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The ONLY Way to Stop Being a Coward

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Forged

Forged

2 жыл бұрын

Want to know the internal reason why you're feeling stuck & frustrated in life? Both what made you afraid to pursue/achieve growth & what made you vulnerable to the problems of world? You lack AGGRESSION. Your lack of aggression is what gets you to think too much that caused you to become overwhelmed with fear, that eventually lead you to miss opportunities, remain stagnant & waste a lot of precious time.
Your lack of aggression is what makes you fragile & susceptible to inevitable undesired/painful circumstances from both people & nature, penetrating your mentality and controlling your frame of mind and eventually, your actions.
Aggression is viewed & preached as an undesirable trait for men, they call it "TOXIC", because they always associate it with anger, hate & violence. But, they are necessary for our survival & prosperity in this power hungry & extremely competitive world. Society only looks at one side of the coin when it comes to aggression, without taking the other, more important side, into deep consideration. Fair enough, because human beings in general, love to rush into conclusions & generalize things because they hate the feeling of not being able to have a firm grasp/understanding of a particular element of life, but often, they are stubborn & ignorant enough to not see things from different perspectives to further solidify their judgements.
That is why, this video will explore that particular side, and explain to you why having, showcasing & imposing aggression is necessary for men. You must not reject it/repress it.
#masculinity #selfimprovement #mindset
#motivation #ruthless #relentless #king

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@Forged88
@Forged88 5 ай бұрын
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@lbcreativedesigns9210
@lbcreativedesigns9210 2 жыл бұрын
" anger is more of an emotional reaction , while aggression is more if an attitude". Yes sir, well said.
@mahogany7712
@mahogany7712 Жыл бұрын
@DIDI MUSK Lim Idk why but I have the urge to go out in a "Blaze of Glory" in a significant event in history rather than going with the long term, The world and the universe is old. So old that we Humans and our lives are just speck compared to it so I wanna be part of something explosive and influential even though it fizzles me out early an event that will last for centuries and remember the deeds we've done.......for better or worse, I might say different when face with that reality but thats the beauty of it. Conquering your doubts and worries in that exact moment where your decision can make or break a current situation.
@clevelandwilliams5922
@clevelandwilliams5922 Жыл бұрын
What your talking about is fearlessness. Stand up & overcome the adversity.
@lbcreativedesigns9210
@lbcreativedesigns9210 Жыл бұрын
@@clevelandwilliams5922 AMEN. THE WORD🙏
@samfisher9413
@samfisher9413 Жыл бұрын
​@@mahogany7712sounds to me like warrior blood courses through your veins.
@samfisher9413
@samfisher9413 Жыл бұрын
​@@clevelandwilliams5922I know that you don't understand this but what you really just said is get up and conform.
@sunofahayah
@sunofahayah 2 жыл бұрын
That phrase hit home for me, I'll carry that with me. "Dangerous but not violent, ruthless but not vicious, formidable but not terrifying." Like a lion.
@manjitkapri1816
@manjitkapri1816 Жыл бұрын
Lions are mad terrifying
@Blitz_Zayne04
@Blitz_Zayne04 Жыл бұрын
The Apex Predator. 🦁
@EstanislaoSantino-xk8uz
@EstanislaoSantino-xk8uz 5 ай бұрын
And violence sometimes​@@manjitkapri1816
@jeffsmith5787
@jeffsmith5787 3 ай бұрын
Sit down and shut up. You're not special. 😃
@Wario_B
@Wario_B Жыл бұрын
A kind person is not always a coward, and a coward is not always kind
@DawnshieId
@DawnshieId Жыл бұрын
They're basically opposites. Do you know how much bravery it takes to have a good heart while surrounded by a bad world?
@user-vh4uz9kx6c
@user-vh4uz9kx6c 10 ай бұрын
⁠​⁠@@DawnshieIdNo they’re just cowards
@redandblackpill
@redandblackpill 6 ай бұрын
​@@DawnshieId stupidity*
@DawnshieId
@DawnshieId 6 ай бұрын
@@redandblackpill I guess you'd never be a hero then.
@DawnshieId
@DawnshieId 6 ай бұрын
@@user-vh4uz9kx6c Or maybe to some people, not everything has to be a doomsday prepping strategy. Some people are kind because they just want to be kind. Because they want to see others thrive. Just because you're an insecure coward who needs to be at the top of everything, doesn't mean everyone is. Some people genuinely love and don't feel the need to be against everyone else. Not everyone's a zombie like you. And the silliest part is that you can change. You can become a good and brave person the day you choose to. Your cowardice is all voluntary. Which only makes it more laughable.
@WarriorPrime1
@WarriorPrime1 2 жыл бұрын
Well said and a very important message. It correlates to a definition of manhood I heard long ago from a minister....manhood is controlled power used for purposes higher than self. There is a difference between being a good man and a "nice" guy, two things often conflated.
@wowfmomf6126
@wowfmomf6126 8 ай бұрын
My biggest regret in life is living as a nice guy and a people's pleaser, it messed me up. The people that used me did not respect me they instead looked at me as a fool or more precisely a donkey to ride to their goals and purposes now i am 31 unemployed messed up my college, and now i am all alone the people i served didn't help me with life after that.
@coreythomas3633
@coreythomas3633 2 жыл бұрын
Killer instinct is hard to control but worth it. Takes practice
@Frostbite_001
@Frostbite_001 Жыл бұрын
Can’t tell you how many times I have gotten the feeling to beat the shit out of someone but didn’t. There was this one guy in 8th grade that was a small little scrawny boy compared to me. He kept on trying to bait me into attacking him, by slapping me in the face and saying derogatory stuff. I could feel the urge to just punch him and then get him on the ground and straight up maul him until his face was unrecognizable. I didn’t though and kept my composure. But the feeling and urge was there. And that little boy I was back then is incomprehensibly weaker than I am now both physically and mentally. So that’s the closest I have ever been to releasing my inner lion on someone, But I didn’t.
@RustyIsScared
@RustyIsScared Жыл бұрын
@@Frostbite_001 sounds like you were scared tbh. If someone is attacking you, then youre not in the wrong for disarming the situation. Its not respectable to just let people do whatever they want «cus u dont wanna let the lion out» ya know
@exothermic8525
@exothermic8525 Жыл бұрын
​@@RustyIsScared cowards always have an excuse for not defending themselves.
@RustyIsScared
@RustyIsScared Жыл бұрын
@@exothermic8525 amen
@fieldofshadow
@fieldofshadow Жыл бұрын
​@@exothermic8525 agreed 😂
@Pawn2King_1
@Pawn2King_1 2 жыл бұрын
...Bro your content is so underrated in Self Improvement environment, wish all men could see this 💪
@wowfmomf6126
@wowfmomf6126 8 ай бұрын
Man thank you soooo much, i am such a big coward and it literally destroyed my career my academic performance and my financial situation and turned me into a helpless worthless person with no life and no future, i spent all my time money and energy on pleasing people and making sure they like me or makung sure they are not unhappy with what i say or do. I became a perfect slave an obedient donkey with a comfortable mount on my back for people to ride me for their own interests and pleasure. What you mentioned in this video is something that i should have been listening to and applying way earlier in my life 😢 but i was (and i am afriad i am still a coward).
@Forged88
@Forged88 8 ай бұрын
Be selfish my friend 👊 impose your desires & preferences. Don't accept things you don't tolerate or be quiet about it. Anticipate & expect resistance from others, but stand your ground and persist in your boundaries. You'll thank me later. Good luck mate
@tuckerl917
@tuckerl917 5 ай бұрын
Weak. Alone.
@tuckerl917
@tuckerl917 5 ай бұрын
Persist
@tuckerl917
@tuckerl917 5 ай бұрын
Disease. Sickness. Illness. Routine.
@gleed33
@gleed33 2 ай бұрын
The only way to nurture those who truly care for you, is to nurture yourself. To struggle, to protect, to suffer, and to love in spite of that is the makings of a hero. So go and do what you do unto others, to yourself. Bravery isn’t not feeling the fear, it’s being scared out of your mind and choosing to face it
@matthewsilva5598
@matthewsilva5598 2 жыл бұрын
Well done 👏 I believe using aggression is key to conquering goals. Using anger and aggression in a positive manner can make you achieve because your tired of being average soft and lazy and makes you wanna destroy fear or doubt and just be a badass. That's why I believe you should look at yourself as a true warrior and I mean for real.
@alex-dj3of
@alex-dj3of Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@samfisher9413
@samfisher9413 Жыл бұрын
What you just described will never happen so long as men have this almost fetishized need to create their own bonds and submit themselves to the terrorist criminal regime commonly known as government. Men create their own chains and then when they find themselves steadfastly enslaved betrayed by all they cannot figure out why, And when given the answers freely they deny it and insist so steadfastly that there must be some other cause.
@popeboi172
@popeboi172 10 ай бұрын
💯
@hfifm
@hfifm 2 жыл бұрын
Your videos have all deeply resonated with me in ways most people I know don’t understand. Thank you for being a voice that spurs me forward in my journey to become a man worth being
@DawnshieId
@DawnshieId Жыл бұрын
You can be strong-willed and kind-hearted. True kindness doesn't mean giving in or compromising when bullied. Oh no, not at all. It means that just because you've experienced it, doesn't mean you'll cause it. A kind and brave heart is where the darkness of this world ends and the light of Heaven begins. Fight back against the evil without becoming one of them. If you seek to be more monstrous than the other monsters, you might win the battles, but you've been won over in the war. A true man is a fortress of good. 🛡💛
@EstanislaoSantino-xk8uz
@EstanislaoSantino-xk8uz 5 ай бұрын
Sometimes the Brave and Kind heart can be in the opposite side, is depends on you perceive of who dark and evil of those 2 sides
@DawnshieId
@DawnshieId 5 ай бұрын
@@EstanislaoSantino-xk8uz I'm not sure I understand. Care to explain more about that?
@EstanislaoSantino-xk8uz
@EstanislaoSantino-xk8uz 5 ай бұрын
@@DawnshieId You Will understand it later.
@DawnshieId
@DawnshieId 5 ай бұрын
@@EstanislaoSantino-xk8uz I'm wise because I questioned. I deserve to know. But just in case I already do, I'll state my belief on it: no, everybody who is brave and kind is on the good side. Moral relativism is nonsense. Good and evil are spiritual forces, not social constructs. Everyone knows whether they want to cause healing or suffering, whether they want to put the weak or the strong first, whether they're good or evil.
@EstanislaoSantino-xk8uz
@EstanislaoSantino-xk8uz 5 ай бұрын
@@DawnshieId well that correct. You did the good jobs buds.
@daviddimalanta259
@daviddimalanta259 Жыл бұрын
I feel that every time I tried to suppress my anger to avoid wrong moves or when this reason to argue is unnecessary, I felt my head hurts more and eventually put me to sleep. I felt like I need to seek a hobby to enter sports like wrestling or MMA to sublimate my anger rather than being puzzled by emotionally challenged people
@SonGokouu
@SonGokouu Жыл бұрын
Bro, I need more bros. There's feminine energy everywhere lol
@JoeJohnson-mk4qd
@JoeJohnson-mk4qd Жыл бұрын
So true, its like society has been trying to shame us for being born a man, and tries to shape us to become a woman.
@hustler21583
@hustler21583 4 ай бұрын
THE MAN IS FORGED. THE THOUGHTS TELL IT THEMSELVES. THANK YOU BROTHER. KEEP GUIDING US! STAND STRONG BROTHERS💪💪
@smartblackguy9143
@smartblackguy9143 2 жыл бұрын
Its so crazy the content of this video is exactly what I’ve been doing way more since I started working again a couple of weeks ago. People really respect me because I always stand my ground and speak logical sense. And I don’t let anyone disrespect me down to the tone of their voice. Don’t care of your a manager either. I respect you as a human first before a damn title so cross the line if you want and I’ll just give you the same energy back.
@wowfmomf6126
@wowfmomf6126 8 ай бұрын
I wish i could be like you, i am the total opposite and as a result i have no life, no career, nessed up my education and the people that i was sooooo much worried about their view and look towards me and how they will talk about me and how they will see me now do not respect me at all.
@snipzmattio5887
@snipzmattio5887 Жыл бұрын
Dude just dropped the hardest video ever. Well spoken 👍
@wowfmomf6126
@wowfmomf6126 8 ай бұрын
Facts!!!🔥🔥🔥
@LeonBugarin
@LeonBugarin 4 ай бұрын
I love your words and Reflections about the context of the reality. I think the same, the passion and pulsing of the destruction is a necessary for the life, they need be a focused with proposed of the let out and building news opportunity’s. The angry isn’t bad, the Hate yes, it is.
@imawarrior313
@imawarrior313 2 жыл бұрын
Really needed this man thank u so much .. can please make one explaining how to get the male aggression and roughness back once uve lost it when u let external things enter ur mind?
@Forged88
@Forged88 2 жыл бұрын
I should've included this in the video, but I'm just going to give it to you anyway. To tap into your aggression, you have to reminisce, recognize & realize your own past disappointments/regrets in yourself, and get them to ethically fatigue your own mindset (The initial one you want to change) until eventually you are determined/unwavering enough to eventually make a change. The circumstances that didn't go the way you want them to, all because you were too weak, afraid & vulnerable to impose your desires & principles. Like not taking an opportunity that you've always wanted all because you're too afraid to be embarassed & letting people use you as a meaningless/disposable tool, all because you're afraid to call them out and possibly start conflicts. Think deeply about them and make yourself feel undisputedly bad about yourself, almost to the point of disgust to your own thoughts & actions, that you eventually make the devoted decision to change yourself. And I know the normal narrative is to say, don't regret "anything" you've done in life. But the truth is we all feel regrets in certain crucial/meaningful circumstances. The only way to get rid of regrets is to bring them to justice by eliminating what made you regret something in the first place, through not repeating the same mistake when a relatively similar circumstance/situation present itself in front of you once again. Reclaiming your aggression is all about unlocking those strong emotions that you felt through your past disappointments & regrets in life, and utilize them constructively to make significant changes to your attitude towards future circumstances that previously got you to be dissapointed/ feel regretful about Hopefully this helps 👊
@isaacelinamspielberg5752
@isaacelinamspielberg5752 2 жыл бұрын
And thanks for teaching
@eduardoramirez4541
@eduardoramirez4541 Жыл бұрын
Just the intro got me thinking 😮👏 subscribed
@Peoplearefood
@Peoplearefood Жыл бұрын
Good vid broski
@gregska5847
@gregska5847 2 жыл бұрын
Thanx!!!
@juliousceaser
@juliousceaser Жыл бұрын
Great channel glad I found it.
@Dave005ZFile
@Dave005ZFile Жыл бұрын
I only act in self defense.
@brunokalil142
@brunokalil142 Жыл бұрын
Excelent video!
@peoplesever28
@peoplesever28 2 жыл бұрын
The ending of this message 👌🔥
@kidfrenzy2273
@kidfrenzy2273 Жыл бұрын
This hit different
@RajBeats
@RajBeats 2 жыл бұрын
Another great video
@leadingauctions8440
@leadingauctions8440 8 ай бұрын
So much truth.
@JIMMYSTON3R
@JIMMYSTON3R Жыл бұрын
For me it’s not fear of Criticism’s, condemnations, and repulsion but fear of being locked inside of a cage with animals for years of my life, but I hear you though.
@Forged88
@Forged88 Жыл бұрын
"Locked inaide a cage with animals" could you elaborate on that further, my friend?
@JIMMYSTON3R
@JIMMYSTON3R Жыл бұрын
@@Forged88 sure, I just meant being arrested and sent to prison.
@JoeJohnson-mk4qd
@JoeJohnson-mk4qd Жыл бұрын
Too true, this modern world will try its absolute hardest to suppress and limit a man’s natural behaviors
@44_bulldogT
@44_bulldogT Жыл бұрын
If you get locked in a cage with animals, you will emerge a beast.
@ricodsanchez6792
@ricodsanchez6792 Жыл бұрын
​@Terry Arthur no u won't u will die. These types of mindsets r as destructive s doing nothing. U need to arm urself with the knowledge of consequences and navigate cautiously through situations
@marquanbrand-moorehead1887
@marquanbrand-moorehead1887 Жыл бұрын
Stop Being A Coward, Be Aggressive Feels Good Never Stop Being Dangerous This World These Days Need To Stop Be A Coward,
@user-nu4um2gr3d
@user-nu4um2gr3d Жыл бұрын
I'm not trying to look or sound tough it's just it seems that way sometimes, because there are so many men not willing to fight or stand up for themselves, and it makes me very sad and even afraid.
@clevelandwilliams5922
@clevelandwilliams5922 Жыл бұрын
What we need to foster is righteous indignation.
@blueflame3531
@blueflame3531 Жыл бұрын
I wish I could be a chad I hate when my fear blocks my response
@wowfmomf6126
@wowfmomf6126 8 ай бұрын
That us sadly exactly me, cowardness destroyed my life.
@still_g_dave429
@still_g_dave429 Жыл бұрын
Yes and no lack of self control leads to extreme violence doe 😬
@Chinosavage98
@Chinosavage98 10 ай бұрын
Right On
@jibbersdelight1616
@jibbersdelight1616 Жыл бұрын
I turn my enemies into allies.
@oNe-TwO-fReE
@oNe-TwO-fReE Жыл бұрын
With the many motivation videos online urging young men to be Alpha-Males and leaders there is only enough room in society for people of this type. Men who decide to take the path of being peaceful and avoiding conflict should not be chastised or shamed for it. Some people are just like that. It is so easy from a position of strength brimming with courage, aggression and natural attributes to look down and shame people who they see as cowards. Courage I have found is way way more than being a physical thing. I used to find the physical courage easy compared to being emotionally strong and courageous. And its not all down to Testosterone either.
@user-xd2os7cq6z
@user-xd2os7cq6z 5 ай бұрын
😂.I am aggressive by nature, but I have total control over it,and gets the work done....
@abdulsamad74581
@abdulsamad74581 Жыл бұрын
This is profound. I still come back to rewatch. Have u tried writing a book
@Forged88
@Forged88 Жыл бұрын
I am writing one currently mate 👊
@abdulsamad74581
@abdulsamad74581 Жыл бұрын
@@Forged88 oh my goodness. Pls inform us in your channel when you are done with it, or inform me here. I would love to read it.
@Forged88
@Forged88 Жыл бұрын
@@abdulsamad74581 Will do mate don't you worry
@Fullcombatnz
@Fullcombatnz Жыл бұрын
Make peace with death and you’ll fear no one
@harpreetweston
@harpreetweston 9 ай бұрын
Wise words …. We are all going to die one way or another .
@winchavda320
@winchavda320 4 ай бұрын
I agree
@vinfront1807
@vinfront1807 Жыл бұрын
I like this guy!!
@JoeJohnson-mk4qd
@JoeJohnson-mk4qd Жыл бұрын
Same here
@jesselowe9374
@jesselowe9374 Жыл бұрын
Just learn a martial art. I feel like that will give a person a good balance of strength and being gentle. A silent warrior. That's my opinion.
@LPISZ
@LPISZ 10 ай бұрын
The video is cool and all, but I just couldn't help but burst out laughing when that Em picture showed up, man. Why did you have to use that particular picture 😂
@nolesy34
@nolesy34 Жыл бұрын
NEW ACHIEVEMENT UNLOCKED
@liamwilson12345
@liamwilson12345 16 күн бұрын
Love is the answer
@pepehorhae
@pepehorhae Жыл бұрын
its true. everything in the vid is true and i can relate so much. too many sensitive snowflakes really censor you and label you a bad guy for pushing back. the society has weakened the male over the years to the point that to call him civilized means to act with manners and etiquette. it is all an existentially flawed and made up system that sugarcoats what we actually are. we are animals first before man as a second and we ought to harmonize the primal state of being with the present. A vessel of strength powered by will and intelligence, does not get more scarier than that. Forgiveness is only for the self but it never solves the external problems in the world.
@davidkleinman5002
@davidkleinman5002 Жыл бұрын
This is how you can always tell a trans is a man. Man up and embrace the warrior.
@bedechibuzo7758
@bedechibuzo7758 Ай бұрын
Thank you for watching? No, Thank you for sharing 🙏🏿
@DGTA_Guy
@DGTA_Guy Жыл бұрын
Stop being apologetic.
@migiericta
@migiericta Жыл бұрын
As Jocko Willink said, "Default aggressive."
@shahmanghost2309
@shahmanghost2309 2 жыл бұрын
💯♥️🤜🤛🔥
@Veteransolo
@Veteransolo Жыл бұрын
Two things I'm only scared God And nature.
@clevelandwilliams5922
@clevelandwilliams5922 Жыл бұрын
Nature is of God & God created nature.
@marquanbrand-moorehead1887
@marquanbrand-moorehead1887 Жыл бұрын
Me Stay Be Aggressive
@antonioroman7830
@antonioroman7830 2 жыл бұрын
What's the name of the background music? Thanks
@Forged88
@Forged88 2 жыл бұрын
Rush of Blood by Reynard Seidel
@user-hn5ds7qp9q
@user-hn5ds7qp9q 8 ай бұрын
hey I’m a girl and I love this video do you have any advice for women in this situation?
@user-hi7bp6es7h
@user-hi7bp6es7h 7 ай бұрын
I think it's pretty much the same - don't be people pleaser
@HenryBenedictUSA
@HenryBenedictUSA Жыл бұрын
How do you push back against the fear of societies punishments? I pushed back, but I got severely affected. In some instances it wouldn’t be worth it?
@Forged88
@Forged88 Жыл бұрын
Read your situation, if you have nothing or little to lose, impose yourself. But if you have so much to lose, ignore their antics.
@ghosttemplar6989
@ghosttemplar6989 Жыл бұрын
My aggression is tamed by taking care of body weights does the body good does the mind wonders and testing my physicality is something I like to do.
@madbutglad2050
@madbutglad2050 Жыл бұрын
Bro says this and has an anime profile pic
@batplayztoomuch1133
@batplayztoomuch1133 Жыл бұрын
bro ended this weebs entire career 💀
@ghosttemplar6989
@ghosttemplar6989 Жыл бұрын
@@madbutglad2050 So you assume that since I have an anime profile pic that I don't know the inside of a gym
@σθένος
@σθένος Жыл бұрын
I know this will go against Jesus teachings, but, it’s really hard living in this going by the mantra of “ I have no enemies “ my Lord.😢
@stickthatinyourpipeandsmok2457
@stickthatinyourpipeandsmok2457 Жыл бұрын
Who can relate? I can. It's time to stand up before it's too late.
@ghostymctoast9935
@ghostymctoast9935 Жыл бұрын
i wish i can listen to this in google podcast
@kuyajuswa
@kuyajuswa Жыл бұрын
1:13 is that Oli Sykes? 😮
@jacksonavery7371
@jacksonavery7371 Жыл бұрын
Have you been watching fight club
@nolesy34
@nolesy34 Жыл бұрын
No because they wouldn't say (1st rule)
@lightofchicagoproductionz9012
@lightofchicagoproductionz9012 Жыл бұрын
U gotta learn how to use it ..... and Love can teach people ... Im from Chicago and i find it that when you talk to people rather than shoot them u take away the chance for them to Learn or choose a different path .... sometimes people fuck up ... but if its an incompetent person who deserves getting hurt im all for it..... Dont do stupid shyt ... think before u do ...
@Bouldah
@Bouldah Жыл бұрын
I came to this video cause I was a coward. Now I'm not
@JesusWasPunk
@JesusWasPunk 9 ай бұрын
What if not being a coward means maybe breaking the law?
@marquanbrand-moorehead1887
@marquanbrand-moorehead1887 Жыл бұрын
Me Get Tired
@emilkolev7896
@emilkolev7896 2 жыл бұрын
Hey man;can I make suggestion to you of making a video about how society seeks to destroy kids by making cartoons and fairytales with shit content in them and how their parents can protect them. Growing up I watched and read a lot of messed up stuff and it's tough work to unlearn all this bs, but still hope you take my suggestion as a consideration. All the best.
@Pawn2King_1
@Pawn2King_1 2 жыл бұрын
True, my mind got fu#ked by these coming of age american movies...
@emilkolev7896
@emilkolev7896 2 жыл бұрын
@@Pawn2King_1 oh yes of course those idiotic movies are included, also music videos , commercials, TV shows,subjects in school are another, even video games which kids love have stuff that shouldn't be seen or known.
@Forged88
@Forged88 2 жыл бұрын
I have a video planned titled "How The Man Child is Created" I will be also be covering this particular issue of how the contents that we consumed as kids have conditioned us to live in an idealistic outlook in the video
@emilkolev7896
@emilkolev7896 2 жыл бұрын
@@Forged88 alright man awesome,looking forward to your great work.
@callumfreebairn8082
@callumfreebairn8082 3 ай бұрын
is to be aggressive
@TheGrunaldi
@TheGrunaldi Жыл бұрын
So what is the only way to stop being a coward ? It seems to be connected with aggression... but how can you start being more aggressive when u are a coward ? I am a coward and would like to change that... but the instructions are unclear.
@Andrew_preston_
@Andrew_preston_ Жыл бұрын
We must let go of our fear of being aggressive, more specifically our fear of the consequences of being aggressive (consequences that we experienced from being aggressive and condemned for it in the past). As questions are the way to communicating with our unconscious mind, we can ask ourselves "what is the worst case scenario if I let my aggression out?" and let go of the resistance to letting it come out. We can form the belief that we are evil underneath and must keep it out of sight, out of mind. Alan Watt's talks about how we feel we have to hold a club over our heads always watching ourselves because if we let go we'll fall into chaos. By accepting in the extremes of each side of aggression, we allow a natural balance to take hold. Letting go is something we must allow to happen rather than forcibly, but if we find ourselves forcing we are not to condemn ourselves but ask ourselves "why" we are forcing or "in what way is this protecting/helping me to survive?" and it often is because we want to hurry up the process to get where we think we are going faster (fear of not having control), and then going deeper we ask ourselves why we think we have to hurry up, and we find the limitations we are holding on to as it relates to age, social expectations, etc. and so we can ask ourselves "what if I sat around and did nothing my entire life?" and let go of any resistance we may have to that. We fear falling into laziness, but laziness and relaxed state look similar. Laziness is a result of lack of purpose and fear of its apparent opposite which is being hyperactive, which can be translated to putting ourselves out there and risking our life in some way. Also, as it relates to weakness, Peter Levine is a psychologist who focuses on somatic healing and he talks about how our body may be stuck in certain positions as a result of trauma that we were forced out of rather than allowed to naturally come out of. The example he gives is when an antelope is pursued by a lion, if it realizes it can't fight and win, and can't run away, it'll play dead and buy time to wait for the lion to turn away and then it will get up, shake off the freeze mode and run away. If that process is disrupted and we are forced into action while still in freeze mode, we create a "split self" that is following order but we have not shaken off our trauma. Like all things when it comes to healing, the way out is in, and so we ask ourselves "what if I was the weakest person in the world?" To be a weak man is to be afraid of weakness, and to be afraid fo weakness leads to hypermasculinity, and then the weak part of ourselves is put into our shadow and becomes stronger and then takes over us. Instead, we integrate in our weakness and recognize that weakness as something that holds value, for the feminine qualities that exist in all of us such as tenderness, emotion, creativity, etc. can be accessed more deeply if we are in touch with what we call our weaker sides.
@clevelandwilliams5922
@clevelandwilliams5922 Жыл бұрын
You need to build a moral core, that is you’ll seek righteousness. When you see hatred or evil, something stirs within your soul and that is indignation.
@pinkifloyd7867
@pinkifloyd7867 6 ай бұрын
Practice self reliance, its the key to feeling good 🙂
@Pupcaller8
@Pupcaller8 Жыл бұрын
Only real gangsters will recognize the thumbnail
@c0rd0vez183
@c0rd0vez183 Жыл бұрын
Hear me out, imagine your the only person the battlefield and you have to face thousands of enemies, would you fight? Of course not, run away and forget about it, you're not superman, you're not overpowered like from the anime, accept being a wuss and someday you'll learn
@tolvfen
@tolvfen Жыл бұрын
Christians pray, other do something about it
@Vaultboythefightingmachine
@Vaultboythefightingmachine Жыл бұрын
Christians pray and do something about it.
@Maximus_was_here
@Maximus_was_here Жыл бұрын
God hates a coward.
@Ellis_B
@Ellis_B Жыл бұрын
No he's just a bit disappointed
@kalinaribic6383
@kalinaribic6383 Жыл бұрын
And what about us women? Should we just be cowards who are too afraid of our own shadow and just endure the abuse, bullying and mistreatmant or should we also fight back against our repressors and let them know that they can't treat us like that?
@JoeJohnson-mk4qd
@JoeJohnson-mk4qd Жыл бұрын
No, fight back and stand your ground! Don't let them take control of you.
@vrishankkanagala1514
@vrishankkanagala1514 Жыл бұрын
You know women are born with aggression as well, might as well use it if you have it
@DawnshieId
@DawnshieId Жыл бұрын
I know you're not proud of it, but I'm gonna call you out on it: you're a sexist. *us women* Are you seriously saying that all women in the world make one big group, which the men don't get to be a part of because they're men? *us women* That sounds a lot like classifying people by their gender. Yeah, almost all activism today is just meant to build a public image, not done out of genuine care.
@Marcus-jf6vd
@Marcus-jf6vd Жыл бұрын
This video didn't help just made me sad
@youcantfoolmechosenone1469
@youcantfoolmechosenone1469 Жыл бұрын
Starting from tommorow no more bullshit am unlocking my male aggression
@wowfmomf6126
@wowfmomf6126 8 ай бұрын
The right thing to do my man.
@anthonyjoseph824
@anthonyjoseph824 Жыл бұрын
I use aggressive tactics at work so everyone keeps their distance from me.
@wowfmomf6126
@wowfmomf6126 8 ай бұрын
That is absolutely the right thing to do all the time.
@ChrisOnPS4
@ChrisOnPS4 2 жыл бұрын
Your accent is confusing. Chinese/English, Japanese/English? Hard to tell if you are putting it on or not
@Forged88
@Forged88 2 жыл бұрын
Truth be told, I don't even know what accent I have. I used to watch a lot of top gear, david attenborough, alan sugar & river monsters repeatedly back in the day and I think that carries over to some englishness in my accent. But I just speak as it is really, however my tounge & throat find it comfortable
@ChrisOnPS4
@ChrisOnPS4 2 жыл бұрын
Fair enough. Your content is good man 👍 Edit : Just checked your bio. You’re from Indonesia. Cool. Very fluent English. Fair play
@ChrisOnPS4
@ChrisOnPS4 2 жыл бұрын
Also, truth be told, your accent is English/Indonesian, haha
@blackelton7127
@blackelton7127 2 жыл бұрын
Jeremy Clarkson is a very good speaker so Top Gear makes sense
@Forged88
@Forged88 2 жыл бұрын
@@blackelton7127 Yup. And Jeremy Wade as well, he's a fabulous lad
@flom1951
@flom1951 Жыл бұрын
I cut ties with a great friend that I know since 15 years. He couldn't handle the fact I was able to completely destroy his deep believes through sources and great argumentation. He took it personally and defended himself by ego, arrogance and hate. To me it wasn't necessary to lose my time in such bs, so I just wished him the best and unfollowed him (he then blocked me). PS: We were talking about sports 💀
@joshjoyfitness
@joshjoyfitness Жыл бұрын
Real question: If you’re happy with yourself, then why do you feel the need to watch these types of self-help videos? 😅 It’s safe to assume that there’s a specific audience they target.
@Panzerfaust-ux8xb
@Panzerfaust-ux8xb Жыл бұрын
Well that might be insecure, weakened men who got conditioned or are waking up , or simply ppl chasing dopamine in a cool voice lol. But they also make them in a way to instill curiosity. This guy's style is a bit darker than others I like it. These self help channels contain similar messages but they do have their differences. Some enphasize more on the aggressive/red pill/ambitious side, others on the spiritual side. They all give some value you can use though. Different perspectives. Ofc don't be a fool and keep watching the same sht for pleasure only. Maintain the whitebelt mentality and take notes or pay absolute attention, plus ofc do your own research.
@Vwerlg
@Vwerlg Жыл бұрын
More and more there's always more, striving for more; I could be better, but what should I do to achieve that. "Happy"? wtf is that that emotions should just sit all the way back. Overcoming suffering is when your "Happy" come. My life isn't "Happy" but it's damn amazing and I can't wait for more as I am only 18.
@The-DAWG957
@The-DAWG957 Жыл бұрын
Because of realizing weakness and wanting change.
@caglabatur
@caglabatur 8 ай бұрын
Exactly. I cant believe they dont realize "hard" things break easily and they become weaker and more fragile with these attitudes. Adult men shouldnt be like this. Resilience and mental plasticity and internal peace what make a person grow and be strong. This narrative belongs to a 5 years old child who has no trust in this world and so traumatized that he thinks every one and everything is after him to get him. "Aggression" is not necessary if you have a neocortex that means if you're different from a lizard.
@charlie-girl72
@charlie-girl72 Жыл бұрын
Agression has many reasons and many forms, why , why not. Silence can even be that. I'm absolutely against femmism. It ruined a lot between men and women. Do people see what is used against us? As a woman i shall not say to much. Its often men here. Not for women i think. So i wish you all the best.
@Martyn_Wolf
@Martyn_Wolf Ай бұрын
People allow themselves to be disrespected, because they disrespect themselves first. Remember it's not "treat others how you want to be treated". It's actually "You teach others how to treat you" especially because of how you treat yourself to yourself!
@yosoy1loco
@yosoy1loco Жыл бұрын
Dude, as true as much of what you say may be, I could not help but laugh out loud several times during the video, as your try-hard voice and these stereotypical pictures are framing your otherwise noble message into a cringefest.
@LivingLikeABoss
@LivingLikeABoss 24 күн бұрын
My anger is my best friend.
@BopItHobbit
@BopItHobbit 6 ай бұрын
yall need to go to therapy
@s80t61
@s80t61 2 ай бұрын
Christ is the only way
@Nic560
@Nic560 Жыл бұрын
This mans voice is EPIC
@gamingenthusiast5450
@gamingenthusiast5450 Жыл бұрын
🌟
@filthymagget
@filthymagget 5 ай бұрын
💯
@Thomaschapmanbfc
@Thomaschapmanbfc Жыл бұрын
🔥💪🎯👍🎯💪🔥
@sunnysunshine524
@sunnysunshine524 Жыл бұрын
What if ? İ,m all by my self and 3,4 dudes come cross the street n take my watch,the watch my Gran.Gran,father gave me but ofcourse U kiss the dude's ring,turn back n go crying home.Then comes our own Judge,Police,Punisher from inside and want's'' Revenge''. Sure! There comes anger turns in to aggresion and much more at the end? we loose or feel like one.Human nature(Brain) is like the Universe,there is a limit that has no limit.We can controle us in some way's but can not stop. O; did İ talk to much again? Sorry everyone...✌Just found this channel,love all what's about.First chan.where İ try to read every com.Sorry for writing some letter's or words wrong my English isn't that good.Thank you all also Mr.Forged for making these intresting and teaching video's.
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