This is probably one of the best videos I've ever watched on KZfaq. Seriously. The way you communicate is so clear and concise - you make very deep matters easy to follow. This is an especially important subject to touch on because as you say in the video, everyone has some of these issues to one degree or another. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

I remember very clearly as a child deciding deliberately, "well if my parents are going to keep putting me down about every little thing I do, think, or say... Then I won't feel. I saw it as a power move as a teenager. (It was very interesting to see their reaction to that.. like they were upset that they couldn't (seem) to hurt me anymore. I wonder if this comes from my sun/Pluto/Mercury/Mars in Scorpio. In a way I killed myself to survive and as an attack....

Fiercely Amazing!... It feels good but can be lonely, people will try to test your stability and you will even find yourself leaving conversations with loved one's prematurely, that don't feel healthy. I'm always being told that I think I'm better than everyone, that couldn't be further from the truth. I'm actually protecting myself but hopelessly wishing that I had never wasted my time after I was already told by my Angel's and dreams what to do.

I really need to meditate on this AWESOMELY AMAZING message!!!

How could anyone dislike this?

I hope this doesn't sound too inappropriate, but in this video, I found the deep well of motherly wisdom I never got to experience (in the way I needed to). Thank you for being such an authentic Guide, Jewel... It's a long and winding road, but the lights are on now.

This was a very complex subject to explain. Great job!

You are one of my top Astrologers! Thank you for this. Diagnosed Borderline, OCD, Depressed. Your explanations can help with a journey to healing. Can't wait to see what other video discussions/lessons you will share.

Yes, this resonates a lot with me, I am an Aries Sun, Pisces Moon, and Pisces Ascendant. As an Aries Sun, I can be funny, outspoken and really social.. but I am mostly an introvert who needs a lot of alone time to feel balanced.. And everyone thinks I am really strange... So many times when I feel out of balance I would push myself and wear the facade to make others happy or fit in and it is exhausting! For years I was numb to my feelings at home and at work. ( I even learned the Tarot to get in touch with my true feeling, because I felt like a vessel with no captain) Like you said Jewel, we are conditioned at an early age and for me this attracted the wrong spouse, the wrong jobs, etc.. With age though, I am gaining the confidence to be myself and not care what others think.. like you said Jewel, "You attract the right people and things to you when you are authentic." Thank you for the words of wisdom.

This information has become the awakening that's unlocked all other truths. My Neptune in Scorpio in 4th house aspects all of my other planets in some very negative ways. I've never considered my emotions and I've never understood them, I've just overridden them like a train engine...and I've experienced the resulting train wreck several times. This information is very helpful. Thank you.

that's exactly what i have been experiencing the last weeks... living and expressing myself/truth. it's so liberating and refreshes life again, you know it when you feel it... thank you ☆ ♡

This is beyond brilliant. You are so good at breaking things down and connecting them to real life. It not only helps us read and learn our charts better, it helps us identify patterns of behavior so we can heal ourselves. LOVE this channel! It would be awesome if you partnered with a big media company to expand because everyone can use this knowledge

Every word is right, brilliant

I love to come back to watch these videos, thank you for them, looking forward to more!

Wow! Mind blown... so complex to explain but makes total sense.

sometimes I feel very disconnected from my self and always regret when I don't follow my first thought.

Thank you so much. Your words really resonated with me. Many blessings

Thank you Jewel; and also, what I have learned is that when I get a negative emotional 'charge' from another person's comment/behaviour/emotions etc. it is an indication that my boundary has been violated in some way. Boundaries are fluid in nature and depend on interaction with another person and that is why we react differently with different people. i.e. each interaction differs depending on our emotional perception and feeling within relationship to the 'other'........I think that's what I am trying to say lol

So powerful! Really spoke to me , thank you 🙏🏽

Thank you for the wise words Jewel. You have such amazing insights. What you say is so on point to me. You get it. These are the exact kind of issues I've faced in my life. I'm a Pisces sun square Neptune, Mercury and Mars in Pisces, Taurus moon trine Neptune, and Neptune conj. descendant. When you have low self esteem, you distrust yourself and thus depend on others for direction and approval. This becomes a very tricky place to be when you're a sensitive empathic person because you are telepathically picking up others thoughts and perceptions of you. And like you said, only YOUR feelings are properly calibrated to give you your true direction. If you have a weak ego and weak boundaries (a common Neptunian theme) negative thoughts and judgments of others will shape how you see yourself and control your life. If you're disconnected from yourself, you'll be at the whim of othe people. It feels disempowering and can make you feel unconfident about your self image and identity. I always felt like I was carrying self images which I felt unhappy with and disempowered by. All because I was out of touch with my true feelings, wants, and needs. I felt ashamed and undeserving to own these feelings, wants, and needs. So I feel like I was just a people pleaser. When you know yourself and your true feelings, you can follow your emotional guidance system to connect with your true self. And boundaries and assertiveness is the key piece which always you to own yourself and rock it to the fullest. When you have boundaries and assertiveness, It allows you to own your feelings and true wants and needs, regardless of other's projections and expectations of who they want you to be. When you can't assert yourself, you deny yourself and your truth, and you allow others to control your life.

Such a great video. Thank you so much jewel!!

Absolutely amazing! Thank you!

Yes,I learned this the hard way but it's all for good! Thank you so much!

you are full of wisdom, thank you

This is very true. Thank you so much for sharing.

Very very good video ! I can't wait to ee the rest of this series ;D

Very powerful advice.......Thank you 4 the clarity

Thank u for yr videos. They are so amazing. No one has explained these issues astrologically like u do. No filters. Pure thruth, just the way its really needed. Thanks a bunch. Combining astrology and psychology to make sense of both. Perfectos! God bless

Intimacy: “Into me see” wow Jewel! Just incredible. Thank you for your wisdom it is so greatly appreciated

your amazing jewel! thank you so deeply

Aaaaammmazing!!!!!! Thank you Jewel super helpful!!

I wasn't allowed to feel growing up

Enjoyed this video, found it affirming that I value my feelings. Look forward to this series. And hope others find it enlightening.

This is it! TY!

Thanks this is so helpful! Dealing with this now and am learning to break free. Sun in Pisces and venus in 7th house north node 1 degree apart!

Awesome video

Brilliant

this dress looks so nice on you!

Two other experts on KZfaq who can help you with this are Lisa A. Romano and Jerry Wise. Use that search bar up there.

very good video. I reckon this is very valid for a moon/saturn conjunction ?!?!

Hi Jewel! Could you do a video on Jupiter conjunt the Ascendant in synastry please? Been waiting for ages hoping I'd see it in my feed haha!

Can you talk about dependency on synastry and the aspects about that, please? Thank you ! X from France.

Thank you so much for this video, I shared it on Facebook because most people don't understand how to use astrology and apply it to life. I've got some tough Pluto/Mars conjunct and 12 house Neptune squaring my Sun, Mercury, Jupiter and Saturn conjunctions. I've had two strong Pluto/ Mars relationships. I'm single and attempting to be healthy. After you've done the emotional inventory, how do you handle a potential new partner with very strong benefics in Synesty? How do you avoid your Natal pitfalls, and rebuild a healthy new life? My heart is like... Oh no...no... The last two relationships were a trainwreck... I don't know if it's time to try again.

Oh Jewel, I don't know what it is but every time I'm watching one of your videos and a burning question pops up such as "but what if I don't know what my feelings are or what I want" like clockwork its like you heard my thoughts and address it as soon as I think it. My SN conjunct your Moon? lol I don't know. This is beyond accurate. I'm so 12th house and so many inconjuncts especially involving my 5th house sun. If you ever want to use my chart for a case study on this chart I'm so down! This is such a painful experience and it comes with such a heavy defense mechanism against CHANGING it. BTW in the last five minutes of video I think you were visibly chanelling 5d pure awareness. Thank you for blowing me away withis video

Jewel, excellent videos. So, this may sound a little overly specific, but I would like to see a video about how one who recognizes he (or she, but I think this probably is an issue men relate to more?), has a tendency (or is enabled socially) to merge into that kind of masculine, dominating, patriarchal, goal-oriented, managerial, bossy, or however one experiences it, kind of way of interacting with others and, while thoughtful and self-aware, struggles sometimes to embrace healthy masculine energy, the kind that asserts and protects oneself in a healthy way, and knows how to let go of bossing, fixing, criticizing, or trying to change or control others. You know what I mean? How exactly, what are some ways, a person can learn self-awareness, self-discipline, and self-respect, make a space for feelings and the other in their life without being self-loathing and masochistic about their masculine energy? I'd like to hear some ideas, in other words, from the perspectuve of, I'm a person who knows I have these tendencies to doubt myself or come on stong at times, so....how do I "back off" so as to make a space for my own and other's feelings and boundaries and respect others' in a more enlightened way. Not sure that is something you could relate to or see from this perspective, but as a man who is sensitive to feeling guilt about his masculine energy but who is also trying to learn to accept and work with it in a more aware, balanced, joyful way, I would find it extremely useful and affirming. What underlies these issues and what is worth feeling good about? I think there are many who would benefit from thoughtful ideas and tools to use to address these issues.

I just watched your video and had some thoughts. I was impressed with your understanding of dependency and thought you had some very useful things to say on the topic. Then I noticed you believe in astrology. I have to say that it is hard for me to say that does not impact your credibility to some degree for me. I don't want to step on your beliefs, but your beliefs and mine differ. Which brings me back to boundaries and expressing your feelings.. Is it okay to express my feelings as I did above or should I have just remained silent? Where is the proverbial line? At what point do you say too little and become a doormat? At what point do you cross a line with what some would interpret as expressing an unwanted opinion? I believe answering these questions are the tough part. As the (emotional vampires or toxic people) prey on this foible. Do too little, they take control. Do too much they will immediately move to a victim mentality. Toxic people will do all they can to avoid losing their enablers. They will manipulate you through these grey areas.

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