak on his experience on something so important! Plus his perspective was able to bring the 50 and Brady topics full circle!! Ish dat dude and the reason I still wash this pod!! 🙏 🙏

@teemak7380 Жыл бұрын

Joe dressed like he lives in Tibet.

@farmerz97 Жыл бұрын

This was the most mature and intelligent conversation about 50 and his son. Great podcast.

@asgardiangod23 Жыл бұрын

As someone who is in Ish's position in regards to relationship with my father. I truly appreciate this episode. Had to rewatch this episode 3times

@tonep8826 Жыл бұрын

Rewatching 3 times is a little excessive 😂

@asgardiangod23 Жыл бұрын

@@tonep8826 nah it makes work go by quicker. I can divide my day into sections and it goes by so it ain't that hard lol. But I know what you mean

@TheDefordz Жыл бұрын

joe be wearing the most randoms clothes ever! lmao

@leSure91 Жыл бұрын

Joe back on nasty time with the fits lol.... Dressed like a retired 90's background dancer.

@Idontlikethatshit78 Жыл бұрын

Ish's story about his dad is similar to mines because my mother never bashed my dad in front of me. When I would get mad and say certain things because he wasn't around or wouldn't show up for me she always told me to respect the man because he's still my father! He made the choice to not be around and it is what it is🤷🏾‍♀️

@jay2shotty135 Жыл бұрын

Don’t you just love how anyone can talk shit about black people and nothing happens. But say something about the Jews and that’s that. Real power.

@kevinalmonte4534 Жыл бұрын

JBP FAMILY WADDUP 🙏🏼 Fresh episode lets get it

@InTheStreetsWithQuis Жыл бұрын

We in the building 💯

@Bo55edup Жыл бұрын

JBP🎙 boys back to business!💪

@eiffelpex Жыл бұрын

Going off my real life experiences when it comes to child care. Me and my mom lived with my uncle and auntie for a few years until my mom passed when I was 8. When I was 17, my uncle told me that when I was around 13 my biological father showed up and my uncle told him don't come to my door no more. My biological did reach out to me at around 20 years old but we never hit it off and to this day I'm 33 and still don't know him. Yeah I got kids now and kinda wish they had a papa outside of my uncle who passed a few years back.. But I'm glad my uncle stood up for me and treated me like his son. His words "I'm proud of you" still brings me encouragement and motivation to this day. Right now I have 3 kids and my lady has 4 and they dad sees them about twice a month maybe. We've been together for years and if she were to pass I would hate if this dude tried to get in the mix. It would hurt the bone I have with the kids and more importantly it was put a strain on the bond that my kids and her kids have with each other. Nigga you been gone.. Stay gone. With my own kids.. My daughter's mom has a bf. She don't call him dad but if my daughter's mom passed and this nigga wanted to play ultra da with my daughter.. Then he can continue the relationship in hell with my ex cause he ghost

@GratitudeGriot Жыл бұрын

listened to the whole pod yesterday but the visuals add so much more. i need to see the fits. joe looks so comfy like he's wrapped in a blankie 😊

@jasonjeffries9165 Жыл бұрын

I saw Joe’s pants and Googled whether he was dating Erykah Badu.

@IceHarvest929 Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂 I thought he was wrapped in a blankie

@mikedabeast360 Жыл бұрын

I said the same exact thing. The pants Joe Budden wear resemble a blanket 😂😂😂

@carismaticthoughts Жыл бұрын

Coach POP is GOLD in human form!! People need to be educated.

@mskatrina3000 Жыл бұрын

Hearing Ish talking about his dad makes me wanna give him a hug 😢.

@AliFrankTheTank Жыл бұрын

56:54 sent me 😭😭 “you sayin football first…” … “YOU SAYIN NAAA” 😭

@bigmanjiujitsu9940 Жыл бұрын

Episode was str8 fire 🔥! All this father to son talk is overdue and much needed between black men. Great job fellas!

@jmood318 Жыл бұрын

Let's get it.. working and listening to JBP nothing like it..

@asgardiangod23 Жыл бұрын

I'ma just skip that Kanye part lol

@Activetrade2020 Жыл бұрын

Love it 🤐🤞🏾🥷🏾 can’t wait till we back on the tour 📸

@erichall1199 Жыл бұрын

Any link to the opening quote Joe played at the beginning?

@GOD_DARRYL Жыл бұрын

I’m rocking with YE regardless ‼️‼️‼️‼️

@the2ndcoming135 Жыл бұрын

No smoke for the Muslims tho. Interesting😎

@Troup3 Жыл бұрын

This is the best podcast on youtube.

@SmartWorldMedia1 Жыл бұрын

I’ve never seen someone miss on there jokes as much as Parks. They get quite n move on like he ain’t say shit 😂😂😂

@willsmith4575 Жыл бұрын

Bruh that speech we just heard hit home

@1mochadelightable Жыл бұрын

I love the weird disclaimer in the beginning with that weird voice😂 😂 Its the little things that keeps me emotionally attached❤

@Mr82jayday Жыл бұрын

REAL ISH… ISH!!! 💯

@tarotformen6892 Жыл бұрын

Its so hard to have these "Jew" conversations without really talking about the true history of "Jews"

@Japace321 Жыл бұрын

Ice at 21:10 had me rolling, “we would’ve been unplugged his ass….pause” 🤣🤣

@artbycolemariee Жыл бұрын

ice’s shoes 👀🔥 the whole fit is 👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽

@dazza818 Жыл бұрын

It's funny how the law/police will arrest you for beating discipline into someone, and will beat discipline into a person who doesn't comply with being arrested.

@jaycole1900 Жыл бұрын

58 mins in and ISH IS COOKING!!!!! im with Ish 97% of the time. He's always right fam

@TheAnswerKeyTV Жыл бұрын

Three babies under the weather over here.... this is just what I needed to end a long day. You guys look so cozy- makes me miss home. I miss the crispy fall air. Enjoy! I know someone since they were a baby. I'd been telling the mother to tell the child they were adopted since they were 3. I said to just say it plain. "You came out of a different belly, but you're my baby." She said 10. 10 came and went. Literally, the worst case scenario happened... someone else told (just being mean after ear-hustling a grown folks' conversation). Everyone was caught off guard, and by this time, they were already going through their "terrible teen" phase. Oh boy! Things hit the fan after that, and they said they felt like their life was one big lie that everyone was in on. It was horrible. Little kids are pliable. They go with what they know because that's all they know. Finding a gentle way to say 'he is a piece of his mom she left for him to love, and not being his bio-father doesn't mean he can't be his dad' would be a kind start. You don't want a custody issue either. I'd assume there was a reason she didn't tell him herself so personally, I'd hope she had a will, and granted guardianship to her husband. If not, get custody officially first and foremost, wait to tell the bio-dad until the child is ready to find him, and connect. There are too many unknowns to take chances. That was a doozy... great pod, gentlemen! Thank you!🤗

@jeromejackson7209 Жыл бұрын

Ever since ish moved to the middle seat he became one of the greatest Podcasters ...he be talking that shit 😂

@nkosimnaba5984 Жыл бұрын

The fit is crazy today👌🏾🤞🏾

@Tyweezy84 Жыл бұрын

This was one of the dopest pods from u guys. 🔥🔥🔥

@SiiNCiiTY Жыл бұрын

Catching up on pods cos I've really missed a few (I know I'm hella behind) but this one is such a good discussion - especially around the topic of 50 cent & his son. I love that Ish was able to be vulnerable and share his own personal experience in growing up & the outlook that some men have/ go through. These are the types of important convos that open up the floor for communication among many & you gotta salute the JBP for it 👏🏾👏🏾❤️

@Mukka108 Жыл бұрын

Joe look like he about to base jump from the top of the building with those parachute pants 😂

@geminibylaw Жыл бұрын

Joe is mr fancy pants today lol

@sobreezymimi7622 Жыл бұрын

Dialect.....impeccable!! Keep it Fresh!

@younghotboy239 Жыл бұрын

I need that video he was playing in the beginning with the lady preaching!!

@HoodyNoGoody Жыл бұрын

Whose speech wad that in the beginning tho? Anybody know?

@billzzz Жыл бұрын

I'm Rollin rn!!🤣🤣🤣 How ice mumble out "chloe" when joe say "jack bower son" Chloe was the i.t help 🤣🤣 ...ok let me play rest of the pod now. ✌️

@cowboykurtis100 Жыл бұрын

Them boys came to pod today!!! 10/10 👊

@LeKenia Жыл бұрын

This was a great episode. I def appreciate the different perspectives.

@AliFrankTheTank Жыл бұрын

Ice wasn’t even playing football? Chose cartoons 😭😭😭😭 and if they don’t just make WEED like Cigs bruh

@Jremy914 Жыл бұрын

Best Podcast. The new setup & seating arrangement is much better; having Joe sit to the side and having Ish in the middle, works perfectly. Joe can see & respond to his co-hosts comments/reactions. And shoutout to Parks, making his debut lol.

@zimmericanwoman6123 Жыл бұрын

Who gave that speech at the beginning of the pod…is there a link?

@AmberAlyse1 Жыл бұрын

Not she works at a warehouse 😂😂😂

@jabb7434 Жыл бұрын

I called my father the other day and thanked him for those ass whippings that I got as a kid bcuz it kept me outta jail. It taught me consequence. I feared getting caught by my father more than I feared getting caught by the cops. Great topic... We need more of this...

@BlacHaze78 Жыл бұрын

S/O to you for thanking your Father and S/O to your Father for whopping yo ass. I thanked my dad years ago. That’s why I don’t mind parents whopping their kids ass in public. F what people say. I feel ass whippings within means, make kids great.

@the2ndcoming135 Жыл бұрын

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@jonathanspinks7764 Жыл бұрын

Great pod. Touched on a lot. Got me thinking abt making the right choices. Is it more important to be in a fulfilling rationship tht makes you happy or sacrifice your happiness for the sake of being a present father in an unfulfilled relationship with her mother...

@semiloreikejiora5178 Жыл бұрын

you don't have to be with your child's mom for you to be a present father. However, you and his mom should foster a great relationship (friendship) for the sake of your child

@mahoganysweets67 Жыл бұрын

I don't think people should just stay because they have the child but I do think they should put a lot more thought into staying or leaving if they have a child! Once you have a child, that child should be put first and sacrifices have to be made! Consider if the relationship can be healed and fixed, is the problem something that can be worked out. Do you live the person? Do they love you? Are you being selfish? Are you being superficial? Do the pros out weigh the cons? Are you communicating your grievances? Have you given them the opportunity to correct the issues? Is this a cause and effect issue with you being the source of it? For example you are doing/did something or not doing something that is the reason why they are doing something that you have an issue with? And so on. You owe it to your child, yourself and that woman to attempt to work things out! And to have the hard conversations about the relationship! Communicate and be honest with yourself first and with this woman! If you decide to leave, stay involved in your child life consistently! Do your best to remain mature, understanding, patient, to communicate as a team in raising the child and supporting the mother emotionally and mentally! The mother will be hurt if she still wanted/wants to be in a relationship with you so she may act out Brevard of the heartbreak so that's why I say be patient, understanding and supportive of her ass y'all create a new normal and non romantic relationship!

@mahoganysweets67 Жыл бұрын

I know that's a lot to read but I hope you do since y'all lives are involved and a precious child so this is extremely serious! Also alot of men selfishly decide to blindside their woman with a break up and never communicate that they had a serious issue with her and the relationship till they are already fed up, done and walking out the door without ever giving her the chance to fix things! And already have moved on and been seeing someone else they are now in love with when it possibly could have not gotten to that point if he communicated the problems earlier on and then at confused about why she is depressed, bitter, angry, heartbroken, betrayed, emotional and trying to hurt him back and being super toxic! He himself was toxic by how he handled it!

@mahoganysweets67 Жыл бұрын

If you truly never loved her and didn't plan on marrying her and having children from jump, never later begin to want that or feel in love afterwards then it's best to just end things because you're robbing her and yourself of ever having true love and happiness! You will build a resentment and so will she that will be felt and show up in the family dynamics no matter how hard you try to hide it and will make things worse for all of you! Just go about the exit in the right way and be considerate, respectful of her fragile state in how you move on especially when it comes to being with other women! Read gof listen to guide books, parenting books, co parenting books, the do's and don't with all of this, pods and articles about the mistakes others made and what they learned, the child's perspective etc so you know best way to understand what the child feels about it and can best handle her as she goes through her life changing and what that looks like! Reassure her you ain't leaving her!