The Womanosphere is becoming one giant circle jerk.

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Rasheedah's Wife School

3 ай бұрын

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@RasheedahsWifeSchool 3 ай бұрын

Update: Many of the men in the comments missed the point entirely and continually felt the need to explain that men are visual creatures. I see that many men are fine to partner with a train wreck of a woman as long as they think she is hot. This is why many men do not deserve good women. Fresh and Fit live across the street from my house in Miami. They always have some cool car and use it to impress the ladies. Women who are not train wrecks will not be so impressed by that, and they will certainly not want to associate with any man who has so publicly disgraced himself. Therefore the women they meet are terrible people. When their life ends up at sixes and sevens because of such horrible women, they say "304s" and "these bees ain't loyal". This is the equivalent to baiting a hook and then becoming angry that the fish bite. Many of you men continue to have a standard for ONLY physical traits and you would be fine with a woman who is drug-addled or a compulsive gambler or had some other vile habits so long as you like her looks. So you deserve all of the hassle you get. And this is why countless good women are checking out. Thank you to everyone who contributed with thoughtful commentary, whether in agreement or not. Remember that lazy comments get deleted. In the words of the late great Peter Ustinov: "Let it be WONDERFUL... or let it be awful... so long as it is UNCOMMON!".

@mrgreyman3358 3 ай бұрын

regardless of looks (which fade over time btw), unless they have qualities I appreciate, they have zero chance of getting on my radar. I have wired my brain to not see a woman who lacks uplifting and edifying qualities. I hope that assists.

@RasheedahsWifeSchool 3 ай бұрын

@@mrgreyman3358 cool. Keep in mind that the last thing that should be on the minds of the vast majority of women is how to attract a man. They should stay single. Same for men. I see that you are subbed to Rollo Tomassi who claimed to have revenge nude pics of a woman and offered to share them with his followers, only to find out that the anonymous source he thought he had was the woman in question who was trolling him. Perhaps you follow him to track his antics. If you like him, I think it's wonderful that you are single. That would be the kind of stuff I am talking about that makes the vast majority of people not suitable to be partners.

@anthonywilliams7052 3 ай бұрын

With all the nasty things they say about men and NONE of you say a word to stop it, especially when they do PUUUR - JURY, you are teaching us you are the same. Best to stay far away, never help, never approach. Like most men do now. They need to speak up and stop this or be alone forever. Thanks for being one of the very few speaking up, I hope you do it everywhere when it happens.

@cryptojihadi265 3 ай бұрын

Ummm, only guys that are looking for pump and dumps ONLY care about looks, because they don't plan on using her for anything else. These guys represent about 1% of the population. They are the top tier "Players:" Note I didn't say top tier MEN. THAT being said, there are not COUNTLESS good women out there. Not even close. Definitely less than 5%, probably more like 1% are marriage material. By marriage material I mean, REASONABLY attractive(6 or above), in shape and will STAY in shape, feminine, nurturing, respectful, NOT Entitled or contentious and once again, WILL STAY THAT WAY. The problem is, we have bred such unrestrained narcissism in modern women that they ALL think they DESERVE the ABSOLUTE BEST and don't need to change a thing, are perfect, JUST THE WAY THEY ARE. This has led to even 4's and 5's thinking they are 9's and 10's who truly believe they deserve a 10. They ask women over and over again what their BARE minimums are in a man, the NON-Negotiables, and it actually comes out to less than 0.1% of men. Not because there are so few good men on the planet, but that their standards are so delusional. This is why a man who is a solid 8, who gives up and decides to wife up a 5, will actually STILL get treated like shit, because the 5 won't be thanking the Good Lord EACH day she got such a great guy, but will feel like she settled.

@PhenomRogue1 Ай бұрын

U don’t know a thing about me hun, just cause I commented a woman on her beauty don’t change a thing nor is it a right of passage for me to assume that she’s stable mentally and spiritually, I’m 47 been there done that, I’m not into wasting time, i move with my purpose, have 3 daughters , my oldest is in medical school. I have this thing called discernment and it may appear I’m so called “visual “ but I’m by far as a simpleton as u play me out to be on ur low key sneak diss , or ur attempt to coral all of us men who , rather see something else positive in a woman, that typically toxic bs .

@simonschneider5913 3 ай бұрын

it has always been that way. women and men alike dont do well when groupthink takes over. social media was too much to handle for most people. gross misuse is now the norm. and it shows.

@RasheedahsWifeSchool 3 ай бұрын

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@RasheedahsWifeSchool 3 ай бұрын

@Daathiel so true

@eleveneleven572 3 ай бұрын

Men are rational beings. We do look at the stats on divorce and child custody. We pair that with oersonal rxperience and that of family and friends. Its a very high risk proposition for men these days.

@RasheedahsWifeSchool 3 ай бұрын

Although I won't disagree with anything you are saying, please keep in mind that the last thing that should be on this woman's mind (or the minds of many people) is partnership. She should not be getting herself together for a man. She needs to sort herself out for herself. While I did agree that she is not ready for a man, we should be careful to not frame her problems as problems only insofar as they will keep her single. Many if not most people would be happier single if they have themselves together. Many people are only partnering with someone because they feel financial or social obligation. A good income with solid savings and safety net, friends, a pet, and sober habits of clean living are enough to make most sensible men and women see that they are quite happy alone.

@rosethedarkdragoon7 3 ай бұрын

@@RasheedahsWifeSchool I am curious are you promoting, everyone well not everyone, that most people should be single and give up on family?

@RasheedahsWifeSchool 3 ай бұрын

@@rosethedarkdragoon7 I am promoting for everyone to get their life together first before considering partnership. There are many people, men and women, who are looking to be saved by a romantic partner. This comes in many forms (financial, social, emotional). I know that many women heard the redpill trash talking points of "hit the wall and get a cat" and used that to propel themselves into financial security, home ownership, strong friend networks and civic volunteerism that gives them purpose. And indeed many did get a cat. And now you could not convince those women to go on a date with a man. I think men could be the same. If they had a steady job that paid bills, the skills needed to retain a responsible male roommate, cooking and cleaning abilities, and a few solid friends, they would not be quite so obsessed with women. They would not be so bitter for not being partnered with one (as most redpill spaces are nothing but blood pressure- and heart disease- inducing bitter content). So yeah I want to see everyone get their shit together and then we talk about partnership.

@rosethedarkdragoon7 3 ай бұрын

@@RasheedahsWifeSchool Sounds reasonable thank you for responding. I am curious what you mean by partnership because I might be thinking of it wrong? I look at partnership as two people coming together with strength and weakness that are complimented by the other to form a singular entity to advance through life together.

@kiwia8271 3 ай бұрын

No wife, happy and rich life.

@RasheedahsWifeSchool 3 ай бұрын

That is very true for some men. I am glad any time someone says that they are learning to be happy while single.

@kiwia8271 3 ай бұрын

@@RasheedahsWifeSchoolYoung lady, i've been single my whole life, i'm 74yrs young, the women of today are NO different to the women of the 1950s, in that they cheated just as much back then, as the do today.

@RasheedahsWifeSchool 3 ай бұрын

I'm sensing some hostile energy. Is that correct? I agreed with you That being single is a good thing for many people.

@kiwia8271 3 ай бұрын

@@RasheedahsWifeSchoolNah, nothing hostile, just the wisdom of knowing what women are, and have been since eve, it would be a VERY BORING world without without you.

@RasheedahsWifeSchool 3 ай бұрын

@@kiwia8271 oh OK cool. I hope the message of the video was clear that women should get themselves together for their own sake and not so that they will be partner material necessarily. Same for men.

@anthonywilliams7052 3 ай бұрын

Becoming? It's been one since the start, too many think they are better than every man on Earth.

@user-uq6ej8ku4e 3 ай бұрын

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@bradsalz4084 3 ай бұрын

I'm not here for the social media gender wars. But the title was catchy .... "womanosphere" .... "circle jerk". It's not every day a video teaches me two new phrases. Maybe one day I'll care about the content but for now my 30-year marriage allows me to fly through this stuff with blinders on. I grew up and dated in much simpler times. There are few advantages to being old but this is one of them. Now I understand what my daughter is up against.

@RasheedahsWifeSchool 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for your perspective. As a woman who knows what it is like to be married for just over 32 years I know that the challenges between men and women existed well before social media and are now given a chance to be examined. This is a logical consequence of things like firing my grandmother from her job at Mandel Brothers in '49 under the argument that she was married and not as useful for sales as a single girl (this is what she was told). She was told that she could not obtain her own bank account in '67 when her husband passed because she was a woman. As recently as my children's Scouts days, my sons were taught useful skills and given leadership training while my daughter learned such valuable mantras as "always leave a place cleaner than you found it". So I think this gender war is the logical reaction. Not to mention that we raised boys for a world that no longer exists. They will figure it out. The next generation will have it easier at least on the relationship front. A lot of people in this one will hopefully learn to live happy lives while single.

@bradsalz4084 3 ай бұрын

@@RasheedahsWifeSchool I agree with you that these strongly gendered messages society and - maybe also we parents - gave our children growing up were misplaced. But what I see online is not a thoughtful reflection debated by rational people. I do put the blame for that at the feet of social media. I admire you for trying to wade through all the toxic back-and-forth but it only helps if others stop long enough to actually listen to someone else, especially people with more life experience like you (or me). I see little evidence of that in the comments.

@xIStandwithJesusx 3 ай бұрын

Here's some advice to all ppl. Stay honest and true. Righteousness is key. Stop catering to ppls feelings. It wont benefit u in the end. Ur soul should be ur main focus.

@amazonseller-yf8vv 3 ай бұрын

Red pill men need to come to terms with certain realities, first of all dating and marriage in the US just isn't worth the risk to very low reward. The only logical option is to get your passport and get out, let women sort out ther own problems.

@austinmeredith6647 3 ай бұрын

The matrix is coming down. So in due time, women are going to get a very rude awakening just as for men who are simps, betas, and evil narcissists. Commit to being pure in the heart and wise in the mind. Compassionate stoicism.

@RasheedahsWifeSchool 3 ай бұрын

This is just as much cope as the women in the video who were telling the morbidly obese woman that she is fine just the way she is. I can always tell that a man has zero experience with women outside of "western" countries when he thinks that his problems with dating and partnership will be even close to solved with obtaining a passport. Rehab Room did a great deep dive on the fallacies of geomaxxing.

@amazonseller-yf8vv 3 ай бұрын

@@RasheedahsWifeSchool No, I totally disagree. You want to position yourself like an expert it seems that you have zero insist into what the challanges that men face in America do to our legal system, vs countries where the laws are much more equal. I've been living abroad since 2009 so I odn't know what the Rehab Room had to say but I can tell you first hand that the laws are drastically different in many other countries wich countributes to a much lower divorce rate in some cases. In the US women love to preach about equality and while asking men to pay for all the dates, then buy and extremely expensive ring and then get down on his knees to beg her to enter a legal agreement that puts him at every possible legal disadvantage, and that's just not the reality in most parts of the world.

@RasheedahsWifeSchool 3 ай бұрын

@amazonseller-yf8vv I'll check your channel for info about your success. If I don't see it, that could just be because you wish to maintain your privacy, and I understand that. But it will also mean that I won't be able to consider anything you say because I don't take these things at face value from internet strangers. As a Pakistani, I can tell you that few countries are as conservative as where I grew up. I would not trade my country for anything. Pakistan zindabad. And every time that a western man tries to relate to me by telling me that he plans to get his passport to find a wife like me... major side eye. I know he has a lot to learn. You are exactly right that I cannot understand the struggles that a man faces because I am not a man. But I have eyes and ears to know what non-American men have to say about dealing with women in their own countries. The idea that you will escape the problems you feel that you have in the US is cope.

@amazonseller-yf8vv 3 ай бұрын

@@RasheedahsWifeSchool No, it's absolutely not a cope, it's a reality that men in the US spend their whole lives being preached to about equality but in marriage the laws are dreastically in favor of the women. Yet there are countries like Vietnam with only a 7% divorce rate, and the Philipines where there is no legal divorce, yet in the US the divorce rate is over 50% and 85% percent of divorces are filed by women sigthing financial reason. The fact is that the odss are strongly stacked against men in the US, so much so that women on social meida actually laugh about the idea of having a starter husband beofre 30, who they can divorce and take half his wealth before moving to the men they want next. It's not at all about liking women from a certain country it's about finding a place where they odds aren't stacked against us from the start!!!

@PhenomRogue1 3 ай бұрын

You’re one gorgeous 55yr old,7 clean up nicely muah

@amazonseller-yf8vv 3 ай бұрын

I lot of people hate Pearl because the truth hurts!!! Those who hate to hear objective truths and prefer to believe that men are to blame for everything certainly won't like Pearl!!!

@RasheedahsWifeSchool 3 ай бұрын

Here is some truth for you: Pearl doesn't have the culinary skills that my sons had when they were 10. I taught my sons cooking and cleaning because they deserved to be equipped with basic human skills before I sent them out into the world- and my sons are doctors now. What nerve Pearl has to accuse any woman of not having traditional skills when she is pushing 30 and still can't cook or grocery shop as evidenced in her own pathetic "wife school" videos. She started that but gave up on it because it didn't get views. This is your traditional queen? The woman who needs to be taught to make a sandwich at an age that she herself deems to be post-wall? This is Imagination Land cope to the max

@anisenkrill6179 3 ай бұрын

@@RasheedahsWifeSchool If my dad had hundreds of millions of dollars, I wouldn't learn to cook either...

@RasheedahsWifeSchool 3 ай бұрын

Well first I think you know that her dad doesn't have close to that much money. They are definitely upper class. But by your logic, no woman ever needs to learn to cook if her finances are in order. That would be many of the "modern women" that redpill bashes. Is that your argument?

@amazonseller-yf8vv 3 ай бұрын

@@RasheedahsWifeSchool I'm not saying that Pearl has done everything correct but a lot of her views are very straightforward and reasonable, and I think a lot of men will continue to either totally check out of dating or leave the country until women and the hypocrsy and double standards.

@RasheedahsWifeSchool 3 ай бұрын

@amazonseller-yf8vv she hasn't done everything correctly? She is not adequately equipped to live in this world as an adult without her parents' money. You are prepared to look past all of her hypocrisy at judging "modern women" while being exactly like them (worse perhaps) since she gives you the cope you are looking for. Stop that. If a woman is bullshit, call her out for it. Don't be so desperate to hear your point of view come out of a woman's mouth that you will tolerate not only hypocrisy but also laziness. She just steals talking points from Fresh and Fit, Kevin Samuels etc. There is zero original thought in that head. She's like Joe Biden plagiarizing Neil Kinnock in '87 and you are like the Democrats who are cool with his brainlessness since he's spouting the talking points they want to hear.

@f3042 3 ай бұрын

Great points!

@andrewpinkham9904 3 ай бұрын

There's probably one gold nugget in every stream. Finding it is an impossible task. Such is finding the good woman in the United States. You can spend your days searching fruitlessly or just quit looking and live like they don't exist

@RasheedahsWifeSchool 3 ай бұрын

Again, this was about women who need to fix themselves for their own sake, not for partnership's sake. I am the last person who will try to convince anyone to get married.

@andrewpinkham9904 3 ай бұрын

@@RasheedahsWifeSchool You seem to be under the impression that all women every where are the same. I assure thats not been my experience. That doesnt mean every woman from a country other than the United States is good. But a mans chances are better; much better

@RasheedahsWifeSchool 3 ай бұрын

Here is the original video of the morbidly obese divorced woman who cried because she thought she would never find anyone to love her, and the well-intentioned yet harmful responses from other women: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/pcmWoLWB1pOckoU.htmlsi=l0jX6ETO_ahFbq8B

@Shadow_Banned_Conservative 3 ай бұрын

Those aren't well intentioned responses, those are simply providing her an excuse to continue as she is. Men though, men are brutal but they will tell each other exactly what they need to hear. They'll tell the thirty year-old loser living in his parents basement, playing video games all day to go out and better himself. The fat guy who women don't notice, to get to the gym and trim down. Etc. Women are rarely anything but enablers for each other's bad or destructive behavior.

@nightmanlol 3 ай бұрын

i havent seen this lady that your talking about but ive seen this from guys and girls. they want the people that they find attractive to find them attractive and will get angry or sad at the situation. lets put it in number's. 5 wants 8. 5 gets mad at 8 and 5 is validated by other 5s but lets say 2 wants 5 and 5 says are you kidding me? but 5 is also right in this situation for properly valuing themselves? but 8 was wrong for doing the same thing?

@RasheedahsWifeSchool 3 ай бұрын

Very true. People are not willing to give an honest assessment of themselves.

@wonderwoman8340 3 ай бұрын

how are you monitized with only 147 subs?

@michaelhoudecki3657 3 ай бұрын

How do you know this is true? If true, I'd like to know the answer as well

@RasheedahsWifeSchool 3 ай бұрын

I am not sure what gave the impression that I am monetized. The only mention of monetization I have given here is that I will never be monetized. This is for two reasons. One, there is too much conflict of interest. Some people on here who get paid may have others best interests at heart, but that money can cloud judgement. Two, my own successful career and my husband's business would not be served by becoming someone well-known on social media, that too as someone who says highly controversial things (that are only seen as controversial due to the decay of modern society). There is also my highly reputation-sensitive Pakistani family. I don't want to embarrass them. Once there is enough interest to form a small community on a blog or reddit I will move there and delete this account.

@JohnDoe-wt2zz 3 ай бұрын

@@michaelhoudecki3657 if you got an ad and thats why you think she's monetized, youtube still puts ads on videos from unmonetized people and just cashes 100% of the profit in.

@RasheedahsWifeSchool 3 ай бұрын

Yeah for sure I will never be monetized. I may share screenshots to prove this. It would be a conflict of interest for me.

@wonderwoman8340 3 ай бұрын

@@RasheedahsWifeSchool your video has ads. I clicked on it again today and it played ads again. How were you able to add ads to your video without the 1000 required subs to be monetized?

@corysmith980 2 ай бұрын

Your 55?! Kudos

@RasheedahsWifeSchool 2 ай бұрын

Thanks It's staying out of the sun, eating well, exercise, and a crap ton of plastic surgery

@ricky5538 3 ай бұрын

You look way younger like 15-20 years younger than you are Rasheedah.

@RasheedahsWifeSchool 3 ай бұрын

Well thanks. My sons are always embarrassed that people think I am their wife when I am out with them. You should see my mom tho. She is in her late 70s and men less than half her age are still running and crossing busy lanes of traffic to open office building doors for her. It's wild. No one could guess her real age. She was a model back in the day.

@AichaOumAyman 3 ай бұрын

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@RasheedahsWifeSchool 3 ай бұрын

Assalamu alaikum, shukran aur Ramadan Mubarak

@donscott2681 3 ай бұрын

Pearl isn't nasty. She's the only woman I've ever seen that is right at least 98% of the time.

@RasheedahsWifeSchool 3 ай бұрын

Pearl is proof that men don't like pickmes. She is dating a guy now who is scared to get deported back to Zimbabwe and even he doesn't seem to want to marry her. Let me see her stand on business and follow through with her own advice. By her own logic, no one should listen to her. She says she is a post-wall 304 who can't cook or clean and can't stfu 😅 I can handle a man who follows Fresh and Fit or Kevin Samuels but any time I hear a defence of Pearl I assume the person is mentally defective or a self-hating person of colour

@xIStandwithJesusx 3 ай бұрын

@@RasheedahsWifeSchoolPearl isn't a pick me. She's an intellectual mostly but most of her problem is she not that attractive and she's alil masculine.

@RasheedahsWifeSchool 3 ай бұрын

@@xIStandwithJesusx considering that she stands against everything that Jesus is against, I disregard everything you comment from here on out. You have also said equally illogical things here on this channel.

@donscott2681 3 ай бұрын

@@RasheedahsWifeSchool In the beginning, you made some points I wouldn't argue with. But I have never heard her refer to herself as a 304. But your last sentence is just odd. First of all, Pearl is quite popular and becoming more so all the time; so why would a person have to be mentally defective to listen to her? I assure you my faculties are very high level. And being a white dude, I can't even imagine what being a self-hating POC has anything to do with anything. I like Pearl because she doesn't hedge. Even female men's advocates always draw the line at ripping into the sisterhood too much. Pearl tells the truth. She straight up says that men are superior to women, which is objectively true. She also admits that women are given jobs they don't deserve so that large firms can fulfill HR diversity quotas. And she says women are overpaid, which they are. And that men do all the difficult jobs, and THEY built civilization without the help of women. Absolute truth. If having male babies didn't require women, the total absence of the female gender would result in a civilization that looks about like it does now. Women contribute VERY little to the world. Anyone who thinks women are equal to men are either brainwashed or insane. I think Pearl would agree with those sentiments.

@RasheedahsWifeSchool 3 ай бұрын

How ironic. You are talking about women taking jobs from men. Pearl has never had an original thought in her head. She steals talking points from redpill men and regurgitates them with no understanding of the meaning behind the statements as evidenced of her inability to debate when asked the simplest softball pushback questions. She has less intelligence, charisma, charm or style than 90% of the men in redpill whose talking points she has wholesale lifted from them and yet she has usurped them. She certainly is a great example of what a clown show redpill has become. Men with a brain like Rich Cooper don't respect her.

@riddlescom 3 ай бұрын

Your 55. Are you using a filter . Because you look younger in this video.

@RasheedahsWifeSchool 3 ай бұрын

That's nice of you to say but really I don't look that much younger. Modern people are ageing needlessly quickly due to their lifestyle. Miss Pearl Davis who I reference in the video has said that women "hit the wall" at 25 I think I remember her saying. It is true that her own body seems to be experiencing some kind of Maillard reaction due to diet and lifestyle. Of course, this speed run ageing is happening to both men and women.

@riddlescom 3 ай бұрын

In 15 years your going tonbr 70. Are you going to look like granny on the Beverly hillbillies@RasheedahsWifeSchool

@RasheedahsWifeSchool 3 ай бұрын

@riddlescom my mom is in her late 70s and I have watched men less than half her age cross a crowded street to open office building doors for her. I'm going to visit her and my dad this week. My dad still walks the golf course (though he does have a caddy and cart for his clubs). Everything about my diet, exercise habits and general lifestyle I learned from them. My dad was taking shilajit way before anyone on tiktok had heard of it. I am more concerned with feeling good and pains-free and after that looking good rather than looking young. We all get old. I will still have a good quality of life at 90. From what I hear most Americans are waking up with body aches in their 30s.

@riddlescom 3 ай бұрын

I never heard of shiljit. What is this. A magic lamp . @@RasheedahsWifeSchool

@RasheedahsWifeSchool 3 ай бұрын

@riddlescom I may do a video about all the ways I try to stay healthy. Shilajit is a supplement that my dad has been taking since youth which is a part of Ayurvedic medicine. But stuff like that is only the icing on the cake of good health. The cake is the good diet and exercise, plus good sleep habits and clean environment/reduced exposure to negative people and media.

@jimbaxter8488 3 ай бұрын

This isn’t rocket science here. Very basic principles at work. Generally speaking- Men view women as ‘beauty objects’ and women view men as ‘success objects’. That being said, ‘physical attraction’ is the most important factor that keeps any long term relationship stable. If a woman doesn’t have a burning desire for her man? She will constantly be tempted to cheat with men she’ll encounter daily. The exact principle is true for the man. That is why the most attractive people (men and women) have the most options. Now, does that mean there aren’t men out there that will find a morbidly obese woman attractive? No, it just reduces that group of men down to very small percentage. The woman you reference in the video intuitively knows this fact which is why she has the reaction. Other women ignoring her obesity while trying to encourage her aren’t stupid or blind they are just trying to be kind.

@RasheedahsWifeSchool 3 ай бұрын

You are making the mistake of giving points that continue to put the focus on attraction. In the immediate sense, attractiveness is not this woman's problem. She is mentally unstable due to (likely) an addiction. If you men focus on looks and not the behaviour, it should be no wonder if you end up with the hot bipolar girl.

@jimbaxter8488 3 ай бұрын

@@RasheedahsWifeSchool - it isn’t a choice. Us men are hard wired for physical attraction. We honestly don’t care if the hot woman is bipolar because our intention is purely sexual. We have absolutely zero intention of ‘wifing up’ a hotty. Have you noticed how many smoking hot sexy women are happily married? Precious few…a ‘high value man’ would never view a smoking hot girl as wife material and a totally hot woman would never ‘settle’ for an average guy (if they do it never works). Smokin’ hot girls are strictly ‘for fun’ period. Now, this morbidly obese woman. She isn’t going to ‘attract’ a man by her physical attributes. Another thing women should be aware of- a man looks at ‘the body’ before ‘the face’ and would easily choose a ‘hot body ordinary or ugly face’ over a ‘very pretty’ but ordinary body woman. Again, we are wired for ‘animal sex’ (which is why a lot of women rightly think ‘men are pigs’) over physical face beauty. A lot of these morbidly obese women have a very pretty face…and, men aren’t interested in ‘fixing’ broken women that aren’t ’sexually hot’ no potential return on investment.

@RasheedahsWifeSchool 3 ай бұрын

You are therefore not the target audience of this message. Go and find the hot bipolar girl and think you can protect your life from ruin by compartmentalizing.

@jimbaxter8488 3 ай бұрын

@@RasheedahsWifeSchool I hear ya. Your target audience is other women. Then again, this is ‘wife school’. My only point(s) was to clarify a man’s perspective which I am very well qualified to give.

@AichaOumAyman 3 ай бұрын

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@JMD1965 3 ай бұрын

While physical attributes are a personal preference and do vary... I can tell you the things that turn a man off who is looking for a partner and knows his mind & value are 1) Lack of empathy/sympathy 2) Self centeredness 3) Materialism 4) Lack of personal reflection/responsibility 5) Excuses/blaming others and 6) Bad manners especially in mixed company/public... These are all red flags that indicate a pairing with them will be full of conflict and drama. You will never know lasting piece either in the relationship nor your household.

@BLASTIC0 3 ай бұрын

hot, but honest take on pearl.

@RasheedahsWifeSchool 3 ай бұрын

I would like to see more men take an honest and critical look at this woman. She can't cook, she can't even make a sandwich (pathetic) and she has the absolute nerve to tell other women that they are not traditional wife material and can't cook. She steals talking points from men because she is intellectually defective and men clap like trained seals because they are that desperate for a woman to relate to them. F that noise.

@JudgeSteve-pe8fh 3 ай бұрын

@@RasheedahsWifeSchool Valid point.

@vernturnquist6729 3 ай бұрын

You look great for 55!! ❤ now stop and never again refer to hoosband as partner. You women need to stop dehumanizing men

@RasheedahsWifeSchool 3 ай бұрын

Well thanks 😅 I don't know if the part about "partner" was sarcasm but truly he is my partner in every way. Having a true partner for this life journey makes life so much easier and peaceful. It isn't a must for happiness but it it's like taking a car to your destination rather than a bicycle. I see that many people will not find that partnership, and so my goal is to help as many people as I can to learn the strategies that will simulate many of the financial and social benefits of having a partner while being single. I will need to move fast because I will remove this channel soon before it gets too big. My conservative Pakistani family would not like it.

@michaelhoudecki3657 3 ай бұрын

@@RasheedahsWifeSchool Partner implies 50/50 (like a perfect split and responsibility) and men are held more responsible than women

@nivaparia8837 3 ай бұрын

@@michaelhoudecki3657 Are they ? Let's say it's a 50/50 financially. Can he do 50/50 when it comes to pregnancy , labour , breast feeding ? There are certain aspects where it's the woman giving 80% if not 100 % . So if the man isn't ready to put his 80% in certain other aspects it isn't truly a partnership. Also your husband is supposed to be your life partner. There are certain terms in other languages that call husbands & wives exactly that . How is it dehumanising ?

@RasheedahsWifeSchool 3 ай бұрын

@michaelhoudecki3657 I find that this is much more of a concern among the working class. We have not well equipped lower income people to be good partners. The upper class is not having these problems as addressed by the brilliant Conservative think-tank guy Charles Murray in his book Coming Apart: The State of White America.

@cashnelson2306 3 ай бұрын

how in gods name is “partner” dehumanizing 😭😭😭