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@conradorondera3054 Жыл бұрын
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@conradorondera3054 Жыл бұрын
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@notpearll3 жыл бұрын
"Happiness is not something you need to achieve. You can still feel happy during the process of achieving something " -Kim Namjoon
The secret to happiness is learning to be in the present moment.
@nathaliacampanario77333 жыл бұрын
The power of now it's really powerful. This have changed my life
@SteAndRach3 жыл бұрын
Be you and let your light inspire. That was one of the pieces of advice that will smith gave us in our dream! 😄; we collab with Will in our last video, and we share things that we have been doing to build happiness in our life.
@ElectricLegend142 жыл бұрын
The present moment is where we have our ability to be, improve, change, heal, win :)
@QuestionEverythingButWHY3 жыл бұрын
“When a person can't find a deep sense of meaning, they distract themselves with pleasure.” ― Viktor E. Frankl
@simplyredislandgirl3 жыл бұрын
True statement!👏👍
@hy9308073 жыл бұрын
Me right now...
@karnageartist3 жыл бұрын
I love Frankl! Mans Search for Meaning changed my life
@stellajang28703 жыл бұрын
@James Two weeks after applying his method to my life, my life has completely changed. Public speaking, social anxi ety problems, and various types of addi ctions have begun to disappear. search youtube "paradox of I can do it"
@omyunseo53423 жыл бұрын
And that’s how my lunch break became a meaningful break 🥰
@Mattar553 жыл бұрын
kzfaq.info/get/bejne/atuHdqppza_Nipc.html. Vlog in Hiifa ..
@sun-wo9vp3 жыл бұрын
Same!! I just ate my lunch.
@lavendaire3 жыл бұрын
:)
@annaando61673 жыл бұрын
🥰
@Gabriellabnd3 жыл бұрын
Same, i‘m watching this in my break and I feel so relaxed 🥰
@auralunaa3 жыл бұрын
A lot of unhappiness stems from a lack of awareness within, and not having a northstar of your life 🌱
@QuestforBeauty3 жыл бұрын
yes, lack of awareness and a mind either in the past or in the future.
@SteAndRach3 жыл бұрын
Yes, I agree with you, dude, when we have a Northstar of our life, we can focus on following that dream and be happy; in our last video, we collab with Will Smith in our dreams, He Gave Us His Top Life Advice 😄 You should check it out if you are interested in that topic!
@VerenaSatriani3 жыл бұрын
"Focusing on what you can control". I totally agree with eveything Aileen said here. Most of all I highlight that part, we need to focus on what we can control rather than what we can't.
@lavendaire3 жыл бұрын
yes always!!
@veganlunchmom3 жыл бұрын
💗
@SteAndRach3 жыл бұрын
Totally, we need to focus on what we can control; in fact, that's one of the stoicism tips that we had been applying in our lives and brings us incredible results. We focus on what we can control and put all our energy in that; we got really into it and actually made a video on our channel about the 5 stoic hacks to reduce stress! If you want to learn how to be happier and deal with the stress, we would love to check it out! 🤗
@rituparna43703 жыл бұрын
"Happiness is a journey of small gifts of joy and smiles". Such an inspiration, love ya Aileen !💜
@Dineshkumar-ve4dt3 жыл бұрын
Lavendaire channel is just growing and spreading positivity all over the world .....
@botanologia8413 жыл бұрын
I really like the part where you explain that Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs has to be commented because the catergories can be different from each individual. Sometimes, the need of self-accomplishment (put at the top) is more fondamental than financial security. Very interesting to create our own hierarchy of needs !
@QuestionEverythingButWHY3 жыл бұрын
“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning
@minoalymeg3 жыл бұрын
Lately I’ve been asking myself why I haven’t felt fulfilled in so long and this video just popped up. A coincidence? I don't think so. THANK YOU
@ReynaSingh3 жыл бұрын
Happiness is the product of our outer and inner environment. Even if everything around us is perfect, we still may never be happy. Happiness comes from within.
@QuestforBeauty3 жыл бұрын
It's so true. The beauty of the present moment. When we just let the 'I' dissolve, and we trust in the now. We trust the creator, this beautiful force that lies inside of all of us.😍
@CrisSaur3 жыл бұрын
true
@babbybrenner89453 жыл бұрын
"beauty of the present moment" love it!
@lavendaire3 жыл бұрын
the most powerful place to be - the present
@MoonSignInsight3 жыл бұрын
I haven't looked into the hierarchy of needs in so long. It's really interesting how it got developed in the expanded version! I definitely struggled with self value and worth, but I really feel like that's changing for me so much this past 2 years. Now I'm currently struggling with Safety. This was so helpful, thank you!
@lavendaire3 жыл бұрын
happy this helped! yeah it was a good refresher for me too :)
@chanelamber2183 жыл бұрын
I honestly didn't known about maslow's hierarchy of needs especially about the "aesthetic need" I didn't know that aesthetic could be a need but now that I think about it I think I do have the need for aesthetic. Thank you Aileen again for this video I love your content so much!! 😭💜 Lets all do our best to feel happy and fulfilled! 😊
@lavendaire3 жыл бұрын
thank you! yes aesthetics do matter esp if the other lower needs are fulfilled too :)
@SteAndRach3 жыл бұрын
💜 Maybe as she said in the video, "Aesthetic" is not the primordial thing to do but is so please to see when you come to your house, and you see all in order and clean and beautiful, maybe with your favorites colors and the style you like, that makes you feel good, makes you smile. In our last video, we share how he learn from will smith and apply his tips to create a better life and a happy life for us; if you are inspired by Will Smith, we would love for you to check it out on our channel 🙌
@ughrowie3 жыл бұрын
Yes, it was mentioned in his actual theory. I study Psychology and we learned about it. I didn't know about the expanded version but those were mentioned in the textbook I've read. Self-actualization is hard to achieve because of the complexity of the concepts there. All in all, his theory is really amazing to learn even if you're not majoring in psych. 💜
@PAULAOGETheChosenOne3 жыл бұрын
Shout out to all new KZfaqrs and viewers, I love you
@arinikusumawardhani16303 жыл бұрын
After I tried your "what makes me happy?" , I tried to think more deeply and suddenly I cried. I don't have many things that make me happy. but I am grateful for what I received in this life. Thanks Ailee
@ARYAN-iv7tx3 жыл бұрын
'You dont need a reason to be happy, choose to be happy' ❤️😍🥰
@na0m1fes513 жыл бұрын
💯💯🙂😊thats right
@aaishaharfan1873 жыл бұрын
True
@priscillajimenez273 жыл бұрын
Amen
@meamela98203 жыл бұрын
In my pedagogic studies the hirearcy of needs has thaught me one important thing: I child can't learn it they don't feel safe. When they are struggling with learning, you must first make sure that the child feels safe, then after that, they have the mind space to begin learning and growing.
@jlnbhl3 жыл бұрын
Growing Up🥺 Glowing Up🧚♀️
@prernajha85223 жыл бұрын
This whole year I've dedicated to self growth & personality improvement , this is the year when I realized my true essence when I came into spirituality. I feel I'm getting fulfilled at every level . This is the year I found you answering exactly the question I was asking universe about. I learnt & realized & accepted & changed so many things about me through introspection. When I came across your worksheets I was super super grateful now I know what exactly to ask myself to grow. Thank you Aileen❤️
@katymason12223 жыл бұрын
Aileen, I so appreciate all the positivity you put out in the world. Do you ever think about the ripple effect your work has on the world? Just watching your videos helps me to be more engaged and kind throughout my day. 💕
@lavendaire3 жыл бұрын
thank you so much
@sarahkabir1763 жыл бұрын
Omg, you are looking like a cherry blossoms flower.🌸🌸
@feylovemgk72813 жыл бұрын
I love her color schemes
@mukulikamukherjee57543 жыл бұрын
You don't know how you have helped me through a very bad phase in my life. I will always be grateful to you.. Keep doing the good work... 🌼🌼🌼
@cebj71213 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for caring! Blessings to you! 😷🙏🙂
@TheCosmicBaddie3 жыл бұрын
True happiness comes from within. When we are happy despite our external circumstances, we come to understand that we are in control of how we feel at all times :)
@misssuga62593 жыл бұрын
I want to thank you for helping me make my life more worthy .Thanks Aileen Xu .
@QuestionEverythingButWHY3 жыл бұрын
“The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.” ― Mahatma Gandhi
@learnwithme23303 жыл бұрын
But now all of us have become very selfish .. ( kadva such hai )
@dhanalakshmik75193 жыл бұрын
We think why should we
@waelfaraj67053 жыл бұрын
You can not help others before you help yourself first ...
@pm45943 жыл бұрын
@@waelfaraj6705 I think you can, A lot of people do and they dont realise that they want to help and they're helping from an empty place. That does not in the end negate that they actually helped the other person
@waelfaraj67053 жыл бұрын
@@pm4594 Yes , possible ...However, the better you become , the more you can help ...
@ICEcoldJT3 жыл бұрын
Glad I came across this channel, lots of videos on how to raise vibrations and become happier💜
@RobWill58643 жыл бұрын
Knowledge is the best tool against fear and feeling unsafe..
@maezeu33583 жыл бұрын
I'm struggling with the level of Esteem. I used to be a bright student in school but now in college, with all the competition and not being able to do upto the mark like before, with time I have lost all my self confidence and even if I knew I'd do well in a particular exam, somehow I just couldn't make it. I started procrastinating a lot in these years but before I used to be a lot sincere. I've been working a lot with self love since last couple of months and still healing. It still seems a long way to be back with the same believe and confidence, that I can do better and be good in studies. I just hope I can be back soon. Your videos have helped me a lot. Lots of love to you❤️❤️
@narcoticm71653 жыл бұрын
I feel you, i am also going through this self development process, dealing with lack of confidence,social anxiety, fear of failure and low self esteem... Hope we both can grow out of this situation we are in. Wish you all the good luck 💜
@maezeu33583 жыл бұрын
@@narcoticm7165 yes I hope that too. We just need to be more forgiving to ourselves and dont let negative hit us. Even if the progress is slow, let's just keep working on a better self. Lots of love and energy to you❤️❤️ Good luck 🤗🤗
@laurine12633 жыл бұрын
@@maezeu3358 I also feel this way, and seeing your comment made me feel a little better :) So, thanks for that, I'm sure we can get through this all together ❤️
@maezeu33583 жыл бұрын
@@laurine1263 I'm really glad to hear that🥺🥺❤️ We'll get through, we just gotta be brave and consistent. Sending you energy and warm hugs🤗🤗🤗
@laurine12633 жыл бұрын
@@maezeu3358 thanks a lot, sending you positive energy too ! ♡
@priscillajimenez273 жыл бұрын
It is true that our basic needs can come into play into our happiness but like you said I think it's mostly a state of mind or mindset. Like I feel like many who lack in their basic needs or don't have them consistently are more prone to looking to the spirituality/religion in the transcendence level to find inner peace and joy despite what's going on around them or what they may be lacking because of their inner peace and faith that keeps them going and appreciate what they do have and experience. I love how you keep reiterating to make changes in what you can control which is ourselves and to go forth looking to do what we can despite what obstacles (life) come in our way.
@KellyMorita3 жыл бұрын
There's also the Ikigai Self actualization pyramid which I LIVE by!
@AHuve3 жыл бұрын
I love your content! You seem like such a centered intelligent woman. Thank you for this. I think this hierarchy should be imperative in all of our lives in order to reach that transcendence, but apart from that, let’s focus on living in the moment of now and awareness! I’m also glad two more levels were added! Those are so important as well! Love and light to you!💜✨
@SteAndRach3 жыл бұрын
Love and light to you too!💜✨ Those two levels make a huge difference, and you are right; she's so intelligent - We are trying to make self-improvement fun! We are building a likeminded community in our channel of people who wants to bring happiness and fulfill to their life, we would love to hear your thoughts since you seem to have similar interest.
@she_was_here3 жыл бұрын
Hey Aileen! I love your videos! You're an inspiration! Stay happy & Healthy!! Loads of love from India 🇮🇳
@powermeditation44453 жыл бұрын
Thank you for using this platform to change someone’s life! You’re an angel 😇
@anushaseechurn23592 жыл бұрын
Your channel has become my favourite of all KZfaq. I love your energy, clean heart happy soul
@sushmasharma83243 жыл бұрын
I've been waiting for a week for your video.. you just made my day💜💜💜💜💜
@DoodlesintheMembrane3 жыл бұрын
Honestly, I needed this, for the past 4 months I have been creating multiple educational infographics every day to help students study online throughout these difficult times. Yesterday was the first day I did not create a new graphic, and I went to bed feeling terrible and anxious. I really needed this video to start off a new and better day, thank you from the bottom of my heart.
@vijaypatil87023 жыл бұрын
She deserves a lot more subscribers! ☺She inspires so many people💖 and make our lives a billion times better!😉 I was missing you babe! 🥰 Love you as always😍.
@pushparao43163 жыл бұрын
Just love you , girl you are doing a great job . You will reach great heights in life and be really successful . For all the good things you are doing and the positivity you are spreading in the world , the almighty will definitely bless you and your family
@SteAndRach3 жыл бұрын
Love the positivity you are spreading and totally agree with you! She is amazing, she actually inspired us to create our own KZfaq channel last month!! Which has been one of the most fun experiences of our life so far 🙌☺️ Would love for you to check it out if you have time 💛
@TrishBlackwell3 жыл бұрын
"Focusing on what you can control". totally agree, Thanks lavendaire.
@niahjoe53413 жыл бұрын
Right now I’m struggling with Esteem as well. With a lot of tragic family events that recently happened and being pregnant , I just don’t feel like I’m good enough or can’t do anything right. Holding on to any ounce of happiness has been difficult. Thank you so much for the video! It really brightened my morning
@ojaswitaramteke37753 жыл бұрын
I get so excited when she posts because I already know that it's going to be so good! 💙
@rudig56983 жыл бұрын
I think happiness is in all of the small moment of life :)
@twilight33043 жыл бұрын
True
@gaganam82013 жыл бұрын
I was really waiting for your video. Recently I lost my grandpa and I'm currently searching for happiness. This doesn't make sense but listening to your video makes me calm and silences my negative thoughts. Love you Aileen!!
@LisaTran3 жыл бұрын
Omg Aileen! I literally just posted up a video about my career journey and my made-up 'maslow's hierarchy of CAREER needs' 😂 I've noticed how negatively I've looked at my own career - how time after time, despite changing careers, I still felt like my 'needs' weren't fulfilled. When you spoke about 'growth needs' though, it made me realise that this whole time, it's not like my needs weren't fulfilled, it was that I had fulfilled a need and was looking to satisfy the next! You've put a positive spin on this and I'm sending you much love for it!
@SteAndRach3 жыл бұрын
I will check it out your video right away - We are trying to grow our channel as well, We actually collabed with Will Smith on our latest video...in our dreams 😅 We shared some of the most impactful life lessons we have learned from him, if you are inspired by Will we would love for you to check it out on our channel 🙌, our mission is to make self-improvement fun and create a beautiful community there!
@laurine12633 жыл бұрын
Hi Aileen, I thought I would just take some time to thank you. I usually watch all of your videos without commenting. But I need to tell you how inspiring you are ! You help so many people to feel better, and we will never thank you enough for that ❤️ lots of love from France, merci :) !
@lavendaire3 жыл бұрын
Aw thank you, means a lot 🥰
@tonyc2007083 жыл бұрын
Thanks Aileen. I am somewhat familiar with the original Maslow Hierarchy of Needs but not the expanded version. My pyramid is interchangeable especially the growth level. I also believe happiness and fulfillment is inner feeling not just by choice.
@akshatasharma72493 жыл бұрын
You're a beautiful person!💜
@cblessymaria10603 жыл бұрын
Happiness overloaded when I saw your chanal notification
@angelicaquero52053 жыл бұрын
Hi Lavilove Aileen! I hope you are doing well. Thank you for being an inspiration to me and other ladies too. ❤
@melanysuarez57333 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Aileen. I didn't know the Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. It is very helpful. I think most of us are now going through a time of uncertainty and feel like many of our needs aren't being met and fall into the idea that everything is out of our control when maybe it's not entirely true. What is true though, is that we are experiencing a challenging moment and that is ok if sometimes we don't feel ok. Sending you love
@lavendaire3 жыл бұрын
it's okay to not be okay - we're here to experience the spectrum of life. and experiencing low times makes happy times even sweeter
@lifeonedge26643 жыл бұрын
Honestly this is an amazing video girl
@aliceswonderland32483 жыл бұрын
I recently stumbled upon your video on how to figure out what you want to do with your life, and I loved it so much I watched your other videos as well. I'm just 15, but I agree with a lot of things you said and I'm glad to learn more, things I did not know, or things that change my mindset. I just want to thank you. your videos get me thinking and they're giving me so much motivation to get the best out of my life, and improve as a person. ❤️
@RT37472 жыл бұрын
I have no words , Aileen I am very grateful that I found u and trust me ur helping a lot of people . The content is very practical and ur voice is really soothing , I am sure that the exercises u have recommended is goin to help me a lot and another thing I love is how u give ur very own opinion at the end . It just makes the whole video more natural and makes me feel we are listening to a right and experienced person . JUST KEEP GOING and ima SUPPORT you ❤️
@sugandhkatyal3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. Your knowledge in the subject and viewpoints are pretty well. The moment I think on a point you mention it. Like for example, the needs cannot necessarily be in order and I always used to wonder the same when I studied in classes Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs but this updated version I learnt from you today. Thank you. I also feel the transcende needs actually liberates us and makes us feel more empowered and confident when we are able to be of service to others even in a small way. I also believe that self care first is imp. Its important to fill your cup first then others but being of service to others is why we are here on the planet. Thank you Lavendaire.
@mahimag11483 жыл бұрын
Her videos gives my life value😭She is soooo positive😍keep going❤️❤️
@brennabeloved85403 жыл бұрын
I tried flipping the pyramid upside down. Now, I don't mean to minimize the reality or importance of our physical needs and what a struggle it is for many people to feel safe. However, I found it much easier to work on these things in my life when I started from a place of transcendence. I'd love to hear others' thoughts on this idea! I realize it is definitely a more privileged perspective to take but as someone who lacked a lot of safety, love, and esteem in their life, this perspective was extremely freeing.
@mahimag11483 жыл бұрын
Take a moment for appreciating her video skills😍So aesthetic and calm-full🥰
@sushma1506903 жыл бұрын
Couldn’t get over how your skin is glowing in this video
@vanessalndrck3 жыл бұрын
it would be really interesting if everyone put the 8 levels into a different more personal order. I love all the levels but the higher the pyramid gets the less I identify with its order. I looooove this video, you are so calm and aesthetic 💖 I think I am currently working on mastering the fourth level „esteem“ 😊
@Nardi_ta3 жыл бұрын
I love you when I see you I fell inspired
@Michaela-sh9mw3 жыл бұрын
oh yes! loved this so much! 🍒💕
@millennialgeisha21923 жыл бұрын
Been sharing this with others, but you’ve explained it SO much better that I ever could 🙌 Mahalo & shared 💗
@alexbean58763 жыл бұрын
She inspired me to create my own blog in the future like her 🥰
@azbahansari3 жыл бұрын
Connection makes me happy, be it with self, family, friends, strangers or nature. The sense of being able to connect with something or someone, that makes me happy.
@mamatasalgaonkar31163 жыл бұрын
Can u make updated version of the foll. A. How i organise my life B. Home tour C. Desk tour D. Ur journal connection
@Niffringo3 жыл бұрын
I really needed that Aileen sister ........................ I really needed desk tour please
@DebraWilderMeditation3 жыл бұрын
I think a person can have only the self-actualization and spirituality needs met and be very happy. It’s about mindset with so many unemployed living in tents or cars yet enjoying simple things like meditation and laughter.
@Bmnishu3 жыл бұрын
You always light up my mood 😌♥️💜♥️💜
@cherylrosales51073 жыл бұрын
Just exactly what we all need, right? Yeyy! Thanks, Aileen! 😍❤
@rhymemajotra32053 жыл бұрын
You have an amazing style❤️ I love the way you dress and embrace your natural beauty, you are my inspo❤️ long hair looks so stunning on you!
@ruqayyamateen25133 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Aileen I really needed this and I am soo grateful to you for it your videos come at the perfect time.
@janinea57863 жыл бұрын
Aileen, you are an inspiration! Thank you for posting this uplifting video! I totally agree with what you said, it's definitely about finding joy in the process.
@am4nhays3 жыл бұрын
This video saves me,I'm actually crying,and I opened the video to feel better,and magically,I am. Hahah thanks Aileen
@em_ik19563 жыл бұрын
Send you too much love !!! You're not alone sister❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@RobWill58643 жыл бұрын
knowledge is power for sure! I've gained much of my confidence and lack of fear in situations, especially with everything that is going on in 2020, simply due to the knowledge I have gained from my hunger to learn more.
@nourianoir6488 Жыл бұрын
To be happy you should be satisfied and grateful for what you already have and also for what you are going to have
@ayanorika57663 жыл бұрын
I just started studying tourism management and got hyped when I saw Maslows hierarchy of needs. Just knowing that I understand something hyped me up lol
@missladylexi3 жыл бұрын
Your videos always realign my energy and get me so positive and motivated. Thank you 💜✨
@doucedarling60093 жыл бұрын
and alsoooo you are so eloquent you speak very beautifully and clear 🤍
@Rg-es9kv3 жыл бұрын
I love the reasoning behind these videos, it's real empowerment not idealising a lifestyle or obtaining things or being an identified with a group that's better than others, those things are fake happiness. 😖
@lightwhispersreiki3 жыл бұрын
Learned Maslow Hierarchy in university but haven't thought about it in years. Definitely think the expanded version is so much more in depth.
@KiloKaizer3 жыл бұрын
Ur videos are honestly the most inspiring..I am so glad that I found your channel..Wishing you all love and success
@rynautumns76013 жыл бұрын
Could not have come at a better time! Thank you
@leneasuncionofficial3 жыл бұрын
you make me cry right now. thankyou 😭❤
@meerasharma15343 жыл бұрын
This was so much needed ❤ Thank you favourite 😇
@yaseensinsights3 жыл бұрын
I don't believe in searching for happiness, I believe happiness is in this moment, in being present!
@Cristinaplanters3 жыл бұрын
Youre absolutely brilliant ❗thank you..
@SamElle3 жыл бұрын
this is definitely the pick me up I needed this morning!! I've been struggling with feeling fulfilled and defining success and what makes me happy
@dallelbe3 жыл бұрын
May God bless you ♡ , you taught me about life more than my ppl did . Thank you infinitely
@ABetterYouEm3 жыл бұрын
I've been in a rut lately and this is actually super helpful - thank you 💙
@SuccessOsato3 жыл бұрын
I learned this in business management,but I never considered how I could apply this to my life.Thanks for the wake up call
@pushpahr74473 жыл бұрын
Hi Aileen Hope you are doing greaat Just wantee to tell you that whatever you are doing for the world is an amazing job You are always there in my prayers May all the forces be with you and support you You have helped me change my life and bring to the proper track when I needed to . Thanks a lot May the Almighty bless u girl!!
@azbahansari3 жыл бұрын
Needed right now for self awareness and self care
@samiramani17993 жыл бұрын
Thousands of hearts to tell you that you're my idol .......
@aleakimoonlight183 жыл бұрын
I need this, thank you and love u!💜
@Mattar553 жыл бұрын
kzfaq.info/get/bejne/atuHdqppza_Nipc.html. Vlog in Hiifa ooo
@stevenhamilton8012 жыл бұрын
And to add to being present as a key to happiness, we must detach from material possessions and emotions in relationships.
@malvikalove87123 жыл бұрын
Was waiting for her soo much .. Just loved this video and Now again wait starts for her another video 💓
@CassieWinter3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing the expanded hierarchy of needs! I hadn't heard of that one before.
@Diaryofz3 жыл бұрын
Your podcast and workshops and videos have helped me so much in my self growth process sending you so much love 🥺♥️and thank you ❤️