“The Real” Ladies Talk Pre-Nups & Post-Nups

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9 жыл бұрын

Is a prenuptial agreement right for you? As unromantic as it sounds, many couples take the prenup route before saying “I do” to protect their personal assets. This is a hot topic for our hosts and they surely had a lot of say in this clip.
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@christianchancellor5270
@christianchancellor5270 9 жыл бұрын
YES TAMAR!!! "I wasn't born with a silver spoon in my mouth but I wasn't born with a plastic one either!" YES GAWD!!!! Amen for that!
@oliviarivera490
@oliviarivera490 6 жыл бұрын
Nasir Santana shiii I’m eating with a plastic spoon rn
@amnedits4898
@amnedits4898 2 жыл бұрын
@@oliviarivera490 so a wooden spoon? 👁👄👁
@kjariousmitchell1686
@kjariousmitchell1686 2 жыл бұрын
@@amnedits4898 maybe medal
@hannahwalmer1124
@hannahwalmer1124 2 жыл бұрын
@@kjariousmitchell1686 Metal*
@kjariousmitchell1686
@kjariousmitchell1686 2 жыл бұрын
@@hannahwalmer1124 omg how embarrassing😬 I promise Im smarter than that 😂🤣 it was prolly late when I typed that...hopefully
@helenatube
@helenatube 8 жыл бұрын
I got chills when Tamera started preaching at <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="205">3:25</a>. People... don't be foolish. Don't be so wrapped up in the passion and aesthetics of your romance that you forget to protect yourself. You don't get pre-nups to prepare for divorce, you get pre-nups to prevent your life from getting ruined. People can turn on you in ways unimaginable. I mean, just look at people who murder their spouses for insurance money. You think she would've married him knowing he was that type of guy?? Like Jeannie said, a prenup protects your family, not just you. It also makes for a much, MUCH less stressful experience should a divorce ever occur. Don't be foolish enough to assume your relationship would never deteriorate to that level. No one gets married thinking they will get divorced; you hope for the best, but prepare for the worst. My own life experiences simply do not allow me to be as naive as Adrienne.......
@tash9023
@tash9023 6 жыл бұрын
Helena best comment ever!
@writerspen010
@writerspen010 5 жыл бұрын
"You don't get pre-nuos to prepare for divorce, you get pre-nups to prevent your life from getting ruined." Wise words, friend 😌
@tesivila407
@tesivila407 5 жыл бұрын
Helena preach
@latoyajohnson8695
@latoyajohnson8695 5 жыл бұрын
Helena on this one Adrienne was VERY naive and Tamar and Tamera had to school her on what’s the REAL about relationships
@emanueledeyohansen3528
@emanueledeyohansen3528 5 жыл бұрын
Adrienne isn't naive, she wants to divorce with his money. That's why she doesn't want a prenup.
@JeannideV
@JeannideV 6 жыл бұрын
Woowow her earrings came off after talking about how she will never get divorced. Must have been a sign.
@ingridayarza
@ingridayarza 6 жыл бұрын
Jeannide V what does that mean?? Lolol
@joanneella8345
@joanneella8345 6 жыл бұрын
I said the same thing 😂😂
@trzippo1645
@trzippo1645 6 жыл бұрын
Ingrid Ayarza She actually divorced haha
@jyn88
@jyn88 6 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing!
@morganc2573
@morganc2573 6 жыл бұрын
Jeannide V I
@jaybird5589
@jaybird5589 8 жыл бұрын
"ooh she's coming undone" Tamar is hilarious
@joseaod15
@joseaod15 8 жыл бұрын
These ladies actually have a DECENT conversation, not like the women of The View.
@PSALMSOFSONGS
@PSALMSOFSONGS 8 жыл бұрын
OMG! YES! The View is so unorganized when it comes to discussion. It's so annoying.
@jakebobs3945
@jakebobs3945 8 жыл бұрын
+PSALMSOFSONGS and they talk over each other so much. There's a nice flow to them !
@PSALMSOFSONGS
@PSALMSOFSONGS 8 жыл бұрын
jake bobs​ I love this show 😍😍😍
@djkaybabebabe
@djkaybabebabe 8 жыл бұрын
+joseaod15 yes the talk more about the stuff that I want to hear about on this show this is why it's my favorite talk show
@prscillahenderson6611
@prscillahenderson6611 8 жыл бұрын
exactly
@lutendomadzena1656
@lutendomadzena1656 6 жыл бұрын
"Divorce is not an option...." Well this is awkward.
@onieshianapoleon2547
@onieshianapoleon2547 4 жыл бұрын
Lutendo Madzena 😁
@MJ-om5go
@MJ-om5go 4 жыл бұрын
Well this is awkward.....
@JB-ws4dc
@JB-ws4dc 4 жыл бұрын
🥴
@cs9756
@cs9756 4 жыл бұрын
and she ended up having to pay him too 😭😭😭😭
@MELLOTHEESTAR
@MELLOTHEESTAR 4 жыл бұрын
c s she didn’t have to pay him
@Sparkles_Deluxe
@Sparkles_Deluxe 6 жыл бұрын
The earring coming off turned out to be a definite sign.
@latoyajohnson8695
@latoyajohnson8695 5 жыл бұрын
ConsiderMeMaybe indeed it was!! lol
@crittertails7536
@crittertails7536 3 жыл бұрын
Ikr, the timing...
@rogerguillen149
@rogerguillen149 3 жыл бұрын
the Universe talks, you betta listen 😉
@cesaracuna2762
@cesaracuna2762 3 жыл бұрын
I CAME LOOKING FOR THIS COMMENT 😂😂😂
@TiaMonique0101
@TiaMonique0101 3 жыл бұрын
@@cesaracuna2762 me too! 🤣
@Haitian_s
@Haitian_s 9 жыл бұрын
See this is what I like. They're having a conversation and listening to each other without yelling at eachother even if they don't agree👌👍
@frenchvanilla7109
@frenchvanilla7109 9 жыл бұрын
I appreciate this as well!
@PrettyTruths
@PrettyTruths 9 жыл бұрын
Sandy Montilus real refreshing! It was nice
@davoniacherie2237
@davoniacherie2237 7 жыл бұрын
Class!
@patriciorodriguez1020
@patriciorodriguez1020 4 жыл бұрын
Because they are not talking about politics... politics and religion turn people crazy
@RTA6226
@RTA6226 2 жыл бұрын
Yes! I can't stand when "some people" get loud and start screaming over the others. Today was a nice discussion.
@LivinNerdy
@LivinNerdy 7 жыл бұрын
I'm a very firm believer in "hope for the best, prepare for the worst". having a prenup doesn't mean you're expecting the marriage to end, it's just preparing for the worst case scenario.
@nathandelamora7107
@nathandelamora7107 4 жыл бұрын
god bless you for this insight. couldn’t have said it any better
@daliaali6155
@daliaali6155 8 жыл бұрын
i didn't expect adrienne to be so naive.
@teonnaduncombe7144
@teonnaduncombe7144 7 жыл бұрын
Dalia Ali yes Adrienne is naive asl but she still is kinda young
@verolly31
@verolly31 5 жыл бұрын
Ok you smart ass.
@realSimoneCherie
@realSimoneCherie 5 жыл бұрын
She still is IMO
@emanueledeyohansen3528
@emanueledeyohansen3528 5 жыл бұрын
She isn't naive, she thinks that divorce would bring her so much of his millions. When your husband is rich, you aren't naive if he doesn't a pre-nups. Actually she is very smart.
@nehapatel9533
@nehapatel9533 4 жыл бұрын
After seeing so many videos of this show before coming to this one, I was not at all surprised she was the one to bring that point up. It is quite a common opinion though, even from the smartest of people. It's hard to balance the stigma vs the logic behind prenups. I just knew she would be the one to verbalize it.
@senorgato70
@senorgato70 8 жыл бұрын
Why is Loni all surprised about Tamar not having a prenup when the SAME EXACT conversation took place a year prior and she had pretty much the SAME EXACT response to the SAME EXACT revelation by Tamar.
@ValerieAbena
@ValerieAbena 8 жыл бұрын
For people watching the first time
@senorgato70
@senorgato70 8 жыл бұрын
LadyChaos101 WTF does that even mean? "Oh, let's fake your reaction because no one saw it the first time".
@ValerieAbena
@ValerieAbena 8 жыл бұрын
senorgato70 basically lol
@madamshay749
@madamshay749 8 жыл бұрын
I said the same thing when I first saw this episode 😩😂😭
@agyeiwaaasante2037
@agyeiwaaasante2037 8 жыл бұрын
They really do have to. It's just part of the talk show set up, the producers want them to. That's why they have to re- explain things that die- hard fans are used to
@Carissa99Xo
@Carissa99Xo 9 жыл бұрын
And I can't stress this enough: it's not the rich people who need prenups *it's the middle class, lower middle class etc. hard working people who are barely being able to pay for what they have - these are the people who NEED PRENUPS!* Rich people can afford to pay for a divorce, regular people can't, they need to have all these financial things figured out beforehand when it's still possible to do all in peace.
@sebastianfierro7730
@sebastianfierro7730 8 жыл бұрын
"She has some OLD, CRINKLED UP $100 bills that we ain't seen in 30 years." WHAT? XD
@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect
@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect 8 жыл бұрын
In other words, Mariah is "old" money. Maybe not old as say the Kennedy's but she didn't just come into wealth
@kparm23
@kparm23 8 жыл бұрын
Uhm we saw the video and heard it dumbass
@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect
@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect 8 жыл бұрын
+promprom u can't be talking to me. Take your anger and direct it back to whoever hurt you as a child.
@tinasheroy
@tinasheroy 8 жыл бұрын
It just means that Mariah has had a lot of money for a very long time...
@madwalka6402
@madwalka6402 7 жыл бұрын
+rudegyaloving Your comment gave me life!!!
@TunisiaLewis
@TunisiaLewis 9 жыл бұрын
Tamar's comment about her and Vincent having a discussion on the topic of divorce really brought a tear to my eye. The fact that they chose not to get a prenup because they both agreed that "divorce is not an option. It is the last, last, last thing to do." That was a really beautiful thing to hear! :)
@annalyze5022
@annalyze5022 8 жыл бұрын
I agree
@gaycharles8082
@gaycharles8082 8 жыл бұрын
*****
@soadfanioanna
@soadfanioanna 7 жыл бұрын
he has a lot more money than her so
@whitneyking2198
@whitneyking2198 7 жыл бұрын
Tunisia Lewis WHEN they divorce, I hope Tamar takes all his money. Tamar says Mariah should have a prenup to protect herself but didn't want Vince to get a prenup ?? LOL hypocrite
@pwincesstrix
@pwincesstrix 6 жыл бұрын
WELP! seems like they are getting divorce now
@erinalexander2188
@erinalexander2188 2 жыл бұрын
I used to think just like Adrienne and feel like having a prenup was preparing for divorce. You can chant "divorce is not an option" all you want but the reality is IT IS an option and people can change. YOU can change. Anyone can become a monster if they don't keep themselves humble and in check especially when money is involved. A prenup should be a protection for both people in the marriage.
@2sense110
@2sense110 2 жыл бұрын
Prenup this prenup that. Just don't get married
@jenniferwilliams5478
@jenniferwilliams5478 2 жыл бұрын
Me 2
@mandys1038
@mandys1038 2 жыл бұрын
Which is what Jeannie learned during her divorce. People change and you have to protect what's yours. I am so happy Adrienne has changed over the years and is wiser because had she kept that same mindset I would have been worried for her
@jenniferwilliams5478
@jenniferwilliams5478 Жыл бұрын
That's how I use to think as well
@redayvn
@redayvn 9 жыл бұрын
Tay Tay "kilt" it!! #Slay "Ooo ooo, she's coming undone!" "She can't be humpty dumpty!" #Weak 😂
@r.t.h251
@r.t.h251 6 жыл бұрын
The end is so crazy how Tamar was talking and the earring kept falling and now her and Vince are getting divorced.
@latoyajohnson8695
@latoyajohnson8695 5 жыл бұрын
R.T. H it was that sign that was telling her that the divorce was upon them
@robyndae5416
@robyndae5416 9 жыл бұрын
Lowkey, I think Tamar was trying to point out that Adrienne appears to be the ONLY breadwinner in her family and she should get a prenup (like Jeanie). Tamar has her career, her entire family, her sisters, her Mom, and even her husband that can support her if things go wrong. I don't feel like Adrienne has a stable career to be so carefree and naive about things like that, she should take it serious because eventually (she claims) she will get married.
@andimangie9196
@andimangie9196 9 жыл бұрын
she's engaged now . 💁
@CeeJayyMerius
@CeeJayyMerius 8 жыл бұрын
**Tamar's earring falls out** Tamar: oooo o o o she's coming undone Loni: I think that's called a lie 😭😭😭😭😭
@sanyavaldivia6556
@sanyavaldivia6556 5 жыл бұрын
I thought I was the only one who heard Loni say that!!!
@latifa4586
@latifa4586 4 жыл бұрын
She really said that! 😂 love how real loni is!
@dylannrayy94
@dylannrayy94 2 жыл бұрын
Tamar earring falling off after she said she doesn’t have a prenup was a total sign to get one 😂😂
@shaynalavon
@shaynalavon 9 жыл бұрын
"oooh she's coming undone...." LMAO! luv it...
@justhereyeah1112
@justhereyeah1112 4 жыл бұрын
Damn, did Loni just clown Tamar’s marriage?
@onceuponatimelady
@onceuponatimelady 9 жыл бұрын
Oh Adrienne... Isn't she the one who bought her boyfriend a car? Be smart girl. You got Cheetah money. BE SMART. Quit that romantic foolishness and protect yourself. Ain't nothin like divorce, hurt, bitterness and millions of dollars to make people go crazy
@lookhowshegobbledthat
@lookhowshegobbledthat 9 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Just because you are both very much in love now, does not mean that the possibility of something bad happening doesn't exist years from now. Not saying it will happen, but it's important that both parties protect themselves for when things do turn ugly.
@SmileyAdorable
@SmileyAdorable 8 жыл бұрын
isnt getting a pre-nup just common sense whether you're rich or poor
@Salomon82
@Salomon82 8 жыл бұрын
+maz g yep it is. When you are logical and being wise, then of course you see prenup as common sense. Some people think they can predict everything about human behavior when it come to break up or the future..
@Roan.bot.
@Roan.bot. 5 жыл бұрын
maz g yes and if you live in a dream world that everything that happens in a relationship just must be romantic as opposed to common sense then I hope you didn’t get a prenup and I hope you learn a good lesson in the divorce.
@dante93nero
@dante93nero 3 жыл бұрын
Ya because unlike you and ur partner build something together than you should, because it actually takes all of the financial pressure of the marriage. Because your money and ur issues don't become your partners issues which in some cases causes one to keep screts about it to the other etc
@ditsypixie3219
@ditsypixie3219 4 жыл бұрын
Just hearing Tamera telling A, that people change during a break up and knowing Jeanie cried after divorce wishing she didn't marry the man he knew today. Use this advise! However I am so happy for Jeanie now. She is just glowing and full of life even more so as she found love within her self and she has found a handsome, kind man who wants to stand by her side through her success and support her!! 😍♥️
@lilp2350
@lilp2350 9 жыл бұрын
That earring falling off was a sign from God. Lol i dont know what it was a sign for but it was sayin something. 😂😂😂
@AUser0000001
@AUser0000001 8 жыл бұрын
+Pernell Yes! Yes ! Yes! She knows good and well that she did not marry him because she truly loved him or was the most attracted to him. She married him because he had a little coin.She has love for him as a person and now she has grown to tolerate him especially because she has a child with him. But she doesn't need to keep lying about it she can fool us but not God.
@GrandeStyles566
@GrandeStyles566 8 жыл бұрын
+AUser0000001 no . let me tell you why what you just said is simply just NO. Tamar got her own coin. if she cant survive off that, best believe she can live off that Toni braxton coin. Tamar did not under any circumstances marry vincent for his coin. that man was there for her when she really needed a REAL man, thats why she is IN LOVE WITH HIM. dont make her out to be some gold digger.
@jazariathompson3402
@jazariathompson3402 8 жыл бұрын
+AUser0000001 hol up. no one knows what god can be telling anybody. that's only between god and the person who he is trying to tell something to, reither if it's a sign or not. so stop "assuming" what you think. because your thought could be wrong. be careful what you say. and you don't know how Tamar fell in love with Vince.you don't look into a crystal ball and see the past or the future. no boobooski this isnt the smurfs.this is life.and Tamar isn't a "gold digger" because that's what your low key saying. you not slick.and I could careless if you posted this comment long ago.you don't understand Tamar&Vince's relationship. if you know Tamar&Vince's full story then you call me back. and if you don't? which Ik you don't..😒 you can several.💺💺
@jazariathompson3402
@jazariathompson3402 8 жыл бұрын
+AUser0000001 hol up. no one knows what god can be telling anybody. that's only between god and the person who he is trying to tell something to, reither if it's a sign or not. so stop "assuming" what you think. because your thought could be wrong. be careful what you say. and you don't know how Tamar fell in love with Vince.you don't look into a crystal ball and see the past or the future. no boobooski this isnt the smurfs.this is life.and Tamar isn't a "gold digger" because that's what your low key saying. you not slick.and I could careless if you posted this comment long ago.you don't understand Tamar&Vince's relationship. if you know Tamar&Vince's full story then you call me back. and if you don't? which Ik you don't..😒 you can several.💺💺
@jazariathompson3402
@jazariathompson3402 8 жыл бұрын
+AUser0000001 hol up. no one knows what god can be telling anybody. that's only between god and the person who he is trying to tell something to, reither if it's a sign or not. so stop "assuming" what you think. because your thought could be wrong. be careful what you say. and you don't know how Tamar fell in love with Vince.you don't look into a crystal ball and see the past or the future. no boobooski this isnt the smurfs.this is life.and Tamar isn't a "gold digger" because that's what your low key saying. you not slick.and I could careless if you posted this comment long ago.you don't understand Tamar&Vince's relationship. if you know Tamar&Vince's full story then you call me back. and if you don't? which Ik you don't..😒 you can several.💺💺
@TheMoonwalker101
@TheMoonwalker101 9 жыл бұрын
I think pre-nups are VERY smart things. My uncle (who is a high ranking officer and shareholder for a Fortune 500 company) and his wife did not get a pre-nup prior to their marriage. It turned out to be an all out war in the courts and guess who got half of his hard earned money. She did. Before I get married, I plan on getting a pre-nup and I hope my future spouse plans on doing the same.
@bethyselfmoon
@bethyselfmoon 6 жыл бұрын
"Divorce is not an option" but she's currently in the process of getting divorced ugh shows how much life can change even when you strongly believe something or feel strongly about something/ someone.
@A2daM2daZ
@A2daM2daZ 5 жыл бұрын
this may have been one of the best discussions they've had. they were all talking from experience, and instead of shaming each other for their opinions, they were genuinely trying to help each other understand, and to learn from each other this felt like what i always hoped the show would be. like getting advice from an older sister. i'm nowhere near getting married but i'd sure as hell like some insight for the future
@KenyaBaker
@KenyaBaker 9 жыл бұрын
I agree 100% with Tamar!!! Divorce WILL NOT be an option when I get married. There shouldn't be an IF something happens,once you get married that's IT. Through thick and thin, work it out!!!!!! People are too quick to give up now a days.
@fizzys5283
@fizzys5283 9 жыл бұрын
I think that is easier said than done. If someone was to cheat, for example, I don't think you have to put up with that.
@kathope4484
@kathope4484 9 жыл бұрын
I think she should have signed the damn pre-nup. No-one gets married with the intention of divorcing. It just happens. I don't have old, crinkled up dollar bills but if I ever get married, best believe the little I have is going to be protected.
@karaledwaba817
@karaledwaba817 9 жыл бұрын
Kenya Baker so he cheats on you with your sister, or gives you a disease, or beats you up...youre gonna work it out? but it is true that people give up too quick but sometimes its just not possible to go on. thin line between love and hate dear.
@MrThekidisback
@MrThekidisback 9 жыл бұрын
Kenya Baker What if the person you married wants to get a divorce.
@hyola
@hyola 8 жыл бұрын
+MrThekidisback They will probably refuse to sign it because "divorce is not an option" Tamar herself said didn't say it was impossible. She specifically said it was a last resort. When means she has exceptions to her rule. Like a wise person should have.
@alemonterof
@alemonterof 8 жыл бұрын
Totally agree with Tamar! But it was hilarious when the earing fell off "uh she's coming undone"😂 "won't He do it?" "yes, He will! If you let Him" 🙌😂
@luluali5451
@luluali5451 7 жыл бұрын
Ale Montero 😂😂😂😂😂 i cant with Tamar.. She always got answers
@keialove-black3950
@keialove-black3950 6 жыл бұрын
A person not signing a prenup doesn’t mean they are out for money. It can depend on the terms of the prenup. And Tamera is right about people turning crazy and pretty much unrecognizable. It’s not planning for a divorce... It’s the acknowledgment of the reality that at this time as much as we want to be together and PLAN to stay together BUT anything could happen. Adrienne had better hope she doesn’t learn the hard way.
@latoyajohnson8695
@latoyajohnson8695 5 жыл бұрын
Keia Love-Black now that she’s married I hope not either and I REALLY hope that she was smart enough to sign a prenup
@Carissa99Xo
@Carissa99Xo 9 жыл бұрын
Prenups aren't just about preparing for your divorce, you can put stuff on it that only comes true if the otherone dies. It can be about "this person's family can't claim my property if I die first" etc.
@IndiaVlogsHair
@IndiaVlogsHair 9 жыл бұрын
I loved Tamar in this segment for some reason! She was still normal Tamar but not "too-too much". that's my girl. I love her and Tamera.
@DreamBelive07
@DreamBelive07 5 жыл бұрын
now in light of jeannie talking about freddy ending up not being the man she married and greedy, this seems so weirdly predictive of futures that its scary
@upchck14
@upchck14 8 жыл бұрын
I wonder how much Tamera made from Sister Sister. She keeps taking about protecting that money
@VHale-yz7hc
@VHale-yz7hc 8 жыл бұрын
I mean it's still on in reruns
@christinabrown7932
@christinabrown7932 7 жыл бұрын
Every time it airs on tv she gets a check. It still comes on to this day so she's still getting checks from it.
@writerspen010
@writerspen010 5 жыл бұрын
According to my Google searches, her current net worth is between $4-8 million
@AV-zg9du
@AV-zg9du 5 жыл бұрын
Wealth wise at this table is Tamar, Tamera, Adrian, and then the other two. 7 mil, 3 mil. 2 mil, and then the 1s
@sailorsister211
@sailorsister211 5 жыл бұрын
My teacher said if a show runs for a certain of time, then a cast is set for life, like the cast of friends, they are set for life. Then there also how Tia and Tamera used that money, did they save it and invested in something as they got older or did they spend it like no tomorrow.
@iLoveyoouJTito
@iLoveyoouJTito 6 жыл бұрын
Anybody came back here after they heard Tamar getting a divorce? So sad man 😓😓😓
@jamareabrown6558
@jamareabrown6558 6 жыл бұрын
princesss mee
@rosej5029
@rosej5029 6 жыл бұрын
princesss does she wish she had a pre up now?
@jacquelinelamas9334
@jacquelinelamas9334 4 жыл бұрын
My mom always told me: you don’t know who you’re married to until you divorce them
@chelseyfaye8778
@chelseyfaye8778 4 жыл бұрын
Tam saying sometimes when people break up theu turn into the people you DIDNT marry... That's exactly what jeanie said when she got divorced.😳
@Fatima-vf5tm
@Fatima-vf5tm 6 жыл бұрын
“Divorce is not an option” Tamar just jinxed her own realtionship.
@hannahwalmer1124
@hannahwalmer1124 2 жыл бұрын
"never say never" anyone?
@kellz47
@kellz47 2 жыл бұрын
Tamar- "Vincent and I, we don't have a prenup." Loni-"YOU AINT GOT A PRENUP" 😂😂😂
@sweettwalker4212
@sweettwalker4212 6 жыл бұрын
I feel bad because she said it would be the last resort, I hope she can find clarity in her divorce and move on and he happy ❤️
@faithfullee9689
@faithfullee9689 8 жыл бұрын
Adrienne get that prenup girl! Get it!
@kidadada74
@kidadada74 6 жыл бұрын
Wow....when her earring fell off and Loni was hinting that it was a sign....is CRAZY...especially now that Tamar is getting a divorce.
@mizztouchdown487
@mizztouchdown487 9 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't want a prenup, because to me it says "I fear we will divorce" however I understand them.
@yousrafettach5088
@yousrafettach5088 2 жыл бұрын
So amazing how Adrienne changed now and she’s all about prenups and post ups
@yllenfernandez1046
@yllenfernandez1046 9 жыл бұрын
I would marry you for that sister sister money
@Honeyrozayy
@Honeyrozayy 5 жыл бұрын
4 years later Tamar is getting divorced
@CourtneyA.
@CourtneyA. 8 жыл бұрын
I kind of agree with Adrienne and Tamar. I wouldn't get a prenup because it's like planning a divorce before you get married. Like Tamar said, divorce is not an option.
@darkphanthom8741
@darkphanthom8741 8 жыл бұрын
That's what they all said to try and fool a man .
@hyola
@hyola 8 жыл бұрын
+C Ali You have your reasons and its your choice. But there a lot of women and men who ended up regretting that decision because like Tamar said, people become unrecognizable in the even of a break-up. They will turn into an alien that makes you wonder if you ever even knew them. Men can become abusive after they become married. Divorce not being an option no matter what sounds like the fantasy of a child still believing in fairy tales. There are always exceptions to every rule. I happen to subscribe to the idea of marriage not being an option except in the case of domestic violence, child abuse, i find out he's a pedophile, he cheats on me regularly(with women young enough to be his daughter, are underage, my sister/family member) is a rapist, becomes a murderer or develops an addiction that it takes over his life and ruins the family such as gambling the family's saving and money meant for the kids. I will divorce a man under those circumstances. Period. And if i had a prenup, there will be stipulations in that contract that if we divorce because of those reasons, he will get nothing from me, i will get primary custody if we have children. Obviously, i get full custody if the divorce is because he is a pedophile/rapist. A prenup is there to protect me and the family we build together. Planning for a divorce is what wise people do because they understand that things can happen and people do change. It's someone willing to deal with reality. Stubbornly refusing to divorce a man who is abusing you, abusing your children and/or financially ruining your family because you don't want to be that woman who gets a divorce and want to stay married no matter what is a sign of foolishness and a selfish mind. And sadly, there are many men and women like this. We all hope for a relationship where both parties a fully committed to the growth and nourishment of the family and marriage. You keep your end of the bargain and he keeps his and doesn't do things to ruin what you've built together. That's amazing. I wish everyone this. But simple statistics and logic dictates things can happen and smart people prepare for it.
@livingaboard
@livingaboard 6 жыл бұрын
That's like saying I plan to have an accident and kill or mame somebody so I need inaurance. Or, I'm getting house insurance because I plan on my house burning down. Insurance doesn't cause a house fire or car accident.
@enjinks
@enjinks 6 жыл бұрын
Well, she s getting divorce now so...
@MylesKillis
@MylesKillis 5 жыл бұрын
Yet she's divorced
@TheLexieWilson
@TheLexieWilson 9 жыл бұрын
Man I wish I could watch these full episodes because this was a GREAT conversation!
@improviserfresh8995
@improviserfresh8995 10 ай бұрын
Where can you watch the full episodes
@FlashyStar21
@FlashyStar21 9 жыл бұрын
"She can't be humpty dumpty" lmao that was hilarious
@valadina4477
@valadina4477 7 жыл бұрын
dear The Real, I am writing to you not only because I love love love the show but I also love the decoration of the set. I am totally and utterly in love with those planters, I have looked everywhere especially online to find them and I know it's a mixture of different ones but the one in the quilt or cushion pattern like OMG. now the reason for my comment is LOL if you all decide to change the set again all the it is absolutely beautiful, but if you do may I have the entire set that's on Adrienne's and Loni's side, I am so in love with them that I even have a spot in my house reserved for them, and as a faithful and loyal viewer that would be a wonderful gift for me LOL thank you
@memorydocumentation5942
@memorydocumentation5942 4 жыл бұрын
i love this look for loni - the hair, the makeup, the outfit
@LS-ux3th
@LS-ux3th 3 жыл бұрын
It sucks that Jeannie and Freddy had a prenup that only protected him. We all know how that ended... she ended up paying 🤦🏻‍♀️ It sucks that he’s rich and kept his wealth, while she’s self-made and probably supports her entire family and still had to pay him.
@LS-ux3th
@LS-ux3th 3 жыл бұрын
@Jenesis J yeah she said it after their divorce that she pays spousal support
@clairedawson9260
@clairedawson9260 8 жыл бұрын
i love this show please dont ever stop filming
@boyar1978
@boyar1978 3 жыл бұрын
Pernupt are a great way to protect both parties and any children that might be involved. This is because at the time you still both care for each other. This will result in an agreement made by people who are looking out for the best interest of all involved. It also can weed out those who are looking for money.
@ccalexander1924
@ccalexander1924 6 жыл бұрын
Now I wonder if Adrienne got the prenup since she got married after this aired.
@latoyajohnson8695
@latoyajohnson8695 5 жыл бұрын
Christina Alexander I was wondering that myself
@gorgeoustgirl
@gorgeoustgirl 6 жыл бұрын
I have seen all these episodes before as I have been a huge fan since inception. Now, watching the current episodes and re-watching these ones makes me miss Tamar like crazy. I see a huge difference. Tamar brought something different. Yet initially when she left, I was like no body is irreplaceable. But see me now missing her. She brought something.
@kaylavarela7215
@kaylavarela7215 5 жыл бұрын
Adrienne always dishes it but can’t always take it. She’s so in love with love (which is great!) but she lacks rationality, realism.
@adriannarose7737
@adriannarose7737 5 жыл бұрын
Tamar : “divorce is not an option” 2018: Tamar & Vince getting divorced
@mapulemampuru6584
@mapulemampuru6584 3 жыл бұрын
She said it would be the Last last last option. I guess they reached breaking point
@marywrenn5262
@marywrenn5262 7 жыл бұрын
I've been married almost 24 years. if we divorced I'd go for nothing. it's stuff. I can buy more stuff and make more money. if I want out, I just want out. I've no plans to get into a long drawn out battle. I do think though that if you come into a marriage with wealth you should protect it. And if you have a problem with saying 'you're right, I want no part of what you already have' there's a problem.
@lashdb2057
@lashdb2057 6 жыл бұрын
Who came back here after Vince and Tamar announced their divorce?
@kevinplan3812
@kevinplan3812 9 жыл бұрын
Tamar the truth...she is too animated and funny for television...I needed that laugh....classic
@Patti059472
@Patti059472 3 жыл бұрын
Jeannie's hair is giving me LIFE. Almost got me thinking I should go blonde again
@moussakeita5124
@moussakeita5124 6 жыл бұрын
Tamar said on this segment that divorce was gonna be the last option between her and Vince. Now they’re heading for divorce and Tamar asks full custody for Logan and told the judge she’ll not provide Vince spousal support. She even went ahead and rent a new apartment worth of 15k a month. Won’t it do it Tamar? 😩
@asiamoalimhassanabdu5193
@asiamoalimhassanabdu5193 6 жыл бұрын
Moussa Keita its funny how you are depending on Wendy's information😭 copy past baby😂
@evalisse88
@evalisse88 6 жыл бұрын
yo the fact that her earring came off when they were talking about divorce was crazy
@JIX9ISLER1986
@JIX9ISLER1986 8 жыл бұрын
Prenups TRANSLATION = Negotiating the terms of our DIVORCE before we get Married Thus your marriage is a CONTRACTUAL AGREEMENT between two separate parties rather than a Covenantal Union where the Two become ONE
@Churros1616
@Churros1616 8 жыл бұрын
+JIX9ISLER1986 a legal marriage is ALWAYS an contractual agreement, with or without a prenup.
@JIX9ISLER1986
@JIX9ISLER1986 8 жыл бұрын
C Will nope newcreeations.org/contracts-vs-covenants-why-the-difference-matters/
@Churros1616
@Churros1616 8 жыл бұрын
JIX9ISLER1986 with or without a prenup you can have a divorce, which automatically means that you can decide to break the covenant. Covenant may sound nice, but its just a Christian way of saying contract, because also with a prenup both sides agree to keep it even if the other side fails to keep the agreement. And if you read my comment correctly I said every LEGAL marriage.
@JIX9ISLER1986
@JIX9ISLER1986 8 жыл бұрын
C Will nope contract has the government in your marriage covenant has God in your marriage two different things newcreeations.org/contracts-vs-covenants-why-the-difference-matters/
@MrTonyRodriguez94
@MrTonyRodriguez94 6 жыл бұрын
Dangggg that earring was like girl stfu you getting a divorce in the future. look at god and his signs. testimony right there!!!
@m4rr563
@m4rr563 2 жыл бұрын
Didn't Tamar and Vince get divorced? So it seems like it don't matter if she's had a prenup, that was her second divorce too
@octaviakf
@octaviakf 8 жыл бұрын
I agree with the most get a prenup. I feel like divorce should always be the last option but I also feel like it is just being smart. Because when I was younger I like different things now that I'm older I like different things and unfortunately ppl do go apart in this life. Thats the real. So ladies and gentlemen protect your assets for real b/c when breakup happens folks get really upset and they do start acting a damn fool LOL
@shaimasayed4290
@shaimasayed4290 7 жыл бұрын
octaviakf v
@ladykenya
@ladykenya 6 жыл бұрын
Well. Tamar meet last, last, last resort. So sad. I think she tried her best to keep her marriage. But, sometimes your best ain’t good enough.
@davidh.4220
@davidh.4220 4 жыл бұрын
Wow, there were some prophetic words in that segment!
@AnnmarieElizabeth
@AnnmarieElizabeth 9 жыл бұрын
that was funny! won't he do it! Great discussion with valid points made
@sevens3
@sevens3 4 жыл бұрын
@<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="235">3:55</a> It begs the question what the purpose of marriage is and whether it is worth the enterprise, if there's such a strong concern about irreducible and/or unpredictable risks (like picking the wrong person, and whether or not you can see the person they might become 5, 10, 50 years from now, on breakup, etc.) involved.
@matildakwabi2779
@matildakwabi2779 3 жыл бұрын
Tamar says divorce is not an option, but watching in 2020 and she is already divorced
@Venessaalecia
@Venessaalecia 9 жыл бұрын
Is it me or was lonie and Tamar throwing shade at kandi cause they sign the papers on their wedding day ohh wow
@VONiiE8
@VONiiE8 9 жыл бұрын
probably. but the main reason why you shouldn't sign it the day of the wedding is bc it won't hold up in court.
@Venessaalecia
@Venessaalecia 9 жыл бұрын
kandi ...real housewife star.
@lookhowshegobbledthat
@lookhowshegobbledthat 9 жыл бұрын
Luv4Animexoxo Kandi, writer of your favorite TLC and Destiny's Child songs/albums.
@latoyajohnson8695
@latoyajohnson8695 5 жыл бұрын
Venessa W after watching the clip just now I was kinda wondering the same thing...hmmmmm 🤔🤔
@natashajoyy4223
@natashajoyy4223 Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣😩that earring knew something she didn't know ! I swear!
@porscha1563
@porscha1563 5 жыл бұрын
Wow that earring told it ALL!!!! THEY ARE NOW DIVORCED.
@PSALMSOFSONGS
@PSALMSOFSONGS 8 жыл бұрын
To each its own. I believe that when you marry, you marry under The Lord. Meaning you know that you know that you know that person is for you and you don't have to worry about "what ifs". I'm not knocking prenups, however, you don't need to be unsure prior marriage.
@samanthah2937
@samanthah2937 6 жыл бұрын
It's crazy how now 2 marriages on this show are now ending. Prayers up for Jeannie and Tamar ( who was and will always be one of the best Host #TheReal)
@CourageDearHeart316
@CourageDearHeart316 8 жыл бұрын
DIVORCE IS NOT AN OPTION i love tamar💖💖💖💖💖yesss
@asekhoayaphindadlanga8241
@asekhoayaphindadlanga8241 5 жыл бұрын
Princess Bina Chosen 4 years later, she got divorced
@RodneyBernett2O11
@RodneyBernett2O11 4 жыл бұрын
Awkward. 😂
@owattalady777
@owattalady777 9 жыл бұрын
Without a prenup, you gone learn ta-day!!!! It's a problem when people can't get married like they used to back in the day. And Loni, I'm hoping she really didn't mean to say a prenup can help protect you from child support obligations?! Poor Tamar, I know what it's like to buy earrings that refuse to stay in their place. How embarrassing for you, wardrobe betta step up the game and make sure she doesn't have any more wardrobe malfunctions....she needs to stay snatched and put together, ok! LOL Love you Tamie Wamie!
@moo1484
@moo1484 4 жыл бұрын
"Divorce is not an option" Vincent Herbert (m. 2008; div. 2019) - people of the internet... always get a prenup... always
@EllePlowPlow
@EllePlowPlow 4 жыл бұрын
I remember watching this on cable that day, her earring came off a third time! And she left it off after that. Lol
@kdeezi0
@kdeezi0 4 жыл бұрын
When the other “earring” drops lol divorce was thee only option and I’m glad it worked out for them
@senorfrijol3713
@senorfrijol3713 7 жыл бұрын
Everybody acts like Tamera aint got no money. The girl is rich! sister sister was huge and i know for damed sure she got PAID! the difference between her and alot of celebs is that she is very down to earth and she not always looking to be in the public eye. Tia and Tamera are classy and they have no let fame change them.. So please stop with that. The Girl has money because if she didnt they wouldnt have a prenup.... :)
@Cristina-wt3sr
@Cristina-wt3sr 6 жыл бұрын
Tamar saying "divorce is not an option" earing falls off , sad that now they are getting divorced.
@Loveamandapatrice
@Loveamandapatrice 9 жыл бұрын
I love this show
@belleseuge1854
@belleseuge1854 4 жыл бұрын
Listening to Tamar in the past and knowing the truth when her earring fell off it was like OMG let me go pray real fast. GOD IS REAL.
@BenetSaidSo
@BenetSaidSo 6 жыл бұрын
Tamar: "Divorce is not an option" Me: "LOL"
@najimwhizkidahmed
@najimwhizkidahmed 2 жыл бұрын
I want her to sign a prenup because I want the mother of my children to be protected, should their be an accident (god forbid), and I can’t protect her. It’s not about divorce. It’s about safety for the family
@coffeelover3467
@coffeelover3467 6 жыл бұрын
This is sad. Years later, and tamar is getting divorced. Smh
@supergirl5638
@supergirl5638 8 жыл бұрын
Personally, I'm not sure if would get one. I feel like marriage is when you become one with your love one and things like money could make or break your relationship in any way. What I want is to have a relationship built on love and trust, not me worrying about my man doing dumb stuff behind my back and ending up divorce. I hope money will not make our relationship or break it, together or not
@helenatube
@helenatube 8 жыл бұрын
+Super Girl You make a good point in that a couple has to approach a prenup with a *healthy* mindset. You can't be getting one because you value and cherish your possession more than your marriage with that person, or out of distrust. But at the same time, you need to protect EACH OTHER. You get a prenup to protect BOTH spouses. When you sign a prenup that both parties agree on, what you've really done is protect one another should a divorce occur. A prenup prevents either spouse from acting crazy and trying to sabotage the other because the prenup restricts so much of what you can or cannot lobby against one another. Without a prenup, one spouse could go berserk on the other and practically ruin that person's life. We can only pray we don't end up with someone like that, but it doesn't always happen that way. It's all love and trust until someone stops loving and trusting. Life is not in your hands, it is unpredictable, so be safe and protect each other.
@thedetail7677
@thedetail7677 9 жыл бұрын
Can they brighten up the studio a bit? I mean really the pilot was so much better. In combination with the dates clothes this looks like it was shot in 2008 or something.
@shesonfire_
@shesonfire_ 3 жыл бұрын
Can we get them to reunite. No shade to the new real but can we get a revamp of this pleeease??!!!
@dazzleglam95
@dazzleglam95 6 жыл бұрын
And now Tamar & Vince are getting divorced...
@alyssawilliams5566
@alyssawilliams5566 4 жыл бұрын
Last Last Last Last resort my ass lol - that earring falling off was a sign!
@sherabite3503
@sherabite3503 3 жыл бұрын
When a man asks for a pre-nup, its degrading and he lacks committment. But when a woman asks for it, she is allowed to protect herself
@xavierwoodley
@xavierwoodley 3 жыл бұрын
Double Standards are crazy
@saneispencer6487
@saneispencer6487 6 жыл бұрын
I guess the earring was a sign of what was to come for Tamar and Vince! ☕️🐸👀
@latoyajohnson8695
@latoyajohnson8695 5 жыл бұрын
Sanei Spencer it WAS a sign of what was to come for Tamar and Vince.....CATCH LOL
@aakindiya268
@aakindiya268 4 жыл бұрын
"Won't he do it" - I love season 1! ahaha
@templeofthereads5292
@templeofthereads5292 6 жыл бұрын
"ooh she's coming undone" 😂😂😭😭
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