As a girl who was raised by good parents i say social media has ruined love and respect. Delete all your accounts. I'm still 20 and I only have a WhatsApp account.

In a world with less rich people, very less spiritual people, very less good people you are doing a great job.

I watch you everyday girl ! Im 45 yesrs old and god set me free 8 months ago lost 53 pounds quit drinking smoking and doing drugs.I appreciate you so much!

A real man loves himself so much that he doesn't need the love of anyone else.

We don't "want" respect we need it and the collective is built on relations of mutual respect.

I'm not really running into any women I want with a low body count and no kids, but wants kids.

as a man in my early 50's I'm ready to finally settle down if the right one ever comes along, what's important to me is companionship not pleasure, I am very aware of what's out there as a majority and my standards are higher because of knowing what the norm is and what I've encountered. this video is great insight and I have been working on myself for the past year, I know I have my faults, what I want is real and no games as I don't play them, but if I have to go it alone then so be it.

Just say no to simping 🙏

Head's up to her. For starters you need physical, emotional attraction.

The girl of your dreams exists only in those dreams.

It doesn’t matter what you do or how amazing you are. If the woman doesn’t want you for real. Nothing matters

I saw a gorgeous woman today. I was so nervous, but I approached her and I was just upfront about my nervousness. Rather approach than regret. Got her contacts now. 😍 Thanks Maya! You are doing meaningful work.

As a man I don't know what women want and watching this video just stresses me out

I'm not looking for her, I'm working on myself so that she can recognize me and choose me! The first thing I offer and provide is respect, if we cross that step we go to understanding, if we come to trust, we are in love! I haven't gotten respect yet! I want a woman who is ready to walk with me through every step. There are many steps, but together we can enrich the world! I love women and they love me, but I'm not only interested in sex. Her presence in my life as a reasonable woman, her support, is more important to me. Every normal man needs it! Cowards, liars and ego freaks will say they don't need woman supports! They don't even know what a real woman is, because they are not real men yet! I am like the light of the sun, but without her I'm just a shadow! A man can do anything if he has the right woman by his side! The mirror of his soul!

I know it's a touchy subject. They don't want love. They clown on love, they make fun of love, I've searched for love over 50 years and still come up totally empty.

Im absolutely stunned tbh... I've watched countless videos on relationships, men-women dynamics etc. and never has anybody even come close to explaining it this well. You even got emotional which honestly only empowered my perceived importance of these topics. I'll procceed to watch your videos now. Thank you! and sorry for my english.

Geez, women are like a full time jobs? You need a resume, prep for interviews, apply multiple times, risk of termination, and pay most if not all expenses and risk losing half our assets during a divorce. Really, is transactional love worth it? 🤔🤔

Perfect timing... All day long I've been thinking about what kind of a woman I would want to attract into my life. A particular woman peaked my interest, so I took a deep look at what she represents, and what a few other woman I've been with represent and what I feel is important to me. Your message certainly allowed me to go deeper into these already flourishing thoughts and feelings, so I say thank you very very much for this deeply syncing video and I also love that I took the time to answer all the questions you posed. Feels really good to know what I want and what I don't want. Clarity is a serene experience!

One's "dream woman" looks different for everyone. It's a diilfficult task to speak specifics that resonate with everyone's journey. I would focus on knowing yourself. By knowing who you are you will begin to understand who your partner should be. Don't look for a tangible face and body to chase and work towards. Get in touch with how this person would make you feel if you were to meet them. You bring up a good point at 11:00 about being confident about who you are to stoke attraction. But at 9:00 you also bring up health and body image as a way to put pressure on people going as far as to chastise someone who may not be aligned with who you might perceive to be an ideal partner physically. We should always love ourselves and feel deserving of love no matter how we look. I believe it's more a matter of aligning with what you want or are okay with. Just as our spirit and mind changes with each passing season, so does our bodies. If one perceives that they must change to be aligned with their desired partner, then that's a journey open for them to take. I don't think this idea that you must be healthy and fit for a woman to want you should be applied so generously across the board. Those in the comments saying "this girl doesn't exist" or "I'm over women", ask yourself if that's what you truly want to believe. If the answer is no, I encourage you to start thinking positively. Think of the qualities you're looking for in a partner, compare them to who you are now, and see how much they align. If you're seeing things not matching up, like the OP says in her video, there's room to grow. Be loving to yourself. Your thoughts and words are more powerful than you realize because they will eventually become action. You may end up blinding yourself to possibilties in the future. Yes, even if you're 40, that reality is still a possibility. So if it's love that you desire AND you also desire to share it, practice speaking lovingly to yourself first. And be open to it happening.

A better video than what i expected by the title. Good message you're sending there, keep doing a good job.

💙Excellent💙 Subscribed now. 56 year old who is best friends with his 30’s two sons… and I’m a contender amongst them. Both of which are happily married. Myself, been alone for 6 years and working on being the best version of myself 👊🏽🦅

Not everyone is destined for this.

I'm just going straight off the title. But, fuck no these women are not waiting. If you think waiting is them fucking a bunch of random dudes until they decide to settle down with a good man, then I guess. But I don't think that's waiting. If they were waiting I would be full steam ahead, time to go ask for marriage. But they're not, girls don't do that. The ones that did are not single. I love maya, but I'm grappling with this currently. Trying to be positive that things will work out and theres still someone out there that's compatible, but they didn't wait for shit. It would be a whole lot easier if they did. That's the whole issue here, they don't wait.

i don't like dating apps because women want the perfect guy on dating apps i rather talk to girls in person unless you looks like Brad Pitt or Chris brown you probably ain't going to get no play on dating apps.

Absolutely like the video. Thank you for bringing to focus self improvement on ones own health. Very inspiring for me

She ain't wrong.

4:00 validation would be the top of the list, validation that I'm worthy, that my life choices led someone else to want to partner up wtih me in life

"within her she holds the keys to the doors of the locks that you have lost within yourself" loved that line, and how true is that

Unbelievably good!

I know one thing . You popped up in my feed 2 hours ago. I've been listening to your videos. Been looking for a woman like you. At least I know they are out there. Tooooooo many of the selfish, masculine women out there. . You're a gem! I know one day I will meet a woman similar to you.

Surely the most important thing is love, but you don't use the word once

Outstanding and inspiring speach.

Be watchful, and strengthen the things which remain, that are ready to die: for I have not found thy works perfect before God. Revelation 3 : 2

Amen sister, I believe every single word you have said to be 110% accurate! Men in this day & age, we have a lot of work to do, & it begins by being man enough to put our own egos in check! Then & only then can the things you speak of be achieved!

Depends on what that woman is willing to advocate? Moving forward with a union that builds and advocates an outshine the negative gravitas with the veritas of the goals and dreams often times painfully birthed from nightmare to go beyond any recurrent doubts is an enduring attitude of hope to uphold, proliferate, & build on.

No woman is waiting for me cuz Im a "good boy" and "cute". My social skills are too bad and Im too humble despite not being fat or ugly, they just see me as a small kid

Make happy another persona, being to service to another person, serve to others, make someone else happy and know that i make happy another person.... feel useful, serve others is where is happiness... being selfish is sad, the mother serve their kids and their men, that make her happy, now most women are serving social media strangers, and not their men.... feel you are valuable to someone... make someone else happy and release energy, a women that need my energy... its a circle...

There’s always work you do 12:01 . Thanks for helping me and others! Good questions to ask!

2:45 yes too all that I am wanting more than I thought I could understand what a amazing experience motivation is love and respect 💖

I'm married to the woman of my dreams for over 35 years. Sometimes she is waiting for me, but usually I am waiting for her.

For me it's about finding soul mate love. True everlasting love. And there is a woman in my life that I am madly in love with, but is so unattainable, but that fact that she motivates me to become my BEST self, so that maybe God will grant me love, and starting a family, if I put in the effort and grow.💪 You explain so much, so well.🙌

You have the wrighteous words 🙏❤️❤️

So much wisdom from a young, intelligent woman. Magicmaya brings out the key desired traits, if you are ready to settle down with your dream woman. Peace, Love and Joy✌💙❤

A lot of these dating gurus contradict each other and even themselves at times. Yes, even failed past relationships contain lessons. Men are not used to women's emotions? Some are and some are not. There are 2 types of men who instinctively know how to communicate with women on an emotional level. They are in the minority. The other men can learn it, though. The 2 types are gays and players. The "woman of your dreams" will be to have an LTR with. The other women can be ONSs, flings, FWBs or casual partners. An LTR does not mean the 2 of you want children.

Halleluja , Right on every word, Thank you for your wise words Magicmaya ❣❣

The points you made at the beginning are JUST the things I toss around in my brain these days. Who am I trying to be, who do I want to be with, am I the person the person I want, wants??? Serendipitous. Thanks Maya.

Thank you for a great video. The thing I want from a woman is love. Funny that doesn't make your list. No Hollywood love. I want deep soulful, healed divine masculine meets and merges with healed divine feminine.

You're awesome 💎💜

Love you Maya always bringing straightforward facts, you’re an angel 🙏🏼💎💙

Thank you very much.

Wholesome and on-point Maya. A message well said 🙏

The first thing that comes to mind is Home

Thank you Maya, for this video. Please continue what you are doing; I do believe you are called to do this and you are needed. I wish I found you 30 years ago but I am Thankful to Have Found you at all. 💯

When a man chases being with a woman îs already lost. Becouse chasing the relationship îs feminine. The men direction îs finding his mission and porpouse and the real women are joining his direction. The modern women are not joining real men, becouse they are narcisistic and just need a simp to "understand their complexity", wich by the way is just redescover herself in various amorous combinations. Your advice îs just good for Men to be friendzoned or simp suporters.

good job love this came at a good time as I am talking to the woman of my dreams, checks all the boxes but you reminded me to learn from my past relationships and be there for her during her low times i dont want lust, I want a companion and it does take some thought on how to handle situations in a loving way

You have wisdom beyond your years. Definitely gives a lot to think about. Seen some of your videos on semen retention. That was how I found your channel. Good to hear a female perspective on these things.

Im 20 and this is true. Currently

Maya great video and message. Stayed single for the last six years. Really worked on my self, and reflected on all past relationships and all my parts. I have a few to go… though the self-worth, love, selfcare was the biggest piece. Changes in work changes in new friends. Joy and happiness lives inside most of my day. My magnetic field is increasing and only the right moment in time now… Thank you, Maya I really appreciate your encouragement to step forward and speak your truth… truth with self, and truth with another, along with respect goes a long ways😃

I want to be loved and supported in everything I do by a woman and I of course will do the same 👍

The best Maya vidio ever? I think so 😮.❤

Amazing pep talk dear Maya. It fits my situation very well and confirms that I’m moving in the right direction. Still some work to do though as always…

A lot of women aren't gonna like to hear this, but most of them don't have a good man simply because they didn't have the patience to get to know one. They will get bored within one day and start talking to a different guy or multiple guys at the same time and shift their attention around instead of focusing it on the good man.

I’m 68 and my crush from HS got in touch with my daughter to find me a couple years back after 45+ years. We lost touch when I got a summer job which became my career. Both of us got married and had families. We love our concert times. We have great times together but don’t know if we should go to the next step. She’s a Leo and I’m an Aries.

Great motivational messages. They can work but a lot of men feel defeated.

I'm 555 days on Semen Retention today

This information is so very important. I was 24 when I married my first wife and 36 when I married my second wife. Looking back, I'm sad to say that SEX was the primary motivation to marry both. I've been divorced for several years and am now 72 years old. Any relationship with any woman from this point onward will be for COMPANIONSHIP.

Listen to this women she knows her stuff.

Maya Thank you for this Message been going through a good transformation.much love

Great video. Everything you said is 100%.

Good Word Sis !

She has to come to you.

I already found mine 👸🏿✨✨💙💙💙

I'm done with this perfect woman. I waited enough.But i definitely appreciate your advice.

you're so good.

Men Aren't Really Looking For There SoulMate They Are Looking For The Love They Weren't Getting/ Lacked From There Mother As A Child In There Childhood But I Can't Speck All Of Us Men

Thank you Maya, i assume this will be on point for our next session together.

Magic Maya got the answers to the why shout out to you for taking you time to speak on things that really matter for both genders most especially Men

Thank you darlin' ~ blessed ✨🐝!

That was deep and informative

09:10: Whatever attractive a man is, there is a nasty question that she tends to ask herself: "Can I do better?".

Is it that the more valuable we are, the harder it is to find the right person?

Damn, you're good

Money is the key 🗝️🗝️🗝️ guys... ever may be..

When things dont work......other possibilitys will occur......

I couldn't give my life force energy to a woman that I don't want even if I tried. And I'm trying to learn to approach them and they just reject or are out right not interested. Or they have a boyfriend or engaged or married.

I really liked this one, it was a nice reminder. I now know what my true dream is. It's to be a better husband and a better father than my dad was and I will do everything in my power to get it done the right way. Thank you Maya❤️

No one can guarantee anything in this life

Thanks🎉 for valuable tough love content😊❤🎉

Thank you so much, you obtained a subscriber!

She is right!

Men love you because you ❤ us

Good pep talk but, whoever she is she can wait forever then, because I got tired of always initiating every relationship / date without receiving anything positive in return or worse, being treated as a walking atm. If a woman wants me she should get off her laurels and be proactive about it for once in her life. I'm done with initiating relationships.

Word choice is fire

Wise words...Wise woman.

Lol no. I screwed that up when I was an alcoholic. I'm a year sober now but she'll probably never take me back, and love and loyalty no longer exist so I'm stuck by myself for the rest of my life

This is such good advice.

Joy was followed by pain Maya. It was going all in with the wrong woman and experience the biggest pain, after the joy together. When a woman is not choosing you for long term, it simply says you are not worthy enough to prospect life. This is real. This is not an excuse or a imaginagion in your head. It is a 100% you are not man enough to give me your seed or energy in any dimension... After the pain you are pushing further and getting stronger and better in whatever level it needs, til finally a girl you find attractive says you are good enough for me and for long term prospects. Still then you have to get stronger and grow more, because she will never ever be fulfilled with what is. Thats life and its ok, because it has a reason why life is build this way.

If this was true she would have shown herself to me by now, I've been single for over 14 yrs, and yes you're correct the amount of good wemon out there is very small , so I haven't actually been looking seriously for the last 7 years, because of the majority non-feminine wemon.

i cant wait longer! much longer go ahead im sitting here

Thanks beautiful