The Science Of Getting Girls

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5 ай бұрын

pick up chicks using science and psychology! All these tips if followed correctly are guaranteed to help you, but its important to keep the last tip in mind and let it go if it doesn't work out.
i have Instagram now too! i'll probably just be throwing some behind the scenes stuff on there :D
/ basically_him
sources:
gain loss theory: psycnet.apa.org/record/1976-2...
proximity MIT study: dspace.mit.edu/bitstream/hand...

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@ysuf3125 4 ай бұрын

Mf first explained bluetooth and now he is fixing my life goddamn

@Rops1423 4 ай бұрын

Me too 😂

@Marween 4 ай бұрын

Gad damn right.

@angingis5922 4 ай бұрын

Same jajaj

@alandeutsch9987 4 ай бұрын

i'm here for it

@dice4572 4 ай бұрын

@willrouton184 4 ай бұрын

If you're watching this, it's too late

@prakhargupta3949 4 ай бұрын

It never began...

@rawnessonthemax 4 ай бұрын

@@prakhargupta3949it never began with that name

@Razor-gx2dq 3 ай бұрын

You are assuming that we ever had the chance

@mrjuicejunior 2 ай бұрын

no way it's drake

@maartenswiggers6674 2 ай бұрын

Dont have to do me like that

@travv88 3 ай бұрын

"it has nothing to do with genetics" "now onto part 6. believe it or not it almost always comes down to genetics" lmao

@BlueFusion2910 2 ай бұрын

Normie gaslighting moment

@gaelr.s7123 2 ай бұрын

But le vvomen aren't superficial broooo just get 500 showers and a hair cut brooo

@ericxue3244 2 ай бұрын

He means it doesn't have to do with genetic trait which is visible

@travv88 2 ай бұрын

It does though. It's not everything but it's not nothing.@@ericxue3244

@maheshkumar-sk1kc 2 ай бұрын

step 1 : say hi

@monticellidavi 3 ай бұрын

Lesson 5: looksmaxx now.

@whawtf424 Ай бұрын

@@theorb519 Priority number 2: Realize you dont have perfect genes and surgerymaxx

@NutsDeserk8282 28 күн бұрын

Tip 4: Edge in class EVERY day.

@Saujas 28 күн бұрын

Brooo whatt? @@NutsDeserk8282

@fuzzypanda1684 20 күн бұрын

You should do it for yourself, but it won't make nearly as much difference with girls as you think it will.

@monclerpaint 11 күн бұрын

5 years too late nephew

@thc4825 4 ай бұрын

Me: "hi✋😃" then walks away Girl: "ok wtf"

@adampauling82 4 ай бұрын

assuming you know them already.

@emanuelmaldoileacont8253 4 ай бұрын

Nah,he say hi to strangers girls then walk away@@adampauling82

@yeetboi268 3 ай бұрын

Have you tried being taller?

@AssassinIronMan 3 ай бұрын

@@yeetboi268😂

@AssassinIronMan 3 ай бұрын

Yeah I’ve never understood this tip lol

@grimmitachi 4 ай бұрын

1. You are something to be pursued or lost forever(mindset) 2.Proximity 3.Ask for favors 4.Looksmax 5.Luck 6.Scent

@mariusskrupskis2042 4 ай бұрын

observe pupils, that's the most important part xD

@tesfayeheegstra733 4 ай бұрын

you forgot gain loss theory. Let her win u over

@thethe2279 4 ай бұрын

Over for sub8 jfl. Just be chad honestly is the point of this video.

@alanxo1759 4 ай бұрын

looksmax 😭😭

@Dimebag-wx2rs 4 ай бұрын

@@alanxo1759why laugh?

@luks1207 2 ай бұрын

Got it, stalk her, but take a shower first and look confident while doing it

@jamiemb17 Ай бұрын

Exactly

@kuovsgk Ай бұрын

be nonchalant and mysterious too thats mandatory!

@ItsVasl 15 күн бұрын

every indian man's misconception ever

@sambhavsongara3087 23 сағат бұрын

officer this one right here officer: dont forget to put 200 dollar clognes

@aheendwhz1 4 ай бұрын

The only advice you'll ever need: Don't overthink it and don't give too many fucks. Try to live a good life for yourself, and one day, someone will want you to share it (even if not, then you still had a good life for yourself). It's not the man's responsibility to manipulate every aspect of a situation only to "get" a girl. If she wants you and you want her, you'll find a way.

@shariyarshajid 4 ай бұрын

completely agree with. Just working on ourselves will suffice.

@thethe2279 4 ай бұрын

Someone isn’t the brightest bulb. It’s called just be tall and good looking. Not your bluepill cope

@Emilizier 4 ай бұрын

THISS!!!

@justonexone 4 ай бұрын

@@thethe2279as a 5’7, i completely disagree. I can attract a lot, just gotta be confident and good looking. Being tall is just a +, not a must, and anyways girls that take it as a must genuinely turn me OFF

@Caschrono 4 ай бұрын

@@thethe2279man... I don't know about you but I've seen some people that are physically 5/10 that have managed to pull 7+/10. Mind you, most of the ones I've seen are middle class. Let's say the relationship won't last long, but in the end, who tasted her? Definitely not you. But all that doesn't matter. If you have time to focus on these trivial things, then you're likely living an easy life.

@TerrorFreak 4 ай бұрын

THIS content is really innovative, no flashy editting just pure knowledge and entertainment

@Bobjpeg-fo3tr 4 ай бұрын

We need more of this, learning not just entertainment

@josephmueller3752 4 ай бұрын

it's what PUA used to preach for 2 decades before incels ruined them. Now that incel lingo (lookmaxing, mewing) has become mainstream this basic PUA content that was considered manipulative and unethical is surfacing back. Btw it's all BS

@IStMl 4 ай бұрын

its what YT used to be 10-12 years ago

@billusher2265 4 ай бұрын

@@josephmueller3752 they didn’t ruin them, puas got banned and shadow banned and blackpill and redpill filled the vacuum

@MysteryDoorStudio 4 ай бұрын

Innovative? Bro, this is pick up artist 101. It's very good, but so obvious for a PUA. Social media censured this information in the last years

@werinter 3 ай бұрын

1. Be attractive. 2. Be lucky. Literally those are the two things really matter. Good looks and luck.

@Razor-gx2dq 3 ай бұрын

Dude I know got super lucky, thing is he didn't even try, she came to him, guess we can't all be winners

@dboijahskush1251 12 күн бұрын

you forgot money

@normified 11 күн бұрын

your comment tells me you're just as attractive as your profile picture and it's yo own fault lmao terrible mentality

@sadscientist9995 10 күн бұрын

Money matters too

@user-is9yv2gl3n 9 күн бұрын

@@sadscientist9995nah, if she's choosing you for money, then it's not genuine and a man wouldn't get much joy out of such a relationship. At least I wouldn't. I literally would be physically disgusted at a girl who liked me because of money

@hassanmash07 4 ай бұрын

This. is amazing! You just earned subscriber. I started with one of the video, now I am in depression that you have only 8 videos in total! This. is not acceptable...

@alexr1632 4 ай бұрын

I genuinely think the important part of this process is just being happy and content with yourself. nothing is more pleasant to anyone than a person who is happy, easygoing, and fun to be around. doing this weird bullshit of trying to manipulate the situation to make someone more attracted to you just makes you a pickup artist. you're not going to 'get a girl', you're gonna make yourself nervous and anxious with trying to follow all the steps. just be happy and things will work out.

@omkarthorat9651 4 ай бұрын

Noo but i can confirm this actually works. I've followed these steps and it worked. While i agree with u on the points u made but no if u r very clear in mind what u have to follow u can actually breakthrough the nervousness which is what we call confidence

@Nihilist_Waltz 4 ай бұрын

Cope

@NJ-lu6wu 4 ай бұрын

This stuff works I’ve done all the stuff in this video (not on purpose), and I ended up getting the girl even though all the other guys in the group were the ones chasing. Girls want a guy that’s somewhat “unattainable”, you need to put yourself in her reach but not so easily so it’ll pique her curiosity and attraction. For my situation I was just so focused on my business and career that even though I thought she was cute I just didn’t prioritize her.

@ARINOXMUSIC 4 ай бұрын

No its not you can only hold a facàde for so long before they catch your bullshit @Nihilist_Waltz

@reirei6292 4 ай бұрын

This is true being comfortable in your own skin will make you express yourself more easily and will make not only getting a girlfriend but approaching anyone very straightforward and easy.

@lucky81970 4 ай бұрын

This shit is better than anything any so called "dating coach/expert" has ever put out.

@mateossr 4 ай бұрын

Just look good bro

@fansofst.maximustheconfess8226 4 ай бұрын

BODY GAME And natural masculinity.

@mateossr 4 ай бұрын

@@fansofst.maximustheconfess8226 nö

@FloppaTheBased 4 ай бұрын

@@fansofst.maximustheconfess8226heightfidence and faceonality

@-SimonRiley 4 ай бұрын

@@fansofst.maximustheconfess8226 what's natural masculinity? Besides “just be a leader bro” “just take decisions bro”

@RutinLaun 27 күн бұрын

Great video Sir! I would like to mention a book that you haven't mentioned and its for Insecure Americans. Ebook is called CrushAnyGirl, so on its for finding a girlfriend as Insecure American. After reading, you will have a better perspective on girls and find your gf in thirty days guaranteed Highly recommended to read

@godishere4 25 күн бұрын

😂😂 why does this have no comments

@LoganBai-gv5ys 24 күн бұрын

This has 6k likes so it must be credible. 30 days is pretty fast

@godishere4 24 күн бұрын

@@LoganBai-gv5ys probably bot bro

@LoganBai-gv5ys 24 күн бұрын

@@godishere4 yeah it looks like an ad and this comment was only 2 days ago. so unless 6k people liked it in 2 days despite the video being somewhat old then something is wrong. Also this comment has so few replies under it as you mentioned

@neutral_10 21 күн бұрын

Bot nice try

@user-uy2ok2ti6m 2 ай бұрын

Don't chase the butterflies instead build a beautiful garden. They will come to you themself.

@pantsnjacket381 7 күн бұрын

Underrated comment! So truthful.

@Empyreanis 4 ай бұрын

I like how the video is presented in an informative but casual manner. Like a friend giving you advice. Videos with titles similar to this are usually presented in a manner like a sergeant briefing his soldiers before going to war lmao.

@SwornSon 4 ай бұрын

I once disassembled and reassembled the entire engine bay of an abandoned car and had it run smoothly afterwards only with common sense, Reddit discussions, and KZfaq videos and I guarantee that was far easier than this.

@cattysplat 4 ай бұрын

My dad was an ugly, annoying, shy dork. He got a higher education with a well paid respected job. Girls were throwing themselves at him. My dad is still this guy today, he never had to try, they came to him.

@SwornSon 4 ай бұрын

@@cattysplat Must be nice

@azaanhussain1724 3 ай бұрын

@@cattysplathow can someone be annoying and shy

@aryasenaputra3226 2 ай бұрын

@@azaanhussain1724by being awkwars my guy

@mcpartridgeboy 2 ай бұрын

Yep, very good amature chess pplayer here, can confirm for me that beating some profesional masters at chess is much MUCH easier than getting a date, and i have evry advantage in the book, im very good looking and still cant get even a date !

@solepsus4171 4 ай бұрын

so 1. be friendly say hi when you pass by (try to increase proximity; better if u dont be creepy + next step) 2. present yourself as someone who takes care of themselves (posture, hair, clothing, skincare, looksmaxxing in general) 3. do favors for her and ask them for favors (also gives you chances to interact) - post dating 4. good first kiss (practice kissing on your closest bros, its not gay i swear)

@JDub3799 4 ай бұрын

instructions unclear, in a love triangle with the bro now

@xerxes4real 4 ай бұрын

@@JDub3799At least you found your passion!

@exquiilz 4 ай бұрын

brainrot

@pasalasaga 4 ай бұрын

Now being serious. You can practice kissing with your hand. Put It like a fist, and then do that.

@skimsakj642 4 ай бұрын

5. Stop playing Roblox and finish public school

@josueramirez7247 3 ай бұрын

The presentation of the video was very good. I liked the words and images you used.

@Luke_SkyWalker2187 4 ай бұрын

Dude I’m just binging your videos cause they’re so high quality. Dang man please keep going your stuff is so good!

@iamfuckingcringe 4 ай бұрын

WE GETTIN OUT OF LONELINESS WITH THIS ONE 🔥

@revolutioninc7081 4 ай бұрын

First step, change your username

@vklnew9824 4 ай бұрын

kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jM5gm81qv6qddo0.htmlsi=cwwc6iXY1eTClvl3

@iamfuckingcringe 4 ай бұрын

@@revolutioninc7081 Nobody knows about this channel fr

@AlaReDuS 4 ай бұрын

@@revolutioninc7081 Yeah bro, positive self talk and all that ftw.

@FloppaTheBased 4 ай бұрын

Second step, be born tall and attractive

@guilokoh9971 4 ай бұрын

How to get girls 101: Step 1: Be attractive Step 2: Be attractive Step 3: Be attractive Step 4: Be attractive Step 5: Be attractive Step 6: Be attractive Step 7: Be attractive Step 8: Be attractive Step 9: Be attractive Step 10: Be yourself

@LevSeven_ 4 ай бұрын

you missed about half of the video mate

@Julia25120 4 ай бұрын

I want a man who looks like 90s Tom Cruise. 😂

@richardparsley2538 4 ай бұрын

Step 1: buy white van Step 2:

@FoodIsGood753 4 ай бұрын

@@richardparsley2538 naaaaaahhhhh we getting crazy with this one

@JohnDoe-nm5le 4 ай бұрын

Blackpilled.

@Dslayer62 4 ай бұрын

I'd also recommend simply doing what you love in a crowded place. I became a karaoke regular at my local pub and after a couple months I started pulling girls (usually the semi-regulars) because I was a familiar face who was friendly and start conversation with everyone. I wasn't asking for their numbers, I was just happy to talk to someone between songs and make them feel welcome. What I realise I was doing is that I WAS making myself scarce. I didn't persue girls overtly because I wasn't there for girls. I was there for the karaoke and a good time.

@DarkAioL1666 4 ай бұрын

My experience is similar. Do what you love in a social environment where you are at ease and confident. You become attractive instantly.

@mcpartridgeboy 2 ай бұрын

that sort f worked for me in the gym, the only problem is when i did ask someone out who clearly liked me i was rejected, so you still have to have the pick up skills to time it right avd to know how to ask properly ! or she will still say no every time

@maxjohnson8659 Ай бұрын

Advice unclear, I was arrested for indecent exposure.

@Dslayer62 Ай бұрын

@@mcpartridgeboy Don't let 1 rejection convince you it won't work.

@user-nf6qz9yp9l 8 сағат бұрын

I've watched almost all your videos, I love your humor and way of explaining things! But this is just... Chef's kiss.

@Brother_In_Christ 4 ай бұрын

Don't worry guys. I've just looked into MHC molecules and apparently, a man with dissimilar MHC molecules just smells nicer to women, that's it. And that nicer smell might help with attraction. However, a less nice smell is not going to stop a woman from being attracted to you. Worrying about such things and being in your head instead of being present will make you less attractive.

@aheendwhz1 4 ай бұрын

I think especially the kissing thing at the end of the vid will make you less attractive. How are you going to have a "good first kiss" when you have to worry that the kiss might ruin everything? Also, that's bullshit. Most first kisses are bad as how are they going to be good if you don't even know each other.

@Jwellsuhhuh 4 ай бұрын

The MHC thing is negligible, if not completely BS. Wedekind, zhou, and other pheromone studies have failed to be consistently replicated, and are extremely artificial in nature. The density of pheromones in the cloves mixture (zhou) or in the tshirts (wedekind) is absurdly high compared to someone’s ambient scent when standing right next to them. And that’s assuming no extraneous factors like BO. Hint: the slightest presence of antiperspirant, deo, or bacteria eating sweat will immediately mask whatever pheromones are being excreted.

@waltervelasquezgwt 3 ай бұрын

MHC ? Use a good perfume, works great. !

@zafuro 3 ай бұрын

@@aheendwhz1holy cope chad instatly melts any girl away when he kisses them

@RR-et6zp 3 ай бұрын

they date up by default. read the unplugged alpha by richard cooper

@master-oh6zn 4 ай бұрын

Steps -don't give them attention -see them often -make them think you don't like them -make them think you started liking them -make them do favors for you -have luck -have kissing skill

@PushYourEdge 4 ай бұрын

the first two sound paradoxical but just for clarification, don’t give them excessive attention outside of physically seeing them: don’t text them all day, don’t watch every single one of their stories, limit your non-sexual attention as much as possible.

@alexm.6533 4 ай бұрын

These only work if you’re physically attractive

@voxer94 4 ай бұрын

Steps -Be tall and handsome -Be not severly mentally ill

@FloppaTheBased 4 ай бұрын

-be tall -have attractive facial features

@alexm.6533 4 ай бұрын

@@FloppaTheBased I’m tall but I ain’t got the attractive facial features

@alexlovehall7796 3 ай бұрын

This is the guide that I needed fr. helped put a lot of things in perspective

@ashleydsilva9284 3 ай бұрын

bruh i've watched a ton of dating advice videos, but this one blew my mind away 💥

@nicom9476 4 ай бұрын

The way your incorporating actual psychological evidence from experiments done in each of your points is so original and makes the video so much better. Please upload more psychology videos like this where you go in depth into the why and how. I love these types of videos. and your editing is onpoint!!

@RR-et6zp 3 ай бұрын

they date up by default. read the unplugged alpha by richard cooper

@spacecooqie6873 2 ай бұрын

They aren't tho, lol. They are citing single studies without any context or lit review, which is useless and unscientific. Additionally, the studies they are citing are out of date and all of their claim aren't supported by a big part of the literature. For example, we don't know if there are any sexual pheromones in humans.

@RR-et6zp 2 ай бұрын

yeah most psychology is BS. but brain scans show each gender is different + hardwired behaviour @@spacecooqie6873

@gabrielnobrev 4 ай бұрын

Confidence is a huge factor too. If you're afraid of talking to women or afraid of rejection, a good way to solve this problem is by practicing exposure to your fears. Go talk to random women in public (not in a creepy way, of course). Choose appropriate places to talk, and appropriate situations, for example, when you go to a party with a lot people you don't know, or a big event.

@seventhkeyomegasghost8233 4 ай бұрын

lmao "Just be confident, bro!!!!'

@dreamdesigns8514 4 ай бұрын

no confidence for a recessed face

@dynamicflashy 4 ай бұрын

“Choose appropriate places and situations”. Knowing which are appropriate is the issue.

@dylanm3181 4 ай бұрын

A good way to practice is to sometimes chat up retail associates or someone waiting on a line to get into a venue. This happens all the time in big cities. And who knows? That same person you chatted up may then decide to want to add you on Instagram or get your contact Edit: notice how I didn't mention anything romantic? The more natural you are, the more people will relax around you

@seventhkeyomegasghost8233 4 ай бұрын

@@dylanm3181 you watch too many movies, son.

@STR1XMMM 4 ай бұрын

just be handsome

@Mental_Abortion 4 ай бұрын

The shortest and correct answer to this video

@cbussey4676 3 ай бұрын

not how it works chief

@Forsica_ 3 ай бұрын

@@cbussey4676it just makes everything easier

@thepotatotaxi2430 3 ай бұрын

If that worked I'd have a gf I assure you. But maybe I just need a haircut

@lucavalentim1917 3 ай бұрын

Not the only thing that matters, being handsome but having no game and being akward and wierd wont do shit. If you are mid/bad looking and have good game you have more chances

@ItslagIswear Ай бұрын

bro took overthinking it to a whole other level

@andrewdrewandy Ай бұрын

its so over

@user-ui9lj2dn7r 4 ай бұрын

Ok but I’m ugly💀

@ryatt1 4 ай бұрын

Same *but* in that case you need to rely on personality pretty heavily. If you're extroverted and easy to talk to then it's better. In the case of me and being socially awkward and not knowing how to talk to women, because you didn't have a mom growing up, then you kind of wait for fate to do its thing.

@heydani6678 4 ай бұрын

Girls don’t care what you look like nearly as much as you think dude. A woman’s attractiveness is based almost 100% on her looks but for men it’s less than 20

@IamMortui 4 ай бұрын

@@heydani6678 They definitely do. Men see looks more than women, but women saying women don't care for, or care for way less than men is completely false.

@heydani6678 4 ай бұрын

@@IamMortui women care wayyyyy less. To the point where it’s almost irrelevant past the introductory phase. Women like dudes that make them feel good.

@IamMortui 4 ай бұрын

@@heydani6678 They do like dudes who feel good you're right, but they also consider looks similarly to men. Not as much as men, but It's not that far off. This goes for all three of the categories. Below average, average, and above average. You get away with a lot more when you're above average in looks in some or multiple ways. Even more so of women approaching YOU. Bottom line is people who say looks don't matter or matter less are not very experienced because looks is the first impressions. If she turns you down from the get-go from looks, you will be aiming at a wall trying to "make her feel good".

@bustavonnutz 5 ай бұрын

Only two rules to dating: 1) Be attractive 2) Don't be unattractive Simple as. Attraction is non-negotiable, so honestly every other strat is just minmaxing. When I like a girl & she likes me back there is minimal guesswork & everything just flows. That's why when a girl starts acting wishywashy, cattish, or hard-to-get I almost immediately start to lose interest. There's just no point pursuing a girl who won't make up her mind or wants to spin plates.

@fruitybaby3332 4 ай бұрын

skipped this badly friend 5:26

@AkiRa22084 4 ай бұрын

@@fruitybaby3332 That one is BS. And weight is partially genetic and just confirms bustavonnutz's point.

@ShiroganeABA 4 ай бұрын

@@AkiRa22084 So of all the things he said in that section all you retained from it is the "weight" part?

@AkiRa22084 4 ай бұрын

@@ShiroganeABA No, you misunderstand. All of the section is BS, but the weight one is not true even by his own standards.

@fiat_ow7876 4 ай бұрын

True. Bad personalities become amplified and good if your attractive, and good personalities become amplified and bad if your ugly.

@matinsalehi7578 3 күн бұрын

Have watched this a while ago and might watch it again soon because I need help and watching it twice isn't enough!

@sadscientist9995 10 күн бұрын

“Just be a nice guy” this whole video

@juancruzlives 4 ай бұрын

very great video. taking away the over-seriousness and making the format funnier really helps you enjoy more the learning process

@beckett746 4 ай бұрын

This is probably one of the best videos I've ever seen on this topic, and brought up a lot of things I have never seen anywhere else that make a lot of sense and seem pretty valid. Hugely underrated

@hhh-nj9xc 2 ай бұрын

this is so freaking awesome dude!

@mpamphs_trupas 2 ай бұрын

I may or may not just watched all of your videos while avoiding going to bed... No regrets

@Maxecute 4 ай бұрын

I dont just wanna get girls. Exspecially not through psychological manipulation and playing games. All I want is to find a good partner with just being myself. Is that possible?

@hothdog 4 ай бұрын

why yes, it is.

@FloppaTheBased 4 ай бұрын

if you need "game" and tricking women into liking you it's already over. None of the people in relationships did this cringe, it all happens naturally. If it doesn't happen to you then be luckier in the looks department next time.

@thefinalroman 4 ай бұрын

Beta

@americandream9473 4 ай бұрын

@@FloppaTheBasedin next life😂😂😂

@rando4998 4 ай бұрын

Find your purpose in life. However, your purpose shouldn’t be simping for women. Thus, when you find your purpose you are dialed in. So, whether women like you or not you are happy since your purpose gives you meaning in life.

@elbergalaxia9783 4 ай бұрын

Man, i just discovered your channel, this video is a gem. I laughed so much, and the content is really high quality. Subscribed, keep 'em coming!

@sepantakhorasani5022 2 ай бұрын

this man is one of the best KZfaqrs out there I learn here more than school

@shavoniilloyd7825 3 ай бұрын

love your vid continue posting more. Funny enough when i watch the first one i had to subscribe 😂

@Monochromatification 5 ай бұрын

What about "the science of keeping a healthy relationship?" All these videos on breaking down the dating process are great for some, yet they mostly focus on the getting in process as though that's the bulk of the work and the rest of a relationship will just work itself out. It effectively turns the process into a game where the reward is that you "get" a girl and that somehow means you've won something. Yet hardly anyone thinks of what follows, and all the self work that needs to be done (on healing old wounds/bad communication patterns or taking on feedback without defensiveness or understanding personal responsibilities and negotiating to have everyone's needs met) to create a good relationship environment. I believe more men need lessons in how to be good partners than in how to succeed at initiating relationships while doing little work on themselves and their potential issues. But maybe that's material for another video.

@this.science 5 ай бұрын

I think that’s also very important, arguably more important, I just decided to make this video because I’ve noticed a lot of my classmates who are generally good and handsome dudes be completely petrified to initiate and sort of interaction with girls they like, i figured a lot of guys probably feel the same way and that there’d probably be an audience for a video concept that could help build a little confidence. I definitely get your point, and i plan on doing many more videos on human interaction and will definitely try to integrate stuff like that :)

@hanifsulistiyo3559 5 ай бұрын

exactly

@christophewells3918 5 ай бұрын

This very much so. I agree with what you're saying. As a 32yr guy, I've seen it and lived it. It's horrible to see what happens to people when there isn't a mature understanding of how to be considerate, reciprocative, self-respecting and adaptable. You don't always get closure with relationships that wouldn't last either, but it would give so much awareness to both people in a relationship too if afterwards they could have a mature communication of what went wrong, what they liked and what they disliked about the relationship to better prepare both to not make the same mistakes in the next and see what they can improve themselves, not only for the next person but also for themselves. Not to mention it can build comradery rather than resentment between those who have been intimate with eachother.

@mikemondano3624 5 ай бұрын

Yes, it's important to pretend convincingly that those other things matter, too. Acting is an oft-forgotten part of the needed skills. Sometimes, if you are good enough, you may even fool yourself.

@gaberoyalll 4 ай бұрын

# 1 is simple its just focus on to talk less and in deep voice when u do but idk

@TheOutlierToday 4 ай бұрын

Dating is just a game, isn't it? I'm not playing.

@Blurro 4 ай бұрын

Playing these dumb games is unfortunately how you have to go. What's your alternative? Because eventually if you do meet a woman you consider your perfect match, intelligent and all, chances are she's still likely playing the game and you'll be disqualified real quick. There isn't really a winning move where you 'break' the game, like make her aware of it and she realises "wow that game is silly, and you're so smart, I'll date you!" that aint gonna happen. Only guys get real nerdy over this shit and recognise it as a game anyway, and you keep that to yourself

@cattysplat 4 ай бұрын

@@Blurro If you think this is bad, women having even more insane rationalisations to what they do.

@bro918 4 ай бұрын

@@Blurro The only winning move here is to simply wait a decade or two for AI/Robotics to get good enough and then just buy a robot GF

@lekhajiitjzargo2437 4 ай бұрын

@@bro918 Exactly + curing aging for playing longer and more choices in life.

@TON-vz3pe 3 ай бұрын

@@BlurroIt aint worth it. Relationships, Sex are way too overrated. I am glad to be single than to play all these shitty games.

@KorisnickoIme84 3 ай бұрын

I'm not scared of aproaching (maybe a little) but later down the line when they realize that I'm depressed and low on energy with no goals in life..

@benjaminmontenegro3423 Ай бұрын

Then don’t focus on partners brother, focus on finding that spark there is to life again

@Rand0mCommenter 29 күн бұрын

Respect for making the vid less than 8 mins so no adds mid vid.

@giucas18 4 ай бұрын

Ok let me tell you something... it's the first time ever that, discovering a new channel from 0, I've gotten so involved. It's amazing how you put together such a well done channel in less than a month. Best of luck, you deserve all the success that will come.

@Percival-kl9yy 4 ай бұрын

*I've red-flagged this video as BS designed to trick gullible people - as 30 seconds in, the video-poster lies about the reason nice guys finish last - the majority of women don't reject nice men and flock to abusive men that will knock their teeth out and/or kill them "because they make themselves more available" - that's BS and I am calling on all who read this to be cautioned that this video is a gaslighting attempt to trick you from knowing the real reason most women choose men the way they do.*

@Percival-kl9yy 4 ай бұрын

@semmoney5686 4 ай бұрын

Straight to the point no BS realistic advice given here bro. Thanks for making this content, Instant new sub !

@luimahsmalsi 3 ай бұрын

Watching this even though knowing that it won't work just like the other yt videos I have watched and implemented irl.

@fredcastor1 7 күн бұрын

lesson 7, it's over

@celinritter1385 5 ай бұрын

The only thing that is inaccurate is that at a party there are groups of guys surrounding a girl, if that is so these are likely her friends and to say hi and walk a way is a bit wierd. Say hi to her when shes relatively alone and u can have a conversation with her and let a friend yell out ur name so u have to go. NOOO pick up lines !!!!! But if u stared a conversation already and she dosent seem uncomfortable and happy to talk to u just talk to her like a normal human being would and ask her some questions about her that she feels comfortable answering. Ask for insta not her number girls are more comfortable giving guys her insta. Im from germany please excuse the mistakes. Dont follow her around all evening like i said find an excuse and go

@this.science 5 ай бұрын

This is amazing advice

@christophewells3918 5 ай бұрын

Really solid respectable advice. Thank you, friend.

@Jorge-np3tq 4 ай бұрын

"Like a normal human being" means nothing. Your boss, your mom and your friends are all human beings and you treat each in different ways. If you just focus on making her comfortable the fz is your fate and you deserve it. Insta can be gotten earlier than number but is way weaker as a lead. If you get her number it's to arrange a date and continue, if you get her insta you're just another follower to make number bigger and feed her ego. Look at naturals. See what they do and learn from them. Most people have some friends who are naturals. Go with them and don't cringe or get jealous, just learn. See how they tease the girl, joke around with her, act like the prize, ignore her tests, escalate...they do everything instinctively. Are you here to have polite conversations or to give women an attractive man that they'll actually want to have sex with? Women hate nice guys who think just doing the bare minimum will get them into their pants because they were so friendly and polite. You want something, actually build attraction.

@vklnew9824 4 ай бұрын

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@giftzwerg7345 4 ай бұрын

I disagree on insta, most people arnt active or care.

@cedric8872 4 ай бұрын

I can confirm with personal experience that the majority of this video is 100% accurate!

@FloppaTheBased 4 ай бұрын

just be tall and handsome bro

@justingibson1150 4 ай бұрын

60% of the time, it works every time.

@youfuckinknowit 4 ай бұрын

@@justingibson1150 DAMMIT! You beat me to it. First thing that popped in my head when I read this comment. 👊🏽

@aqiel509 2 ай бұрын

@@FloppaTheBased it began for confidenttheorymaxingcels

@mynt7641 4 ай бұрын

Really liked this one, you should make more!

@bobbythefish_gaming339 4 ай бұрын

Such an insanely high quality informative yet simple channel PERFECT COMBINATION dude beat the algorithm

@flaviopasquini5958 4 ай бұрын

Man this video is one of the better and funniest I have ever seen on the argument! Really good production, nice lessons (I study psychology and that’s all true) and really simple language, congratulations!

@bee0_081 4 ай бұрын

I like this channel, it always proves its claims with studies and evidence and the videos don't bore me, it's actually entertaining to watch.

@trxpho._ Ай бұрын

Me watching this as a girl that likes girls💀

@lilbeetle7759 7 күн бұрын

lesson 5: "genetics don't matter" lesson 6: "it always comes down to genetics"

@Otism. 4 ай бұрын

pro tip: be attractive

@AssassinIronMan 3 ай бұрын

Or get plastic surgery lol

@_Devansh.Dixit_ 3 ай бұрын

@@AssassinIronMan that I will do i.e septoplasty I have very deviated nasal passage(if you know you know )

@AssassinIronMan 3 ай бұрын

@@_Devansh.Dixit_ I don’t know 💪🗿

@_Devansh.Dixit_ 3 ай бұрын

@@AssassinIronMan then use chrome to get it known rather then using it for something else 🗿

@AssassinIronMan 3 ай бұрын

@@_Devansh.Dixit_ I’m better off not caring 😎

@citrus3719 5 ай бұрын

beauty video mate, was shocked at sub count when I saw ur dreaming video, keep it up and don’t listen to the people fretting over a spelling mistake

@this.science 5 ай бұрын

Thanks :)

@jendak2653 19 күн бұрын

Instructions unclear, I crossed the line and now I'm in the jail :(

@zayedemon7924 3 ай бұрын

Just subscribed, i have feeling this channel is gonna be something in time, as videos are so unique and balanced.

@xuchilbara21392 4 ай бұрын

"the most attractive feature is NOT genetic" - yeah please tell that to a 5'3'' balding guy with bad physiology thanks to genetics. Just because on average, not many of us will experience such a fate, it does NOT mean that genetics does not play a role

@FloppaTheBased 4 ай бұрын

tell that to any average guy basically. Average dude today is not really different from 5'3 balding dude for women, they're all ugly.

@DumplingDoodle 4 ай бұрын

well clearly you don't have the right attitude either, which isn't doing you any favors. not saying you're wrong, just that you're only making it worse by giving your insecurities power.

@treymiddleton 4 ай бұрын

It’s really not bro I see short men all the time get hotties. I’m 5’9 so average height but it’s really about your personality and charisma

@LOLxUnique 4 ай бұрын

i know a balding guy punching way above his weight. he works out, smells nice and is super confident. people dont care about your bald look

@xuchilbara21392 4 ай бұрын

@@LOLxUnique is he also 5'3?

@christophewells3918 5 ай бұрын

You are promoting some good healthy understanding, my friend. Keep up the good work.

@dehanbadenhorst1398 2 ай бұрын

Ive been doing the 'hi' and walk away thing without realising lol. Explains a lot

@bitten1406 8 күн бұрын

this video's thumbnail is otherworldly! this guy is damn good

@zman8948 4 ай бұрын

How to be a psychopath:

@grahambrown1980 3 ай бұрын

Don’t give a shit and don’t dream.

@megafiremario12volt 4 ай бұрын

I love that luck was added here cause you could be doing everything right but still have bad outcomes and vice versa. But its still good to work on yourself regardless cause luck is also when preparation meets opportunity

@soy-jadey 26 күн бұрын

Instructions unclear, now I just became a billionaire

@TactiBEAR Ай бұрын

this is the one video that is guaranteed to have 100% retention

@vanwagon 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for this, I'm so tired of all the incel ideology bs that's been thrown around in the self-help community about how men struggle with attracting women because of looks. It is definitely partially true that looks do matter, but I think a lot of men don't know that they're approaching dating wrong, and blame it on the beauty standards women have for men, instead of learning from their mistakes. This is one of the first videos I've seen that also really understands the problem with the approach of the "nice guy" archetype

@nikobellic9140 4 ай бұрын

u dont know the reality

@cattysplat 4 ай бұрын

It's basically the same thing red pill says, just politely.

@dreamdesigns8514 4 ай бұрын

jfl at you. if you’re getting no girls it’s because of your looks and not because of muh personality and muh confidence. cope harder

@dreamdesigns8514 4 ай бұрын

If you’re watching this video and thinking your dating life will change = it’s brutally over for you

@Corvolet5 4 ай бұрын

On god, incel has turned into such a buzzword to use on men who have already been through enough.

@cinephilia1252 5 ай бұрын

1: scarcity principle 2: Gain loss theory 3: Proximity 4: Ben Franklin effect (favors) 5: Discord Mod effect (look good man!) 6: Luck(pheromones (MHC) + Kiss good)

@TheTruZadrot 4 ай бұрын

Ty for summary.

@bro918 4 ай бұрын

7. Be tall

@cinephilia1252 4 ай бұрын

@@bro918 factss

@kelechi_77 4 ай бұрын

people in our generation will do anything but actually go outside and just talk to women

@revolutioninc7081 4 ай бұрын

@@kelechi_77cuz it’s deemed creepy

@Just_google_404 2 ай бұрын

7:34 checkmate ✔️

@huntergregory44 2 ай бұрын

bro this is absolutely genius thanks so much

@dondonnysson4973 4 ай бұрын

So genetics don't matter but also matter the most? Good video dude.

@thepastarat Ай бұрын

you didn't listen very well did you?

@RiverHeights 4 ай бұрын

Can't believe you actually thought you would only have 500 subs by 2024. This channel is Gold

@stopautoclick688 2 ай бұрын

needed something to listen to while doing ap chem homework at 11 at night

@brett103 14 күн бұрын

I love how the last thing literally says the things before it don’t matter compared into it lol

@deadpersonisepic7618 5 ай бұрын

The videos are great bro your gonna be big for sure, keep working hard (:

@this.science 5 ай бұрын

Thanks :)

@joonyoungahn3350 4 ай бұрын

The science of spelling every single fucking word wrong in 7 minutes and 50 seconds. The science of having the same level of command over the English language as a fucking infant.

@ollieclifford5672 4 ай бұрын

Real asf

@kevin76165 Ай бұрын

Bro chill 😭

@c.mirashi 3 ай бұрын

More on this, this are life savers ofc they help me feel a little bit control over my life

@Doodsplan 3 ай бұрын

Just be attractive.

@thehyunimal8209 3 ай бұрын

fr just looxmaxc

@johnpaul2402 4 ай бұрын

You deserve much more subscribers this got me laughing so hard😂

@martinshoosterman 4 ай бұрын

I think the best take away here is to just try and make friends with women. First of all, the friend zone doesnt exist. Or atleast, not in the way people think it does. It is possible to become friends with a girl who isnt attracted to you. But that doesnt mean becoming friends with someone causes them to be unattracted to you. On the other hand, becoming friends has the benifits of both proximity and favours. (You will naturally ask favours from your friends). combine that with luck, pheremone compatibility, and generally taking care of yourself and you'll have a great relationship. And if it doesnt work, you have a good friend who can help you find someone else.

@samedifferentuser3225 4 ай бұрын

Female confirmation: received👍👍

@tommygertcher2747 3 ай бұрын

So you're saying girls aren't less attracted guys because they're too friendly?

@samedifferentuser3225 3 ай бұрын

@tommygertcher2747 If I may, I think it depends on what kind of level of friendliness we're talking about. Just being nice is different from paying special attention to her. If you're only nice to her at first, it may make her jealous if she sees you suddenly being nice to other girls (if she has that kind of 'romantical' awareness around you). On the other hand, many girls love nothing more than receiving a special kind of attention from a male. To be precise, ask her about her feelings, opinions, and take her interests seriously. Note: There are some kinds of girls that are just not into nice guys, but those are mostly complicated ones. Please don't try to change your personality for these ones, I guarantee you, there are girls out there who will treasure you with all their heart for your kindness! Good luck ^^

@martinshoosterman 3 ай бұрын

@@tommygertcher2747 I've never seen that be the case. What people don't realize, is girls who aren't attracted to them after they were nice to them, wouldn't be attracted to matter how they were treated.

@grahambrown1980 3 ай бұрын

@@tommygertcher2747If you’re too friendly and appear fake about it, she’ll assume you just want to get inside of her. The million dollar question is how friendly is appropriate to the situation and any intel on a particular girl you may know anything about? 🤔😏🫠🤥😈

@matthewkannemeyer5757 11 күн бұрын

1. Work on yourself and commit to your purpose. 2. Forget about charm, focus on becoming knowledgable. 3. Profit. Works for me...

@plutonian___5190 16 күн бұрын

Chat im cooked

@thatguy5233 4 ай бұрын

meanwhile Tutorials for girls: make an eye contact with him, but try to not make it obvious. make him question if you even did that on purpose. if he does approach you, try to seem uninterested. don't EVER let him know your intentions

@chiragchoudhary1253 4 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@Sprillet 4 ай бұрын

i think most of the video is already a good step for getting a girl already, getting girls isnt that much different between males and females

@vklnew9824 4 ай бұрын

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@maximagne 4 ай бұрын

stop 💀

@kaeji_namitsua 4 ай бұрын

@@Sprillet Eeeeh. Its night and day.

@nategrenade8695 4 ай бұрын

An easy tip to get passed the MHC and pheromone smelling problem is by wearing excessive amounts of axe body spray, ever since I've started every girl I've seen has been too embarrassed to even talk (or look) at me!

@themagiccookie2614 3 ай бұрын

This greatly helps the information crisis, finding our mates is serious milestone in our lifes and the fact guys don't study up on such an important event makes want to laugh in their face while their girl cheats on them with the guy at the foam cannon party.

@bullydog105 3 ай бұрын

thx soo much man i needed this :9

@yesnt9523 5 ай бұрын

bro your videos are so entertaining I won't be surprised if you hit it big soon

@this.science 5 ай бұрын

Thanks dog 🤞

@yesnt9523 4 ай бұрын

@@this.science i fuckin knew it was gonna happen never doubted it

@this.science 4 ай бұрын

@@yesnt9523 😂bro is a true og

@Emilizier 4 ай бұрын

Amazing video!! But also just wanted to point out that this video mostly tackles the topic of attraction, and from a very scientific materialist perspective. Which is great! But also remember that attraction and love are two differing things! You can get the girl to be attracted to you (which is the first step), but being in love and someone being in love with you is entirely another thing. Imo creating a life you enjoy living and working to connect authentically with those around you will just naturally lead to you attracting and finding someone you’ll fall in love with (and hopefully they’ll fall in love with you too). This way you will end up have a fulfilling life and also can introduce this special person into this life. I think a lot of value is placed on romantic relationships, but personally I think it’s important to remember that there are other things that are important too! Like being your authentic self, friends, family and cultivating a fulfilling life! And if getting into a romantic relationship means sacrificing any of those, I don’t think I’d be very happy in that relationship long term.

@Steve.Nguyen 4 ай бұрын

True!

@va_valentin_ 4 ай бұрын

This!

@qujie8212 4 ай бұрын

Although I agree to all you've said it's really not that simple (at least for some of us 😂) Based on experience I can say that just living your life is always a good thing to do but it won't help you find girls, it just makes it so that you're happy nonetheless 🤷‍♂️

@billusher2265 4 ай бұрын

what is called romantic love is just lust + oxytocin

@dreamdesigns8514 4 ай бұрын

Plastic surgery is the only option for finding a soulmate if youre not good looking

@jyandie29 2 ай бұрын

Be everything you like in a person, and eventually the girls will come. Nobody can like a person who doesn't like themself

@Serjo777 3 ай бұрын

Damn dude, just one month ago you're happy about having 100 subs and now you're already at 290.000? And with only 9 videos on your channel? That's insane. Plus the video was pretty well-made too, aside from that one part where you tell people to just randomly say "Hi" and nothing else, that's kind of a weird thing to do ^^

@IridiumTurtle 4 ай бұрын

I have always tried to develop a friendship naturally, and therefore increase proximity. The smell thing is really a letdown, we can do better than animals who rely on pheromones. I've never understood the culture of pretending to hate them at first, why is that effective?

@Blake-pn6xm 3 ай бұрын

Bro if she doesn’t like you forget about her and move on. Simple as that. Eventually you’ll find a good one.

@francookies8032 4 ай бұрын

There’s this girl I really like at the university. She just broke up with her boyfriend because he was annoying. I like her since I was a freshman and now I’m a senior. I will try to create proximity now! Thank you for the tips, I really needed this.🙏❤️😊

@sashellwisdom6038 4 ай бұрын

All the best!

@bossman7579 4 ай бұрын

W rejection

@rudhra5957 Ай бұрын

How bad ?.... Was the rejection 😂