Please make the video on the Father Wound!

I'm a Muslim and I'm genuinely sending prayers your way, Margarita. To you and your children. Thank you for existing for us!

You're videos have completely changed my life, I'm in a much better headspace because of you, I've watched many youtubers and you are by far the one that's impacted my life the most and changed my whole perspective on everything, thank you from a fellow Australian 🥰

"Follow your gut" to me just translates to "Follow that anxious feeling in your stomach", and I've found that in trying to listen to that "gut feeling" so many people talk about is just me enabling my OCD compulsions. My body is hardwired for anxiety thanks to the mother wound + cptsd

My entire life I felt that my mom was very harsh, critical, & distant. I never felt close or warm with her. 4 years ago I started my inner work journey & I feel that I resented her so strongly in the past 4 years than ever, & today, she is my best friend. I truly healed & forgave her finally, & knew in seeing herself as a human & woman, instead of resenting her for the past, things would change. They did, & I feel very safe & close to her now which I believe would be impossible considering her nature over all these years. There are always possibilities for growth, but the change starts with you.

I love this reminder of mirroring even 30% of the time. My little girl was crying and my little boy was laughing, because he squirted water in her face, so I mirrored her emotion and connected with her, and then I mirrored his emotion (silliness) and redirected him to squirt water in a different direction and they were both smiling within literal seconds and I’m a better mom today because of this advice

You listing the Mother wound: Me. Me. Me. Yup, me. Ouch. Me. God - yes. Me. My mother hasn't been in my life for 10+ years. I tell well-intentioned idiots - it's not the alcoholic I cannot forgive, it is the sober woman who never took accountability. Who lied about me to friends and family. The works. I have two daughters, 10 and 4. It TERRIFIES me how this festering wound will effect them. I love them both so much and pour into their lives in so many ways. Yet - eventually I know they will see the depths of my pain. How could they not? Thank you for this video, Margarita.

"You're an extreme empath, but you don't feel your own feelings or your gut feelings". This is so fucking true!

I genuinely do feel like I’ve become a stronger, more self confident and boundaried woman since discovering your content. Thank you for the mentorship ❤

My mother broke me!!!! I am now thirty and although I strive to never be a victim of my past….it has been a tough journey of depression and self hate. I destroyed my own life thanks to my childhood issues that I didn’t know how to process.

I really love that you always remind your viewers of their mothers’ humanness. My mother was also a single mom (working three jobs with no financial or physical help from my dad), and my childhood was very difficult. It wasn’t easy for my mom… trying to support us, to be a mother, be a woman, be an individual, and experience all the ups and downs of life and real emotions that come with that. But her childhood was worse, and her mother’s even worse than that. I have a sister who puts so much blame on our mother (yet our absent father gets adoration for occasionally calling from out of the country to say hi) that it only ends up hurting both of them more than ever. 💔 I’m now a single mom myself. I’m always caught between: 1) that fear and pressure of knowing “every single thing you do as their mom will determine every single thing they do/feel as an adult” and, 2) “no one is perfect, and you need to love yourself and allow room for mistakes.” Will my children allow me room for mistakes when they’re older? I don’t know. But I hope so, and I try my best.

My mom never admits it when my kids are too much for her. The evidence is obvious, she gets snappy and frustrated, she gets stompy and bitter, and she gets so obviously annoyed by their presence that sometimes I have to walk away to cry. But when I ask her if she is ready for space, or if I tell my kids grandma doesn’t want us around right now, she will object like hearing and knowing that is going to hurt them. She has no clue how much that contradictory message hurts for a kid. “I want you here but I’m going to be annoyed and frustrated at you.” It’s so triggering for me, because my own childhood was that way. It would have hurt so much less if she had just told me that sometimes people need time and space to themselves. And that she loves me when I’m with her and when I’m not. So as much as it bothers her, I always let my kids know, out loud, that grandma needs space right now. We will come back when she is ready for us

Thank you for this, Margarita ❤

Thank you so much! Love your content Margarita! ❤

I just pre-ordered your book on Audible, I am so excited for it! Congratulations!!!

Thank you so much for that. Sending love from Brazil ❤

Hope you're doing well! I really needed this video ❤️

You quite literally saved my life with this one

Literally could not have come at a better time ♥️🙌

Preordered your book! ❤

Wonderfully said ❤

This video opened my eyes and helped me A LOT. Very grateful !

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I get excited to see Margarita come through the feed! Love your content and messages. Thanks for all you do for us queens! 🔥😍💜

Thank you sososososo much Margarita. I’m so thankful for you and your videos!! ❤

Awesome video Margarita - totally full of good knowledge, thank you ♥

This was very good.

Hey 👋 Sooo beautiful ... thank you so much for being so authentic! Greetings from Germany 🇩🇪 Silvia

OH MY GOD! I JUST REMEMBERED YOU WHILE JOURNALING BECAUSE I THOUGHT YOU MIGHT HAVE POSTED SINCE IT'S BEEN A FEW DAYS AND YOU POSTED THIS. i was waiting for this one because i think earlier you posted this but it was removed, so excited to watch it

Great video. Thank you ❤

Wow...this one was intense, powerful, and amazing. Thank you Margarita :) I love you!

Your videos have helped me so much, I came across attachment theory through one of your videos and started reading Attached and the other books you have recommended and it completely is changing my life for the better and have started to heal, thank you so much ❤️❤️

i am glad to learn about this topic.

Just started following your channel and it’s amazing. I went from feeling depressed to feel like there is hope. Thank you! Can you please do a podcast on confident communication?

These kind of videos help us to be more compassionate towards others..love them and be More patient with them and with ourselves.. 💖

Much love to you for helping us become better versions of ourselves!❤ Would like for you to do a video on a father wound as well please.

Wow! So insightful! X

We love you lots too Margarita.

I knew I had the father wound but had no idea I also had the mother wound my mum was also a single mother and I felt like I had to grow up fairly quick and taking on responsibilities that I didn’t need to. I got married four years ago and only now being a mother having been with a narcissist being physical abusive I thought I knew how to stand with my boundaries but I really didn’t. Having now left the marriage I’m really trying to figure myself out and work on my own trauma. I’ve learnt so much just from watching your videos and when I do I feel like I can take on the world. Thank for being sucha gem 💎❤

I love this!! ❤️

Thank you for this valuable video!!! Please make one for FATHER WOUND too. Thank you very much!

Love love love! Can you make a video about how to get in tune with your gut feeling more?? Amazing content Margarita! Thank you for all your support and love on this channel.

This is so hard! Long story short, I cut contact with my mother for a good 6 years and about a year ago after a long personal journey I reached out to my mother and asked her to tell me her story and it's probably the best thing I've ever done in my life. I am so happy I allowed myself to give her the space to open up, we're building a safe relationship now and it's helped me heal so much pain. Letting go of anger and disappointment and allowing others to be human is very freeing.

Thank you❤

❤this video so much! Btw I did email with the book preorder (27th May) the support email bounced so I resent to the Info one. Hadn’t heard back just yet but imagine there’s a bit of backlog maybe xx

A mother nurtures for a lifetime angel. You will see this love

Healing thanks to her❤

Thank you ❤

My mother has been struggling with schizophrenia and maniac bipolar disorder all my life. She was "well" functioning when I was younger up until like 10 years old. It was difficult navigating childhood because one minute she was sweet and embracing and the next she would be having these violently abusive outbrusts. It used to terrify me and my siblings and before her diagnosis we didn't fully have a understanding of what was wrong with her, it would just be us constantly blaming ourselves and each other for her behaviour. The older I got the more low functioning she became and absent she was. And now at 22 years old I feel I'll never get the version of my mother I once knew back, she's a shell of her old self, barely coherent and the illness really took a toll on her. I feel even with the physical abuse and verbal torment nothing was more difficult to cope with then her motherly absence.

Finally mother wound is talked about it’s always the romanticized daddy issues (I have both) but from my experience mother issues are the deepest cut you can ever get cause if your mother didn’t loved you unconditionally who’s gonna …

This is very true and then add in a Step Mother that did not want you to exist .

Most therapist are lying when it comes to really heal such very deep wounds - - because certain kind of wounds will never really heal at all.

I live in US and would love a paper copy of your book but the Amazon link only give an option for audiobook or kindle! Please let me know I have the audiobook coming but would love a physical copy! Your KZfaq videos changed my life ❤

My mother was pretty cold but not because she didn’t love us, because my dad was a wreck less alcoholic & she didn’t have the energy or patience for us unfortunately ☹️☹️☹️ I’m forgiving it though

Can you make a father wound video next? And how you healed yours ❤ love you

I pre ordered the book yesterday and sent an email.. waiting for a response from your team regarding the MasterClass giveaway

Hi Margarita... I hope you make a father wound video. I am very Interested in hearing what you have to say.

Thank you❤ so painful

I would like a video where you explain the differences between a narcissist and an avoidant. I have been really struggling to differentiate between the two and I'm at the point where if he's a narcissist I'm leaving, but if he's avoidant I will try and make things work. He ticks 7/10 of the narcissist "boxes" (none of them to the extreme) and all of the avoidant ones. I lean on the side of an anxious attachment style, not massively, but enough to cause issues (long distance doesn't help). I want to know what I am dealing with in order to make my next move. Thank you for your videos 😊

Please make a video on the father wound ❤

Margarita could you do a video on how to stay in your feminine energy when you’re going through something difficult? I totally understand the principle however when going through something difficult that may span a few months, how would a feminine energy woman deal with that with boundaries, being honest to herself and also still attractive to a man?

Gonna need the father video.

Hey ! I just pre - ordered , how do I sign up for the nasterclass for free ?

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Excellent. And its worth looking into this , without blaming , as you said Moms did therir best, what the were able to at that time. I always looked at my fathers role in my life more because he left when i was 11, only recently did i look at my mothers role and it was eye opening. Thank you for picking up the sublect and for your sound advise as always. I will preorder your book, one for me one for my daughter. Will you adress the fatherwound too? It would be much appreciated. Thank you

If we preorder how do we get the free polarity class?

Teachers are children’s primary caregivers at school for 8 hours a day. This has to affect how children see themselves too

Any films or series recs for mom's life or parents life because idk what having present parents feels like I've been neglected as a child my whole life

Well damn…I certainly have a mother wound. I relate to all of these things.

Still face experiment ❤

My mom loves me and is always there for me as she knows how and none of my other siblings are like me which I believe is anxious attachment so what does that mean?.

How to survive with a narcissistic mother? I am struggling right now so much. She's taking important decisions of my life. She doesn't want me to continue my study and lock me up in a room all the time.

How is your relationship with your mother now? Does she interfere in how you raise your kids? How do you make it manageable now?

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Hi. What is the name of your book again?

Can the Mother Wound come from a father where the energy dynamic in the home was flip flopped? The mother functioning mostly in the masculine energy and the father in the feminine?

Father Wound Plzzz

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if you gonna be my mommy im good

Thank you for sharing... 🫶🏽 Help me a lot!... I turned into my father, the advices

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