This coaching video, without a doubt, is the best of this young lady's Truthful offerings to us men. I commend her on her knowledge, wisdom, and wish I would have seen/heard this many yrs. Ago. I honestly believe that my good friend/Coach Tony Robbins, would agree with me on my comments. Thankyou Ms..Apollonia. I am a fan.

She's not "one in a million", she's "one of a million," don't be afraid to be your own man without her. So when you do find her, she appreciates the man you've become on your own.

Her rejection doesn't mean there's something wrong with me, it just means her judgment sucks.

Nobody needs relationships to be happy. Once you realize that, you will automagically become more attractive.

Have an abundance mentality men. That means, stop caring what women want from you because there's always another one that will expect less and still want to be with you.

Men do all the work, women wait at the finish line to pick the winner.

12:24 Start of Seven Habit to Cultivate Abundance Mindset 01. Shift your brain to positivity 02. Know your standards and take pride for it 03. Practice gratitude on what you have in life 04. Your personal journey is different, stop comparing to others 05. Stop hiding in bubbles, live with purpose and build social momentum 06. Having emotional balance and control with abundance mindset, not scarcity mindset 07. Learn and understand attraction, invest in making yourself better physically, mentally, and emotionally

She rejected me disrespectfully, I disrespected her by acting like she didn’t exist.

I learned about this after my last break up, I saw my flaws and insecurities and took responsibility for where I had weak mentalities. This is too true.🙌🏾

I am a woman entering a relationship with a man with an abundance mentality. It is highly attractive. I think this also works in reverse. Men appreciate a woman with an abundance mentality as well. I know myself well - my values, goals, my own very positive attitude. I am not a classic beauty, but never seem to have a difficult time attracting men. The difficulty has been finding the right one. I think I have, and we are moving forward. Men, find an abundance mentality and practice it daily. You will attract a similarly aligned woman. It may or may not be the first one you meet, but that's okay. Persevere! ♥️

Even before I began achieving, I was broke but working towards my dreams, it was still enough to attract some amazing women. I truly believe it is a mindset. But a man must actually be willing to make the self-sacrifice and develop self-discipline. To actually find a man who is willing to do the work to change is rare. Most suffer from the greatest sin, Pride. See all the broke guys driving those leased BMR's? A self-made man isn't trying to impress anyone. Why would he? He doesn't need to prove anything to anyone. It's reflected in how he lives.

To have the scarcity mentality and then overcome it is beautiful!! Always remember: " The one who falls and gets up is so much stronger than the one who never fell" ;)

“Comparison is the thief of joy,” - Theodore Roosevelt

Have 3-4 girls , when one meets your list slowly focus more on the one , but go slow, we all make mistakes its life , just be positive , there are plenty of women out there

It’s very ironic how the fear of losing a woman is exactly the thing that drives her away. Great video!

Life Starts With Perspective & Perception, It's All Mental First. 💯

Couldn't agree more with this! I used to think it was all about pick up lines, going to gym etc but it's all inner game. The more abundant my mindset is becoming the more incredible my life is becoming, and not just with women but with all aspects of my life. Thanks Apolonia, your content is life changing!

Wow! Mega high value content you have provided. Perception is projection, perception is intepretation. There is no failure, only feedback going forward! Knowing where I stand is key. Staying PRESENT and in my power allows me to choose be in the abundance mentality as opposed to scarcity/victim mentality.

it's not about what she wants, rather what she responds to. in this case abundance mentality means "I have options, and you can be replaced with hotter one"

what women want: everything

I had to learn this lesson the hard way Miss A.P. What you are saying is so true. Great video.

Thank you for this!!! Looking back on some women I dealt with, I definitely had the scarcity mindset at times. I’m going to keep listening to you as a dating coach! Again, Thanks so much!

I agree, I’m 67 years old and wish I really understood this earlier...

Learn from the lost relationship let it push you too be a better person grow from it

well this video isn't only saved my relationship, it saves my whole life. thank you

This is so on time for me. 80% of what you said was all stuff that I've realized and have been meditating on for the last few days.

This is one of your most important videos you have done so far. So many good points and light bulbs going off in the end. You just keep getting better.

Abundant mentality, one of my great attributes that kept me going forward. Now When I let my guards down, meeting the lady that want to be apart my life. Appolonia you express so much love, in with sharing this knowledge, telling us(men) to work on making our abundance mentality great. Thank You! ❤💯🎁 (This is great to have in a women too) the kind of woman I know I will want.

I just want to say thank you for this! I’m in the process of getting through this mindset and this video hits the nail on the head! I appreciate you!

Must say, this video was generally an uplifting reminder on having purpose. So much so, that finding a partner now doesn't seem so important, plus you'll probably find an even better one when bettering ones self

"Everything requires work to maintain." This was a great one. Technical note: slight buzzing sound in the background.

You are amazing Apollonia! I had relashionship Issues lately and your Videos have helped me A LOT in so many ways! Thank you!

I’m a woman and I feel I need it myself too. Important lesson to all human

Insightful as ever. It was great speaking with you today, I’m so excited about the future now 🤗

I finally get it its better to say there are more things that can make you happy than being mad over something you can not change just accept it and move forward love yourself more then anyone else

The more I think the more I realise I don't know any other speech that I have heard in my life in around 19 minutes that contains so many truths and a so immensely powerful message. My most honest and deepest thanks for such an incredible video Apollonia, from Barcelona, Spain.

This is right on point!! It matters, if you make it matter! A great man is a man who aspires to better himself and is wise enough to keep company with those with whom he has mutual respect. These are people who tell him what he needs to hear, not just what he wants to hear! Confidence is key! I learned this from an older woman, a senior who befriended me when I was a freshman in university. She schooled me on being confident enough in my own skin, so as to only give value to people who have earned my respect. Negativity from people who have not earned your respect, was irrelevant to me. I stopped internalizing the negativity of others. Many of these people are trying to use dominance over you, by affecting your emotional state, to boast their self-esteem. Once you understand that you determine the power that others have over you, you will soar. You will start setting goals and achieving them. You start working on WHO you are, and then you will be able to handle the outcome. I know that good things will come my way, because I have developed the skill and character to achieve it. You have enough confidence to accept when something is not a match. You do not rely on others to make you happy. You understand that a relationship with the right person may enhance your life, but you do not look to her to make you happy. Putting the responsibility for your happiness on another, is needy, and in fact, it is selfish. A confident, self-assured man, has developed himself, and subsequently, he has something to contribute to a relationship. We live in a society where women can do for themselves. They do not NEED you. But the right woman, the right match, will be with you me cause they WANT you!

Being a 64 year young ,is can understand the concept of an abundance mindset, I been practicing this for a few years and have recently met someone that is very impressed with me and my lifestyle and is all because of this concept and what I have on my plate to offer. I'm totally great full for your advice on these matters, Thank you!

Excellent video Apollonia . This is key and if anyone gets this they are on their way. It wasn’t until I got this mentality that I realized I could date when and who I wanted. I didn’t have to compromise anymore. I took rejection as one of life’s circumstances and inconvenience that comes our way once in a while. Now I meet women who want to date me but I don’t want to because I’m in a stable relationship but I have options when I’m not even looking. It’s a powerful mindset.

Jeez!!! She just broke down the story of my dating life in 1 video. I've learned so much already and I'm definitely not gonna remain the same after this. Thank you so much Apollonia

Good game, Apollonia. This theme has been finding me over and over the last couple of days. Abundance reprogramming. Thank you.

Your every line was like a golden word , i wrote everything down , just everything! Thanks lot. Love from India❤️

Thank you Apollonia, this is amazing, you have changed my life. I am practicing all or most of these points because of your advices. I am still working some some part. Mindset is everything!

This is the best video you’ve ever made. Very informative. I need to practice what you taught. Thank you Apollonian

Talk about educational, informative and timely. This is applicable to me right now and you hit it on the head. Thanks!

this may be your most profound teaching, AP... thank you!

First time commenting on your channel and it was overdue. Your insight into what I personally am going through, is like I called you up and we are having a session. You speak directly to me and it’s freaky really. I am sure others are feeling the same when they first hear you. Not sure how you know or can relate to what men go through, but keep it up. Will be liking this one too and rewatching it again. Keep up the great therapy you offer here AP.

Always demand the best for you in every aspect of life, you deserve it!

It's been tough to learn but it was very freeing to understand that rejection and non interest wasn't a bad thing. And that time, energy, and emotions being spent on her could be used somewhere else that would make me better. Had to go through a lot of trials to get there, and I still get haunted by it every now and then. That's why I love your content. Helps new get on the right track.

Thanks a million for the validation of this video. It really works. I started practising this about a month ago and I noticed accelerated positive changes. 1. I got more relaxed. 2. Let go of things within my control 3. Enjoy the flow 4. Ultra-high confidence 5. Attract more women There is a social perfume released when a man has an abundant mindset that women perceives.

I've been watching your videos for a while, been in a ship for a long time. This is one of your best messages yet... Thank you Appollonia

Alpha I'm from Zimbabwe. I used your couching advice and I am winning any woman I desire. They are clinging and call me a Movie Star. I don't fake it I stand my ground and communicate my needs and demand ground rules. We can't just date blindly without direction and menu of expectations. I'm even blocking time wasters and fence sitters. I am more focused on my goals. Big hugs 🤗 for brain 🧠 training and I maintain best standards possible. Big thanks Gorgeous 1. Keep us posted. I'm the pilot and captain of my life.

you don't pull any punches! You tell it like it is! And that is very refreshing! Thank you for your Super and very Helpful advise!

I agree, when I am in my vortex and in flow, women always show up in my life. And regarding the abundance mentality, most women won't admit this, but they know it is true.

You are a great soul! Thanks for sharing all your life experiences and helping others to cope up with their life as well. God bless you with an abundance of health and weatlth.

Whoa, there was so much game in this video it might as well have been a roth ira. Best of all time fire, this girl is a relationship guru and I love how its not rooted in dark psych or gimmicks but genuine positive and healthy living. you are truly coming from a place of caring and abundance.

Powerful message Apollonia. Your best video ever. Thank you for sharing this Amazing Wisdom ❤️🙏

you make me realised who i was supposed to be, not what people expect from me. and wake me up from slumber, i need it, thks

Great video! You hit it on the money between 10:39 and 10:45. I'll take that several steps further. Abundance mentality is also having the belief that even if a man himself isn't ever able to find love in his life, he will be just fine, as long as he loves and accepts himself for who he is, which stems from self acceptance/love.

Another video full of wisdom, thanks Apollonia. Wouldn't the world be a different place if these teachings were taught in school, as part of the curriculum. Imagine how much smoother the world would be, people understanding other people.

This video is key, I watched this video a few times when I stumbled on it.

Apollonia. Thank you for your loving honesty...and for your desire for men and women to have the best of of one another..x

Oh my gosh. Apollonia you are so solid!! This makes so much sense- thank you

Ms. Apollonia whatever you are saying is very true. I am experiencing this in my life currently. Your videos are really helpful in having a right mindset. You are a genuine content creator. Deep respect for you. Thank you for posting such content. I feel you have a real understanding of what you say and it's not superfifical. Wishing you loads of success. Thank you!

whatever you said in this video are hands down straight to the point and honestly everything that were mention I've experiences before...man I wish I found this video of yours a little much earlier then before so I could fill up my bucket with full abundances. Anyhow, nothing too late for everything right ? lets go ! new fan here from Malaysia :) love you Apollonia Ponti

Believing in possibilities in my life was the factor that changed my attitude toward my girlfriend and re attracted her. Great vid. By the way, your hair looks great, fit you perfect

This was exactly what I needed to hear. I’ve been so confused as to why all of my relationships with women have been so turbulent.... I believe I now know why. Thanks for making this video!😃👍☀️

I just subscribed to your channel because I see you for who you are. I watched a few of your videos and saw that you are genuine and honest. Qualities that I can align with. Thank you

This is sooo on the money! The observations are very in-tune with reality!

Excellent content. As a man that is back on the dating scene for the first time in 16 years, I really needed to hear this.

Great video! Very truthful! I have finally found someone at my level! She is 8 years older but is successful in her own business. If it wasn't for my abundance mentality I wouldn't have attracted her into my life. Thank you for the video!

You are really a spring of knowledge! Am learning a lot of stuff! 💖Keep on giving us more. 👏 Thank you so so much!

Don’t know why there are dislikes for a video that sheds nothing but light. Appreciate the content Apollonia

Thanks for this video for sure everything you said is correct learn it the heavy way due to circumstances, traumas can get you to became needy and lose self-confidence it might destroy your personality SELF-BLAME was my case scenario yet once you get control of your life again, you can make it better remember what ever happens has a reason, and whatever the reason is, it's not you ...

I must say honestly speaking. Your video's are like light in the darkness for all of men. To understand things when it comes to women's

stumbled on your videos, probably some of the most unspoken about, well-presented content!

Thank you for this video Ms. Apollonia, I needed to hear that. In fact, I stop calling her and texting her back which I did not do it intentionally but I needed to focus myself, and setting my goals. And you know what, less than 24 hours, she started calling me and texting me. Therefore, Ms. Apollonia you are right about that. 😁👍

Just the information that I needed a reminder of this week. Thank you very much A.P.

I had great run this morning and this is a great video to watch this morning 😊

This Chanel not only dating, it is also self improvement and spiritual growth🙏

Wow this is so meaningful you know exactly what you talking about! I wish I had a sister like you ♥️

Know this video old now but recently been on ya page Apollonia u make so much sense and I really thank you

Hey @Apollonia.. just would like to say thank you for all the help. I been watching all that I can from the videos. And I been using what I hear and see. And it helping emotionally and just what I need to work on. So thank u and keep them coming. I wish I had the cash for the coaching sessions. But the videos are doing there just. Be blessed

You are like my big sister... You always keep me in control and the right ways.

You make me a fan of yours, finally someone speaking the truth, loved it

I want to thank you very much from the bottom of my heart. All the hard work you've done in your life to obtain all this information and knowledge to give to the world for free, is something admirable and appreciated, not to mention inspirational.. again, thank you....

The true, Queen. On her thorn, sharing her wisdom about women. As always, Miss Ponti, thank you, for your outstanding advice. By the way, your beauty is breath taking.

OMG you’re amazing at this, thank you 😊 ❤️

You’re one of the most amazing and helpful person on here, I am grateful for you 🙏🏽

Apollonia is the only woman who's real with us guys, I appreciate that

Great coaching video, some deep red pill knowledge here. Happy to hear it with a positive point of view from a high quality woman. Very inspiring to always continue to improve

Once again this tip along with your other secrets have given me an ABUNDANT MINDSET . Gracias Chilendrina

You are a really smart person and you know how to communicate this knowledge in your videos. Great job. Please keep the videos coming.

Appolonia, I am pursuing the abundance mentality, Been authentic balanced,I recognise my faults and am removing these stopping them moving on. Dont expect all woman to want me seek the best in me, So I am best of me to build relationshop on a solid foundation.

The one thing that we have to understand as humans is that we all act and respond to situations different men and women get turned down or rejected I had to learn not to limit myself but I keep my intregity of who I am I will not try to be something that I am not but I had to learn that over time my peace of mind is very valuable to me I really enjoy how you bring all of these things to the light for men because I do love a beautiful woman who is intelligent and passionate and have a great heart and I believe that is you and I know that if you can change your thinking you can change your world human behavior is really deep in so many levels ....

Throughout my life I've always had the mantra that I can date anyone I like and this has proven so true. My main thing here is she can leave the relationship when ever she wants and I'll move on. This is the case for me right now with my marriage of 30+ years. I'm ready to move on. Great channel Apollonia.

Thank you for all the great knowledge and wisdom. Great video!

I dont need to look for other videos for more advise, I just got what I've been looking for... Thank for the advise... God bless!!!!

Hello Apollonia, happy Thursday. An abundance mindset is a great subject. When you have a abundance mindset is shows that you have a plans and goals. When I'm focused on working out, studying, and meeting new people/woman. They may see your self-confidence, self-worth, and how your carry yourself in how you communicate.

Ms Apollonia, your videos and messages are spot on. As an Alpha married to a very strong woman, your videos supplement what I already know and try to practice. Also gives me little nuggets that I shall pass on to my son one day. Thumbs up