I always go by this principle with my wife. “Do not let the sun set for the day without saying “I’m sorry I was wrong” or “I forgive you” depending on who’s right or our separate opinions on who’s right or wrong. It’s worked amazingly well we do fight and argue but the next day we go on with life like nothing happened …I make her coffee and later on she makes me breakfast and we just laugh at each other for the argument we just had. Never let an argument last for long guys …it may affect you more for the worse given that often the other person couldn’t care less 🤷

Too little friction=no warmth. Too much friction=Fire. There’s gotta be balance. Relationships grow stronger through conflict resolution like trees grow to become stronger through weathering storms.

Lasting relationships in my life are based on: optimism, moral values, reciprocal honest and confrontational communication, confidence, willingness to be wrong, and some degree of success standards. If you’re a generally decent person directing their conduct towards good, who isn’t afraid to say what they think whether it hurts my feelings or not-while at the same time being able to have their opinions challenged without taking it personally, that’s what I think a successful relationship is built on. Whether it’s platonic or not. And some degree of ambition. I don’t care how much money you make. I’d you’re broke but trying to better yourself, I rank you higher than the millionaire consultant who is miserable to be around and thinks his life is horrible.

you always hurt those closest to you - expect nothing in return, youll have true friendship and youll WANT to help them if they ask for it. - friendships aren’t crutches they’re supports

I always fought with my best friends first, before becoming friends as a child. I recommend joining jiu-jitsu as an adult with your spouse and kids! Roll forever and build that bond .

Damn Pat! PERFECT timing. Had an encounter with my teen daughter (these relationships are hard) the other day, I didn’t handle it the best way. But I’ll take this and make sure she knows I’m trying to build her up to be a strong, resourceful, and compassionate leader

Awe PBD, I'm old enough to be your dad but I allowed you to teach me from a blind side of me in which I hadn't previously recognized. Now I will exercise that knowledge muscle you introduced me to and enjoy it's future benefits. Thank you and God bless you.

I need this right now , thank u thank u thank u so so much for this .

Thank you for this message, thanks to you I just handled friction with a colleague in a really positive way!

Love this information. Always providing great value P. Respects.

Life uses trials, difficulties, and failures as a filtering process

Thank you .very wise words .

Thank you Patrick 🙏

Thanks Patrick you the best.

Committed relationships are bringing people to the Highest Hight’s & create stability in Peoples Lives & their Children!

you deserve all thumbs up

thank you !!

Very essential advice, man!!! Well done!

Fruitful video just like the one you made on conflict resolution. I personally prefer your videos without background music, your content your choice.

Love your channel

The greatest pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do.

Your a true inspiration sir. I grew up in a housing project and made my way out. I work a 9 to 5 but I'm working toward a fulfilling career and your a serious mentor to me I just wanted to let you know if nothing else your helping me. P.s. are you hiring?

Excellent video!

Valuetainment, you’re Spot On with this one, this how you separate the strong from the weak and chaff!!!✝️✝️✝️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🧐🧐🧐🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸

What he is saying hard times distinguish good friends from fake friends, that is why i love bad times because it shows me the people in them true color

The secret to lasting relationships is purpose.

Very powerful

Great advice thank you

Currently I have a very bad relationship with my parents, they are constantly insulting me very badly, since a few days I'm very focused on building my business and that didn't make money yet, but I hope it will soon. But my parents think that I'm wasting my time and can never do this,its better to focus on studying and going to college .

EXCELLENT.

Alot of people could learn alot from just letting people talk and understanding that you do not have to agree or support what is said. Just let the person speak their peace. Who knows, it may be a brilliant idea or trigger a brilliant idea.

Great video

beautiful video

No long term relationships don’t always form in these ways I’m sorry but I have no long terms yet everyone always tells me how reliable, sweet, caring, dependable etc I am but nobody stays Pat. Not a single one I’ve been alone the entire 20 years I’m not angry I’m not upset and I haven’t given up on trying my best to make those relationships. My family is standoffish always have been and any friends I make always use me as a last resort and a backup I don’t care I just don’t associate anymore unless I choose too. Because nobody’s picking me even when I’ve been by their side through thick and thin and even when I still am with them after it all. And that’s okay.

We have a media platform, and the creatives fight all the time. We learned who really wanted to be successful.

Very nice advice.. Please reduce the background music sound

I could have sworn the video started at 2x speed. But I checked my settings and it was at Normal.

I’m in that spot right now

I'm loving this channel so much. It is not giving into the woke narratives.

That’s something I’ve learned from being in the military.

Create those long lasting relationships!

It would be a great interview if you had Douglas Murray on the podcast

Thank you Pat.

Treat your relationship like a business. Clear limits will unlock higher goals. Respect is earned doing this and will last forever.

By friction do you mean conflict? Is there a reason you are not using the word conflict?

What's the book called he's always recommending? Like 100 questions to ask before you get married or something like that

Dauphin River First Nation Manitoba Canada 🇨🇦

What if you don’t have any relationships?

This content is a beacon of enlightenment. Reading a book with akin themes was a life-changing experience. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint

I want old black board pbd

Turn... volume. ... up... when.. making.. video...

I like this advice 😊

Good morning...Let Love and Light continue to flow from Jesus freely through us all today, filling us with Joy, and overflowing into others lives.

To have a successful relationship is simple. Don’t be a narcissist or a sociopath!

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what is friction ?

Unfortunately now days many relationships are just based on money, salary, status, class.😮

Is you want to understand relationship you should truly understand the core etymology of those set of letters in that word.

wow

I believe in this, Rich in relationships is my goal.

MEGA

Lake St. Martin First Nation Manitoba Canada 🇨🇦

The secret is you both must be in love and then work through problems instead of getting divorced, because starting over will amount to the same thing over again

Is your McQueen t-shirt promoting the feminization of men?

Did you use these tips with Jason Whitlock?

This advice should be given much more. I personally practice it and I can say, without a doubt that the few relationships that I have, are meaningful.

taking no advice from anyone but your partner know when he or she lies let them lie until come light

McQueen?

MUHC KWEEN!!

Who's Mario?

look at China and America what a great partnership, what happened 20 years ago?What made them become best friends now

Believe in your partner!!!

Now I see how people call this guy "the adult version of Andrew tate"

A filtering process ..

CAN YOU PLEASE TALK ABOUT PALESTINE OHIO, WE NEED YOUR HELP

Don't get married. My friends who have lasted the longest are the ones who have not got married. Or don't get married early anyway. 11 of my friends who never got married are still married over 30 years on. The 14 that got married split up after 10 -17 years. 20 years in and happily not married. But each to their own.

Wow that’s Valuetainment !! Been 5 years now following you, so much of knowledge you have provided, Thank you PBD !! 🫶🏻

Combat does the same thing.people bond in similar situations under pressure/stress. You find out about people's character. Patrick keep up the good work.peace Mon Ami

That McQueen t shirt is just as cringe as the podcast theme song lmao

Thanks, Pat!

The music is very annoying. This video would’ve been much more impactful without it.

The secret is finding the right person. Someone with high morals.

I got value from this video. Thanks.

Pbd is always talking about last phase if his life is for giving back but, him sharing his knowledge as a well moraled and strong charactered male is invaluable for alot of people

Love it ..its good to know that. There isn't much people in me top 5 ...I got a lot out of this

Have crazy money that she somehow can't get to. That is the only way, that's the no bullshit truth.

This is genuinely good advice. I share his sentiment and analysis fully. It’s true at work, it’s true in marriage, it’s true among friends - it applies broadly. I encourage you to think inside this paradigm and go into life intentionally seeking to overcome friction, as a happy warrior, in the relationships you value. The people who you value and value you want to reduce friction too, whether they know it consciously or not. By entering into difficult conversions with this type of positive frame of mind, that friction is something to be overcome and strengthens, you will be a better listener and choose your words more thoughtfully, and give yourself greater peace and grace in the process. I’m an old man and I approve of this message.

Going along with the program is not good for the organization. Honest conversations will grow your organization.

So very True, I cherish my close friends ❣️

Dudes who are loaded bring a natural leverage to the table working class dudes only had before feminism. It's like a bird teaching 'how to fly' classes to fish. 99% of dudes will never be loaded. Fellas, just play the field. Don't settle down. It's the only way to keep down the amount of ways she can destroy you when she gets bored.

I really like the new 60 frame camera we are improving😂

Boraturı la balıstıce Omul e creat dupa asemanarea luı Dumnezeu

Don't get into one, you can last forever that way

Sometimes it feels like men value their male relationships more than their romantic relationships, they seem to put more effort in.

PBD we will meet soon I have a good business in the build. This comment will become a reality! I have been watching your videos daily while working on building my project. I really appreciate your videos, you are my mentor today.

Sounds like Pat is going through a divorce from his wife. A wife who's daddy owns many oil wells. Basically Pat married into money. And this was ultimately Pat's capital investment into the insurance company.

Individuals are still buying and holding crypto coin? I didn’t know that , I guess a few know about integrating into the micro economy to help substitute FIAT or usdt for a more tangible exchange Experience, it more like capitalization with about 43.307% profits/ ROI weekly though.. ps.. Valerie Anne got me covered thanks

**Rock solid relationships are "forged through Fire of Friction adversity" "Iron sharpens iron" "Struggle & Survival Bonds" "Overcoming Adversity together Forges bonding life long Trust" "We ride together...We fight together...We live & die together"

In Indian culture, we don't worry about worry particularly Marriage relationship. In our culture it is built-in to last life time. Once we married (mostly by arranged marriage or parents participated) we don't have to worry much about breaking! Our marriage are very strong it won't break for any silly reason/s. Particularly when couple have children, that cement strong marriage and responsibility for the couple! Western world does not believe reincarnation and based on materials - we believe marriage are fixed in heaven and continue for 7 life! So Indian DNA is inculcated this way and this thinking. But because of western influence and their materialism spoil Indians now! It does not matter how poor her husband or physically handicaps, they never leave their husbands and try taking part in his difficulties and feel proud for doing that.

Think about if you could have your own fate which is possible with Amazons AMM77X. What do you think happens after inflation? I am sure they will keep living cost high and even if the whole war finally gets to an end that still doesn't fix anything for us. Truth is we are getting ripped of every day and there's not much to do about it except for using the projects which actually HELP