I'm not encouraging men to be assholes here but every guy I know who is sad, alone and often gets disrespected by his wife or gf is the kind of guy who is sweet and sensitive to all her needs. Having a backbone is key. Learn to be assertive and don't get pushed around.

"My mind was literally breaking reading this" 😅

Hahahaha "I spar with my woman" - Proceeds to Leg Lock her

"feeling in one place, that's what you should be concerned with" - lmao this is gold

Damn. I have always loved your Jiu-Jitsu and now I know you're based af too. I like you even more now, Firas.

Respect for you to make this video. fell man they can't talk openly about feminism, abortion, hypergamy, especially here in Quebec, where women openly act like man and men act like women)

I only needed to hear 3 words. “Women love drama”

yeah this is the type of content I expect out of Tristar Gym

Women don’t want to work as much as men. Imo many like to stay home but would never say it out loud

I remember reading somewhere that often times what women claim they want is totally different than what they seek after.

I don’t think feminism is about women just having rights man.

coach always been the goat!

Alhamdulillah , coach you are dropping gems.

This was a great talk, every statement was a homerun, absolute truth!!

Pretty cool to see a respected man talk honestly like this…

Brother Firaz, I really enjoy your videos man. Thank you!

Jane Eyre pronunced Air, its a standard part of English literature in the UK education in the 80's. It's very much about hypergamy, status, social class and power. Charlotte Bronte 21 April 1816 - 31 March 1855) was an English novelist and poet, the eldest of the three Brontë sisters who survived into adulthood and whose novels became classics of English literature. Bronte first novel the Professor was not published in her life time. Its also a book about class, love and feminine nature to acquire the highest value male. If you like old stories, black and white films from the classic film era I highly recommend "The Browning version" simply put it's about an old English Latin teacher whose being replaced by a younger, fitter man at his job. The main theme is dignity.

" I read the summary and my mind was breaking" 🤣🤣

Thank God for Coach Firas touching base on stuff like this! His 3Muslims podcast was just as amazing.

You should honestly continue on this topic Firas. I think hearing this from a masculine married man that is apart of such a male dominated sport gives us younger more in-experienced men a different perspective that which we need.

100% fact. I spent my 20s being the sweet beta male. Got me nowhere. Changed to an alpha who returned calls when I felt like it, got a lot farther with women.

I enjoy these philisophical breakdowns, as well as the fighting tips 😅

7:16 happened to me 😂. I was hanging out with a girl who liked me and a few days later she said she felt liked we run out of things to talk about. And for 3 years our conversations flowed so well. And weeks after our last hang out we parted ways. Hurt a lot

Damn, first time I’m gonna disagree with Firaz on most of these points. Not all women want what the femcel spokeswomen spout. They are just the loudest, and for the record, just as cringeworthy as the incels. In re makeup, Neither sex will usually put things on their body that doesn’t make them attractive to the opposite sex, which is why Google Glass and all those technologies haven’t taken off. I don’t see a guy with a VR headset on and say, roarrr I want him. Physically fit, yes for both obvi. Yes, smarts and confidence is sexy, but not cocky. That’s absolutely a turn off, at least for me. We want guys that have worked on themselves, but not beta. Resources have always been a thing and I don’t think in one generation we will undo that. And I don’t like drama, not at the academy and not at home. A guy breaks up with me; my response “alright.” I think we should build up our men. I don’t think they should be put down, but if all they look for is sex, don’t want to build families, don’t want to be of service to their communities, I can’t respect them no matter how powerful they come off as. I think social media has ruined both sexes. The plane loads of women coming back from other countries to the US with BBLs and other plastic surgeries is on a scale unprecedented. And the guys, steroid use, calf and ab implants, attitudes seemingly trying to show who’s a bigger A-hole. I personally am sad for young people and wouldn’t want to date any of those people. Edit to add: if all the info from the red pill community like Andrew Tate and Fresh & Fit is out there for men to employ, we should have the generation of the most confident, personally successful and powerful men. In fact, we have the generation of men for the first time that has less sex than any previous generation, less confidence, more depression, and highest suicide rate in history. I can’t express enough how tragic that is. Please understand those “influencers” smell the lack of confidence and are looking to make money off it. Period.

It’s almost like Cinderella, Beauty and the Beast, The Princess and the Frog, etc are all variations on a theme.

Honestly man I was looking for this info a long time. Thank you fellow BJJ brother. I never expected to find this info here. Keep sharing your thoughts please. Greetings from Greece and UK

what kind of butter do you use? Salted or not salted?

guy cant even pronounce Jane Eyre. guy might know his jiu jitsu, but man is a bargain bucket spiritual guide

Coach is a philosopher 💪

This is so good! Coach is so well spoken, but I didn't know with other topics too! Unlike many, idealistic PUA gurus, Coach Zahabi comes from a transparent place (not marketing). He also speaks from direct experience with research that is boiling things down, instead of 'techniques' that don't work, especially long term, it's psychology, not PUA. I also never heard the make-up thing - LOVE IT! BTW, Y'ALL MUST READ 'MEN ARE FROM MARS - WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS'!!! I thought it was just an old book, but it's the best book I read on relationships & why men & women don't understand each other.

You nailed this one bro.

thanks to this video I am now firas zahabipilled

I too am an epistemologist coach. I do not see meat and human mystery, I see windows to the soul and moving cogs of the mind

If people start taking control of their relationships it might threaten the consumption of garbage media The last thing they want is people to be inspired by an alpha taking no bs and tell it like it is

This is the best

he aint lying though

Firas is based as fuck.

Hey coach, does John Makdessi still train at TriStar? If yes, how are you guys working out with coaching him and his opponent Nasrat?

Drama burned me out I can’t handle drama and focus on business

I love this guy ❤🔥👌🏻

Everything you said is fantastic; it reminds me of a Hadith from our prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I advise you to treat women kindly, for the woman was created from a rib, and the most crooked part of the rib is its uppermost part. If you try to straighten it, you will break it; and if you leave it, it will remain crooked. So, treat women kindly."

Love to see abdools with CTE chiming in on anything…always amusing!

I really like how you put this in such an easy to understand way. I find myself really worried for my little brothers and future children because we live in strange times where men are treated like crap and women are put on a pedestal. Funny considering that once upon a time, it used to be the opposite. You'd think we'd learn to have some sort of equilibrium. Regarding the romance novel: I see these personality traits in most women now a days. However, I must contest that not all women are like this. For example, I find that women that have either had a strong male figure in their childhood or have gone through some tough circumstances don't fit the mold of the "Romance Girl" narrative. For example, when I see my own mother and her relationship to my father, I didn't see that drama or materialistic element in her. That is probably because of the tough upbringing she had along with the fact that her father (my grandfather) was police officer. Other than that, really nice to hear a fresh perspective. I hope people (both men and women) can learn to be strong. We need strength from both ends. Men need to be strong like Men and Women need to strong like Women. Strong men and women make for strong parents. That makes for strong children that will be able to withstand tough times and create a better future.

This is gold

DO NOT, and I mean DO NOT give her a history lesson, she’ll scratch ya eyes out. Brilliant, just brilliant

Best advice on women ever

Hit the nail right on the head. Thnx for your insight coach!

Yeah but what color is your bugatti?

Women wear makeup for the same reason that men have beards. Vanity. Nothing wrong with that, in my opinion.

Coach Zahabi has definitely been reading /listening to Rollo .

keep making the philosophy videos Firas.

We need more people like you coach, Idk about Andrew's lifestyle. He seems to lack the nobility a man should have, but he does say a lot of good stuff. People like you are definitely needed though, men with values and backbone.

learning from the best always

"Pump and dump' -Descartes

Brother. This is beautiful.

Best video since the one on the mandates. Feminism can only exist in this type of society. Ironically they keep talking about burning it all down. If they ever did at that exact moment feminism would be over with and they would be in for a bad surprise

Damn Andrew Tate got tanned

Women wearing makeup is not always sexual. Of course, it can be, but a lot of women don't/can't wear makeup how they would like to because people like this will sexualize them and make countless inferences about them. Why can't it be artistic expression or a fun hobby? You can't just handwave thousands of years of oppression because of a few decades of progress. If you are raised in a world where gender and racial inequality are systemically intertwined with literally everything, it's only natural that you yourself will be a product of that. You can either choose to be aware of this fact and learn to be more empathetic and understanding, or, you can covertly fight for a return to traditionalism (where women are viewed as capital) by playing the moderate.

Bless you coach

i will watch this in the morning with my coffee :)

Nice!

Deniers or Living-in-Disney-World are losing their minds on /r/bjj with this lmao

now we know how to break Coach Firas in sparring, pull out Jane Eyre and start reading. lol

Real confident men don’t fear empowered women

~Esther Villar~ The manipulated man. Is a must read for men to actually understand women

Firas dropping red pill bombs

Women are different.. Alhamdulillah.. 37 years of marriage and so far so good

"after studying female behavior...." the hubris!

Coach for president!!

straight to the point

Love these side chats could listen all day

jesus this firas guy is so smart and based, SOMEONE GIVE HIM BEST COACH OF THE YEAR AWARD

This was extremely insightful.

Based coach faras

Well said!

Yes Coach, verbally. we knew you didn’t mean Spar like Khamzat spars with Strickland 😉

Literally everyone is commenting on Tate and this stuff now.

Beautiful video coach.

Since I was very young I found make up something sexual, just I couldn't speak it cos the truth always hurts

Great advice coach! I usually tune in for tips on Jiu Jitsu, but received so much more today! 🙏

Shout out to you! I honestly wasn’t expecting you to talk about something like this but I am glad you did!

Coach, you are a wise and thoughtful individual who I respect very much.

Beauty is power so true

I never thought lipstick was attractive. Red lipstick is actually appalling to me. I guess it's one thing I have in common with Hitler.

Damn that's crazy...... When's Georges competing again?

Poorly-worded nonsense lol. Genuinely embarrassing to hear shit like this from someone often pointed to as a voice of reason in MMA.

Firas dropping the truth, we appreciate you

This was so weird.

Coach be droppin' these Red Pill & PUA knowledge!!!

Weird takes to point out about how you only need a dust worth’s of masculinity to keep a woman satisfied but will more quickly jump to say you agree with Andrew Tate’s points when majority of his message sides with the obsession of masculinity and into it’s more toxic traits. These points have been said over and over and are refuting more rare opinions of everyday people like extreme feminism, albeit they maybe louder than everyone else. A more refreshing take, instead of the same as every live stream I have watched for the past two years, is to also critique the pompous Andrew Tate opinions so we can get a well balanced and refreshing argument.

Ma broooooo! Im 52 years old and agree with you 100%.

Mashalaah coach you are spot on. Love to have you on a podcast on my KZfaq channel Inshallaah

I wonder how coach did with the ladies when he was single

We need more philosophers as leaders

Thank you coach

Firas how are you this wise for one so young:) very good advice here

Lots of men go along with the ideology, and defend it too get with that women. It’s pathetic. Plus career , Gov, Corp, pressures etc. Anyways agree completely. Everything has gone wacky in the west. It’s a lot of psychologically warped people that belong in a mental hospital that are attaching themselves to these movements as well. That being said the whole Feminism movement was spearhead by Gloria Stein back in the 60’70’s etc. Really it’s about destroying the family unit.

Probably one would get lots of hate for this but what to do i think its true - nowadays being a men is so much harder than being a women. 3 out of 4 people that kill themselfes are men, that already shows how bad the situation for men actually is. So why is everybody talking about feminism i really do not get it. It is very obvious (studies done more than enough) that women feel less attracted to a guy that has less resources than themselves. So automatically as a guy you have to take care that you always have a higher income than your wife - the moment you dont she eventually gets unhappy and leaves you. What a world are we livin in today? I truly feel i am from a different time and that i dont really belong here sometimes

Ah Firas you suddenly became my favorite mma coach ...

Hahaha couldn't agree more...