The ONLY 5 Style Rules I Follow Over 45 (You’ll Love These!)

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Sharing the 5 style rules that I live by to look classy and elegant everyday. These are not the typical rules that you often hear. These style rules (or should I say...guidelines) will help you feel your best and most confident every time you get dressed! Thank you so much for watching. Your support means the world to me! ~Erin xo
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Rule #1 | Fit is Key | 01:10
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@vickeytaylor9799 2 жыл бұрын

I totally agree with you Erin, I am 67, but I do not dress like a 67 year old woman, because I do not feel li,like, a 67 year old woman

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

Love that, Vickey! xo

@nancymartin347 2 жыл бұрын

U wear what u want

@joycegreer9391 2 жыл бұрын

YES. Same here. I am 69, do not feel 69, and wear what I like as long as I am comfortable and like the way I look. Forget what is supposed to be "appropriate" for your age.

@santoinetteberger 2 жыл бұрын

@@joycegreer9391 Same here. 69 next month. I am training with my husband for a ten mile race so try to eat right and exercise and not dress frumpy! I do not wear bare midriff or other skin revealing. As you stated, dress for comfort, and that is very individualized!

@60lollie 2 жыл бұрын

One of my rules when buying bargains is the 3 outfit rule. Whatever I buy has to work in at least 3 outfits. Actually I use the 3 outfit rule for all my clothing purchases. 😄

@fashionismypassiongirl660 2 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️I totally agree with you Erin, that the older I get the more ballsy I am. 😉👌🏻💕 If I want to wear trends, I do. If I want to look classy, I do. I see some bloggers say, you have to find your style. I’m like…. Why? Why do I have to find my style? I like a lot of things. I don’t have anything in particular I must follow. I just got to my mid forties and I love it. My three kids love my styling ideas, too. A lot of times we share clothes as well. We love it! 😁😁😁💕

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

I love that! I think "finding your style" makes it easier to shop and get dressed each day, but that never means you can't go outside of those parameters and experiment with all styles. Fashion is supposed to be fun...often times that gets forgotten! xo

@ludmilamudrikova 2 жыл бұрын

Totally agree with you, i'm 42 and discovered colours😁😁😁 never worn them before, i was typical sweats mom...and now i like to wear a lot of styles, lot of colours and gosh i wear dresses as well🤯🤣🤣...i hate when someone tells me at my age i need to wear certain things and have a short hair 'cos i'm too old to have them long...like wtf????

@CarolynandherClothes 2 жыл бұрын

Agree. 53 and wearing whatever I want.

@lisahannah3175 2 жыл бұрын

@@ludmilamudrikova I'm 52 and I'm wearing my hair longer than ever before. Even though I know my mom is rolling over in her grave because of it 😆

@conniepleasantnails 2 жыл бұрын

OMG I am totally here for your comment…such truth ❤️

@tracys694 2 жыл бұрын

Erin, I love you and your channel. At 44, after a lupus diagnosis and putting on considerable weight with medication, I hope everyone on here can learn love their body where it is at and not yearn for thinner years. You, and every woman over 40 watching this, have so much more to give the world than fitting into size 26 jeans. ♥️

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Tracy! xo

@shailyy3202 2 жыл бұрын

Stay Blessed Stay Happy 😘🤗🥰🧚‍♀️🦄🌈🧿

@annieyahu676 2 жыл бұрын

I read your comment Tracy and felt inspired to share something with you. I have been through alot in my health journey. Please do this for yourself, it has helped me. Go on Amazon or any book store and get a small book by Dr. Brooke Goldner M.D. it's called "Goodbye Lupus". You can also find her on KZfaq. I came across her testimony on KZfaq and she has helped alot of people. Be blessed.

@deannaspencer2650 2 жыл бұрын

@@BusbeeStyle you

@ritaowens7378 2 жыл бұрын

Having had systemic Lupus for over 25 years, it's been a struggle!!! I now do intermittent fasting. From 3pm to 7pm are my eating times. I feel better, I think my Lupus is more in control bc of the discipline and I certainly feel like my joints, muscles and bone health is better. When struggling with Lupus, you look for the small things that bring you JOY!!!!! Embracing the good, praying about the bad and simply living another day adding kindness and grace to this world!!!🤗🤗💖💖🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

@jeannine520 2 жыл бұрын

"Wear what you want" has been like an epiphany to me lately. I always bought clothes that I wanted to wear but never actually wore them. I was saving them for the "right" occasion, and what I mean by that is I was taking in to account what everyone else would be wearing around me so that I fit into whatever group I was going to be with. It dawned on me a couple of months ago that by letting the crowd dictate what I was wearing I was allowing strangers/coworkers/family members, etc., to dress me to the point that I was spending my life not feeling like myself. Kind of like getting dressed in someone else's closet and then feeling uncomfortable and resentful about it. I don't know why I didn't make those connections before but once I realized what I was doing it was easy to stop and dress only for myself. I can't overstate how much better I feel.

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

Love that, Jeannine! Maybe when your friends see how nice you are dressed they will be inspired too! xo

@martinedeecee 2 жыл бұрын

Same for me! When covid hit and we started having to work from home, after six months, I started ditching "office pants", "office sweaters", etc. I now have clothes I love, and those "office" clothes can be appreciated by someone else.

@TalkWithJoce Жыл бұрын

Yes! Be true to yourself and follow your joy!

@autumnzellers3855 Жыл бұрын

Love this! Yes!

@nicolewily4846 2 жыл бұрын

I Bought a Bucket Hat, yeah that simple!! Ive been wearing it instead of my usual baseball hat when I don’t want to wash my hair. Everyone stares (I feel like) and my mom said, “Aren’t you the trendsetter!” I just like hats even though the fit is out of my comfort zone and you don’t see a lot of people wearing them….I have just gone for it❤️😎

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

Love that, Nicole! If you feel confident...that's all that matters! xo

@tanjamomo7265 2 жыл бұрын

I am 46, and I wear what makes me happy and feels comfortable 😊 I have been working from home for 10 years and I literally get dressed up to go grocery shopping just so I can look nice because I work in sweat pants all day.

@tanjadoesart9824 Жыл бұрын

We have the same name

@angiegoesadventuring 2 жыл бұрын

I love you. Thank the Lord I've found you as a 40 something woman! Things I've thought to do but are not super confident with, you've given me confidence for. Rules I live by, you've reaffirmed my approach for. And generally I feel so much more confident in my body thanks to your videos so thank you. You're amazing 🙏🏻

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

Angie, I am SO glad that you are here! I'm honored to be a part of your journey and to hear that my tips are helpful to you. Thanks so much for watching! xo

@ruthrausch5237 2 жыл бұрын

At 86 I wear what I want and lots of color. Jeans are a must and not just plain ones. My motto is "just because you are old, you don't have to dress old".

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

Love that, Ruth! xo

@JessicaLovely1 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the "no workout clothes in public" challenge. It drives me nuts. I believe that is exactly what our country needs right now.

@PeachesSkinCare 2 жыл бұрын

I loved this. My New Years resolution at 56 was to stop the sweats and get dressed in something lovely everyday. I feel fabulous. As we age as women we can be more fabulous and more confident if we stop allowing social media and marketing to tell us how we should look and be as we age. I teach women everyday it isn’t to late to be your best. This was wonderful. Blessings 🍑🙌🏻🧡Lisa

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

Love that, Lisa! It’s never too late to be your best!! xo

@PeachesSkinCare 2 жыл бұрын

@@BusbeeStyle Thank you for always being so kind. Come and say hello one day! I would be honored. 🙌🏻🍑🧡Lisa

@ylcalif3681 Жыл бұрын

Another rule to add to the list: 1) Think about which clothing style best illustrates YOU (today) at a glance . . . you don't want your outward clothing messages to conflict with your inner self, intentions/mood/personality. Your clothing messages will change daily according to your mood and/or the event. That's why each woman wears an ever-changing range of styles (her signals to the world at that particular moment) I'm mostly classic + Boho + with a respectable bit of edgy

@rosej9686 2 жыл бұрын

Definitely agree we have to dress the body we have NOW and ignore the numbers! Great video! ❤

@chandaharkins4418 Жыл бұрын

Oh, that ego sure can get in the way, though. :) I recently sized up, and my clothes feel so much better! Why was I waiting?? Pride.

@ghc26 2 жыл бұрын

1) Yes!!! 2) Yes! 3) Yes! 4) Yes!, and 5) Yes! I couldn’t agree with you more! (Watching your daughter dance in her red dress, makes my heart happy!♥️)

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Gretchen! Me too! xo

@LizLyonsPhD 2 жыл бұрын

Amen! I love "I wear whatever I want". This was so encouraging Erin. Thank you.

@pixie3760 2 жыл бұрын

When I worked in television I was assigned to help a few of our ladies, I agree about fit 💯% also clothes that can be mixed and matched some of our guests had to travel by plane and they didnt want to bring suitcases full of clothes for 2 days. Just a simple trick of separates helped them so much. And if all else failed, I kept around half a dozen pretty shawls and I'd throw one of those over the whole thing, lol

@artdollz 2 жыл бұрын

Great set of rules to follow and I agree with every one! Some years ago I lost 30 lbs, gained back almost 15, but managed to lose 5. I've been struggling to get rid of the last 10 and get back to where I was but I'm so tired of being hung up on numbers! I exercise and eat healthy most of the time, so I constantly have to remind myself that I'm fit and strong and to just accept my body for where its at. Watching your videos helps give me that confidence! Thank you!

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

I'm SO glad! Grant yourself some grace. You will get there. xo

@Mexicobeanpole 2 жыл бұрын

What if you don’t “get there”. What if you decide that right here, right now, this is EXACTLY where your weight and body should be? I’ve been 25 lbs over what my favorite weight is since hitting menopause. I’ve lost 15. I’ve become obsessed over those last 10 lbs. To the point of working on it a full year!! I finally decided to take a 3 month diet “eat at maintenance” break, and then try again. If it doesn’t come off this time, I’m going to just listen to my body, that since menopause maybe it does not want to be that thin. Will I be happy about that?. No. Will I be ok with it? Yes. Sometimes, it just is what it is.

@michellehamric6856 2 жыл бұрын

At 67 I've learned to be confident in what I wear or I don't wear it, whatever "it" is. I've discovered recently how much I adore style/details reminiscent of the 1940's. The key is to keep the clothing updated, clean lines, chic, and classy. Also, I'm wearing lots of neutrals and mixing up the pairings. I'm even wearing neutrals that aren't in my color palette. I can make them work by using accessories or keeping my not best color on the bottom half. Confidence is truly everything!!

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing, Michelle! xo

@kellybonanno 2 жыл бұрын

I completely agree, Erin! Wear what makes you feel comfortable and beautiful regardless of age. I never liked that no white after Labor Day rule, especially here in southern California when it's often 85 in November!

@clairewillow6475 2 жыл бұрын

Ya that rule only makes sense in places where it gets dark and grey in the fall/winter

@worldover4616 2 жыл бұрын

I'm in south Florida and wear white all year long. I don't give a flip about that rule.

@worthigirl2946 2 жыл бұрын

I don't have rules for anything usually, but you are right on the money with your guidelines!! Agree with all!!💕💕

@Slaugenour 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this, Erin! My favorite idea of yours is to wear whatever I want, even if it's just cozy lounge clothes. As long as it supports the mood I want to achieve; either feeling relaxed or lovely in a pretty sweater.

@sonyavs455 2 жыл бұрын

I so appreciate your channel, Erin! I am 63 and I have found with added years comes more attitude that I’m going to wear what pleases me. As America continues its decent into more casual, aka slouchy, I have maintained my classic style and appreciate it more than ever. It’s my form of ‘rebellion’ - ha! I like dressing up and will continue to do so. It makes me feel good. As for the numbers, with vanity sizing that started so many years ago to feed our egos, it’s clear that numbers haven’t really meant anything in a long time anyway. It’s good to know your inch measurements for an accurate fit if you buy things on line, but no, the numbers in my closet go from 2 to 10 and they all fit!

@marieflorjacinto9390 2 жыл бұрын

I agree with you about being comfortable and how confident one is in their clothes and style.

@rigleiaknapp3227 2 жыл бұрын

It makes total sense! Thank Erin! I love you and all your content. You are genuine, kind, funny and smart.

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

You are SO sweet, Rigeia! xo

@JennODonnell 2 жыл бұрын

You’re so right about not focusing on the number but focus on the fit. I changed sizes and I look better when I wear what fits and it’s not like anyone asks me what size I am. I need to accept it and rock it.

@jennm3708 2 жыл бұрын

I love this! I recently lost a LOT of weight and have been using your advice to rebuild my wardrobe. I have literally had to replace everything in my closet (including shoes). Talk about a good excuse for a style reboot! (But also very overwhelming trying to start from nothing and build a closet without going broke😖) Some advice I would like to share-if someone is struggling with weight and feeling terrible like I was, finding a doctor that will listen is critical. I finally found a doctor willing to test me for an autoimmune disease, and getting the right diagnosis and treatment has changed my life. On the style rules: I can’t emphasize enough how important fit really is. In the process of rebuilding my closet, I have found brand sizes varying wildly. I am anything from an x-small petite/4P to a medium petite/10P depending on the brand all in the same day of trying on clothes. Bra sizes too-brands really vary a LOT, so really assessing how they fit regardless of what size the tag says is critical. If it doesn’t fit right, I don’t buy it. And on the bargain front, it is so true! I love a clearance sale, but if I wouldn’t pay full price for it, I don’t buy it. I look at the sales to find bargains on things I want but can’t stretch the budget to buy at full price. 1 style “rule” I live by: the right undergarments for the outfit are critical. Bad undergarments can ruin the nicest clothes, and the right ones can make a t-start and jeans look perfect.

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for sharing, Jenn! Great advice! Congratulations on your weight loss! xo

@stephaniekaufman1830 2 жыл бұрын

Wow! Congratulations on your weight loss . Wonderful implemented tips.

@debvoso9490 2 жыл бұрын

Excellent

@lisahannah3175 2 жыл бұрын

I'm in the process of losing weight. Waiting for my weight to settle before I spend a lot on a new wardrobe, but making plans.

@damayanti3231 Жыл бұрын

Confidence joy..added with comforts..absolutely agree !

@fabulisa5561 2 жыл бұрын

One of my favorite videos ever....Loved you trimming the, no doubt expensive, Tulle dress for your daughter, a memory she'll always cherish❤

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! It actually was not too expensive, but totally worth it for that smile! Glad you enjoyed this one, Lisa! xo

@rgler Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this !!! Loved it!

@mohanienandlal4672 2 жыл бұрын

Love this l! Thank you. My favorite rule is wear whatever you want !!

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

Mine too! Glad you enjoyed this one, Mohanie! xo

@Jacksonandjulian 2 жыл бұрын

I love your personality! You are the first KZfaqr I have found in my age group that really feels how I feel in my 40s, which is...still young and fabulous lol but also realistic and honest about the changes that occur at our age. Your approach is wonderful! Keep up the good work.

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you SO much, Jackson! xo

@jennifercrockford2381 2 жыл бұрын

Love this video! I have a lovely maxi dress that I feel fabulous in and I’ve never worn it because I haven’t had the occasion to.Now I’m inspired to wear it wherever I want!

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

I'm SO glad, Jennifer! Go for it! xo

@FreeToEatLife 2 жыл бұрын

Fabulous pointers!! Thank you, Erin!!

@nancyfisher3887 2 жыл бұрын

I have been watching your Busbee Style for a couple of years and you are always on point. I love how very real you are and how perfectly you demonstrate how and why. Thank you for your wonderful support and guidance. It is always nice to see WHY. Thank you.

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome! I appreciate your kind comment, Nancy! xo

@autumnzellers3855 Жыл бұрын

This was really great Erin. I loved 3 and 5 especially. I’ve been trying to sit on potential purchases a little bit longer to see if it’s something I need or an impulse buy. I think this is something critical especially with the bargain bin. You think, “Oh if I don’t get it now it’ll sell out and then I’ll miss it!” Just giving myself an hour or so to think about it can help me determine whether I need it or not. And it’s not even limited to clothes. It’s been saving me $$. And I thought 5 was so important. Going outside of your comfort zone just a little and wearing what you want can definitely make life more enjoyable. I bought a tulle skirt and have already worn it once. I thought it was only for something special, but it’s really fun. Even to the grocery store, makes life a little more lighthearted. Thanks again for your inspiration. BTW I loved the photos you shared, so beautiful!

@kristabiernat3778 2 жыл бұрын

You’re so inspiring. I am so glad I found you! I am 37 and have just started finding my style and confidence to wear what I like. Your videos have helped me so much! Thank you!

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

I’m so glad, Krista! xo

@joywhitley3141 2 жыл бұрын

Yes girl! I wear what I like and feel good in. ❤️

@carolaherget6876 2 жыл бұрын

You are sooo genuine ✨ ❤ 💛 thank you !! Your honesty and character shines through .....I have so much respect for this video !!!

@clarabaker4537 2 жыл бұрын

Awesome tips, thank you!

@HannahBMann 2 жыл бұрын

Love 'em all. Hoping #1 goes viral!! Size doesn't matter but the fit is truly everything!!

@michelelee5339 2 жыл бұрын

My favorite is 1-5! Thank you for sharing these tips. They're spot on!!!

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

You're so welcome, Michelle! xo

@viviennepayne7966 2 жыл бұрын

I love the way you do recaps after telling us the points of style. Such a great teaching technique and what I used to do as a trainer for the airlines and as a teacher. This really reinforces the information. Well done.

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Vivienne! I appreciate that feedback! xo

@marilyncoburn4936 2 жыл бұрын

Every piece of advice is golden. Something to really live by. Thanks for this.

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it, Marilyn! xo

@teriday2642 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks Erin! I’m an old chick but I love that you speak to us with fashionable choices and still look fashion appropriate! ❤️

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you SO much, Teri! xo

@jaycole2109 2 жыл бұрын

Erin! The tulle skirt and dresses are great on you! Love this video!

@flaviapoetic.perfumes4700 2 жыл бұрын

This video is so full of important and valuable advice. Thank you, Erin!!! Much love to you and your family.

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome, Flavia! xo

@letajohnson8838 2 жыл бұрын

My favorite style "rule" for myself is also not wearing I'll fitting clothes, and I couldn't care less what the number size is! My favorite bootcut jeans come from a discount store ($14), and although I truly wear a 10, they are a numbered size 8, but they look like a size 6 because they fit so well. They are a dark wash, have just the right whiskering, and are durable. Who cares what the numbered size is when it's sewn inside the jeans? Nobody but me knows what it says anyway.

@lp1243 2 жыл бұрын

Can you tell me more about where I can buy these jeans?

@madelinesheridan3765 Жыл бұрын

Yes, I’ve never noticed anyone going through my clothes to see what size they are 😁

@ArtsyCupcake 2 жыл бұрын

Wear it with confidence - so true!! ❤️

@margarettuimising9995 2 жыл бұрын

This was a great one. Thanks Erin. Love these connections between outward and inward styles. Love the mother-daughter outfits. Nothing sweeter than creating memories for our loved ones😍🥰

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it, Margaret! xo

@martinedeecee 2 жыл бұрын

@@BusbeeStyle I actually got teary eyed when you spoke of the mother daughter dresses and your special opera night. She will treasure that memory her whole life.

@janberryhill1159 2 жыл бұрын

@2twentysix 2 жыл бұрын

I do most of what you discuss and learnt some more but what I loved most is the special memory you created with your daughter ❤️

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, Silv! xo

@hopefully2224 2 жыл бұрын

Your advice & personality is the best!

@bellaschultz3749 2 жыл бұрын

Erin, I always feel good after watching your videos. You are so kind and joyful ❤️.

@silverfox5732 2 жыл бұрын

You are queen, you are so right I pushed myself and bought this sleeveless white dress to wear to my granddaughters dance performance and it have a pull tie belt I never ever even think about buying let alone getting it to wear,but listening to you lately have me thinking and seeing myself differently 😉. and it's definitely making me feel better.

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you SO much for sharing that with me...I am so glad to hear that my videos are helping you to prioritize yourself, because that is so very important. NOW is the time to wear the dress, the future is never guaranteed. Thanks for watching and supporting my channel. xo

@creature57 2 жыл бұрын

You're amazing Erin. Love this list and the video. Thank you! My favorite is Wear Whatever You Want. I've always done that but now I'm older, I'm even more selective than I used to be.

@tararosin8613 2 жыл бұрын

❣️amen❣️ “I will wear what ever I want at any age” love this rule!

@ericawentz2734 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for another inspiring video, Erin! I agree with all your rules, and, like you, my favorite is also “wear whatever you want at any age”! Keep up the good work and have fun!

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you SO much, Erika! xo

@marisacooper5364 2 жыл бұрын

They are all my favorites- such timeless and thoughtful tips to consider... however, the message behind “getting the risky piece and seeing where it takes you” was moving, you are so genuine sharing so much of yourself with your daughter as well. And, getting dressed each day and wearing what makes you feel amazing is such a simple gift to give ourselves- the effort is little compared to the boost of confidence it brings. 🌷

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you SO much, Marisa! Glad you enjoyed this one! xo

@gypsybelle4757 Жыл бұрын

I *love* your tulle skirt and the dresses! Thank you for inspiring us to go for it!

@theduallanguagechannel 2 жыл бұрын

I just love y’all so much. Yassss to everything you said here. I recently started shopping jackets online for the selection I get and became painfully aware of the should seam issue. Visit to the tailor pending…tic toc tic toc… Also lived in Spain 🇪🇸 intermittently throughout my five years of college. Changed my fashion sense forever. I dress up everywhere I go, something expressed in areas of Latin America, too! Pumps/platforms are a part of my daily attire unless I’m in fancy sneakers or statement shoes. Another, yassss! 🇪🇸❤️ …and I’m 5’7” and I wear tall shoes on the daily even though people try to tell me I “don’t need to”…uh, yeah…I need to because I love to! 💪🏼💄

@debbiedaniel9774 2 жыл бұрын

Love and agree with all your guidelines!

@debrawarrick2911 2 жыл бұрын

Love these tips! ❤️ I'm 5'2" and I swear by my boot cut and flare jeans for adding elegance and height...with 2 or 3 inch heels 👠 of course.

@hettiegrubbs 2 жыл бұрын

Loved the tulle skirt, the photos in beautiful places and the beautiful dresses. Thank you for such an inspiring video!

@ambermullins6158 2 жыл бұрын

I teared up when I saw you and your daughter together in those beautiful dresses! 🥺💗 I love how her face lit up! ❤️ My favorite rule: Where what you want! I need to remind myself of this.. I get stuck wearing the same old thing cuz I think I have to! Thanks Erin! You're amazing! 😘

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!! I just love looking at the pure joy on her face in that video clip! SO glad I captured this moment! xo

@guadalupenavarro2398 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Erin!

@jeanineskitchen2607 2 жыл бұрын

love it,i needed this push

@anaqueirozsantos7249 Жыл бұрын

Good for you , Erin! 🎊

@mobe494 2 жыл бұрын

How wonderful to see you and Elizabeth going to the opera! 🤗 She looked pumped!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 So happy you and your husband stepped out of your comfort zone and gave your children this priceless experience! Growing up abroad (as a military brat) shaped my ideals about culture and my place as an American in the world! Invaluable!!

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you! I just love watching her face in that video! xo

@sheylacherryholmes1550 2 жыл бұрын

Love your inspiration examples. Thank you for sharing 😘

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

You're SO welcome, Sheyla! xo

@dianneharding2878 2 жыл бұрын

Love your style attitude Erin and completely agree

@mariay.cotter8842 Жыл бұрын

I'm sooo grateful I found this channel!!!! ❤❤❤❤

@jac1797 2 жыл бұрын

Since you went to Madrid your style has evolved and your hair style has evolved and you look fabulous and so classic. I enjoy watching everything on your channel now so much more! And I'm in over 50 watcher.

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!! I appreciate the kind comment! xo

@MariekevanBuytene 2 жыл бұрын

You give the best style advice! Cheers from the Netherlands!

@traciemacdonald4329 2 жыл бұрын

Love your vids! I am visiting Madrid next month and can’t wait!!!

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

I hope you have SO much fun, Tracie! Thanks for your support of my videos. xo

@jmarden3529 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for this video!

@iggybiggy821 2 жыл бұрын

Awesome video! Best place to get to as a woman is embracing and dressing for the body you have and feeling wonderful in your clothes because they actually fit properly....because you bought the correct size, fit and style for YOU! That alone will make you feel better about yourself. Not to be misconstrued with giving up fitness and nutrition goals. I've been less fit, more fit or really fit (but not completely unfit) and I full on recommend learning to accept and love all of those versions of yourself younger than I did and dressing for them as required. You'll waste less time disliking your body and no money can ever buy that feeling! Add to this the classy strategic showing of skin, bargain beware and wear what you love, this video nails it Erin!

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

SO true!! Glad you liked this one, Iggy! xo

@franwillard4398 2 жыл бұрын

This was such a great video! Thank you!💖

@marciamachado6557 2 жыл бұрын

So wonderful style rules ! I liked a lot! Thank you

@marianamedina9299 2 жыл бұрын

Finally a woman very honest! You are amazing Erin! I'm 46 and I will follow the rules that works for me! You are stunning!

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you SO much, Mariana! xo

@dianeboross6978 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the inspiration, Erin. You certainly know how to make looking your best fun. I so enjoy watching you, especially since I am of similar size and have dealt with similar challenges. I appreciate your fresh elegance. You inspire me.

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome! SO glad you find our content so helpful, Diane! xo

@susiepattinson3031 Жыл бұрын

Agree with everything. At 66, curvy petite, I wear well fitting classics, and that works for me and my body shape. ❤️love your channel.

@bbowers5049 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for always inspiring us!

@lisadieter-burns 2 жыл бұрын

Spot On as usual. Thanks Erin!

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Lisa! xo

@AB-ib3nf 2 жыл бұрын

Best video yet. I'm subscribed. Thanks Get what you love. That's key for life❣️

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you SO much for watching and for your support! SO glad you enjoyed this video. xo

@eliv.7062 2 жыл бұрын

Lovin' all your rules, especially number 5, because basically it's about the joy of getting dressed!! 💓

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

So true! Thanks for watching. xo

@DearSybersue 2 жыл бұрын

You are totally inspiring me to clean out my closet!! I love your style and your videos! Thank you! ❤️

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

Yay! You've got this! Thanks for watching. xo

@gillianbooth8225 2 жыл бұрын

Love this x

@leamoker 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Erin I'm loving your channel! I am petite also and have struggled over the years to look elegant, love all your advice. 😀

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your support, Kerry! xo

@lkylaurenkay 2 жыл бұрын

Queen!! We are the same age and totally agree with your no rules style...Those photos in the dresses are iconic.

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you! xo

@janicerice8810 2 жыл бұрын

Your lessons are always so helpful. Excellent advice. You are truly knowledgeable in style expertise!

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Janice! xo

@AnnieAtRecess 2 жыл бұрын

Love this! Love YOU! We are completely different body types, BUT like the few other ladies I respect on KZfaq, your advice translates across size, height, and age. I appreciated your recommendation to seek out pieces you love and wait for them to go on sale. I especially like to do this with my wardrobe staples like my favorite white tee. They are normally overpriced in my opinion, so I wait until I see them go for 70% off annually, and buy multiples.

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

So glad you loved this one, Annie! xo

@jamievaduva1708 2 жыл бұрын

I just love you! Thank you for being so inspiring! I always look forward to your videos.

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you SO much, Jamie! xo

@jeanmaddison2362 2 жыл бұрын

Love your style tips

@fittobelive 2 жыл бұрын

Thank-you for a wonderful video. I TOTALLY hear ya on the "Thank-you Menopause" in relation to a changing body. AND, you are absolutely right that sizing up and wearing clothing that you love makes you absolutely GORGEOUS! We come in all shapes and sizes and we are all beautiful 😊, its time all ladies embrace our amazing bodies just as they are right now. The now is always "the best of times". God Bless

@jessw6617 2 жыл бұрын

An amazing video Erin, great motivation too 💓 What a day to remember, Elizabeth looked so sophisticated and grown up and was obviously having a ball in her new gown

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Jess! It was a great experience! xo

@alisonsneed3707 2 жыл бұрын

Your best video to date. All the concepts! Especially the At Any Age philosophy, thank you for going there. And the activities being inspired by the garments - yes, totally yes. Clothing can make you live your best life.

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you SO much, Alison! xo

@dmarkey4360 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Erin! Great video❤️

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

You're SO welcome! xo

@Soldout564 Жыл бұрын

This is such a refreshing video! For me, I feel uncomfortable following trends that are a great departure from my clasic personal style. I can now feel affirmed in "wearing what I want" provided I look appropriate for the occassion and feel confident. ❤❤❤

@BusbeeStyle Жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching, Kim! Always wear the things you love! Fashion should be fun. xo

@kittykittoon 2 жыл бұрын

This is one of my favourite vids of yours. The relaxed plus alert & elegant take on things. Very evolved. 😘

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it! xo

@cynthiacollins1378 2 жыл бұрын

Love these, I have fallen for the bargain trap many times, thanks for talking about the fix to that

@hen3916 2 жыл бұрын

The best style 'strategy' I can relate to. Yes! Confidence is the best fashion! Keep up the great work on your channel Erin I really enjoy your videos.

@BusbeeStyle 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! xo