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What I’ve noticed in talking to women is there is a “golden window” of about 3-5 minutes of conversation. One, if you are speaking to her for that long, chances are she feels comfortable enough with you to hold a conversation. Secondly, you can choose to either continue the conversation or ask for her number or IG if you or her are limited with time. I’ve generally gotten good responses and most women give me either or both. If she isn’t interested, I still maintain my masculine frame end things on a good note. Over time, you’ll work up your interpersonal skills and will become a well-rounded person. Just stay calm and natural fellas. Things will work out fine.

1. Smile + eye contact. 2. I just wanted to tell you that you caught my eye. 3. Respect her space by backing up. No touching. 4. Be aware of your tone and facial expressions. 5. I g2g. 😉 Great video.

Just take the pressure off as she stated. Work on your social skills and state your purpose to her. Why you approached her, compliment her, and engage in small talk from the environment. Get her to talk about HERSELF! If she's not into you then it's her loss.

1. Smile + eye contact. 2. I just wanted to tell you that you caught my eye. 3. Respect her space by backing up. No touching. 4. Be aware of your tone and facial expressions.

I actually took notes on paper while listening to this. It's such good advice!

The most important thing IMO is to be playful. It ticks so many of the boxes that you mention here

i love women, i have all their albums

I've Learned to conversate with everyone around me and it Made it easier to talk to anybody...🤔

Thinking back on my experiences, maintaining a woman in a relationship is the most important. Cold approaching women, talking to women, getting their number is really not that hard. Keeping and maintaining her in a relationship... Now that's work.

"You don't ask fish how to catch fish . You ask a fisherman."

Women are beautiful, I always appreciate the many things that make a woman graceful. The most intriguing thing is how different men and women are, although we are all human.

What she mentioned at 5:40 is my style. Random statement relevant to the occasion with an air of indifference looking for a reaction that determine whether or not to engage her in conversation. No response with no eye contact I won't bother. No questioning unless engaged and never at the beginning. No expectations no disillusion. Works for me

"I just wanted to come over here and tell you that you've really caught my eye". OMG Apollonia you're top class.

Yeah unless your a 10, girls don’t really care about any compliment. It’s usually “oh thank u” then they pull out their 🤳 and pretend ur not there..

Great video been have been implementing lately have approached beautiful girls and it’s just liberating. Rejection is nothing compared to regret something. Have a nice day!

Yo, i appreciate the video, the facial expression and tonality is my biggest obstacle when im not buzzed daygaming.

Sounds AWESOME, great video 🔥! Definitely will share this video with my friends. And by the way… did you know that something like Spanish Fly drops exists? I’ve read that it boosts your sex drive & the reviews are GREAT. I’m really considering buying it for me & my wife. Has anyone bought something like this?

What I got is don't approach a woman because she thinks that I'm crazy or going to hurt her, and you wonder why men don't approach thanks for the great advice, I'll stick with being single.

Grow some balls and approach a woman. The more you do it, the more confident you'll be. Learn to talk less about yourself.... and listen more. The better you are at listening, the easier it is to carry-on a conversation with a woman. Practice. Practice. Practice.

Some very good tips. I like flipping the negative comment. Keep up the great work.

I always think it’s good to know more about the female species and the way they think thank you stay positive and blessed 👍🏽🙏🏽👍🏽🙏🏽

Imagine how many views you would have if you would take the opposite approach and tell women how to approach men

Man it’s been awhile since I seen your content. I see that the membership group is growing and I can’t wait to tune back into your Live chat. Keep doing great things. We appreciate you

What women say: We want to be approached. What women mean: BUT NOT BY YOU!

I don’t even approach no women but that “I love health food” part made me laugh TF out, Piece of advice for the mans out there looking forward to approaching girls! You need to go approach your purpose and better your self, everything else comes easy

Dont ever approach at all guys. Get your body together and you won't ever have to approach again.

@Apollonia Ponti I'm allowing myself to absorb the 10 steps you provided and want to again appreciate you for such a straight forward video. Excited to continue to support and learn from you and your material and my own relationship journey.

Why do men need to go through all of this to get a woman or their attention. We are getting tired of that.. Guys your number priority should be you. Work smart, make money and you wouldn't waste time saying all of this. Being successful boost your confidence and women loves that, so what are you guys waiting for.

Thank you for your efforts to educate men on how to interact with women constructively

Knowing how to read women is a positive. Knowing they have an appeal about them before you speak makes all the difference and it happens in a moment.

it's scary asf to approach women, i always feel like such a creepy stalker guy and they always look so scared like im some troll thats trying to rape or kill them. i kind of avoid women sometimes. Like i was walking to my car out of the store and i walked past this lady looking for my car and she freaked out and spun around and i told her i was sorry im just looking for my car. all i was trying to do was get to my car and now im some threat to women, like damn man smh

I laughed so hard because she went in on a convo with her self love it!!!

I'm guilty of giving people more chances than they deserve but when I'm done, I'm done.

All of this takes confidence in yourself first. No confidence or real inner quality it will fail quickly.

Great work Apollonia Ponti. Much appreciation from Kenya. You're really doing an amazing job for us men. God bless you

Focus your energy on being successful in your health and career. Women will be attracted to you when you're a successful and happy person.

Great video and appreciate your feminine perspective but honestly, I'm to the point where I don't even try to approach women anymore. I'm good looking, in shape, a non smoker - drinker got decent money, clean, sharp, well raised and groomed. Women, nowadays, to me are so stuck up and difficult and I'm just as content as can be...don't need any validation. If the ideal woman for me fell in my lap, cool...but in the meantime I'm just a spectator refusing to play the game! ✌

Apollonia Ponti love your content nice advice

Great tips! I will get to try them one day.

You a real one Apollonia! I appreciate you! I just wanted you to know!

Some good details; thank you for sharing your point of view. However, it doesn't take all this. No man of Purpose has time to do all of these things and perform all these mechanical functions. If she doesn't like it.. too easy.. simply walk. God has given you Purpose.

These are the best tips anybody could give about pickup and that too for free. Good job 🤙🏻

I just want to let you know I like the way you deliver your message very easy to follow thank you

Thanks and much love for the guidance its like all what you saying its connected me back and give me more courage .

You are really good... you helped me out alot.. keep up the great work! Thank you so much...

I can't get enough of your content, you're amazing

Viewed this quite a while back, but came back it's clutch 👌🏼🧡

Really helpful! Thank you very much. Im a really shy guy ! Never had enough courage to approach women! Now it's finally the time!!

I have been watching your videos for some time but this one is fire, I love it.

Absolutely love this advice

I love this! Thank you 🙏🏾

Ohh yeahh !! Initiation, gauging and progression.

Wow🎉that was great stuff !!!!

“There is what women say they want, What they think they want, And what they respond to.” -Ross Jeffries (Master PUA)

Eye contact and smiling is my strong suit.

Subscribed girl ! Engaging

What a wonderful video keep up the good work

@apollonia ponti you looked so pretty in this video you kept playing with your hair 😀like attraction hair movement and i caught that

Just what i needed. Thank you ! ❤️

Wow I haven't seen any of your videos in a looooong time!¡!

i like how shes so secure in herself that she stutterers when she talks to herself

ur awesome this is helpful!

WAW! Beautiful to watch this video FEW MINUTES IN. ❤️❤️❤️FROM NAMIBIA 🇳🇦

Love her! Doesn't hurt too that she's easy on the eyes.. The ultimate wingman!

Remember fellas, she knows exactly what she’s doing. If she likes you then she’ll make the move to push the conversation forward. It should happen naturally, presuming the both of you want each other and if not then she’s just not the one for you & doesn’t belong to you… in that case be ready to walk away and find another girl that will love and care for you .

too many girls approach me but the gates inside my heart are too strong to break do to only if a girl really loves me it breaks through eye contact there is where i know if she really loves me and i am still single i don't play hard to get i was treaded wrong from childhood by girls before i grew up now i am 32 old man i know what true love is 100%

Thank you so much now I got the idea to approach a woman.

Amazing video

Omggg 😂 I cant believe this worked got 6 numbers, my friend was shocked

Love your wisdom.

There's no point in talking to a woman then

Interesting tips I like that🔥😉

Pick up on what the girl is saying is so true. That's I think keep the conversation going

Amazing Video tone is hard I'm very transparent with my emotions or thoughts. I'm a introvert who is nervous about that side of me all my Life #10 is amazing cause I'm a little transparent and blunt with respect. That is one I have to work on. I would have hard time saying to woman I'm a little nervous talking too new people cause I'd feel 1 million eyes on me. I've had interest in a woman whose a friend like family and I have pushed the idea or will too tell her told my self keep it secret till end of time.

Thanks for the info.

Thanks again love 🙏🏽❤

Approaching girls ... I know what i have to do but i don't if i have the strength to do it .

My morning class ☺️

Thanks for your advice 👍

Question: What motivates you to create the content that you do?

I really hope that women appreciate the efforts that guys make because it’s freakin hard. I’m actually a pretty confident person with plenty going for me and decent looks, yet I still can’t believe how little traction I get even when I try to be as relaxed and courteous as possible. I’m often unsure if I should continue in this way or just become a dick and see if that helps.

Great tips 👍

DON'T GIVE HER A COMPLIMENT when you first meet her. observe what she's doing or something happing in the moment, share how you relate or don't relate to it , and ask her for her opinion or perspective (best to avoid asking her yes or no questions). then in the middle of her answering question(s), interrupt or change the topic immediately to her with a compliment you did or didn't notice before you approached her. it can be you noticing her unique voice, how much brighter her eyes look up close or how healthy her hair or skin is ("wow your hair is so brilliant, I need to know your secret. what product do you use?" ,"Do I notice an ascent here? it is rather attractive. where are you from?" O.S.A.) Now she opens up a little more and this is your opportunity to relate with her about what she's saying and asking her questions based on key words she uses while describing herself or something she does or interests. Best way to not have dead silence between the two of you, if any, is reintroducing the observe, share and ask (O.S.A) although you can sometimes drop the observe or share a couple times so that you don't should too repetitive. its okay to show that you don't agree with her on a topic/subject as long as you own it and don't apologize for it but tell her you appreciate different perspectives (stay away from topics like religion, politics or even your job). if you cold approached her (you didn't ever know her prior to meeting her) end it there and tell her (not ask) that you want pick up this conversation with her at a later time and ask for her number or social media, and or invite her to an another social gathering, event, public place ("Hey lets talk more about this over a cup of coffee. heres my number..., send me a text right now (or) I have an instagram lets follow each other") this is great because you show her that you respect not only her time, since you just meet her, but your time as well and you don't want to tell her everything about you but leave her wanting to know more. women find it sexy once they know you are willing to walk away from a good interact before she ejects. of course don't be rude about leaving but don't be sorry either. make great eye contact, smile and you'll be getting back to her because if you want it to happen, it is 100% your responsibility to make it happen and that is what a man does. hope this helps, cheers!

Super useful 👌🏻👌🏻👏🏻👏🏻

I am so jealous of your husband. He has such an amazing wife.

One of the best videos of yours I seen this is 😉

Thank You!!

A lot of people will miss out on the simple confidence building technique mentioned in this video!

I really like your video you broke it down well

Hello Appollonia Ponti, Your videos are a message from God... I recently filed for Divorce after 17 years of marriage. I am a hopeless romantic...I appreciate your contribution for Gentleman who are thrusted in to this new "swipe left" generation..I am now convinced Everthing Will Be Alright...Again, Thank You.👑

It’s either she likes what she sees or she doesn’t! It’s not rocket science

OMG It Freaking worked😲

You are amazing. God bless you!

This kind of stuff is such a godsend for me. This is seduction for men who have integrity and self-respect enough not to be willing to be a cretinous, fake, manipulative, sleazy, arrogant fool to get women like most pua artists cannot help but teach, even though most decent ones. Getting the knowledge from a woman and her perspective like this lady, who great at teaching is soo superior. Everything is useable and it's such a relief to know they aren't looking for the smooth talking, wise-cracking, fake alpha peacock, but just normal, decent, genuine and respectful. It's mostly just stop doing the lame bs most of us get taught by others or do by default.

Wha up Apollonia! Ima fan. I be watchin all yo videos i gotta bad mexican girl off yo videos lol. Keep trainin us. U da sensei, we da student lol

girls approach to me exactly the exact opposite that's why i could never find out if she was just too nice to me or figure out if she is in love with me

We are alive

It seems like a lot of women lack grace in these situation. Yea it’s a mama job but as A women you can have the grace to reject someone without taking it personal or without becoming upset defensive. or mean.

Hi I just really wanted to come over here that you really cought my eye my name is…. If rejected it was nice meeting you It was nice talking to you i had a great conversation you have an amazing amazing charisma about your self you care yourself really well as a woman have a wonderful day.