Pray for my David. We get married in 8 days and we both have so much to learn and grow

why cant some men understand that providing food, clothing, and housing for his wife and family is the BARE MINIMUM. Bc God said that a man who does not provide is worse than an unbeliever

Please pray for me. I wasn't a good husband in the past and left my Elizabeth with many scars. I am changing changed and have so much remorse. My wife is such a blessing and I love her very much. Please pray Elizabeth most of all.

I love your videos I'm only 17 but your videos are amazing, keep on speaking the truth and keep up the good work . God bless.

Hurts my soul to know that I did everything this video talked about as my pastor shared the same advice, and at the end it’s never enough and is always left unappreciated. I Pray For All Relationships 🙏🏽

Awesome all that you said, Brother Allen. I would also add a couple things to the list: Do not look at other women, even if you are not happy with your wife's, or even girlfriend's appearance. Also, physical modesty does not only apply to women, but men as well. No going shirtless, or Speedos or things that keeps your manhood from being private, or pants down with underwear showing, etc. Other women do not need to see you, and this includes if you plan on being single for the rest of your life. If that woman does not belong to you in God's eyes, she does not need to look at your immodesty and you looking at hers. Also, for men who hate swimming with a shirt or have a wet shirt on, either pray and ask for accepting and tolerating wearing a wet shirt or do not swim and get in situations where shirt gets wet. If not out, well, us ladies have to muscle through being hot with our shirts on. The point is for us to on the inside first, have Jesus in us, and people see Jesus in us, not people seeing us in ourselves, but see Jesus instead. If Jesus was here today, would He go about shirtless or such? If He was married while here on earth, would He look at another women whether she is modestly or immodestly dressed, even while watching movies? Or drool over Madonna and Maureen McCormack or watch porn? No, His eyes would only be for His wife alone and He would not allow Himself the wondering eyes. One last thing, I thank you Holy Spirit if this came from you for me to write this, but please, married or not, please do not talk to other women about sexual things. That is between spouses alone, and do not talk about yours or her intimate parts of your bodies. Satan will use whatever single millimeter you give him. We ( including me ), need to not see how close we can go without sinning, we need to stay as far away from it as possible.

To Serve ! Having a servants heart is the core of Christianity ! Stay close to God and live a clean life ! Hard to trust a person who dumps on God ! Then what are you going to do to me ? Control anger ! It doesn't control me !

Thank you. There is nothing better for a man than the radical love towards his wife!

YES!! YES!! YESSSSS!!!!! Finally, a TRUE leader who challenges the egotistical god-complex that so many of our lost men have!! Jesus says, whoever is first among you let him serve. The kicker is this: men, when you've been set free by the truth, and you've come to know how a true leader is to conduct himself, find a woman who has invested in her own character enough to accept, respect, and reciprocate the love you show her.

At last, this video came out! Sad to think but many husbands are good provider but not a better- half. Rather they became bitter-half as time goes by. Even Christians are far from this ideal kind of husband but anyway this kind of transformation for husbands takes a long long way to go as long as they have the desire to be changed by God.

My husband is a narcissist. He provides very little of anything for the family. I am a Christian. Please pray for me and my children. Thanks.

God will send me a godly husband for me and my life and dreams and faith hands his wisdom and grace of his glory by God's gifted I trust God and believe in him

AMEN! That was such a good word. And you were spot on with those common problems. Stay blessed!

I feel so positive watching this video

Saying I’m grateful for my husband now( after being married twice to ones who neglected me and weren’t faithful to me) is a huge understatement. He is the best thing that has ever happened to me, after my salvation. He is the perfect example of Christ loving me like he loves the church, and God has used him to heal my heart of all I went through in my past.

Thank you for doing this series. I see so many videos on women giving advice on how to find a husband but significantly less for men, yet there is such need for it🙌🏾 God bless x

man of God here great stuff bro!!!

Thank you for taking the time to make these videos Allen. I have been doing the minimum when it comes to my relationship with my wife and I need to do way more than I have been and also remembering her love language is words of affirmation. I have to remind myself that I need to show love that way as well and not my love language which is acts of service, even though I love talking to her I choose the worst times. I end up doing it right before I or we have to go somewhere and that doesn’t leave time for us to really connect.

I was honestly hopeing there was something I was missing at being a husband. So far I was on course. Disappointing. Great video I 100%agree on all points.

I loosen myself of every unequal yoke and common share with any man that can not love me like I deserve to be loved and does not gives himself up for me, in accordance with ephesians 5:25, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 and this word in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah!

Hello Allen. Could you please do a teaching about "Touch, not my anointed" and "Thou shall not judge" This is a big issue here in Nigeria as pastors do lots of immoralities and scare their followers with this scripture. I don't know what this means too. Kindly help out. Thanks

He must love God and want to truly love her. To sacrifice is one thing but she won’t see that as love if she always knows he does it because he has to and doesn’t really love her but just checking his good boy boxes. If the live of Christ is in both they will want to be together whether they are shopping or watching a football game. He will love her and she will respect him if Christ is their number one love.

Very excellent teaching Allen!! Nice haircut btw! I’m a stylist that’s how I can tell you got a fresh cut lol! Thanks again for the teaching😃

Lord Yahweh, please help my husband find You wholly and completely, to have that hunger that he so very much needs in Jesus holy name amen

I really like your videos, I 'm new into the channel, regards from Dominican Republic 🇩🇴

How to be a Godly husband when separated?

Bless you for this video. Funny how both genders are so quick to blame feminism and "Jezebel Spirit" for failed relationships while acting as if men are infallible, and say, well if only the woman would submit, etc. etc., but how easy it is for even the best of women to submit to a man who isn't serving her, but only thinking what's best for himself instead of what is best for both of them or her, and instead of seeking the Lord's will for her and if or not He will grant her desires, he bases things on his personal preferences, it is ok for him to hang with friends passed the midnight hour when if a couple has kids together, the man does not want to be alone with the kids. When the man retires, the woman still does all the cooking and cleaning after both herself and him, while he gets to enjoy doing whatever he wants to do. If he gets sick, it is ok for him to rest when off work, but lady still has to cook and watch kids while he rests after work or on day off, even if she is sick or her cycle is like labor pains. If a woman wants something, like a soda or whatever in house, she has to get it herself. Man wants beer or whatever in house and does not want feel like doing it himself? Get the wife to get it. Earth forbid got to share money with the one who cooks and cleans and other things for him, especially if he does not want her to work or she cannot work, or she is staying home with kids. Please forgive my ranting, but I feel instead of so much focus on women being evil and feminism and all that when in a lot of those one-sided relationships, it is not always the woman at fault. A lot of those are men's fault, or both. Hard to get and keep a submissive and godly woman, and if she stays, she does so begrudgingly, when you are not being the kind of man Brother Parr talks about, and also my comments below. Also, I forgot to mention, wives should not be treated like prostitutes. They have desires as well. They are as human as you are. And also, when convicted by the Lord, and your wife was right, follow through on conviction and have humility to know when she is right. True masculinity is not about being right 100% of the time, and not needing a map or GPS when you are truly lost.

I'm a golfer, this video is amazing. Brother Allen, thank you so much for creating this video. I'm 22 years old, I'm single, I would love for you to pray for me that God sends me the right person for me to have a great marriage and to be able to spend the rest of my life with them. U sir are a great human being, person, and teacher. May God bless all of your subscribers who watches ur content. Have a great day, God bless you sir.

I needed to hear this series, You go Allen Parr, that Holly Spirirt is on a rock n roll, doing good in these streets. In the name of Jesus🙏🏽.

Yes love sharing this.

What if your husband demeans, provokes, and criticizes anything you say or do? Says you dont deserve him, your not enough, or threatens divorce every time he gets upset. Blames you for everything. What do you do?Can you do a video on this subject?

Please pray for me and my husband. I realize how He is not on fire for the Lord😔😔😔😭😭 I feel so alone in my walk when I love to do the Lord's work, I love to serve and evangelize and he wants nothing to do with it😔😬 Please pray the Lord changes and softens his heart toward him. Thank you🙏🙏🙏

Nice video brother ✊ I believe it's hard for a husband to love his wife like how Christ loved the church if that husband isn't a DISCIPLE OF CHRIST, because in order to be able to express that type of DEEP LOVING (Christ-Type-Love)... we need to be striving to LOVE LIKE JESUS 😇💓 A husband needs the SPIRIT OF CHRIST...A husband needs to become like Christ or that husband won't have the ability to LOVE so deeply. #LoveLikeJesusMovement

I've done most or all these things in my 13 years of marriage, only to have her lose respect and attraction to me. Only to have her tell me that I don't do enough. please pray for me, I am at a loss.

Asking for prayers. My wife and I are separated. I was NOT the man discussed in this video. I did the bare minimum and made her feel terrible about herself for years 😢. I know God is working in me. I know I don't deserve a chance. But I also know that I love my daughters, I love my wife and God can redeem all things! Especially things that HE has established like marriage 🙏

I dont even know why I am watching this but I really wanted to click in it for some reason

Thank you for your biblical content brother. Very helpful.

I'm not married but man this is real and hard talk

Great Biblical teaching!❤

Good video.. Your are right on the mark..

#3 is the big one

Thank you, This will help me in the future 🙏💛 God bless you

My husband is all about the 50/50 and gets annoyed when I want him to pay for a date even though I pay half the bills and all the groceries... I've expressed that I desire him to be a provider but he refuses to make any career moves...just floating along with no ambition. I'm having to accept I will have to work my whole life

God bless! Great video Allen!

God bless you

Yep one of the things I wrote about is that I would have to run every thing by her. As it says In genesis we leave our mother and father And become one flesh

Challenging but you are right

spot on brother as always

My wife encourages me to watch 1 of your marriage videos regularly. I also have 4 marriage videos on my channel too.

The funny part about not being independent is that when we do the same thing and ask where they are and all that Jazz, they think we are controlling. I stopped arguing, it's not worth my peace and time. But although what you are saying is valid, the mindset is on both individuals not just the husbands. That's the only way it will work. One cannot be interdependent and the other independent, which is why I asked on my previous comment, where is the video that talks about the Anatomy of a wife? Sadly I think there is so much pressure on the men to deliver on this Christian principles that most people are not even aware of, even as a society and until men get married. I see so much videos on KZfaq about Godly manhood but not many about Godly womanhood not talking about feminism which is a work of the devil and has permeated into the church, this idea of women wanting to take control of the men. That's a Jezebel spirit.

My husband left me after only four months of marriage and is filing for divorce. He "ghosted" me and is acting like I don't exist. He decided he was not ready to give up his independence and autonomy and did not want to be accountable to anyone but God, including his wife. He is a Christian and says he only wants to give God the glory in all things, and that because he is not able to give God the glory in our marriage, he wants out and has "less than zero interest" in being married to me.

THIS IS AN AMAZING VIDEO!!!!!

I've been going about this all wrong

Fellas these things work but you have to first pray for a Godly wife. Not a perfect one but a Godly. We have done this to worldly women that's why we don't believe in this but take it from me of all people. Doing this to a woman of God is a powerful experience because she does even more in return and it elevates your Life

We know what to do.. We just don't want to do it!😄

Thank you!

Hello Allen I have a question. Can Christians play computer games like Dota2? Thank you :)

Brother Alan Where is the rest of this series?

How much of this should I apply to a Girlfriend that I’m dating with the intention to marry her

Great channel

I didn't hear one Bible verse in that.

This the type of advice that will leave divorced and in debt wondering wtf happened

Bless you

my boyfriend doesn't understand the second point. or the first. but I suppose that's why we aren't married and only dating.. how do I share this with him ? to help him see this .. i will pray for him.

Can you give me advice on how to find a girlfriend. I’m 27 years old. Thank you !

Wow! Amen

Should my husband always tell me if he looks at another woman

Ever man must love his wife just as a woman should love her husband😀

Can a husband do all those things and still not love his wife?

God will send me a godly husband for me and my life and dreams and faith hands his wisdom and grace of his glory by God's gifted and strength n arms I trust God and believe in him. I need to lead God for me pick him out to be my new future guy.

Do you have the video, "anatomy of a wife"?

Great video!! I really would like to share this with my husband, but I don't want to come across as if I'm trying to point a finger as to what he's not doing. He's a good man, but I think this could shed some light on a few things. Any tips on how I can present this to him?

Yes like my husband will even listen to this video haha 😂

I like it

Sooo.... what if you do these things and it's not enough??? Asking for a friend, LOL.

Good Stuff !!!

Seems legit.. just wanna know, are these tips directly based on doctrine or is this what you consider to be best practice based on experience

Disagree.