The Truth About Body Dysmorphia

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Will Tennyson

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The Truth About Body Dysmorphia
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@scottvasnik
@scottvasnik 9 ай бұрын
Huge props to Will for being vulnerable and making a video on a topic that so many of us struggle with. Continuing to be an inspiration!
@timothyevo
@timothyevo 9 ай бұрын
Crazy timing too. I woke up this morning and was about to start tearing my body apart after a deload week left me feeling deflated. Instead, I made myself call out what I'm proud of from my year of progress. Try and love all parts of the journey folks.
@xavierrivera4182
@xavierrivera4182 9 ай бұрын
truly inspiring and gives me and most people a more open mindset/understanding when it comes to judging yourself. the day you don’t worry about what anyone thinks will be the day you’ll strive.
@dankful8699
@dankful8699 9 ай бұрын
fr
@lucient3396
@lucient3396 9 ай бұрын
Stay woke kings
@TheMchef
@TheMchef 9 ай бұрын
Guy's being sponsored by the same companies who go to lengths to normalize steroid use as much as they can. These influencers don't have a soul.
@hollywoodbb
@hollywoodbb 9 ай бұрын
You know it’s real when not a single innuendo was made. Mad respect.
@troykleeman4258
@troykleeman4258 9 ай бұрын
Yeah I honestly respected him so much more in this video because it wasn't riddled with all of that. So much more shareable amongst my circle.
@yemaster9000
@yemaster9000 9 ай бұрын
@@troykleeman4258 uncultured ahh circle /s but actually all the innuendos make his content funnier than not
@karawaller9772
@karawaller9772 9 ай бұрын
I know, like where is Will???
@Cambone13
@Cambone13 9 ай бұрын
7:04 the honking of the implant is probably the closest thing
@kuyab9122
@kuyab9122 9 ай бұрын
I'm now 4 minutes into the video and I caught this. Doctor: This is my playground. Will: This is where the magic happens. This counts as an innuendo right?
@khriskeith3852
@khriskeith3852 7 ай бұрын
The audacity of that man to say it doesn't look like Will works out. Lol
@monarchur
@monarchur Ай бұрын
He was just fucking with him being a dick on purpose
@TheFireGiver
@TheFireGiver 23 күн бұрын
As someone who used to not worn out, I will say I recognize the signs that someone works out much more. That being said, come on man. He obviously works out.
@Random-dndsdfaf
@Random-dndsdfaf 14 күн бұрын
@@TheFireGiver Not really. In the shirt, it didn't look that much. If he wore a tight shirt yes.
@JimmothyYumyum
@JimmothyYumyum 7 ай бұрын
i'm 30 now, used to be very obese, to the point of struggling to breath properly and walk long distances. Thanks to Will i've lost 125lbs and can now run a 5k in 20 minutes flat. I still see a fat person in the mirror, so this video hits home. Having Will talk about this is amazing. Thank you, Will
@munozman33
@munozman33 5 ай бұрын
Keep pushing Homie!
@MrAliFranca
@MrAliFranca 5 ай бұрын
Will might've inspired you, but it was YOU who put the hard work, so everything you achieved was thanks to YOU. Inspiration only gets you so far, your hard work and consistency got you where you are, dont forget that.
@wuchenxia5834
@wuchenxia5834 5 ай бұрын
holy shit 5k in 20 thats awesome, i cant run haha
@cammymillard7385
@cammymillard7385 3 ай бұрын
Solid going mate, hope youre still at it. Im a short skinny rat and Im struggling to get under 21 minutes myself 😂
@youprobablydontknowm
@youprobablydontknowm 3 ай бұрын
You got this brotha I've lost 30 lbs going for at least 50 were all in this together and u can do it!!!
@gregdoucette
@gregdoucette 9 ай бұрын
Amazing video. Hope everyone watches. We need to stop giving a shit about what people think about us.
@Julia-lt4jp
@Julia-lt4jp 9 ай бұрын
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@Mubarak-ry9mx
@Mubarak-ry9mx 9 ай бұрын
Real
@jj4829
@jj4829 9 ай бұрын
unless you are unironically fat or gay
@kirrpy9130
@kirrpy9130 9 ай бұрын
Make a reaction video on this so more people are exposed to the video and actually gets enough attention to more people.
@suyashdubey8767
@suyashdubey8767 9 ай бұрын
@@jj4829 tf is wrong with being gay
@newatlas
@newatlas 9 ай бұрын
These are the male role models needed today. Two men sitting down and taking about how they felt weak and vulnerable in the past, and how important it is to reach out for help. Well done, beautiful message!
@obinnasleeves1612
@obinnasleeves1612 9 ай бұрын
True
@TheLily97232
@TheLily97232 9 ай бұрын
Amen. Men need that a lot nowadays
@cashtache
@cashtache 9 ай бұрын
Nah we need less about that. Being a man isn’t about being weak or vulnerable. It’s quite the opposite.
@giacomolabriola1
@giacomolabriola1 8 ай бұрын
@@cashtache but we aren't invincible, by being "weak" and vulnerable when we need to, we can recover, kinda like sleeping to become full of energy the next day, yours is a horrible take and is just self-destructive in the end (although i think you are just trolling but hey, it was an incipit for an opinion anyway, so thanks lol)
@electron-Volt
@electron-Volt 8 ай бұрын
💙
@buffet2587
@buffet2587 5 ай бұрын
"Do i look like i work out?" "No" Our standards are in a completely unrealistic level
@Roy_100Malaeb
@Roy_100Malaeb 4 ай бұрын
no bro it is not standards, it is just being insecure no one would say someone with a physique like will does not work out or atleast looks out of shape it is only those who are insecure or out of shape
@LucyTheArtistKindaImAGuy
@LucyTheArtistKindaImAGuy 3 ай бұрын
fax bros shoulders are insane 😭
@jimivibes609
@jimivibes609 3 ай бұрын
​@@LucyTheArtistKindaImAGuywhat? He doesn't have shoulders at all
@wampyrelli
@wampyrelli 3 ай бұрын
He seemed to me like the kind of guy that just enjoys being a contrarian...
@robertt9342
@robertt9342 3 ай бұрын
@@jimivibes609. Thank you for demonstrating the OPs point.
@MrBAM1991
@MrBAM1991 2 ай бұрын
Will, I wanted to say thanks for this video. All my life I’ve been unfit and overweight. I’ve never had any muscle definition, but I’ve always had a flabby chest, a bulging stomach, love handles, and fat shoulders. A few years ago, I lost my job because my weight led to a bulging disk which left me unable to perform my job duties which involved standing for long periods of time and lifting bulk size merchandise. I realized my health had fallen so far that it came to this. I felt the need to make a change and worked hard to lose 40 lbs going from 225 lbs to 185. I was still fat in my mind, but that was the happiest I felt with my own weight. In the last couple years, I pretty much gained 30 lbs back. I often feel more depressed than I did even before. My feet have been hurting for over a year and I feel like I’m back to where I was. For the last 2 weeks, I’ve been making an effort to make changes without necessarily giving up on things I love, but with moderation. I now realize that I am living my life by comparing myself to others instead of living my best life. This video is helping me to realize that this shouldn’t be about what I look like, but it should be about how I feel. Here’s to making changes to help me live a better life and doing what I love without shame. My weight loss should be about improving my health not my aesthetics, otherwise, I’ll grow to resent it.
@piperuk5366
@piperuk5366 2 ай бұрын
@tarantulaunited3747
@tarantulaunited3747 17 күн бұрын
Respect bro ❤
@keegantheplayer
@keegantheplayer 9 ай бұрын
This, without a doubt, is Will’s single most important video on his channel. I’ve lost 2 close male friends who juiced on copious amounts of gear all because of their obsession with being the “biggest person in the room” and to look scary to other men. My own sister is so dissatisfied with her physical appearance at 25, and gets botox and fillers every 6 months. She cannot even leave home to take out the trash without having make up on. Self acceptance is not easy at all. Social media has a part to be blamed. For instance, Lizzo, an influencer who supposedly preaches about body positivity, has been accused of fat-shaming her costars. You cannot trust anything you see on the internet these days.
@DDRHeretiC
@DDRHeretiC 9 ай бұрын
You can trust in the fact that properly caring for free range chickens leads to a healthy body and mind. Those who live only for themselves will suffer. These people are sad. Sad that they are so focused on fake external work instead of doing the HARD internal work. Instant gratification is a disease.
@BigBrotherBrody
@BigBrotherBrody 9 ай бұрын
​@@DDRHeretiC it really is a disease man and its rapidly spreading.
@HeatherHolt
@HeatherHolt 9 ай бұрын
Wow im sorry for your loss man. Your sister also sounds just like my stepmom and my sister. They’re I guess like d level celebrities and they’re obsessed with their image. My stepmom I understand the fillers and all but my stepsister is in her 20s getting it done all the time bc she wants to be Instagram famous.
@EstradaDuran-sg6co
@EstradaDuran-sg6co 9 ай бұрын
are you saying will is responsible for your friends demise??? 💀😳
@ElAndresRodriguez
@ElAndresRodriguez 8 ай бұрын
​@@EstradaDuran-sg6co?
@CSFlock
@CSFlock 9 ай бұрын
I love it when people open up about their insecurities, it makes you realize we are all in the same boat.
@EstradaDuran-sg6co
@EstradaDuran-sg6co 9 ай бұрын
schadenfreude smh
@bigstef9134
@bigstef9134 9 ай бұрын
To me it looks more like Narcissistic personality man like those kids starving to death in africa and other places and people being abused those are the real issues,you are just Narcissistic cry babys cz u dont have a 6 pack,then diet and go gym if it bothers you that much.
@tibitheking350
@tibitheking350 8 ай бұрын
there is a huge difference between a boat and a ship - it's better to be in a ship - and a lot of people (who sit in ship) very happy with his ship. There are huge differences between boats as well - some of the boats are just broken - people not sitting in the same boat. There are nice boats and not nice boats. And there are ships and jets and etc. So no we are not in the same boat sry
@cagneybillingsley2165
@cagneybillingsley2165 8 ай бұрын
ugly people have body dysmorphia by default. no one wants to be ugly. because beauty is natural superiority, then it follows what ugliness is
@niccolo-bm7nh
@niccolo-bm7nh 8 ай бұрын
No, not at all we are in the same boat trust me and trust those people who just don't talk to you because you look weird even if you're being genuinely nice to them
@moeezS
@moeezS 8 ай бұрын
As a therapist, I'm glad how much focus here is put on normalising seeking it out. That last conversation with Dr Adrian was great. Like brought up here, it's not just body dysmorphia. Could be down to trauma of bullying, abuse, etc that fuels the body dissatisfaction and fear of judgment of others.
@mckeysASMR
@mckeysASMR 6 ай бұрын
i almost never comment on videos but this was probably the first video that has ever helped me in my struggle with body dysmorphia. I've been going to the gym with the motivation to change my body and achieve this "dream physique" despite not knowing if that is even possible for me. Instead of having the goal to be overall healthier and stronger. I have been going on and off for the last year feeling like I have made no progress, and was so hyper critical of how i looked that I was not once able to enjoy just how far I had come. Cut to yesterday, I went to the gym and a girl commented on how "fit" I looked. It just goes to show that your reality and how you view yourself may not be the same as how other people view you. Thank you for this video Will and promoting such healthy and positive messages to a world that so desperately needs it. I'm glad that someone is fearless enough to spread messages like this, and do it in a way that feels so human and relatable. Keep doing what youre doing man
@MLGDuckk
@MLGDuckk 9 ай бұрын
I think it’s important to note that “body dysmorphia” is a term used for diagnosis. Everyone has times where they don’t like how they look. It can be a never-ending process. It becomes body dysmorphia when it REALLY interferes with your life, like, very extreme.
@linnjuge1131
@linnjuge1131 9 ай бұрын
Yes. This is an Important comment
@Klenemeene
@Klenemeene 9 ай бұрын
Yes this. I think the awareness is good, but the term is just used in a wrong way. It's hard to get that corrected nowadays though, because the term itself is used so often on social media.
@mikar5348
@mikar5348 9 ай бұрын
i dont know if i have body dysmorphia tbh. i started working out a month ago cuz im so called skinny fat with abt 25-30% body fat and i wanted to lose fat and gain muscle. but in the beginning i really struggled w going alone cuz i was scared of being judged by others. only after the first 2 weeks i was able to push myself to go alone and now i go 5 times a week (been working out for abt 1 month and 1 or 2 weeks, not 1 month exactly) and most of the time i go alone. but i am still scared to for example make a move on a girl i find pretty or nice since im scared of being rejected cuz i dont like the way my own body looks. ive come to accept my body more since ive seen improvement but i am still extremely scared of being judged for what is still lacking. this video really opened my eyes and helped me accept myself more so i hope to gain more confidence throughout my gym journey
@datsumcrzysht
@datsumcrzysht 9 ай бұрын
@@mikar5348 It doesn’t sound like you do, just a general lack of confidence. This is something we all go through and with continuous effort and self improvement learn to overcome. Take a day at a time and work on being “better”…relative to the you from the day before. Things will eventually fall into place. Rejection in life is good(similar to failure) and will help redirect you and ultimately succeed in life.
@DarenC
@DarenC 9 ай бұрын
Similar to OCD. Real OCD can be a debilitating condition, but people say "Oh, I'm a bit OCD" because they lined a few cups up or some other trivial thing
@emilybilbow4990
@emilybilbow4990 9 ай бұрын
I can’t tell you how many times my therapists would remind me “fat is not a feeling” as I would equate feeling sad, upset, inadequate, depressed, lonely etc as feeling “fat”… I was never overweight in fact I am very much underweight… and yet I feel “fat” very often… thank you for this video… shedding light on such a prevalent issue
@Laura-fv1oe1
@Laura-fv1oe1 9 ай бұрын
Exactly. When I felt the worst about my body was when I put the most time, effort, and mental/emotional energy into my appearance. I was 110 lbs, obsessed about every crumb of food I ate, and always in the gym. But when I looked in the mirror I was so distressed because I was fat. Somewhere around my 30th birthday my self-esteem really improved. Now I just try and eat reasonably healthy, stay reasonably active, and not be obese. There are times my BMI crept up to overweight and decided to lose a few pounds, and that's the extent of it. I'm 127 lbs now and I feel so much happier about what I see in the mirror now than when I was 17 lbs lighter. It's all mental.
@taoist32
@taoist32 9 ай бұрын
That would be anorexia.
@cookiesandpudding8485
@cookiesandpudding8485 5 ай бұрын
@@taoist32that would not be anorexia
@Pikawarps
@Pikawarps 5 ай бұрын
@@Laura-fv1oe1I’m a guy, about to turn 29, and your story is very similar to mine, as a teen i went through phases of feeling like i needed to be smaller, but also phases where i felt too thin, and that i needed to bulk up. As i reached adulthood i accepted that my weight was fine how it was but then i ran into the issue in 2020 of finding myself at 25 single for the first time in a decade and now I’m trying to accept myself for the one thing about myself i cannot change; my height. I’m 5’5” and on every dating app women of all heights are looking for 6ft+, it’s demoralizing. 😢 In October I started going to the gym for the first time in my life and now I’m stronger and more muscular than ever before, and I still feel like it’s not enough.
@goldenhate6649
@goldenhate6649 17 күн бұрын
Anorexia isn’t a mutually exclusive condition. It can be a very, very extreme reaction to BD. Though at over 100 lbs, they weren’t into that stage yet. Depending on height, I’d expect an anorexic person to be under 90 pounds
@carlamariadutrarodriguez251
@carlamariadutrarodriguez251 8 ай бұрын
Wow. I finished watching your video, and I'm speechless. The way that you both guys opened and let yourself being vulnerable is the modeling that we need for men in all generations. We're all a but broken, we all have our stuff that we deal with and that should be acknowledged. But also we should try to be happier on the process because there just one today and tomorrow is gone. Absolutely beautiful. Thank you for this video
@philipmaruri5714
@philipmaruri5714 8 ай бұрын
I struggle with generalized anxiety disorder and ADHD. Like many other men, I also struggle with body dysmorphia. All in all, I hate myself way too much. The end of the video hit me hard because not only were y’all talking about body image, but y’all were talking about self-love. I so often find myself paralyzed because of fear of fucking up and letting people see that I’m not who I wish I was. Will, thank you for making this video. I’d love to hear you and the therapist talk more
@pandapool7155
@pandapool7155 9 ай бұрын
I've lost 75 pounds this year, took me 4 and a half months. This man Will's videos have been motivating every step of the way.
@lucascon9696
@lucascon9696 9 ай бұрын
Hey mate, I know I would've needed to hear this, try to take it easy with the weight loss. Quick weight loss feels super nice and amazing, but the slower and more constant way of changing lifestyle through sustainable means is definitely healthier, and will keep you from craving those foods that you cut out during your diet. Be super proud of your discipline though, just maybe think of using it over a longer amount of time. Cheers
@pandapool7155
@pandapool7155 9 ай бұрын
@@lucascon9696 I've already hit my goal and have been maintaining. Honestly the dieting was the easiest part for me personally. Aside from exercising, I already got 15k-20k steps a day just because of work.
@Zathren
@Zathren 9 ай бұрын
Great job dude! It's taken me almost 3 years but I'm the lowest I've ever been. I've lost 80lb and I've got probably another 40lb to go. It's been tough but seeing the tiny improvements has kept me going, I'll reach my goal, I've faith you will too!
@pandapool7155
@pandapool7155 9 ай бұрын
@Zathren Just remain focused on your goal brother. You will hot your goal.
@Static-ash
@Static-ash 9 ай бұрын
Great job and PLEASE be careful! That's a lot of weight, fast
@FreedomSpeaks217
@FreedomSpeaks217 9 ай бұрын
Very few fitness influencers would be able to create a video like this, let alone admit it within themselves. This is why you’re my favorite Will, you rock ❤
@miguelcollins
@miguelcollins 3 ай бұрын
Super great video, thank you for sharing! Some of us hit the gym everyday, constantly worried about our diets, and never stop to check in mentally. I really needed to see this today!
@affectcommunity5395
@affectcommunity5395 8 ай бұрын
Will I am a single 51 year old father of three and I have to say you are the most amazing and inspirational person online. This a great video, you are doing amazing work. Good luck with all that you and Katie achieve, you full deserve it. Inspired Sean.
@SankofaNYC
@SankofaNYC 9 ай бұрын
Whoa… I felt like I was watching a CNN documentary or something for a sec. Shoutout to the camera man, editor, the doctor and everyone involved , and you Will. This was really well done
@Zathren
@Zathren 9 ай бұрын
CNN does documentaries?
@lukas6485
@lukas6485 9 ай бұрын
@@Zathrenonly bs ones
@TimberWulfIsHere
@TimberWulfIsHere 9 ай бұрын
Don't insult him like that
@Ryan-wx1bi
@Ryan-wx1bi 9 ай бұрын
Except this video isn't for political gain, propaganda or to skew views on certain corporations that donated to him
@dinnolinno
@dinnolinno 9 ай бұрын
CNN??
@owenh906
@owenh906 9 ай бұрын
"I think social media is detrimental to anyone who thinks its real". DAMN, that was so well said!!
@JoeSmith-st9lc
@JoeSmith-st9lc 4 ай бұрын
I love all your videos man. They sometimes make me cry (in the best way possible). Very real and down to earth. Thank you for posting.
@totalpkgfitness
@totalpkgfitness Ай бұрын
Love this!!! Thank you. I’m almost 43 and I’m now getting to a place of peace and contentment. Bodybuilding help me stop caring about what people think.
@kevinburke9940
@kevinburke9940 9 ай бұрын
Thank you Wil. I’m 62 years old (today) and have suffered from body dysmorphia my entire life. Therapy helped, but it’s my own head that has to fight the demons.
@pikselografija
@pikselografija 9 ай бұрын
Happy birthday man!
@ziekeman2109
@ziekeman2109 9 ай бұрын
Happy B-Day bro! Keep strong
@fatalishuntinghorn
@fatalishuntinghorn 9 ай бұрын
Happy birthday!
@WeMove19
@WeMove19 9 ай бұрын
Happy birthday Kevin!!!
@kevinburke9940
@kevinburke9940 9 ай бұрын
@@WeMove19 haha, thank you. That was sweet.
@taralexii
@taralexii 9 ай бұрын
Even as a 14 yr old girl Will has helped me learn about nutrition, workouts, and especially how I view my body and how to deal with my mindset in term of working out and I will forever be grateful. A true inspiration and idol, thank you will!!
@TheCJRhodes
@TheCJRhodes 7 ай бұрын
I'm a 36 year old millenial, and I only just got really into fitness last year. I'm CONSTANTLY happy with how I look in the mirror every day now lmao. I cannot imagine how hard it is for younger people who are exposed to filtered and perfect photos all day long, every day, from a young age, and think the only way is steroids, surgery, and intense diet regimens. Keep working hard! By the time you're my age, you're gonna be fit as fuck girl!
@taralexii
@taralexii 7 ай бұрын
@@TheCJRhodes this comment made my day!! Ask great to hear that you’re happy, you 100% deserve it. It is tough with social media and people’s expectations but I’m at a point where I have accepted what I can and can’t change and I’m content with that☺️
@jade9596
@jade9596 6 ай бұрын
Same
@chlangeee9409
@chlangeee9409 6 ай бұрын
@@animationtv426 bruh
@axyndey
@axyndey 5 ай бұрын
@@animationtv426 get help pls
@marcedwards961
@marcedwards961 6 ай бұрын
I just want to take the time to say thank you will. This video really hits home for me. I have struggled with this for a while and just hearing you talk about this and address it is truly inspiring. And not only did you address it but you spoke about your own struggles and that takes guts. You really do inspire a lot of people because you are real with them. We can’t thank you enough for what you do!!! Thank you so much will!!
@danielgeiles
@danielgeiles 5 ай бұрын
I think this is one of your best videos. It was totally unexpected. It was very emotional to watch and listen to what you and Adrian had to say about the subject and relate that to personal experiences. It was reassuring and inspiring.
@Just_being_honestt
@Just_being_honestt 9 ай бұрын
Will, I can not thank you enough for making this video... especially during a time when I needed to hear it the most. Hearing you open up about your struggles was like hearing myself and the childhood I had, and it feels so validing knowing you shared a similar experience and that I wasn't alone... I started watching you a year ago. I'm not a fitness person, and I've struggled with my weight my entire life. I WANT better for myself, but I always crumble under the pressure I put on myself. I've lost 50 pounds and I still have a lot more to go but I'm going to get there. I will get there because I deserve to be healthy, and my son deserves a healthy mother. Just, Thank you.
@lorie_a_
@lorie_a_ 9 ай бұрын
I got goosebumps from reading this. You shine through your journey mamas, keep going! 🫶💪
@alexmayrides946
@alexmayrides946 9 ай бұрын
You got this Brya! 💪💪💪
@JN-mx6ho
@JN-mx6ho 9 ай бұрын
Beautiful... go get what's yours!! Keep it up!
@KizzMyAbs
@KizzMyAbs 9 ай бұрын
You’re beautiful
@che7655
@che7655 9 ай бұрын
you dropped this 👑
@amandalaurahelms
@amandalaurahelms 9 ай бұрын
Everyone needs to see this - Will is using his platform to do something really special here. As someone who has suffered anorexia in the past, and STILL struggles with ED and body dysmorphia, even though at a healthy weight. I think this is such an important video to share, and also for men. Amazing stuff Will !
@apollo77877
@apollo77877 8 ай бұрын
Amazing interview/experience with the doctor, he seems very genuine in actually helping people bounce back from something unattainable (ex. after pregnancy) without help. Good on you for making this video with hopes of having others open to the idea there is nothing wrong with how they look. As for the celebs, it can't be easy for them. So much pressure to look a certain way. But they have to know that going into certain areas of the field. Taylor is loved by all. She seems to have a simple build that shouldn't require much maintenance. I would hope in her case she knows the power she has to not allow others dictate her diet. Gaining 20lbs for her would not affect her voice nor drastically change her appearance. Hopefully she feels the same. At the end of the day, no matter how different you are as a INDIVIDUAL, Love yourself. If you say "I would LIKE bigger shoulders.." it should only be looked at as a goal and not a necessary requirement to love how you look and feel.
@elsh332
@elsh332 7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for doing this video! I'm 42 and have almost always been reasonably fit and healthy. Recently, I had a nervous breakdown and am still recovering now. I noticed that my mindset about my gym visits has shifted, and based on this video, I may (for the first time ever) be developing a bit of body dysmorphia. I've become a bit obsessed over the fact that my last 6 months of gym visits are not shifting my belly fat. Until this week I wasn't acknowledging that my booty shape has improved. ( I'm happy to say that I can see it now and am pleased that I have a positive result to focus on.) I just signed up with a coach that's costing me more than I can really honestly afford. But it's starting to bring me down that I have this belly fat... I just want it gone so bad. I'm otherwise quite happy with my body, and prior to this, I have always been comfortable in my own skin. But this is really impacting my mental health, and I can feel it that I'm becoming disheartened and a bit obsessed...
@scufflemuffin8892
@scufflemuffin8892 9 ай бұрын
This was a really heartfelt and important message, well delivered. Thanks for this, Will. You're constantly one-upping yourself with the content you put out, and it's been a blast watching you grow as a creator over the years.
@laurapalmerTDGE
@laurapalmerTDGE 9 ай бұрын
* a creator with a realistic message to the public. "In modern times with modern problems, narcissism often casts the longest shadows." I'm 42 and " back then " life was simple and easy. No smartphone, no social media, just the youth house. We did fitness, bought a Flex magazine and some Muscle and Fitness. This gave us the motivation and inspiration.
@vegardhuse
@vegardhuse 9 ай бұрын
Probably Will's best video to date. When he talked about therapy, and how it is dope to stand up and be honest and go to therapy. That hit home, thank you Will
@mindshelfpro
@mindshelfpro 8 ай бұрын
Lovely video. I really appreciate you opening up about your own experiences in the conversation at the end. Thank you for highlighting such an important issue.
@ty-nt8fz
@ty-nt8fz 5 ай бұрын
That was an amazing talk u had with him, i grew u feeling the exact same will n when i drank or did drugs it helped it go away....it made me feel normal, so i never learned how to do it sober i have been using drugs of some sort to give me that normal feeling where i can go out to the grocery store without having insane anxiety or just not going because of it......thanx for talking n putting urself out there brother this stuff can really help people, everyone wants to no they are not alone❤
@kosc88
@kosc88 9 ай бұрын
Thank you, sir. This helped me to make the decision to finally seek therapy and trust me, I will do it tommorow first thing. I have been living in shame, self hatred and depression for way too long. I only had that video playing in background while I was doing stuff in the house, but what you were saying about therapy got my attention and it was very encouraging. Edit: I did it! Got my appointment in a month, For the first time in my 33 years of living, I managed to say how I actually feel, while talking to the phone lady from the clinic.
@laylaserizawa4538
@laylaserizawa4538 9 ай бұрын
Hey, I was coming exactly to ask you if you managed to get your appointment! I am proud of you, please don’t give up on yourself. And when you’ll get scared to open that door, turn that corner, look under the bed, remember that your mind has the power to make the e unknown 1000 times worse. You just gotta turn on the light and accept that part of yourself before you can work on it. You can do it ❤
@TurtleSoop
@TurtleSoop 9 ай бұрын
So proud of you!! A huge step in recovery is even just wanting help, and you've gone beyond that already by making the appointment!!
@Fuzzysea693
@Fuzzysea693 9 ай бұрын
So proud of you!!! I’m hoping you start your journey to healing 🤍
@dylansheridan2892
@dylansheridan2892 8 ай бұрын
Reach out to Jesus my friend, He is reaching out to you. God bless.
@electron-Volt
@electron-Volt 8 ай бұрын
💙
@CarneGranada
@CarneGranada 9 ай бұрын
Been lifting for pretty seriously for 15 years and somewhere along the way I overcame body dysmorphia. I think it was the combination of going to therapy helping me overcome my insecurities and finding more important things in my life than my physique as I have gotten older.
@Smart93x
@Smart93x 8 ай бұрын
I am incredibly moved by this video. It sheds light on the important topics of body dysmorphia and mental health, and I genuinely find it so inspiring. It has provided me with much-needed support during a time when I am struggling with similar emotions. Sending well wishes to everyone watching this. Thank you, Will, for creating such a powerful and impactful content!
@ambergrant4330
@ambergrant4330 8 ай бұрын
Thank you for making this video and being vulnerable and raw about your emotions and feeling. We need more people who can be a guide to look up to. So many people can relate to this in many different ways.
@DerekThorpe294
@DerekThorpe294 9 ай бұрын
Body dysmorphia is real. Im 32, married with 3 kids. Im far more confident than I was 18-23. I look back on pictures from that time period, and i looked fantastic! But in the moment, i thought i was overweight and lacking muscle. When in reality, i was in better shape than 99% of people around me. Nowadays, the disparity between my peers and myself is even larger, as I haven't stopped lifting and eating, while many fell off. Are there areas i could still improve? Sure, but i can now recognize my progress and it no longer occupies my mind as it did when i was 18-22. Perspective is important, and unfortunately sometimes it takes time and experience to get over things like body dysmorphia.
@AthenaEspineira
@AthenaEspineira 9 ай бұрын
This is by far my favorite video of Will’s! Massive props for putting himself out there and talk about his insecurities!
@faibaxter8873
@faibaxter8873 8 ай бұрын
great video I hope this one stays reaching people for a long time. thanks to will and everyone who was willing to be vulnerable to talk about this, I think being open can help people feel less pressure to meet all these crazy and ever changing standards
@msjane7306
@msjane7306 7 ай бұрын
As a body dysmorphic person thank you so much for addressing this with such honesty and grace. Every freaking day is a struggle - there are good days and bad days. Your honesty and integrity in this video is really thoughtful. Keep making amazing thoughtful content - appreciate feeling "seen" in a less imperfect way.
@joshuamirabal3617
@joshuamirabal3617 9 ай бұрын
As a fitness influencer this is such an amazing and important message to get across. You’re saving lives man forreal.
@jeroexx
@jeroexx 9 ай бұрын
Hairloss nearly killed me. I was 21 when I realized my hairline was not only receding but actually completely disappearing. It was brutal. Every minute of the day i was thinking about it. At work I wouldn't even touch my hair but my table was full of hair. It was insane. I couldn't look at reflections I wouldn't sit on specific seats in the bus that gave a better view, i would bend down to pick something up a certain way. It was always and everywhere. That bad stinging feeling in you stomach that you will now only look worse and worse and there's nothing you can do about it, you can just watch it happen. My parents supported me to get a hairtransplant. It's not perfect by far but man, it sounds extreme but I honestly think it safed my life I'm now happy with how I look. Hairloss is bodydismorphia on an extreme and I don't wish that for anyone. Yet a lot of men struggle with it.
@MrAliFranca
@MrAliFranca 5 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing, for me it was so similar except the true relief came from shaving it all, completely shaving my hair gave me my confidence back and surprisingly made me feel whole again
@Emma-Maze
@Emma-Maze 4 ай бұрын
Hey that sounds awful and Im glad you're doing better, but you misunderstood what body dysmorphia is. Body dysmorphia would be if even after your hair transplant you kept being insecure about your hair, obsessively thinking about it, wanting or trying to get more and more hair transplanted etc. It's a disconnect from reality as Will explained in the end. Hair loss is a real thing that actually happened to you, made you severely insecure and caused you great distress, as it does many other people, and the hair transplant relieved that distress, so it's not body dysmorphia :) That's also why the surgeon said they don't do cosmetic procedures on people that have dysmorphia, the same would apply to your hair.
@JohnSmith-fo5cx
@JohnSmith-fo5cx 4 ай бұрын
just get big and act confident....a bald head isnt unattractive.
@jojomakes
@jojomakes 2 ай бұрын
Could hair loss be considered dysmorphia? What I mean is that if someone has lost their hair, other people can obviously see it. Whereas with dysmorphia, you see yourself in a way that no one else does.
@ShaneJay-wx7nu
@ShaneJay-wx7nu 2 ай бұрын
I think I was lucky with that as I never personally styled my hair. Fashion was and is still not an interest for me. When I started to recede it was actually a relief as I never had to go to the barbers anymore, invested in a real nice set of quality clippers. Saved a boat load of money and it was the motivator to grow a beard I actually love and take care of.
@GetDeeBodied
@GetDeeBodied 5 ай бұрын
Beautiful video! Everything needed to be said. We all need to continue to have these conversations more often. Job well done!
@SunaNguyen-ch3vl
@SunaNguyen-ch3vl 6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for posting this video and bringing awareness to something that is so common but not talked about enough.
@Burrie81
@Burrie81 9 ай бұрын
Your delivery is getting more and more professional with each video Will. Huge props to you for the quality you deliver
@rrba1089
@rrba1089 9 ай бұрын
Absolutely love the seriousness of this video. Sets himself apart from all the jokey and sarcastic videos of all other fitness youtubers.
@nguyenkr07
@nguyenkr07 9 ай бұрын
I wish I could like this video a million times!! This video truly hit home for me. I have body dysmorphia and it’s been a constant struggle my entire life - I come from a Vietnamese family and growing up, I was a chubby kid and I was constantly criticized by my parents, family friends, and community because I wasn’t skinny and didn’t fit the typical Vietnamese girl/ woman aesthetic and by default, was deemed unattractive and ugly in their eyes. It took me years to finally address my issues with my own self image because like you said, at one point, I just didn’t give a shit on what people thought about me anymore. Going to therapy has helped tremendously and now in my 30s, I see the improvement in my mental health and how I view myself, but the body dysmorphia is still there. I just have to take it one day at a time. Thank you so much for taking the time to talk about body dysmorphia and being so vulnerable with us. You are truly an amazing person and you will always have my support! Thank you for being you 💖
@skoodlemoose
@skoodlemoose 9 ай бұрын
i think it's fine to care about what other people think, we are social animals after all. But we need to understand what matter and what doesn't. Ignoring everything everyone tells you all the time is just as unhealthy as hanging on their every word, the key is balance
@bemo9
@bemo9 9 ай бұрын
sending real love your ways, let that discourage you feel remedy by ones that want to see you great. like me
@taoist32
@taoist32 9 ай бұрын
@@skoodlemooseIt’s a cultural thing. A lot of Asian cultures are just like this. I’m Asian American and grew up like this, with family always telling me what to do , what to eat, etc. it’s very difficult to get away from, so it takes a lot of mental strength to become yourself apart from family.
@youprobablydontknowm
@youprobablydontknowm 3 ай бұрын
Thnx so much we all needed this much love 326 now 296 on the journey and never felt better love everyone and yourseld you can do this!!!
@SiimonFerocious
@SiimonFerocious 8 ай бұрын
First video of yours that I've watched, really cool of you to be vulnerable and seek the answers and use that to help others. Wish you all the best.
@Tailionis
@Tailionis 9 ай бұрын
Will is the best influencer in the fitness industry. Actuslly goes to the sources. He's come so far. I cant wait to see how much further he will grow.
@WalkingLegacy
@WalkingLegacy 9 ай бұрын
I am about 230-240lbs, 6'1'' and strongman/power lifting build. People call me a walking tank, but somehow, I still suffer from body dysmorphia. I don't partake in social media anything, been working out for more than half my life, mid 30s. Definitely stems from my childhood. You're not alone, Will. Cheers brother and keep lifting, but more importantly, keep being you. I look forward to your content weekly.
@PHANTOMISANOOB
@PHANTOMISANOOB 7 ай бұрын
Thank you for this fantastic video I’ve been working on myself soo much in these years and this while i wasn’t exposed to anything I didn’t know it just helped me feel better I can’t explain it but I truly felt comfort after watching this i guess understanding that even someone with a physique like you can suffer from this just shows that its a tough fight that should be taken seriously and we need to just be happy with the progress we get and keep on the grind and learn to love the body we have not the one we can’t achieve, and keep working towards the best version of ourselves.
@aethergasm
@aethergasm 8 ай бұрын
Thanks for bringing awareness with this. I was diagnosed with this over a decade ago, not even knowing what BD was, and it took a lot of CBT to keep myself in control, but it really never goes away. It took me a long time to realize that I will never actually know what I really look like, even facially. I can recognize myself, but my concept of if my features altogether is aesthetically pleasing or not. It's like looking at someone that isn't me, but I only know that is me in the mirror through obvious logic. I still struggle with picking at my face or parts of my body out of frustration and I definitely fear going outside being seen still. (I also have anxiety and depression which adds to it.) When the part about trauma came in, it hit hard, because even now my mother keeps holding me to the "Asian Woman" standard: having to be thin, small, pretty, mainstream fashionable. My husband also has BD, despite undiagnosed, but he works out a lot and he feels he is always not big enough, like he can never measure up to his late father's body and weight lifting achievements. It's been difficult for him as he has trouble believing even when he is given numbers on his muscle measurements. We've done as much as we can to work on it with therapy because we have a child. Thankfully our daughter doesn't seem to have it, according to her therapist, since she enjoys her own features and her excitement is in just getting stronger without even desiring to look at herself in the mirror. She's 8, loves lifting weights, doing yoga, makeup, nails. I can only hope it stays in the future as we navigate social media with her. It's so scary to think that she may be influenced so much by these things. I'm just grateful that all she is obsessed about right now is Creepers on Minecraft instead of camera filters like some of her peers. This needs to be exposed more in schools as awareness because of how much of social media puts pressure on kids so early, but then idk if High Schools even have Media Studies, like mine did back in the late 90s early 2000s, so who knows what subject schools can fit it into. 😒
@Maria-xu5lf
@Maria-xu5lf 9 ай бұрын
Dear Will, I’m a 27 yo woman who was always a chubby girl and is on a fitness journey who has dealt with body image issues from the very young age of 6 years old…I have made some progress and have more to go, but it’s always never enough due to this illness. It has crippled my life, and does daily. I am hoping to get therapy for it soon. I just want to say thank you for this video-after a long day of constant voice’s throwing at my own appearance in my head, this really helped me. And thank you Will for always helping me feel motivated through your videos, may God bless you 🤍
@ladyandhercat
@ladyandhercat 9 ай бұрын
I've suffered from eating disorders for 11 years now. Both anorexia and bulimia. . I was diagnosed with MS 11 years ago and the meds they started me on made me absolutely sick. And the eating disorders came. Bulimia is what I'm struggling with the most now. I'm in active recovery for the first time in those 11 years and I credit that to lifting weights. I knew I couldn't keep up with that life to be SKINNNNNNY and no fat what so ever on me. I thought I was on the right page. Then once I started those weights and following KZfaq women and seeing IG women with big butts, boobs, and perfect abs, the body dysmorphia started all over again BUT the other way. I now don't want to be a twig in kids clothes... I KNOW I see changes in me. I LOVE my arms and I've always had amazing legs bc I've been a runner even in the eating disorder days. But now I want to be more tone and ya. I could be "better". Long story short .... social media is absolutely a nightmare for someone recovering from ED's and body dysmorphia. Therapy helps but it's so hard to be HONEST 100% of the time with the psychiatrist. It's ya. It's a struggle but I'm on the right path. I just HOPE it continues. I realized I don't giiiive a fuck what someone thinks of me anymore. I just have to get over what I think of me.
@2lostbikes
@2lostbikes 9 ай бұрын
I was diagnosed with MS 7 years ago. I can only image how hard it is having an eating disorder on top of that. Stay strong.
@ladyandhercat
@ladyandhercat 9 ай бұрын
​@@2lostbikesxoxoxoxox I hope you are doing as best as possible woth your MS!!!!! ❤
@OetziOfficial
@OetziOfficial 7 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video. I feel heard. I am currently at around 95kg. I'm feeling happy but also uncomfortable. Happy that I am alive and doing what I love, but uncomfortable, because I get daily several times told by my parents and grand family that me trying to put effort into loosing weight "will bring me no where" or "all that effort doesn't do shit". My mum especially is telling me that I am fat, and over all these years I started _feeling_ fat. I am weighing more than the average for my height (1.72m) but still, instead of pointing out that I am fat, I would love it if they told me that I am doing good progress, or anything uplifting. My parents and others are the ones who got brainwashed by social media (and even demonizing social media and technology) that they started to do what all the other people do too: Point and laugh and failures, make a scene of everything and mock me for being "lazy". Just because my workouts don't meet their expectations after 2 weeks. They want me to loose 25 kg (WTF) in 2 weeks, because they can't recognize their child anymore. They have lost their own mindfullness by social media. It hurts, and I would love to change my perspective on my body, because I actually deep down don't care how I look like. skinny, fat, idgaf. Now, I am doing workouts (lost 8kg the past 4 months) not because of this unwanted pressure, even tho it has become a factor that I can't just remove. I decided to turn the perspective over and thought: What if I do the workouts to see how far I can go with my body: in strength and looks. Not for others, just for me. As an experiment. For the experimenting part I started looking for callisthenic workouts and other important videos. This video made me feel better, because I know that I am not alone, and for all those who are battling Dysmorphia in some way, I am sending hugs and love. Stay healthy y'all. 💖
@ShaylahGeikie
@ShaylahGeikie 8 ай бұрын
I think the crazy thing too is that beauty standards are often not even a factor of attractiveness for the opposite gender. For example, men don't know enough about makeup to even notice the difference, but other girls notice. Similarly, men want a lot of muscle but the people who appreciate it the most are other men. I know a lot of women, myself included, that think after a certain point too much muscle is kind of gross because it looks so unrealistic.
@mopsandmuscles7855
@mopsandmuscles7855 9 ай бұрын
I'm an older guy. I'm 44. I was morbidly obese at 40, I've never been "in shape". Even as a child I was chubby. I got to a point in my life where I started to think about longevity. I knew if I continued the path I was on, I wouldn't live a long life. I was struggling with health issues. I dropped about 60lbs the first year. I learned a lot along the way. 4+ years since turning my life around, I see things on me I'd like to change, but I don't get hung up over those things. Being healthy, physically and mentally, are the most important things. Learn to be happy with the skin you're in. Life is way too short to give a shit what others see when they look at you. Will, I doubt you'll read this but, I've been watching you for a few years. Your videos have helped me along my journey. You've really matured as a creator and I wish you nothing but continued success.
@Silenced_by_nazi_youtube
@Silenced_by_nazi_youtube 8 ай бұрын
How did you lose all that weight? Diet and workout wise
@mopsandmuscles7855
@mopsandmuscles7855 8 ай бұрын
@@Silenced_by_nazi_youtube better food choices and cardio. Being mindful of calories.
@Caluso1
@Caluso1 9 ай бұрын
Interesting topic, not only because I myself am diagnosed with body dysmorphic disorder (BDD) (I am male, 24). The people or specifically the one dude in the streets probably does not have BDD. It is actually pretty normal to not like everything on your body, very rarely does someone like themself a 100%. Having BDD is a completely different story. You are completely consumed most times with your thoughts on your flaws or activities like looking in the mirror or making sure to hide your flaws. In my extreme times I did spent up to 8h daily with such thoughts and activities. Sometimes I did not even dare to go outside because I did not feel I look like a human but rather a monster. My mirror image of my face could change in a instant from "OK" to completely unacceptable. I mean my face, the form of my face, could dynamically change in seconds. My perception was extremely distorted compared to a normal perception. I have missed so much because of BDD. I never had a girlfriend because I did not feel worthy enough. I missed a lot of social events and chances because of my low self esteem, which is a shame because I am naturally a very open and social being. Yes I even underwent surgery, which was expensive and not the solution. Luckily I the surgery did not make me any more ugly, that can also happen. I had suicidal thoughts many times just because of my thoughts about my appearane. With psychotherapy I am doing way better now. This can happen to absolutely anyone. I myself am apparantly attractive based on the opinions and reactions I get from other people. I also got a fit body. Objectlively there is absolutely no reason to be unsastified with myself. Not to brag about it, but I wanna say without these validations I find myself in the bubble of my own thoughts and my mind can easily tell me again that I am absolutely not attractive but rather hideous. So to anyone with BDD: It is important to not listen to negative thoughts but to listen to the more neutral opinions of other people. Do not waste time infront of the mirror. Live your Iife and do not stress about your appearance, that's when you objectively look the best - when you are relaxed and happy. I appreciate the video and the awareness that comes with it.
@noellezoetormin1179
@noellezoetormin1179 9 ай бұрын
this comment is so important. i am happy about the awareness of the disorder but the word is being thrown around incorrectly -- people call simple discontentment with appearance body dysmorphia, while it is actually a delusional disorder and a lot more serious than that.
@timmyotoole6063
@timmyotoole6063 9 ай бұрын
exactly. you guys both nailed it. "body dysmorphia" has become such a buzzword of late, but unless you're symptomatic, i.e. it's severely impacting your ability to function in everday life, then you don't have the disorder. I was trapped in my parents' house for years, for instance, unable to hold a job. I'd spend upwards of 8-10 hours a day staring in the mirror obsessing over appearance. I completely stopped even going to family gatherings on holidays. 100% isolated from family and the outside world. Self-imprisonment, albeit in a cushy environment. Torture, nonetheless. My parents even told me I had Body Dysmorphic Disorder (dad's a psychiatrist). I scoffed at the notion saying that BDD is simply a term for an ugly person unwilling to accept being ugly. What I eventually realized was that even if my thoughts about myself were true rather than imagined, I still fit the symptoms to a T. I eventually agreed with my parents to go see a clinical psychologist if they'd be willing to fund the surgeries i wanted if things didn't pan out in therapy. Lo and Behold, Body Dysmorphic Disorder sat atop the list of diagnoses right alongside major depressive disorder.
@cindy7544
@cindy7544 9 ай бұрын
@@timmyotoole6063 You have some incredible parents.
@timmyotoole6063
@timmyotoole6063 9 ай бұрын
@@cindy7544 I really do, assuming not sarcasm
@AM-cl6fu
@AM-cl6fu 9 ай бұрын
Thank you !! Now everyone is going to start diagnosing themselves with body dysmorphia.
@Rythm123
@Rythm123 8 ай бұрын
Thank you SOOO much for this! Men, especially, need to normalize this talk. That it's ok to NOT be the only one growing and going through this. Does not make you weak when a community can come together to become a village.
@stevecooper7883
@stevecooper7883 17 күн бұрын
Particularly gym bros. However, by 2030 half of Americans will be obese statistically so we should still make massive efforts to encourage healthy eating
@EdibleAnime
@EdibleAnime 6 ай бұрын
I never comment on anything, but wow this hit different. Thank you for being so authentic and vulnerable and sharing this deeply important message.
@lizmaciocio
@lizmaciocio 9 ай бұрын
“You’ve already achieved the things you said would make you happy.” The beauty of life is in the now. Chasing ideals will leave you unsatisfied time after time. Thank you for this video and all you do Will💜
@Zifffan
@Zifffan 8 ай бұрын
Comparison is the thief of joy.
@baum7des7lebens7
@baum7des7lebens7 Ай бұрын
and sometimes it spurs us on to do better.
@goldenhate6649
@goldenhate6649 17 күн бұрын
Inspiration is healthy, but only if the person you are comparing yourself to is realistic…unfortunately, just about every single influencer for fitness is on drugs nowadays..
@yallymalky5849
@yallymalky5849 8 ай бұрын
One of the most important videos I've watched in a long time. Brings up the mental health issues many people(including myself) haven't been treating. Thank you for this informative video - a well needed reality check and a push for taking care of my mental health in this regard. Thank you
@javanutz1
@javanutz1 5 ай бұрын
This video was so eye-opening for me. I didn’t know something like this existed, and yet I fit the diagnosis to a T when I look back at how I viewed my body differently, and was never satisfied, and still am not even though I go to the gym every day. In fact, I just started going to the gym because I was working out in my basement because I felt too embarrassed to go to the gym. This is something I am going to have to think seriously about and even to the point of going for therapy and I really appreciate your bringing this to all of our attention. Thank you so much.
@catesherman5116
@catesherman5116 9 ай бұрын
I always try to live by the quote "Remember your starting point is someone else's goal" There's always someone somewhere that'd love to be where you are now.
@sandywave4971
@sandywave4971 9 ай бұрын
Oh wow that’s a really nice way to treat oneself. What a great quote
@ashleymartin8093
@ashleymartin8093 9 ай бұрын
I remind myself about that every once in awhile. It helps a lot remembering that I've progressed a lot and someone else might be looking at what I've done as their next goal 😊
@winterycold
@winterycold 9 ай бұрын
I'm not sure if that's really true unless you were genetically blessed.
@snowbound4078
@snowbound4078 9 ай бұрын
​@@irfuelThen rest in chocolate my friend.
@FreedomSpeaks217
@FreedomSpeaks217 9 ай бұрын
That’s really good
@raybribreezy
@raybribreezy 8 ай бұрын
How I helped my body dysmorphia was the exposure like Adrian said. I started by noticing and complimenting the things I saw on other people that I genuinely liked (smile, laugh, confidence, etc). Then I turned those compliments inward, every time I saw myself I would compliment myself. I would force myself to look in the mirror for minutes at a time. I got used to myself and the fear I had of not being enough for the people around me turned into appreciation for the amazing things my body does everyday. I still struggle some days, but thoughts about my body do not consume day. If it works for anyone else that would be cool :) good luck guys, you got this
@adriansc3146
@adriansc3146 6 ай бұрын
Pretty good video. Giving information to all of us bout’ a problem that we experience at some point in our lives when we start going to the gym or when we think we don’t make progress
@dd2865
@dd2865 7 ай бұрын
Love your videos! Thank you for showing another perspective that is hidden intentionally by the fitness and medical industry. I have loved your content since the fit camp video. Please keep up the great work!!!
@EpicMotorcycleAdventures
@EpicMotorcycleAdventures 9 ай бұрын
Wow! The way Will opened up talking to the therapist was really moving and shows that everyone can suffer. I really hope this video helps everyone who watches it.
@gigibelle7465
@gigibelle7465 9 ай бұрын
Will, you have no IDEA - this video came at just the right time for me! For the last few months I have been obsessing over certain flaws on my face to the point where I cannot stand looking in the mirror anymore, even though I always thought I don't care too much about looks. Had my first aesthetic consultation last week and the dermatologist directly crossed out 4 out of the 6 things I thought I'd have to change. She is very competent, and like the doctor in the video, explained to me that some of the things I think I need are totally natural things to expect on a human face. Like nasolabial folds, textured skin, looseness in certain areas (unless you are a teenager - her words). I'm trying to fall in love with human faces again. But it's hard if you are constantly surrounded by perfection online.
@miner69er60
@miner69er60 9 ай бұрын
I hope you get better
@hannahmacdonald9040
@hannahmacdonald9040 9 ай бұрын
I can relate to this, I'm only 25 and I've started to become obsessed with any line or pore I see on my skin and I keep convincing myself I look 35 at 25... I was becoming so stressed about it until my therapist was like firstly you don't look old, those are normal lines and pores that every natural face has, and secondly you're not used to seeing real skin anymore because online skin has been smoothed, filtered and altered. It's sad but we have to appreciate real humans because none of us are perfect in real life.
@missmcphee8859
@missmcphee8859 9 ай бұрын
Literally same here! Like literally the same I can totally understand you. I am OBSESSED with my nasal lines even though they are literally natural folds in my face. It's exhausting.
@missmcphee8859
@missmcphee8859 9 ай бұрын
​@@hannahmacdonald9040same same! And I have more 'darker' looking features so people used to always think I looked older than I was! But don't stress, I'm 25 too and have the exact same insecurities and we have to remember it's us hyping things up. Other people most likely are not even thinking about that. We just have to keep healthy, eat clean and exercise and that will do wonders down the line ❤😊
@hannahmacdonald9040
@hannahmacdonald9040 9 ай бұрын
@@missmcphee8859 totally agree girl ❤️❤️ we got this!
@Ploobizaur
@Ploobizaur 5 ай бұрын
I really appreciated this video. You never know what someone is going through beneath the surface, and I feel like this topic isn’t talked about enough.
@yablette7807
@yablette7807 5 ай бұрын
Love this video. I had a rhinoplasty when I was young, it was life changing. The change was, I had the surgery and I wasn’t living my life terrified of people seeing my profile or having my photo taken. My nose is/was truly very large. This wasn’t body dysmorphia. Fast forward / I am 40 finding myself almost regretfully getting a mummy makeover (I was influenced of course but also didn’t invest in my mental health). Total regret when I woke up from surgery. Lots of self hatred. I had the implants removed. This is was body dysmorphia. I still struggle with it today but my scars are a beautiful and consistent reminder. Just love yourself first and love yourself even more if you choose surgery,
@ahhhrt
@ahhhrt 8 ай бұрын
Hugely important video. As a new dad to a 1 year old, and a 3 year old, this is an issue that I wasn't looking forward to addressing as they grew. For the majority of my 34 years on this planet, it's something I've struggled with and continue to try to do and be better at. Appreciate everyone involved in the making of this.
@Emma-Maze
@Emma-Maze 4 ай бұрын
Good luck! 💛
@anthonysingh8134
@anthonysingh8134 9 ай бұрын
This might be the most important video you've made. Unbelievably thoughtful content. Thank you for the vulnerability, courage and heart!
@swaveytaughtme
@swaveytaughtme 7 ай бұрын
Subbed to Will at the beginning of my health/fitness journey and not only do I get a good laugh ( 99% of the time ) I get good information from him too . Probably my fav fit content creator , thanks for the laughs and the knowledge bro 🤞🏽
@igorporfiirio4915
@igorporfiirio4915 3 ай бұрын
17:33 It's great thata big fitness youtuber like you is showing that. I hope to see a lot more of that from that. I do not aspire to be huge and ripped, but still, I never thought that you would look so different in and out of the gym, this can certain change how people think about their bodies and whatever they see in social media. This is certain one of the best videos in youtube, a lot of people absolutely need to watch this.
@comfypeepo
@comfypeepo 9 ай бұрын
This is probably one of the best videos I've seen from any fitness influencer ever. Not only addressing such a large problem but sitting down with it and discussing it with professionals. As someone who suffers from severe body dysmoprhia and eating disorders that have led to suicidal thoughts, thank you so much for bringing more light to this.
@ZegotTV
@ZegotTV 9 ай бұрын
As someone who is 40lbs overweight and just starting to take fitness and my health serious I can only hope that one day I look as good as you. Thanks for all the great content Will
@3batvg
@3batvg 9 ай бұрын
You got this brother!! I've been there and lost 60lb. One thing is for sure you will see results faster than you think if you don't look at the scale everyday but instead every 2 weeks. Consistent effort and a easy diet to follow will b the easiest way to do it.
@Anonyymikiljukannu
@Anonyymikiljukannu 9 ай бұрын
just remember that fitness, health and looking good are not same thing. But usually you do look better when you have good fitness.
@kungfoochicken08
@kungfoochicken08 9 ай бұрын
@@3batvgI had success with the opposite advice. I bought a Wyze scale that syncs to Apple Health. I measured my weight, bf%, and lean body mass every morning. The initial results are almost always fantastic because you’re losing a bunch of water weight. Losing that first 10lbs quickly gave me the motivation to keep going as things got harder. Measuring every single calorie that goes into your body also helps. MyFitnessPal is fantastic. I was able to lose 47lbs in 3 months on 2500 calories a day. I also aimed for 230g of protein and 30 minutes of cardio 4x a week on top of strength training. As long as I hit my calorie and protein goals, I could eat whatever I wanted. Most days, I ate a mix of McDoubles and fries, chicken breast, cottage cheese, and light Greek yogurt.
@JitinMisra
@JitinMisra 9 ай бұрын
@@3batvghow much did you deal with hunger during your cut ? Or was it just eating better and that’s it? Did exercise help ?
@wilderstreeeet
@wilderstreeeet 8 ай бұрын
great video!! Gave the topic the respect it deserves with a longgg video to really get the message through
@marywildcat
@marywildcat 12 күн бұрын
Amazing video!!❤️❤️❤️ Huge respect!!! ❤️🙏 Theraphy is dope! Looking inside is essential! These aspects need to be more talked about! Thank you for being vulnerable and honest and amazing!!!! ❤️❤️❤️
@qwopi1337
@qwopi1337 9 ай бұрын
I've been watchin mr. Tennyson ever since I was 16 and now I'm only getting worse in not accepting who I am and what I can be, instead I've learned that I just can't bear to even not accept things in my life such as honesty, satisfaction, humility, and being grateful thank you, Will
@vividvisions693
@vividvisions693 9 ай бұрын
self realization is an amazing gift
@rezolute
@rezolute 9 ай бұрын
Appreciate the openness you showed in discussing your personal trauma and how you dealt with it. Not an easy conversation but you were open and honest about it all. Stop giving a shit is such a true statement. I fully agree that it’s dope that people go into therapy, that’s strength and character. Thanks for the real conversations.
@their_lives_not_ours
@their_lives_not_ours 8 ай бұрын
So wholesome to see Will opening up the way he did at the end. Just shows that even those who are hugely successful still have the same struggles and issues as the rest of us 👏🏻👏🏻✌🏻✌🏻
@ThisTwistedWreckage
@ThisTwistedWreckage 5 ай бұрын
Respect to you Will for opening up. Love all your videos, but this one must have been tough to do, but so worth it. Thank you!
@NatevsFood
@NatevsFood 9 ай бұрын
Forever one of the realest fitness influencers to cross the YT platform. Thank you Will, for making this video. We all need the love and vulnerable little you depict in all these interviews. Hats 🧢 off with a standing ovation to you! Much love 👏🏼
@thewisedaddy6460
@thewisedaddy6460 9 ай бұрын
The last 10minutes of this video actually made me tear up because i felt so represented and i felt that i could relate to what those 2 guys are because i am literally suffering from that problem,caring too much about what other pepole think about me than actually appreciating myself,sinking into the moment and appreciating who i truly am. I overcame a lot since I acknowledged that i had this problem and i am slowly coming to the point of truly accepting who i am and forgetting about all the judgement of other pepole. I wish anyone who read this comment could always be fully confident in themselves and unaffected by anyone's thoughts about them.
@ottipellegrini
@ottipellegrini 9 ай бұрын
@johnnewton8017
@johnnewton8017 9 ай бұрын
@summerbreeze198
@summerbreeze198 8 ай бұрын
Big shout out to will for touching on this subject. Continue bringing the truth to people. THAT LAST PART WITH THE PSYCHIATRIST TOUCHED ME. NO CAP. Like I was afraid of living and experiencing because I didn't look like how the other girls look. I was really insecure. But as I got older, I realized that I had to stop comparing myself to other people. And just do me. The gym also helped me with that cause it helped me face me and who I am and what i'm made of. So like always U are doing an amazing job. U are amazing!! Thank you as always❤❤❤❤❤
@swizzzing123
@swizzzing123 Күн бұрын
This video made me tear up. I don’t comment on videos often but when you spoke about getting bullied in school for being overweight and then having lost the weight, I went through something similar too. I was also sexually harassed- verbally, constantly by my “peers” and had to switch schools. These things, at the age of 27, have now manifested in so many different ways in my life… I wish I had gone to therapy earlier. You’re a gem, Will. Thank you for this awesome video and being a positive influence on millions of lives.
@crewrider93
@crewrider93 9 ай бұрын
This video was amazing, Will. Being someone that lost 293lbs in totall within 8 years. Till this day I still see that fat guy in the mirror. Sucks. But everyone tells me “you’re jacked” you’re so lean” but at the end of the day I’m still proud of myself. I made it this far. I’m happy with my achievements but the memories of me being over weight and nearly dying and being made fun of on the daily still lives in my head. Many years later…. We all suppress our feelings unfortunately but we all need talk about our feelings man… if anyone is reading this and you feel down… you’re loved and we’re all here for you. Don’t give up people. You’re worth it ❤
@msbeatnikz
@msbeatnikz 9 ай бұрын
Honestly, a video of this caliber means so much! Not just an influencer trying to sell us some gymshark apparel, something truly meaningful and impactful! So much respect Will. Please keep providing content like this! Means a lot!
@bigpickenergy5321
@bigpickenergy5321 8 ай бұрын
As someone who has consistently struggled with BD i teared up by the end. I've lived constantly under the guise of "self acceptance not allowed" to motivate continuous effort. It doesn't work of course. Compassion and kindness towards yourself are the only things that will. I've just been scared of that because deep down I don't believe I deserve that.
@3000amps
@3000amps 4 ай бұрын
Will thank you for this video. With struggling with binge eating my entire life this hits home. Seeing my weight fluctuate so much and then looking into the mirror hating my body to the point of obsession. Finding your channel is truly opening my eyes and I’m now on my way to a better me and loving myself again. ♥️🇨🇦
@jioarabit986
@jioarabit986 9 ай бұрын
Everyday i’m thankful the algorithm led me to will’s channel. This video and many others have helped me so much. I know you’ve helped millions with your content. videos like this are what people need to see.
@Ruger115
@Ruger115 9 ай бұрын
Going from 345 pounds 2 years ago to 170 rn, I still myself around 250. All I see is the fat, I don’t even had loose skin because I’m so young but I just see whatever fat I have. It got to the point where I was 150 and I still only saw a fatass. It was really rough, but honestly videos like this and realizing that my body is my body and I don’t need to look like a CrossFit athlete is what helped me. Thank you Will.
@tbone4186
@tbone4186 9 ай бұрын
Totally
@Ruger115
@Ruger115 9 ай бұрын
@@tbone4186 Are you accusing me of lying?
7 ай бұрын
wow. I skipped watching this too many times and finally gave in. I love all your content, but this video is truly the best until this date you have ever done. thank you
@Mamoras
@Mamoras 8 ай бұрын
Great video! Props for you for showing how important dealling with these topics is. I appreciate you alot will!
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